My #advice to people in their 40's and 50's. #raydalio #principles #midlife
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I’m 51. Yesterday my 12 year relationship came to an end because I decided I couldn’t keep focusing on a one sided relationship. I finally got to the root of our issues and she was turned off by me as I’ve become bitter at work and I’m always negative. She’s 💯 correct. I went from positive and enjoyed playing rugby to being miserable and on the couch. I hate my stalled career and was trying to keep her through acts of service when I knew she had no desire for me any more. The good news is I’ve picked myself up after much worse places in my life and will go back to the gym and a regiment from my military days and start studying more to kick start my curiosity again and travel solo to where I want to go. I never got the kids and happy marriage I always wanted but have accepted that life can still be good when a person decides they want to change their mindset. Never give up on life. Fight for your happiness to the very end.
@onebridge7231Ай бұрын
Best wishes to you in your next adventure! I’m 50, have been with my wife for over 31 years and in the same situation (with exception to rugby.) The timing of your comment is strangely perfect and exactly what I needed at this very moment to motivate the quiet resolve for balance. Ray Dalio mentions leverage in this short video. In a healthy, balanced relationship, the fulcrum of leverage is approximately in the middle. That is not the case for me and her. I need to find happiness and discipline for myself towards that end. When I can regain my own balance and happiness, only then can I seek the same with another, if that is what brings more happiness and balance.
@randomno0Ай бұрын
Did she really have better options than trying to work things out with you? If so then fine. But I think we failed to defend our women from (((media))) and society-induced mental illness. Hope you at least let her have the cat.
@jimbig3997Ай бұрын
Leverage what? Time? Money? Relationship? 😅
@babyspice0206Ай бұрын
good luck my man. Peace from italy
@7budfoxАй бұрын
So your Ex, after 12 years, has better options than you right now? If so fine. But I suspect you didn't honor your obligations. We need to take care of our women and the mental illness that is inflicted on them by our society. I hope for her sake you at least let her have the cat...
@jimbig3997Ай бұрын
Im 43. I have no kids or gfriend. I have a good relationship with my Mum. I set myself goals all the time to give my life purpose. I try to help people where I can, without it hindering my own happiness. I have managed to start loving being alone and spend a lot of time running or hiking in the mountains alone. Its very liberating and highly addictive. I used to chase girls and spend all my money on them, but now its just all on me. Lifes so much less complicated this way. I should also add that I am a big believer in quality of life. Maintaining good mental and physical health greatly enhances this, with deep sleep (when your body repairs itself) being critical to successful health. Having a decent diet with minimal alcohol and lots of water also greatly helps too.
@focusdecorating3637Ай бұрын
thank you
@TheThinkingMathematicianАй бұрын
True that. Health is so fundamentally essential to us all (imo) throughout our life, no matter a baby or a senior It's like we can't even live proper life without health
@ej7052Ай бұрын
@@ej7052Yes, absolutely. Long term good health should be a foundation goal of all humans in my opinion. But this is getting harder to do in the western world, because we are dealing with a mainly contaminated food supply with all the bad food out there readily available and constant adverts for it, its not easy.
@focusdecorating3637Ай бұрын
@@TheThinkingMathematicianCheers mate
@focusdecorating3637Ай бұрын
No mention of God. God is missing in your life. Get to know God, you will be much happier 😀
@Zoran69Ай бұрын
I'm turning 49 soon. I was sick my whole life, until about 3 years ago. Managed to have two beautiful kids despite the constant hell, it made it worth the struggle. Now I have almost nothing, but yet I am the richest man alive, living a simple life in a cabin in the woods, content with the present, which is all anybody actually has. Philosophy, breathing techniques, psilocybin, and getting back up every time you fall, that's one answer for some, it was for me. I hope to help others in my remaining years, because it makes me happy✌️💚🖖
@martingoldfireАй бұрын
🫂🙏🏼💪
@DaytonFlyers123Ай бұрын
Well done mate.
@focusdecorating3637Ай бұрын
Powerful
@noelmoodley2003Ай бұрын
The spice melange will show you the way but children will change EVERYTHING.
@WilcoxNotreallythereАй бұрын
Rarely I have seen an accomplished individual, giving free life lessons and advice at the scale you are. Thank you Ray!!
@bluedottenant53512 ай бұрын
He Speaks with Benefit of Priveledge…
@Hs5687Ай бұрын
i also believe you have more privilege than Nick Vujicic@@Hs5687
@moh6410Ай бұрын
I’m 53 and I am totally in that not enough hours in the day to get things done. Had kids a little later in life so we dealing with the early teenage years, we have a special needs kiddo (mental health) so that involves therapy time, social service’s time to name a few. Add this to all the other day to day normal stuff like holding jobs down, running a household, 2 dogs to walk, feed etc and before I know it I’m done for the day. I never thought of meditation so I’ll give that a try. Thank you for the advice.
@twyscapeАй бұрын
I'm 10 years ahead of you - 62 and the kids are 18 and 20. Special needs and LGBTQ. Pets. I'm single now and have my own business. Sadly, when people tell me to meditate (which I have tried many, many times) I just want to slap them. : )
@biritsimonsenАй бұрын
I guess I'm kind of in a similar boat. I walk almost daily for 1 to 1.5 hours. This is my personal time, get to meditate, some physical exercise. I'm getting calmer and feel like I'm gaining the control back. Hang in there!
@srini9653Ай бұрын
I'm 54 my tips are #1 health maintain it as much as possible #2 share your life via a spouse, friends, charity don't fade away with nobody to remember you.
@dg-hughesАй бұрын
Thank you so much Ray. I’m turning 39 and this video has helped confirm a decision I made today
@MarkDhammaАй бұрын
Thank you for providing guidance in your books and social media. I am in my 40’s feel totally different challenges than my early years with in-laws, parents, kids and work.
@beisun476Ай бұрын
Im turning 50 next year n i wud lk to tell young ppl out there it does get better.. ur life will improve.. its just a phase.. not everyone move at the same pace.. just one little step at a time n keep pushing forward.. The key is not to give up
@sidsingh9303Ай бұрын
Thanks Ray for the advice 🙏
@vashts718Ай бұрын
middle life is like middle management: pressure from all sides. definitely feeling this. have to learn how to triage and outsource many things as you can
@rodsalvador3608Ай бұрын
Ray more concretely advise-1-Should you help your children whit money? 2-Are you happy whit your life? 3-Pay your debts and dont mess whit banks! 4-Shold you enjoy life or keep woking hard? What about adictions in life- sugar, cigaretes or alkohol or the big one-loans?
@user-mx5te8ie3nАй бұрын
Ray is just an angel.. such a wise guy. Weather or not he knlws it, he is one of my mentors. He is so sensible, and truthful, and I love to learn from his experience...
@syedarmaghanhassan46522 ай бұрын
My advice for those in their 40s and 50s is to just stay physically active if you want to look good as you age. the less physically active you stay, the fastest you age and your flesh and muscles become flabby (hanging down). Go out there and enjoy the outdoors. staying indoors the majority of your time doesn't do any good at all and it just leads to a state of depression and laziness.
@comeconcon569Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!❤❤❤❤❤
@dinkeydink9376Ай бұрын
My life start from zero again at 49 after my mom and brother have been scammed their whole life savings. I hate them so much, life is tough, but luckily I have a gifted Mensa daughter giving me mental support. Now i have found a new job, hopefully things will get better after 50!
@babyspice0206Ай бұрын
Thank you Ray.
@isipwaterАй бұрын
These are some good points, and practices to implement.
@Designer1-ProjectManagerАй бұрын
Ray is brilliant.
@CC-kl4nhАй бұрын
This guy is a great speaker! Can fill two and a half minutes talking without saying anything
@milton7763Ай бұрын
Thank you very much Ray I appreciate your advice
@orutrayandex2 ай бұрын
Great comments Ray, Thanks and have a nice week.
@KT-zx9jrАй бұрын
I'm currently 90 but I've figured out how to reverse myself to mid-40s, so this info is a lifesaver
@soulchoreaАй бұрын
you need to try be the president. I heard they are now looking for old men like you
@JulioCezar-we9zoАй бұрын
Thank you Ray
@1patulaАй бұрын
I am 57 and put Lord Jesus Christ first and central in my life. No any materialism can give me so much happiness and joy
@alexkuvalja6770Ай бұрын
Love Jesus. Never knew joy or peace before knowing Him, What a love. :)
@PaulWashington..Ай бұрын
Leverage got it, gonna 50x long my savings on binance tomorrow
@brianpsoАй бұрын
That little little Laugh of Uncle g in between while explaining the Midlife Crisis...My father does it and I get to know the SCARY PART is yet to come😂😂😂😂😂
@dheerajsharma9525Ай бұрын
Always golden tips! things that we know, but need reminders :)
@parry12 ай бұрын
Love this advice
@inesferre1874Ай бұрын
Ray you are my hero. You teach me so much. But I must say you make the mistake most American men make. They talk like there is no difference between men and women. But this difference is huge, men and women deal with very different problems in each phase of their life. Women bloom in their teens and twenties . Men dominate in their 30s and 40s etc.
@pauljohn6017Ай бұрын
Right on! Ty❤
@angelavore6705Ай бұрын
Great, Thank you
@Mark2LegitАй бұрын
Mr Dalio. You are talking about leverage. In financially what is your rule of thumb? 20/80; 30/70: 40/60 So what is a good leverage which benefits you and lowers your risks. How you are making these decisions? What are your principles? Can you talk about this in one of your videos?
@sandorturoczi5414Ай бұрын
I appreciate this advice
@heymisswestАй бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@karimmoussa3490Ай бұрын
🙏👍thank you for the insight Mr.Dalio. Yes the power of leverage and intense introspection.❤😊
@RoboPalIncАй бұрын
I would suggest reading Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and building a relationship with our higher power Jehovah God. Also build good friendships and become a forgiving emotionally intelligent person. Eating well, working out and working on staying away from negative people. At 31 Im such a happier person since doing those things.
@thecitizenjoanАй бұрын
God has blessed me so much. Name of Adi Da
@I_dont_want_an_atАй бұрын
A very uniquely spectacular human being.
@NathanHarrison7Ай бұрын
I'm in my mid 20s but I'm here for listening for the present & future
@Emperor-InkerАй бұрын
thank you my mentor,thank you so much.your reward is great in your other phase of life.
@tonderaimudege2090Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@user-vs8et8gk5sАй бұрын
I am 53 years old , and just starting over with nothing . Because of a terrible marriage , I had a wife wich I still love but financially it was a nightmare. Now with no skill I am working a normal warehouse job . Any advice wi be appreciated
@bbrahbboul2748Ай бұрын
The goat 🐐
@MackMittenzTVАй бұрын
TLDR; -Meditate -"Get leverage" to get more done in the time you have
@_taxman_Ай бұрын
You are a good mentor. Thank you.
@chungbongwong6693Ай бұрын
Do a book signing please Ray1 (day 1)
@TannerStarrАй бұрын
Please remind me to watch this in 12 years, thanks!
@soulfrost100Ай бұрын
What is this ‘leverage’ he’s referring to and how does it work?
@icecreamforcrowhurstАй бұрын
Thank you for care about those in 40s.
@py5534Ай бұрын
I am inventing a new meditational technique. It is a combination of technique that are out there. I would like you to try it out and let me know if you notices any changes. It is 12 mins long The first 3 minutes: You would listen to your internal thoughts with compassion, non judgmental non critical, like you are listening to your friend talking to you. but don’t get involved with your thoughts and idea. You are listening only. The second 3 minutes. Bring a feeling you have and wish to have for the day. For example calmness, peaceful. Bring that thought up and watch your feeling come and goes. Try to have that feeling come up in your mind and imaging how that would feel. The last 3 minutes. Place your thoughts on your breath coming in and out. Any thoughts come up thanks it and let it goes and refocus on your breath. All up 12 mins do this. Give one week and see how it goes. I am trying all these variation of meditation and it really helps
@huunguyen4113Ай бұрын
i’m in my 30s and i need to hear something to get me going. after my twenties going bust, i’m at a loss.
@oscarleyva6485Ай бұрын
Mathematicians and economists will tell you: happiness is U-shaped. As a general rule, people are happy when they're young, becoming increasingly unhappy into middle-age, and then once through middle-age, start getting happier again. Apparently this phenomenon is so widespread, it doesn't just apply to humans - chimpanzees experience the same 'dip' in happiness in mid-life.
@elijapriceАй бұрын
My biggest takeaway, Ray Dalio is a billionaire. He could have done anything with that 30 minutes to think about and execute this KZhead clip. But he chose to help others. Has me reflecting how can I help others.
@TimberXXАй бұрын
You realize he's getting paid for these videos right?
@MrLennart1976Ай бұрын
@@MrLennart1976 good point, think about the opportunity costs of his time. A KZhead clip is pennies.
@TimberXXАй бұрын
@@TimberXX It amazes me how many people don't realize that youtubers get paid directly for their videos. KZhead is not what it was 15 years ago, it's monetized now. With a few hundred thousand views, he gets a decent payout from youtube for 2 minutes of saying nothing concrete.
@MrLennart1976Ай бұрын
…word up dawg!
@ThomasSchickАй бұрын
Thank you! 🙏
@AYPFitness2 ай бұрын
The phrase 'life begins at 40' is often misinterpreted as being the time for freedom and fun, when in actual fact, it is the time when the real slog begins and you are no longer coasting through life.
@AmbugginflyАй бұрын
Meditate on that
@usmansheikh77172 ай бұрын
Sometimes, I can't meditate. That's when I run until it's hard to breathe. And then my mind and emotions become clear. I know what I need to do and what I can let go of. I'm not afraid anymore. I have come to realize the importance of having faith in my choices. Thank you so much. 🙂↕️😌
@s.el.5018Ай бұрын
I think when you reach 50s having a loving family and earning enough that don't need to skim the savings for the rising living cost, then take that as a win.
@DonJuanDMАй бұрын
Max was here
@maxb5957Ай бұрын
good advice for all ages 💯
@RMM982 ай бұрын
Ray write them down,,keep the best discard the ones that are too difficult to explain,until you can word them better,but fo not give up trying to teach.
@johnhenderson8149Ай бұрын
I was at a place where I spent all my money on liquor and women, and the rest of the money was wasted. I have now stopped wasting money
@dentonjordan6992Ай бұрын
At 43, I have a wonderful wife, wonderful children, great career, lovely house, good exercise regimen. I'm getting POUNDED. But it's worth it.
@user-hs5pr5bt1vАй бұрын
In 2024,don't set new year financial goals without consulting a financial adviser.there expertise ensure a solid plan for success.Building wealth involves developing good habits like regular putting money away in intervals for solid investments.
@carolinafrancisco7662Ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start.Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
@carolpearson6397Ай бұрын
I agree, based on personal experience working with an investment advisor, I currently have $650k in a well diversified portfolio, that has experienced exponential growth. It is not about having money to invest in stocks,but also you need to be knowledgeable, persistent,and have strong hands to back it up.
@frankhodges7637Ай бұрын
How can I participate in this?I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financial future and am eager to participate.who is the driving force behind your success?.
@teresamartim6173Ай бұрын
Marie Ann Treloar
@frankhodges7637Ай бұрын
She has been my counselor and coach.
@frankhodges7637Ай бұрын
Look up the autobiography Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer. Page 64.😇
@JC-du6snАй бұрын
*Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months,God bless Chloe Linda Henderson🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸..*
@HendersonBarkleyАй бұрын
Hello how do you make such monthly ?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦 of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
@aleishabryantАй бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Chloe Linda Henderson.
@HendersonBarkleyАй бұрын
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
@SAINT-uq5gwАй бұрын
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
@SAINT-uq5gwАй бұрын
Wow that's nice She makes you that much!! please is there a way to reach her services, I work 3 jobs and trying to pay off my debts for a while now!! Please help me.
@GodSent-hc4pjАй бұрын
My advice: buckle up!
@void________Ай бұрын
I’m 40 and I have it all figured out
@shutupandrunАй бұрын
hell yeah
@user-nk8ww9ce9kАй бұрын
Meditation? Like you did at the Taylor swift concert?
@allstarmark12345Ай бұрын
Was he really at a Taylor swift concert?
@jessejames4967Ай бұрын
Buenas tardes Ray. Saludos cordiales de MÉXICO LINDO Y QUERIDO.🌄🐯🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽👍
@lupiscask2 ай бұрын
He's the only billionaire guru I can think of. Bezos is too busy with his new woman.
@rajl8890Ай бұрын
Hormones more powerful than drugs 😆
@HailCaesar-lm4bqАй бұрын
Make as much money as early as you can.
@cxa011500Ай бұрын
Leverage?
@issenvan1050Ай бұрын
Basically just means maximizing your time, output, or results. Google it
@dude4173Ай бұрын
Impeccable
@yashagar4443Ай бұрын
Don’t chase money and fame but devote time to your family and appreciate this life if possible ….Ive found the spiritual life is the only sane life
@anoshyaАй бұрын
A bachelor doesn't suffer these issues.
@7s29Ай бұрын
You must be right because you are rich.
@snehsharma4983Ай бұрын
recognize that you are not going to suddenly become rich, or famous, or popular if you aren't already.
@anniesshenanigans3815Ай бұрын
I will give you best advice ever. Become free, look for a peace in life, create your own life, strive for the things you want, listen to your intuition and yourself not others, you know the best how to get that thing you want, stop listening to that nonsense from the internet.
@user-uo8sn4jw1pАй бұрын
My middle life is combined with war in Ukraine 😞
@olga7454Ай бұрын
My youth was spent nearly on disability - But nobody has an easy life. Due to that I feel out of touch with any version of normal. But overall - our culture is weak and stupid. Strength is about remaining calm as possible at any age and circumstance
@jdt8983Ай бұрын
Telling people to start meditating in their 40s or 50s is not a epiphany. Lol There are so many different forms, levels, and reasons to meditate. Most who haven't done internal work by these ages can't even find a starting point or purpose to really meditate effectively.
@npa2468Ай бұрын
It all sucks after 50. Kids are gone and your health sucks.
@DTM45Ай бұрын
I don't believe meditating is truly going to help anyone as our currency & Empire currently collpases. Peoples problems, the threats they are currently facing and will be facing in the future, is much bigger than the normal historical midlife issues in years past. I assume meditation wouldn't really do much for people in Weimar Germany, Venezuela or Zimbabwe, not really.
@dillonc1900Ай бұрын
Asking people to meditate with a business background/view was kinda weird.
@gropatapouf5998Ай бұрын
It’s not an advice for the average Joe. We are stretched too thing. The unhappiness levels, aggressions, etc. are through the roof as a result. The need to make more and produce more for less has killed us.
@augustoliver2779Ай бұрын
Dang... its going to get even harder than this?
@BingtheLizardАй бұрын
Free advice: FREE PALESTINE
@huberto989Ай бұрын
Yap, add divorce on top of everything that drains you 😂 Gosh, I just need millions of dollars and peace haha
@bluesun2001Ай бұрын
That was just a bunch of rambling word salad, people think because they made some $$ that all of a sudden they are Aristotle.
@billjohnson7904Ай бұрын
ahahaha
@delasantosАй бұрын
Knowing Jesus is love, joy ,peace like none other. Eternal Life is in Him and none other John 17:3 And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. John 3:3 Jesus answered and said to him, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Jeremiah 29:13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.
@PaulWashington..Ай бұрын
Stop spending money to impress other people. Get out of debt.
@snakeplissken3063Ай бұрын
Man, people are desperate for the guidance of a father figure
@MrLennart1976Ай бұрын
I like Ray but like most of the wealthy that give advice, he only focuses on this life when it's short and ignores the next that is eternal. Read the Final Testament of Allah, His Qur'an and insha'Allah He will guide you to Islam. Those are the truly successful.
@mzaki4949Ай бұрын
Why is this all just generic fluff. I guess it’s good if helps someone
@eagleeyemind4800Ай бұрын
Because it is more about his own personal branding and marketing than it is about providing people with useful, substantive advice.
@DuncanL7979Ай бұрын
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@cathyappel5817Ай бұрын
Meditate, your advice is to meditate..... I want my 2 minutes back....
I’m 51. Yesterday my 12 year relationship came to an end because I decided I couldn’t keep focusing on a one sided relationship. I finally got to the root of our issues and she was turned off by me as I’ve become bitter at work and I’m always negative. She’s 💯 correct. I went from positive and enjoyed playing rugby to being miserable and on the couch. I hate my stalled career and was trying to keep her through acts of service when I knew she had no desire for me any more. The good news is I’ve picked myself up after much worse places in my life and will go back to the gym and a regiment from my military days and start studying more to kick start my curiosity again and travel solo to where I want to go. I never got the kids and happy marriage I always wanted but have accepted that life can still be good when a person decides they want to change their mindset. Never give up on life. Fight for your happiness to the very end.
Best wishes to you in your next adventure! I’m 50, have been with my wife for over 31 years and in the same situation (with exception to rugby.) The timing of your comment is strangely perfect and exactly what I needed at this very moment to motivate the quiet resolve for balance. Ray Dalio mentions leverage in this short video. In a healthy, balanced relationship, the fulcrum of leverage is approximately in the middle. That is not the case for me and her. I need to find happiness and discipline for myself towards that end. When I can regain my own balance and happiness, only then can I seek the same with another, if that is what brings more happiness and balance.
Did she really have better options than trying to work things out with you? If so then fine. But I think we failed to defend our women from (((media))) and society-induced mental illness. Hope you at least let her have the cat.
Leverage what? Time? Money? Relationship? 😅
good luck my man. Peace from italy
So your Ex, after 12 years, has better options than you right now? If so fine. But I suspect you didn't honor your obligations. We need to take care of our women and the mental illness that is inflicted on them by our society. I hope for her sake you at least let her have the cat...
Im 43. I have no kids or gfriend. I have a good relationship with my Mum. I set myself goals all the time to give my life purpose. I try to help people where I can, without it hindering my own happiness. I have managed to start loving being alone and spend a lot of time running or hiking in the mountains alone. Its very liberating and highly addictive. I used to chase girls and spend all my money on them, but now its just all on me. Lifes so much less complicated this way. I should also add that I am a big believer in quality of life. Maintaining good mental and physical health greatly enhances this, with deep sleep (when your body repairs itself) being critical to successful health. Having a decent diet with minimal alcohol and lots of water also greatly helps too.
thank you
True that. Health is so fundamentally essential to us all (imo) throughout our life, no matter a baby or a senior It's like we can't even live proper life without health
@@ej7052Yes, absolutely. Long term good health should be a foundation goal of all humans in my opinion. But this is getting harder to do in the western world, because we are dealing with a mainly contaminated food supply with all the bad food out there readily available and constant adverts for it, its not easy.
@@TheThinkingMathematicianCheers mate
No mention of God. God is missing in your life. Get to know God, you will be much happier 😀
I'm turning 49 soon. I was sick my whole life, until about 3 years ago. Managed to have two beautiful kids despite the constant hell, it made it worth the struggle. Now I have almost nothing, but yet I am the richest man alive, living a simple life in a cabin in the woods, content with the present, which is all anybody actually has. Philosophy, breathing techniques, psilocybin, and getting back up every time you fall, that's one answer for some, it was for me. I hope to help others in my remaining years, because it makes me happy✌️💚🖖
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Well done mate.
Powerful
The spice melange will show you the way but children will change EVERYTHING.
Rarely I have seen an accomplished individual, giving free life lessons and advice at the scale you are. Thank you Ray!!
He Speaks with Benefit of Priveledge…
i also believe you have more privilege than Nick Vujicic@@Hs5687
I’m 53 and I am totally in that not enough hours in the day to get things done. Had kids a little later in life so we dealing with the early teenage years, we have a special needs kiddo (mental health) so that involves therapy time, social service’s time to name a few. Add this to all the other day to day normal stuff like holding jobs down, running a household, 2 dogs to walk, feed etc and before I know it I’m done for the day. I never thought of meditation so I’ll give that a try. Thank you for the advice.
I'm 10 years ahead of you - 62 and the kids are 18 and 20. Special needs and LGBTQ. Pets. I'm single now and have my own business. Sadly, when people tell me to meditate (which I have tried many, many times) I just want to slap them. : )
I guess I'm kind of in a similar boat. I walk almost daily for 1 to 1.5 hours. This is my personal time, get to meditate, some physical exercise. I'm getting calmer and feel like I'm gaining the control back. Hang in there!
I'm 54 my tips are #1 health maintain it as much as possible #2 share your life via a spouse, friends, charity don't fade away with nobody to remember you.
Thank you so much Ray. I’m turning 39 and this video has helped confirm a decision I made today
Thank you for providing guidance in your books and social media. I am in my 40’s feel totally different challenges than my early years with in-laws, parents, kids and work.
Im turning 50 next year n i wud lk to tell young ppl out there it does get better.. ur life will improve.. its just a phase.. not everyone move at the same pace.. just one little step at a time n keep pushing forward.. The key is not to give up
Thanks Ray for the advice 🙏
middle life is like middle management: pressure from all sides. definitely feeling this. have to learn how to triage and outsource many things as you can
Ray more concretely advise-1-Should you help your children whit money? 2-Are you happy whit your life? 3-Pay your debts and dont mess whit banks! 4-Shold you enjoy life or keep woking hard? What about adictions in life- sugar, cigaretes or alkohol or the big one-loans?
Ray is just an angel.. such a wise guy. Weather or not he knlws it, he is one of my mentors. He is so sensible, and truthful, and I love to learn from his experience...
My advice for those in their 40s and 50s is to just stay physically active if you want to look good as you age. the less physically active you stay, the fastest you age and your flesh and muscles become flabby (hanging down). Go out there and enjoy the outdoors. staying indoors the majority of your time doesn't do any good at all and it just leads to a state of depression and laziness.
Thank you for sharing!❤❤❤❤❤
My life start from zero again at 49 after my mom and brother have been scammed their whole life savings. I hate them so much, life is tough, but luckily I have a gifted Mensa daughter giving me mental support. Now i have found a new job, hopefully things will get better after 50!
Thank you Ray.
These are some good points, and practices to implement.
Ray is brilliant.
This guy is a great speaker! Can fill two and a half minutes talking without saying anything
Thank you very much Ray I appreciate your advice
Great comments Ray, Thanks and have a nice week.
I'm currently 90 but I've figured out how to reverse myself to mid-40s, so this info is a lifesaver
you need to try be the president. I heard they are now looking for old men like you
Thank you Ray
I am 57 and put Lord Jesus Christ first and central in my life. No any materialism can give me so much happiness and joy
Love Jesus. Never knew joy or peace before knowing Him, What a love. :)
Leverage got it, gonna 50x long my savings on binance tomorrow
That little little Laugh of Uncle g in between while explaining the Midlife Crisis...My father does it and I get to know the SCARY PART is yet to come😂😂😂😂😂
Always golden tips! things that we know, but need reminders :)
Love this advice
Ray you are my hero. You teach me so much. But I must say you make the mistake most American men make. They talk like there is no difference between men and women. But this difference is huge, men and women deal with very different problems in each phase of their life. Women bloom in their teens and twenties . Men dominate in their 30s and 40s etc.
Right on! Ty❤
Great, Thank you
Mr Dalio. You are talking about leverage. In financially what is your rule of thumb? 20/80; 30/70: 40/60 So what is a good leverage which benefits you and lowers your risks. How you are making these decisions? What are your principles? Can you talk about this in one of your videos?
I appreciate this advice
Thank you 🙏
🙏👍thank you for the insight Mr.Dalio. Yes the power of leverage and intense introspection.❤😊
I would suggest reading Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and building a relationship with our higher power Jehovah God. Also build good friendships and become a forgiving emotionally intelligent person. Eating well, working out and working on staying away from negative people. At 31 Im such a happier person since doing those things.
God has blessed me so much. Name of Adi Da
A very uniquely spectacular human being.
I'm in my mid 20s but I'm here for listening for the present & future
thank you my mentor,thank you so much.your reward is great in your other phase of life.
Thank you.
I am 53 years old , and just starting over with nothing . Because of a terrible marriage , I had a wife wich I still love but financially it was a nightmare. Now with no skill I am working a normal warehouse job . Any advice wi be appreciated
The goat 🐐
TLDR; -Meditate -"Get leverage" to get more done in the time you have
You are a good mentor. Thank you.
Do a book signing please Ray1 (day 1)
Please remind me to watch this in 12 years, thanks!
What is this ‘leverage’ he’s referring to and how does it work?
Thank you for care about those in 40s.
I am inventing a new meditational technique. It is a combination of technique that are out there. I would like you to try it out and let me know if you notices any changes. It is 12 mins long The first 3 minutes: You would listen to your internal thoughts with compassion, non judgmental non critical, like you are listening to your friend talking to you. but don’t get involved with your thoughts and idea. You are listening only. The second 3 minutes. Bring a feeling you have and wish to have for the day. For example calmness, peaceful. Bring that thought up and watch your feeling come and goes. Try to have that feeling come up in your mind and imaging how that would feel. The last 3 minutes. Place your thoughts on your breath coming in and out. Any thoughts come up thanks it and let it goes and refocus on your breath. All up 12 mins do this. Give one week and see how it goes. I am trying all these variation of meditation and it really helps
i’m in my 30s and i need to hear something to get me going. after my twenties going bust, i’m at a loss.
Mathematicians and economists will tell you: happiness is U-shaped. As a general rule, people are happy when they're young, becoming increasingly unhappy into middle-age, and then once through middle-age, start getting happier again. Apparently this phenomenon is so widespread, it doesn't just apply to humans - chimpanzees experience the same 'dip' in happiness in mid-life.
My biggest takeaway, Ray Dalio is a billionaire. He could have done anything with that 30 minutes to think about and execute this KZhead clip. But he chose to help others. Has me reflecting how can I help others.
You realize he's getting paid for these videos right?
@@MrLennart1976 good point, think about the opportunity costs of his time. A KZhead clip is pennies.
@@TimberXX It amazes me how many people don't realize that youtubers get paid directly for their videos. KZhead is not what it was 15 years ago, it's monetized now. With a few hundred thousand views, he gets a decent payout from youtube for 2 minutes of saying nothing concrete.
…word up dawg!
Thank you! 🙏
The phrase 'life begins at 40' is often misinterpreted as being the time for freedom and fun, when in actual fact, it is the time when the real slog begins and you are no longer coasting through life.
Meditate on that
Sometimes, I can't meditate. That's when I run until it's hard to breathe. And then my mind and emotions become clear. I know what I need to do and what I can let go of. I'm not afraid anymore. I have come to realize the importance of having faith in my choices. Thank you so much. 🙂↕️😌
I think when you reach 50s having a loving family and earning enough that don't need to skim the savings for the rising living cost, then take that as a win.
Max was here
good advice for all ages 💯
Ray write them down,,keep the best discard the ones that are too difficult to explain,until you can word them better,but fo not give up trying to teach.
I was at a place where I spent all my money on liquor and women, and the rest of the money was wasted. I have now stopped wasting money
At 43, I have a wonderful wife, wonderful children, great career, lovely house, good exercise regimen. I'm getting POUNDED. But it's worth it.
In 2024,don't set new year financial goals without consulting a financial adviser.there expertise ensure a solid plan for success.Building wealth involves developing good habits like regular putting money away in intervals for solid investments.
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start.Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
I agree, based on personal experience working with an investment advisor, I currently have $650k in a well diversified portfolio, that has experienced exponential growth. It is not about having money to invest in stocks,but also you need to be knowledgeable, persistent,and have strong hands to back it up.
How can I participate in this?I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financial future and am eager to participate.who is the driving force behind your success?.
Marie Ann Treloar
She has been my counselor and coach.
Look up the autobiography Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer. Page 64.😇
*Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months,God bless Chloe Linda Henderson🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸..*
Hello how do you make such monthly ?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦 of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Chloe Linda Henderson.
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Wow that's nice She makes you that much!! please is there a way to reach her services, I work 3 jobs and trying to pay off my debts for a while now!! Please help me.
My advice: buckle up!
I’m 40 and I have it all figured out
hell yeah
Meditation? Like you did at the Taylor swift concert?
Was he really at a Taylor swift concert?
Buenas tardes Ray. Saludos cordiales de MÉXICO LINDO Y QUERIDO.🌄🐯🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽👍
He's the only billionaire guru I can think of. Bezos is too busy with his new woman.
Hormones more powerful than drugs 😆
Make as much money as early as you can.
Leverage?
Basically just means maximizing your time, output, or results. Google it
Impeccable
Don’t chase money and fame but devote time to your family and appreciate this life if possible ….Ive found the spiritual life is the only sane life
A bachelor doesn't suffer these issues.
You must be right because you are rich.
recognize that you are not going to suddenly become rich, or famous, or popular if you aren't already.
I will give you best advice ever. Become free, look for a peace in life, create your own life, strive for the things you want, listen to your intuition and yourself not others, you know the best how to get that thing you want, stop listening to that nonsense from the internet.
My middle life is combined with war in Ukraine 😞
My youth was spent nearly on disability - But nobody has an easy life. Due to that I feel out of touch with any version of normal. But overall - our culture is weak and stupid. Strength is about remaining calm as possible at any age and circumstance
Telling people to start meditating in their 40s or 50s is not a epiphany. Lol There are so many different forms, levels, and reasons to meditate. Most who haven't done internal work by these ages can't even find a starting point or purpose to really meditate effectively.
It all sucks after 50. Kids are gone and your health sucks.
I don't believe meditating is truly going to help anyone as our currency & Empire currently collpases. Peoples problems, the threats they are currently facing and will be facing in the future, is much bigger than the normal historical midlife issues in years past. I assume meditation wouldn't really do much for people in Weimar Germany, Venezuela or Zimbabwe, not really.
Asking people to meditate with a business background/view was kinda weird.
It’s not an advice for the average Joe. We are stretched too thing. The unhappiness levels, aggressions, etc. are through the roof as a result. The need to make more and produce more for less has killed us.
Dang... its going to get even harder than this?
Free advice: FREE PALESTINE
Yap, add divorce on top of everything that drains you 😂 Gosh, I just need millions of dollars and peace haha
That was just a bunch of rambling word salad, people think because they made some $$ that all of a sudden they are Aristotle.
ahahaha
Knowing Jesus is love, joy ,peace like none other. Eternal Life is in Him and none other John 17:3 And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. John 3:3 Jesus answered and said to him, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Jeremiah 29:13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.
Stop spending money to impress other people. Get out of debt.
Man, people are desperate for the guidance of a father figure
I like Ray but like most of the wealthy that give advice, he only focuses on this life when it's short and ignores the next that is eternal. Read the Final Testament of Allah, His Qur'an and insha'Allah He will guide you to Islam. Those are the truly successful.
Why is this all just generic fluff. I guess it’s good if helps someone
Because it is more about his own personal branding and marketing than it is about providing people with useful, substantive advice.
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Meditate, your advice is to meditate..... I want my 2 minutes back....