Why do so many incompetent men become leaders? | Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | TEDxUniversityofNevada

2024 ж. 12 Мам.
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There is a pathological mismatch between the qualities that seduce us in a leader and those that are needed to be an effective leader. Based on research on the psychology of leadership, Chamorro-Premuzic shows that if leaders were selected on competence rather than confidence, humility rather than charisma, and integrity rather than narcissism, we would not just end up with more competent leaders, but also more women leaders. In fact, he argues, the main obstacle preventing competent women from becoming leaders is the lack of career obstacles for incompetent men. Dr. Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic is an international authority in psychological profiling, talent management, leadership development, and people analytics. He is the Chief Talent Scientist at Manpower Group, co-founder and CEO of DeeperSignals and Metaprofiling, and Professor of Business Psychology at both University College London, and Columbia University. He has previously held academic positions at New York University and the London School of Economics, and lectured at Harvard Business School, Stanford Business School, London Business School, Johns Hopkins, IMD, and INSEAD, as well as being the CEO at Hogan Assessment Systems. Dr. Tomas has published 10 books and over 150 scientific papers, making him one of the most prolific social scientists of his generation. His work has received awards by the American Psychological Association and the Society for Industrial-Organizational Psychology, to which he is a Fellow. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • Crunch statement: "Instead of falling for people who are confident, narcissistic and charasmatic, we should promote people into leadership because of their competence, integrity and humility." Bravo.

    @scotthofland8858@scotthofland88582 жыл бұрын
    • And not by gender😉

      @levon3852@levon38522 жыл бұрын
    • I admire the thought but let's face it this will hardly ever happen

      @beldiman5870@beldiman58702 жыл бұрын
    • @@beldiman5870 this is a main problem in our society.. We are all thinking the same.. Pessimistic point of view

      @levon3852@levon38522 жыл бұрын
    • @@beldiman5870 | ‘We’ are to make this happen.

      @ablanccanvas@ablanccanvas2 жыл бұрын
    • @@levon3852 | By ability.

      @ablanccanvas@ablanccanvas2 жыл бұрын
  • "Being unaware of your limitations increases the chances of becoming a boss"... gotta love that quote, so true.

    @pablojlascano8322@pablojlascano83223 жыл бұрын
    • Yes indeed!

      @MrNess2911@MrNess29113 жыл бұрын
    • Being unaware of your limitations;increases chances of becoming a Boss...

      @adv.gauravperfectlegalsolu7896@adv.gauravperfectlegalsolu78963 жыл бұрын
    • Dunning-Kroger

      @jasonturner6459@jasonturner64593 жыл бұрын
    • I have the feeling half of the commenters are incompetent men who didn't get the joke.

      @emoke150@emoke1502 жыл бұрын
    • This is funny but it's less than an exact science, no one is using measurement to say who is and who is not competent. It's a subjective measure and very much emotionally biased. Most of this research is based on the employee surveys.

      @evodgamehunter4290@evodgamehunter42902 жыл бұрын
  • According to the dunning Kruger effect, the most confident people are the ones with so little knowledge, they don't even know how bad they are.

    @jan-lukas@jan-lukas2 жыл бұрын
    • 🤣🤣🤣 Just look at the auditions for Britain's got talent. The most humble where usually the best and the overly confident ones were laughable.

      @thecollector5243@thecollector52432 жыл бұрын
    • AOC is the poster child for the Dunning Kruger effect.

      @pjgdba306@pjgdba3062 жыл бұрын
    • @@pjgdba306 Not really, she's quite competent. Just like with MLK, racism works to look at every flaw a competent person of color in a leadership role has. And then they turn around and elect Trump someone who is the exact opposite of what a competent leader is, and they overlook all of his flaws. Like what you just did..

      @lordblazer@lordblazer2 жыл бұрын
    • You should try to educate yourself on that topic. You may find, that Dunning Kruger effect is not what it is sold as. The irony in that is quite funny...

      @Sqwan2@Sqwan22 жыл бұрын
    • seems logical

      @hetedeleambacht6608@hetedeleambacht66082 жыл бұрын
  • 3 reasons 2:31 our inability to distinguish between confidence and competence 3:31 our love for charismatic individuals 4:37 our inability to resist the allure of narcissistic individuals

    @jwh0122@jwh01222 жыл бұрын
    • So this is the Man with all of these Traits.

      @ahuskyplaythough3826@ahuskyplaythough38262 жыл бұрын
    • To Winston Smith - You must be a big admirer of Eric Arthur Blair's most important work. 🙂

      @radusebescu5189@radusebescu51892 жыл бұрын
    • The main reason is companies don't want good leaders they want good followers.

      @jamiecrawford8133@jamiecrawford8133 Жыл бұрын
    • another important bullet point: don't encourage female leaders to act like incompetent male leaders, but instead act like competent female leaders.

      @user-sy2ks5bg2k@user-sy2ks5bg2k6 ай бұрын
    • That explains a lot why so many people worship Trump.

      @filrabat1965@filrabat19655 ай бұрын
  • It's kind of hard to choose our leaders from competent people who don't want to be leader. Many smart people look at the games people on top play and want no part of it. ( the egos, the politics, the favor brokering, the back-biting, pettiness, undeserved credit, keeping up appearances, celebrity, excessive responsibility and stress) often better to collect your check quietly do the best work you can and go home to sleep at night. I don't know how you would draft such people into leadership.

    @hudson2441@hudson24415 жыл бұрын
    • We need to force the smart to play you are smart deal with it

      @qjtvaddict@qjtvaddict5 жыл бұрын
    • True, so true...

      @bjornolson6527@bjornolson65275 жыл бұрын
    • I think you just need a better selection process.

      @michaels4255@michaels42554 жыл бұрын
    • You just described me. In fact I don't even enjoy being around people in general, let alone politicians and media, because I find people to be very small-minded, backstabbing and judgmental.

      @undeadpresident@undeadpresident4 жыл бұрын
    • Really? I find that to only be a part of what people are. If you look onyl for flaws you will find them everywhere. But look what's happening during this pandemic yes, there has been some ugliness and stupidity, but I have been overwhelmingly impressed by all the kindness and personal responsibility, and the incredible capacity of people to care for one another.

      @squamish4244@squamish42444 жыл бұрын
  • Ego, narcissism, machiavellian politics, self centred world view, lack of empathy...... The reason many men get to the top. He is spot on with his assessment.

    @petyrkowalski9887@petyrkowalski98874 жыл бұрын
    • The world is built for those people.

      @grantog123@grantog1233 жыл бұрын
    • @@grantog123 Nah, I used to have that same pessimistic world view when I was younger, grew out of it. The world is actually a complex and... Diverse place. Diverse. Some countries yes, system is built upon corruption and scandals, war driven, etc. But it doesn't apply to everywhere, all societies have big differences... Even in a society, no big organization (company, school/university, sport team, governmental agency, NGOs, etc) has the same ethics, values and code of conduct as the next one. One has to simply go towards organized groups which promote real meritocracy, fairness, good opportunities for everyone, good treatment of members/employees/citizens, encourage psychologically healthy traits for leadership roles.

      @zkcrisyee@zkcrisyee3 жыл бұрын
    • Yes, too many narcissists and sociopaths are in top positions.

      @jc.1191@jc.11912 жыл бұрын
    • No... It is the reason many people get to the top... period.

      @dsimon33871@dsimon338712 жыл бұрын
    • @@zkcrisyee . Please, give us the names a few of these organizations. Thank you🙂

      @love2learnmitchell329@love2learnmitchell3292 жыл бұрын
  • "The best leaders are humble, rather than charismatic." 3:50

    @edwinserrano1070@edwinserrano10703 жыл бұрын
    • Advanced intuition is being psychic and women are the best at it. I want these types running the nation regardless of gender. Stupidity has to be called out for what it is and blind adherence to ritual and ideology is just that!

      @anthonyfowler8634@anthonyfowler86343 жыл бұрын
    • Even better is to be both. It is possible..

      @mrduuud@mrduuud2 жыл бұрын
    • this reminds me of Manmohan Singh

      @highwaygroup2821@highwaygroup28212 жыл бұрын
    • @@mrduuud Spot on. Without charisma, nobody respects and follows a leader, simply because he is humble

      @beldiman5870@beldiman58702 жыл бұрын
    • @@beldiman5870 There are multiple ways of leading. A leader does not need to be charismatic. He can also play the tyrannical card to make all others fear him, so they treat him with respect.

      @carlohumfing6432@carlohumfing64322 жыл бұрын
  • My uncle William Gallagher the man who made the electric fence a viable option was very humble and kind, as an example when chatting with a cleaner the cleaner thought he was a fellow worker. At his funeral, many people came forward that he had helped, he had not leveraged those contributions by publicizing them. The Gallagher Group of companies now sponsors a number of sports teams.

    @rodneypaterson7072@rodneypaterson70722 жыл бұрын
    • I didn't know that William Gallagher was the man who invented the electric fence, I am going to read about him. Thank you for sharing.

      @fml5910@fml5910 Жыл бұрын
    • Thank you for that story of your grandpa. Why sports though? Sounds silly, instead of scholarships for talented, underprivileged individuals. Think of Tesla for example: immigrant, poor, but a true genius. If he hadn’t been sponsored we wouldn’t have all the technology we enjoy today! But hey, look at all the scholarships available… you have to be an American citizen or a resident to qualify. This country isn’t what it used to be.., sports 🥴. Really? So they can get hurt at 30 with back injuries and lifetime depression?

      @danielsaezv@danielsaezv Жыл бұрын
  • I was good at my job, I refused all offers of promotion as I wanted a life with my family, never regretted it. Watched many idiots pass me by.

    @andrewcliffe4753@andrewcliffe47535 жыл бұрын
    • I got the promotions...took them...moved around..worked very hard..made great money...now I switched careers so that I don't manage anyone. True happiness.

      @davec.3198@davec.31985 жыл бұрын
    • You were a mind ahead of that time, bravo!

      @gabotemplario@gabotemplario5 жыл бұрын
    • How'd you keep your job doing that? Good on you, but that's kind of impossible these days.

      @Baritone45@Baritone455 жыл бұрын
    • Wow.

      @DerAua@DerAua4 жыл бұрын
    • I am retired now and have my own business. I could not work in today's job environments. Too many whiners and slackers for me. I worked to earn money and built my life. Now I can relax (sort of) and enjoy down time.

      @DavidSmith-sf4rl@DavidSmith-sf4rl4 жыл бұрын
  • “Not asking women to act like incompetent men” finally someone is bringing this up.

    @ripadipaflipa4672@ripadipaflipa46725 жыл бұрын
    • Yet that's all women want to be nowadays. Be at the top with the guys, just to prove a point that as women we can be as bad

      @peacheskong2245@peacheskong22454 жыл бұрын
    • Worse sometimes imho and experience, perhaps because they haven't learnt the limits to the bad behavior they are imitating. They overestimate the need for confrontation, aggression

      @barbeeska@barbeeska4 жыл бұрын
    • @@barbeeska Yes, many such women prefer passive-aggression and many such men prefer outward aggression. Passive-aggression can sometimes be worse since it's often prolonged and difficult to confront.

      @kotare86@kotare864 жыл бұрын
    • @Sky Dome I understand the point... But unfortunately, sometimes leaders have to go against some wills... For instance if a leader ends with some lobbies.... A lot of people will hate him and the the people that may win with this "move" may not even know what happen because is the kind of information that should not be "published". Like this researcher said, a good leader is not necessarily a "cool guy/girl". You must see him/her beyond that, through facts (technically)... So how many people do you know that are able to do that? That's the reason why incompetent people tend do be leaders... Because of our incompetence to judge them before and after being leaders (basically what the researcher already said)

      @luisclaro3386@luisclaro33864 жыл бұрын
    • Peaches Kong how about women wanting to be leaders, because they’re tired of watching idiots messing everything up. Which, incidentally, affects women more then men.

      @jandrews6254@jandrews62544 жыл бұрын
  • "competence, humility and integrity"

    @bonniesitessolutions7728@bonniesitessolutions77283 жыл бұрын
    • You can say that again 👍🏼

      @aikenodubitan5256@aikenodubitan52562 жыл бұрын
  • First sentence: 'Have you ever worked with people who are not as good as they think they are". Instant thumbs up.

    @AwakeInAnacortes@AwakeInAnacortes2 жыл бұрын
  • The biggest difficulty is to change from saying " people are sheep" to saying "people are sheep and I'm one of them". We talk about people in general but don't consider ourselves in that category. The reality is that if everybody has that flawed perception, then nobody considers themselves a sheep. We're all affected by illogical biases, whether we choose to admit it or not.

    @davidglendinning9871@davidglendinning98715 жыл бұрын
    • David Glendinning recognition of biases is an iterative proposition. And, something to strive for. Logical thought, but maybe a bit generalizing..

      @bjornolson6527@bjornolson65275 жыл бұрын
    • If you dont mind , David Glendinning , i would like to elaborate on the word illogical and paraphrase it thus ;'Ones own illogical reasoning will not satisfy anothers sense of illogical understanding ' . Hence this is why one will agree to disagree while the other will disagree to agree The one who refutes this vehemently will secure a promotion. Iineptitude is inheritted upon accepting the next rung of the leadership ladder , put simpler ;Wanna be the Kiss-up , kick-down kind then better find a really strong breath mint !

      @kennyfrench4701@kennyfrench47014 жыл бұрын
    • The reality is that we are all slaves... and the system has created the perfect instrument to control others...ALPHABETS, THE MIND, and THE INTELLECT.... these is how they got us.. right in our heads... with ‘the word of god’

      @camerontaylor7471@camerontaylor74714 жыл бұрын
    • What about those of us who recognise the frauds and charlatans for what they are? Not every male is a narcissistic moron.

      @Jimmie16@Jimmie164 жыл бұрын
    • James Lochridge Nobody listens to us lol male or female

      @filminginportland1654@filminginportland16544 жыл бұрын
  • im argentinian and just had my ego destroyed. But Alas it will be back very shortly

    @danielarevalo6222@danielarevalo62224 жыл бұрын
    • Lol

      @jamahlrawls3520@jamahlrawls35204 жыл бұрын
    • Ha ha ha Daniel.

      @Sofwan786@Sofwan7864 жыл бұрын
    • Hahaha don’t worry this is recognisable around the world.

      @bravogolfnovember@bravogolfnovember4 жыл бұрын
    • Don't worry dude at least if you mistaken competence for gender it's just in your particular case, not in general, like the guy in the clip.

      @henrykkaufman1488@henrykkaufman14884 жыл бұрын
    • Boludo, no es que signifique nada pero mis mejores amigos son argentinos.

      @wallabywall-e1540@wallabywall-e15404 жыл бұрын
  • One of the best ted talks I have ever watched.

    @farangisehsani592@farangisehsani5923 жыл бұрын
    • I had the same thought.

      @csbnikhil@csbnikhil3 жыл бұрын
    • No wasted words. 😉

      @rockradstone@rockradstone2 жыл бұрын
    • yess

      @kecym.4808@kecym.48082 жыл бұрын
  • Brilliant talk, perfectly delivered, and in his second language! However, at the risk of being labeled a misogynist, I have met and worked for incompetent, overconfident woman. They do exist.

    @itsalgud1459@itsalgud14592 жыл бұрын
    • That's impossible.

      @nicolab2075@nicolab20752 жыл бұрын
    • Well, of course they do exist - especially if they have to compete with said narcistic, overconfident, and incompetent men who are trying to get into the same positions. As long as the SYSTEM doesn't change, the only women who are able to get "up there" will be the ones who have similar "qualities" as the men who are currently there. Just changing genders alone doesn't change the system as such (there are of course exceptions, especially when you have very educated women trying to get in there - did you know that Angela Merkel earned a doctorate in quantum chemistry and worked as a research scientist?). Or, to say it the other way around: at least in a lot of companies, MOST women in leading roles (and about 80% of the ones I've experienced myself) are actually even worse than their male counterparts, simply because they had to actually BE "better" (read: worse - at least when it comes to what we actually want in a leader) than the men they were competing against, since they had to overcome the gender stigma, too, and as such have to be "more men than the men themselves" to get the job or position (which, sadly, brings with it exactly the wrong "qualities").

      @IgorRockt@IgorRockt2 жыл бұрын
    • @@IgorRockt this is exactly why I never climbed the corporate ladder. I did not want to lose my integrity. I am a self-made person starting my own companies, always. It is much better, particularly as a female. We have to recreate life ourselves, not just as any gender, but as people. Starting with ourselves.

      @ffreshfields5211@ffreshfields52112 жыл бұрын
    • I worked for many narcissistic and incompetent women too

      @northern_soul@northern_soul2 жыл бұрын
    • Of course they exist. That's what made them managers. That's the whole point of this video.

      @evek1349@evek13492 жыл бұрын
  • Very, very brilliant analysis. I'm a headhunter, and I confirm that what is being said is, unfortunately, 100% true. In less than 10 minutes he manages to make a real point. Congrats.

    @zaza6911@zaza69114 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks for the confirmation.

      @sujohnR@sujohnR3 жыл бұрын
    • @@sujohnR lmao

      @TANMAN47TANMAN@TANMAN47TANMAN3 жыл бұрын
    • Then hire more women.

      @bow_wow_wow@bow_wow_wow3 жыл бұрын
    • Isnt that illegal now? Do you shrink the heads?

      @piccalillipit9211@piccalillipit92113 жыл бұрын
    • @THAT GUY U got that absolutely right 👏👏👏

      @kavyanair1974@kavyanair19742 жыл бұрын
  • I love how charismatic, confident, and humorous he is. Oh wait ...

    @jorgemari2969@jorgemari29694 жыл бұрын
    • Yeah, that's how he got the job. There were a few good points in the speech, but it wasn't great. Maybe he was trying to make his point by being the example.

      @andreas.9175@andreas.91754 жыл бұрын
    • He isn't a leader though is he!? I also didn't hear him say confident and charismatic man cannot be also good leaders... He is generalizing and articulating the trends that come from data.

      @mmdrodrigues@mmdrodrigues4 жыл бұрын
    • No no no no

      @clomyst@clomyst4 жыл бұрын
    • Maybe he was trying to get laid.

      @samuelmcgregor631@samuelmcgregor6314 жыл бұрын
    • 🤣

      @wendygaspar9838@wendygaspar98384 жыл бұрын
  • Best leader is a humble leader with understanding that people may going through other stuff in life that might be effect the work so being a listener and helping through intell they get back on track Don’t exist To Control but exist to contribute

    @jeremyboutwell543@jeremyboutwell5433 жыл бұрын
    • Amazing comment I agree

      @thatgui88@thatgui882 жыл бұрын
  • "our inability to distinguish between confidence and competence" brilliant.

    @duytdl@duytdl Жыл бұрын
  • Imhoff's Law sums it up perfectly: "The organization of any bureaucracy is very much like a septic tank. The really big chunks always rise to the top".🍀

    @djdarbary@djdarbary5 жыл бұрын
    • lmao

      @ringoballs808@ringoballs8085 жыл бұрын
    • Here I am just about to begin my breakfast, thanks a lot.

      @_MrJA@_MrJA4 жыл бұрын
  • As we say in México, "He who knows things, knows things, he who does not... is a boss"

    @averaguilar@averaguilar5 жыл бұрын
    • Augusto Vera but for many bosses, they don’t need to know everything, all they need to know is how to have most smart people work for them.

      @pptstziao6937@pptstziao69375 жыл бұрын
    • @@pptstziao6937 Sure, the problem as the video states, is many of them do not know they do not know, and want to act as if they knew, forcing their will on to everyone (I know a few of them, total diskheads). What you describe is a leader, not a boss.

      @averaguilar@averaguilar5 жыл бұрын
    • El que sabe sabe y el que no, es jefe, is that so?

      @sprescav@sprescav5 жыл бұрын
    • @@sprescav Heey I was going to say that!

      @clavo3352@clavo33524 жыл бұрын
    • @bishes be mad you ever get to know them, their more intelligent than is assumed.

      @johnabbot1585@johnabbot15854 жыл бұрын
  • My wife is someone who learned to lead - by taking care of our small kids some years ago. Guess what that took: humbleness, wisdom, empathy, ability to gently but firmly lead, look forward in scheduling whilst sometimes chaos reigns. Although she never asked for it, in her present job she is starting to get asked to manage projects and (from what I see) she is valued as a leader exactly because of the traits she used/uses to lead our kids.

    @Astronomynatureandmusic@Astronomynatureandmusic8 ай бұрын
  • This matches 95% of my experience of working in a number of organisations and dealing with various levels of government.

    @chris-terrell-liveactive@chris-terrell-liveactive2 жыл бұрын
  • "Anyone who is capable of being elected President of the Universe should on no account be allowed to do the job." Doug Adams, HHGTHG

    @copycat21c@copycat21c5 жыл бұрын
    • Anyone who THINKS

      @franklinbenjamincrisostomo5738@franklinbenjamincrisostomo57385 жыл бұрын
    • Elected or Selected

      @erwee7329@erwee73295 жыл бұрын
    • Douglas actually. 🙏😊

      @godislove8740@godislove87404 жыл бұрын
    • I tend to think that anyone who wants a position of power should be barred from it. The best bosses are people that others have badgered to step into the role and who have gone on to accept that it is their duty to take it on (so obviously excluding those who are badgered and do it grudgingly).

      @lornapirozzolo6132@lornapirozzolo61324 жыл бұрын
    • @@lornapirozzolo6132 "I don't call leader, I reluctantly accept it when it's thrust upon me" - Jeff Winger

      @gunman462@gunman4624 жыл бұрын
  • The notion of diversifying “the bench” by putting women and minorities in training to be executives does usually mean teaching them to act like the men who are in power, definitely not to encourage different voices

    @mariag.8242@mariag.82424 жыл бұрын
    • depends who's doing the teaching and where

      @thekaxmax@thekaxmax4 жыл бұрын
    • Even a white man has to become like those white male leaders to be promoted into their ranks. If we want to fix things, we have to choose the most competent person, IRRESPECTIVE of their gender, phenotype etc.

      @yaff1851@yaff18514 жыл бұрын
    • @Nikki E. I think she's just making an observation.

      @KDFBu@KDFBu4 жыл бұрын
    • @Nikki E. Birds of a feather, flock together. It's foolish to believe you're above the rules of the game. Hence, why you keep losing.

      @s.j.5810@s.j.58103 жыл бұрын
    • Yes exactly, very insightful post. Join us as we do our little bit to shine some light in these dark times. TOGETHER WE ARE STRONGER.

      @tripzville7569@tripzville75693 жыл бұрын
  • "Confidence is the feeling you get when you realize that nobody has caught onto you yet."

    @beaujaxe6937@beaujaxe69372 жыл бұрын
  • Kids out there, when your teacher call you incompetent, there's a "bright" future for you.

    @laken1804@laken18043 жыл бұрын
  • During my 25 years career, bad bosses outnumbered and outlasted good bosses 2:1. I blamed it on the director personality type; bad at math and score keeping, quick to action, slow to think, and motivated by power.

    @jayhay1237@jayhay12375 жыл бұрын
    • Just 2:1? Consider yourself lucky!

      @IgorRockt@IgorRockt2 жыл бұрын
    • I found the exact opposite to be true. Except the power part.

      @mofo6724@mofo67242 жыл бұрын
  • So, the key is developing more competent followers. I've always said follower-ship is a vastly understated attribute. Incompetent followers deserve the leaders they have.

    @tfsheahan2265@tfsheahan22655 жыл бұрын
    • word

      @2slimj@2slimj5 жыл бұрын
    • ''followership is vastly underrated'' this is so true

      @shinythegardener1731@shinythegardener17315 жыл бұрын
    • Touché

      @ncamara670@ncamara6705 жыл бұрын
    • That only means we are rewarding incompetent leaders instead of rewarding competent followers.

      @sleepyearth@sleepyearth5 жыл бұрын
    • Some organizations can select their followers carefully, but for a country, it is pretty much stuck with the human material it has. However, things could vastly improve if it would restrict voting to people with substantial property qualifications. They tend to be more competent than the average citizen, and usually not desperate. Also, Toqueville observed that while the lower House was a rabble, the US Senate could compare with the finest parliamentarians in Europe because Senators were selected by (elected) state governments rather directly by the people, and Toqueville wondered whether we might not expand the use of this useful two-step selection process. Instead, we amended our Constitution to require direct election of Senators, just like the rabble in the lower House, thus going backwards.

      @michaels4255@michaels42554 жыл бұрын
  • Wow... I teach HR and this is one of the best presentations I've ever seen! Gonna add this to my 'Recruitment & Selection' course [and a few others!]!

    @dbmckeever@dbmckeever2 жыл бұрын
  • Very well said. Well delivered. This is a must watch and must heard messages. Thank you for the knowledge sir

    @exsethllent@exsethllent2 жыл бұрын
  • "They see leadership as an entitlement." Sounds about right!

    @j.s.1816@j.s.18164 жыл бұрын
  • I agree with most of this. The other side of the coin is that people are shallow and easily duped.

    @darrylcalder@darrylcalder5 жыл бұрын
    • It has always been a mistery to me, how can everyone be fooled into thinking incompetent people are so great? I just cant understand. It's so obvious.

      @Mikkaela4@Mikkaela45 жыл бұрын
    • Absolutely, how so many people can't see the incompetence is always astounding.

      @user-zk2tl4fv7z@user-zk2tl4fv7z5 жыл бұрын
    • Only if they resonate with the "duper". They have to have the same mindset. Read Eric Hoffer's, "The True Believer".

      @rstash1@rstash14 жыл бұрын
    • @@rstash1 100% agree, excellent book btw.

      @eemage9476@eemage94762 жыл бұрын
    • @@Mikkaela4 Sometimes they know, but are afraid to speak out, or those in power try to stifle their voices. The ancient Hebrew prophet Jeremiah offered constructive criticism as prophets do, but how did the royal court and 'establishment' react? He was thrown into a cesspool to die, and had to be rescued by a secret sympathizer.

      @jesusislordsavior6343@jesusislordsavior63432 жыл бұрын
  • Very good! It's important to realize that charisma is great to have for entertainers and performers. It may destroy an environment where work needs to get done. We don't need people with a craving for attention in my field - no question. We need people who are not just willing but also inclined to do the grunt work. We don't need people who believe they're too good to roll up their sleeves, for example. Sadly, we have too many supposed leaders all over America ordering staff around and not applying themselves (or their "ahem" leadership skills) to the business of getting things done. Competence tends to be in the lower rungs of the hierarchy charts. Everyone needs to heed Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic's words.

    @ohiostreetjoe3185@ohiostreetjoe31852 жыл бұрын
  • Awesome talk!! I often say that there's a difference between how confident someone is and how knowledgeable they are.

    @laurak722@laurak7222 жыл бұрын
    • What if we valued people who were great communicators and competent at the same time? Merkel is an example of a not-so-great communicator who is highly competent. She is not the best leader in the world precisely because she lacks charisma. Because of that, my native Germany is not highly motivated toward anything and most appreciate Merkel but are "meh" about her in general, especially after she was faced with a hard fast decision on mass refugee immigration and (for a lot of Germans) flubbed it. For some reason, outside Germany, her handling of the refugee crisis is lauded, even though many Germans (possibly the majority) were disappointed in it.

      @chan_irene@chan_irene2 жыл бұрын
    • Confidence gets you in the door. Then you need the knowledge, while still being confident.

      @mofo6724@mofo67242 жыл бұрын
    • YESSSSSSSSS knowledge is better than charism

      @thatgui88@thatgui88 Жыл бұрын
  • Do not strive for higher ranks, but for the knowledge that is needed for the rank.

    @MsDDutch@MsDDutch4 жыл бұрын
    • 😍

      @cameliadamian7090@cameliadamian70903 жыл бұрын
    • Thus bypassing an entanglement with the Peter Principal

      @billofjazz@billofjazz3 жыл бұрын
    • Or, make oneself useful in one's present rank. If one is called to higher service, fine; if not, fine.

      @jesusislordsavior6343@jesusislordsavior63432 жыл бұрын
  • Albert Einstein quote "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits".

    @barryrudolph9542@barryrudolph95424 жыл бұрын
  • Brilliant and funny talk. Thank you Tomas. What's missing from the equation though is how those confident but incompetent people rise to the top in the first place. It's like the proverbial tortoise on a fence post; you know he didn't get there on his own. It's because we humans, much like our primate relatives, naturally arrange ourselves into hierarchies, and we instinctively defer to those whom we perceive to be alpha males. A male who appears to be wealthy, and who is full of self-confidence, whether it is deserved or not, will be assumed to have skills and abilities that they don't necessarily have . That is how they get promoted or elected to top positions. It is as much our fault for putting them on a pedestal as it is theirs for being deluded.

    @mydogdeli@mydogdeli3 жыл бұрын
  • This was the best TED Talks I’ve ever watched! So good!!

    @teachthechildren2@teachthechildren2 Жыл бұрын
  • Main problem with incompetent leaders is they know competent people with skills and they recognize skills they don't have. and they know they cannot compete and block people with skill to get a leader position. giving more opportunities to another incompetent people to be leaders.

    @EdgarSanchez-rl9zh@EdgarSanchez-rl9zh5 жыл бұрын
    • True, except they also get competent advisors. Otherwise they’d go like Louis XVI

      @1wun1@1wun15 жыл бұрын
    • So true!

      @UffeErupLarsen@UffeErupLarsen5 жыл бұрын
    • Well said

      @vengurla1@vengurla15 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly! They fear their own position and status.

      @erwee7329@erwee73295 жыл бұрын
    • That might well be true for some, but it certainly doesn't stack up with don the con. He's exceptionally incompetent himself, and has surrounded himself with lot of incompetent and highly partisan people. A double whammy.

      @illyriandescendant7963@illyriandescendant79634 жыл бұрын
  • That's because Leadership is a high paying position and in the corporate world, people only care about their own interest. Incompetent men don't care that they don't make good leaders even when they are fully aware of it. They will do anything to get that huge paycheck first and foremost. Everything else is of secondary importance.

    @crimson6172@crimson61725 жыл бұрын
  • Great talk, to the point and with the needed sensitivity!

    @hackthedots@hackthedots3 жыл бұрын
  • This was the most motivating and affirming speach I've listened to❤️

    @nikhilgeorge4720@nikhilgeorge47202 жыл бұрын
  • Insightful and valid. Sadly, some of my worst 'bosses' have been female - although more because they were cut-throat rather than incompetent. True leadership is rare.

    @mlr4524@mlr45245 жыл бұрын
    • Incompetency is independent of gender. Male leaders are generally found more incompetent because they are larger in number.

      @naturelover4148@naturelover4148 Жыл бұрын
    • I’ve had a few good managers but normally they didn’t want to be a manager they just liked to help out

      @milkgotzgames@milkgotzgames Жыл бұрын
  • "One of the best investments you can make is to buy an Argentine for what he's actually worth and sell him for what he thinks he's worth" 😂

    @aarondaavidson@aarondaavidson5 жыл бұрын
    • Isn't that true for most things?

      @anitabrown3286@anitabrown32864 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @Menrva26@Menrva264 жыл бұрын
    • As an Argentinian myself i can confirm

      @jorge9604@jorge96044 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @pisisigbooofficial@pisisigbooofficial4 жыл бұрын
    • An Argentine is a cut of meat. Ask your butcher!

      @grahammewburn@grahammewburn3 жыл бұрын
  • Absolutely great TT! Love his speaking style and the truth

    @nursesona7227@nursesona72273 жыл бұрын
  • Really good and it shows how our attitudes to leadership creep into our mental health solutions. Knowing limitations is not something to shun, it’s something to work on.

    @vibesmom@vibesmom2 жыл бұрын
  • I had a boss who in a meeting said, he didn't had to be smart he only had to talk loud. He was the ceo' sfriend if you were thinking how he keep his job.

    @ronaldorivers236@ronaldorivers2365 жыл бұрын
    • His superior

      @CordJoseph@CordJoseph4 жыл бұрын
  • Bravo Tomás Chamorro-Premuzic! Hits the nail on the head, doesn´t he?

    @dennismorris7573@dennismorris75734 жыл бұрын
  • incurable INTP here (not a leader, but I once happened to get the position by accident), I have had some incompetent leaders in ny working life of 40 years, and it is the biggest frustration an INTP can ever encounter in the workplace, not being able to reason with a person like that, and having to put up with the illogical decisions. I only started delivering my best when I got a specialist position, not having to answer to someone like that, just being responsible for my own performance and results. That was the answer...

    @losonsrenoster@losonsrenoster3 жыл бұрын
  • This is great. I'm glad, being in IT, that the most competent technical people don't portray themselves as the best. They might say, "I don't know as much as others here on that, but..." and then describe things on which most of us have no clue. It's like a code. "I'll respect you for knowing but not saying you know."

    @GPRowe-dp1vy@GPRowe-dp1vy2 жыл бұрын
    • It would be a lot better without the sexist conflation of intelligence and competence with gender. Competence rocks. Competence should be more important than charisma and confidence. But a leader with competence and no people skills nor hard decision making skills, a person afraid to take any risks, would make a great accountant but a horrendous leader.

      @chan_irene@chan_irene2 жыл бұрын
  • The irony is that in corporate world our leaders are also recruited by these incompetent leaders sitting at top.... I wish the employees could have the right to select their leaders in a democratic way ...not by HR, not by confident leaders sitting at top..... Thanks for such a wonderful video.

    @deveshmundepi@deveshmundepi3 жыл бұрын
  • Okay, Tomas is spot on and such an entertaining speaker. He delivered this message in such a way that it would resonate with anyone, male or female. He is my new hero. Let’s see if we can get more competent leaders, in general, out there.

    @michelle.goodridge@michelle.goodridge4 жыл бұрын
    • Michelle Goodridge I agree that the presentation is outstanding, but please, no new heroes. Our human tendency to look for and anoint heroes is exactly what sustains cults of personality. It lies at the root of the problems which Tomas identified. (Psalm 146:3) 'Do not trust in princes, in mortal man, in whom there is no salvation.'

      @jesusislordsavior6343@jesusislordsavior63432 жыл бұрын
    • You just proved my point. LOL. He's a ladies man. I bet he wouldn't even deny it.

      @mofo6724@mofo67242 жыл бұрын
    • good luck with that. It means that we must get smarter at understanding others, and this is a very difficult soft skill to master. The speaker did not talk about the ways to achieve the methods that he describes for getting better leaders, and this is the crux of the problem. Most of us will NEVER master that art, and that is why universal voting in a democracy is a flawed system. Only voters that are intelligent enough to understand what is needed in leadership roles should be allowed to vote, and of them only the stakeholders who are actually seriously contributing to the society should be the voters. The rest of us should step back and just enjoy the better results that follow from getting genuinely high quality leaders. For example: Who has EVER met an 18 year old who could tell much about other people. Developing wisdom takes intelligence, observation and time(decades). Leadership requires intelligence, empathy, and integrity. That too takes intelligence, observation and time. Hence, voting should not be something that young people do. Perhaps limit voting to ages 35 to 75 perhaps? Also people who do not pay taxes aren't really stakeholders. Food for thought?

      @dannoringer@dannoringer2 жыл бұрын
    • @@dannoringer You are probably understating the matter when you say that understanding others is a very difficult skill to master. (Jeremiah 17:9) 'The heart is deceitful beyond all else and is desperately sick; who can understand it?' There are different kinds of wisdom, and their acquisition is not strictly dependent upon age or experience: (James 3:14-15, 17) 'But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and lie against the truth. This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, natural demonic.' 'But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy.' Btw procedural democracy has not been the 'norm' in most societies for most of human history. That does not mean that wisdom was absent from all human administrative decisions prior to 1776, or 1789, or what have you. IMHO the chief value of procedural democracy lies in what it is NOT, namely absolutist tyranny. Yet it remains possible for voters to undermine procedural democracy through the democratic process.

      @jesusislordsavior6343@jesusislordsavior63432 жыл бұрын
    • @@jesusislordsavior6343 exactly. Her stating him as her new hero after 9 min is exactly the sort of mindset he is talking about eradicating.

      @Summerkillens@Summerkillens Жыл бұрын
  • True leaders will show themselves, they will be recognized as such by their peers. In my experience, these true leaders will be overlooked because they don't have the traits that are wrongly associated with successful individuals, traits such as ambition, being a yes-man, using people, and more and more these days, lying.

    @kennylink6493@kennylink64933 жыл бұрын
  • Great topic, made sense, engaged the audience, great speaker. Good job!

    @overrooftops@overrooftops3 жыл бұрын
  • That was excellent. The speaker hit most of the problems straight on. But we have human instinct working against us when we try to ignore confidence, charisma and a candidate's ability to entertain an audience. People enjoy experiencing those attributes so much!

    @RalphDratman@RalphDratman4 жыл бұрын
  • The problem with political jokes is that they tend to get elected.

    @youbringlightin@youbringlightin5 жыл бұрын
    • youbringlightin I think the adversary was less appealing so we have a bad competition

      @landisgallagher@landisgallagher5 жыл бұрын
    • Trump.

      @maureenperez9999@maureenperez99994 жыл бұрын
    • Bolsonaro in Brazil

      @okdysi@okdysi4 жыл бұрын
    • Jokes have been trying to impeach the winner and failing as always

      @indexplus@indexplus4 жыл бұрын
    • Trudeau...yup.

      @tuxjunkie@tuxjunkie4 жыл бұрын
  • If I had to name the top 5 most competent and fair bosses that I have had in the last 40 years, they were all women. So this speech struck a chord with me right from the beginning.

    @Dodgerzden@Dodgerzden Жыл бұрын
  • Love this talk and, yes, the company I work for has recently hired a narcissistic, megalomaniac to run my department - and he brought a narcissistic sidekick with him - and these incompetent males' opinions of themselves are perhaps larger than the country of Argentina x 1,000. These 2 have ingratiated themselves to upper level management, and it will probably be years until upper management realizes (or is finally willing to face the reality that) they've been had. Hope I'm wrong about that, I would love to see these 2 canned and bounced ASAP. Pathological, indeed. Sad. And not my problem. ALSO - I just read your book, it blew me away.

    @lemon1peach2mango3@lemon1peach2mango3 Жыл бұрын
  • Like your message and delivery, Tomas. I appreciate this perspective on leadership!

    @eileensinett3383@eileensinett33835 жыл бұрын
    • balance.of.the.sexes Yes, Nerds, male and (more-so, hopefully) female RULE!!,

      @bjornolson6527@bjornolson65275 жыл бұрын
    • balance.of.the.sexes You are totally non-sensical...

      @bjornolson6527@bjornolson65275 жыл бұрын
  • The Dunning-Kruger effect, affects so many aspects of our everyday lives....

    @southbaycommuter@southbaycommuter5 жыл бұрын
  • What a refreshing and timely perspective! Thank you!

    @RockyMountainRob@RockyMountainRob Жыл бұрын
  • Enjoyed this sooo much!! I have worked under U.S and Latin American leadership in Corporate America. I can say that in Latin America we tend to choose leaders based on confidence and nepotism a lot

    @davidm4099@davidm40995 ай бұрын
  • The personality trait of Competition is why there are so many incompetent male leaders. So often we must compete to get promoted, eventually the most competitive often rise to the top, regardless of competence, instead of the truly competent yet less competitive. For some, Competition is an obsessive trait that they cannot escape, while the rest of us would rather let the other guy have his way, rather than put up a fight. Also, we rise to our Level of Incompetence eventually. If we disregard competition, we also get promoted by doing a good job consistently, so we get promoted to a higher level, often to a higher rank above others. If we do a good job, we get promoted again. If we don't do a good job, we might get demoted or we might just never get promoted. A lot of folks just don't get promoted so they become stagnant at the level where they were incompetent. Unfortunately they are now doing what they are not good at, from now on.

    @HeyLiem@HeyLiem5 жыл бұрын
    • my views too. The problem is when those competitive traits are rewarded so much that cooperation among different company departments breaks down. I have seen that before, and it ended up badly for the companies in question.

      @jaimegarcia8447@jaimegarcia84474 жыл бұрын
  • From my experience, having over 20 successful jobs, is that most bosses don't know what is going on, or doesn't take the time to find out.

    @abelincoln332@abelincoln3324 жыл бұрын
    • if they're not hands on, they're usually good at giving orders and scaring everyone to perform. typical narcissistic assholes of which example you can find even from medieval times anywhere on the planet..

      @stanchung69@stanchung694 жыл бұрын
  • Looking again at this in 2022, Even more relevant in today's Geopolitical environment. Cheers from Michael. Australia.

    @mijodo2008@mijodo2008 Жыл бұрын
  • This was a superb presentation, made all the more compelling because of the humorous ways the many neglected truths he mentions.

    @dagenite1583@dagenite15832 жыл бұрын
  • I believe this Talk wholeheartedly! I've seen it too many times. Awesome talk.

    @treavam5653@treavam56534 жыл бұрын
    • You can notice it in schools where 70% of girls have low self esteems whereas boys raise their hands just to crack unfunny jokes.

      @clomyst@clomyst4 жыл бұрын
  • Thank God for this man, I have quietly known this for years.

    @alvindimes4729@alvindimes47294 жыл бұрын
  • “Unfortunately, being unaware of your limitations increases your probability of being a boss”

    @BerttoDiSimpson@BerttoDiSimpson2 жыл бұрын
  • Man, this brightened up my morning! What a great speaker

    @Phronesis7@Phronesis73 жыл бұрын
  • This is the most valuable talk I have ever had... Thank you Mr

    @danielhama4558@danielhama45584 жыл бұрын
  • I recently had a boss - a guy who had an inflated resume. During my interview, he came in with his laptop and in between questions, he was answering emails. This was a big red flag I missed. He made my life miserable and at times started questioning my sanity when he figured I understood his real self. At that point it became impossible for me to continue. Everywhere we go, there are people like this. This is reality. Perhaps we have to figure how to navigate..

    @PremJay@PremJay4 жыл бұрын
    • @lucaboden atleast he is being truthful about it. my boss never used to admit but somehow he had figured to game the system. I found him to be 2 steps ahead with his game.

      @PremJay@PremJay4 жыл бұрын
  • The fact that a man (and South American) developed and presents all this brilliant content makes it even worthier

    @MrsJuliaMH@MrsJuliaMH3 жыл бұрын
    • testosterone bit on the low side though sweety

      @PriveGitaarles@PriveGitaarles3 жыл бұрын
  • this is gem. it helped me to solve my doubts. thank you very much

    @krishnapriyapb6125@krishnapriyapb61253 жыл бұрын
  • Another under-rated Tedx Talk

    @maddi110@maddi1105 жыл бұрын
    • Absolutely!

      @RhythmnOfThought@RhythmnOfThought5 жыл бұрын
    • wtf man, this was a HORRIBLE Tedx Talk

      @jpatherton2415@jpatherton24155 жыл бұрын
    • @@jpatherton2415 Do you feel judged by this Tedx Talk? :))

      @michaelaustin2973@michaelaustin29735 жыл бұрын
    • @@michaelaustin2973 I am a victim... please hold me

      @jpatherton2415@jpatherton24155 жыл бұрын
    • It just got posted. Will go a million+ in 6 months. I myself forwarded it ahead.

      @bigbulk688@bigbulk6885 жыл бұрын
  • nailed it sir. well done

    @pamevans8001@pamevans80015 жыл бұрын
  • Dr Tomas..... WOW !!! Your speech was Fantastic !!!

    @rickie5150@rickie51502 жыл бұрын
  • I'm so captivated by this talk. This doctor's research/work isn't conventional but is extremely fascinating and truly insightful into human behavior across multiple cultures. ❤

    @laurenkrist4119@laurenkrist41192 жыл бұрын
  • This makes so much sense.Thank you for this.

    @nadinadi8385@nadinadi83855 жыл бұрын
  • Competency is like jam. The less you have, the more you spread.... That's saying I don't think it's necessarily gender based. I had amazing men leaders and terrible women ones ...

    @Fafaxounette@Fafaxounette5 жыл бұрын
    • It’s not gender based but gender influenced. Women are more likely to posses these traits but not necessarily. In most studies that compare female and male psychology there is usually a subtle but significant difference in averages but men and women have more differences within the genders than between the genders. Also, it could be that the women who act more like incompetent men are also more likely to be in leadership

      @yellowjello2143@yellowjello21435 жыл бұрын
    • A lot of the women Leaders that were introduced early are (like the video said) women with male traits or just people to fill a quota.

      @kenim@kenim5 жыл бұрын
    • I think the problem is that the women who are actually promoted to leadership positions are the ones that behave like men- they bottle emotions, they're self-promoters, and they are "tough", but they have to do these things even more intensely to get noticed. And none of these are necessarily good qualities in a boss, which is what this dude is saying.

      @kristajohnson9173@kristajohnson91735 жыл бұрын
    • I can not agree more. This speaker is basing some of his conclusions on fallacious premises.

      @ericbashir7275@ericbashir72755 жыл бұрын
    • Women who succeed are those who can figure out how to balance the contradictions of masculinity and femininity without getting caught in a “double bind.”

      @marie-rosedaly4234@marie-rosedaly42345 жыл бұрын
  • Love this train of thought--spot on !!

    @jameshicks914@jameshicks9142 жыл бұрын
  • Mr Premužić, Croatia needs you !

    @olenkagrskovic1742@olenkagrskovic1742 Жыл бұрын
  • I looove this much needed presentation. Just one thing: confidence is useful in a leader, especially long term. Imaginary talent is the problem.

    @TheJenniferKK@TheJenniferKK5 жыл бұрын
    • grounded confidence is useful in a leader. If they don't have anything to be confident about then they shouldn't be confident.

      @SirPhysics@SirPhysics5 жыл бұрын
  • Can someone explain this to American voters? Please, before November 2020.

    @ZEUSAIMIGHTY@ZEUSAIMIGHTY4 жыл бұрын
    • Please specify the pertinent voters, not the rest of us who are suffering.

      @katherineprongos3929@katherineprongos39294 жыл бұрын
    • Sadly, the rot is spreading; Europe, South America..

      @BirdArvid@BirdArvid4 жыл бұрын
    • I can walk straight up to a Trump supporter, and when I say he is not bright at all. They clutch their pearls, and just walk way. Like retreating is a victory. Like their heads would explode if they were forced to listen to "lies".

      @noel7777noel@noel7777noel4 жыл бұрын
    • @@noel7777noel Golly, my interactions on these fora with Trump supporters are characterized by a snide belligerence, but perhaps that comes from the anonymity afforded.

      @katherineprongos3929@katherineprongos39294 жыл бұрын
    • @@BirdArvid I would have thought that the unsupported belief in one's own competence is more a factor of male parental and societal conditioning than an ethnic factor.

      @katherineprongos3929@katherineprongos39294 жыл бұрын
  • I do Love this Tedx. Best training for leaders ever.

    @fabi12567@fabi12567 Жыл бұрын
  • I would like to add that many men feel the need to appear more confident than they are because society tells us we can't be wrong, we can't make mistakes, we have to know everything, and if we don't we are less of a man.....to say that women are better at being humble and have a better grasp of their abilities isn't entirely fair, women don't have these same pressures of competency imposed on them...

    @Projekt5.3@Projekt5.32 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much Tomas for this refreshing view on the idiocracies we humans use for intelligence. Scientist recently discovered we have what is called mirror neurons in our brains that make us mirror the actions of others for acceptance in society, to protect our fragile insecurities about how the world views us. This goes a great deal to why people will vote for these types of people into our most responsible positions, in an attempt to say, that this is the type of person I would like to be running for office. Its kinda sad.

    @carlovincetti1352@carlovincetti13524 жыл бұрын
    • Not really. It is pretty clear that when you are talking about voting you do so with two things in mind. One do they match your internal jingoism. Two does the person not challenge you to think or behave better than you do right now. If your statement were true given all the press, polls and bashing. President Trump wouldn't be President as people would have been attempting to gain acceptance from the society at large.correct? People do not have mirror neurons that have evolved over thousands of years to protect our fragile insecurities? What science rag did you drag that out of? Homogeneous societies succeed while the others fall and are torn apart by the others. If everyone didn't mimic each other when we lived in caves we didn't eat and you died. You needed each other for survival and we needed to get along.

      @david1castiglioni@david1castiglioni4 жыл бұрын
  • Speechless! Awesome presentation! A must watch and better still, should be adopted.

    @nayanchoudhary4353@nayanchoudhary43535 жыл бұрын
  • Very well brought out. In my 26 years service in army, and some years in corporate life later I saw this phenomenon very clearly. The bosses who looked most impressive and who people were in revered awe of, actually delivered the least. These idiots heartily believed that they were the post possible bosses, while those who delivered the most, were quiet and unassuming. If you ever get to deal with a highly self-confident guy who thinks he knows almost everything, shun him/her. In India of 2021, Narendra Modi, PM of India, is a typical example. No good, but thinks he is God almighty himself.

    @AlokAsthana1954@AlokAsthana19543 жыл бұрын
    • We the uk beat that

      @neiltitmus9744@neiltitmus97442 жыл бұрын
    • Apparently so do 100's of millions of Indians. He didn't get there by NOT doing what it takes to get their.

      @mofo6724@mofo67242 жыл бұрын
    • India is no exception, I look at almost every country in the world to day...yep we need to round them up and expose them for nearly causing extinction of humanity...men or women they have become very defensive, heartless and greedy. This calls for a change: no government should ever be a castle that protects nincompoops even at the lowest level...instead it should be rightly just another service provider that is entrusted with public's money - not competent? just complain and they should be made vulnerable (so that they know how public suffers by their bad decisions) without armor of litigation to kick em out

      @wiranazahrin6262@wiranazahrin6262 Жыл бұрын
  • This needs to be watched MORE!!! I live in Argentina and I can vouch for Tomas' comments.....

    @ssnhillyard@ssnhillyard2 жыл бұрын
    • Hi Susan How are you

      @nnejiemmanuel4354@nnejiemmanuel43542 жыл бұрын
  • The tall, incompetent man. In my profession, we call them, 'Your Honor.'

    @northernbohemianrealist1412@northernbohemianrealist14125 жыл бұрын
    • Northern Bohemian Realist That’s a good joke. 😂 Though I’m not a lawyer, so I would not know what they’re like.

      @zjoh1560@zjoh15605 жыл бұрын
  • I'd suggest an alternative title, "How do incompetent people rise to positions of power?" The power of persuasion and a 300 million dollar inheritance.

    @pakde8002@pakde80024 жыл бұрын
    • Pak De exactly!

      @camerontaylor7471@camerontaylor74714 жыл бұрын
    • I think he had to make it a gender speech for his gender studies assessment.

      @andreas.9175@andreas.91754 жыл бұрын
    • Andréa S. He was going for the applause so he had to say something woke.

      @januarysson5633@januarysson56334 жыл бұрын
    • Who is inheriting 300 million dollars?

      @GyroZeppel@GyroZeppel4 жыл бұрын
    • Trump actually had a $400,000,000 inheritance. He lost more money in the 1980-1990s timeframe than any other American. Men voted and will still vote for Trump because they see him as a strong leader. Actually Captain Crozier of the USS Theodore Roosevelt is a strong leader as his crew would do anything for him (including dying for him. Trump is at the other end of the spectrum. Being a white, male, boomer I must say to my fellow Americans that voted for Trump...he is no leader. Just admit that you were wrong about Trump and made a mistake. Of course that will never happen as male hubris (actually testosterone poisoning) has a strong hold on male ego. I'm retired military and can say without reservation Trump would not make it in the military. He doesn't have any compassion and have self sacrifice for others. For non military types...if your child behaved the same way Trump does, wouldn't you send that child to a child psychologist?

      @Landwy1@Landwy14 жыл бұрын
  • My sister recently vented to me after a meeting with upper management: she said instead of getting work done, she had sit in that meeting for over an hour and listen to her male superiors bullshitting the board about how great they were at their jobs. And when they can't get the job done, they send my sister to save the day. Yet they make a lot more money than her and mainly play minigolf in their offices. Hope she can leave soon.

    @thecollector5243@thecollector52433 жыл бұрын
    • Does your sister work in an aerospace company?

      @lamzy3773@lamzy37732 жыл бұрын
    • @@lamzy3773 No, automotive (automobile, cargo trains etc)

      @thecollector5243@thecollector52432 жыл бұрын
  • I've had my share of incompetent female managers who thought they were just terrific.

    @kbck884@kbck8843 жыл бұрын
  • The ability to select good leaders doesn’t help much if you don’t get to nominate the candidates..

    @donalain69@donalain694 жыл бұрын
    • Alain Koch And why do you think there aren’t many candidates that show up in the first place? I think society is at fault here as we do a terrible job of training people to be leaders

      @davidfof13@davidfof133 жыл бұрын
    • @@davidfof13 Are you seriously suggesting that the reason why Americans have to choose between Biden and Trump is because there is no one better available? Do you realize how much money it costs to just 'show up' in the very first stage of the election process? Who will pay for the campaign? Do you think wealthy people like the CEO of Apple or the CEO of Amazon will generously donate their own money to promote someone intelligent who knows what's going on? The reality is that the CEOs of Apple and Amazon will only spend their money on someone biased who will introduce laws which help Apple and Amazon to drive up their stock prices.

      @Remindor@Remindor3 жыл бұрын
    • I believe Alain means there are plenty of truly competent people. They simply are not on our candidate list. If we all learn to choose the BEST person we can have, we would all have to agree to write them in. The actual candidates are simply the arrogant people who THINK they are the BEST WE can get. Do NOT confuse the people who are running our country with the actual people who should be running our country.

      @micbic5325@micbic53253 жыл бұрын
    • The ability to select good leaders doesn’t help much if you don’t know what good leaders are.

      @maxwelldownham235@maxwelldownham2353 жыл бұрын
    • @@maxwelldownham235 being able to select good leaders kind of includes to know what makes a good leader.

      @donalain69@donalain693 жыл бұрын
  • I have disdain for incompetent male leaders, but my own experience tells me that being a woman alone does not make you more competent or a good leader even if you are competent.

    @SurpriseMeJT@SurpriseMeJT4 жыл бұрын
    • Jay Tee He said this in the video. That the women who tend to be in leadership roles have been conditioned to act like male leaders, who are mostly incompetent. In general women doubt themselves more than men, therefore in general women would make better leaders. It isn’t impossible to have poor women or great men in charge.

      @calvin2032@calvin20324 жыл бұрын
    • Maybe a coincidence. But, when I (a male) resigned, it was not easy (to put it mildly) to convince the (IMO) most competent person (a female) to take over my former job as manager ^^

      @mitanni0@mitanni03 жыл бұрын
    • being a woman alone doesn't make anyone better, but if you put them in the social context, where they're disencouraged to rise and rather focus on family, the women who persist chasing after leader roles want them so much they'd rather fight the critizism of society than give up. With this I mean things like "women should focus more on family and getting a husband" BS (it's still SUUUPER common). So when they finally get the job, they don't want to ruin something they fought for so much

      @hellosofia15@hellosofia153 жыл бұрын
    • my boss (a male) had a hard time promoting me to manager because I did not want to. This is because as a woman, I like to be prepared 100% before I take on more responsibilities. Took me a bit over a year to finally take over the department. If I really had interest, I could have been manager 2 years earlier (not as prepared, but I would have been successful). We both knew I was competent, my influence went beyond my department and I care for my team and their success. Why took me so long? It is a lot of work and responsibility and I knew it was going to conflict with my family time and my other interests. Wanting to focus on family and getting a husband is NOT BS. A happy family life is very fulfilling. Today's society expects women to do it all and perfectly. Compete with men in the workplace, be better than men at it (BS), keep children well behaved and a home in order. This creates unrealistic expectations that a women can do it all and better. A complete lie that hurts other women. You are NO less of a woman if you can only handle your family. A woman cannot do it all and be better at everything. As I said it took me a bit over a year to become the new boss, I have triple my team since then, I have nothing to prove because integrity speaks for itself. if I leave it all and focus in my family full time making them the happiest people on earth, people will start telling me I threw my career away. Yep. I dare you to manage multiple teams and projects, fix everyone's problems, fix your boss's problems and continously find ways to get more productivity out of everyone to increase revenue. Knowing your limits (humility), being competent (do your job well) and integrity (honest and consistent) are keys for success. Whether you are a man or women, the recipe is the same. One advantage that women have over men is that they are more self aware so they are slower to jump into failure/take on risk. Can they fail? Yes, you can be a low performer male or female.

      @sae4842@sae48423 жыл бұрын
    • The conversation wasnt about gender. The conversation was about effectiveness.

      @deepdude4719@deepdude47192 жыл бұрын
  • I love how usually these types of subjects are so polarising but this is one thing we can all agree on lol

    @StillGamingTM@StillGamingTM2 жыл бұрын
  • People watching this all the very best for your future endeavors.

    @DailyDoseofHope149@DailyDoseofHope1493 жыл бұрын
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