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The Psychopath Next Door
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Every day you're likely to meet a psychopath. Dr. James Fallon of UC Irvine explains what a psychopath is, how they work, and what they want from you -- and he ought to know (but you'll have to watch to find out why).
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JAMES FALLON:
James Fallon teaches neuroscience at the University of California Irvine, and through research explores the way genetic and in-utero environmental factors affect the way the brain gets built -- and then how individuals' experience further shapes its development. He lectures and writes on creativity, consciousness and culture, and has made key contributions to our understanding of schizophrenia, Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's disease.
Only lately has Fallon turned his research toward the subject of psychopaths -- particularly those who kill. With PET scans and EEGs, he's beginning to uncover the deep, underlying traits that make people violent and murderous.
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TRANSCRIPT:
James Fallon: Go to a party with fifty people in it, there’s a psychopath, a full-blown psychopath there. There’s probably five borderline psychopaths there. They’re not going to kill you, rape you, or maybe even take your money, but they’re going to manipulate the situation, make you look bad, or use you in some way. Something bad is going to happen.
And if you sense that… people have a sense that something is wrong with somebody, you walk away,you don’t fight these guys, because they’re masters at manipulation. The psychopath, in its simplest form, is an intraspecies predator, is a predator on other humans. It is hard to look at the actual behavior of a psychopath and say that thing is psychopathic or not, because psychopaths will come to the rescue of people. “Can I help you up, ma’am?” They, they can see the outward behaviors, and they just can mimic it to get along. But fundamentally, they don’t feel it.
You know, some psychopathic traits and what goes along with it can be very advantageous. First of all you’re fearless. You walk into a room, you own everybody, and you look like you own everybody, and they let you own them because you have that aura around you, that charisma, that light. That’s why elect people president, because they have that light around them. Another thing is you’re not very susceptible to pain. Pain doesn’t bother me, and also when you’re caught doing something, you have no tells. You could be caught red handed, you know, having an affair with somebody, and you could say, ‘no that’s not me’, it’s like, are you going to believe me or your lying eyes. And so it’s this ability to lie, without any tells, because in fact it doesn’t cause any anxiety.
Two main areas of the brain of a psychopath that are not regulated correctly: orbital cortex and the amygdala. Orbital cortex is involved in inhibiting your behavior. Now, the amygdala, on the other hand, really causes behavior. And normally they’re in balance. They inhibit each other. Now, in a psychopath, they’re both turned off, so they don’t inhibit each other, and they don’t regulate it. So the normal balance of animal drives and your social interactions, your morality, are not right. It’s never right. I mean, there’s a time for aggression. There’s a time for killing, even. There’s a time for sex. And part of it is how the rest of the brain is able to tell your orbital cortex the social context is correct now. Psychopaths don’t have that.
They’re doing things completely out of context, out of social context, and that’s the problem. Usually the question is, what percent do you think is due to genetics, and what percent is due to environment? And it turns out not to be the great question to ask. Because it looks like the answer is, if you are born with the biological markers for psychopathy, for example, that is the genetics and the altered brain pattern, early on. If you are a susceptible kid, then environment means everything. It means a lot. Maybe eighty percent. Because those kids can be really thrown off track, and they can be helped by a good environment too. Back in the early 90s, some of my colleagues were studying these killers, real bad guys, some serial killers, nasty guys. And they asked me to come in to look at the brains. So I put myself and some other people in as normal. And I got to the last scan, and I looked at it, and it was like completely pathological.......
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Whoever was interviewing him was slowly backing out the room in the final moments
+al t his genetics went back to old school gangsters/mobsters too, its nuts !
+al t lol I was thinking that same thing.
+al t The video ended when it did because a SWAT team stormed the room and arrested him. He wasn't even a mental health professional, he was just pretending.
+al t "Good, good this is great stuff we are getting. Actually just keep talking as if I'm sitting in the chair and I'm gonna run to the bathroom real quick. Gonna grab a cup of joe on the way back, want a cup?" *bolts for the exit as soon as he leaves the interview room.
lol
This is why I'm inherently distrustful of "charismatic" people; I don't want them to manipulate me.
+Mad Hatter Make yourself useless and you will be safe...
+Martin Šriber Been doing that for 20 years, love!
Okay
@@MadHatter42 well... these are not the dangerous ones... most are borderline just like this neurologist. The real bad ones are rare
@@chicxulub2947 wrong. He is the most dangerous, because you will never see it coming
Psychopaths aside, just spending time around someone who merely has very low empathy can be an eye-opener. You could drop dead right in front of them, and they would be mostly concerned about how this might "inconvenience" them.
+TheSpazModic Yeah, it really does mess up my day when someone dies in front of me. I probably would even have to hang around to make a statement. Seriously, don't people understand that I have Things to do. Important Things. (please ignore my profile picture)
My father was a psychopath (RIP). He was like the Pied Piper, he had a line of fans. My mother has low empathy. I did drop dead in front of her (I was resuscitated by paramedics a stranger called), and all she did was complain about how inconvenienced she was. Seriously. Another thing (sorry professor), as soon as I started watching this video, I thought to myself, "he reminds me of my father." The black leather jacket was also a clue.
Well, if you're dead then there is no way anyone can help you. On the other hand, if you're dying then that's a major concern.
+TheSpazModic It is quite an eye-opener to think if you dropped dead right in front of someone they might be horrified and have issues because of it. That's crazy!
Are you talking about my parents?
If it's advantageous to be nice - a psychopath will be nice. Simple. I have high empathy, bipolar, and GAD, and sometimes I wish I were a psychopath. Must be nice not caring what other people think.
+LeeboProductions Not sure your parenting skills would be any better though.
Inga Kommentarer Luckily, I don't have kids and have no intention of having any - so my path to psychopathy is now free ;)
+LeeboProductions It is. And you can become psychopath, if you disable parts of you brain...
There's a negative abd a positive to everything
It doesnt really work the way you think.
The interview was cut off at the most important part. his friends and family tell him point blank your a narcissistic bully. Now he knows the truth!!! What did he do with that information???
He didn't care, which proved their point. But as a challenge to himself he tried to act the part of a normal person, not sure if he still does.
Being that he's biologically hard wired as a phsycopath you raise a very interesting question. It raises the question also can a phsycopath feel love if the emotional part of their brain is switched off. Now I find myself wondering about the dynamic he has with his wife. She must be a very special person in her own ways to be married to such a man.
Read his other interview he tried to change his behaviour and succeeded
Great episode.
Thankyou mr fallon
I know someone who comes from a loving, two-parent family, is intelligent, well-educated, has had no childhood traumas, and has all the advantages of a well-to-do bourgeois upbringing. Yet, he has been manipulating and emotionally abusing me for his own sadistic pleasure for twenty years; he is devious, a pathological liar, cheats on his wife, and has virtually all the other traits (except violence) typically associated with psychopathy. He is a former social worker and vicar, and now a pastor (all jobs that give him access to vulnerable people whom he can manipulate for his own pleasure), and so is able to hide behind a veneer of public respectability. It is pretty obvious that this person's psychopathy is not caused by childhood trauma, but that he was born that way, and therefore can probably never be 'cured'. It is quite frightening to think that these 'intra-species predators' walk among us, hiding behind their 'mask of sanity'. Fallon is not a psychopath, although he may have some of the traits. You will know a true psychopath when you've met one, although the trouble is it may take several years to unmask them, but which time they have done their damage.
Most of them are BORN with a different brain. It's been proven in Xrays by Dr. Robert Hare. They have a tiny reptilian amygdala which is the part of the brain where a normal person's conscience is located. Why? Because they are genetic mutants. Offspring of the serpent (Genesis 3:15). "The wicked are estranged FROM THE WOMB: (serpent genetics) they go astray as SOON AS THEY BE BORN, speaking lies. Their poison is like the poison of a serpent: they are like the deaf adder that stoppeth her ear; Which will not hearken to the voice of charmers,(truth tellers) charming never so wisely." Psalm 58:3-5
Badger Botherer... So WHY are you involved with this creep?.. Sounds to me like you have a sado/maso relationship.. He hurts you and you like it! So what sort of a person are you to put up with SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND for 20yrs?!....cry me a river!!!
@One Nation Under God people like THIS give me the absolute shits... Ooooh, poor me, pick me, pat me... AND THEY LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF IT!!... he's a PASTOR?!!.. and YOU are covering for him and f*cking him at the same time?!!.. And deceiving his wife... 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮...
Well, the point of the video was that if they are brought up in a good environment, they wouldn't kill people or be overly aggressiv in a way that puts them in jail (it's probably not always like this). The scientist in the video has probably done some appalling things, which is why everyone in his life agreed that he's a psychopath.
"Psychopaths dominate the halls of power in both the United States and throughout the world. The current economic, political, military and legal system breeds psychopaths, rewarding psychopathic behavior and punishing those with conscience and integrity. Psychopaths will naturally be drawn to and converge at the apex of the power pyramid as much from their own drive for ambitious power as the hierarchical system that both requires and reinforces those who can comfortably operate without conscience, guilt or any genuine level of empathy toward others." www.globalresearch.ca/masters-of-manipulation-psychopaths-rule-the-world/5383706 "Most people think of a psychopath as a rare creature found only in the lowest levels of society. However, the reverse is true. They are not rare, but actually quite common, and you are more likely to find psychopaths in the boardroom than on the wrong side of the tracks. The reason is that the more competitive a particular environment is, the more ruthless the use of the Cheating Strategy becomes. Within the highest circles of power and wealth, a lack of pity and remorse is practically a prerequisite to success, and only the psychopathic mentality can thrive." (from "Defense Against The Psychopath")
TY for the citation.
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Wow... Idk why I'm so moved and don't know how to feel about him admitting to his psychopathy at the end.
I just realised my friend is a psychopath...
very good video, I'm quite interested in psychopaths and their behaviour, and I'm always intrigued by individuals diagnosed as being psychopathic, but do not go down the 'killing','Violent' path in their lives
Psychopathy is just lower than normal occurence of emotional states like empathy/fear/joy/anger/love/etc. due to reduced activity in these brain regions. Nothing about this implies an increased desire to commit violence - merely that violent acts committed would not trigger typical negative emotional responses like remorse. The other psychological issue that some percentage of people deal with - totally independent of psychopathy - is an obsessive-compulsion for violence. These people can't stop intrusive thoughts about hurting people, usually in a very specific manner (like having sex with dead corpses, or eating people alive), but since they have normal levels of emotional regulation they find these thoughts to be extremely disturbing. They don't _want_ to carry through with these desires and even if they eventually do, often times they will be wracked with so much guilt they will either turn themselves in or commit suicide. The notoriously dangerous serial killers such as Ted bundy, John Wayne Gasey, etc. were plagued with *both* violent OCD and psychopathy. Therefore when Ted Bundy experienced the urge to murder and then rape the corpses of young women, his psychopathy meant he had no emotional regulators to prevent him from carrying out his desires or to see them as "immoral" in the first place.
where do I go to get one of these tests done?
I've actually seen a documentary of him during my studying in neuroscience. pretty interesting
I hold some psychopathic traits but they could also be seen as borderline autistic traits as well go figure. Some things just are not in my line of sight until it's to late . Such as I sometimes lack empathy because it just does not cross my mind at the time.
Sean Warman, I’ve recently learned about the difference in empathy between psychopaths and individuals with autism. The following video does a good job of delineating the differences: The Erosion of Empathy: [Cognitive 🆚 Affective] 📺 kzhead.info/sun/obychZywlqqBZHA/bejne.html (12 minute video)
+Big Think I would like to ask if I may I mirror this video on a TZM-related channel, or will there be copyright issues?
Whatever could be harmful effects on my life, gets cleared out next door to me. Of course I was seeing or finding out about it.
Anxiety fear no social life..i feel like i need to manipulate ppl into hvng relationship with me but i fail all the time..sucks but glad im nt psychopath
mental health is serious business
I’m not a neurologist. But I’ve been researching personality disorders for quite awhile. Isn’t it safe to say that the amount of psychopathic traits in an individual, rest along a spectrum? Couldn’t the amygdala be deadened a bit, instead of remaining fully inactive. Even if that’s not possible, with each interaction I’ve had socially. Empathy levels fluctuate within each individual. Be it nature, or by nurture.
Wow, that is a nice jacket!
wow makes me want to meet a psychopath and wonder if i ever have before. chances are i probably have but never realized it!
Upvoted because of nice suit.
Signs of psychopath: 1. Putting yourself in all situations/stories. 2. Denying that you are a psychopath.
_Are you a psychopath?_
I'm _whatever_ you _need_ me to be baby.
+Teammm Two isn't really a sign of a psychopath, since most non-psychopaths will do it as well.
ObeseYeti Both 1 and 2 are required. I was making a joke about the man in the video.
***** Yes. Whatever you need to tell yourself.
damn this is cool
He talks very lively for a psychopath . Most psychopaths actually talk very emotionless .
@@cat-le1hf Psychopaths are great actors and liars but many are unsuccessful in a good way. Most of them just kill their girlfriends and kids.
I'm pretty sure I'm 'borderline' but I've been told I have too much empathy to be full blown. I have met at least one true psychopath. They were an Incredibly charming person but you didn't want to get in their bad books. They are currently serving life in prison for murder. It's interesting and slightly worrying to think that it only takes a room of fifty people to almost guarantee that there's a psychopath present.
mic9check Too late, they're dead already. :P
***** Indeed. It's usually the bosses.
Does the amount of empathy you show to other people decline if you are tired?
So you walk into a room and you own it. You get people to do what you want them to do. Sounds pretty good actually.
I have a personal intolerance of intimate/positive feelings especially depending on the people and number of people involved and what im expected to feel. they just make me cringe at times, id usually much rather draw from negative feelings preferably anger, hate or aggression i really enjoy focusing them into positive energy when im allowed as it isnt always practical as i find nothing wrong with embracing the spectrum of emotion. to me there is no good or bad. as a consequence of drawing pride from my own contentment of mind people who crave to be socially verified by others make me fucking sick.never thought much about it til seeing this vid again.
Sometimes I think small
1:50 what do you mean not regulated "correctly"?!? Why does every human trait outside the mean get labeled as "incorrect" or a "disorder"? It's quite likely psychopathic traits are in the gene pool for a very good reason, just like autistic spectrum traits, conservative/liberal (individual/collectivist) inclinations, etc, or there is an interplay with the environment that will bring out the traits in some people.
codediporpal, yes, perhaps he should have said "not regulated in a typical manner".
codediporpal, you may find the following video interesting. It has to do with how psychopaths and people with autism differ in empathy: 📺 kzhead.info/sun/obychZywlqqBZHA/bejne.html (12 minute video) 🤔 Empathy: Cognitive 🆚 Affective
I am a musician. You rarely find psychopaths in entertainment unless they are behind the scenes. There is well documented evidence psychopaths lack creativity bc they lack emotional empathy. How can one sing or play with feeling if they have no true feelings, eh? Reading the comments before I wrote this, I noticed that I seem to be one of the few commenters proud to have no psychopathic tenancies at all. Strange, that.
I am proud im not ashamed and I sing with no feeling because I can mimic the feelings
+Theholidaygamer proud to be a psychopath
I’m late here...but music and art don’t require emotional correspondence. It’s simply a means of expressing oneself. Some art is centered on aesthetics entirely, whether or not you react emotionally from your own recollection of past events, that induce a connection within said form of art..is subjective, almost always.
Yup psychopaths can't "feel" their artwork, but they could be great for the sake of carrying out best performance.
Is there any books to recommed "someone" to live a better life with psychopathic tendencies?? Just asking because an uncle off mine...
+Christian Jensen The Bible No I'm just fucking around, that's a shitty source of morality......
Christian Jenzten.... 😂😂😂
@@xinic5 😂😂😂
But a psychopath sees nothing wrong with his life.He doesn't want to change!
That describes my boss.
You had to be fearless to take on Azog by yourself like that.
Took a left turn quickly..
Makes me wonder if I'm borderline. I've been told many times that I have empathy for people but it doesn't feel like empathy, more like...sympathy? Pity?
I realized at a young age that I wasn't actually caring like others, it's just pretend for me or learned behavior outwardly. I don't experience remorse like someone else might and I can be objective enough to acknowledge some of my habits at work would be viewed as psychopathic. I see opportunity in places others might be too emotional to see. I function fine as a result, I'm not a murderer or anything lol it runs in my family as well, my older brother is extremely competitive and manipulative.
But I also feel like society today is just molding narcissists, an ugly cousin to the psychopath. We have a culture that is built on status, selfies, and how many likes we can get. It's a very disassociating society these days.
same bro, I feel like my sense of empathy is somehow distorted or like some weird form of it. It doesn't feel genuine. It feels like my brain is trying to mimic what empathy is supposed to feel like. very odd.
All psychos aren't bad guy's.
+Feckless Rogue all bad guys aren't psychos.
+Jalent Core all guy psychos aren't bads
+saxophoneguy bad all pyschos guys arent
aren't all bad psychos guys?
EXACTLY
I need talk to him asp
so where do I go from here?
3:16 I don’t know how many of you watch this in 2020, but definetly red is the impostor. Red is always the impostor
I picked up that he might be a psychopath before he said he was. I wish there were a fail safe method of detection that all political leaders would have to go through before serving. Psychopaths should not be allowed to govern.
He has a habit of licking his lip after concluding a sentence...
+DeGoryGlory “Steve” Syz Ah, I didn't notice the first time. Now its impossible to comfortably rewatch the video
Wow. Just wow. Big Think always has these twats in the comments who criticise irrelevant shit like that just to make themselves feel better
+DeGoryGlory “Steve” Syz it's called a tell.
He wants a kiss!
That explains corporate America & the political system.
No it doesn't bc psychopath are equally distributed
Wow IM one
is it possible to treat psychopath ?
+Ricma Maddafakka Only if you catch it at an extremely young age and focus on bringing them up in an environment that doesn't trigger the extreme negative behavior, like he said. Other than that, no, no there isn't.
Nobody would ever accuse me of being a psychopath. People love me.
+Dexxter They love me too, even some of those, who know I am psychopath. Being loved proves nothing...
mario!
so is it bad that i wish i was a psychopath now?
Plot twist!
*Consistently failing to see* a psychopath or an otherwise *"bad" person* is in itself a mental illness : *borderline personality disorder.*
A "bad person" is someone who's actions are repulsive to the majority. Nothing about psychopathy possesses any repulsive behaviours, unless it's coupled along with antisocial behaviours.
Yep but there will always be someone who will outrun a psychopath. Psychopaths get their constant supply from being allowed in their confidence and dominance by the people around them. But there will always be 1 person who f*ed that up and this person isn't a psychopath. Speaking of big time.
So Bill Clinton and bill bye are featured as experts on big think and described in this video !! Just wow
I hate the assumption that becaue psychopaths fake emotional connection, that it is inherently dangerous... I wouldn't give two shits if my best friend's mum died, but I'd still be there for her, because i know it's the right thing to do, and she'd want someone to be there for her. Just because I have no emotional attachment, or empathy, doesn't mean I don't care, or don't recognize that someone needs support during a diffucult time for them. I think in the mental health field, especially professionals, come into contact with mostly criminalistic psychopathic personalities, with no moral compass, who commit datic and violent crimes. I don't feel shit towards other people, and never have, but I always try to make sure that they are okay, because I know that that's what they need,and therefore what i need to express in order to be able to have healthy, stable relationships with them. I don't feel bad if I do something 'wrong' around them, but I'll always undertand why they feel that way, and try t adjust my behaviour so I don't make the same mistake again. If only so I don't feel scrutinized by others. THere are assholes and decent people even on the psychopathy spectrum, it's a bia of research that has lead people into thinking they are all serial killers and abolutely toxic personalities. I may have self-absorbed reasons for acting the way I do in my interpersonal relationships, but at least I try, and don't go out of my way to hurt people. I know I'm draining for people once they've spent a lot of time with me, after the initial 'honeymoon period' of my friendships, and many people wouldn't want to get to know me after saying all of this, thinking I'm toxic, and you'd be right to some extent. I just wrote this to say that not everyone who has these traits is malicious, or out to get you. It may be an unfortunate conequence of our personalities, but for me at least, I just want to have a good time and enjoy myself. Manipulating others doesn't carry much weight in my mind, at least consciously.
Every single thing he said i can relate to myself, I tick each one of his boxes... Perhaps this rings true for you if you're reading this? Does this mean we are 'psychopaths'? I feel like I emote to others, but perhaps I am being deceived. I feel like I feel emotion, but sitting here now I can't summon one easily so perhaps I don't? What if this doesn't make me (and you) a psychopath and this is merely a frame someone who works in mental health is putting on the situation. We all have the capacity for good and evil.
+u6q57 Psychopathy in reality isn't like the Joker from Batman, society (as usual) has bastardized the term. Kind of like "Anti-Social" just someone who doesn't like people (that's a misanthrope) or someone who prefers alone time (introvert) it's someone who like to bash people's heads in, or light your cat on fire or something -awesome- like that
This pic for this video is literally what they look like. No joke.
the only healthy way to deal with a sociopath, psychopath, or narcissist is: don't.
Dont play the game, dont win stupid prizes. Done.
Not very susceptible to pain and also not very susceptible to joy. You won't hear a phsycopath laugh unless it's related to their supply.
I am the psychopath..so i guess I dont have to worry :D
+Skylord Luke WTF Skylord, How am I finding you here.. Also, I agree wholeheartedly, I'm most likely there too :P It does explain why you blow me off for recording all the time though :P
ignoring the fact that I am a psychopath hahaha,I really struggle to keep myself from quiting starmade,every second i spend building something ,it feels like one second closer to actually quiting. I regret starting the adventure series,that killed me. thats why you dont see me doing new videos for 2 weeks now.
+Skylord Luke I know the feeling, I'm kinda there with you, i'm most likely going to have to take about 2 weeks off or more.
So basically it's possible for people to have the brain of a psychopath but be well adapted. Interesting video.
@crocket Exactly this minute is only 5 min. long. Not long enough to see the real evil side.
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+ConnorMcHughProductions A jedi craves not these things
+SkillSkillFiretruck For the Force is our ally.
+Thomas Ryan And a powerful ally it is.
+lightsidemaster Not is it powerful ally?
I wish I was one if I was one i wouldn't know
Munipulive: check Lies alot: check Considers emotions nesscessary: check Am I a psycho? (When I say emotions are a unesscessary I'm not saying I don't feel emotions at a small level I just find that logic and rationality are a lot more important) Also I believe that yourself should always be the highest priority
Why does he have chalk on his jacket?
There is nothing worse than a psychopath with a chronic yeast infection.
Wonder why its called a disorder when your considered a predator if you have traits, predators are top of the food chain so its more of an advantage to be able to manipulate thos around you for your benefit however unpleasant it may be for the recipients.
What would you call a person with sadistic inclinations and hints of psychopathy.
Sadisme soupçon de Psychopathe? Mm, mental health never sounded so delicious!
Louis Bloom, basically.
In a party of fifty there's one psychopath; this video has 20 dislikes per about a thousand likes; checks out.
If he's a psychopath, why should you trust anything he says?
This is an interesting story and all, but have you not made this exact same video before?
+Karl My Suitcase yeah haha i thought i seen this before as well
Psychopaths succeed because they don't give a fuck about anything other than the mission. They know how to charm people and are not afraid to snub anyone in their way. These people are the kind that commonly strives to be leaders where "normal" people don't feel the need to work so hard. The concern is when these people are focused on something negative or harmful to the people around them.
I really dont understand that "fearless" factor.. How come fuck... everybody fears something.. if not he'd be dead.
if someone creepily looks out their window at you for more that twenty minutes a day, you might want to get an alarm system set up.
So that's why the other kids didn't want to play with me.
That jack kit is future wrist tick.
Psychopaths make for great poker players
Quite interesting. I think that a psychopath might have fucked me over at an internship. I know that he has zero to none remorse, and he is very controlling.
This guy owned us all. Somethings not right. Im going for a run. ;-)
I was introduced to my husbands boss and I was horrified.. we were casually talking about cars to break the ice and I told him I loved having my little sports car (Miata) but that people could not see it from the cabin of a truck or large vehicle and they hit me or reversed into me quite a lot so I sold it.. he instantly said.. "No,, its not them its that you are a shitty driver"...creepy. he had never even met me before and did not know me..I walked away from him. total stranger hate. LOL.. I laugh now but it creeped me out at the time.
He is correct. You put yourself in their blind spot.
The delivery of what your husband's boss said was very poor but the message is true I feel. Go get yourself a motorcycle licence with a good school and you'll quickly learn that you need position yourself on the road to be seen, if don't you will become a statistic.
Sir remember that nurture is stronger than nature. Our families and friends give us a chance to change despite the big impact of genes in our behavior. Sometimes it takes one to know something that we can't experience.
psychopaths never Blush
psychopath cs adergers one lies while the other is completyly honest and incapable of lying. the psychopath will harm you and feel no remorse the aspie will help you when he can bothe dont understand your emotions or feel them and both can manipulate the situation when needed the scary part is the aspie will do it without lying once.
I know when my psychopath or sociopath ex lies all the time I know it I've caught him so many times lieing!!!
Dexter disliked this
Do psychos take their clothes to the cleaners ?
All presidents are psycopaths 1:16 ehehe
There are a lot of psychopaths on the comment section. 😔
After about ten seconds of watching this video I told myself "that's a psychopath."
Johan Liebert
🤥 Jordan Peterson thinks that most politicians are just there to help people - not lie to them! J.P. is so wrong on this specific point.
⬆️ politics is disproportionately attractive to liars and manipulators 🤥
I'm a freaking Psychopath. Imma manipulate you 😡
I dont belive that there are so many psychopaths. I think people have varying levels of empathy, and varying levels of competitiveness. When the empathy variable is low and the competitaveness variable is high, that when people do psychopathic behavior.
Am I the only one who finds this guy more like an older version of Jake Gyllenhaal? Really weird !
Lol.............ha. YES.
He licked his mustache over 50 times. I'm not exaggerating
how does he know my Exgirlfriend? She had something with him as well? oh god
uiuiuiseraph 😂😂😂 and he knows my ex too small world!!