Xiao Zhan EXPOSES The Dark Side Of Fame
2023 ж. 23 Жел.
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Everyone has dreamed at least once in their life that they were famous, whether for an incredible talent or for the luxurious lifestyle. But fame is far from just fortune. While some celebrities can successfully hide themselves from public view, and others might even enjoy it, there are plenty of stars like xiaozhan who have spoken passionately about the twisted reality of everyone knowing your name, from the invasions of privacy to the complete inability to function as a normal human being. #theuntamed #thelongestpromise #theoathoflove #cdrama #chineseactor #weiwuxian
Fans should learn how to support their favorite celebrity without interfering with their personal space and lives😢
Yes, if they really cared about his wellbeing, they should give him some peace! I'm a fan and I would support him by watching his dramas. I would be happy if he was happy too! ❤❤❤
😊You are right chinese starletthhe really dont have freedom... he does'nt even have a proper sleep... and i feel sorry for his life and cried seeing him in that lousy situation.... but that is how other fans are..i saw him in a video taking a short nap before he was in the frame of a video.. nodding to snooze for a quick😢😢😢 Thankful he cares for taking care of himself... whenever i see videos of fans out of control my heart goes out to him... i am also one of his fans but i won't sneak around just to be the first to post a video of gossip...and have many likes in behalf of the artist i like.. I'd rather queue for a long line than ran after him at his discomfort.. but every fan have their own mindset how to treat their idols.. and i belong to a faraway fan who cares for Xiao Zhan's comforting zone.. seeing him on a drama watching him at a distant.. is my way to show my support to him.. watch his old video's and while he sings😅😊 is enough for me.. if i see him in China.. i doubt i will.. i will just wave hello to him..😅😊😊😊 ❤❤❤
Chinese starlet i am so sorry for Xiao Zhan 😢 after watching your video and listen to your opinion.. he has no freedom.. he is sleep deprived because of his workload and sad to say.. because of some fans making it a little difficult for him 😅😅😅😅 This is the life of being famous like him 😢😢😢... sorry Xiao Zhan 😢😊❤
@@wapakican you please tell me the episode no of drama at 6:17
We should lives with contentment. Whatever we earned we give back to GOD.
His success is never coincidental. And yet, there are still wicked people who dare enough to make trouble for him. He gave more than enough of himself for his work to entertain us. You may love him or not, but it is fair to respect his right to live his life peacefully and freely with enough privacy.
This makes sense
Sounds like they should all, take a couple of years break to meet their own needs. Mental & physical. No matter how they cover it up, the strain shows. Yet they aren't allowed to. Bless him. There should be controls over stalking & harrassment. Weibo should always be more responsible, after all, it thrives due to Fanship. Listening to this makes me feel sick. I recently watched 2 Singers, sitting at an Award Show together. One unaware they were being filmed, amongst the crowd. The other, clocked the wacther, with a freezing stare. It didn't stop the intrusion, the moment relieved by a sudden distraction. It's a horrible life, I would long to leave China, if that is the best quality of life, on offer after so many years of service. The ugly side of Celebrity. Such an awful price to pay 😢😢😢😭💔💔💔
@@ginadeacon9920 I would love to know who wrote this. I wish I could talk with you if possible if you aren't Xiaozhan
@@minheetoney my own personal thoughts, nothing more.
Watching this makes me feel sad for him. 😢 I hope he's happy, stays grounded, and kind. ❤ I'm rooting for #XiaoZhan 's positive success!
I believe Xaio Zahn is a rare gem. He is the one who can do it. I think maybe always knew his life would not be normal. May his rare personal moments be full of sunshine and a sense of who he truly is to this world.❤
When XiaoZhan decided to become an actor ,he said that he learned right away that C-ENT was very toxic. He said it during an interview when he was a still a member of XNINE .
You have verbalized my thoughts in more eloquent words, thank you. Fame is always a double edged sword. You get one but you lose one. There is no middle ground. What keeps him sane and in balance probably is due to his ability to do sincere introspection and him consciously trying to be grounded. Once in an interview, he revealed that it is not losing fame that he is most afraid of, but what fame can do to his head, his mind. With this statement, I am hopeful that no matter how high he had flown, his feet are still firmly planted on the ground. It is not only space that he is restricted to nor the time to being with his old friends and loved ones, but the freedom to know, interact, connect, and build lasting relationships with others, other than his staff and co-workers. Happiness becomes elusive in the truest sense of the word. But I know, he would try to be happy in any situation because it is something he had decided to do already. Strike when the rod is still hot. Despite of this, I hope he could find true and lasting relationships that can accompany him through this journey, this "world," that would not take advantage of him and stay with him through thick and thin, through happiness and sadness, through everything. I wish him well alqays. ❤❤❤
Love your post ❤
Can you please tell me the episode number at 6:17 of drama
I STRONGLY AGREE 😊😊😊
@@wapaki you know the episode number of drama at 6:17?
@@user-xd8sg5mp4v Episode 21 Oath of Love
I believe that Zhan is a well grounded actor who can weather any storm(227 for example). From his interviews he also says he balances his work and personal time. He also appears to have a strong support system. Though he once mentioned he has social anxiety ( which is understandable because of how he is hounded by fans). He started his own studio and soon he will cut ties with Wajijiwa. In life we all go through challenges in our journey to success, it is how we tackle the challenges, the attitudes that we create when facing them that matter. He chose this path and he will walk it. Let us wish him well. Being a famous person is not an easy thing. Toxic fans will always find something to criticize.
Despite the intense pressure of his fame, he seems pretty grounded and tries for a good work life balance (when he's not filming)
You said the magic word Balance . He is a Libra and they must have a clean balanced life .
@@oicchico944can you please tell me the episode no at 6:17 of drama
@@user-xd8sg5mp4v wow 617 is my birthday 🎂. June 17.
Xiao Zhan is perfect superlative Actor/Artist/Singer. As he says he chose this career and he will do best he can. my opinion his doing better then any other and plus his very humble and kind and naturally very Handsome👍👍👍👌👌👌❤❤❤❤❤🚴🏄♂⛹♀🏌♀🦸♂
Fame is a double edged sword. Fans need to get a life of their own and not stalk all these celebrities who are just trying to do their jobs. They are all humans too and need their own private time and space.
He's up to his games especially he also famously known the most handsome man.
Can't imagine him being happy Money and fame can't buy happiness.
This is so sad, I absolutely love him as an actor. Hopefully his true fans will realize how they are hurting him.
We love Xiao Zhan very much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
XIAO zhan is best actor I like all his dramas and he is handsome .
Can you please tell me the episode no. Of drama at 6:17 I forgot the episode please please tell me if you know it
He is a rare talented and dedicated good actor and and a admirable young man.
Xiao Zhan ist sehr bodenständig, aufgewachsen in liebevollen Familie, gefördert von seinen Elterm, Lehrern und Dozenten und jetzt von seinem Team. Er entschied sich sehr bewußt für die Filmerei. Er ist bereits durch Höhen und Tiefen gegangen. Und er hat seine Freiräume und Nischen. Es wird immer Menschen geben, die seine Grenze aus Gier verletzen aber es gibt auch immer Menschen, die ihm Möglichkeiten geben, frei sich zu bewegen. Ich danke Allen, die ihn schützen udn bete täglich für ihn. Er hat eine große internationale Gemeinschaft von jung und alt geschaffen und zeigt allen das wunderbare Gesicht China und seiner Kultur und Tradition.
Beautifully stated ❤
Спасибо ❤
Ich glaub das große Problem ist die Art wie viele Chinesen aufgewachsen sind. In der Chinesischen Gesellschaft hat das Individuum nicht so viel Wert wie die Gemeinschaft und deswegen gibt es so was wie Privatsphäre in der chinesischen Gesellschaft nicht. Ich bin selbst eine Chinesin, die aber in einem deutschsprachigen Land aufgewachsen ist und sehe da deutlich die Unterschiede vom Mindest zwischen Internationale und Chinesische Fans. Es ist schwer sie zu überzeugen, dass Celebrities auch Menschen sind. Für sie sind Celebrities leider Objekte der Öffentlichkeit. Sie sehen es auch nicht ein, dass ihr mindset sehr verstörend ist.
Danke, ist sehr aufschlussreich. Ja, die Fans in MAILAND UND JETZT IN sINGAPUR WAREN VIEL disziplinierter.@@MrsDaedalus_ Ich lerne jetzt chin um dort mal Urland zu machen Chongqing natürlich und Sanja wegen Kuan Jin Statur. Frohes neues Jahr.
So sad but am always love you zhan zhan am from India ❤❤❤❤
Te amamos Zhan ❤❤❤bendiciones ♥️
Нам сложно представить что должен чувствовать человек, каждый шаг, взгляд, вздох которого оценивают миллионы людей. Миллионы поздравляют с днем рожденья, посылают любовь. Как не утратить связь с реальностью? Какой волей и силой духа обладать? В нем чувствуется философский склад ума, мудрость. Я беспокоуюсь и болею за него, надеюсь он найдет для себя золотую середину.
I’m watching this again , now in 2024, April . This is one of the few postings about Xiao Zhan , in proper English. Those of us who are English educated can hardly find postings like this . Believe me, he has fans worldwide . Most are translated from Chinese and we can only try to get the message. Thank you so much. Hope to get more postings concerning Xiao Zhan , in English .
It's a blessing and curse.
😱❤🙏👏GOD BLESS HIM.How I wish he can have a full sleep and rest. How I wish that fans CAN REALLY BE A FAN NOT BEING A STALKERS. What I’m worried about is his health.
All things are said and done. But all in all, you're still the the owner of your life. Don't let anyone dictates you. Your team could show you all kinds of works and activities, but you still have the final say. You don't have to please everyone. Take care of yourself. Life is too short. 😊
Xiao Zhan, choosing this path is very difficult. a lot of sacrifices must be done, i think you've surrendered some of your freedom for the craft you've chosen. But please remember that HEALTH is also very important. Physically, mentally and emotionally.. don't abandoned yourself because of fame.. Don't forget to LOVE yourself also. you're a very good actor that's a fact. Don't pushed yourself too hard. pls take care of yourself. God bless and i pray Good health for you 😁💖💖💖
This makes me so sad. While I am a huge fan, I would never follow him or cause him any discomfort. All I care about is his well being.
I too truly love the artist xiao xhan but i too believe that he should have his own privacy, he should also be allowed be spend his own life as he wishes
Fans should support their Idols no matter how boring or annoying they perform. Without them life is boring. Even ancient times actors actors and dancers do their best to entertain people just to kill the hardship in life and be the inspiration of all.
It is really sad that When they are famous they cant relaxe please they are peopel too
J'ai envie de dire à Xiao Zahn de penser davantage à lui,de se garder du temps pour lui. ❤❤❤
Can you please tell me the episode no. Of drama at 6:17
The Oath of Love
@@user-ye6gq8fs5k episode?
Il se dit probablement qu'il fera ce travail encore un an, deux ans etc..mais il devrait penser a lui meme, a sa familles, a ses propres sentiments. La vie est courte et de plus en plus precipitee! Le travail est une bonne chose mais il ne faut pas exagerer. Il a 32 ans, il devrait commencer a le comprendre. Je crois que WYB l'a deja compris, il y a longtemps qu'il a commence.
Most celebrities develop social phobia because of the constant attention. The stocking the screaming all of that eventually causes illness.
Судя по всему, он достаточно мудрый, раз сам говорит о компромиссе. Желаю ему дальнейшего благополучия, здоровья, удачи,любви,более понимающих фанатов. Чтобы он наслаждался своей жизнью, а мы - его творчеством!
Life is definitely a balancing challenge . Prioritize. Family and love ones should always be number one. Time evaporates. There are always trade offs. Proceed with caution: because you can never go backwards. It would be a sad fact to lose someone important for career goals. Im certain Xiao knows this. Prayers for Xiao' to have a healthy work life balance. Hugs 🫂 💕 and prayers for Xiao ❤❤❤💕💕💕🫂🫂🫂🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💚💚
Both blessing n curs also I feel both pity n happy 4 xz ❤❤❤❤
Sorry Xiao Zhan. Sending positive energy and blessings.♥️
I'd be more worried about him getting depressed. Being famous means not having a life. A double edged sword. I know if I ever saw him out and about doing something, I'd wave and keep walking.
There are many things he has, but the price is high. Personally I prefer my freedom in life to create value in life for myself and my loved ones. It’s a choice that everybody has. His choice is to embrace this life until he makes a different one.
I wouldn’t say I’m the biggest fan but once I commented on a post of him on a fan page and I received sooo many DM’s from impostors pretending to be him although at times I wonder if one was actually him but I ended up shutting down my social media account as the DM wouldn’t stop from crazy fans and scammers…maybe cause I was attractive and they trying to pry to see if I had any romantic involvement with him when I’m just a complete total stranger who happens to love the movie The Untamed. One of the DM I received questioned if I was a undercover journalist which got me wondering if that was him and if it is he really must have a hard time being able to trust and establish any kind of friendship or relationship but I can say that I am fan now as I can see what a great actor and singer he is!! Now I know how he feels because the constant annoyance from the DM I keep getting and my fear for my own privacy got me to shut down my social media…I’m not even famous lol 😂
yea, i can feel the pressure in side you, beautiful star..💗🕊famous is nice but famous keeps life from privacy & personal..??
Whatever, XiaoZhan still XiaoZhan! Show business entertainment full of tricks! I'm always looking for his positive vibes! GOD bless XiaoZhan ❤❤❤
I'm amazed that people are just now understanding this!
If you like a person, you wish them health and give them care. If they are to be healthy, they must have time to rest. The meaning of recovery is time for private things in private space. In the end, more rest means more fitness, more performance and better films for the fans. I don't know why so many people think that these famous people have a different physique than normal people.
You need to live for yourself never mind others or the pressure will be to much leave the guy alone he cant even be with his friends because so called fans are making up storys about them get a life of your own and think how he feels its like being in a gilded cage Hope you stay well ❤
I am so sorry for this talented young man. It would seem the harder he works, the more success he has, the more he is "punished" by his fans, and anti- fans. I just thank him for all the enjoyment his hard work gives to others. ❤️💫
It is impossible for him to be happy. I hope he has real friends to support him.
Good luck Siao Zhan bless you always.❤❤❤
Blessing ❤❤❤
Oh No... people are bit crazy...😮😣 Told as a whole story out loud, it's quite shocking. I'm sorry for him😢
It is terrible; so sorry . He is so beautiful; even Hollywood at its worst wasn't this bad. Can he retire?
be the best everyday,it wont be like this forever. things will change somehow someday. enjoin it while it last❤ take care of yourself XiaoZhan❤
Xiao Zhan ❤️❤❤😍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🥰🥰
I don't understand the people who chase these artists. Do any of these so called fans work, do they have a life of their own? They are a bunch of pathetic losers. The artists deserve to have a life and the right to do as they please. I feel so sorry for them.
Xiao Zhan has and still works very hard, I just wish the fans would respect his privacy. Everyone deserves to have time out as its good for their mind, body, and spirit. I wonder how those really persistent fans would feel if they were hounded 24/7 and couldn't even go outside, I'm sure they wouldn't last .🤨🐇❤️
I feel so sorry for people who are caught in the spot light of fame. People forget this is a job but that people also need to have time off. ThE mammy in me wants to just scoop them up and take them away from the spotlight for a while so that they can recuperate physciially, mentally and spiritually
My heart breaks for him. Hope he’s able to have a little freedom to enjoy life.
Xiao Zhan mb... espero que as pessoas deixem você em paz. Voce é um ser humano tão doce e gentil, não merece passar por essas coisas.
От всей души желаю , чтобы окружающие его люди были ему преданны и берегли его ❤
Xiao Zhan, I am really sorry for the kind of life you are having. I wish to invite you someday here in the Philippines where we can provide you a hidden life for a while. I will always pray for your perseverance. Thank God I am not famous.
Its sounds like a sad life being hounded all the time hes a fine looking young man i hope he can have time to himself it must be hard to trust anyone are they there for you or because of who he is look after yourself and your mental health ❤
Fans are killing celebrities 😢
Wow😢❤
I think XiaoZhan’s career has been ruined by his fan mostly. I remember back then when he was so popular after the Untamed but didnt get any projects for YEARS due to fans’ behavior. I hope it won’t get as worse this time.
reallyyyy? what happen'? 😞
Вы неправильно думаете: его карьере нанесли ущерб хейтеры, антис и люди, которые хотели выдавить его из индустрии: слишком очевиден был талант этого парня, и он представлял серьезную угрозу для компаний и капитала, вложивших деньги в посредственных актёров. У Сяо Чжаня не было и нет капитала или компании, которые поддержали бы его. Только его преданные фанаты, друзья и люди, верящие в его талант.
@@niminxs1813can you please tell me the episode no at time 6:17 of drama
Happiness does not derive from how famous you are or how much money you have rather it is a measure of inner peace and contentment with few desires. Remember life is short!
As a foreign fan I see a lot of videos of him in this movie or that show or he's promoting a brand. It's too much demand and exposure. He's a great actor, model, singer, director and designer but he's also human. Not a cash cow. This pressure isn't good for him physically or spiritually
This is so sad😢. They should not have to pay this kind of price just because they are entertaining us. We fans need to understand that if we really love them, we need to respect their privacy. We can love them from afar and wish them well. I love XZ, I wish him well in all he does. He is an amazing actor and musician❤❤❤❤. I hope he rests and takes care of himself❤❤❤❤.
You can tell what all this BS has done to Yibo……he never looks happy, always looking anxious and angry. It’s so sad. And today we lost another exemplary person and actor to suicide. Will will this toxic culture end?
You remember when Yuehua issued a statement that sasaengs were stalking his home, his parents and even friends? Some fans are incredulous!
7:23 😮
Can you please tell me at 6:17 is of which episode?
I feel bad for him, because we became humans before all the lights and stardom, it's okay to love and admire them, but please they are real people. Sometimes fans mislead there intentions.its great to meet your favorite actor,actress,or idol,or singers and so own, be they also deserve privacy as well. We have to protect them and admire them, not stalk them. I love his acting its very refreshing and his singing is absolutely stunning...
I'm so sad, seeing and listening these, how awfull to take from the star, i admire, his own life. It makes me cry
ANSWER IS BOTH
its both because fame may guve yoy fortune but in exchange you list your privacy, your time with families too and sometines the need to compromise can be devastating to your dignity and self respect for any celebrity can always merit enemies, invite envious entities, and suffer the price of being famous with almost no time to enjoy the fruits of your labor.strike while the iron is hot because you will never know when your glitters became dimmeo and die .
If true, then I would say no breaks. Really no breaks anytime is unhealthy for Brain and Body. The man can't fall asleep the this is tragic. Accidents happen more often to than naught 🎉fore we are not Machines 😢
His problem is not fame, his problem is fans like us who are obsessing over him...I can do my bit that I would pray for him to have a good time and a good sleep. And for a few months I will not comment on any of his fans post. I request all Chinese friends to control their fan following and pretend you didn't recognise him if you find him in some place 🙏 To his talent company I pray please don't treat his as a machine. Give him a 1 day holiday every week🙏
Not only Xiao Zhan, but every artist, whether is an actor/actress or singer, goes through the same frustrating and overwhelming situation. When you pick that kind of career and become popular/famous and a public figure, the price is steep. You unfortunately loose your privacy. There's no so much of a way out, since globalization has taken over the whole world, and Xiao Zhan and tons of other Chinese, Korean, Thai, Filipino, etc actors, as happens in Hollywood, will be recognized almost everywhere. However, with the help of a good assistant and with a careful planning, I think that actors should privately escape for a while, from everything and recover some of that lost privacy. Unfortunately they cannot stay in Asia, to escape. They need to fly far away and stay in remote places wirh the less public possible. I really consider Xiao Zhan, and all actors for having to pass so much time of their lives like this. Be perseverant in building some private spaces for you. And.... You do not needvto accept every single acting project. Once in the semester.....just say "No" to a couple of drama offers and quietly vanish from everything to be yourself somewhere else in the planet, away from Asia. 😉❤
I have been debating whether to make a comment. But I would never trade my life in living a celebrity life. Or involve myself with a celebrity. They would crush your image real quick. I may live pay check to pay check. But at least.i can go wherever I want to go. I use to be jealous and get depressed watching how celebrities living a lavish life . Nice food,beautiful clothes, nice house nice cars. But now I have a completely different perspective view in terms of all I use to see the celebrities life. I feel sad Andy heart is sadden, to know that they all live in a prison. They are no longer living their life it's not theirs anymore to live. Someone owns their life. You have a choice to continue being a celebrity or find another career. But you will live in this prison if you choose celebrity world. This hate people will always be there. It will never change. You will always .have to live life in pins and needles . My heart feels for you , but I also see your seriously thinking about it and understanding how it is. It's up to you.but my prayers go out to you and mean it with all.ly heart. I have a very special chinese mongolian man I admire whole heartedly , A singer, that I pray he will never be hurt.but I also try not to get too obsessed with him. I do like xio. In the drama The wolf. Ahh.
In modul acesta este un blestem ,nu o binecuvântare. Plus de asta ,când admiri pe cineva, nu îl haituesti ( urmărești animalul la vânătoare).😢😢😢
XIAO ZHAN's fame and depriving his privacy is the same with the life of MICHAEL JACKSON
Please please leave the actors alone, let them do their job to entertain. You do not own them, they are human beings and deserve respect and support most of all freedom to live their lives as they see fit. Stop putting so much demands on them until they break and then it's too late. Please please I beg you I have seen too many suicides among celebs due to to ridiculous pressures.
My poor boy. As fans some of us do our fav a disservice. I mean what a life. Its absolutely mind boggling the way Xiao Zhan has to schedule his life. .i think he should retire and live on.
To answering you question…in the case of Xiao Zhan and not most other celebrities who are famous…for him I would say a CURSE. Why? If there are three most important factors in life that can make one truly happy is…peace, freedom and most importantly love. Which isn’t going to be easy for Zhan to attain, he may get superficial love from his adoring fans and sincere love from friends/family but in terms of romantic love it will be quite challenging but I’ll wait ❤ 😂😂😂👍🤭
Me too I’ll wait 🥰🥰🥰😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@marielouis9889 hey get in line! 🤣🤣🤣 Don’t worry Zhan even if your still single at 100 yrs old we still waiting 🤣
TBH... He has chosen this path and must have known what it would be like. He can step away at any time as I am sure he has made more than enough money.
Je suis fan de Xiao Zahn, comme je suis fan de d'autres acteurs et chanteurs. Etant française, je n'ai pas trop bien compris l'incident 227. Comment est il possible de détruire la carrière d'un artiste pour une vengeance personnelle ? Cela me dépasse. Un acteur, on aime ou on n'aime pas ses œuvres. La relation s'arrête là.
En Chine il est evident que les fans se melent de tout! C'est quelquechose d'incroyable. De toute facon a un moment donne il decidera de s'arreter pour resoudre sa vie personnelle, probablement a 35 ans comme il l'a deja declare. Donc il a un but bien defini. Esperons que rien ne le detourne de ce but.
J'espère pour lui que sa vie changera en 2026, comme il l'a toujours dit.
Can't he slow down the pace? Who forces him to sign so many contracts? He's already rich now!
Sad
I feel so sad for this young actor, he needs to take a year off.
He should take a break….
They like all the attention and people thinking they are some sort of God no-one is holding a gun to their heads they can walk away anytime.
They do all this for money 😂😂😂😂 it's insane
U kno nothing. U not on his side
Xiao Zhan is a great actor, very talented. But Chinese fans are obnoxious and rabid, oftentimes crossing the line.
Just blessing and curse both rolled in one. And it exist in all fields, that's the nature of law. Anyhow I'm obviously glad that zhan zhan chose entertainment or else I would have missed my luck of discovering his existence. I truly believe his positive soul will gravitate itself towards happiness and good things despite set backs at times.❤
Exactly and we'll said. That old saying the Price of Fame . But Xiao Zhan is well grounded because of how his parents raised him to be.