David Choe Remembers the Death of Anthony Bourdain

2020 ж. 30 Шіл.
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  • "You couldn't even show up for yourself." That line hit me so hard.

    @LarryPoppinsX@LarryPoppinsX3 жыл бұрын
    • That line hit me like a ton of bricks but boy did I need to hear it.

      @spalmer8398@spalmer83982 жыл бұрын
    • Yup that line played through my head multiple times today so i had to come back to this clip to hear the legend himself say it

      @uaintrecognizemehoe8128@uaintrecognizemehoe81282 жыл бұрын
    • I cried

      @TxCowboy713@TxCowboy7132 жыл бұрын
    • Yes, indeed. Hit me like a ton of bricks. David Choe does a great job of expressing a very complex emotion / situation better than I ever heard before. That's a keeper.

      @christopherh9173@christopherh91732 жыл бұрын
    • Don’t fail yourself

      @MarcusRoy@MarcusRoy2 жыл бұрын
  • Real human crying for his friend. I respect that

    @riogc3257@riogc32573 жыл бұрын
    • It hurts more when you've stared over that ledge and conquered it... yet still you couldn't help your friend.

      @aerochicc@aerochicc2 жыл бұрын
    • The dudes love over his friend really gave me an outlook on ones killing himself.

      @aleynamutlu4206@aleynamutlu42062 жыл бұрын
    • @@aerochicc stay strong

      @cripmac7580@cripmac75802 жыл бұрын
    • Yeah was pretty hard to watch that’s for sure.

      @Luke-rt9bx@Luke-rt9bx2 жыл бұрын
    • I still get upset and sad when I think about my friend who passed. I miss the bastard every fucking day.

      @kamenriderla4314@kamenriderla43142 жыл бұрын
  • As someone who always have suicidal thoughts, thank you David. You have shown how painful it will be for the people I love.

    @ramisrunning@ramisrunning9 ай бұрын
    • Love Rogan he means well and is a great mindset and positive guy. But do you think he understands this level of mental health like David and others

      @cam_-fn6cx@cam_-fn6cx9 ай бұрын
    • @cam_-fn6cx He seemed like a guy with strong mental health. He may be empathetic, but he doesnt get it 100%. But not his fault either.

      @ramisrunning@ramisrunning9 ай бұрын
    • @ramisrunning nothing wrong with it. I just feel like those people are off happier in life. Wonder how a life would be not having to deal with the intense and deep spectrum internally in mental health.

      @cam_-fn6cx@cam_-fn6cx9 ай бұрын
    • You have no idea of the pain that you would cause. You don't even have the ability to imagine it. I hope that you don't have kids, and if you do, I hope that they're enough of a reason for you to stick around, because I know they'd feel the same way if they knew what you're going through.

      @dpclerks09@dpclerks099 ай бұрын
    • @@cam_-fn6cxI think he does. Just because he doesn’t experience it himself, Joe is very empathetic and has lost friends, including Bordain. He’s an advocate for men’s mental health I believe.

      @asherweck@asherweck5 ай бұрын
  • This hits hard. One of my best friends took his life about 8 months after losing both his parents to a car accident. I remember him reaching out to me and telling me how miserable he was, and that there was nothing left in the world for him. He’d tell me time in time again that he didn’t want to live anymore. I tried so hard to keep from doing anything to harm himself. I cried for days, and it still bothers me to this day.

    @NinjaKiller1022@NinjaKiller1022 Жыл бұрын
    • I m so sorry for your loss

      @aurwood68@aurwood68 Жыл бұрын
    • Losing both parents in a car accident is tragic. So sad.

      @patrickmanway290@patrickmanway290 Жыл бұрын
    • I lost one of my best mates October last year killerninja I know what your going threw bro everytime you think of messaging them you remember you can't it takes time especially with suicide look after yourself bro hope all is well.

      @GAMER96252@GAMER96252 Жыл бұрын
    • @@GAMER96252 What frustrates me is their is people who have covid or cancer who are fighting just to stay alive. And then people just kill themselves willy nilly,

      @patrickmanway290@patrickmanway290 Жыл бұрын
    • I really hope you don't blame yourself at all, you did all you could do and were a true friend to him, it was his choice ultimately, I'm really sorry that happened.

      @watenallace663@watenallace663 Жыл бұрын
  • Without being sadistic, we need to see more public displays of grief and sadness to balance out the constant imagery of everyone being "happy".

    @JonathanRobinson11@JonathanRobinson113 жыл бұрын
    • Not Sadistic in the slightest sense bro, very introspective and honest.

      @guydutoit61@guydutoit613 жыл бұрын
    • 💯

      @kingjaymes100@kingjaymes1003 жыл бұрын
    • I completely agree, well said.

      @marcr-m1941@marcr-m19413 жыл бұрын
    • This should be the top comment, well said brother

      @Maru-ge6jn@Maru-ge6jn3 жыл бұрын
    • When I am president, it will be mandated that everyone cries in public for 1 hour a day.

      @seanmatthewking@seanmatthewking3 жыл бұрын
  • This is the best part of Rogans podcast. Men talking about mental health and opening up. This is why this podcast is so successful

    @AirlinerGold@AirlinerGold3 жыл бұрын
    • Hellz

      @Adam-hi9dh@Adam-hi9dh3 жыл бұрын
    • For sure

      @69belac@69belac3 жыл бұрын
    • He was murdered

      @tobysimmons449@tobysimmons4493 жыл бұрын
    • @@tobysimmons449 yeah man I agree

      @rjrulz327@rjrulz3273 жыл бұрын
    • Toby Simmons bourdain? If so, why?

      @eltigretv4135@eltigretv41353 жыл бұрын
  • I don’t feel grief for famous people when they die, but when Anthony died and especially the way he left actually made me really sad. Never felt that for a famous person, his passing was different. RIP to the ambassador of the world, Anthony Bourdain.

    @elmerllamas3792@elmerllamas37927 ай бұрын
    • "The way he left" How was that? I heard Killery Clinton was behind it because those two had a disagreement.

      @johneynon7018@johneynon70187 ай бұрын
    • true and with robin williams too

      @spanishjohn420@spanishjohn4206 ай бұрын
    • @@spanishjohn420 and with Joan Rivers

      @johneynon7018@johneynon70186 ай бұрын
    • It is weird most popular celebrities I do not care for whatsoever but when I saw Anthony for a school project that they showed me I instantly thought he was different and I am still not sure why. It is really sad that he took his life I don't know much about him but then when I first saw him I didn't know he killed himself for a while.

      @al-mungus677@al-mungus6774 ай бұрын
    • 100% same here. Whenever a famous person died, it's shocking but I never even feel sad. But when Anthony died, I re-watch a video of him eating with president Obama in my home country of Vietnam and i just weep...

      @topcow23@topcow2328 күн бұрын
  • David Choe is raw unfiltered honesty, to a point where it is unnerving.

    @tariqmohamed@tariqmohamed3 жыл бұрын
    • I love people like him.

      @thedubs4388@thedubs43883 жыл бұрын
    • seriously. He’s a rare breed

      @TehUltimateSnake@TehUltimateSnake3 жыл бұрын
    • TehUltimateSnake He’s not rare, just a phay goat.

      @OrangeDiamond33@OrangeDiamond333 жыл бұрын
    • It’s because when one grows up in an area where life isn’t all roses, humans begin to see what life really is like, which can lease people to either be real genuine and empathetic individuals or just the opposite - a person who lets hate and depression caused by their experiences take over them until it’s too late

      @abdips488@abdips4883 жыл бұрын
    • chima chibi exactly my point, society and media are 2 of the biggest pressures disjointing our natural human way of being empathetic, patient and loving individuals.

      @abdips488@abdips4883 жыл бұрын
  • That was so intense. David doesn’t know how many lives he just saved.

    @sensory_deprivation4126@sensory_deprivation41263 жыл бұрын
    • don jones he helped me gave me a good outlook on depression being an asian American and feeling exactly what David described spoke to me.

      @CaribouLuu@CaribouLuu3 жыл бұрын
    • @@donjones8073 It's ok, your parents didnt love you, many didnt.

      @user-ti9zc1xv2b@user-ti9zc1xv2b3 жыл бұрын
    • He’s being real. men have emotions other than apathy and anger. There’s a huge range of emotions that men don’t show, so when they do, I support it 100%

      @commonsensical9409@commonsensical94093 жыл бұрын
    • @don jones if you ever need a hug. I'm here.

      @Racing4Pinks@Racing4Pinks3 жыл бұрын
    • @@Racing4Pinks ? Why, he is dissing david

      @joeexotic7592@joeexotic75923 жыл бұрын
  • This clip is so powerful. You can really feel the pain in his heart when he goes to that place in his memory. We can only imagine how awesome AB was.

    @khalaka1160@khalaka11608 ай бұрын
  • Oh my god.........his emotional reaction Gripped my soul so hard. I had to take a moment and reset myself as well. We all have special lived ones who no longer are with us and we will never get over it. We can only hope to be able to live with it.. God bless

    @jesusfeliciano5543@jesusfeliciano5543 Жыл бұрын
  • Who ever is reading, I really needed this clip. I’ve been feeling suicidal the past couple months. I’m a social worker who helps people that are in crisis. They come to me for help. When David said something like “You killed somebody, yourself, when you’re helping so many others around you, you killed yourself.” My purpose is to help people who need my services. I cannot die. This clip gave me a lot of clarity.

    @EmilyRose-sy6mv@EmilyRose-sy6mv3 жыл бұрын
    • You are important and you are loved.

      @kieran6417@kieran64173 жыл бұрын
    • Stay Strong

      @tarik20@tarik203 жыл бұрын
    • Hang in there friend. Keep up the good work. World needs you.

      @ryu10000@ryu100003 жыл бұрын
    • Doing God's work you are, thank you for your service.

      @grievous5243@grievous52433 жыл бұрын
    • Me, too. Stay strong. Xxx

      @UKLady@UKLady3 жыл бұрын
  • This guy's grief is so raw and intense. Feel bad for him.

    @solomongabert6776@solomongabert67763 жыл бұрын
    • It seemed fake to me

      @gamecop2191@gamecop21913 жыл бұрын
    • I think he’s a phay goat

      @OrangeDiamond33@OrangeDiamond333 жыл бұрын
    • Im stoaked h can let it out and is sharing it .... and J gets it 👍👌✌

      @tlc5317@tlc53173 жыл бұрын
    • I suffer from severe PTSD and Severe anxiety and depression. I take 4 different meds everyday to keep it in check( for the most part). I been to 3 different rehabs from addiction to help dull the things that trigger me. If you know someone and they ever talk of suicide or let you know they are having a tough time. Please take is seriously. And try to help any way you can. Even if it is out of your way to do it. You can save someone from their selves. And even if it doesn't work at least you can always know you tried. These illnesses are invisible and are very diseiving.

      @MrMagic1515@MrMagic15153 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrMagic1515 What meds do you take?

      @taco2947@taco29473 жыл бұрын
  • Not in an evil way but it truly did feel refreshing seing another full grown man just break out into tears over a friend passing. This is going to help lots of young men

    @SocialismBad19@SocialismBad19 Жыл бұрын
    • Huh? Why do you think you would need to say or convey that (not in an evil way...)? Your comment after that cannot in any way be misconstrued as "evil". That's a weird thing to say before CLEARLY stating a completely empathetic comment.

      @jonathan_huerta@jonathan_huerta Жыл бұрын
    • @@jonathan_huerta Are you a goofball or what? I referenced a mans sadness and said it brought me joy. Pretty clear why I would clarify that I meant no harm. You need to get outside more bud. Get it together. Figure it out.

      @SocialismBad19@SocialismBad19 Жыл бұрын
    • @@SocialismBad19when you say it brought you joy, I must agree with the first guy that responded 😂😂 too far bro

      @jakebiggers9700@jakebiggers9700 Жыл бұрын
    • @@jakebiggers9700 You clearly don't even understand what Jonathan was saying then... he wasn't saying I "went too far" but quite the opposite actually. He was saying that I didn't need to clarify that I wasn't being empathetic. You're obviously a 7 year old

      @SocialismBad19@SocialismBad19 Жыл бұрын
    • @@SocialismBad19 I’m joking man

      @jakebiggers9700@jakebiggers9700 Жыл бұрын
  • Grown ass 39 year old man here... I just broke out in tears. But not for longer than 30 seconds. This exact experience just taught me about how unacceptable it is for adult men like me to feel things in the society we live.

    @JesseSwaney@JesseSwaney Жыл бұрын
    • just be the example of not giving a fuck how the society thinks about it and just cry until there is nothing left to cry on. It's the best thing you can do for yourself in that moment and to an extend, the best for your close network of people.

      @VittamarFasuthAkbin@VittamarFasuthAkbin Жыл бұрын
    • @@VittamarFasuthAkbin Great advice. Thank you.

      @JesseSwaney@JesseSwaney10 ай бұрын
    • Be strong🙏🏾

      @bennyanthro4891@bennyanthro489110 ай бұрын
    • Same here. But let it last as long as you need to brother. 30 seconds or 30 minutes. Crying is the soul cleansing itself of pain.

      @G_Ozare@G_Ozare9 ай бұрын
    • I cried openly in front of my buddies entire extended family (Irish catholic/ tough),at the dinner after his funeral and they looked at me with a mixture of confusion and shock. It’s sad that people thinks it’s strong to bury emotion

      @hemmygrant@hemmygrant8 ай бұрын
  • Being thrown into grief like that from a normal conversation is horrid. David made me tear up here 😢

    @Wodensdsy@Wodensdsy10 ай бұрын
  • Anthony Bourdains suicide really troubled me. He gave me hope for some reason about getting older and living life. What a loss

    @mazzy6559@mazzy65593 жыл бұрын
    • Amen

      @thelastboyscout6100@thelastboyscout61003 жыл бұрын
    • Very true. He taught me to live life and try new things. Gave me hope to get old, retire, and explore and try foods.

      @FrankieCoast@FrankieCoast2 жыл бұрын
    • Chris Cornell as well..he had everything. Smart, good looks, talented musician and singer, loving family, and a dream job. Looking back a lot of his lyrics foreshadowed depression & suicide. It's troubling that he had that in the back of his mind when he was young man and into his 50s. It never went away. Made me kind of lose hope knowing that darkness will always be there.

      @jasonablah7702@jasonablah77022 жыл бұрын
    • Definitely wasn’t suicide.

      @MikeSmith-qp2vt@MikeSmith-qp2vt2 жыл бұрын
    • Man yeah. He was truly an interesting guy.

      @user-cb2lz8yy9s@user-cb2lz8yy9s2 жыл бұрын
  • No need to apologize for your love and feelings, David. Stay strong brother.

    @zebvigil8068@zebvigil80683 жыл бұрын
    • Adam Rutherford STFU

      @PawtlandMusic@PawtlandMusic3 жыл бұрын
    • Adam Rutherford ignore your inner troll voice.We all have one but you’re not supposed to like being an asshole.

      @WisdomTooth1987@WisdomTooth19873 жыл бұрын
    • God this hit hard. As a young chef Bourdain was one of my heroes and the day he passed it was like a dark cloud had appeared in my life. I've struggled with "similar" things and people often comment on my need to care and be kind to others often at the expense of my own wellbeing. To hear this put into words by a friend of Bourdain really struck a nerve. Rest in peace Tony. A legacy never to be forgotten.

      @Russtick92@Russtick923 жыл бұрын
  • Mental health in men is real and its a major issue that we need to be talking about. It's not just military and I'm a Vet and went through all the tough times. Get help guys. Talk to someone. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

    @Mexican_Marauder@Mexican_Marauder Жыл бұрын
    • We're often our own worst enemies. And trust me, we don't need more enemies. It's just frustrating to see so many men struggle in today's society, and then you see people like Andrew Taint saying shit like "depression isn't real, just go work hard and buy a Bugatti" and so many young men see that and go "OMG YESSSSS THATS THE ANSWER! SIGMA MALE GRINDSET!!!!"

      @indalcecio@indalcecio Жыл бұрын
    • I have had a lot of those thoughts lately. Taking a bunch of sleeping pills or running the car in the garage

      @travisoshea@travisoshea Жыл бұрын
    • @@travisoshea don’t rob the world of yourself, man

      @seungkyeom@seungkyeom Жыл бұрын
    • @MrOshea81 yeah I had similar thoughts when I was low. Talk to someone about it. There are some apps that I used. They help with anxiety and depression. They have chat rooms where you can talk to people in similar situations. Try and replace negative thoughts with positive actions. I started getting houseplants. Or like an aquarium. Terrarium. Something to help focus on besides bad thoughts.

      @Mexican_Marauder@Mexican_Marauder Жыл бұрын
    • @@Mexican_Marauder what were the apps?

      @travisoshea@travisoshea Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve been depressed the last few month but stuff like this really hits home seeing him cry over his friend you mean more then you realize keep going.

    @joseph4043@joseph40437 ай бұрын
  • Rule 2: “Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping.”

    @kunipeg8706@kunipeg87063 жыл бұрын
    • - Professor Jordan B. Peterson.

      @Lion95@Lion953 жыл бұрын
    • This guy is talking sense and some dipshit wants him to call people with proper pro nouns

      @sammynochains3455@sammynochains34553 жыл бұрын
    • I need to listen to that advice

      @bobbyzwicharowski1129@bobbyzwicharowski11293 жыл бұрын
    • @Meow🐈 I can only do so because I know God loves me. Apart from him I am nothing and have nothing.

      @Lenin95@Lenin953 жыл бұрын
    • Comments like this are what I’ll miss when Joe moves to Spotify

      @youngthug149@youngthug1493 жыл бұрын
  • That was one of the realest moments in jre history

    @fullm3tal90@fullm3tal903 жыл бұрын
    • Fake and acting

      @cwstewartjr1973@cwstewartjr19733 жыл бұрын
    • Yes❤

      @Tiamat013@Tiamat0133 жыл бұрын
    • Dude, I literally stopped my shower to go back and watch this on here. Very powerful stuff.

      @HuleOCNC@HuleOCNC3 жыл бұрын
    • Russian Bot #19538532 name checks out

      @britbong1457@britbong14573 жыл бұрын
    • @@HuleOCNC then you wacked off to Toe Rogans bald head

      @cwstewartjr1973@cwstewartjr19733 жыл бұрын
  • Hearing the hurt in his voice and his genuine pain of losing someone who he loved truly hurts because I lost someone who I really loved as a brother and it haunts me to this day. The things Joe said about the what if’s are honestly the hardest thing to deal with on the day to day. Guys, it’s okay to ask for help. Ask for what you need. And if you don’t know what you need, please ask for what you think you need and go from there. The world needs you.

    @deathtouchltd@deathtouchltd Жыл бұрын
  • The way Joe sits there with 0 judgement and he is being strong yet vulnerable to the other person. It’s amazing

    @jacobwestfield3164@jacobwestfield3164 Жыл бұрын
  • “I can help everyone except myself” David Choe is powerful.

    @xxshotxx1@xxshotxx12 жыл бұрын
    • My life story. People ask me for advice but when I need to get myself going I give myself not so good advice or maybe I just don't listen to myself enough.

      @sirtakeiteazi@sirtakeiteazi10 ай бұрын
    • ​@@sirtakeiteaziditto

      @chefboiardeeznutz9881@chefboiardeeznutz98819 ай бұрын
    • @@chefboiardeeznutz9881 Ditto, Ive saved like a 1000 lives atleast, but i get sad every now and then and im like wtf. Im a life saviour just like jesus or god, but i cant make my self happy.

      @betterthancrabpeople@betterthancrabpeople8 ай бұрын
    • he was quoting anthony there

      @landonharward@landonharward6 ай бұрын
    • ​@landonharward And he said "im going to help everybody except for myself".

      @alberteinstein3078@alberteinstein30782 ай бұрын
  • He is sober and just broke out in tears like that, I don’t think any human other than the ones who have experienced this feeling themselves will be able to understand his pain.

    @miguelpena8133@miguelpena81332 жыл бұрын
    • I started crying as soon as he did. I cant say that I have anything bad going on in my life, got a wife, a daughter, a good job. And yet, I still feel this awful black hole in me. I've come to believe that, there's gotta be something wrong with my head, or maybe some of us just aren't meant to be alive. It just hurts so much.

      @TheDeatharcana@TheDeatharcana2 жыл бұрын
    • @@TheDeatharcana i dont mean to over sympathize but i feel exactly what you are saying. I dont think having kids or a partner or even any wealth or material determines if it is how you feel. I believe it is how we all live among eachother so selfishly, wreckless, and irresponsible and some of us can not operate like this without overwhelming stress. Especially knowing that there is a way we can all live together in prosperity having righteous and beneficial interactions every time we come across one another. Yet, here we are stuck and confused just sitting ducks making no attempt at reshaping our reality for the righteous prosperity of all life. I also couldn't help but break down as David Choe started to cry...other times when i have a break down it sounds real similar to Choe with the slight yell in frustration i gotta assume some of us are truly feeling the same.

      @james00711@james007112 жыл бұрын
    • @@TheDeatharcana I’ve never heard anyone else say that before but that’s how I feel too like some of us just aren’t meant to be alive, stay strong though brother sit through the bad times and live for the good times

      @odkm9629@odkm96292 жыл бұрын
    • @@james00711 that's how I break down as well. Sometimes I ended by laughing, mostly at my own misery.

      @TheDeatharcana@TheDeatharcana2 жыл бұрын
    • @@odkm9629 it's just about the only way I could describe my own personal struggles. But thank you, keep on keeping on as well 💪

      @TheDeatharcana@TheDeatharcana2 жыл бұрын
  • 3:45 where he gets emotional 🥹 and starts crying 😭 is so powerful, Joe Rogan is such a phenomenal podcast host!

    @calebtullos@calebtullos7 ай бұрын
  • I lost my younger brother to suicide. I’m struggling right now. And this video helps me feel like it’s ok to cry

    @jjcadwell8154@jjcadwell81546 ай бұрын
    • Twin brother went out to suicide over 20 years ago. Seems the only way to get past that stuff is to just not think about it anymore and move on with other parts of life that are positive... really no other way

      @smokemist1@smokemist16 ай бұрын
    • My heart goes out to you. How are you fairing? Thank you for sharing this

      @novakaya@novakaya6 ай бұрын
    • I've not given much thought to what my sibling will go through when I go, but we're not very close and he lives oceans away. Were you close with your brother? Sorry for your loss.

      @devonhughes6615@devonhughes66155 ай бұрын
    • Keep fucking holding on. Dont let go. I lost my brother to suicide too, I was his last call. I brought me to a dark place I didn't know existed. But that was 11 years ago now. Hang on I promise it doesn't get better but it gets easier.

      @jondoherty3116@jondoherty31164 ай бұрын
    • It's going to be okay 🖖♥️

      @lancedelorme78@lancedelorme782 ай бұрын
  • I was a dishwasher at Broken Spanish in Downtown L.A when Mr. Bourdain came to eat . I remember him coming to the kitchen and thanking not only thanking the chef but the whole kitchen brigade including myself . He shook all our hands and said “Thank you for a delicious meal’.He was a kind and humble person who genuinely cared for everyone. RIP Anthony Bourdain 😭

    @flavho@flavho3 жыл бұрын
    • He knew what it was to be a part of the team, he was there once, that's where he started, and he was humble enough to know, recognize it and apreciate everyone in that spot.

      @Neocoolzero@Neocoolzero3 жыл бұрын
    • I work in the restaurant industry and Bourdain is regarded as a god. He worked long, hard hours in shitty conditions to get to where he got. And the restaurant industry still mourns his passing. He was kind, he worked fucking hard and played hard. Truly an inspiration.

      @shrryph@shrryph3 жыл бұрын
    • That's funny I had a different memory of the guy. I saw Anthony at a grocery store in Los Angeles maybe in....2014 I wanna say? I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw him trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in his hands without paying. The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Sir, you need to pay for those first.” At first he kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter. When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, he stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, he kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

      @InAnotherLife90@InAnotherLife903 жыл бұрын
    • Jo Lil No copy pasta in this kitchen!!!

      @ughstupid@ughstupid3 жыл бұрын
    • kzhead.info/channel/RDpphdb0jqvh0.html&feature=share&playnext=1

      @FreeYoung_Minds@FreeYoung_Minds3 жыл бұрын
  • Probably the most realest part of JRE I've ever witnessed.

    @moosesnWoop@moosesnWoop3 жыл бұрын
    • Facts bro

      @Nickmh07@Nickmh073 жыл бұрын
  • This is what I like about podcasts. There's no fancy editing or turning the camera away. When there's an emotional moment, you see it, raw and unfiltered. And it's a beautiful thing.

    @RetroRuss@RetroRuss6 ай бұрын
  • This is why I will always have immense gratitude for the way my Dad raised us. He was really good at understanding how to teach his kids on how to deal with issues of the mind. He understood when it was the right time to have certain conversations and gave us to tools to overcome those problems. RIP Pops love you always!!!

    @LordIs2023@LordIs2023 Жыл бұрын
  • Jesus. I was not expecting that. When David cried, my body responded.

    @gergc4871@gergc48713 жыл бұрын
    • @L W No. I'm not into Asian dudes crying.

      @gergc4871@gergc48713 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @cgggg5988@cgggg59883 жыл бұрын
    • I was driving at the time. It made me cry. I will feel this for the rest of my life.

      @Racing4Pinks@Racing4Pinks3 жыл бұрын
    • Yoga 4 Life I laughed. I’m going to hell

      @BasedRoots@BasedRoots3 жыл бұрын
    • Alex H mistaken... I think it was a shart he experienced

      @abdips488@abdips4883 жыл бұрын
  • When he said “you couldn’t even stand up for yourself”, he felt like he was talking to himself and it hit the core.

    @edwinguzman8198@edwinguzman81983 жыл бұрын
    • I don’t think so, he’s angry at him for making him sad. He then went on to blame society for not teaching how to ask for and receive help. This guy is a mental child, with great capacity, with no coping mechanism. Always looking for external fixes. Nothing else can fix you, but yourself with some guidance and possibly medication.

      @adamniswonger8015@adamniswonger80153 жыл бұрын
    • This is the best Joe Rogan moment 🔥 kzhead.info/sun/rLqclJqRmYWddXk/bejne.html

      @JohnDoe-ty5cs@JohnDoe-ty5cs3 жыл бұрын
    • Adam Niswonger there’s something that people don’t realize. With the over saturation of social media and the validation that people seek through all these avenues (FB, IG,TikTok, Snap, etc.) that they no longer can exist in the “REAL” world. They exist in the world they’ve created and find there isn’t anything satisfying outside of it. A lot of what’s going on in this country is because people FEEL their perception has value. When they find out that it’s their own view but not everyone values it, they lose their minds, get offended, go for their pound of flesh, etc. Realizing your on THAT island and then trying to escape is extremely hard. You’ve essentially marooned yourself and facing up to that is almost too much to handle. Whether it’s fame, work, attention, etc.

      @ILuCkYxCh4rMz@ILuCkYxCh4rMz3 жыл бұрын
    • E A totally agreed. I work in healthcare and can echo that “Finally” thought Choe touched on. When you make that connection for people it’s almost visible when they feel someone listening to them. People can say they’ll be there for you but you can’t be inside their own heads. When people lose that, that’s when the darkness comes for them. I believe Bourdain finally succumbed to it in a moment of weakness and based on the anger in Choe, he’s most likely seen it firsthand. Mental health is super important, but is so undervalued by society.

      @ILuCkYxCh4rMz@ILuCkYxCh4rMz3 жыл бұрын
    • Those who’ve almost hit that point of giving up before i think understood that exact thing. You’re absolutely right

      @jesserichey9348@jesserichey93483 жыл бұрын
  • Man this really hit home with me. I've had so many friends that have died from intentional suicides and accidental overdoses, and have had those haunting thoughts for myself as well.. mental health is nothing to be joked about, and it's very refreshing to see a grown man break down like this. I feel his pain I truly do, God bless him. Every time I feel like offing myself I just listened to stories like this and I remind myself that it is irreversible, and everybody that I leave behind will be in pain for the rest of their lives.

    @onthefasttracktoheaven@onthefasttracktoheaven Жыл бұрын
  • Bourdain was so respectful anywhere he went and his story telling was deep. You can feel his melancholy and introspection. RIP

    @m31sprincesa62@m31sprincesa627 ай бұрын
  • David's sudden breakdown talking about Bourdain was partly grieving for him, and mostly David facing his own demons as he empathizes with what Bourdain went through before he took his own life.

    @jff757@jff7572 жыл бұрын
    • Well said

      @aaronmadrigal4626@aaronmadrigal46262 жыл бұрын
    • Best response yet

      @barryhartshorne4513@barryhartshorne45132 жыл бұрын
    • yeah that's what happens when you try to repress that shit and keep a lid on it. It just snaps on you and you can't help but cry. You're holding the wolf by the ears, knowing you can't let go or it will tare you apart.

      @b.elzebub9252@b.elzebub92522 жыл бұрын
    • @@b.elzebub9252 frightening

      @ffnovice7@ffnovice72 жыл бұрын
    • Yes

      @jimmasterson7143@jimmasterson71432 жыл бұрын
  • His death really hit me hard. This man was 44 years old, dunking fries for like $120 a paycheck, behind on rent, IRS on his ass, a drug addict, and found a way. And to find out through all his perseverance and success that he was still miserable was just absolutely heartbreaking.

    @JReece3000@JReece30002 жыл бұрын
    • He didn’t kill himself

      @leonardplanckiii998@leonardplanckiii9982 жыл бұрын
    • @@leonardplanckiii998 wdym yes he did?

      @alexthomas7923@alexthomas79232 жыл бұрын
    • @@alexthomas7923 only the ones awake know why he was killed ask the Clintons

      @leonardplanckiii998@leonardplanckiii9982 жыл бұрын
    • @@leonardplanckiii998 dude don’t spread that conspiracy bullshit, he’s fucking dead just let him rest. he was depressed and pretty open about it in his work, and as terrible as the clinton’s are they had nothing to do with it or most of the bullshit you nut jobs try to tie them too. most of all, it’s disrespectful as hell to bourdain

      @alexthomas7923@alexthomas79232 жыл бұрын
    • @@alexthomas7923 yes you are. Not a conspiracy. Stop spreading disinformation.

      @leonardplanckiii998@leonardplanckiii9982 жыл бұрын
  • I just found out about Anthony bourdain and I’ve been really enjoying his parts unknown series. Literally was so into it. He has a super funny and relaxed personality, and I thought he was enjoying his life. When I wanted to look for more of his videos, his suicide was the first thing that came up. I’m completely shocked that he was so hurt on the inside.

    @henryxxa6196@henryxxa6196 Жыл бұрын
    • A Cook's Tour. kzhead.info/channel/PLJPiFgqFPZT0K0TgctvftlS1l6gTRMdJn.html No Reservations. A whole series for sale on KZhead. Parts Unknown. kzhead.info/channel/PLief0NBBQW46UWbnLUP5UITpixwZWbp4J.html

      @lesevesel2898@lesevesel28989 ай бұрын
    • Typically, the happy ppl pleasing type of persons are the ones that are hurting the most because they know how much it hurts to not be treated right.

      @hi_motos9809@hi_motos98095 ай бұрын
  • The girl that I loved, committed sui*ide the night before I wanted to tell her how much I love her, I was so nervous that I couldn't sleep all night, then in morning to school, I saw people mourning. I haven't recovered from this, I don't know if I ever will, she was so perfect, so beautiful, so caring. I wanted to cry so bad but my tears won't come out.

    @devenderadhingia1014@devenderadhingia1014 Жыл бұрын
    • Im so so so sorry. Wow

      @tnago916@tnago916 Жыл бұрын
    • I don't know what else to say other than I'm so sorry for what you've gone through and are currently going through. Wishing you nothing but peace of mind and healing🌻

      @24-karat-plonker@24-karat-plonker Жыл бұрын
    • strenght and compassion to your path where ever it takes. I know why tears don't fall. Because there are other strong states of the mind that require dealing with also: high disbelief/ symptoms of leaving the body(high stress symptom),anger and other strong things like grudge against something. Many things can block access to relief. I wish you luck on finding the path to ease the pain of many things.

      @C1Mastermaukka@C1Mastermaukka3 ай бұрын
  • props to joe for handling the tough moment extremely well. nothing but support david we love you

    @97vikingfreak@97vikingfreak3 жыл бұрын
    • K C read the room man not now

      @l30URN3@l30URN33 жыл бұрын
    • mrpoop123 hopefully you find a room one day in Vegas with a balcony... make sure to blow all your money on crap first before you head back to your room.

      3 жыл бұрын
    • vicefulder hmm, from my perspective it was not only justified but witty all at once lol

      3 жыл бұрын
    • Joe is a fantastic host

      @semconexao8119@semconexao81193 жыл бұрын
    • It was both brave of David to show that side of himself and also thoughtful of Joe to talk about his own experiences with suicide. He must have wanted to cry too.

      @monietz@monietz3 жыл бұрын
  • I sat in a prison cell and went all around the world with Anthony Bourdain. He took me away when I needed it, most. Now Im free and I got a passport and I take him with me. Never knew him but none the less miss him. Was the coolest dude!

    @fromagperspective9428@fromagperspective94283 жыл бұрын
    • Amazing

      @neilgeckle6061@neilgeckle60613 жыл бұрын
    • This is the best Joe Rogan clip 🔥 kzhead.info/sun/rLqclJqRmYWddXk/bejne.html 🔥

      @lamarjackson8630@lamarjackson86303 жыл бұрын
    • This is the realist shit I have ever read.

      @xx12elliott12xx@xx12elliott12xx3 жыл бұрын
    • Amazing!! Good for you!! I hope you continue to travel wherever your heart desires

      @ginjay4448@ginjay44483 жыл бұрын
    • Sending you love for a big bright future man 🦋

      @jennycoyle8204@jennycoyle82043 жыл бұрын
  • This was so emotional to watch. He had so many good friends. So sad. He helped everyone and loved everyone except for himself. That was so deep! I always like watching Anthony talk because he was so real. But in the end his heart was broken. 😔. But I feel he leaves a legacy of hard work, teaching moments and adventures in places I will never be able to visit. I am happy he has a child in this world.

    @jennyferrios245@jennyferrios24511 ай бұрын
  • I love joe.. sitting there wanting to cry but because david is shedding alot of tears I'm sure joe is thinking I'm gonna keep it together for david and be his shoulder right now. Ive been there alot its hard ❤

    @robhick9575@robhick9575 Жыл бұрын
  • Kudos to Joe for just letting him cry and not trying to fill the silence with empty words of consolation. And kudos to Jamie for just leaving the camera on David during the silence.

    @CubFlanagan@CubFlanagan3 жыл бұрын
    • Kudos?

      @tomson3046@tomson30463 жыл бұрын
    • @@tomson3046 it means respect or praise, I think it's a Greek word

      @danielclark-hughes692@danielclark-hughes6923 жыл бұрын
    • Watching it I have a different take. Joe jumped on the opportunity to say how well he knew him when he really didn’t outside of interviews. Also trying to one up him by telling him he knew people that have killed themselves.

      @noahziegler3478@noahziegler34783 жыл бұрын
    • Jamie was obviously high af

      @JHer-wd3js@JHer-wd3js3 жыл бұрын
    • @@noahziegler3478 I don’t think he was necessarily trying to one up him , I think he was just trying to empathize with him by saying he knows how it feels to lose someone you care about to suicide.

      @femmelunar8921@femmelunar89212 жыл бұрын
  • Heavy, Joe is so good at letting people speak but at the same time saying the right thing when they need it most.

    @caneface87@caneface873 жыл бұрын
    • @garin fl ...true and its not always easy to say the right thing when someone is hurting. All you can do is try your best and that's all Joe was trying to do. Not sure why people would criticize that.

      @ScottH.@ScottH.3 жыл бұрын
    • Wayne Gale yeah there were a couple moments in this episode where joe gave his opinion and his intentions were good but the advice was like oh god. Like him telling Choe exercise will fix things like he always says ha

      @Adam-ub4hb@Adam-ub4hb3 жыл бұрын
  • lost one of my best friends last week to apparent suicide after crashing the family car and worrying about what his parents would think. just sucks. not a day goes by without me thinking about him. he was only 22. man every time i see his mom she would start crying very badly saying she goes to his room everyday just grieving. not easy watching her go through this at all. no parent should ever have to witness their kids die.

    @qcfoh2085@qcfoh20852 ай бұрын
  • Very powerful. I struggle with depression and suicidal ideation. If you need help, it is available.

    @breadfan262@breadfan2623 ай бұрын
  • Bourdain lived and embodied the quote, “They may forget your name, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”.

    @americanlibertarian8967@americanlibertarian89673 жыл бұрын
    • Carl Ruiz ?

      @nickcabrera3087@nickcabrera30873 жыл бұрын
  • When Choe cried, he cried for all of us that adored the man.

    @EnragedTofu@EnragedTofu3 жыл бұрын
    • Amen

      @samcornford3743@samcornford37433 жыл бұрын
    • Truth

      @Adonis300@Adonis3003 жыл бұрын
    • Facts

      @aidansyracuse3338@aidansyracuse33383 жыл бұрын
    • Taylor Lemoine PRICK

      @SwP_1986@SwP_19863 жыл бұрын
    • Taylor Lemoine fair enough, strange sense of humour though

      @SwP_1986@SwP_19863 жыл бұрын
  • My best friend passed away unexpectedly and naturally at 37. 7 months later it's still the hardest thing I've ever been through. Losing someone close you don't expect to lose and you have future plans with is hard. Harder than my mom, harder than my grandparents... Probably the biggest shocks and one of the hardest things I've dealt with. I'm the same. I'd prefer not to talk about him to avoid the issues I need to work through.

    @officialdavidhuffman@officialdavidhuffman Жыл бұрын
    • stay strong friend

      @Lajki@Lajki Жыл бұрын
    • @@Lajki thanks brother.

      @officialdavidhuffman@officialdavidhuffman Жыл бұрын
    • Hope you're well David

      @G_Ozare@G_Ozare9 ай бұрын
    • @@G_Ozare thank you. Definitely a lot better but I was in a gnarly place for a long time.

      @officialdavidhuffman@officialdavidhuffman9 ай бұрын
    • Naturally at 37 from what?

      @bean7039@bean70396 ай бұрын
  • Suicide doesn’t end the pain, it just passes it on to someone else.

    @jdubs604@jdubs604 Жыл бұрын
  • When you’ve lost someone this hits hard

    @coastsmokin8252@coastsmokin82523 жыл бұрын
    • Right 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔☹

      @kellygreen8882@kellygreen88823 жыл бұрын
    • Was best said in Good Will Hunting. "True loss happens when you lose someone you love more than you love yourself."

      @hardleecure@hardleecure3 жыл бұрын
    • Addiction is a real issue and not just a substance deal...at least for me.

      @kestrel1234@kestrel12343 жыл бұрын
    • Yeah i felt that hit my soul. I was in his shoes when my best friend ended his life. I was angry that he did that when things were just getting better.. ugh.. he couldn't even show up for himself. That one stung when he said it.

      @R.J.MacReady1982@R.J.MacReady19823 жыл бұрын
    • @PED GSP nope. that's my thumbs up bud.

      @hardleecure@hardleecure3 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you Choe. I’m glad someone as real as you is crying unashamedly on JRE, I fucking loved Bourdain. He changed the course of my life. I became a cook because of him. I moved to Vietnam because of him, I now live in Puebla where his friend Carlos - R.I.P., from Les Halles hailed from. I also got off junk because he was so open about his experiences and always firmly held the middle finger up to anyone who would judge.

    @bg6012@bg60123 жыл бұрын
    • In which Puebla? Puebla Mexico?

      @Microbit0@Microbit03 жыл бұрын
    • A man? Crying? On a national podcast as popular as JRE? 2020 isn’t so bad after all... done with the stigma of guys having to be “tough”

      @rondarby9999@rondarby99993 жыл бұрын
    • the people who killed him need to be punished

      @deathom4505@deathom45053 жыл бұрын
    • It's okay to cry people, who tells you otherwise can f**k right off honestly.

      @MSF93@MSF933 жыл бұрын
    • Admit it, you have a shrine.

      @user-sm4fp2jo1o@user-sm4fp2jo1o3 жыл бұрын
  • This conversation needs to be had more worldwide. Such true emotions and words. Prioritise yourselves people. It’s not selfish to love yourself and care for yourself. Very emotional.

    @houseofoddity2031@houseofoddity2031 Жыл бұрын
  • As a chef myself with addiction problems im currently hiding this has genuinely hit me hard... unfortunately you just cant save anyone that doesnt want to save themselves and i can only tell people who have tried, you cant hold it against yourselves. You did exactly what YOU could! The victim needs to do what THEY can. Also... sometimes everything goes great but you still get that phonecall. Success and vices can destroy even the strongest of men in utter silence

    @pungency101@pungency1019 ай бұрын
  • This podcast hit me hard. My dad committed suicide and ive lived with guilt and anger and depression. Depression is a serious disease, and losing someone you love to suicide is such hopeless feeling. David Choe is real, and this podcast was like therapy to me. Thank you

    @seanshaw9900@seanshaw99003 жыл бұрын
    • Sorry for your loss, hope you’re still doing okay

      @pursebey73@pursebey733 жыл бұрын
    • Same man, I was 7 when I lost mine. I wanted to let you know that we aren’t alone in this.

      @sharlo1706@sharlo17063 жыл бұрын
    • Suicide is a bitch. My mom’s dad did it. The guy took his own life 12 years before I was even born, and yet it has colored a part of my life. It deeply affected my mom, and thus my younger brother and myself. You hurt people who aren’t even born yet. My brother described to me this thing (think it is Japanese) where this culture believes that demons can infect families. It’s how tragedy can be passed down through the generations of a family. I guess suicide is one of the main themes of this concept. The only way to kill the demon once and for all is to break the fucking cycle.

      @alexbaum2204@alexbaum22043 жыл бұрын
    • This thread is what I needed to read. I really struggle with life sometimes, I've almost killed myself a few times. I still struggle with it from time to time, but I have a 6 yr old daughter and another on the way. Sometimes I wish I could end it, but I know I can't. I'd just be passing on the suffering to those innocent girls. Seeing what everyone has said on this thread makes me see I can't even entertain the idea anymore.

      @noneofyourbusiness5433@noneofyourbusiness54333 жыл бұрын
    • I'm sorry man. I know of a sort of pain. My father committed suicide also and I've always felt the survivors guilt and being in a place where I could've helped.

      @HKNative217@HKNative2173 жыл бұрын
  • I walked into a dive bar in south San Diego when I was stationed at Pendleton about 7 years ago and Tony was in there alone. I was already a huge fan and approached him just to thank him for his work. He ended up talking to me for an hour and a half and bought all my drinks. Truly a wonderful and grounded man. RIP Tony.

    @johnnyregs2378@johnnyregs23783 жыл бұрын
    • What dive bar was it? Thank you for your service John Regan.

      @fromthefuture9728@fromthefuture97283 жыл бұрын
    • "Tony" LoL

      @KennyMcCormick99@KennyMcCormick993 жыл бұрын
    • Nice. I live 2 min from Pendleton

      @drewp1974@drewp19743 жыл бұрын
    • I would be my salary that your comment isn't true

      @siriusblack7714@siriusblack77143 жыл бұрын
    • Adrian Drew Podcast oside

      @ogspermcell@ogspermcell3 жыл бұрын
  • As someone who struggles with suicidal thoughts & has had them since my early childhood, its healing to see him cry over this. It makes the pain id cause my loved ones real. Keeps me from going down that road …

    @deanjean7792@deanjean77926 ай бұрын
  • This hits different especially when you have a loved one that has past away... The honest truth & answer is God & love †

    @MN-of8rk@MN-of8rk9 ай бұрын
  • David is real, there is no shame in that, because he is 100% himself. 💯 respect

    @MyLife-og2kr@MyLife-og2kr3 жыл бұрын
    • Well said !!! Stay strong David 💪🏼

      @mitchlopez7242@mitchlopez72423 жыл бұрын
    • @Bug Eater are you one of them social justice warriors who looks at a person now and judge them from 10 years ago? It sure seems like it to me.

      @MyLife-og2kr@MyLife-og2kr3 жыл бұрын
    • @Bug Eater he knew he had a problem. He knows that he needed to change, but whatever and however his willpower was, he just couldn't. He said he went to AA meetings even though he was never an alcoholic just to get shit off his head to becoming a better man. He attended multiple therapy sessions. You're an sjw who's sour all the time, because this Asian guy who is still trying to better himself once had multiple women and you probably couldn't get one LOL. To that it must suck to suck. 🤭✌

      @MyLife-og2kr@MyLife-og2kr3 жыл бұрын
    • so this is what we call a mentally unstable person! Stop blowing him up , he is clearly disturbed

      @netjiesgolf@netjiesgolf3 жыл бұрын
    • @@netjiesgolf u have no idea but the key is he is working on it everyday...you would be surprised at how many people struggle most keep it inside...u should thank him for being honest...maybe someone will relate and understand that life is too precious to give up

      @chef.4203@chef.42033 жыл бұрын
  • The way David described Anthony reminds me of that LOTR’s quote: “I give hope to men. I keep none for myself.”

    @by.adam.b@by.adam.b3 жыл бұрын
    • aj barker1 Jesus that’s a tough thing to say

      @SebastianRamirez-sm7zp@SebastianRamirez-sm7zp3 жыл бұрын
    • Damn!

      @lumapas@lumapas3 жыл бұрын
    • You're gonna carry that weight, space cowboy.

      @sockmon1@sockmon13 жыл бұрын
    • beautiful expression

      @natebooth1654@natebooth16543 жыл бұрын
    • Who said that?

      @IKIGAIofficial@IKIGAIofficial3 жыл бұрын
  • I feel you Choe. I’m crying. So sorry Babe. My heart sends you hugs. Anthony Bourdain I get him- it knocked me so far down too. (Same issues with people got me hurt ) Made me sick. I’m still suffering but fighting day by day as it’s a gift to be here even just to remember the ones I have lost. Hurts so bad. Live for them. ❤️

    @kittyvenom4883@kittyvenom4883 Жыл бұрын
  • I just came across this and totally understand the emotions here. When you lose someone you love to suicide, it’s not like anything you can imagine. The sadness mixes with the anger, then guilt, back to sadness and it never ends. I’d never wish it on my worst enemy 💔

    @Changeiscoming47@Changeiscoming47 Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve never seen the dissonance between anger and sadness regarding suicide spoken about in such clear terms before

    @mrogs12@mrogs123 жыл бұрын
    • Fucking facts.

      @skyepaul261@skyepaul2613 жыл бұрын
    • mrogs12 the anger is selfishness

      @Stierenkloot@Stierenkloot3 жыл бұрын
    • well said.

      @bbenb1627@bbenb16273 жыл бұрын
  • As someone that's been struggling heavy with suicidal thoughts when he broke down I did too. It made me really think about the fact that I'd be putting other people into pain like that

    @JoshuaRossYT@JoshuaRossYT2 жыл бұрын
    • Live for just you my friend! Everyone else is secondary but very important.

      @richardsong6172@richardsong61722 жыл бұрын
    • Hope your still here! God loves you and your not alone

      @Sarcasmtomasksadness@Sarcasmtomasksadness2 жыл бұрын
    • I hope you’re in a better place friend. Sending all my love.

      @memedewd1508@memedewd15082 жыл бұрын
    • And it's similar to the way I have cried too. Lack of breathing, headache, and gasps of air.

      @PabloCruise91@PabloCruise912 жыл бұрын
    • Just take month by month or week by week and that too far to think then Day by day. Tough time will pass and brighter days will come. That’s how I deal with my depression. Hope that helps you. 💕

      @hue9962@hue99622 жыл бұрын
  • I needed to cry for my sister for my brother for my mama my aunt my ma. I miss them all and they all struggled w mental health. Blessed are the peacemakers.

    @lashaesmith3440@lashaesmith3440 Жыл бұрын
  • The way he tried to say "I'm fine" before breaking down and sobbing man 😢 damnit I've never wanted to reach through a screen in hug another person so badly in my life

    @dupes6248@dupes62489 ай бұрын
  • One of the saddest moments in JRE history.

    @luckyasmr1374@luckyasmr13743 жыл бұрын
    • Damn bruh I was trying to have my 420 smoke break and watch a nice little JRE clip and chill, now I’m over here baked and crying... damn that’s some deep and sad shit.

      @Beantown85@Beantown853 жыл бұрын
    • I know dude! I can't believe he's culturally appropriating white people with all that blonde hair either! #Iwantmyreparations #leaveblondehairalone

      @thehalokidster@thehalokidster3 жыл бұрын
    • Damn

      @barebp@barebp3 жыл бұрын
    • I think joe rogan doesnt matter how much money he has he ll always stay helpful nice humble

      @sahpi0175@sahpi01753 жыл бұрын
    • @@skydivemaniac 🤣

      @MrJamesdryable@MrJamesdryable3 жыл бұрын
  • Seeing him cry is cathartic, i don’t know why so... i guess his tears just made feel less lonely. Take care peeps

    @war66mattam93@war66mattam933 жыл бұрын
  • To any of my brothers out there suffering don’t give up. I’ve been to the darkest darkest places in my mind and wanted to just end everything but remember it’s better to live in pain then to inflict it on those we love and we have to use r pain for progress so we beat are mental problems. I’m coming through my issues now thankfully but it’s still tough and I’ve got a long way to go still but if you keep trying to live and make sure everyday you do something worthwhile I promise you things will get better because I’ve been where you are. Have faith❤

    @tafadambaza6158@tafadambaza6158 Жыл бұрын
  • It’s very cool that Choe opened up like that and I hope for the best. Remember that life is suffering and that through purpose and sacrifice we can make life meaningful and beautiful.

    @andrewsiegel2950@andrewsiegel2950 Жыл бұрын
  • The most real moment I've ever seen on the JRE. Brought tears to my eyes. That, my friends, is real love and loss.

    @briancox7875@briancox78752 жыл бұрын
    • How low the podcast has gotten, it could have gone someplace else

      @aakoss@aakoss2 жыл бұрын
    • @@aakoss His podcast is great. Sucks you believe the MSM. Maybe you can get grip one day

      @moappleseider1699@moappleseider16992 жыл бұрын
    • ​@@aakoss The dude just had Roger Waters on.. I'd say it's still pretty great.

      @juicybiscuit527@juicybiscuit527 Жыл бұрын
  • I cried when David cried, I feel like we all lost something really special when Anthony died. I hope he's at peace 💜💜💜💜💜💜

    @girl123interrupted@girl123interrupted3 жыл бұрын
    • I watch the old reruns of "A Cook's Tour" and at the end of every episode, I always end up thinking the same thing - "Shit, the world really is a lesser place without this guy in it anymore..."

      @jdoedoenet@jdoedoenet3 жыл бұрын
    • So true

      @jaybee8148@jaybee81483 жыл бұрын
    • That's right Aubrey

      @alexl.4362@alexl.43623 жыл бұрын
    • He had me in tears. The people you leave behind to pick up the pieces & to think every day if there was something different they could have done to save his/her lives. Very sad.

      @187pennywise@187pennywise3 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @ingenuity168@ingenuity1683 жыл бұрын
  • When I was young I never thought during those blissful times that id ever struggle w/anything like what David Cho mentions, but I have. So courageous of him to come on here so candidly I feel u brother.

    @PhoenixBaseBaller@PhoenixBaseBaller Жыл бұрын
  • Awwww I feel this to my soul So many of us are fkng BROKEN and we fight and it's day to day moment by moment.....and then you're doing just what you did David.....trying to help those we love and then they check themselves out it's fuking devastating!!! Bourdain was beloved by so many I know I cried when he checked out. And I was merely a fan....God I Pray His Soul has found the peace he was unable to find in this life...

    @chercucci9993@chercucci9993 Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve lost a friend to suicide a few years back. I recently lost my older brother and mother within a year of each other. There is no shame in crying.

    @doomedthunder6638@doomedthunder66383 жыл бұрын
    • DoomedThunder66 I’m so sorry for your loss brother and what you say is true 🙏

      @BuddhaSunn@BuddhaSunn3 жыл бұрын
    • It feels like a too late situation. Like we could have done something to prevent that but we have no idea how easy or hard that would really be. But I could have done nothing about my grandmother... I tried everything I could, but my mother managed to prevent much of what I tried.

      @chicxulub2947@chicxulub29473 жыл бұрын
    • DoomedThunder66 pain shared is pain lessoned

      @jaredmello@jaredmello3 жыл бұрын
    • Sorry for your loss man. Losing people that close is so hard.

      @MrDavital1@MrDavital13 жыл бұрын
    • Sorry for your loss, how do you keep hold of yourself in that situation? I think I'd fall apart in your shoes.

      @Xarkom89@Xarkom893 жыл бұрын
  • This gets me everything. Its very clear that David needed to get this out and so glad Joe gave him that outlet. Wish Anyhony had gotten real help cause he was one stand-up guy. RIP A.B.

    @spalmer8398@spalmer83983 жыл бұрын
    • Damn spellcheck

      @spalmer8398@spalmer83982 жыл бұрын
    • You’re all good bro. Beautiful

      @leonchalita2169@leonchalita21692 жыл бұрын
    • Stand up guy? He use to fuk his friends wives.

      @fvgc454ss@fvgc454ss Жыл бұрын
  • 3:33 after what he said I started to cry. All my life I felt like I was alone. I never felt loved or worthy for anyone just the way I am, neither for my parents or my friends. I felt betrayed by the world and that’s why I hated everyone, including me just for who I was. Because I felt unworthy und unloved. For me I tought that no one was perfect and thats totally fine and right so but yet they had their family‘s who loved and accepted them for who they were. I felt miserable not having that. I was only accepted when I delivered, in school, sports and so on… That‘s when I learned that at the end of the day, I will always have me and only me. I wanted to prove everyone wrong, that I was someone. So I swore to myself that I will never talk something right because I couldn‘t handle the truth. I promised myself that I would never lie to myself about how things are and were. Because I knew that no one was going to help me and if I let myself down, they won. I knew the biggest disrespect in my life could only come from myself if I failed me. And by living by that motto, I started to accept myself and eventually also to love myself. The reason why I cried when I heard him talk is that I felt it and knew what he was talking about. He saw the things as they were and he didn‘t wanted to tell him that everything was just going to be fine and you are fine the way you are like some people do when they try to condole someone. I love him for saying that because I know he was not trying to be mean, he was trying to reach him emotionally. That‘s how I talk with my friends when they come and talk with me about their problems. I try to tell it as it is. Wisdom is good but as long as you don‘t feel what the words are trying to say to you, they are only going to be words. Thank you for reading.

    @SlSiva-lz6qy@SlSiva-lz6qy Жыл бұрын
    • 💙🖤🙏

      @LerionkaLekipaika@LerionkaLekipaika Жыл бұрын
    • Hope your doing well.♥

      @G_Ozare@G_Ozare9 ай бұрын
  • I can so relate to this I had tears rolling down my face it's sometimes hard asking for help cause we don't want to feel weak or embarrassed or a burden to others but what saved me was giving my life to Jesus it was a big lift off my shoulders that he had my back so I feel for you brother God bless

    @GavinHeka-ki5np@GavinHeka-ki5np7 ай бұрын
  • Grief is such a complex thing, I was so angry at my brother for dying and angry at myself for being angry at him. My heart goes out to everyone who is suffering. Just know you don't suffer alone. ❤

    @tabathaelliott5590@tabathaelliott55902 жыл бұрын
    • Uh yeah you do. You also die alone.

      @Biscuit9891@Biscuit98912 жыл бұрын
    • @@Biscuit9891 everyone suffers, everyone dies, everyone is born..so I understand you're perspective but I do not share it.

      @tabathaelliott5590@tabathaelliott55902 жыл бұрын
    • Sorry for your loss ❤️

      @benoneill5550@benoneill5550 Жыл бұрын
    • @@tabathaelliott5590 It must be a sad life never having felt a love so pure that its eternal absence fails to make you grieve. Don't cut yourself on that edge.

      @charlesgray7072@charlesgray70729 ай бұрын
  • This is why cable TV will never survive moving forward. None of it has ever been as genuine as moments like these.

    @JPLD@JPLD3 жыл бұрын
    • Yes...when Geraldo opened Al Capone safe....that was exactly the same and deep

      @abelesser69@abelesser693 жыл бұрын
  • It’s just a terrible mix of emotions when a friend takes their own life. You’re angry not only at yourself but also at them for giving up, but in the end u just wanna see them again.

    @BeeBumble24@BeeBumble24 Жыл бұрын
  • Imagine being the people dealing with that and no money, fame, or support

    @andrew9145@andrew91453 жыл бұрын
    • Andrew Munro underrated comment

      @pope4106@pope41063 жыл бұрын
    • It's a long hard road.

      @TechnicJunglist@TechnicJunglist3 жыл бұрын
    • I'm sorry stay strong in this evil world🌎

      @myungkwak0311@myungkwak03113 жыл бұрын
    • @@pope4106 agreed

      @JonnyUnderrated@JonnyUnderrated3 жыл бұрын
    • It’s worse when you’re rich and famous, because you have no hope, because it’s already as good as it gets. When you’re poor you have the hope that things can get better. When you’re rich, but still miserable you know there is no hope.

      @obiclone@obiclone3 жыл бұрын
  • That one line is deep. “To couldn’t even show up for yourself”. I am crying.

    @kenshinhimura2322@kenshinhimura23223 жыл бұрын
    • Thar line was soo deep. Instant tears.

      @jesusaguilat4409@jesusaguilat44093 жыл бұрын
    • Who is cutting onions in my bedroom right now?...

      @donaldd4136@donaldd41363 жыл бұрын
    • I cried a few times during this episode

      @Yenmoney@Yenmoney3 жыл бұрын
    • Yes that line touched me in a different way

      @gamehardy@gamehardy3 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for showing this. Very powerful.

    @jessecole1011@jessecole10113 ай бұрын
  • This got me. 😢 a dear friend took his life last year. The pain and regret never goes away.

    @cathyl2338@cathyl2338 Жыл бұрын
    • Well your friend killed himself and Anthony was killed. Soook

      @yooo8906@yooo8906 Жыл бұрын
  • That shit gets me everytime. Watching humans break down in tears makes me the do same instantly. Bourdain was a cool ass cat.

    @helgarivers6281@helgarivers62813 жыл бұрын
    • That’s because we are all one.

      @noDUALISM@noDUALISM3 жыл бұрын
    • That cool ass cat had just paid out a ton of cash to the victim his girlfriend molested as a child. The girlfriend he left his wife and child for.

      @ginacalabrese3869@ginacalabrese38693 жыл бұрын
    • @@ginacalabrese3869 Cats a cat I guess.

      @helgarivers6281@helgarivers62813 жыл бұрын
    • Its the power of empathy that God gave us. So incredible.

      @Soaptoaster@Soaptoaster3 жыл бұрын
    • @Livyatan mellvillei I'm not condoning what his mistress did. What she did, was her own doing.

      @helgarivers6281@helgarivers62813 жыл бұрын
  • He cries because he identifies with the pain, the sadness, the depression. More than likely he's going through the same right now. Personally I've been there, I still go through it, it doesn't go away, you just live with it, you make yourself stronger and braver. I enjoy the happy moments to the fullest because when it rains it pours. I get frustraded, and sad then I have to kickstart my self to keep moving forward. This is a trait of artistic, creative and smart people, we look at life differently and when the picture doesn't please us, sometimes we snap.

    @peregrine__@peregrine__3 жыл бұрын
    • @Carl Ruiz Damn dude so funny look at us all laughing

      @ham_borgar@ham_borgar3 жыл бұрын
    • The creative flair that makes you who you are is not linked to any symptom. They are not interdependent. Some with creativity do not have depression, and some with depression do not have creativity. To think in such a way is to identify yourself by your symptoms, and you are more than your symptoms. Would you tell someone suffering with an eating disorder that it is part of their personality? No, because you rob them of the mindset needed to change. Jordan Peterson's second rule for life: treat yourself as though you would treat someone you are responsible for helping. Although that also comes with the assumption that you want to change. You have to look deeply within yourself, and ask, "if there was a pill that could cure me of whatever misery I might be facing, would I take it? If there was any person in the world who could move me out of this mentality, would I listen to them? If there was any activity in all of human behaviour that could change my mindset and lifestyle, would I do it?" If you answer yes, you know what to do. If you answer no, maybe it's time to find out why you answered no. I answered no when I first asked myself that question, until I found within the expectations I thought others had placed on me, I had actually placed on myself. I came to know that if I were to die, all the burdens of guilt and sorrow would be placed on the shoulders who truly loved me. I hope you ask yourself these questions, and answer them honestly. I know what it is like to want to un-exist, and I can promise there is no greater feeling then waking up one day after months of self-work, and realising that you have made progress. There is no greater joy then saying to yourself, "I no longer want to die, I want to live a better life." Believe in yourself.

      @stevedasbru@stevedasbru3 жыл бұрын
    • @@stevedasbru Well said, good sirs, well said.

      @canondocre8650@canondocre86503 жыл бұрын
    • @Josh V I find balance in picking problems I want to solve, to replace the ones I despise. for example, don't know how to pay rent? Learn how to build a house, it's just as challenging and yet far more satisfying problem to have. We will always be trying to balance suffering and joy. Victor Frankel claimed all suffering is relative; he was a holocaust survivor so I don't have many grains of salt with his opinions of suffering.

      @sockmon1@sockmon13 жыл бұрын
    • @Carl Ruiz Damn bro, you got the whole squad laughing. Please, tell us another one

      @samuelosorio4930@samuelosorio49303 жыл бұрын
  • I lost a bunch of friends that took their lives. Never been the same,but with faith makes it easier. Prayers go to Dave,he's stil hurting so much.❤

    @lisaward60@lisaward608 ай бұрын
  • This is the best thing I’ve seen on Joe rogan,much respect for this guy,men are killing themselves constantly and nothing is being done

    @kencarson3451@kencarson3451 Жыл бұрын
  • this isn’t just a podcast, it’s real talk about things we men deal with. It comes across to me and it’s just those moments where I have to find someone

    @jjxlifts@jjxlifts3 жыл бұрын
    • yea man, we live in a society where if you're an open book people can't look at you as a real man. your not even allowed to express what stuff plagues your mind if you dont wanna be seen as "weird". ur suppose to man up they say.

      @mememachine2357@mememachine23573 жыл бұрын
    • @@mememachine2357 as a woman looking in i wish there were more spaces like jre for men to be open and feel accepted. everyone would be better off. everyone i know who has killed themself has been male. this needs to be talked about more.

      @shithead666@shithead6663 жыл бұрын
  • A true man's heart has a terrifying depth...

    @maloxi1472@maloxi14723 жыл бұрын
    • @Blair Waldorf what

      @chrisGalvis@chrisGalvis3 жыл бұрын
    • It's crazy when I read this, I picture hits life in berserk tatake

      @destytayzo77@destytayzo773 жыл бұрын
    • @@destytayzo77 is that from Berserk? Sounds very familiar.

      @alexbaum2204@alexbaum22043 жыл бұрын
    • @@alexbaum2204 itsnot but berserk has many deep quotes similar to it. What this guy commented is Ken to the struggles of gutz

      @destytayzo77@destytayzo773 жыл бұрын
    • damn, that's a really goofy thing to say

      @zackborzone8904@zackborzone89042 жыл бұрын
  • Suicide seemed out of the cards for most of my life. I thought it weak and selfish. Then severe depression hit and it no longer seemed that wrong. Many days were spent thinking about it. Which way would be the most painless and cleanest so my spouse wouldn’t get traumatized when they found me. I’m glad I was either too scared to do it or perhaps it was my little brother saying that if I did it, he would too. Those were some dark times. I’m not the same person I was before all this, but I am grateful I got through. This segment of JRE got to me. David’s absolute and immediate breakdown shows close to the chest he played it.

    @VitoMusic88@VitoMusic88 Жыл бұрын
    • I've been there too with the exact same thoughts, big hugs.

      @astahesta123@astahesta123 Жыл бұрын
    • @@astahesta123 Life isn't easy. Glad you're still here, too. :)

      @VitoMusic88@VitoMusic88 Жыл бұрын
  • David Choe and many others like him define the term "torturted artist". Incredible heart and vulnerability. Very refreshing to see real emotions. Stay human David.

    @bootlegcowboys@bootlegcowboys3 жыл бұрын
  • “Wealth is like sea-water; the more we drink, the thirstier we become; and the same is true of fame." - Arthur Schopenhauer

    @mencken8@mencken83 жыл бұрын
    • 쇼펜하우어는 허무주의자로 많은 젊은이들이 이 사상에 심취하여 자살을 하였음.

      @aicta@aicta3 жыл бұрын
    • Damn.....

      @joshphillips1526@joshphillips15263 жыл бұрын
    • rico567 wealth is the sea, swim in it and don’t drown

      @terrencehooi2520@terrencehooi25203 жыл бұрын
    • Who drinks sea water?

      @abelesser69@abelesser693 жыл бұрын
    • @@abelesser69 It's a metaphor dude

      @ate5ive866@ate5ive8663 жыл бұрын
  • A close friend of mine ended her life and eight years later not a day goes by that I don't remember her. Some scars never heal.

    @starlodear2987@starlodear29877 ай бұрын
  • In my experience, whenever I asked people for help, people who I thought would help, people who I helped without a second thought, they always had an excuse and wind up not helping me. Sometimes, you don‘t ask for help because after being rejected just a listening ear for so many times you feel like you have lowered yourself and sometimes that it can be even used against you and you don‘t wanna go through it again, that‘s why I don‘t talk to people about my mental state, and even when I get the chance, it always ends up the same, I feel like crap for even asking for help, let alone telling my story.

    @Gamerfan2000@Gamerfan2000 Жыл бұрын
  • I *F*'in love Choe. His mind, his art, this real-ness. I just love him. He's my kind of rebel-man. I wish more men could communicate like him. I wish him the best.

    @bambinal1437@bambinal14372 жыл бұрын
    • The realest real

      @ffnovice7@ffnovice72 жыл бұрын
    • Ikr

      @AimForMyHead81@AimForMyHead812 жыл бұрын
    • A living legend!

      @DETSRC313@DETSRC313 Жыл бұрын
  • I've been watching Rogan's podcast for a long time and that was THE most raw and touching moment I've ever witnessed on there.

    @Dharmabum2000@Dharmabum20003 жыл бұрын
    • I dont know, something about this felt a bit phoney, watch his interview with a guy who spent half his life in prison, thats actually raw and real, and will moved you

      @juanaltredo2974@juanaltredo29743 жыл бұрын
    • Same... This one hit home.

      @NDE108@NDE1083 жыл бұрын
    • @@juanaltredo2974 I don't see how you can say Dave being sad about his friend's suicide is phoney. I guess this is one of those examples of why Joe never reads the comments.

      @NDE108@NDE1083 жыл бұрын
    • @@NDE108 it felt over the top to me

      @juanaltredo2974@juanaltredo29743 жыл бұрын
    • juan altredo yes Bc crying about ur friend killing himself is over the top. Crying over dead people is soooo phony >:(

      @user-qi9pi7lt3q@user-qi9pi7lt3q3 жыл бұрын
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