I have both mommy and daddy issues and this really hit home. Especially the fear of abandonment part
@amberroland58 Жыл бұрын
Same here 😕
@unknownspirit8146 Жыл бұрын
Same here.. hugs to both of you 🫂 💕
@hatsunemikuenthusiast Жыл бұрын
I have abandonment issues, hugs to anyone who does too🫂🫂❤️🩹
@Icantthinkofahandle873 Жыл бұрын
Me too.. 😖😞
@Skeleton_love Жыл бұрын
Same here ❤❤
@Janani375 Жыл бұрын
as someone who has experienced mother issues for about 9 years now, I'm so glad this topic is being talked about more
@quentvn Жыл бұрын
Lucky you have mom issue for 12 years and still do because it's hard to walk away from that Kind of stuff
@naomisdragons6881. Жыл бұрын
@@naomisdragons6881. how am I lucky..?
@quentvn Жыл бұрын
Sry not luck I didn't mean not like that No one should go through that
@naomisdragons6881. Жыл бұрын
im so sorry, i can relate too. to all of this. and it’s hard when people don’t believe u because ppl are like “but your mom is so nice!!” like to you, but to me is different. im glad too that this topic is being talked about more because people think that all moms are perfect and angels and the dad is evil but it can be the opposite too or even both parents are evil (which i have both)
@darling.hyacinth Жыл бұрын
@@darling.hyacinth I know right.. I always try telling my friends about it but they’re always like “oh there’s no way, your mother is so sweet” no, she’s not. they need to understand what they see is not the truth, they are not in my body and can never know what my mother actually acts like. I’m really sorry to hear about that :( I wouldn’t say *both* my parents are “evil” but my mom definitely is. my dad is an alcoholic though he rarely ever (TW) h1ts me
@quentvn Жыл бұрын
I don't even have mommy issues but I relate to this so much-
@elliefishh10 ай бұрын
Same
@mrudulagodbole10 ай бұрын
Real
@cc..editor.29 ай бұрын
Same!
@Duo_has_my_family9 ай бұрын
Same
@ActuAllyAlexrosa9 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@Someone11.9 ай бұрын
The fact that this is actually an perfect description of how we feel
@heddahammarlund29509 ай бұрын
girl just described my entire personality in a few seconds
@huh._what10 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@Shad0wtotheEast9 ай бұрын
oml u read my mind 💀💀💀
@user-nw7ig7fs2t9 ай бұрын
You just made me realize I've had mother issues for like 3 years. Thank you.
@Crazin_Razin Жыл бұрын
Same here- I didn’t think much about me and my mothers relationship until I saw this video, never been described better in my whole life.
@m0nst3r_gutzz10 ай бұрын
Same
@swiftes4ever10 ай бұрын
@@m0nst3r_gutzz Real, I hope you're okay! Have an amazing day/night!
@Crazin_Razin10 ай бұрын
@@swiftes4ever Hope you're doing good. Have an amazing day/night.
@Crazin_Razin10 ай бұрын
@@Crazin_Razin aww, thank you!!
@m0nst3r_gutzz10 ай бұрын
Im super happy that there's someone who understands me and all the people with mommy issues aswell❤
@flowersxdux10 ай бұрын
She discribes my entire existence better then i could.
@a_local_void_cat9 ай бұрын
Growing up, my mom was bipolar and narcissistic. I had to suffer verbal, mental and emotional abuse for the longest time, and I have to deal with the consequences. Thank you for understanding what we go through❤️
@kimonokat1928 Жыл бұрын
My mom is bipolar too. I understand your situation. I don't usually get the brunt of her anger, but she targets my dad. I have to listen to my mom overreact about something and then my dad venting about it. It's really stressful for me because I don't have any siblings to share the burden with and they both expect me to pick a side. I hope your situation gets better!
@somehopelessromantic8505 Жыл бұрын
@@somehopelessromantic8505 Thank you, I hope your situation gets better too❤️
@kimonokat192811 ай бұрын
@somehopelessromantic8505 @kimonokat1928 I truly understand what your feeling. I'm still not sure how to tell my story, it is one for the ages I will be posting soon. But if your looking for healing tool there is a book called "Adult daughters of narcissistic mothers." It may really help.
@purposelyinmypowerinc.109811 ай бұрын
@@somehopelessromantic8505I have to r same problem, but I have a younger brother, and the way her manner changes around him and me are so frustrating. You can tell who her favourite child is. I would say she takes out the anger equally on my dad and I, however, my dad is usually home less than I am because of his work.
@Bananabeans1011 ай бұрын
Me too ): 18 years of being with her and literally only her since my dad would go out on the road for work, I was trapped. I left her stupid ass and I don’t regret shit.
@wolfspirit315811 ай бұрын
Someone that understands us, I've had mommy issues for 5 years and it hurts but at least some people know how we feel ❤️❤️❤️
@SarahRisco-iq8uh Жыл бұрын
Too accurate.. I like how you bring attention to these issues and their effects
@HeroOfTime64Link9 ай бұрын
As someone with mommy issues I accept this message
@xXThe_LeeXx9 ай бұрын
Man, this hits way too close to home. I struggle with all of these, some I didn’t know had to do with my mother until now.
@ootum6199 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Moonlight8740511 ай бұрын
same
@BESTUPPERMOON10 ай бұрын
Same
@IGotEatenByTheAutismCreature10 ай бұрын
same. I love my mother so much but sometimes it's just too hard for me.
@happying_anne10 ай бұрын
I have daddy issues but i still relate so much to this
@thanosbutididntkillloki5373 Жыл бұрын
I have both(daddy issues and mommy issues) so I relate a lot to this
@BerrySoda182 Жыл бұрын
She has a daddy issues video too!
@rosegacha2560 Жыл бұрын
@@BerrySoda182 same
@I_Love_Tmnt Жыл бұрын
I have both mommy and daddy issues
@peachjam6370 Жыл бұрын
I have daddy issues as well but to make it worse he’s a narcissist 😒🫤
@Orange_Tanger Жыл бұрын
...the fact this is so true I started crying... I do it everyday and I end up screaming at myself because I am wearing myself out at 17... Mother role... Trying to make sure my bf is perfectly happy and spoiled... My parents don't have to deal with issues... Screaming and spending hours on a simple project to get it right... My bf told me "set boundaries with me" i said 'what'... He said "you need to know what you are ok and not ok with or people will hurt you"...
@The.Hidden.Girl.10 ай бұрын
The fact that I can barely describe myself and she just said every single thing and detail😭
@Xoxosunrise9 ай бұрын
As someone who has only a mother in their life I never realized I could have mommy issues, so thank you
@LynxKyuu Жыл бұрын
i hope this video isn't the only reason you realize you have mommy issues
@yulingzheng88419 ай бұрын
I grew up with just a mother and I’m just realizing now how big of mommy issues I have
@Anonymous_Editz759 ай бұрын
What are mommy issues?
@LILYLOV1239 ай бұрын
You literally just explain my entire personality
@Mr-dazai-the-original Жыл бұрын
Frfr
@Mushr00m_Fr0gZ Жыл бұрын
same
@_Leila_ Жыл бұрын
Same, I’ve had mommy issues for almost 13 years and I still have to deal with her until she’s gone
@RileyPowell-ow6kf Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! Most people talk about daddy issues and either say only boys have mommy issues or don’t Angola get their existence.
@gatchagirls8 ай бұрын
She just described me better than I could 🙂💗
@Dead-butnotrlly0.09 ай бұрын
As a daughter who has mommy issues I appreciate this and I know now that I'm not alone ❤
@itz_me54321 Жыл бұрын
Same I feel you
@bernie912510 ай бұрын
@@bernie9125 ikr I feel like she doesn't care about any of my achievements
@theaafiazaheen10 ай бұрын
@@theaafiazaheen ty for noticing my comment it means a lot
@bernie91259 ай бұрын
As someone who experienced mommy issues from a very young age I’m happy to see it get talked about!! Keep up the good work
@l.bug0119 Жыл бұрын
My whole life except I don’t even let her touch me anymore 😢 - thx for spreading awareness you said what I couldn’t ❤❤❤
@raphlh26879 ай бұрын
My mom calls me a bitch
@Misbmamma2 күн бұрын
This is more then just true.. your videos make me so happy, :]
@Rylixth.r Жыл бұрын
I was about to send this video to you until I saw your comment, gurlie. HAHAHAGSHWHSHAHAHHA 💀‼️‼️ But, fr tho. The videos I have seen that she has made always add the same exact song and the topics are always about family issues 🚶🏻♀️ I'm truly grateful that I have both caring and supportive parents and don't have that many family issues and is also living a great and a decent life ❤️
@lushaisyaa Жыл бұрын
Naw, why do I always try to make my comments super long... 😱
@lushaisyaa Жыл бұрын
What are mommy issues or daddy issues?
@merola_zak Жыл бұрын
@@merola_zak Mommy issues are when your mother physically or mentally(Both possible) treat you differently in a bad way. It also means an unhealthy and bad relationship with your mother. Daddy issues mean the same but with your father.
@Rylixth.r Жыл бұрын
@@Rylixth.r yeah I just found that out
@merola_zak Жыл бұрын
Brooo I was about to ask for this video. Thank you so much. I have really bad mommy issues and this hit hard. I’m sorry for everyone going through the same thing. ❤
@user-hk4ve6bf8g Жыл бұрын
I did not need to be called out!!😭😭(I love your videos but damn does this one remind me of when my step mother threw me and my sister into a wall I was about six my sister 14 and yelled at us before my bio mom came to get us and then that caused a physical fight between the two and me in my sisters room crying myself to sleep while my sister holds the door shut and turns on a show then leading to my step mom being kicked out) (she’s now medicated and we both apologized we no longer live together but I get to see her every once and a while it’s nice to rebuild that relationship that was so heavily damaged)
@Lady_jadybaby_mikeW-richieT16 күн бұрын
공감됨
@XOkpop_25 күн бұрын
Watching this honestly made me cry
@1lyBells Жыл бұрын
Please can you do when parents love other child more than you ❤
@Nandinireads Жыл бұрын
Yessss
@Hellooooo20009 Жыл бұрын
Yes please my mom always catered to her new boyfriends kids now her new husbands kids she making food from scratch for him and they get to live there while I fight homelessness, can't make up my mind I'm always confused 😕 the ups and downs I can't take it anymore
@kluv42010 ай бұрын
You are so relatable, thank you for uploading your videos and watching you makes me feel not alone. Every caption/words that you use is very ARTICULATE this exactly the words that I would like to say but cannot say.
27 күн бұрын
Me after watching this: *Wait…-shit do I have mommy issues?!* 💀
@Hii.20140Ай бұрын
you literally explained my whole personality. i never thought that someone would understand!
@-.mymelody.- Жыл бұрын
i am so blessed to have an wonderful mother who loves me to bits and has always been there. i am truly sorry for the people, who struggle with this, i cant imagine anything near what u guys went through!🙏 You guys deserve the world
@SWAGGYH3N Жыл бұрын
Cherish her 😭😭
@amiok89639 ай бұрын
Saya mengalami mommy daddy issues. Terimakasih mellissa,video ini sangat menggambarkan situasi saya selama 27 tahun. Hingga tidak berpikiran untuk bisa kerja sesuai pilihan,hidup normal. Semua orang yang mengenal saya pun hanya bisa tahu sisi lain saya yang seperti "ibu" dibalik itu semua mereka memuji saya SWEET,CARING. bagiku tidak seindah itu,karena mereka tidak pernah merasakan hancurnya saya dibandingkan anak perempuan lain oada umumnya. Sekedar bisa tidak berpikiran untuk mengakhiri hidup dan tidak melakukannya adalah kebanggaan. Stress? Tentu. Semoga pelangi saya terbit, seperti pelangi yang kamu punya saat ini. Dan untuk semua ❤❤🩹
@mpus_mpusАй бұрын
so this is what my friend meant when he said he thinks I have mommy issues
@lemon183622 ай бұрын
As someone who has daddy issues and has a friend who has mommy issues we both feel very represented, thank you for spreading awareness about so many things ♡
@lovefordanielmatthews Жыл бұрын
This is the most accurate one yet. I have every single problem she described and I've been in this situation for a good portion of my life. I just can't believe someone would understand it that well. Thank you so so so much for making this!
@somehopelessromantic8505 Жыл бұрын
Sorry I thought this was ADHD. No wait it’s BPD. No wait it’s being the youngest child. No wait it’s self harm. Jesus everyone is a victim.
@andrewcombe89072 ай бұрын
don't even have mummy issues but i relate so much to all of these
@meiko._.m._.2 ай бұрын
I literally love this girl! She expresses the pain, and difficulty so well❤
@TheNeighborsKid2011 Жыл бұрын
I've been watching your video and I've realised that not only do I have daddy issues I have mommy issues as well. yay😅but honestly thank you for making everyone aware of what we go through ❤️
@maytaljude3959 Жыл бұрын
Can you do one with a sick parent?
@cheecoala2 ай бұрын
i related to this on another level..
@waeviss2 ай бұрын
As someone who has mother issues her entire life so far I’m glad it’s being talked about and spreading awareness
@W0lFeegAm3r11 ай бұрын
Thank you someone that finally knows what I go through 😢
@-Froggi Жыл бұрын
My mom is bipolar and ever since I was a little kid i watched my mom have mental health episodes because her Meds just suddenly stopped working so I relate to this a lot
@katiegallegos25502 ай бұрын
And then when you express how you feel to her: Stop lying and being dramatic Idk what to do with her! She’s always up my @$$! Watch your sisters. Dont hit your sisters! (Even though they hit me first and im trying to get them to stop touching me) Theyre your sisters! They love you! Ofc theyre gonna follow you! 😍 (Even though im literally on the verge of a mental breakdown)
@HayzeXo2 ай бұрын
This is Literally the description of me.😢❤
@naomisdragons6881. Жыл бұрын
This video makes so much sense ❤
@gayatribala Жыл бұрын
Yeah :) it does! It’s really accurate
@user-hk4ve6bf8g Жыл бұрын
I have mommy issues, long story short she left me when i was little and i have not seen her since 1st grade, but i got my dad sooo❤️🩹
@Its_Maddie153 ай бұрын
Wow this was spot on
@crystalbarrett40613 ай бұрын
I have mommy issues and you just described everything that I’m feeling thank you so much your videos brighten my day!❤❤❤❤❤
@Avacodo.loverr Жыл бұрын
Me
@Marygirliepoppers563 ай бұрын
I can’t describe how much I relate to this
@Eriya.Era133 ай бұрын
Can you do a one with fake/toxic/abusive friends?
@Kijo_the_fox_therian6663 ай бұрын
Fr me
@Kijo_the_fox_therian6663 ай бұрын
I feel this but have dad issues
@charkfood3 ай бұрын
All of this with daddy issues, adhd, anxiety, social anxiety, depression, insecurities and sewerslidal thoughts just messes my mind honestly, and the fact that I'm only 12.
@PrettiestPrincipleInLife3 ай бұрын
Um I think that's me I need help 😅😅😅😢😢😢
@rachaeltisdell42763 ай бұрын
Every single one of these I related to.
@YesItsPinkBarbiePink3 ай бұрын
I have both parent issues. My parents never were there when I was a toddler so I relied upon others to take care of me instead of them before. I know they need to work but never realize that it will affect their child/children too. Now, they make me want to depend on them which pisses me off a lot. I felt these things in this video. It's so accurate for how my situation is nowadays.
@cjanimatedocs933 ай бұрын
I stopped paying attention when i heard this song. I hate it so much, unless youre like a slave or something, living on a farm or something, theres a good chance that its not true. Maybe your story is different idk but i hate the song cause its usually just used by emo teens
@Echo_Edge_Gaming3 ай бұрын
Relative..
@ST4R-xf3zf3 ай бұрын
help. i dont have mommy issues but u js described me
@Oscar.2243 ай бұрын
I do all of the above. My people pleasing mixed with my clinginess makes me depressed which makes me clingy. I always feel like I need a hug, but sometimes it is more than normal. When this happens, I would go to a family member to hug them, but then(as my mind tells me) they'll get upset and leave me. So I don't bother them with something as minor as my need for a hug and then I feel weak for needing a hug and then I spiral again.
@aliza666vampireloveblood83 ай бұрын
That's what I'm dying bout😢im too tired,just wanna quit sometimes 😊
@resha24703 ай бұрын
Welp... Guess I might have mommy issues.
@Industrialmemes33 ай бұрын
I have mommy issues so thank you
@hunterbittinger7973 ай бұрын
You deserve me and my mother's issues and my personality. 😌
@Animal_Friend_Love_Anime_Food_3 ай бұрын
can you do daddy issues?? also love your vids❤❤
@Urmom393 ай бұрын
I have mommy issues, not even joking. i actually do, not because the video
@thattherianzero3 ай бұрын
I think I have mother Issue’s..
@StinkyRuby3 ай бұрын
😐 you described my whole life better then i could🙃 i love you
@theweirdoSpage3 ай бұрын
can you one where if you have daddy issues
@Arielhalsey1673 ай бұрын
Youngest child
@MiaValentinaHenao3 ай бұрын
This is me but some are different but i have both mommy and daddy issues
@Idk_or_care_3 ай бұрын
i just noticed now that i have mommy issues. thats just.. wonderful
@dewypaws3 ай бұрын
Day8 of asking for only child
@-Averagecitizen-3 ай бұрын
Who just learned that they have mommy issues? 👇😟
@Shining-star1203 ай бұрын
I have mommy issues and this is literally me. Its not easy.
@A.son.of.hades.3 ай бұрын
I know
@lexiepie46373 ай бұрын
She is literally describing me the only difference maybe is the people pleaser part ❤😅
@User-un5ko6lo6y4 ай бұрын
Turns out i have mommy issues 😐
@Sophia_Desrosiers8274 ай бұрын
My is dad issues and I feel bad that happened to you
@Arrow.on.the.river894 ай бұрын
Yay i have mommy issues!!!- wait..i have mommy issues..
@RatBastard19854 ай бұрын
damn why does that describe me so well T-T
@x_Kin_x4 ай бұрын
That hit home.
@ssahana91224 ай бұрын
This girl explains me as if I’m a book in so many of her videos
@zybiiee4 ай бұрын
I’m curious.. no hate, but what is mommy issues?
@momozyo4 ай бұрын
Why did i just find out i have mommy issues😢😢
@maggiel9874 ай бұрын
I am now seeing that I have mommy issues 💀
@NoraMiller-cs2up4 ай бұрын
Im incredibly sorry for you but you dropped your pin 📍 may i have it?
@user-jp6wx8rp7k4 ай бұрын
Can you do emotionally abusive dad?
@Swifties_Mastermind4 ай бұрын
HOW IS THIS SO TRUE. also, i need someone’s opinion on this. So you know how mom’s are always sowing affection? When my mom does that it seems so needy, and she like runs her hands down my body. And it makes me feel SO uncomfortable. And she kisses my neck a lot. And is always biting. And it al makes me so uncomfortable. And i try to push her away but then she starts shouting at me. Is that normal?
@Whydoyouneedit1274 ай бұрын
Damn I have mommy issues and I didn't realise all of these problems where because of it
@salma40444 ай бұрын
… is this the same for men?
@HellcatGamin4 ай бұрын
'no ur over your mom you don't have mommy issues' *Watches video* 'damn*
@SakuraSkribbls78264 ай бұрын
*Me watching the video* Me: Do I have mommy issues???
@Baymax76574 ай бұрын
I don't have mommy issues but they all apply to me.. 💀
I have both mommy and daddy issues and this really hit home. Especially the fear of abandonment part
Same here 😕
Same here.. hugs to both of you 🫂 💕
I have abandonment issues, hugs to anyone who does too🫂🫂❤️🩹
Me too.. 😖😞
Same here ❤❤
as someone who has experienced mother issues for about 9 years now, I'm so glad this topic is being talked about more
Lucky you have mom issue for 12 years and still do because it's hard to walk away from that Kind of stuff
@@naomisdragons6881. how am I lucky..?
Sry not luck I didn't mean not like that No one should go through that
im so sorry, i can relate too. to all of this. and it’s hard when people don’t believe u because ppl are like “but your mom is so nice!!” like to you, but to me is different. im glad too that this topic is being talked about more because people think that all moms are perfect and angels and the dad is evil but it can be the opposite too or even both parents are evil (which i have both)
@@darling.hyacinth I know right.. I always try telling my friends about it but they’re always like “oh there’s no way, your mother is so sweet” no, she’s not. they need to understand what they see is not the truth, they are not in my body and can never know what my mother actually acts like. I’m really sorry to hear about that :( I wouldn’t say *both* my parents are “evil” but my mom definitely is. my dad is an alcoholic though he rarely ever (TW) h1ts me
I don't even have mommy issues but I relate to this so much-
Same
Real
Same!
Same
Same 😭
The fact that this is actually an perfect description of how we feel
girl just described my entire personality in a few seconds
Same 😭
oml u read my mind 💀💀💀
You just made me realize I've had mother issues for like 3 years. Thank you.
Same here- I didn’t think much about me and my mothers relationship until I saw this video, never been described better in my whole life.
Same
@@m0nst3r_gutzz Real, I hope you're okay! Have an amazing day/night!
@@swiftes4ever Hope you're doing good. Have an amazing day/night.
@@Crazin_Razin aww, thank you!!
Im super happy that there's someone who understands me and all the people with mommy issues aswell❤
She discribes my entire existence better then i could.
Growing up, my mom was bipolar and narcissistic. I had to suffer verbal, mental and emotional abuse for the longest time, and I have to deal with the consequences. Thank you for understanding what we go through❤️
My mom is bipolar too. I understand your situation. I don't usually get the brunt of her anger, but she targets my dad. I have to listen to my mom overreact about something and then my dad venting about it. It's really stressful for me because I don't have any siblings to share the burden with and they both expect me to pick a side. I hope your situation gets better!
@@somehopelessromantic8505 Thank you, I hope your situation gets better too❤️
@somehopelessromantic8505 @kimonokat1928 I truly understand what your feeling. I'm still not sure how to tell my story, it is one for the ages I will be posting soon. But if your looking for healing tool there is a book called "Adult daughters of narcissistic mothers." It may really help.
@@somehopelessromantic8505I have to r same problem, but I have a younger brother, and the way her manner changes around him and me are so frustrating. You can tell who her favourite child is. I would say she takes out the anger equally on my dad and I, however, my dad is usually home less than I am because of his work.
Me too ): 18 years of being with her and literally only her since my dad would go out on the road for work, I was trapped. I left her stupid ass and I don’t regret shit.
Someone that understands us, I've had mommy issues for 5 years and it hurts but at least some people know how we feel ❤️❤️❤️
Too accurate.. I like how you bring attention to these issues and their effects
As someone with mommy issues I accept this message
Man, this hits way too close to home. I struggle with all of these, some I didn’t know had to do with my mother until now.
Same
same
Same
same. I love my mother so much but sometimes it's just too hard for me.
I have daddy issues but i still relate so much to this
I have both(daddy issues and mommy issues) so I relate a lot to this
She has a daddy issues video too!
@@BerrySoda182 same
I have both mommy and daddy issues
I have daddy issues as well but to make it worse he’s a narcissist 😒🫤
...the fact this is so true I started crying... I do it everyday and I end up screaming at myself because I am wearing myself out at 17... Mother role... Trying to make sure my bf is perfectly happy and spoiled... My parents don't have to deal with issues... Screaming and spending hours on a simple project to get it right... My bf told me "set boundaries with me" i said 'what'... He said "you need to know what you are ok and not ok with or people will hurt you"...
The fact that I can barely describe myself and she just said every single thing and detail😭
As someone who has only a mother in their life I never realized I could have mommy issues, so thank you
i hope this video isn't the only reason you realize you have mommy issues
I grew up with just a mother and I’m just realizing now how big of mommy issues I have
What are mommy issues?
You literally just explain my entire personality
Frfr
same
Same, I’ve had mommy issues for almost 13 years and I still have to deal with her until she’s gone
THANK YOU! Most people talk about daddy issues and either say only boys have mommy issues or don’t Angola get their existence.
She just described me better than I could 🙂💗
As a daughter who has mommy issues I appreciate this and I know now that I'm not alone ❤
Same I feel you
@@bernie9125 ikr I feel like she doesn't care about any of my achievements
@@theaafiazaheen ty for noticing my comment it means a lot
As someone who experienced mommy issues from a very young age I’m happy to see it get talked about!! Keep up the good work
My whole life except I don’t even let her touch me anymore 😢 - thx for spreading awareness you said what I couldn’t ❤❤❤
My mom calls me a bitch
This is more then just true.. your videos make me so happy, :]
I was about to send this video to you until I saw your comment, gurlie. HAHAHAGSHWHSHAHAHHA 💀‼️‼️ But, fr tho. The videos I have seen that she has made always add the same exact song and the topics are always about family issues 🚶🏻♀️ I'm truly grateful that I have both caring and supportive parents and don't have that many family issues and is also living a great and a decent life ❤️
Naw, why do I always try to make my comments super long... 😱
What are mommy issues or daddy issues?
@@merola_zak Mommy issues are when your mother physically or mentally(Both possible) treat you differently in a bad way. It also means an unhealthy and bad relationship with your mother. Daddy issues mean the same but with your father.
@@Rylixth.r yeah I just found that out
Brooo I was about to ask for this video. Thank you so much. I have really bad mommy issues and this hit hard. I’m sorry for everyone going through the same thing. ❤
I did not need to be called out!!😭😭(I love your videos but damn does this one remind me of when my step mother threw me and my sister into a wall I was about six my sister 14 and yelled at us before my bio mom came to get us and then that caused a physical fight between the two and me in my sisters room crying myself to sleep while my sister holds the door shut and turns on a show then leading to my step mom being kicked out) (she’s now medicated and we both apologized we no longer live together but I get to see her every once and a while it’s nice to rebuild that relationship that was so heavily damaged)
공감됨
Watching this honestly made me cry
Please can you do when parents love other child more than you ❤
Yessss
Yes please my mom always catered to her new boyfriends kids now her new husbands kids she making food from scratch for him and they get to live there while I fight homelessness, can't make up my mind I'm always confused 😕 the ups and downs I can't take it anymore
You are so relatable, thank you for uploading your videos and watching you makes me feel not alone. Every caption/words that you use is very ARTICULATE this exactly the words that I would like to say but cannot say.
Me after watching this: *Wait…-shit do I have mommy issues?!* 💀
you literally explained my whole personality. i never thought that someone would understand!
i am so blessed to have an wonderful mother who loves me to bits and has always been there. i am truly sorry for the people, who struggle with this, i cant imagine anything near what u guys went through!🙏 You guys deserve the world
Cherish her 😭😭
Saya mengalami mommy daddy issues. Terimakasih mellissa,video ini sangat menggambarkan situasi saya selama 27 tahun. Hingga tidak berpikiran untuk bisa kerja sesuai pilihan,hidup normal. Semua orang yang mengenal saya pun hanya bisa tahu sisi lain saya yang seperti "ibu" dibalik itu semua mereka memuji saya SWEET,CARING. bagiku tidak seindah itu,karena mereka tidak pernah merasakan hancurnya saya dibandingkan anak perempuan lain oada umumnya. Sekedar bisa tidak berpikiran untuk mengakhiri hidup dan tidak melakukannya adalah kebanggaan. Stress? Tentu. Semoga pelangi saya terbit, seperti pelangi yang kamu punya saat ini. Dan untuk semua ❤❤🩹
so this is what my friend meant when he said he thinks I have mommy issues
As someone who has daddy issues and has a friend who has mommy issues we both feel very represented, thank you for spreading awareness about so many things ♡
This is the most accurate one yet. I have every single problem she described and I've been in this situation for a good portion of my life. I just can't believe someone would understand it that well. Thank you so so so much for making this!
Sorry I thought this was ADHD. No wait it’s BPD. No wait it’s being the youngest child. No wait it’s self harm. Jesus everyone is a victim.
don't even have mummy issues but i relate so much to all of these
I literally love this girl! She expresses the pain, and difficulty so well❤
I've been watching your video and I've realised that not only do I have daddy issues I have mommy issues as well. yay😅but honestly thank you for making everyone aware of what we go through ❤️
Can you do one with a sick parent?
i related to this on another level..
As someone who has mother issues her entire life so far I’m glad it’s being talked about and spreading awareness
Thank you someone that finally knows what I go through 😢
My mom is bipolar and ever since I was a little kid i watched my mom have mental health episodes because her Meds just suddenly stopped working so I relate to this a lot
And then when you express how you feel to her: Stop lying and being dramatic Idk what to do with her! She’s always up my @$$! Watch your sisters. Dont hit your sisters! (Even though they hit me first and im trying to get them to stop touching me) Theyre your sisters! They love you! Ofc theyre gonna follow you! 😍 (Even though im literally on the verge of a mental breakdown)
This is Literally the description of me.😢❤
This video makes so much sense ❤
Yeah :) it does! It’s really accurate
I have mommy issues, long story short she left me when i was little and i have not seen her since 1st grade, but i got my dad sooo❤️🩹
Wow this was spot on
I have mommy issues and you just described everything that I’m feeling thank you so much your videos brighten my day!❤❤❤❤❤
Me
I can’t describe how much I relate to this
Can you do a one with fake/toxic/abusive friends?
Fr me
I feel this but have dad issues
All of this with daddy issues, adhd, anxiety, social anxiety, depression, insecurities and sewerslidal thoughts just messes my mind honestly, and the fact that I'm only 12.
Um I think that's me I need help 😅😅😅😢😢😢
Every single one of these I related to.
I have both parent issues. My parents never were there when I was a toddler so I relied upon others to take care of me instead of them before. I know they need to work but never realize that it will affect their child/children too. Now, they make me want to depend on them which pisses me off a lot. I felt these things in this video. It's so accurate for how my situation is nowadays.
I stopped paying attention when i heard this song. I hate it so much, unless youre like a slave or something, living on a farm or something, theres a good chance that its not true. Maybe your story is different idk but i hate the song cause its usually just used by emo teens
Relative..
help. i dont have mommy issues but u js described me
I do all of the above. My people pleasing mixed with my clinginess makes me depressed which makes me clingy. I always feel like I need a hug, but sometimes it is more than normal. When this happens, I would go to a family member to hug them, but then(as my mind tells me) they'll get upset and leave me. So I don't bother them with something as minor as my need for a hug and then I feel weak for needing a hug and then I spiral again.
That's what I'm dying bout😢im too tired,just wanna quit sometimes 😊
Welp... Guess I might have mommy issues.
I have mommy issues so thank you
You deserve me and my mother's issues and my personality. 😌
can you do daddy issues?? also love your vids❤❤
I have mommy issues, not even joking. i actually do, not because the video
I think I have mother Issue’s..
😐 you described my whole life better then i could🙃 i love you
can you one where if you have daddy issues
Youngest child
This is me but some are different but i have both mommy and daddy issues
i just noticed now that i have mommy issues. thats just.. wonderful
Day8 of asking for only child
Who just learned that they have mommy issues? 👇😟
I have mommy issues and this is literally me. Its not easy.
I know
She is literally describing me the only difference maybe is the people pleaser part ❤😅
Turns out i have mommy issues 😐
My is dad issues and I feel bad that happened to you
Yay i have mommy issues!!!- wait..i have mommy issues..
damn why does that describe me so well T-T
That hit home.
This girl explains me as if I’m a book in so many of her videos
I’m curious.. no hate, but what is mommy issues?
Why did i just find out i have mommy issues😢😢
I am now seeing that I have mommy issues 💀
Im incredibly sorry for you but you dropped your pin 📍 may i have it?
Can you do emotionally abusive dad?
HOW IS THIS SO TRUE. also, i need someone’s opinion on this. So you know how mom’s are always sowing affection? When my mom does that it seems so needy, and she like runs her hands down my body. And it makes me feel SO uncomfortable. And she kisses my neck a lot. And is always biting. And it al makes me so uncomfortable. And i try to push her away but then she starts shouting at me. Is that normal?
Damn I have mommy issues and I didn't realise all of these problems where because of it
… is this the same for men?
'no ur over your mom you don't have mommy issues' *Watches video* 'damn*
*Me watching the video* Me: Do I have mommy issues???
I don't have mommy issues but they all apply to me.. 💀