Alex Opens Up About Her Second Pregnancy Loss | Toni Talks
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It's been a while since Alex and I had a conversation like this.
For the first time, she shares about her second miscarriage - what she realized and value most about her husband through their IVF pregnancy and loss.
This is not an interview. This is a heart to heart conversation between sisters. ❤️
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Very genuine. That's why i love alex and toni😍.
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Lagi kong tinatandaan tong quote na to "Until it's my turn, I will keep clapping for others happily. " ❤
Sana hindi nalang si Michelle Obama ang sinusundan nya, may issue na walang totoong mga anak ang Obamas. For show lang ang lahat, Michelle is actually "big Mike" and Barak is gay, dumarami na ang may alam nyan.😂
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So quotable. ❤
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My mom had me when she was 40 (I am also an IVF baby). I wish you all the best, Alex. No person deserves to go through this kind of pain.
But the thing is it makes her stronger and have a broader perspective. God is Good.❤
Hi Miss Alex I've been in your situation for 10 years. All the pressure is nakakaloka until such moment that i and my husband accept the will of God na wala talaga syang ibibigay sa amin because i will be turning 40 na the following year...been to different doctors just to be pregnant but never tried IVF.....until in my 39th birthday i totally surrendered everything to God. My birthday is April and i got pregnant July. What i want to tell you is to completely surrender yourself to Him.....been maaried for 10 years before i got pregnant. It was really a "THANK YOU LORD" experience....God will give what your heart's desires if you will completely trust His will. Goodluck.....❤❤❤
Wow ❤This is so nicee.
Married for 10 years without kids but still my husband tells me we are both blessed to have each other. Focus on your blessings while keeping the faith.
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Same here, we've been married and together for almost 10 years, we've had our first miscarriage 2016 when I was only 5 months pregnant and we lost our baby girl. Honestly, I am still afraid to lose another one, we're trying but not really pushing ourselves if we will have a baby or not. We're still happily married and blessed to have each other and our family.
Exactly ang mhlga ok kau ng partner mo bonus n lng ang baby pro Hindi Yan priority kaung mg Asawa ang priority mgsama ng habambuhay n nagmamahalan wg ipressure ang srli wg makinig s snsbe ng iba
Same here kung para satin talaga ibibigay yan Pero kung Hindi Mas dahilan din siguro Basta kayong mag asawa matatag ❤
same here 13 yrs n kmi ng asawa ko nagsasama..nagpakasal kmi 2020...pero nging kmi 2010 tpus nagsma kmi 2013 we trying n magbuntis ako nag pa OB ako nagpapayat pero wla p din minsan naiiyak ako magisa iniicip n bkit ganun ndi ko msasabi n sbra buti ko tao pero alam ko sa sarili ko wla ako ginawa msama sa kapwa ko...pinaubaya kona lht ky God alam ko may plan sya pra smin...i hope n dumating n din ung time n magkaroon kmi ng srili anak magasawa🥺🙏
My patient had IVF for 10th times ,all were failed... she waited,,, they prayed and she got pregnant in a natural way,... now she had 3 babies❤
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Ganito ako year 2012 hindi pa ako nabubuntis. Nagpa-alaga pa talaga ako sa OB for 1 year. Ini-stress ko ang sarili ko na magka-anak na halos ngstop ako magwork para lang mabuntis. Ramdam ko na pinipilit ko sa sarili ko na gusto ko mapasaakin yung gusto ko. Pero isang araw, dumating yung time na pinaubaya ko na lang lahat kay Lord. Para akong biglang nagising at mataimtim na nagdasal na kung sakaling hindi para sa akin, okay na sa akin. Tanggap ko na kung ano man ang mangyari sa amin. But miracle do happen. 1 month after I prayed, nalaman namin na 6 weeks pregnant na pala ako. As of now, we have 2 lovable and smart kids. He's just testing your faith. Let go of your worries but always keep the faith. ❤
I underwent ivf too and miscarried. 41 here and I have a 14 year old son. I had been diagnosed with pcos and endometriosis, but ivf was the hardest i have been through as a woman/mom itself. And still, will try again♥️ thanks alex! We are lucky to have our husbands go thru this process with us and stayed strong behind the pains. ♥️♥️♥️
I can super relate to Alex' journey. I was married at 35. For almost 8 years we have tried to get pregnant. One day in may erneast prayer sabi ni Lord sa akin "mas pahalagahan mo muna ang pagiging asawa kaysa ang maging ina". Ever since kasi, I really longed to become a mother. If God has given me a child early in our marriage, I would have love my child more than I love my husband. God first ensured that with or without a child mas una kong mamahalin ang asawa ko. Through our first IVF attempt, I gave birth to a son at the age of 42. Minsan kaya nadedelay ang pangako ng Diyos kasi may mga tinuturo muna Siya sa atin para mas karapat dapat tyo doon sa biyaya. WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, GOD WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN BECAUSE HE MAKES THINGS BEAUTIFUL IN HIS TIME!
Yes I agree po. Everything darating at darating yan nededelay lang but you have to be faithful and patient ❤ Sending hugs mommy! ❤️
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Kami din mag asawa 5 kami nag antay na magka anak ,hanggang sa nag desisyon kami mag pa IVF at salamat kay God unang try namin success agad,ngayon may baby girl na kami.
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Keep on fighting Alex and Mikee! Me and my husband had 6 failed IVF. On the 7th attempt, it brought us twin girls. This is in the span of 3 years. You will be tested emotionally, financially and physically. Do not forget to enjoy and do things that will make you happy and relax. Keep on trying! I am praying for you.
Pa hug po ng bahay ko idol.thanks
🌻 how much money u spend about that 6 trials mam😊
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Bata pa nman sila. Saka dapat iwasan na pampatae, pampapayat kc nakaka apekto yan sa pagbubuntis. Mga pampapayat nakakawala ng nutrisyon sa katawan kapag kulang kasa nutrition mahirap mabuntis
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Love this episode. Makes me subscribe. Lol I got pregnant after 10 years...I become a mother at 39 ❤ I got pregnant when I learned to be happy for others at di na ko nagppaadala sa pressure ng ibang tao. God is in control 🙏
I love how godly their conversation❤ your testimony gives hope to the hopeless
Yun sinabi ni Toni na, baka kailangan muna pagdaanan yun sakit, para pagdating ng regalo, sobra mo iche-cherish, sobrang pahahalagahan. That hits me... ❤️❤️❤️
Maybe experience needs to teach alex pa. Like any of us kaala natin ready na tayo for that blessing but God who sees and knows everything nakita nya na hindi pa talaga, kaya di pa binibigay.
First pregnancy ko ended in a stillbirth. That was followed by 4 miscarriages back-to-back. Dumating ako sa point na tinanggap ko na na hindi ako magkakaanak. Until nadelay ang period ko September of last year. Hindi pa din ako umasa kasi lagi ako nakukunan pero nagpaalaga talaga ko sa doktor. Fast forward April 2023, I gave birth to my rainbow baby girl via emergency CS. Preemie si baby at only 34 weeks pero nakahabol na siya ngayon at wala nang sign ng prematurity. Wala din siyang complications kahit ang dami naming pinagdaanang hirap sa pregnancy. Sa lahat ng trying to conceive, wag kayo mawalan ng pag-asa. Just try your best to be healthy and try lang. Ibibigay sa inyo kung para talaga sa inyo.
I couldn't help getting emotional how they describe Mikee trying to get a video. Hugs and a lot of prayers for you both, Alex and Mikee. God bless you both. Thank you for sharing your story. Now, you have people helping to pray for you both. God is good and will give you the best He has for you.
You guys need to have a podcast!!!!! Full of wisdom and lessons
Grabe ang iniyak ko sa conversation nyo. Naexperience ko kasi lahat ng sinabi ni AG, bumalik yung pain kahit ang tagal na nangyari sa akin. I’ve been to 3 unsuccessful pregnancies, 2 miscarriages and one ectopic pregnancy which resulted to removal of one of my fallopian tubes. I’ve been through a depression during that time. But just like you, I kept my faith to God. Hindi ko na lang minadali si Lord, hindi na din ako nagexpect. And you know what, nung time na hindi na ako umasa biglang nabuntis uli ako. And that time, ang tindi ng kapit nya. Now, she’s 11, very healthy and very smart kid. Kaya wag ka pong mawalan ng pag-asa. Faithful si Lord sa mga nagtitiwala sa Kanya, in His perfect timing. 🙏
congrats po . Subra Akung Nag Pipigil wag Maiyak Ayaw Ko Makita Ng Mga Studyanti Ko. Pero subra akung Na Natouch sa Episode na Ito . Kasi Meron din ako Bff na 2 Times na Na Miscarriages 😭
Halaaa sobrang same po 😭 3 miscarriages 1 blighted ovum tapos nagkaroon rin po ako ng kambal pero ectopic pregnancy kaya ending parehas din po sila nawala 😭🤧 Pero ngayon okay naman na ako itinaas ko na sa Panginoon ang plano nya sa buhay ko 😊 Congrats po sa inyo dahil nabiyayaan po kayo ni Lord 🙏❤
congratz po,ako dn po nagka ectopic pregnancy dn po ako tinanggal dn isang fallopian tube ko,2017 hanggang ngaun d pa ako ulit nabubuntis,but still hoping na bigyan ako n lord kahit 1 lng,
Ako din d n tuloy ang una kong baby tpos lagi kaming hoping may times p nga ma delay lang ako 5 days akala ko buntis ako kse nag pacheck kme un pla magkakamens lng pla ako sakit ng umasa den nawlan n kme ng hope sbi nlng ng husband ko oky na ako tayo 2 nlng pagtanda binaliwla na nmin d na kme nag push p n magbaby sbi nlng nmin lord kung ibbigay mo den oky po kung d namn oky din after ng 3mon ko na nagpahilot ako hoping kme na mabbuntis ako wla.pa din den after 5 mon n nag surrender n kme kay lord na bahala k an lord kung bbgay mo o hindi kase dti pusk tlga kme nag papa ob ako hilot wla p din nung nag surrender na kme kay lord na lord ikaw na bahal after ng last hilot ko nov 2017 april 2018 binigay ni lord after 5 yrs kase 2003 ako nakunan ayun nabuntis ako d pa nga makapaniwla.gnun pla tlga ibibigay ni lord sayo in the right time khit minsan wla ka ng hope ngaun he is 15 yrs.old and smart at napaka bait na bata.
Yes this is true.
My wife and I did not have kids for 5 years . We stop trying or thinking about it then we got pregnant and we had twins. What a blessing. No medication or any sort of treatment and we had twins. God made us wait but gave us two blessings in one pregnancy. So don’t lose hope . Just continue praying and taking good care of your physical, mental and spiritual health. 🙏❤️
sana ako rin. To make all these suffering some sense.
@@samluca945 I’ll include you in our prayers . Don’t lose hope . But don’t stressed your mental health thinking about it all the time. Offer all your pain and frustrations to God. Alam mo God has a reason for everything. I just realized years later that maybe God gave us twins so that my spouse will not be lonely once I’m gone. I have terminal cancer right now and my twins gave me strength to keep fighting.kaya just believe that as long as we’re alive there is hope.🙏❤️
This made me cry and I've realized so many things
Im 38 when i conceived my son,and we've been 17yrs . Married. Mikee and my husband do have the same perspective in life. He always told me that he's contented of us being together, bunos nlang ang baby. Kaya never ako na pressure to all the people around me. Don't think too much, it doesn't help. Be happy and contented.
Grabe yung wisdom niyong dalawa. Ganyan yung kinaiinggitan ko -- yung relationship sa Lord na kaya mong marinig yung sinasabi Niya sayo. Intimate yun. In God's perfect timing, you will be pregnant again, Alex. By that time, you are ready - physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Your time will definitely come :) God bless you Gonzaga sisters!
This is the exact reason why I have so much respect for these lovely ladies..in spite and despite of the bashings and backlash that were thrown at them, they accepted em all and not said a word..that kind of patience to remain calm amidst the storm is so admirable..I do hope and pray that Alex will finally have that blessing that our Almighty Father promised her..please do continue being an inspiration to everyone Toni and Alex..in a world that's full of hate and animosity, we need people like you both who can show us that being faithful and keeping the faith, there is always hope..and that it pays to let go of the pain and let God do the healing..God bless you both 😊🥰
thats true pag sincere ung tlga ung pakikipag usap mo kay Lord ramdam mo un presence nya ilan beses ko na un napatotohanan... prayers for u alex and mikee in Gods perfect time magkaka little alex or mikee ka din... at isa na ako sa magiging happy for u...
Correct, you may inspire someone who is experiencing the same journey as yours. Thanks for this Alex & Toni.
Dami ko natutunan dito, mag 1 month pa lng ako nung nakunan sobrang hirap andami mong gustong sabehin pero wala kang masabihan kase di din ako nag karon ng sister. This conversation is very inspiring! Hindi heavy ung iyak but u feel the pain and sincerity inside them.
Napakadaling sabihin lalo na sa mga hindi pa naka experience na "okay lang yan, gawa nalang kayo ulit" . . . I was once in your shoe Alex. . . Seven years bago kami biniyayaan ni God ng baby 😊. I grew up thinking that getting pregnant was something that just happened, sometime after a big, fancy wedding. Turns out, no matter how young and healthy you think you are, it just doesn't happen that way. We went to different doctors to figure out how we could have the baby we always wanted. Hindi mabilang na doctor's appointment 😢😅😂 Dumating kami sa point na sinabihan na kami ng partner ko ng OBGYN namin na kapag hindi nag work ang fertility meds na binigay niya after 3mos, she suggested na magpa IVF na kami dahil sayang daw ang time. Pero parang may pumipigil samin. I got depressed dahil na siguro sa pressure ng mga taong nakapaligid samin. Yung iba sariling pamilya ng asawa mo pa ang magsasabi sayo na "baka mag asawa ng iba ang asawa mo kapag di ka nagka anak". . etc! Parang automatic na babae ang naiisip na may deperensya, when in fact, pwede namang ang lalaki. So anyway, nung mga time na iniyak ko na lahat kay God, sabi ko "God kung di mo na talaga ako bibigyan ng anak, sana tulungan mo nalang po akong e accept nang hindi po ako nasasaktan" . . I remember that was my last prayer before I found out that I was pregnant. Never have I experienced a miscarriage or nawalan ng anak pero sobrang sakit nung hindi matukoy yung dahilan why we can't conceive. Ayun na nga, nung nagsimula akong e accept na wala na talaga, saka ko nalaman na I am pregnant. Siguro awang awa na sakin si God sa lahat ng isinusumbong ko sakanya. Sa lahat ng taong nawalan ng pag-asa sakin. 😢 Yung lahat ng iniyak ko dahil inggit na inggit ako sa mga kaibigan kong nag popost na pregnant na sila. Sobrang napalitan ng saya yung lahat ng pain ko. Kaya sa mga nakaka experience ng infertility, laban lang kayo hanggat kaya niyo pa. If you can afford IUI or IVF, go!!! Kahit hindi man para sainyo atleast nasubokan mo. Sa mga tao namang may kakilalang hirap magka anak, kung wala kayong magandang sasabihin, wag niyong gawing joke yung "ay baka baog ka" or "ay hindi kayo marunong gumawa" . . .you don't know how hard and painful it is for the people who are going thru infertility....Kahit ano pa man ang pinagdadaanan natin, wag natin kalimutan magpasalamat kay God. Siya lang ang magbibigay satin ng lahat ng gusto natin. 😊 MIRACLES DO HAPPEN IF YOU TRUST HIM. ☝🏻
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Hi mam .. Pacopy ako ng words mo .. Kc ganyan na ganyan ang mga taong nkapaligid samen .. 5years bf/gf at 6 years na kameng kasal pero until now wala padin kameng baby. Sobrang sakit tlg pg naririnig mo sa mga tao yung mga salitang nd mo naman dapat marinig at hindi naman tlg nila dapat sabhn pero wala naman tayo mgagawa kc yun yung pananaw nila .. Naniniwala parin ako na ibbgay ni Lord ang para saken ..
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I struggled with infertility for 15 years.. 3 miscarriages, 3 failed IVF transfers... The 4th one worked and my daughter is now 14 months old. I almost gave up, but the Lord gave me the strength to do one more cycle. Thank God it has finally worked and she is the best gift I've ever received from God. Please don't give up! Praying for you!
I did 3 cycles of ivf too, and I gave up!
hi, how old are you when you get pregnant po? im 35 already almost 8yrs ttc😢
@@lifewithmia2346 I was 37. Praying for your miracle!
Hello po, what did you on your 4th try that made it successful?
@@mariacristinapablijan3490 the 4th try was frozen embryo. 2nd and 3rd were both fresh transfers.
kakaiyak, ang ganda ng mga realization ni Alex daming lesson. bibigay yan ni Lord sau ms Alex. just wait for his perfect timing..
This interview is really genuinely heartfelt.. it made me laugh and cry and made me talk to the Lord... I love the Gonzaga sisters...❤
It's not about the 2nd miscarriage lang e. It's about how faithful you are to the Lord. Sobrang nakaka touch tong heart to heart talk na ito. Thank you ate Alex and ate Toni for being so attached to the Lord wherein yung mga manonood niyo is nashe-share-ran ng Word and Testaments about God. I wish to you ate Alex nawa maibigay ni lord ang matagal mo ng hiling. Malay mo kambal ang ibibigay sayo. Iloveyouboth! ♥️
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So raw and honest conversation between sisters❤
I started crying the moment IVF was mentioned. Since 2018, I have had 3 failed IUIs, 1 miscarriage, 2 failed IVFs and 1 embryo left from my 2nd IVF and I have mixed feelings about that. I am excited to do another treatment but at the same time scared for another negative result. I am 45 years old and I have not given up yet. YES, I know I am old for standard age of successful IVF cases but I choose to carry on. Good luck Catherine, you’re still young, and you have the financial means to support your fertility journey. Don’t give up. I admire and respect your Christian ways. Continue talking about your journey. Not all people really understand what we go through and life is too short to care about what other people say. Live your life, do things that make you happy.
Don't lose hope yet. My mom had me when she was 40 (which is not that far from your age). It's not your fault and if it's meant for you, it will come eventually. Goodluck on your journey and I wish you the best, truly.
We’ve been trying to get pregnant for almost 3 years and it’s a very hard journey. Thank you for sharing this
This is heartbreaking. I hope one day she will bear a child. ❤ Alex, you deserve to have a child. We are praying for that. 🙏
i feel u alex naiyak ako haist 2 yrs. ago nakunan din ako.😭 pray lang magkaka baby din tayo..in God's perfect time
I had two miscarriages. Then, nung di namin inaasahan I got pregnant. Now we have 2 beautiful kids❤Sila din un alam ko, binalik ni Lord nung ready na kami for each other🙏
The affirmation of mikee saying "if okay ka, okay ako" show so much love and support...watching this on my period/pain triggered my emotional side 😭😭😭
Dun lng din bigla ako naiyak sa affirmation ni Mikee kay Alex... 😭😭😭 grabe yung love...
Yung iba kasi kapag hindi maka conceived iniiwan nila. Ipagpapalit sa iba para magka anak.
Thank you for sharing your journey Alex 😌
Cathy and Celestine from the east!!!! love you both... keep inspiring people and giving them happiness to touch their life.
11 years Po Kaming naghintay... Finally, ❤ God has answered our prayers 🙏🏻...1st pregnancy ko po ito... Keep the faith .. 💪🏼
same po tayo 11 years din kmi nag antay❤
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same here, 11 years naghintay magkaanak.. now I have two kids. Glory to God!
Alex, it's your testimony in progress. God will always fulfill what He has promised. Just like me, 8 years of trying to get pregnant. 8 years of asking and praying to God. I got 1 miscarriage, 1 unsuccesful IUI and 2 unsuccessful IVF. On my 3rd IVF, I got pregnant. And now, finally, God answered my prayer. I have my 3month old beautiful baby boy now. Keep asking, keep seeking and keep knocking. Seek the Lord even more when things are not going well, because God’s word says, “He is close to the broken hearted.” Nothing is impossible for Him! Alex, know that our God cannot wait to bless you too.
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It's been a rough day for me and I couldn't sleep because of it. I'm not even a subscriber or follower of your channel then I scrolled through it and God comforted me through your video. I truly appreciate you and Catherine... You both reminded me God's grace and I should release my control and fully surrender. It's 2am here in California right now and sobbing because you both have touched my heart. To Catherine.. you will always be in my prayers moving forward. Thank you again and God bless both of you and all your families ❤
its very timely to see this video on my recommendations, i needed this. Thank you Lord🙏
Super taas ng respect ko sa lahat going through infertility❤ After 7 years, through our first full IVF attempt and tons of prayers, God blessed us with not just one but two miracles- twins, 1 boy, 1 girl. We tried for 7 long years (I say long because hindi biro to keep on trying and getting negative results almost every month parang may nawawala) but I kept on praying and staying faithful kahit maraming times you don’t understand why things are happening. I also shared my story and nasurprise ako na ang dami pala pinagdadaanan din yon and it really helps to talk about it. I know si God lahat tumulong sakin because until mapregnant ako and until I gave birth (and even after that), sobrang walang control kahit gaano ka kahealthy or what. Lagi akong ‘cautiously hopeful’ kasi gusto ko positive thoughts lang but at the same time protect din sa heart cz pwedeng bukas wala agad. Even during my pregnancy nagER ako thinking nawala na sila but both are here and healthy today and I am forever thankful and mas naappreciate ko ang mga bagay bagay. Praying for you Alex and Mikee❤️
San po kayo nagpa IVF and hm estimated cost?
7 years din kami nag sama ng asawa ko Akala ko dati wala na talagang pag asa maybe isa sa amin ang baog pero napakabuti talaga ni Lord Hindi nya ako iniwan , SABI ko LORD ipagkakaTIWALA ko sayo ang lahat , at ngayon 3 years old na ang anak ko . Thank you LORD
Sana Dumating din yung time na Ako naman kami naman qng Mabiyayahan ng isang supling ❤ congrats po sayu ❤
Congratulations po❤
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Ang ganda ng conversation . Malungkot pero punong puno ng Encouragement, Faith ,hope and love. Nakakataba ng Puso ❤❤️
God is always there
God is faithfulness and grace 🙏🥰🥰🥰more hope and faith in loving God Amen 🙏🥰🙏
hi miss toni, i see my sister and i in you guys. The same with you and miss alex, it’s just me and my sister. Your relational dynamics with each other resonated to me. And it’s heartwarming to see you two that I kept wondering to myself: will me and my sister grow up gracefully like them? Our parents died at crucial moments of our lives. And suddenly, it’s literally just me and my sister. Navigating life from loss was something I struggled with. There were a lot of fears. Aside from the Word of God, your videos were somehow a warm embrace. And I believe, that this, too, is ministry. God bless you on your part of God’s mission and ministry, Miss Toni. May the good Lord bless you and keep you and your family as a whole.
Ang sarap lang maglabas ng mga sama ng loob sa kapatid pag sincere kausap tapos mahal na mahal ka. 😢😢😢 naiiyak ako Sana Lord ibigay mona kay Alex at Mikee yung pangarap nila ❤️❤️
We’ve been trying to get pregnant for 7 years then sinabihan nko ng OB ko na baog daw ako. Kahit masakit tinanggap namin but when the pandemic hits, unexpectedly we became pregnant. And now we have a two wonderful children. Baby boy and baby girl. Yung will ni Lord na kapag ibibigay nya ibibigay nya talaga sa hndi mo inaasahang panahon or pagkakataon 💗💗 Wag po kayong mapagod maghintay, dahil lifetime yung happiness na ibibigay sainyo ni Lord once you received it ❤
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It's not only about pregnancy it's also about people who are keep waiting for their career to prosper but still failed, and losing the faith, but this video made me realized that we just have to wait in God's perfect time❤ thank u for this Alex and Toni❤
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Thank you for sharing sisters. It helps me a lot rn
I learned a lot in this interview ❤
I feel you Alex, I have been married for 8 years, got married in 2015 get pregnant in 2018 and lost the pregnancy. Since then we’ve been trying to conceive, and the pressure from the people around me really made me depressed. Had to resign from work to prioritize conceiving until now wala Pa din. Tried our best effort pero wala Pa Rin. Then when someone ask me ayaw mo mag buntis? I really get offended kasi Nde nila Alam what I’m going through. It took me 5 years to totally accept that whatever is the will of God let it happen to us. My husband is very supportive and told me if tayo Lang 2 until we are 100 ok Lang you’re enough for me, a baby is a bonus pag bibigay sa atin ni Lord we will celebrate. Pag Nde naman we still have to be thankful and faithful to Him for many other Blessings He is generously bestowing upon us. Hindi kakulangan ang ng isang babae ang di pagka karoon ng anak, if it is the will of God, then it will happen. Now we’re both ok Prepare Kami for whatever will happen and May not happen. God’s plans are always bigger than our prayers 🙏🏼
I feel you .. 12 yrs been trying..Wala pa din .. Sabi nmin magasawa. . Thy will be done .. 🙏
Same.. 8 years na kami. Experienced depression because of the people who are insensitive to ask things they are unaware of. Until now we are waiting but we are enjoying our time together while serving the Lord.
Maswerte ka sa asawa mo. Please don't let anything ruin your relationship with your husband. Kahit pa gustong gusto mo nang magkababy, don't ever do something na ikakasira ng relasyon niyo. Stay strong sainyo (:
same po 7 years na wla pa rin,had 3 miscarriages its too painful to bare, mabuti supportive husband ko same po ok lng daw kahit kming 2 lng,sana d magbago partners natin kahit d natin cla mbgyan ng anak😔
Same with me! I feel you all! me and my husband been together for 13 years were married for 5 years... nung 3 to 4 years pa lng kme nagssama, pressured din aq sa mga tao! Gustong gusto q nrin mbuntis nun kse nga mraming nag aabang na mbuntis aq... lagi q rin pinag ppray ky lord na sna mbuntis na q pero hndi nya prin kme bnbiyayaan... nkkalungkot! Nkkaiyak sobra! Nkka depress! Nkka disappoint! Dumating din sa punto na nwawalan na q tiwala sa sarili q! Nwwalan ng gana sa lahat! Naiinggit aq kpag nkka kita aq ng mga buntis! Naiisip q? Kpag aq kya buntis ganito rin kya itsura q? Anu kayang itsura ng baby q kung sakali na mbuntis aq at manganak! And daming pumapasok sa isip q nun! Monthly aq nag aabang tlga kung buntis aq! Pero hndi prin pinalad! Hanggang sa unti2 ko ng nttanggap na ibbigay ni lord sa tamang panahon... bka hndi pa eto yung time para magbuntis aq! My iba png plano si lord sken na gusto nya pang mtupad q muna para sa family q! In god's perfect time! Ipagkkaloob nya smen, sken yung mtgal q ng pinag ppray sa knya! Still hoping prin aq hanggang ngyon na mbuntis aq...
Alex's maturity clearly shown here. Siguro hindi pa talaga ngayon yung tamang panahon pero we all know that time will come and God will hear your prayers, Alex. Just keep on going 🙂
I'm just 19 years old. I don't know anything about pregnancy and making family but this is so inspirational. Their faith is so strong grabe.
The pressure from other people saying “wala ka pang anak? Di ka pa nabuntis” is very annoying and they never know the feeling. Ofc! Sino bang ayaw magbuntis? Pero may perfect time talaga si Lord 😭 thank you so much Gonzaga sisters and most especially kay Alex for sharing your journey. Kami din ng sis-in-law ko has been praying and declaring for a miracle. God is not yet done with us po. Super excited kami sa pagdating ng right time mo. We are already rejoicing now for your victory in Jesus name 🙌🏻 bless you both more po 🫶🏻
Props to Mikee for being strong and supportive. May those husbands going through the same circumstances have the same level of maturity and spirituality. God be with you, Moradas.
The thing I really really love about this interview is that when they talk, they always Glorify the Lord! I love how they talk about their faith in God! Prayer truly is a powerful weapon against all! You guys are an inspiration ❤️❤️🔥
That is a sign alex! Everything is falling into places, just keep moving forward, and trust the process. You see it in everybody that means your time is coming be ready for it! ❤ it happens when you least expect it. God bless you 😇
Can't wait to see Alex taking care of her own kids. Rooting for you Alex, in God's perfect time! We love you... 😘
Amen. ❤
Pressure is a very big factor sa trying stage to be pregnant. Nag pa alaga kami sa OB for months pero wala, but nung time na ng stop kami, nagfocus sa isat isa, no pressure saka kami nkapag conceive ❤ We all have our own time for that blessing 😊
Same po, nakaka pressure tlga mga nagtatanong uy wala pa ba? Mga ganun, 2yrs din bago ako nabuntis after ng kasal, napagod din kmi kaka try, nung nag stop na kami at nagpahinga at hindi na inisip na kailangan ko mabuntis ayun bigla ako nabuntis tapos every 2yrs buntis ako kaya apat na sila ngaun. In God’s time talaga. Sumayaw pa kami sa ubando before. Sana mag relax muna sila mag bakasyon tapos wag iisipin na bubuo ng baby kc stress un. Dadating din c baby in God’s perfect time.🙏
Sana kami din po salamat sa share nyu
Praying for you, Ms. Alex. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.-Psalm 30:5
Hello .pa hug po
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Amen
In Jesus Name Amen!
All through out this video, I was crying.... nakakarelate ako dun sa sinabi niyo na "lahat ng tao nakapaligid sayo, sila yung nabibigyan ng blessing, pero ikaw na ang tagal ng naghihintay sa blessing na yun, di ka pa din nabibigyan until now" - Thank you for sharing this touching video. I love it. 🥲😇
True Alex.. it takes a lot of hardship and perseverance to go through all the hormonal imbalance as well all the restrictions, sleepless night of crying and many to mention. I did IVF when I was 29years old and first try it was successful. Now my baby is already one year old and six months. I still have nine embryo's in the lab where I did my IVF here in Malaysia. Just pray and believe all things will work because He made all things beautiful in His time.❤
I feel you Alex, My husband and I been trying for 14 years. Back in 2018 we tried intra uterine insemination and got pregnant but had a miscarriage after 3 mos. We did IUI again for 2nd and 3rd try but we didnt get pregnant. After 2 years we decided again to go thru IUI and I was scheduled in April 2020. But on March I found out I was pregnant. Now I have a healthy baby girl and she's turning 2 in 10 days and I am proud 42 years old. Yours is coming soon, in Jesus name. Amen❤
Grabe wala pa ko sa journey na ganito pero the whole time I was watching this, umiiyak ako. And yung last words ni Alex na 'wag sisihin si Lord kapag may 'di nangyayaring maganda hit me real hard! Ang damiii realizations in life na oo nga noh imbis na i-blame Siya why not tell Him to comfort Us kasi Siya at Siya lang din ang may alam ng pinagdadaanan natin na silent battles. Thank you, for this. You both are so amazing and brave! And to those people watching this na nakaka relate, praying na you guys will also be okay and at peace knowing na in His right time, ibibigay ng Panginoon ang para sa inyo. Higit higit pa. God bless po sa ating lahat.
I could feel your pain going through IVF Miss Alex. I’ve had 5 failed IVFs and I had one embryo left. I got to a point of giving up and wasn’t really too excited to continue my last embryo. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go through the pain from poking myself with countless needles and the associated cost since our insurance won’t cover it because my husband and I have kid/s respectively from previous marriage/relationship. I wasn’t sure if I can handle going through depression if my last embryo won’t be successful again. I exerted a lot of efforts for my previous 5 failed IVFs, like losing weight, watching my diet (mainly Mediterranean), drinking bone broth, & paying for acupuncture. In November 2022, I decided to give my last embryo a go. Mind you, I gained weight from our travel to London and Paris before my transfer. I didn’t pressure myself to lose weight nor followed any particular diet. I also stopped my acupuncture. I quit my job a month before my transfer. During my IVF transfer, I only uttered “Thy will be done”. I used to recite a lengthy prayer but for some reason, I just said those words. On December 8th, 2022 I received the best phone call from my IVF nurse that I am pregnant! I was 40 years old when I got pregnant. You’re right -God will always in control. If it’s God’s will it’ll happen. Now I have an almost 9 month old baby girl whom I fondly call my miracle. I hope my story inspires you and other women out there to not lose hope and let God be in control. God bless.
Pinanood ko to because of my cousin na parang kapatid ko na din, na matagal ng nag ppray to have baby, andami kong natutunan sa video nato specially being thankful of what you have at sa mga bagay na pipray mo di pa dumadating sayo.
Huwag kang ma-pressure sa sinasabi ng iba... It will come at His perfect time.
Seeing this while I'm pregnant of twins😥 I felt so really really blessed cause knowing that someone really wants to have a baby but failed. Thank you Lord. I hope someday all the women who wants to have a baby will have them at the right time.💗😇😥 Praying for healing and to everyone. A big virtual Hug 😘😘
ameeeeen 😢 and congrtulations for your twin babyyy ❤
Felt the same way too. Pregnant of twins also and suddenly napa-pray ako kay Lord, telling Him na “Lord grabe sobrang blessed ko pala despite all the problems I’m facing right now, kasi ako biniyayaan mo ulit ng baby hindi lang isa kundi dalawa kahit ang dami financial problem” Praying for you Alex and Mikee. Mas maganda pa rin talaga yung plano ni Lord sa buhay natin, kahit di natin alam ano nangyayari and why did it happened that way. God bless! Congratulations, Mommy Rose Ann!
Kami, we had our baby after 17 years... 38 yrs old nako... Super unexpected... I even knew that I was pregnant, 28 weeks na pala... wala akong kaalam alam... Umiinom pako empi.. may time pa na nahulog ako ng paupo 4 steps sa stairs... Super thankful lang talaga ako kay Lord na super makapit ung bata.
Thanks for this video. ❤
Ako ang nasasaktan para kay Ms. Alex na she is making everyone smile I hope she can have her genuine Happiness as well ❤❤❤
Words are powerful. As simple as “kelan ba kayo magkakaanak” question can broke someone else’s heart.
40 na aq in 4 months...childless. Nakunan aq 6 years ago and then trying n ult, pero wala p rin mula noon. Then, palagi ako nakakarinig ng ganyan. Msakit. tapos sa mga nagko comment, prang nagtanong lang kung nag almusal na b...
Grabe sobrang dami kong natutunan about life. And the word of the lord parin talaga ang nangingibabaw sa araw araw na struggles natin ❤️ I enjoy watching the both of you Gonzaga Sisters! ❤️ Godbless you both! Loveyou 😘
Kahit wala akong asawa at hindi ko naranasang mabuntis, yung lesson sa story ni ate Alex nagpapatunay na ibigay man ni Lord o hindi yung prayer mo, just be faithful kasi in the end hindi naman talaga mahalaga yung mga gusto o ang magpapasaya sa atin kundi si Lord, yung pagmamahak Niya❤
Grabe yung wisdom nila mag kapatid ! Talagang may learnings kang makukuha, knowing si Alex napaka masayahing tao pero kapag sya na yung naging malungkot talagang maiiyak ka. Buti nalang God is Good binigyan sya ng strong husband God bless your journey Alex ❤❤❤
Iba talaga ang wisdom ng magkapatid nato. Salute sa parents na nagpalaki sa dalawang to. To more conversation like this. Npkadaming lessons.
Sobrang touch ako sa usapan nyo, iyak ako ng iyak… (ads lang ata pahinga ko) you are bless Alex, God is watching you
thank you dahil nag pop up to sobrang bigat ng nararamdaman ko ngayon , diko na alam kung anong iisipin. pero dahil napanood koto tama kayo always lang kumapit kay Lord. thank you sa nakaka inspire na pag oopen up niyo at kung gaano ka importante kumapit at manalig kay Lord. na siyang nakalimutan kona .
This conversation is very inspiring! Hindi heavy ung iyak but u feel the pain and sincerity inside them. Hirap magpigil ng luha while watching this convo especially ung sa part ni Mikee na thumbs up lang. Grabe nagpapaka strong kahit nadudurog inside. Lets pray and have faith with God always! Kudoz to Gonzaga sisters.
Nung napanood ko to, mas nagkaroon ako ng faith kay lord. Wag madaliin ang lahat, darating ang tamang panahon. Kasi nagmamadali din kmi ng asawa ko magka baby. Thank you gonzaga sisters❤😊. More power mwuah.
Darating po ang time na ibibigay Niya po yun,isa po ako sa makapagpapatunay nun.
Nakakatouched and my eyes was teary whole time while Alex is sharing about her 2nd pregnancy..ill pray for your strength Ms Alex and hope that the right time for you to become a mother will come soonest unexpectedly..
Hang in there Catherine! All is well with God 🙏🏼 🤗♥️ Thanks for sharing your story
I am turning 39 years old and many of my relatives are pressuring me to get married and have a baby. Ang mama ko would always tell me even before pa during my early 30s, sasabihin ng Mama ko, "Anak, if God gives you your own children, say Thank you, if not, still, say Thank You." Ang sinasabi pa niya, "Anak, ang importante kayo ng magiging asawa mo. Kasi ang mga anak nyo, pagtanda niyo magkakaroon din ng sarili nilang mga pamilya. In the end, kayong dalawa ang magkasama." This is something I always share to people/couples who also have struggles in getting pregnant. Kaya I understand when Mikee told you na bonus na lang pag God gave you children.. Let us all surrender to God. Thy will be done. 🙏🙏🙏
My parents tried for 7 years before deciding to resort to IVF. And during my Mom’s pregnancy with me, she experienced heavy bleeding. I was wondering how my parents were able to withstand all those struggles, and there’s only one thing that they both answered: “By Faith.”
had the same exact experience with your parents, faith it is💕
Amen for this heartful interview!Godbless to this beautiful sisters.Praying Alex that the desire of your heart in GOD'S time!
"The power of prayer is so real, don’t ever doubt it."❤❤
Married for 17 yrs.. no kids, but we are happy.👍I will pray n dumating sa inyo ang blessing n baby. You have a good and supportive husband❤️
sana makinig ka din gaya ng hipag ko..tuwang tuwa ang husband at lalaki agad..sana isa ka din mabigyan ni Gof
No mother deserves to lose a child. This is really sad, Alex and I'm sending you some hugs.
Bat ako naiyak!? Sarap pakinggan, so inspiring katulad ko na Wala pa’ng anak .
I love you both Alex and Toni...God bless you both...Be strong Alex and Mikee...❤
We are 11 years married. We had miscarriage on 2014 and been trying to get pregnant for couple of years and surrendered everything to God’s will. We talked with my wife early this year that if God will not give us child it is his plan, we think that a lot of children need family and we are okay with it. And now without pressuring ourselves and believing on him, God surprises and amazed us, we are pregnant after 9 years.
I know how you feel... I've been married for 15 years and I'm still waiting... I've been in the similar situation where I'm feeling pushed by the people around me, but God tells me that I should turn to Him as opposed to the expectations of others. Thank you for your encouragement, Alex. Greetings from Malaysia and may the Lord give you the strength and the desire of your heart...in His time. Sending ❤ and hugs. Stay strong Alex
Sending you love Alex. Don't woory magkakaroon ka din ng baby basta magtiwala ka kay Lord.
Thank you maam alex for sharing your pregnacy jurney,im blessed and inspired beacuse i realize were a lot at same story but we need hope and spray spcially strust to god for his will.thank you beacuse of you im going to be ok.
I love it when she said… kailangan maging faithful parin kasi may ibibigay na blessings after…
Married @ 26, got pregnant @ 36, waited for 10yrs… now i have a beautiful baby girl! Don’t lose hope! In God’s perfect time! 🙏❤
Natural baby po? Congrats!
Wow sis congrats sana makaroon n rin kme same 26 sis married until now wala p kme baby gusto n nmen😢
This isn’t just for those who lost their pregnancy. It also teaches the value of Patience and just like Alex said there are things you pray for you to have but everyone gets it except you. I have been pressuring myself too and It’s like I am running out of time, but this story gave me a lesson that there’s hope to get what you’ve always wanted or even greater blessings and more than what you’ve asked for on the right time, and there is no deadline. Thank you G sisters ❤️
Ate Alex and Ate Toni really inspire others with their life testemonies❤️🥹
Dont Worry Ms. Alex G... Kami rin Two Times nawalan ng Baby kasi nawalan ng Heartbeat... Marami kang tanung kung bakit? Napakasakit...Nakakadurog... Lalo n tuwing nakikita ko ang Misis ko na umiiyak... Last Time na nakita ko Misis ko na lumabas ang Misis ko na umiiyak... Nagsabi ako kay LORD...ito na yung huling makikita ko na iiyak ang Misis ko sa ganung Situation... The rest are History... We have our 1st Baby na 2 years old na po.... Wag kang susuko ... Laban lang.... May Pag Asa sa mga taong marunong maghintay at naniniwala na kahit ang lahat ay laban at walang tiwala sa iyo...😇😇😇😇😇 Have Faith Mrs. Alex G... Magkakaroon din kayo ng Mister nyo ng Baby... Very Soon...😇😇😇 God bless
May husband and I was trying and waiting for 8yrs now... And this conversation makes me realize na...you just have to wait and to have faith for the Lord's will... Thank you Ms.Toni and Alex for this..♥️
dito mo makikita na the right partner will understand you no matter what. patience and faith in God talaga ang key sa relasyon❤ God bless you Gonzaga sisters!
really enjoyed watching❤
Napaiyak nyoko Ang Ganda Ng Topic nyo Ngayon 😢❤❤❤