Mother hurting stepchild by not treating equally like real child. | Social Experiment in Japan
2022 ж. 14 Қар.
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【Today’s Experiment】
A mother and her children are trying to order meals at a restaurant. The mother lets her real child order whatever he wants, but treats her stepdaughter from her second marriage badly. She also says hurtful words such as, "You are not my child."
- What would you do?
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The first person is very kind , not only wanted to help the child but reflected how he could have handled it better. True gentlemen!!
I totally agree. Bless his heart. :))
Bless him, he is such a onderful person
He's amazing:)
I was going to make the same remark. He analyzed his own behavior as well. What a nice person!
ITS GENTLEMAN NOT GENTLEMEN OMG
When he asked “You were lonely, weren’t you?” I totally felt sad at that time
Actually if you translate the japanese word by it self. It means "It made you feel sad, right?"
@@leandrosalazar9025 No it's actually correct translation. He said 寂しかったですよね = you were lonely, weren't you? If he had said "You felt sad, right?", he would have said 悲しかったですよね 寂しい = sabishii = lonely 悲しい = kanashii = sad
@@Lizziecuteme yep.. he clearly said 寂しい
@@Lizziecuteme True, but 寂しい can also have a few other translations; it's not just strictly "lonely" in the sense of the meaning in English. It can be used loosely as just sort of any negative feelings that may have been _caused_ by loneliness or being left out, like this situation. So general "sadness" could be included. I can't think of any specific examples but I've definitely seen times where 寂しい has been used in a sentence that feels unnatural using "lonely" in English; based on the meaning and context it would make sense to use "sad" or another word, and that's actually how I feel for this situation as well. ~:~
@@harshmnri am japanese. And he said 寂しかったよね？ 寂しい only means sadness from loneliness. Or feels like something is missing.
The uncle in the beginning who defended the foster child made me cry. He seems he would be a good father or uncle
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it's amazing how politely they're speaking even when they're pissed off
Right
True
I was going to say that too. I've always heard that they're very kind and polite, and it seems to ring true. Even in situations like this, they can stay level headed and address the situation politely. It also keeps the child from becoming frightened. The people in this video are very kind.
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That woman didn't talk harsh to her that's why if she does the bad word then this guy is gonna turn suupa saiyajin
私だったら自分の考えを伝える際に絶対に言葉が荒くなってしまうと思う。ここまで落ち着いて自分の思いを冷静に相手に伝えられていて本当に尊敬です。自分も大人にならなきゃ…
I actually never thought or always had a second thought of how japanese people would act in situations like this publicly. Ive been prejudiced by statements that they won't butt in or not care because they don't want/like confrontations and they dont like to be the center of attraction. It's nice that there are people who stood up for the better.
Keep in mind it doesn't show the number of attempts this experiment has taken. The one shown in the video is probably a 1/1000 rare occurrence or something like that. Unless the video states exactly the probability of this happening in a given situation, then that stereotype of Japan not wanting to be the center of attraction or confront someone might still probably be true.
Kid is involved in this video. Japanese always stands up for children. It's just for adults case they'd have to rethink.
This is exactly what I believed too, this video changed my view on them.
Times change. You might have been right two decades ago.
Maybe because the victim here is a child
The first man’s side eye towards the mother shows just how disgusted he truly feels. Truly a stand up man, he doesn’t look like the most well off person but offering to buy the Foster child a meal just an amazing gesture, a person well raised and grew up to be an outstanding man
Yes he was really pissed 😢
@@marygracetakeuchi4766I want to be that calm when pissed. 😂 I will definitely be angry AF and my voice will shake.
Yes, even though he looked angry and disgusted he was still polite.
お兄さん優しいけど、子供を見る時は目が笑っているのに母親役の人見る時「なんだこいつ」みたいに鋭い目つきになってる。 やっぱり、心って顔に出るんだね・・・
そりゃそうでしょw
他人でもこんなに優しくしてくれる人がいることがなんか安心する…
分かる
I see you everywhere-
ですよね。
こうゆう場になった時に声をかけれるのほんと尊敬します。
Crying of tears right now, couldn't believe there(s) still people out there willing to help !
Yes, there's a lot. It's just that usually the stories that become known are the bad ones. I used to doubt the purpose of this kind of social experiments but now I know it helps good stories and people to be known.
Only in asian countries mostly..white countries rlky dont give a fuck especially uk and USA 💀
この場に居合わせたらめちゃくちゃ気持ちは怒って子ども抱きしめたい。でも、それしたら帰って更に子どもが辛くならないかと考えるし、長期的に救うには学校？行政？どうしたらいい？って迷ううちに時間がすぎる…だから声かけた人は素晴らしい
"You were lonely, weren't you?" That line hit so hard, a tear came out loll.
Yup, that hit really hard. Something related to my life as well. ❤
日本にも勇気を持って正しいこと言える人がいてよかった。日本ってみんな優しいけど黙ってる人多いって思ってた。こんなことあったら大人は正しいことを言って導いてあげようね。子供はそんな大人がいることがわかるから。
The guy with the blonde hair in case 2 is obviously listening and already speaking in his mind. Its quite shocking that the Japanese people we know who always mind their business, can speak up in times like these ❤
Yeah, I think so too.
he said so much without saying a word, his face spoke for him
He looks like Yu Narukami, the protagonist from Persona 4.
@@syafiqkamarulzaman357 Yikes 😬.
Oh, me too😅
子どもの頃の私が、時を超えて今救われた気がします。ありがとう
This not only happens with a stepchild, I have witnessed it with biological children as well. I have always tried to make both children feel equally special. Children are a blessing and not a burden regardless of whether they are yours or not.
True man... Once you take their responsibility willingly you have no right to decriminate them
Especially male and female siblings. Parents always wanna control the girls but let guys do whatever they please..😡
Yeah but that's mostly from a place of trying to protect the girl. The girl has a statistically higher chance of something happening. They just get made victims more, I can't see having a higher protection instinct for my daughter over my sons as favortism. It's just biology. @@vminhope3040
@@vminhope3040well, not from what I have seen. To be honest I hear more about the sons of parents who are pressured with all these hyper masculine rules and high expectations compared to girls and their hyper feminine rules. 🤷♂️
動画と分かって見てても気分が悪くなる。 そしてこんなにも声を掛けてくれる周りの人達がいることにまだ日本も捨てたもんじゃないなぁと思えた。
自分だったらこんな風に声をかけられないよ。。 すごいよ。。すばらしいよ。
You have to channel the samurai warrior 🗡️ spirit and stand up against injustice.
自分ならかけるね。例え相手になんて言われようが何をされようが、それが信じる100%の正義ならね。 ただ、日本ではなかなかそういう光景に出くわさないけどね。それが一番なんだけど。 貴方もは貴方のできる範囲の親切をすればいいことだと思うよ👍
本当にありがとう。私の母は姉が前の旦那さんの連れ子だったらしいのですが、おばあちゃんが全く贔屓せず10人を育てて、私は本当の家族だとずっと思っていましたが、それがわかったのはおばあちゃんが死の際でした。おばあちゃんは すごく凛とした人だったので、どの子にも平等に筋を通したのだと思います。改めておばあちゃんを尊敬しますし、この人も助けてくれた人たち尊敬します。
やばい大泣きした。優しい人がまだまだいるんだな
The kindness from these people is incredible instead of lashing out they tried to reason with the mom too and child.. 😢❤
再生してないけど流れてきて 実の子だったのに男と女で差別が酷い環境だったから涙が止まらない… 祖父も継母にこのような仕打ち受けてたんだもんな… 減ってくれるといいんだけどな こんな思いをする子供が
メチャクチャ優しい😢 当たり前のことを当たり前に言える素敵な人😢
海外のこの手の番組を観た際、シャイな日本人は反応するのだろうかと疑問に思っていました。迷わず声をかけ迷わず意見される姿を見て、感動しそして日本も大丈夫だと安心しました。
i thought the same that the citizens would mind their business but i’m happy they intervened
The sad thing about these kind of scenarios is, that it is usually way more invisible to the onlookers, as it happens covertly and mostly behind closed doors.
I saw a commercial recently by the Japanese government that was encouraging people to call if they even so much as suspect child abuse. They’re really pushing to get people to interact with and show concern for their communities, and I am in tears over how wonderful it is.
I’m amazed by how calm, polite and peaceful Japanese people are even when in this confrontational situation.
something that is hard to find nowadays
Yeah, they tried the experiment in America, but the actress kept getting her face slapped right off her head.
@@davidmcleod5133そうなんですか！😮
Yup
@@davidmcleod5133 子どもにとって、暴力を見るのはストレスではないですか？
優しいお兄さん😢🙏🙏🥰🥰
実際にこういう親は、外目は良くしてるし、辛い思いをしてる子供はこんな風に「なんで」とか言えない。 辛い子供時代を過ごした自分としては、大人は誰も信用できなかった。大人はみんな親の側を味方するし、 内緒で話しても、絶対に親との話し合いにもっていかれて、結局は家で親と自分だけになってしんどい思いをする。 このドラマのような光景は、まずほとんどない。誰にも気づかれないし気づかれないようにしてるのが悲しい現実。
かなしだけどきみわそうかな
そうです。その通りだと思います。言い返せる子どもは居ないし、もし他人に注意されたりしたら家に帰ってからもっと辛い目に遭わされるのは目に見えています。 現実は辛いです。
わっかるー
「ただの連れ子」って「あんたなんか生むんじゃなかった」位の破壊力あるよね
声をかける勇気、それに対して、堂々と思いを語る姿。涙が出ました。また、インタビューする方も、勇気が要ると思いました。見ていて、我が身を振り返るきっかけになりました。ありがとうございます🙏💗
一人目のお兄さん、優しさに溢れてる！
Hands down to these beautiful, kind and considerate men who stood up for the little girl who was mistreated. Good job!
なんでか分からないけど、これはすごく感情的なんだから. 今も気にかけてくれてる方々がいるということを見せてくれてありがとうございます。
みてるだけでなんか涙出てきた 素敵です
I’m crying my eyes out. Is this normal? This made me so emotional , we need to treat children special whoever their parents are.
Man I'm crying right now. I know that this is just a staged scenario but I felt extremely sad for the kid. I'm not being mistreated or anything by my family but just thinking that many kids out there really experiencing this nasty situation.
Watching this made my heart feel happy. I wish kids weren’t treated unequally like this. But it’s good to know there’s good people that will stand up for them.
The second man is such a wonderful human too. My goodness im crying. We need people like him ♥Thank you for your kindness
The first person.. what a lovely human he is. I cant help but cry..so touching. Amazing human who stood up for the girl. ❣You have everyone's respect.❤
The first Sir is so kind. He sounds like a great person.
男性の方素敵すぎる...でも本当にこういう家庭もあるんだろうな...
血が繋がってなくても家族になれるよ。血が繋がってなくても仲良く出来るよ。血が繋がってなくても亡くなった時悔しくて悲しくて本気に泣けるよ。いつか自分が亡くなった時天国で会える日までこっちで頑張るよ😊
Such a kind gentle heart, bless you sir. 🌸
This situation kind of hit close to home tbh. I have a stepmother too, and she never treated me and my siblings like a family, and consider us a nuisance when we grow older. My bedroom was taken away and my stuffs thrown when I went to college, my younger brother was told to leave the house when he got into an accident, broke some bones and had to quit job. Her reason for telling my brother that? He is taking too much space she can't keep her stuff anymore. She threw all of our stuffs away and tells her children who's in elementary school to persuade my brother to move out quick. I never asked for her money. I just want to be treated like a human, not a garbage. But I guess that is too much to ask for...
I wish best of luck for you king. Stay strong! You can do it.
That is extremely sad to hear that people can't treat with decency children...
I'm sorry that happened to you. How things going with you and your siblings? Are you both doing fine? I hope the situation get better for both of you.
This, me too, I wish there had been someone like these people for us
I was touched specially with the second guy, he talk so calmly, on point and straight from his heart as seen in his eyes..
*_“The biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved”_* - Princess Diana
This made me cry! We moved from nyc to Tokyo and it’s been quite tough for us since our two year daughter may be diagnosed with autism. It’s nice to see Japanese people show affection and love when it seems quite sparse as we navigate life in Japan. Thank you
I have autism and if only people were so accepting 😢
今までの中で1番キレてた気がする笑 本当に優しい人なんですね
I love that the two men can call out the stepmom with such composure and calmness.. ❤
God blessed that man. Happy that he speaks out and offer to help pay for her meal. We need more ppl like him in this world.
These men have a true heart! They stepped in to help this child, to speak their truth. Although these were actors. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it may have been for them to hear such a conversation. I myself love children. God bless them!!
This channel is so underrated. deserves to get more viewers and subscribers
Ty for showing the kindness of strangers. How powerful and courageous even 1 person is, showing up for the weak and teaching them that they are not the problem. Love even from a stranger can change 1 persons life forever.
This warmed my heart
I'm crying watching this. You make a good video! High quality. Love it
This channel is like a Japanese version of What Would You Do. It has a lot of the same scenarios that the show had and I like it a lot.
maybe this channel is actually inspired by WWYD
@@conan4632 maybe it is!
I thought this is inspired by TreeMan
Same thing you say exactly what appears in my mind I watch this video! Omg! I can’t believe people felt same way what I felt about WWYD show!
It's more like TreeMan.
Glad I discovered this channel, I'm ugly crying right now though
I have never seen a KZhead channel like this thank you for the videos❤
I give my highest respect for these guys. Hat off o7 The first guy will be/is/always be a great father. And the second one, his girlfriend is lucky to find a gentleman like him
whether it's just an experiment, I'm still sad to see the treatment of a mother like this, and I'm very proud of this man.
Kind hearted people are everywhere, thank goodness. We should all speak up.
Even if they are pissed or angry they still speak politely and the tone of voice is so calm!
The first person has such a pure heart. I love to see people like him
Ahhhh...I can't this made me cry a river and i'm not even kidding. Thank you so much for translating these to english! this is the best social experiment channel ever. This channel seriously deserves milions of subscribers, the content, experiments and everything is so real and well made. The actors are AMAZING!!! I will share your channel to everyone I know and stay a true subscriber to the end. Please keep the videos coming!
Yes
涙腺が…こんな心が綺麗な方と私も生涯共にしたいな。
As a child who was treated this way next to my brother who was also adopted, I wish there was someone like these kind souls to help me, I hope for all children treated this way to find happiness somehow, despite our parents disdain. This saying I love fits here. “Every child deserves a loving parent but not every parent deserves a loving child”. This wasnt all, I was hurt physically and people just watched or ignored me, so before anyone tries to convince me my family loves me, it sadly is not the case, though every day I wish it was so. Happiness for every child is what I want, I know it wont be everyone, I wasnt, but this made me hopeful that someday one child will be the last lonely child.
This experiment really makes me cry. I don't even know why my tears are coming out. Probably due to me grateful for having good parents and can't stand if kids are treated like this
omg they are so polite with no anger omggg i luv u guys T^T
It made me feel so emotionally,then i start crying from the first place!
Thanks for translating this 😢
So amazing seeing the first Japanese man. I’ve always been fascinated with Japan when I started learning about their culture. They’ve always set the bar high by being polite and thoughtful of others. Thanks to him for radiating positivity and kindness by all means 🙇♀️ #🇯🇵is♥️
He has been so kind to offer and speak for the girl.
日本人て他人とか揉め事に関わりたく無い人多いイメージあったけど、海外と反応同じで驚いたと言うか、結局はその人それぞれなんだと思った。
That first person is very very mature ,polite and balanced in his thinking ...a very smart human indeed who has been raised very well imo...
This type of contents is what makes my eyes go drip drip.... Thanks to you it made my day.. It was really interesting to watch it and listen to social experiments
Got tears in my eyes from the second one😢❤
子供に罪はない。の言葉を一発目で出せるようにに私たちは普段から勉強してるんだよな
涙が出る。悲しい💧💧💧 私もこんな勇気が欲しい！❤
The first guy who had asked the child to choose whatever she wanted would pay instead of the mother really touched me. I wish I had more people like him around me.
少し似た環境で育った者です。 最初に、子供のために思って言ってもらえてる事に凄い感謝です。 しかし、この様な場面で親に「可哀想だ」とか「同じ扱いにしてあげて」など教育方針を否定する言い方をされると今後が怖くてしかたありませんでした。 何も変わらないのです。むしろ悪化する事もありました。 子供のためを思ってもらえるのなら申し訳ありませんが親を否定せずに助けてもらえると嬉しいです。 ごめんなさい。
すごい! This channel deserves much more subscriber and support.
😭i used to live in this amazing country. Some of the kindest people I've met in all my travels, hands down. I'm even more heartened to hear how the first man stood up for the kid, being patient with the mom and trying to convince her but not yelling at her. Just the way he approached the whole situation 😭
Thanks for this content ❤
The most beautiful thing about this, is How they are so polite in this situation, they dont high level their voices or dont use bad words. Japanese people are very polite. ❤
Honestly I am seeing this first time in my life 😅 We do get to hear some stories but not in open and this bluntly in the streets or anywhere but it feels good to see people's reaction 🤗
Gran Video y Muchas Gracias por los subtítulos en español!
very nice video that you can see the kindness of someone....watching with proud here at the Philippines
omg i know this place ! The gentleness and concern are amazing.
Everytime I watch the social experiments in this channel, I always cry. Idk why 😭
So heart warming these videos I felt the difference of their country social skill and kindness it feels like its possible to rely on person so heart warming ❤
I'm glad I have come across this channel. I live in japan for more than 3 years and i never thought japanese people would intervene in situations like this. How about an experiment with foreign actors? I'm really curious about their next actions/ reactions. Anyway, great video! This channel will gain more subscribers in the future ❤️
Obrigado por legendar o video !! Thanks for subtitling the video!!
It's very touching, I'm moved to see this
Nossa, me emocionei com o senhor querendo pagar algo para a menina😢 優しいな男性！ この世界に、まだ良いな人いますね❤
These people are so kind. Wow
差別は人として最低だと思います。このお母さんは子供を育てる資格が無いし自分がもう一度ど子供に戻って人としての道を勉強したほうが良いと思います。
お二人は正義感が強い証拠です。その優しさと愛情は必ずこれからプラスになりますよ。人の事を自分のことのようにわかってあげるような。かっこよかった！でも、最初の男性の方、感動しました。自分のポケットマネ－から出してあげるとは。イエスキリストに見えました。ハ－トのある人かほんとたくさんいるんだ。😢😂
This is beautiful
He’s a true gentleman.