"How Can I Style My Blasian Daughter's Hair?" Korean Mom Asks Black Woman For Help..!
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📌BOMI :: @babymodel_bomi_
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Thank you so much for having me on this episode
you were amazing!
true! u were awesome!!
you are beautiful and your personality is charming. You slayed this.
Side note, you are stunning!
Thank you so much for being in this video. This stuff is important for the mothers and especially for the children!
I can't stop laughing at the fact that Bomi needs to be constantly bribed with treats and candy to stay sat down 🤣
😂😂yes full as a tick off junk when they finish.
That's toddlers for you 😂 Easily bored, tiny attention span, prone to wandering off -- but easily controlled with food 😂
lmao truly!! Bomi just snackkin and get taken care of i love it XD
Baby these toddlers are something else! Especially girls. I literally have to have a tablet, fruit snacks and a juice box for my daughter to stay still to do her hair 😂😂 I'll be lucky if she falls asleep lol
When I got my hair braided as a kid I was sat down in front of the tv with goldfish and juice so I wouldn't get up 😅 bribery works so well😂😂😂
She is a fantastic mother for wanting to learn for her daughter.
Honestly she had no other choice but to learn it 😂😂😂😂
@@YoullGetBeatByYourManyeah but some moms would just send her to the hair salon instead or have the daughter learn versus them having to
@@YoullGetBeatByYourManShe a real good Mom! Some non Black mothers to Black biracial children don’t even bother to send them to salons. Some just do their hair badly and call it a day. Don’t ask for help or do research or nothing. I’ve seen it a few times. Smh
@JLitul it's sad that those dads that actually have the hair type don't teach them or do it themselves
@@user-on8qo6rs5c i mean it is a bit rude to assume that our dads are always the black ones but anyways i ado agree that it is messed up that (sometimes) the black parent leaves the white parent no experience whatsoever with a baby who has really curly hair
08:17 I appreciate the person off-screen who is playing ball with Bomi to keep her entertained! 10 minutes of hair styling feels like an eternity when you're 3 so I'm really glad they were patient with her
Exactly, it was so cute just watching the person O.S. pushing the ball towards her and even laughing omg
Asians master all technology but in regards to 4c, 4d and TEXTURE 5 hair they are BAMBOOZLED watch out black men, here they come! 😂 -on behalf of a Afro descendent women , your welcome ❤
For real, it takes a village!!!
i love how even though her daughter's hair wasn't looking the best in the beginning, it still looked very clean and cared for. She was always doing her best even when she didn't know what she was doing and wasn't afraid to ask for help, wonderful mother
One thing you can assure is that Korean moms are insane when it comes to personal/their kid's hygiene and cleanliness. She may not know how to style the hair but we can be assured that baby is cleaner than most Americans. Most Koreans shower twice a day which many Americans think is too much for odd reasons. 😅
Yes I felt the same way. Some people just don’t try and it’s upsetting to see cuz it’s the kid that has to pay for it but she was doing a great job keeping her hair clean and even knew it’s better to comb through the hair with fingers for detangling instead of a brush like you would for thinner hair
Asians master all technology but in regards to 4c, 4d and TEXTURE 5 hair they are BAMBOOZLED watch out black men, here they come! 😂 -on behalf of a Afro descendent women , your welcome ❤
tbh east asian hair also does really well with finger combing, which is interesting when you think about it 😅 considered opposite hair types
The way the mom was so attentive to Bomi even while listening to Rianna’s explanations on her hair, I just love to see mothers who are actually emotionally attentive to their kids. It’s so healing😭
Nah that's not accurate..the mom had zero control the child dominated...meaning she has zero discipline no control. Unfortunately, the child is spoiled have zero sense of following directions..out of control which leads to problems in society. The child is old enough to OBEY do as parent instruct..
@@sweetdulcesunshinenyc what are you yapping about bro. I didn’t say anything about Bomi’s behavior or discipline or whatever else you mentioned. I only commented on how attentive the mom was. Because of how she wordlessly would open food for her and listen to her while simultaneously listening to Rianna’s instructions. I could not care any less about what you thought of her behavior.
@@sweetdulcesunshinenyckey word :Child
@@sweetdulcesunshinenycChildren can very easily act up ik situations like this. Even the most well behaved ones.
@@cherryice4603 correct, but if there was teaching from start the child would act out less..it starts at home. This is not new, some parents do nothing and create a menace since they were raised being self entitled no rules what the child say is law, which is not good for society since they taught these type of self entitled child that it's about them and that's not reality. Self entitled spoiled children with zero rules discipline, majority grow up to be a problem in life which affects me you the world. Again no disrespect to anyone in this video or in the comments. I know I'm not the only one that noticed in this video.
I love how kind and patient Rianna was towards the mom, she wasn't judgmental at all and tried to explain things in a easy way to help the mom and the child. She did a great job, I hope to see them all more on Giggle!
The interactions between rianna and bomi were also very cute
Absolutely she done a great job! Patient with mum & child Well done 👏
@@lerga14he might not know either
@@lerga14Black men for ya
@lerga14 Also her black grandma and aunts from dad's side, idk why they didn't say anything, even virtually they could have said something.
as someone who had an abusive mother/strained childhood, these videos are so unexpectedly healing. just a kid allowed to be a kid and adults learning and caring for her. i thought it might be triggering, but it was actually heartwarming.
Real nice to hear, hope you're far from your past difficulties. As the child in a situation like this, sometimes I find myself feeling angry when seeing people my age living out a carefree life, but I realized that just breeds more negativity. Kids who can't care for themselves shouldn’t grow up earlier than they really should. Glad I'm not alone in these trials :)
I am so sorry to hear that, but hapy this video helped! 🥰😇😄
Same comment and thoughts exactly😢❤
I wish you healing, im sorry about what happened
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As a blasian girl with wild curly hair and a chinese mommy, this made my heart smile so big 🥺
I dont believe you're blasian. Everyone is trying to hop on board because they think its cool
@elcortez5434 why are you so short-minded ?
🤗 Your message made my heart smile ❤
@@HoneyBunches100 it's an answer for my message ?
@@a.g.demada5263 I'm not short minded, I do not believe this person is blasian.
As a biracial daughter to a Ghanaian father and white American mother, I can’t tell you how much your care about her hair will mean to her as an adult. My mom has always made an extreme effort to make sure my hair was cared for, but also to remind me ALWAYS that my hair and skin was beautiful. Moms like this never get the praise they deserve
This is proof that Africa is Easternizing. We are definitely moving away from the West
My dad was a stay at home dad for a while but even before that learned to braid hair and take care of it just so he could do that for us kids. So now that he has been dead for a long time I still get to remember sitting on his lap and him braiding my hair as a small child. Our mom of course could do that too and could do fancier hairstyles but he learned and learned to do that one thing well. My older brother also learned to braid hair which then helped him once he had his own kids and he was a single parent for a while. It's such a nice bonding activity.
Do you use water to moisturize your hair? I am African and for a long time I didn't know water is very good for my hair. Now I know I use it a lot. Just wondering if it is a game changer for your hair. Water is good for natural hair for all Africans not sure about mixed race.
@@lilianasaba9846sis water is good for all hair types especially curly girls, race doesn’t matter. Water is the only form of moisture you can give your hair.
Praise for being a good parent? You’re supposed to be kind and good to your child why do you need praise for that? That’s the gift of a parent. Taking the time to learn how to do your child’s hair is what you’re supposed to do.
Shall we talk about how much Rianna is good with kids?? She was trying to create a connection between her and Bomi before styling her hair, she was engaging her a lot (eg. letting her smell the products as well) - loved it so pure
Ikr
She was SO sweet during the whole thing! Even if Bomi doesn't understand it now I hope when she's older she can watch the video and see that someone cared so much while teaching her.
Maybe she has a kid or children of her own
@@lousimms1422 that's what I thought
THE STAFF PASSING THE BALL BACK TO HER IS SO CUTE
IT ISSS IT WAS SUCH A CUTE INTERACTION!!!
She was hanging on every word the stylist lady was saying. What a good momma, doing anything she can for her baby no matter how small it may seem 😢❤
She reminded me my own mother who had to learn that too because I was adopted and later my sisters too. We're born in Madagascar and grew up in France
I appreciate her reaching out and admitting that she isn’t knowledgeable. A lot of mothers don’t want to accept that they don’t know what to do & allow their pride to get in the way of their child feeling confident and comfortable in their natural hair. Her daughter is beautiful & doing her hair will be a wonderful way to bond with your gorgeous daughter ❤
My mother has totally different texture hair to me as her dad is white Irish and Eastern European. I used to hate sitting there for hours as she oiled, detangle and braided my hair. We don’t speak now for other reasons but looking back I do appreciate the fact she put so much work, time and money into caring for my hair properly
@@cocoday6215 0:46 0:47 😅
Back in the day the mother would just perm her hair, ruin the texture, and call it a day. Some mono-racial people have a nasty habit of judging, but as a biracial person I will never fail to applaud mothers who ask for help ant try to learn when they recognize they don't know how to do something.
I don’t understand why she would even need to be embarrassed. Black women give so much hate to white people for not knowing how to do their hair, but why would we know? She spent her whole life never having to know up until a few years ago. Black women have dealt with their hair their whole lives so they have lots of experience. That’s how it works. Shame anyone who judges this mother. She’s embracing the difference and learning. Everyone had to learn at some point. Black girls just did it much earlier in life.
@@jessieqk12 You’re judging right now. You’re judging and seem to have a real lack of knowledge about the LEGAL history of black women’s hair in western countries. Black people have EVERY right to be upset at the legacy of racism and today carriers. The ignorance and lack of education was culturally intended and something black STILL fight today, with things like the CROWN Act recently passed into law. Sit and observe, and maybe uh.. stop judging. Nasty habit.
I really wish more mothers to biracial black children would do this. You guys have no idea how damaging it is to not have you're hair looking right as a kid because your mom didnt care enough to learn. Good on her for this.
Im sorry but this is sickening having to watch black women YET AGAIN help people who dont care about her. Why didnt she ask the black man she breeded with for help? These interracial couples will insult black women but come running to us for help, its embarassing . if you need helo doing hair go on youtube, us black women are not your maids you call for help.
Or dad lol because the dad can also learn as he has hands and a brain and is the direct race responsible for said hair. Both ideally but it's not up to one person.
💯 biracial black children with black moms don't have this problem.
more parents* both dad and mom / whoever the parent is
@@sweetnaomi56yea it be the ones with NO black mom or women around
More parents (and guardians) who aren’t black but care for black or mixed black children should ask for help like this. Because many of them just neglect their children’s hair simply out of ignorance or cut their hair. I hope Bomi’s mom is learning more and more so she can keep Bomi’s hair cute 😊
Unsure why guardians is in (). They don't get recognized as much so I hope you change your wording in the future authenticy include them without using (). I agree yet certain grown adults who are ignorant are not accepting to have an open mind so sadly they will sick in their ways. Overall I hope this changes over time because if there is a child with kinky hair that they're taking care of it's the bare minimum. Yes it can be time consuming yet its important.
@@SelenaY.1331I have hope that the more media shows non-curly haired parents and guardians of curly haired children learning how to care for their children’s hair without shame or embarrassment, people will have more open minds about learning how to take care of their own kids’ hair. People sometimes feel ashamed that they don’t already know or they don’t know where to go to learn, but the more widespread the knowledge becomes in an inviting, respectful way, the more likely it is that people will want to learn imo❤
@@SelenaY.1331The () is as an add on. They were talking about parents and guardians. A guardian would mean it's not the parent but a grandmother, sibling, or just current care taker. They're acknowledging that kids aren't always in the care of their direct parents for one reason or another and even if you aren't the parent but a guardian, you should still learn how to care for the child's hair.
@@Des17S you're assuming that I don't know what a guardian is- which I do I was in foster care. Yet my point still stands becsuse guardians are just as important at the parent and doesn't need to be in ()
@@SelenaY.1331 It's...just proper to put that there with the sentence structure they used...they could have not put guardians at all but by putting it there they're acknowledging that some kids caretakers aren't their parents.
Bomi's mom was SO INTO IT! Great job. And the stylist was so warm and professional. I also love the mom's willingness for her baby. Blasian moms of Pasadena stand up!!😂🤗😍💛
Lol not Dena!! Lol I'm an ubwr driver in LA and I picked up a passenger who was vietnamese her daughter was blasian and her daughter kept saying mommy her hair is like mines! It was so beautiful and heartfelt. We exchanged beauty secrets❤. Shot out to those who wana learn cus our hair is very very historical and important to our self esteem as shallow as that may sound😢
@@ShaSha-kq6thnot shallow at all!! I’m white as white can be but when my self esteem is low I focus solely on my hair and remind myself how amazing it is😅 learning new hair styles is one of my main forms of self expression/self care. It’s also one of the most reliable ways for me to connect with my sister, which can be hard because our personalities clash A LOT. Hair is so important to ALL humans, no matter their race, gender, culture, or hair type. Everyone deserves to love their hair without shame or embarrassment, because that leads into loving yourself ❤
@@allisonhache4759 AMAZING!!! THAT'S SO TRUE!!!!
This kid is the living definition of “OH MY GOD WHAT IS THAT I WANT THAT OOH ITS SHINY LETS GO”. So goddamn cute
In my experience this stage is before or after the terrible two's XD
She's the kind of kid that almost makes you want to have kids in the future. Then you watch an episode of Supernanny or something like that and you're like "nope, I'm good"
in my personal experience, I was an ADHD kid without a diagnosis. Got mine at 23. She seems very distracted
@@sabrinaniteyeah, she reminds me to my little sister. I have asperguer and OCD, she has ADHD, it was really exasperating growing up with her, so, watching this video I was thinking, either she had ADHD or she is extremely spoiled and she always do what she wants.
@@sabrinaniteit could be that, but kids are generally have a short attention span to what they find interesting. Up to the future I suppose
I love that this isn’t solely for content, it’s genuinely helping this mum to take care of her daughter’s hair, the camera crew and audience is just there for the ride in the background. Is it the bare minimum? Yes. But is it something a lot of parents who have kids with hair like Bomi’s take the care and time to learn and actually put into practice? No, unfortunately it isn’t. Little Bomi is going to feel so much better now that her mum is learning how to do her hair properly. Side note - anyone else’s autocorrect incorrectly correct “Bomi” to abomination? I had to keep frantically correcting it 😂
It's a blessing when parents with different hair from their child actually try to learn what to do. My mom never figured it out 😂 but I'm definitely going to show my kids how to love their hair.
@@nerdycurls6253 hopefully you have learnt how to take care of your hair, and how to love your hair. I always love seeing how diverse black/African hair can be styled as. It’s a great way to express yourselves and it’s always so beautiful! I’m sure you’ll do an amazing job at teaching your kids how to take care and love their hair. 😊
@@LiD0349 I have thank you ☺️ I actually have been using the cream mentioned in the video, I love how soft and bouncy it makes my hair.
Bro Boni be having a mukbang there! 😂
@@nerdycurls6253I used to bemoan having to sit for ages whilst my mother did my hair. I was jealous because her texture was so different as she’s half white but I appreciate the work she put into my hair looking back now
It is a big deal for a black person to explain the importance of baby hair AND show you how to style baby hair!!! Kudos to Rianna. You crossing boundaries girl!!!
Styling baby hair is more an African American thing, it's not really done in Africa. They tend to leave the edges alone.
@@chrystianaw8256ur correct but it is trending. but yes baby hair is unique to african american culture but anyone in the black or hispanic diaspora can do it
@@lavender9071 Idk how much of it is African-American influence but it's been prevalent in the Black British population for ~30+ years. ngl it was really sweet to see that bit.
@@lavender9071 What?!? Her hair isn't unique to African Americans. You're trying to say AA grls & Wmn don't have different textures of hair?! Where have you been all your life? And you must have never left there. 😒
We do the baby hairs in Africa too. A trend is a trend.
That Black woman is SOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL! She looks like a doll!
I grew up with an Asian mom who had a hairstyling learning session with my black aunties when I was growing up! ❤
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same!
You have to love those black aunties. ♥
What a sweet memory and a great thing that you got to see your mom and aunties working together to care for you in such a special way growing up 🥹. People don’t realize how much things like this can affect a child’s perception of not only their caregivers, but of themselves as well ❤️ may everyone be so blessed!!!
That sounds so sweet
I love how Bomi is just being a kid and is so disinterested in having her hair styled. She's adorable
I am biracial and I raised with a mom who didn't know much about curly hair. We lived in a community where learning resources were sparse in terms of caring for my hair type. It is so nice to see mixed hair care becoming more prominent in the online world! To those parents who are learning to care for your kid's hair, don't beat yourself up if it takes long time or if it doesn't look perfect. It took forever for myself and my mom to understand the quirks of my hair, and the changes in texture that come with puberty, but ultimately I grew to love it and the memories of my mother doing my hair are some of my fondest ones. So long as you teach your kid to love themselves and love their hair (no matter the type), you are doing an amazing parenting job.
Blasian is different
I often wondered what non black mothers of mixed racial children did if they didn’t know how to do black hair. As a black woman it could be challenging. I Would love to help someone who’s struggling❤️
@user-my7lg7rf6j I think there are more than enough from the actual blk community that don't know how to maintain their hair. That's a good place to start
@@elcortez5434 I have enough help to go around
@@user-my7lg7rf6jMake sure those that get your help… *PAY YOU.* 💯
I think that it’s very critical, when black fathers don’t learn about their children’s hair, and they expect for a woman to do that all the time you can switch up your roles, but I think that black men should be educated on how to do their child’s hair. It shouldn’t always be the mother that needs to do it But the fact that this mother is Korean, and she took time to learn about her child’s hair is amazing, but I really wish that fathers would put in more effort to learning about their children a bit more to help out
Men in general need to be more involved in child care. Why is it always the mother dressing children up and taking care of their appearances?
@@layloo5244 Yeah like it's 2023. As a man I'm ashamed that this isn't the standard yet
yeah i was a bit...put off that the mom knew NOTHING despite having a child with a black man. Why has this father not educated her on anything? I can only assume he wasn't taught how to take care of his hair, but he's a grown man with a kid...and had a child with an asian woman and she clearly won't know. Just getting some bad vibes from that tbh.
@@angietoonz6605 Are you serious--educate her on black hair? 😂 Have you ever met a black man? He fetishized her, slept with her, and left. Why do you all pretend to expect so much from a group of men that continue to show you that they're never going to meet those expectations? You think he actually gave a F about the child he implanted into her womb? So delusional
Wdym switch up their roles? They can have an equal role to play being the child’s parents, to do her hair. It’s not default a mother’s role to do her kid’s hair. Yeah the mother shouldn’t always be doing the hair is an understatement. The father should be doing it half the time too.
This is how it should be. Cultural differences can also bring us together. Helping each other because its whats best for the child and that was very heartwarming.
I 100% agree with this!
It always concerns me when the braids are falling right in front of the eyes, it can’t be good for them. I would have found it very distracting to have braids in front of my eyes like that. But other than that what a charming video of a wonderful cultural exchange!
You're living in lala land, that's not reality.
@@genevievedolan1288from experience, the braids are not distracting.
@@QDR315 that's not *your* reality. And I feel sorry for you. I'm black and so many of my family members have partners of a different race. Sometimes it's awful, sometimes it's wonderful, just talking and learning from each other and making fun of each other
Auntie rianna was so cute 🥲 watching this connection of cultures made me emotional. She was so dedicated to teaching and the mom really wanted to learn how to take care of her babygirl. I hope they stay in contact. im glad bomi has this moment recorded so she can see just how much her momma loves her when she grows up ❤
There’s no connection. Just appropriation
the mom trying to see all the brand names of the products rianna was using is so cutee she was so invested in learning 😍
this video is so wholesome. i love this content, it made me so happy. as a mixed race girl with a black mum, i love when she does my hair, watching this brought back so many good memories and i loved it. what an amazing mum and teacher
Im sorry but this is sickening having to watch black women YET AGAIN help people who dont care about her. Why didnt she ask the black man she breeded with for help? These interracial couples will insult black women but come running to us for help, its embarassing . if you need helo doing hair go on youtube, us black women are not your maids you call for help.
@@ilovegot7754Keep crying
Me too ❤😊
Yep, this video is wholesome. 💕
@@ilovegot7754💯
I'm a White pediatrician, and content like this has been so helpful for me in my job! I have a lot of East African immigrants in my practice, and the very much appreciate that I can tell them what brands of products to look for (Shea Moisture has become my go-to for my own wavy/curly hair when it comes to treating seborrheic dermatitis). More importantly, the foster carers of my Black and mixed-race patients have no clue how to take care of coily hair -- they don't even realize it needs special care. Being able to provide KZhead links for carers has been a game-changer.
This comment really speaks to significant flaws in medical schools. We have got to get away from white being the default when the majority of the world's population is BIPOC. I sincerely hope you're advising them to go to Black hair and skin care providers.
Absolutely
Sheamoisture isn’t good. Stop recommending that b.s
It's really encouraging to find professionals that take the time to learn about our specific needs as it pertains to ethnicity and culture. To know you guys are out there helping others despite the info/care not necessarily being applicable to yourself is really wholesome to me. To go out of one's way to help another with an experience you may never have.... There's something really special about that. ☺️ I hope we all can do a little more of that. 🫶🏿
@miraclelove9388 So share what does work.
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I'm a Black Caribbean woman who married a white man and I had to learn how to style my children's hair too. It came out curly-straight. I have 4c hair and so does my entire family. Even moisturizing this is different.
I completely agree. I’m a a daughter of a black caribbean mum and white dad, my brother has completely different curl pattern and hair texture too. My mum had to try multiple products until she found what worked for us. Some of the ‘black products’ were too heavy and some of the ‘white products’ were too light. I’ve got three daughters who all have different hair and I’m so grateful there is such more variety out now compared to when I was growing up 😅
OMG WHAT COUNTRY! I’m from Trinidad but I don’t have curly hair since my mom is Venezuelan and my dad is half Trini and half Venezuelan, BUT IVE HEARD THE HORRORSSS of curly hair it’s always tangled but once you style it it’s STUNNING
@@daikonyum3688 My mum is from St Vincent and my dads from England but has Irish heritage. Having curly hair is defo a journey, but once you learn what works for your hair it makes a massive difference with maintenance and styling. With my daughters ive managed to work out what works for them individually, but i still struggle with my own mainly because i just can't be bothered 😅
Bomi did a good job considering she is 4, that energy is umatched🤣 Her hair turned out so freaking cute too 😍
since this is korean age, she's actually only 3 years old, koreans count from 1 not 0
@@overgrownkudzuya i think she said 41 months which is 3 years 4 months.
@@overgrownkudzu indeed. And most koreans are accustomed to just using months to determine age rather that year to avoid confusion.
@@overgrownkudzu this is true, but they just passed a law changing to the more common starting from zero. Not sure how long that will take for people to express that in practice, I imagine a generation at least.
7:10 Cultural context for the English speakers… When Bomi said, “I’ll be back soon” in Korean, that was said with such sass. Like her mom’s trying to coax her back cause Rianna is waiting for her… and Bomi’s reply was kind of like, “ah, don’t bother me this will be real quick.” There’s a certain final-ness to the statement. Like she is the boss of how her time is being spent. That’s why mom and Rianna absolutely lost it. 😂😂😂
It was already hilarious how she kept them waiting, but this added context makes an already funny moment even more hilarious! 😂 Thanks for sharing!
Omg TYSM for sharing the language nuance!!!!!! Amazing hahahahaha 😂
It’s crazy how she’s 3 and is already trilingual 😮
There aren't enough people talking about how cute it is that the behind the cameras person was playing with Bomi😭❤️
Omg, why am I crying y’all. Why can’t we all live like this with each other. Just living living, helping and educating each other. Bomi is pure gorgeousness, her mom is beautiful and the lady who is the tutor is just amazingly gorgeous and smart. I hope more ppl can see this and learn something❤❤❤😊
For real, I love seeing connections like this, it just feeds my soul. I grew up in a very diverse area in California with diverse friends, and it just always makes me so happy when we can celebrate our differences and share in the variety of beautiful things across cultures. Role models everywhere in this video!
i agree humans are pretty amazing just like you !
Its so great that mum was willing to get help. Truth is when you are in a country where 98% of the population (or more) are all the same ethnic group, and where most people have never met or even touched African hair, you are limited on what to do, especially with a language barrier aswell. She did her best going to youtube and such, hopefully this video will reach other families with biracial kids.
Oddly…same in America. And some parents NEVER learn how to take care of their kids hair. And of course most white Americans don’t even understand black or,bi-racial hair and believe me it causes problems.
It’s actually not as limited as you’d expect, since the heavy presence of the military bases means that we have districts that cater to US army reserves. So you have specialized barbershops and import stores (as well as clubs lol) that cater to the Black population. :) That being said, there are still very few Korean-language resources available so this was a really cute premise for a video.
Spray oil in it when you style it
Black women should never do this. Non-Black women shouldn't even think about using Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children.
I love how both women are so accepting of each other and nobody is shaming Bomi for her hair 🥹🥹🥹
Why would anyone shame her hair?!? HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS 😂
@@Iconmuse bc many ppl in korea are racist
I mean...one of them naturally has that hair and the other one is literally her mother.
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@@Iconmusesome people do, seen a mom hating her mix daughter hair say not interested to learn a d she prefers it strengthen, so everyday preparing her 6 years old going to school by strengthen it on a daily basis which is very very bad and dangerous. Since she is an influencer or a social media star, black people told her that she need to embrace her daughter mix race hair, she literally insulted the black community hairs , which her mix race daughter hair ressembles
공 다시 돌아오는 거 너무 귀엽다 안보이는 곳에서 애쓰고 계시는 스탭분들 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
This is SO beautiful. Not too long ago mixed raced Korean children were adopted out. Mommy loves her baby and it’s beautiful to see. ❤
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I love this so much. The mom trying to learn. The stylist wanting to teach. The baby just being a baby. And your platform giving them this space. I just love everything about it. ❤❤❤❤
Right!? The whole room enjoyed it. Like it was nice how someone behind the camera played ball with the little girl. And how everyone had fun participating and watching.
Nope, they should not use Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children
I love how hands on she is as a mother. Not many people should be a mother or even the mother of a mix child but she definitely exudes warmth. She’s not defensive or being weird. She genuinely love her daughter and want to be able to care for her hair!
A moment to appreciate the kind person off camera who was playing roll the ball with Bomi 🥰what an adorable video! So sweet of Rianna to help this mother understand her daughter's hair needs!
I watched the video with the Korean dad first, so seeing an energetic child is whiplash. His daughter just sat their and didn't movie, while Bomi was all over the place. Love kids' different energy.
Now we need a video on her styling her daughter's hair next to see the improvement! Was fun to watch!
This makes me so happy to see. Bomi’s mom is very bubbly & sweet with a learning spirit. Rianna is a gem for teaching her how to style Bomi’s hair. Bomi is super cute 🥺♥️
Also I use Shea Moisture Curl Smoothie cream! It smells so good 🫣
Yes you can tell she wants to learn , this was too cute
보미 너무 귀엽다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅜㅜㅜ 리아나 시크해보이는데 보미 앞에서 이모같이 잘놀아주고 웃는거 멋있음ㅜㅜ
Just as I was thinking "she needs some toys" thats exactly what happened. Its so hard for small children to sit still for a long time. Bomi did a really good job! This was so cute!
I'm mixed/blasian, luckily my mum is half black and my dad is Asian so she grew up knowing the techniques of how to do black hair which were passed down from generations of women in our family and properly took care of ours throughout our childhood. I remember once my mum was in hospital though and my dad was clueless how to style our hair, it was only a few days but the first thing she did when we came to visit her was tell my dad off for letting our hair get so messy and immediately get a hairbrush to start styling it!
I’m like you my dad is Blasian. My mom 1/4 Asian and Black. So she taught me. Her hair has loose curls. Thank goodness for my mom
Then you are not blasian ,you are a quadroon,blasian are people who are literally half Asian and half black,your mother is a blasian not you , people really need to learn about themselves ,you are more Asian than you are black ,
That's the big difference between mixed kids with black mothers! 😍🎯
@@kaya856 A lot more than you think
@@kaya856right ? That’s what I said they’re white but if you’re 25% black they’re deemed as quarter cast but a lot don’t like that term.
Love how the mum is letting Bomi still be a kid while trying to help Rianna keep her still enough to be styled, all while learning from Rianna. Rianna is also a lovely person for teaching them and styling Bomi so well while she was trying to run off and play. Adorable video overall 😊
This is oddly beautiful. Just women helping women across cultures and racial background.
두 분 너무 보기 좋아요!!! 딸을 위해 기꺼이 조언을 구하고 배우는 보미 엄마도 기꺼이 아는 바를 친절히 알려주는 리아나 님도 너무 멋지세요. 그리고 보미는 너무 귀엽네요❤ I love all of them!
White mom here that’s been caring for a biracial Black and Puerto Rican foster child with a very similar hair texture. She is now 3 (I have had her since she was a baby). I use a very similar process to what Rianna has shown, so it’s reassuring to feel like I’ve been doing things accurately. But that is definitely thanks to hair care training, talking to other moms who are black or have biracial children, black hair stylists, and lots of KZhead videos! And it’s a continuous journey because the hair texture continues to change as she grows, and I keep wanting to tackle more challenging or detailed hairstyles.
There's no such thing as a black and puerto rican, Puerto Rican is not a RACE is a f nationality, Americans man, it's 2023 and y'all still don't know the differences?
@purplelove3666 Puerto Rican is an ethnicity. Our nationality is American. Black is part of our race. There definitely are black Puerto Ricans.
@@purplelove3666There’s no need to be critical. She was sharing the details of her background. Her daughter has a diverse background. ❤ She clearly loves her too.
@@Vivian1107 Yes. I think the user you replied to was focused on the wrong thing. This is about learning good hair care. The daughter’s ethnic background is beautiful. ❤
@@purplelove3666just wait until you find out that Puerto Ricans are American 💀
I love these sort of cross cultural videos. They make my heart happy
same - just the mixture of language too... i dunoo... i love when people speak whole conversations bouncing from one language to the next, it absolutely tickles the brain xD
Is it really cross cultural. When do Korean women help Black or African women take care of their children?
Bomi is so cute! I love that this momma is learning her daughter's hair. When I was a kid, we didn't have these resources, plus parents in the Philippines didn't take kids out of school for lice, so at one point, my mom got so frustrated, she had a barber give me a boy cut. I was crying the whole time because I felt so ugly, and the barber was doing his best to cheer me up. It took at least one year to grow back to a feminine length (like in the middle of my chin to the base of my neck, not exactly the shoulders). I felt so ugly that whole year. I'm so glad baby Bomi's not gonna have that problem
I love this, just some input from my experience: • For someone with no experience, Mom has done a great job maintaining her daughters hair. There are things that can be expounded upon with time, but this is a great start. • At least 2 inches needs to be trimmed, at minimum. Trimming is essential for most 3/4 hair types, to prevent split ends from traveling up the length of the hair shaft. For me - every 3 months, some more often or less often - depending on that individual’s hair type & hair health. • Any hair product containing sulfates (leave in conditioners, creams, moisturizers, etc) needs to be cleansed using a clarifying shampoo on wash day. Without clarifying the hair, it won’t be able to accept moisture as some products seal the hair cuticle. Lack of moisture leads to damage and breakage, split ends. • When styling a small child’s hair, it helps to have snacks and activities to keep them occupied while they’re seated, again - depending on the child. • I loved the finished style, but I especially appreciate how the teacher/stylist interacted with the child. 🖤
I love how they let Bomi just be herself and left it in the video. It made it more real and relatable. Bomi looks adorable with her "kitty hair" ❤
Nah...
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Bomi was just the cutest! So happy to see that they allowed her to just be a little kid and play around and have snacks so she wouldn't get overwhelmed. Bomi was just in her own little world. Rianna was a champ the whole way through. This is the kind of patience that should earn you sainthood.
I respect black people for managing their hair so perfectly. Haven't seen one bad style so far.
Managing ? With wigs or cutting them really short ?
@@Paraclef there was neither a wig, or cutting in this video, wtf are you on about?
I just leave my hair grow out naturally. If her hair was soaked and moisturized it wouldnt frizz like that.
@@ParaclefI don't see a y men wearing wigs fool
Bomi looked so cute while having Rianna do her hair. The funniest part is when Bomi said "I'll be back soon." Rianna also did such a wonderful job doing Bomi's hair and being patient with her explaining to Bomi's mom the type of hair care she needs. 😊 It was also adorable how Bomi was running around. 😅
Ah yes.. working with children truly is a struggle... but seeing everyone do their best to try and work with an innocent child was heartwarming too. Lovely episode! The hairstyle came out so cute.
We were all like that when we were kids, so working with children is not a struggle if you keep saying that
I hope as culture diversifies and more people are exposed to more experiences, Bomi will have more resources to access in terms of her hair! I had a friend in high school who was adopted by a white family and she told me that her mom never really learned to do her hair, and she started doing it herself very young. I'm happy to see parents of mixed kids putting in the effort to keep their kids hair healthy!
Yes I was adopted white mom and it’s a burden as a child trying to figure out the hair thing but my mom is alway curious and willing to learn. She also not afraid to stop a complete stranger and ask where she got her hair done 😂😂 Thank God for that 😅
My moms mixed as am I and she was adopted by white folks as well, gave her so much love but in the 60s they didn’t have a lot of knowledge, and in turn my mom didn’t really know how to do my hair. I now teach her things!!
bomi is SO adorable. her looking up as her bangs were braided melted my heart. i can’t take it 😭❤️
it's always great to see a parent take the effort to learn to care for their child even with something like hair care especially when it's so different from what her own hair. what a great momma! also love how playful and patient Rianna was with Bomi! she did a great job in both styling and teaching
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My niece's father was a lovely man from Jamaica who sadly passed away during military service when she was still very little, and as far as we knew he was estranged from his family. Due to other circumstances, I had temp custody of her, and while youtube helped, what I did was take her to a black owned salon and essentially asked if I could pay to get a crash course in how to care for and style her hair. My family is Native American, so niece has crazy thick 4b hair. I'm forever thankful to the lovely ladies who helped me, because seeing it in person was so much more helpful than just watching it online. 😊
I hope the auntie and the mom keep in touch so she can teach more hair styles ☺️☺️
I hope not
@@hungrychat7304💀💀 tf ?
@@hungrychat7304why?
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@@hungrychat7304why ?
That's actually one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen. And it shows that not all Korean are just faced to their own "race". I actually think that, in the south of course, they're getting more open to all other countries and cultures year by year and that's so cute to see. Look at Danielle, Somi etc they're biracial as well and I think that's so cool. Because we have lots of beautiful humans and cultures all over the world, and mixed? The best of both! ❤❤❤
Rianna's patience and kind, the Mom is committed to learn and care for her daughter's hair, and Bomi is just a beautiful bubble of joy!
That child is adorable😭😭 yet again another decent informative video!
So glad she asked Bomi whether it’s painful or not, especially as our hair can also be quite full but with a sensitive scalp, loved loved loved Rianna’s interaction with her! So cute!
애기 너무 예쁘다 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 어머니도 애기 머리 묶어주시려고 배우는 모습 너무 예뻐요 ☺️애기때 엄마가 머리 묶어주시던거 생각난당🥹
중간에 보미한테 공 굴려주시는거 넘 귀엽고 다정해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
The patience and care Rihanna shows for Bomi and her mom is so beautiful!! 😊
I think this is so beautiful and a very special moment for the mother. oh also the little girls hair needs to be encouraged to her that it’s beautiful and she doesn’t need to straighten her hair bc everyone else’s is straight!
Omg what a BEAUTIFUL little girl. Holy cow. She's truly gorgeous.
I'm Korean and black and when I was a child my mama would add hair grease then braid it. It grew very long. I still had oils to my scalp and curl lotion or creme to my hair. ❤️🙏
I love hair grease!
I’m curious, what’s hair grease? And what’s the difference between hair grease and hair gel? I haven’t heard of hair grease before?
Them trying the wrangle the daughter in so they can finish her hair is so funny 😂 It’s really sweet that they don’t scold her and are very patient
I feel like everyone should know this if only to simply understand how black people care for their hair. As an Indian person I was completely ignorant of any type of haircare that black people do and was even more ignorant of the unjust discrimination that they face because of their hair styles. It's great for everyone to know.
Yes I learned a lot from my black friends ❤ I’m white & now wear a bonnet to bed to protect my hair from breakage as well.
as a black/mixed person this makes me happy that you do know, like you are aware, because one time this girl in my class laughed at me and said "pfft! who brushes their hair when it's wet? you brush it when it's dry obviously!" her hair was like stick straight, my hair is layered and i have 3b hair so that's definitely not true, if you tried to brush my hair dry it would make it look so bad tangled and dry, first is wet then products then dry, my hair will be super soft and shiny after that
Agreed, very educational! 💖
You a real one my guy
Im a Liberian, same nationality of Bomi's father. Im currently living in Russia and father of a 20days old biracial boy name Eric Sheriff. Bomi is growing beautifully and her name is actually a name of a county in Liberia, so surely she will stand out in the future. Much love to the parent and the Channel for providing such video.
Bomi’s mom is one of the most open minded and joyous women I’ve ever seen.
I remember cutting my bf straight thick asian hair the first time and feeling unprepared, its a real learning curve working on different hair textures and gives awareness to people different than you in a way most dont think about.
So maybe this is not as relatable, but my husband has a lot of hair and he’s part Mexican and I’m 100% Colombian and my hair is thicker but I have less hair than my husband… my son has blonde hair, but he has more of my thickness and I’m starting to see the volume in his hair.. it’s wavy…so working with my hair for so many years I know this boy is going to need some sort of moisturizer and a little cream down the way to control that volume that I tend to have. It’s interesting for sure 💖❤️
Thanks to Rianna for helping precious little Bomi & her mom. Bomi has beautiful hair and I’m glad her mom is interested in learning how to care for and style it. By the way, Rihanna’s hair and makeup looks gorgeous! ❤
Absolutely not! Black women should never do this. Non-Black women shouldn't even think about using Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children.
The stylist is pretty 😍
This is really so cute!! When I used to work at a Korean kindergarten, kids always asked their parents to do them braids so they could look like me. It was so adorable 😊😊
I love how kids see something awesome and just go "woah awesome" instead of viewing things through the lens of how it looks to wider society 🥹
I loved everything about this video. Mum, Rianna, Bomi hyperactive cuteness energy. The tips. The end result. Loved so much.
Rianna seems to be great with kids and very patient! If Bomi’s mom was black and her dad Korean, she would’ve already been used to sitting still for a long time while doing her hair. Us black or mixed girls and boys with black mothers learn this at a very young age. I can still remember being 4/5 and getting my hair washed every Saturday and subsequently getting all kinds of beautiful styles done. My mom also had to do my hair until I was 15/16 because it’s so curly and long that it would take me many more hours than the two/three hours it took my mom. Bomi will get used to it as well and it’s beautiful that her mother wants to learn more about her hair type.
When I was young, my mom would put my hair in those pink foam curlers a few days a week. She'd just sit me down in front of the TV. She'd do our hair every morning, too, I never went to school without my hair done. So it really depends on your mom, not your race, when it comes to getting your hair done.
Some black mums don't know how to braid
I'm black Caribbean British, I was thinking exactly the same thing "about being used to sitting down for a long time to get your hair done" 😅... ... by 4 yrs , you knew what time it was... I was born in the early 80's - no gentle parenting then... it was sit down and be quiet... .if you know what I mean 🤣getting up errrmmm.. no way... I have / had long 4c hair... whewww wash day..😏 If look back now, it was kinda traumatic.. but it had to be done.. if you wanted to have your hair healthy and braided with all the styles for school.. PS Im in no way bashing anyone in this video.. I loved it. the video... it just a time.. I'm sure all black women remember..
@@Pancakespls Y’all can never just let us have anything huh? Where in my comment was I even talking about white people or any other race not getting their hair done. This video was about a half black child, so I shared my experience as a black woman. Good for you that your mom also did you hair. I mean, what do you want me to say about that? Unless you have our hair type (3b-4c), your experience is completely different from ours. Thank you for annoying me this late, when I was just trying to share a wholesome memory and not take away from anyone. The difference between you and me is that I stay in my lane and talk about MY experiences. Your insecurity made it a race thing where you felt the need to somehow challenge MY experience. Ask yourself why you felt threatened because something wasn’t about YOU. I will not tell you why, because I’ve already wasted enough time on you Karen. Edit: Getting your hair done means something different in black culture. Like I said: STAY IN YOUR LANE. Differences are okay and actually beautiful. It also doesn’t always have to be about YOU.
@@jtt1371 YES! This exactly, there was nothing gentle about the way they would do our hair, but it was always done with much love and care because as our mothers child we had to look good🤣. And YAY, fellow Caribbean woman here, but from The Netherlands💗🥰
Ayee, Liberia represent. I was so shocked to hear my country in this video lmao. Love their interaction and the patience of both Bomi´s mom, and Rianna.
Children bring a lot of good energy on their own Recently I’ve started appreciating how cute adults can act with new kids When people are trying to be gentle and attentive to kids, they can become very present. They express their emotions way more dramatically than usual, and get taken off guard more easily. I think it is nice.
i love how the staff was passing the ball back and forth to her so cute
This is so important for people to learn about other hair types other than their own since hair often is a big part of someone's identity and sense of self! I love watching videos about hairstyling and learning about them
Same here .
I’m so happy they made it fun for Bomi! And everyone was so kind and patient. Just a positive video all around!
This was a great video. I love how detailed Rianna was and how involved and enthusiastic the mom was in learning how to do her child's hair.
Rianna is so patient with bomi it's hard to handle kids she handled it very nice
The anxiety I would have with little Bomi running around especially when you were about to put her ponytail in her hair would send me. You are a patient soul. And the mom is very calming and encouraging to little Bomi. Such a cute style!😊
Does her husband not have any sisters or female relatives she can learn from? This seems like it would be a great bonding time for the mother and her in laws
I guess the das moved to Korea on his own so there prob isn’t a lot of contact with his family but I think the dad should def also learn how to do his kids hair
보미 진짜 귀엽ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 시간과 정성이 듬뿍 들어가야해서 오래걸리겠지만 머리가 빵실빵실한게 진짜 너무 예뻐요
This is so adorable and cute. I love how the mother was so willing to learn and figure out what is best for her daughter's hair and Rianna being so willing to teach the mother what is best for Bomi. I would love to see more of this!
I love this cultural exchange. I got excited when I saw Shea Moisture because I use it on my biracial daughter. Bomi’s hair is beautiful
I love seeing this! Gently educating how to care for mixed hair. It really can be difficult; I love that she is so patient.
The patience and understanding with these ladies was magical!