What I wish I knew before I became a psychotherapist

2024 ж. 23 Мам.
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I've been doing psychotherapy for the last 15 years. Here are the top 10 things I wish I knew before I became a psychotherapist.
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10 things I wish I knew before I became a psychotherapist:
1. You will be constantly humbled by how much you don't know.
2. It is deeply meaningful work.
3. Being a therapist is tough on your body and mind.
4. Having a lot of therapist friends is amazing.
5. You are going to deal with stupid turf wars.
6. Most therapists won't get rich doing therapy.
7. You're entering a customer service business.
8. You will have a lot of independence.
9. Mental healthcare is going to be massively disrupted.
10. Understand growing markets.
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  • What I wish I knew before I became a psychology student: Statistics

    @hilal9889@hilal98893 жыл бұрын
    • Hey, I recently graduated with my BA in psychology. Math has never been my thing, but I made an A in statistical methods of psychology. I will never forget the panic attack I had when my advisor told me I had to take a math class (I was in my last couple of semesters at this time, so I thought I was home free). In sum, you will get through it and be glad you did. If you already completed the course, let's compare our experiences with it.

      @deavonrichardson6790@deavonrichardson67903 жыл бұрын
    • I think more and more schools are requiring it as a main prerequisite for psych pathways now. In my program, I had to take 2 stats classes before I could take the required class on psychological testing methods

      @Julian-em6vd@Julian-em6vd3 жыл бұрын
    • Statistics is not my friend, but I will handle it when it comes across as I start my second degree in psychology

      @evelynmwangi8624@evelynmwangi86243 жыл бұрын
    • I graduated back in January. English is not my first language and trying to learn something you suck from a teacher whose first langue is also not English was extremely difficult. I remember crying for months just because I failed statistics twice (I am generally successful when it comes to other subjects). Then a miracle happened and I passed. When we started to work on spss things got drastically better, I can work with spss, do calculations then interpret the data and write a report without problems but boy I don't think I'll ever learn how to do calculations by hand. I gave up on math quite long ago. Now, I am trying to choose a masters programme but I am scared of going through the same thing again :(

      @hilal9889@hilal98893 жыл бұрын
    • undergrad psyc statistics is very easy and doesn't involve as much math as real statistics. I promise--this is from someone who probably has an LD in math.

      @materialhell@materialhell3 жыл бұрын
  • Listening to this already give me the overwhelming stress

    @oliviajovanka7032@oliviajovanka70324 жыл бұрын
    • lol- welcome to the field. it’s a marathon not a sprint

      @turduckenwrath6110@turduckenwrath61103 жыл бұрын
    • lol

      @Gapeaches77able@Gapeaches77able3 жыл бұрын
    • OMG same 🥲

      @aahanapokhrel4657@aahanapokhrel46572 жыл бұрын
    • OMG same

      @jahnavibhargava2572@jahnavibhargava25722 жыл бұрын
    • Tap out bro

      @ecem8546@ecem85462 ай бұрын
  • As a therapist, everything on this video rings true. While getting my degree I never got a sense of the practical consequences and challenges of working as an independent (self-employed) clinician: the changing schedule, the importance of being available through emails and messaging and the toll all of it takes on body and mind. In the last 3-4 years of work I've come a long way in learning to manage all of if, and I couldn't be any happier to see you adress this in such a concise and honest manner. The biggest upside of all the dificulties is, to me, your second point: meaning. The days and weeks -and months- can be rough sometimes, but being part of a life-altering process is a very unique and rewarding experience. Thanks for the video, keep up the great work!

    @franciscozamorano6807@franciscozamorano68074 жыл бұрын
    • I have a question for you.........when did you become certain that you would like to pursue a career in psychology? What are the signs that you noticed that indicated that this is right for you?

      @aojbooker8650@aojbooker86504 жыл бұрын
    • i got lucky because my clinical supervisor went back and got an MBA and consequently always spoke to me about “growing the business” and thinking about websites, consulting, and etc if I wanted to go into private practice subsequently- I’ve never gone into private practice cuz I hate business stuff tho i do wish I had some of the freedoms in tx that comes with private practice

      @turduckenwrath6110@turduckenwrath61103 жыл бұрын
    • Which degree do you need to study in order to become a therapist, please let me know??

      @vidaseidu5656@vidaseidu56563 жыл бұрын
    • Funny how all of us here are therapists . . . Cheers, all!

      @joethecounselor@joethecounselor2 жыл бұрын
    • @@vidaseidu5656 I got a master's in Clinical Psychology. You can also study counseling. Your ability to provide services won't change a ton from PsyD to MS. Another option is MSW (Masters of Science in Social Work).

      @joethecounselor@joethecounselor2 жыл бұрын
  • i’m a clinical social worker (therapist) and this is all so true. 15 yrs in and I definitely have vicarious trauma but yeah, I have a ton of therapist friends so it works out also- the LCSW LPCC LMFT PSYD PHD war is killing me what i wish I had known: there’s a lot of people who seem to get into this field without having worked out a lot of their own issues. I think it’s important to do a lot of self work and reflect on your own issues because I see people who havent and it ends up impacting their empathy and boundaries.

    @turduckenwrath6110@turduckenwrath61103 жыл бұрын
    • I'm not a therapist, however, I've been a client or a few years now. I once had a therapist who seemed to use our sessions for talking about her issues. I mean of course, if there's big stuff we can chat about it, but it sounded like she had some things she needed to work out on her own!

      @MrJoon360@MrJoon3603 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrJoon360 yeah fire that person if that's what she's doing. it's a legit problem.

      @turduckenwrath6110@turduckenwrath61103 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrJoon360 I think this is just Great if a Therapist shares some times some of her or his problems, that makes them more Human!

      @andreakovacs3088@andreakovacs30883 жыл бұрын
    • @@andreakovacs3088 they teach us about self-disclosure in school and how it can be helpful in small doses but shouldnt be a regular thing bc its unethical, but it always depends on the person

      @kyrat6079@kyrat60793 жыл бұрын
    • My therapist who is a psychiatrist, I could tell projects her stuff on me. Not surprising since if she did the MD route shes more of a left brained person than me and maybe isnt as in tune with emotion.

      @qazedc3@qazedc32 жыл бұрын
  • I am afraid of becoming a therapist. I always wanted to do this, but now I am just afraid and not motivated.

    @makeupbyushna3085@makeupbyushna30854 жыл бұрын
    • I was excited *and* afraid when I went into grad school. I cut this from my video for time, but the independence of being a therapist was very scary to me at first. I wish I had a supervisor there telling me what to do. But you always start out slow in your training with easier cases and slowly get less support and more independence as you progress towards graduation and independent licensure.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali thanks for replying, it means a lot.

      @makeupbyushna3085@makeupbyushna30854 жыл бұрын
    • I feel this too. In a way, I know it's what I must do, but I'm so scared of it that I can't bring myself to actually do it.

      @laurentziu7895@laurentziu78953 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali any tips for being successful and financially stable in this field?

      @KirilPetrov65@KirilPetrov653 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @maria-melek@maria-melek3 жыл бұрын
  • *This was such a helpful video! Thank you for sharing your job and duties so openly with the rest of us. Keep up the amazing work both inside and outside of the office!*

    @CassandraBankson@CassandraBankson4 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you so much for your kind and supportive comment!!!! Feedback like this helps me to continue creating videos.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali C

      @TassuMithai@TassuMithai9 ай бұрын
    • @@TassuMithai Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same. All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE. All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh. All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is: to deceive and steal. They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”. In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one. Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there. ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life. Do not trust one nor to try to be one. 1 John 4:1 KJV Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.

      @theharshtruthoutthere@theharshtruthoutthere3 ай бұрын
  • To all mental health professionals: Your mental health is important, too. We realize you devote a significant amount of time to assisting others in navigating their own emotions. Make sure you look after yourself as well, because you matter too.

    @h.p.j.3502@h.p.j.35022 жыл бұрын
    • strongly agree from another patient

      @catherinerichter8317@catherinerichter831710 ай бұрын
    • I'm scared of becoming a therapist and not being able to separate my emotions from my client's.

      @ingrid5944@ingrid59444 ай бұрын
  • I am 16 and I love psychology from bottom of my heart. I like to take it as my career but I don't get enough motivated from my family and friends but you sir you are doing a wonderful job I really appreciate it.

    @fazilk9427@fazilk94273 жыл бұрын
    • Bro are you might be from Malaysia?

      @orewajackkuripper1204@orewajackkuripper12043 жыл бұрын
    • I have already thought of being a therapist and I’m 14 😂 why doesn’t your family support you? It’s a good career choice in my opinion. I say do what you love. ❤️

      @hijabi_2324@hijabi_23243 жыл бұрын
    • @@hijabi_2324 Exactly ❤

      @fazilk9427@fazilk94273 жыл бұрын
    • Yes ,you are right, many will tell you how much worthless or useless it is and disappoint you but if you are truly interested just go for it at your own way, every career has opportunities, maybe income must be low but happiness is more important than money and if you want to be rich by it I think it should be difficult without phd or a cutoff career path

      @soumyasukumaran6066@soumyasukumaran60663 жыл бұрын
    • Iam14

      @shreyasadebbarma4545@shreyasadebbarma45453 жыл бұрын
  • #1 really hit home. Just as my clients learn about themselves through my facilitation, I too learn through them about what I don't know. In turn, it ignites my passion to learn!!! Intellectual curiosity is a must!

    @Sleepyer2681@Sleepyer26814 жыл бұрын
    • I love this

      @qazedc3@qazedc32 жыл бұрын
  • Main thing I just really realized is the lack of diversity in Psychology. As a legally blind African American male going into the clinical field, there is miniscule representation in diversity to the point it's disheartening. The lack of emphasis to change this is unfortunate especially in this field.

    @AceHBK972@AceHBK9724 жыл бұрын
    • Having gone through the training and done advocacy in the field, I can say there is a strong commitment in psychology to diversity however how well that value is implemented across training programs really varies. There's a lot of great information about that here: www.apa.org/pi/oema/index.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • So something as superficial as skin color is all important when it comes to the profoundly deep subject and qualifications of therapists?? I thought it was the goal of civil rights to overcome race and to see people for who they are- character and what they know.... unfortunately all I see with these people who claim to be for 'diversity' etc

      @jonesy2111@jonesy21113 жыл бұрын
    • Agreed. This is part of why I want to switch to Psychology. I'm physically disabled and always wished I could find a therapist who really understood what that's like. My therapists have always done their best to empathize, but nothing can replace a personal experience. Many patients have expressed a similar desire for disabled healthcare providers in all fields.

      @Andrei-yv8fz@Andrei-yv8fz3 жыл бұрын
    • @@Andrei-yv8fz I never realized the purpose of diversity. Thanks for adding this comment, it was really helpful.

      @andii-@andii-3 жыл бұрын
    • @@jonesy2111 --The root of psychological issues are sometimes unique to different cultures. Many people of color are more likely to seek help from someone whom they feel understands their cultural traditions, perspectives and points of view (apart from the norm) which may impact some of their mental and emotional issues. That is why it is very important to have more diverse representation in the field of psychology.

      @goodgracious6364@goodgracious63643 жыл бұрын
  • I'm a grad student in clinical psychology and I'm super pumped to be a psychotherapist but to also interweave technology with psychology. It's true that technology is influencing just about every career at this point, and it'll be interesting to see how the field develops and adapts to those changes!

    @philsguidetopsyd@philsguidetopsyd3 жыл бұрын
    • I see a lot of younger therapists use social media like instagram to advertise their services to gain a higher clientele. Feel like you can garner a lot of base for other services like workshops and things

      @qazedc3@qazedc32 жыл бұрын
    • I think technology is going to play a driving role in making therapeutic resources more available to the people who need it most.

      @grimble4564@grimble45642 жыл бұрын
    • Telehealth will probably be the #1 technological influence

      @eyekandy3000@eyekandy30002 жыл бұрын
    • That’s great 👍🏽

      @Your_Talk_Therapist@Your_Talk_Therapist9 ай бұрын
    • Downfall of our society. Insidious.

      @insertmyidentityhere@insertmyidentityhere5 ай бұрын
  • I am studying BS psychology. I hope in few years I also become psychologist

    @muskankhan8925@muskankhan89254 жыл бұрын
    • Good luck in your studies!

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • We please to saw your reply and Thanks for wishing me good luck

      @muskankhan8925@muskankhan89254 жыл бұрын
    • Could I email you,please? I have some things I'd love to get clarification or answers to. I know 'you're bad it responding in a timely manner'😂😭,so ill give you time.

      @kierras1029@kierras10293 жыл бұрын
    • @@kierras1029 be open not only for your mistakes but for ppl in front of you as well

      @dimensioner@dimensioner3 жыл бұрын
    • @@dimensioner is this Just a random quote that is applicable in life? Or are you implying that your phrase applies to my comment??

      @kierras1029@kierras10293 жыл бұрын
  • The thing that made me rethink that thing “Most therapists don’t become rich”

    @user-qj9pg2mr4g@user-qj9pg2mr4g4 жыл бұрын
    • Rich is so subjective. Will you be making "stacks on stacks on stacks" (to quote Tom Haverford)? No, but you can become financially stable and successful.

      @Vincenza8907@Vincenza89074 жыл бұрын
    • Nobody becomes rich, and if you do its at the expense of others starving and being homeless 🤷‍♂️

      @PewPewFig@PewPewFig4 жыл бұрын
    • It's not impossible. The secret is hyperspecialising,marketing and Private practice. Yea that should work.

      @Charlie42056@Charlie420563 жыл бұрын
    • @blad90 the more properties you own the less likely someone else can own one at a reasonable price ;)

      @missbeaussie@missbeaussie3 жыл бұрын
    • @@PewPewFig a lot of people think that this is how the economy works but it doesn't. When one person becomes rich it does not mean that others become poor because of inflation. Money is pumped into the economy so that there is enough to go around. Unfortunately, the richest people still gobble it all up. That's why the rich are becoming richer while the poor and middle class are not.

      @danielfadavi@danielfadavi3 жыл бұрын
  • The hardest part for me,is realizing how others that have no faith in you, that are supposed to be your biggest support group. Understanding that everyone is deliberately dealing with some form of mental health issues. Trying to find a starting point to get more people ready to talk about their issues and making them comfortable and not be judged.

    @bigmike3007@bigmike30072 жыл бұрын
  • I'm currently on the fence about continuing to pursue clinical psychology and I was very scared this would be a super negative video but it's purely objective truths that just make me feel so much more prepared, and confident in evaluating my true willingness to become a therapist!! thank you so much. finding this channel has significantly lifted my spirits

    @maytaha4900@maytaha49002 жыл бұрын
  • I wish I had a more realistic view of how therapists supported themselves in this field. A lot of media shows therapists as being well off and not working crazy hours because you can make your own schedule. I am almost two years into this field and I quickly learned how false that really is.

    @breannajohnson6612@breannajohnson66123 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for this helpful video! As a beginner therapist I sometimes feel overwhelmed with how unexpected the course of therapy can be at times. I think part of becoming a therapist is learning to live with the doubt of the effectiveness of our approach. It's a constant process of learning through trial and error.

    @TasLomv@TasLomv3 жыл бұрын
    • Your comment is now three years old, I wonder are you now a more seasoned therapist? I am at the beginning of my journey as a therapist and I sure feel insecure at times in my own abilities and strengths despite all the training and schooling.

      @kayjay8790@kayjay87905 ай бұрын
  • Just wanted to come on here to tell you that I love your videos and think they’re extremely underrated! You have a very warm and calming presence and it’s very calming to hear you talk! :)

    @franzi579@franzi5794 жыл бұрын
  • As a therapist myself you are absolutely right about being humbled daily by how much we don’t know! I think great therapists know and admit that whereas therapists who think they know it all, have some fixed method they believe in, or think they are “experts” tend to be less effective and suffer from confirmation bias, great point! 👍

    @PatrickClevelandMA@PatrickClevelandMA3 жыл бұрын
  • As someone studying Psychology with the goal of becoming a therapist, I deeply appreciate this video.

    @singinwithceline@singinwithceline2 жыл бұрын
  • This was so helpful seeing from a therapist’s perspective! Thank you so much 💕

    @minh-anhphan9367@minh-anhphan93673 жыл бұрын
  • This is such an amazing video!! You actually gave information that helps me to know what it is I need to face and to prepare for. I really love it!!

    @sheneltyortiz7772@sheneltyortiz77722 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for making this video. As a newly graduated in psychology,It's really helpful to hear this from experienced psychotherapist.

    @amalibrahim9143@amalibrahim91434 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for this, very insightful. I'm about to go into my fourth year in psychology!

    @nileytrueluv1@nileytrueluv14 жыл бұрын
  • Almost finished my studies and this is such a great reminder! Thank you for sharing you knowledge :)

    @YodasMinniMe@YodasMinniMe3 жыл бұрын
  • I needed this video!! Thank you so much! As a current undergraduate senior in college planning out my life during a freaking pandemic, this video def helped me to realize that I do want to pursue a career in psychotherapy! It's going to be tough but I truly do believe this is the work I wanna do. Even with the downfalls, I see benefits that fit perfectly for me. Thank you again!!!

    @decemberbaby4256@decemberbaby42563 жыл бұрын
  • Wow all I can say is thank you so much for this video! This isn’t just a game changer in my own understanding of the craft of being there for others but this helps so many of us understand the world of psychology and reassures those dedicated to psychology of a greater understanding which in the long run doesn’t just help those giving but the entire group of all people and how they may relate to psychology

    @christroock7869@christroock78693 жыл бұрын
  • I’ve been through a lot in my life and top of that I began reading the Bible. I have to say those two things have prepared me well to listen to mind twisting situations others have been in. I think the art of acceptance and being wise and understanding helps tremendously. Knowing that you are that light others are seeking but you also are not set apart from the suffering all us human experience. We are all being used and need to be used by one another inorder to keep afloat in this temporary journey ❤

    @najlamuhammad2099@najlamuhammad209910 ай бұрын
  • love how he gets straight into the video without waffling, really hlpfull thank you!

    @sarazaman9434@sarazaman94343 жыл бұрын
  • This video was definitely a wonderful watch! Thank you so much for doing this! I woke with a vision to become a therapist and this is very insightful!

    @almagarcia3721@almagarcia37212 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you, this was SO helpful as someone considering going into psychology. I can't wait to see more of your videos, you speak very clearly and I can tell you are a good psychologist just by listening to you!

    @thegrubzz@thegrubzz3 жыл бұрын
  • Awesome video! I’ve been considering studying psychology/therapy for a while and I think this video secured my interest!

    @dylandaprato7320@dylandaprato73203 жыл бұрын
  • As a fellow psychotherapist this sounds so true to my own experience ❤ thank you for sharing your experiences. Love this channel.

    @rodsella@rodsella3 жыл бұрын
  • Too true! Particularly the turf wars around therapy models and type of degree you have as well as how complex the field is! Thank you for this.

    @enatp6448@enatp64483 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for a great video! I am a new therapist with my training license and this is super helpful and honest. To answer your question, I think I wish I knew how normal it is for therapists to feel nervous, worried, and uncertain in the beginning. This is still a growth area for me. I want to continue to develop my confidence and to feel like I am truly helping someone be able to make the changes necessary to enhance their life.

    @melanieamini-hajibashi6852@melanieamini-hajibashi68523 жыл бұрын
  • 8:30 coming from the educational background I see the training of educators being more directed at social emotional learning which will also change the mental health field. This year in Texas, legislature was past requiring public schools to partner with mental health agencies to offer their services directly on school campuses. I agree this change of mental health becoming less of one to one will be evolving. I am excited for the change but I too wish to stay on top of it all. Your show inspires me a lot and as a first year therapist on the verge of opening my own practice I thank you for video support.

    @MichaelLesherMEdLPC@MichaelLesherMEdLPC4 жыл бұрын
  • I love your videos. Thank you so much for taking your time to educate us!❤

    @EarsofUnderstandingTarot@EarsofUnderstandingTarot Жыл бұрын
  • I just started my private practice as an art therapist for a year now and this is really helpful. I've felt everything you've mentioned and need to remind myself how much self-care I REALLY need. Thank you!

    @daeunchung8377@daeunchung83773 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for sharing! I am currently looking at different Graduate programs and have been so bogged down with all the types of different degrees you can get to be a therapist. I'd love to hear your perspective on different master's programs and how to make sense of all of them. Best wishes!

    @alexfrazier9015@alexfrazier90152 жыл бұрын
  • I'm a wellness and recovery specialist (peer specialist) and it's very interesting to hear these because I have a lot of similar experiences!

    @musicandmentalhealth@musicandmentalhealth3 жыл бұрын
  • WOAH this video gave me so much insight into the actual lifestyle of a psychotherapist! THANK YOU!!!

    @dechenchokey226@dechenchokey2262 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for the Awesome video. I have been considering doing career counselling for a long time but I think after watching this it'll need to be a volunteer/social enterprise thing on the side. I have been daydreaming about web development as a profitable niche but it is you that has given it more fuel by tying that type of work to disrupting the mental health industry to provide better solutions than what currently exist.

    @shannonrogers6925@shannonrogers69253 жыл бұрын
  • this is such a helpful video, being someone whos going to start work soon and is going to start masters degree in clinical psychology means theres so much i need to know and be exposed to. thanks for making this video.

    @kits-sch@kits-sch4 жыл бұрын
  • This was very helpful. I've always had a "gift" it seems, people who I know close or people I hardly know will confide in me. I don't know why, and I've always loved psychologically, I'm seriously considering getting my PHD. I've been doing a lot of research, reading a lot and been paying more attention to the conversations I have with others. And I'm just getting more and more curious and interested. Thank you!

    @Rapidash41@Rapidash413 жыл бұрын
  • This video is exceedingly validating as a fellow therapist!

    @summerrichards5407@summerrichards54073 жыл бұрын
  • I love your channel SO much! thank you for the amazing content

    @abbeyolden9382@abbeyolden93823 жыл бұрын
  • I watched this whole video on the edge of my seat...this is awesome

    @carryonwithjessicacampbell6787@carryonwithjessicacampbell67873 жыл бұрын
  • This was very insightful. Thanks for sharing in such a concise and relatable manner.

    @jjohnson3833@jjohnson38333 жыл бұрын
    • Glad it was helpful!

      @drali@drali3 жыл бұрын
  • This was greatly helpful and enlightening. Thank you!

    @Ro-fd1lm@Ro-fd1lm2 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks so much for your honesty, especially section 1

    @NihouNi@NihouNi3 жыл бұрын
  • Great. Educational as always. Thank you

    @emiliam778@emiliam7784 жыл бұрын
  • I absolutely love the charity to society in this work I love pondering the minds of myself and others and the reflection to a solution for a positive impact in said clients life

    @jonathanwhite5697@jonathanwhite56972 жыл бұрын
  • So happy I found you! Just started and this is very useful advice.

    @psycholoogcharlotte2248@psycholoogcharlotte22483 жыл бұрын
  • Great topic Dr. Ali. Also, I got excited when I saw you on a trailer of a Netflix show called The Mind Explained.

    @vane_rodli@vane_rodli4 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you! Very excited for The Mind, Explained to be released next week!

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • I see this was from 2 years ago. I'm now going to see if this is still on Netflix.

      @care59801@care598012 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for this! I mean i was scared I am gonna get demotivated with this, esp with how much I am scared that I won't be able to handle it. But these were some really useful insights. 👍🏼

    @lalithasankar4108@lalithasankar41083 жыл бұрын
  • Amazing video, super helpful, thank you!

    @miriamreason4709@miriamreason47093 жыл бұрын
  • Sipping tea in the middle of your explanation is hilarious. I love it!

    @kymlewis5800@kymlewis5800 Жыл бұрын
  • I wish I knew how emotionally draining this job is. And a lot of things you already mentioned. Good video. Thanks 😊🙏

    @madarapumpure3655@madarapumpure36553 жыл бұрын
  • I really DO wish I saw this before becoming a psychotherapist. Thank you

    @airwekah@airwekah3 жыл бұрын
  • i am a clinical psychologist myself and i loved the useful "unspoken" information you speak about

    @adiblay6053@adiblay60534 жыл бұрын
  • So informative, great job!!

    @RekhaSingh-jj9hp@RekhaSingh-jj9hp3 жыл бұрын
  • Can you please do a video on a mature student over 30 going to study to become a Psychologist? I am starting in January 2021 from scratch. Ps. Love your videos.

    @MP-yq3ge@MP-yq3ge3 жыл бұрын
    • Yes please

      @Thx392@Thx3923 жыл бұрын
    • Same, have you started yet??

      @divathedivinegoddess8001@divathedivinegoddess80012 жыл бұрын
    • 28 here. Took me years to realize that I have a mediator personality and psychology has always been interesting to me. Should I start working towards this?

      @Druggy-Doggo@Druggy-Doggo2 жыл бұрын
    • @@Druggy-Doggo I’ll do it if you do it. Let’s be friends.

      @GBSeattle1@GBSeattle12 жыл бұрын
    • How’s it going for you?

      @alhaddd@alhaddd2 жыл бұрын
  • I was just reaching out to LCSW's for information on the reality of being a therapist in general. This came at a fantastic time.

    @Ureyeuh@Ureyeuh4 жыл бұрын
    • At least LCSW's don't have to fight with Medicare for reimbursement, while counselors are unable to get reimbursement at this time.

      @ARasputinaFan@ARasputinaFan3 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for your honesty Doctor. I love that u mention about the technology part.

    @Paintmylips@Paintmylips2 жыл бұрын
  • Your point on mental health being set to be massively disruptive is very interesting. While I think there are many ways therapy will be reintroduced to the world through technology and such, therapy, in my opinion, will always be centered around one on one, personal communication. Group settings, AI, etc. will always be welcomed, because they will allow for easier access to people who may not have the means for one on one therapy (time and money), but will never give the satisfaction of having that therapy that is personally designed for them. As you presumably know, having the ability to have your specific situation considered is huge when it comes to therapy. This is why, therapy, like you said, has been the same for so long. I know I am likely just discussing things you've already probably considered, but I just wanted to comment on it. I just discovered your videos earlier today and have loved all of the ones I have seen. Really looking forward to watching more!

    @jackfoudray@jackfoudray2 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks, Dr. Ali Mattu.

    @alkiautar3464@alkiautar34644 жыл бұрын
  • New subscriber!! Looking to get into the field. Thank you for being our mentor

    @taniasanchez7812@taniasanchez78124 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for inspiring confidence in my ability to do well in this field.

    @chrisdulaney7744@chrisdulaney77443 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks for taking the time to comment!

      @drali@drali3 жыл бұрын
  • Wonderful Video!! What I would love to learn next from you: "Day in the Life of a Therapist"

    @ashleenguyen2598@ashleenguyen25984 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you! This video gets you *close* to what my day looks like, at least the self-care part: kzhead.info/sun/fMZ9oaqerXqaf2w/bejne.html. You can also learn more about what my life as a therapist is like in this conversation with my wife: kzhead.info/sun/Z66GfLFweaCodGw/bejne.html

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
  • Amazing video, thanks Doc :)

    @eagleeyemind4800@eagleeyemind48003 жыл бұрын
  • Watching you giving the information about what your career and how you wish you know before you become a psychotherapist is very in educative and great information for new college student who is study psychology. Thank you for sharing your experience.

    @user-ts8ct6jv5x@user-ts8ct6jv5x8 ай бұрын
  • Im still young to be thinking about jobs- but sometimes I like to plan ahead in life, and today, I had a thought of becoming a psychotherapist. Seems like stressful but can be helpful towards others- I'll look into this more, and thank you for the video.

    @dcnannen4319@dcnannen43193 жыл бұрын
  • Im 14 and this is the job i want to do sincr i was like 12. Theres somthing about the human mind and helping people that i really love. Knowing you helped someone is the best feeling ever.

    @florin8049@florin80493 жыл бұрын
  • Great advice! Thanks for this content

    @puddin12dt@puddin12dt2 жыл бұрын
  • My best friend is just starting out as a therapist and she definitely needed to see this. Thank you!! You should send this video to all the mental health higher education institutions! They definitely aren't covering all of this stuff

    @danimjoyce@danimjoyce4 жыл бұрын
  • Oh Man! This is the best channel I can ask for as Psychology Student who is working towards her future in Psychology.

    @ayeshasajid5652@ayeshasajid56523 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you for the amazing feedback and welcome to the community!

      @drali@drali3 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali You deserve it.

      @ayeshasajid5652@ayeshasajid56523 жыл бұрын
  • This is such a great video. Currently studying psychology and my dream is to also get into the field. Unfortunately I feel like politicians in my country are actively working against better health care. The number of people who need mental health care is rising and the waiting lists get longer and longer. I don't know how things are in the US, but my in my country it's insanely expensive to become a psychotherapist and a very long journey.

    @TheSchaeferchen@TheSchaeferchen4 жыл бұрын
    • Finish your studies than apply for a job in a country where you'll be appreciated

      @Heru_Iluvatar@Heru_Iluvatar4 жыл бұрын
  • Agreed. To be honest, each one has his/ her own journey as a therapist. One learns by being a therapist. Income generation is surely a challenge if you have set up every thing by your own. Personally I feel.. I constantly need learning. Every single day. It's not a miraculous journey. I have observed many of my batch mates got a degree but didn't pursue in this field. I think it's the internal passion that motivates a therapist to keep going.

    @manidas4789@manidas47893 жыл бұрын
  • I'm 12 and I've got my heart stuck on therapy!

    @seanicejedidiah7926@seanicejedidiah79263 жыл бұрын
    • Amazing that you're already looking into it as a career opportunity! My recommendation at this point is to get volunteer experiences helping others and when you're old enough sign up to be a volunteer for crisis hotlines.

      @drali@drali3 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali yes or peer counseling at school if they offer it

      @wendyleeconnelly2939@wendyleeconnelly29393 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali any resources for volunteering? I’m 16, halfway through my junior year taking AP psych and want to pursue psychology long term.

      @Perrsevera@Perrsevera3 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you brother, very useful video. I'm your subscriber 👊

    @johnperkins8763@johnperkins87633 жыл бұрын
  • I have been becoming more interested in psychology and have been curious whether or not being a therapist would suit me. This definitely gave a lot of insight. Thank you!

    @jairav4648@jairav46484 жыл бұрын
  • Great video! Super helpful.

    @loganschexnayder1587@loganschexnayder15873 жыл бұрын
  • thanks for this video! very informative

    @pario850@pario8504 жыл бұрын
  • Yes! All these things are so true. I figured the compassion fatigue would take its toll but I don’t think I knew just how hard it would be to manage. I wish I had known at the beginning to not just take opportunities because they were presented to me. Nothing is worse than starting out in the field with a bad supervisor. It is worth taking the extra time to do research and make sure the job will offer impeccable supervision.

    @therapyfornerds6020@therapyfornerds60204 жыл бұрын
    • I also had no idea how difficult it would be to emotionally manage this job. Grad school focuses so much on the skills involved in the techniques but less so the emotions involved in this career.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • ​@@drali i wanna be psychotherapist but i afraid my patients. I just dont wanna hit or anything pls help me

      @lilpeep2356@lilpeep2356 Жыл бұрын
  • Wow. This was posted before COVID and the switch to telemed for most therapists. He predicted changes for the future well!

    @lydiatheglimmermaid@lydiatheglimmermaid3 жыл бұрын
  • Over the last few years, I've started to understand that people who are different than me experience fear and hatred against them that I dont experience myself. And it's taking a toll on me to the extent that I'm considering moving to another country. Would that be considered vicarious trauma? Or is the term geared specifically to an effect within a doctor/patient relationship? Ps. Only met you once, but you're still one of my favorite people ever. Keep being you!!

    @bridge4@bridge44 жыл бұрын
    • I'm so glad we got to meet! It's rare for me to connect with members of this community in person and when it happens it's magical and meaningful to me. Vicarious trauma isn't unique to people in healthcare. People who work in law enforcement, lawyers, journalists, pretty much anyone who works with people who have gone through trauma can experience it. Here's a free toolkit that can help you further explore this topic: vtt.ovc.ojp.gov/.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali makes sense. Thanks for the link!

      @bridge4@bridge44 жыл бұрын
    • @@bridge4 My pleasure!

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
    • Man. I'm trying to help my step daughter by just showing her different perspectives from quotes and videos and passages and she just won't do it and I think about often and it just sucks

      @benniestoasters8398@benniestoasters83983 жыл бұрын
    • @@drali Right! And even customer service reps and engineering technicians lol. I worked in customer service for a few years after getting out of the Army and I tell you, it’s amazing how many people just want someone to talk to and vent their frustrations to. I can’t recall how many people I sent on feeling a little better about their day or life just by sharing wisdom attained and lending an ear. Some of them were just lonely old people. I recall many one hour conversations trying to help people through their problems. This happened a lot while I was in the Army too. People just tend to confide things in me. I am going back to school now to get my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling.

      @Gapeaches77able@Gapeaches77able3 жыл бұрын
  • wow... this is my dream job! either this, either as a clinical psychologist. But I prefer this! i'm currently 15, loved this since I was 11 and I definitely won't change my mind. Hopefully I become a great psychologist or psychotherapist one day! I want to help people, with normal disorders and mental disorders(mental disorders interest me the most btw, it's just so fascinating to discover how the brain works). Thanks for this video!

    @olakolade6656@olakolade66563 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much! Very helpful!

    @jadenkitchen8311@jadenkitchen83113 жыл бұрын
  • Wow, you published this in 2019 and you predicted about the growing demand for telehealth!!! So accurate especially in the midst of this pandemic!!!

    @annatajminah@annatajminah3 жыл бұрын
  • I have been working in medicine for 25 years and I need a change, it is too much on my body, I am also bored and do not feel fulfilled. Therapy has always been something that I have been drawn to and with your video and help from my therapist friends, I am looking into this field. Thank you for your honesty.

    @jennifert3528@jennifert35282 жыл бұрын
    • What did you end up doing?

      @TheChallenger1000@TheChallenger1000Ай бұрын
  • great video! love your channel

    @itsjustelichannel@itsjustelichannel4 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you so much!!!!!!!!

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
  • Haha the turf wars is half my drive to give a psychology career a go. My dad is a psychiatric nurse and a very smart man and it's our differences that have me looking at the Psychology path, and those differences have and continue to broaden both our perspectives in conversations as well. I'm glad I stumbled across this video before starting the journey though, computer and tech courses have been noted. Thanks 😊

    @shellodee@shellodee3 жыл бұрын
  • I wish I knew how long it would take to get licensed! Great video!! Lots of food for thought 💭

    @haircrush1@haircrush14 жыл бұрын
  • thank you man!!! its very helpful

    @bilalshahid3510@bilalshahid35104 жыл бұрын
  • Thoughtful presentation...especially #9.

    @simonsbuddy1806@simonsbuddy18063 жыл бұрын
  • Such a great video!

    @ylite9550@ylite95502 жыл бұрын
  • Very informative, thanks!

    @ikcytom@ikcytom2 жыл бұрын
  • Awesome video, thanks.

    @RickGrundy@RickGrundy2 жыл бұрын
  • Hi! I just recently found your channel and I love it! Can you make a video discussing the differences between sociopaths and psychopaths and sharing in depth information about these two? I know alot of people like to think psychopaths and sociopaths are these murderous creeps, but I'm really interested in learning more about this and other mental health related topics and how it really works. Thank you and keep up the good work!

    @ari-xk4mf@ari-xk4mf4 жыл бұрын
    • Good question! I spoke a little bit about this with Buzzfeed: kzhead.info/sun/oZuQeJt5aahtgo0/bejne.html.

      @drali@drali4 жыл бұрын
  • Wish I’d seen this video years ago! Yes after working in mental health 19 years, I see the most important question as, “ What is the reason you want to get into this field?” Bc if the answer is anything other than some version of “to help people”, please see a counselor first. For example, I’ve worked w too many people who are there to control others and who don’t see that they must work on their own issues if they want to be effective and not add more harm.

    @laurelb4193@laurelb41932 жыл бұрын
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