This is why i tell alot of women to decenter men from their lives. It's okay to acknowledge the roles that good men play in society but please never put them on a pedestal.. Don't make husband your God and marriage your religion cause you'll regret it Don't ever let any man act like he's doing you a favour by entertaining the idea of being married to you. Protect your peace, get comfortable with loving, respecting and being by yourself cause at the end of the day you are all you have. It's not your job to keep any man, don't let anyone shame you into thinking it is or shame you into getting married. Take your time and protect your peace.
@Imperfect_perfectionist8 ай бұрын
This your message is from the pit of hell. Decenter men from their lives?? Do you realize men and women was made by God for each other?? As a single person, your goal should be to continually improve yourself in your (masculinity or femininity) for your coming king or queen. Think! Men and women who always have a very high standard or sometimes even unrealistic standard about who they want to get married to. If you plan to get married, let your ideal mentor be someone who has enjoyed marriage for many years and has grown old. Roles and responsibilities define relationship and marriages. I have no need for a woman who can’t cook, in the same way I expect my sister to have no need for a man who has no capacity for violence if the need arises.
@K-ONE168 ай бұрын
You couldn’t have said it better…spot on!. Woman! , learn to have an amazing life without your man.
@amenekhosuehi9118 ай бұрын
@@K-ONE16did you read her comment at all ?
@loveyyy74488 ай бұрын
Spot on 💯
@Calm_Centre8 ай бұрын
I agree 👍
@Magical_DoReMi8 ай бұрын
Lack of self control has become a flex in our present age So sad
@mykell99348 ай бұрын
Really sad
@iwualaonyinyechi85968 ай бұрын
Their offspring will be disappointed to watch his father make baseless statement on air.
@SAINTCOMEDYNAIJA8 ай бұрын
I recently got married and I've been hearing comments like... Oh! You're very lucky, You should tell your husband thank you every morning for marrying you, do you know how many single unmarried girls are out there, men are scarce and some other unprintable comments. It's annoying when society makes it look like men are the prize. I'm grateful my husband understands that I am the prize and He is also. And doesn't appreciate such narratives God go epp us for this World sha
@fessorfaith8 ай бұрын
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains FAVOUR from the Lord. I am the real deal😇
@comfortgideon8 ай бұрын
@comfortgideon, the world sure has a lot to say. I'm a Christian and I'd rather look to the Bible. You are right ❤
@hannahakindojutimi99258 ай бұрын
That’s because it’s rare miracle. We have women everywhere not wives.
@K-ONE168 ай бұрын
🎉🙌🏼 Yesssss girl
@EmiDaghe8 ай бұрын
PERIOD🎉
@inthestyleofuzezi8 ай бұрын
You've said it all. Let men with Godly wisdom know this and know peace ✌️
@anitakanikwu93778 ай бұрын
When we say men are starting to think they’re “princesses” this is it. He say “we’re the prize” 😂😂😂😂
@rennyrules988 ай бұрын
Women have options too. We’re not trapped by husbands in this modern world.
@kaydenpat8 ай бұрын
I'm beggining to think that's why a lot of men lose their minds when we leave
@digimonalvatrax27388 ай бұрын
@@digimonalvatrax2738and they trying to use fear tactics to make women stay 🌝
@cmk22788 ай бұрын
I swear women that are unmarried for a long time, it's not cause no man wanted them. They just don't like the many options they have to choose from (and yes "MANY OPTIONS" is not an exaggeration) But these men will start making shiloh jokes so..
@lazyazzdork8 ай бұрын
And men don’t understand that there are less qualifying candidates that’s why there less married women nowadays
@cmk22788 ай бұрын
The way they talk about marriage like we should kneel and thank them and most of them don't have anything to offer.
@guhey8 ай бұрын
Check most of those guys, they can't stand where better women dey stand.
@olukunlefaith8 ай бұрын
That's why women are now getting angrier these days. Besides, it doesn't just make sense. Why is it the man that should be "kept in marriage"?? Why can't the woman be "kept in marriage"??? Please it's too early for rubbish. I'm irritated by hearing such nonsense.
@Chi9768 ай бұрын
Can people help us search for the identity of his wife? 😂
@adeolatemowo76408 ай бұрын
Very important! 😂 I wan see something.
@neloigboejesi48208 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂this comment
@nmesomaihunna8018 ай бұрын
I asked myself the same question.
@mariantenzagh81208 ай бұрын
I pity the wife oh 😢
@comfortgideon8 ай бұрын
Will she admit to being his wife?
@MoHnah8 ай бұрын
The truth is this man has refused to grow up. Only matured people will understand that no one is doing anyone a favor by being married to them. It's this kind of mentality that makes marriages break up and down. 😢
@lovelyAfo8 ай бұрын
To think that this is someone's "my king my all..."😂
@busolaak8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 Ahhhh!!!
@co95688 ай бұрын
"Yeye dey smell" I love it😂
@SeyisChatroom8 ай бұрын
Yeye was really smelling (hissing in different types of languages right now)
@blessedvona8 ай бұрын
what does that mean ? 😂😩
@gladjum75318 ай бұрын
@@gladjum7531 a close equivalent would be “I smell bullshit/nonsense/rubbish.” Basically acknowledging that stupidity is apparent.
@SharonIfe8 ай бұрын
these men preach about discipline and self control 24 hours a day until it comes to them holding in their sexual urges for something more important...suddenly they're like "oh no i just can't hold it in because it is nature!" where did all that self control and self discipline go eh? 💀
@ReyReyzzz8 ай бұрын
Don't lose yourself in a man. Continue to have some sense of self and identity. Women are the prize but modern men are now trying to flip it. Don't allow it!
@JukuduB8 ай бұрын
These are the typical men we have in Nigeria as of now. Imagine raising your daughters well, only for them to meet these kind of men out there.
@TOOO9518 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!!!!! AH! GOD!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I've had this on my mind for such a long time now and you just voiced it out.
@nazzie92088 ай бұрын
It’s not easy to find a good MAN and it’s not easy to find a good WOMAN! It is a blessing to find someone that you trust and is right to marry, for both genders. Glad to see more people sharing valuable takes instead of podcast people running up and down looking for views. You are an inspiration to women and men alike, we all need a God fearing woman like you by our sides. 👏🏾
@david_ce8 ай бұрын
This is why I tell my teen daughter now she has my full Blessing to Marry outside her race. So long as he Truly Fears God, and God approves, please be Merry 🙋♂️🙋🏾♀️💃🏾🕺
@christchild17118 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more!
@cygwanfogbe2468 ай бұрын
Sad!!! Women make him feel so insecure that he has to put them below him in order to feel any self worth
@Con10th.8 ай бұрын
Ah yeah the blame is yet again on women 🤡
@abeeromesele43318 ай бұрын
Absolutely loving this non-skit content! You were born for the camera Maraji and spot on with the commentary! Marriage is a blessing to both parties and can be equally burdensome to both. Indeed the man that can be kept is the one that wants to be kept.
@nicolenatsai8 ай бұрын
Couldn't have said it any better
@blessingchristoph8 ай бұрын
Who gave him the microphone 🎤 😂
@Hotspice28 ай бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. Who called him for Interview?
@moyinoluwaadegoke18558 ай бұрын
@@moyinoluwaadegoke1855 Aswear 😂
@Hotspice28 ай бұрын
Men say women are lucky to bag them, then still get triggered when women declare that they don't need them.....I don't understand what men want.
@naanmiapnaanshep62998 ай бұрын
I get his point. It is the desperation and low self esteem of many women that have led to this. As for the part of 'keeping a man in a marriage', the truth is most men don't want to be married, they don't want to be 'domesticated'. They just do it bcos they want to be seen as 'responsible'.
@ruthanyasi82908 ай бұрын
Imagine being married to such a guy😅 ( problem). The importance of having proper conversations and asking right questions before marrying someone can not be over emphasised, you would think whack mentalities like this don't exist until some people open their mouths. Pray before committing , ask the right questions before committing.❤
@ibukunogundipe81978 ай бұрын
Probleemmmm😂😂
@estheruko-abasi18898 ай бұрын
😂😂 PROBLEM O !! E SHOCK YOU! Me, I'm shocked as well at what he said. NB !!! "Pray before committing" -so right. We ask God to expose any such thing during before commitment
@gladjum75318 ай бұрын
😅😅am telling you, its soo embarrassing. Like Marazion said, there are women everywhere men can choose from but to find a GOOD WOMAN ahhhh only God can give you that as a gift.
@didimarcus2778 ай бұрын
These type of men irritate me so much cause what the actual f. He doesn’t know women can move even inside the marriage and still be in the marriage. Do you get? Like your wife will be with you but not with you. He should fear women ohhh.
@Priscillia_aforah8 ай бұрын
I told my husband I chose him because among all the men who proposed I accepted his
@comfortinaabiashie98158 ай бұрын
Nah I don't blame him though, I've seen women say that we women should count ourselves lucky that men find us worthy enough to marry us, we should treat them like demigods, worship them Radarada, as per our personal lord and savior Women who make such comments are the ones who give men the audacity to say things like what this man said
@cecicaesar64448 ай бұрын
Religion taught women and men to worship men. Brainwashing from the womb to the tomb.
@tuffislife26748 ай бұрын
I always say the very same thing you said here to some of my fellow women,it is us women who give men the power to behave how they behave. My fellow women always look at me like I have grown six heads.
@ycbgmtobi8 ай бұрын
Abi o if no be see finish this man for no fit open e mouth dey cap rubbish
@lovelyAfo8 ай бұрын
@@ycbgmtobi my sister I'm gotten to the point where i just ignore them, cause there's no point trying to reason with them
@cecicaesar64448 ай бұрын
@@cecicaesar6444 😆 to each their own. I believe some women believe such cause they were raised in broken homes.
@ycbgmtobi8 ай бұрын
You said it all girl Like WTF It's the woman's sole duty to keep the man in a marriage Wahala oo The most annoying part is their confidence in their lack of self-control.
@chinagorumscholastica3958 ай бұрын
"their confidence in their lack of self-control" - smh, it's a shame really
@gladjum75318 ай бұрын
*Is our very own Maraji's podcast starting soon? Caz you have a lot to say, and we're here for it. BTW I love this your new layout❤*
@SamiOklo8 ай бұрын
How did we even get to this level tho 😢
@obandihenshawobanditalks31298 ай бұрын
It has always been this level. We just have social media elevating it 😅
@SaffariRose8 ай бұрын
Really sad I must say
@obandihenshawobanditalks31298 ай бұрын
The key word is STANDARDS.
@rakelpeneyambeko8 ай бұрын
Na me suppose dey keep the man? As per I'm a "keeper". That man was just spilling trash. Very spot on, Maraji!
@mojeehsola8 ай бұрын
As far as the Lord is concerned, men and women need each other. 1 Corinthians 11:11 CEV
@favourchuks10358 ай бұрын
This is how the Majority of our American Black Men think, I guess the African men has begun to drink that koolaid
@christchild17118 ай бұрын
There's literally no difference, they both think they are kings of the land
@digimonalvatrax27388 ай бұрын
Don’t let desperation lead u into marriage oooo 😂 I did not even send my husband when we met 😂😂😂 But I keep thanking God that I married him not because of what that man said but because I found a good and exceptional man I pray for a long life with him ❤ I am lucky indeed. Not lucky out of desperation
@lindao.ezenwammadu70568 ай бұрын
This is the reason why I don't argue with my african brothers on some subjects, it's just a waste of time
@TheRevolutionaryMan46148 ай бұрын
Bombastic side eye I’m giving this men 👀 mtchew
@munimed8 ай бұрын
Eww! This is absolute senselessness and to think that these men will bring up kids with this mentality is even heartbreaking cause I can't imagine him telling his daughter this crap he just aired. I don't blame them that much though...it's the women in their lives that make them feel like they are all that. Shameful!
@jessicaodan48228 ай бұрын
In the year of the Barbie, no one can weaponise my high standards!
@TheALiztube7 ай бұрын
I really like to watch the black table, it helps me get some perspective on how some men think. It is very very sad how low some men place women especially as a married him. This is why you should know who you are and the value you carry so no one can help you define you
@preciousakuetiemhe41558 ай бұрын
💯 very right!
@gladjum75318 ай бұрын
It’s the audacity for me 🙄🙄 me I really thought at the beginning he was about to say something useful when he said mariage is not easy…then he goes to talk absolute rubbish
@dumebiokoh18287 ай бұрын
They even knelt down to beg and us if we would marry them! 😂 Chaii… women have suffered in the hands of some men
@Ebubechi_Anya8 ай бұрын
Men are beginning to realize that they are the prize. Prize for 100M race or what😂😂😂
@beatriceomolola62388 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 it’s the end for me” yeye dey smell” ahh so sad to think that people still think that way. Some men no get respect or value for women.
@thatgelechic8 ай бұрын
If I were the man's wife, I am filing for divorce.
@aquariusmedia93078 ай бұрын
So they think they’re doing is a favor by marrying us. This is why I broke off my engagement 2 years ago. The way that guy was acting as if being married to him would be the best thing since slice bread to happen in my life. Had to drop that real quick. Husband is not my God and marriage will never ever be my religion.
@susanablessinghammond84898 ай бұрын
I like your new background! That’s all I can say- I can’t even waste my reasoning on those nuisance speaking about women in such manner 😏
@Asaanwa8 ай бұрын
When I saw his head I knew it was over
@abbyo46328 ай бұрын
😂
@lindao.ezenwammadu70568 ай бұрын
Wow. Wat a privilege for these men to wake up, want to marry me n wat a work for me to do to keep my marriage. Wow!!!! My work on earth is so defined! 🙄
@AmakaN.8 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@tyolunloyo8 ай бұрын
"The phrase is men and women are lucky to be married"!!!❤️
@rejoiceachor86467 ай бұрын
I love you Maraji!!!! Like, I feel like these days everybody just has something to say, especially those with unfiltered crap!
@bukolaechue95388 ай бұрын
Maraji your background is AMAZING!!!❤
@esidankwa18328 ай бұрын
She totally express how I felt watching that video at the beginning. Mtcheew
@shy_diva8 ай бұрын
Stinking mentality…. Both men and women are the price… periodt
@Daisydvaa8 ай бұрын
God bless you o, Maraji!
@ifeoluwayimikaa8 ай бұрын
This man needs to renew his mind, that's all.
@covenantpaschal98638 ай бұрын
Very true sister, the women praying to God for husband have a type of husband they are praying for so that a woman says no and the man marries another woman does not make him a price.
@oluchukwuobioma11277 ай бұрын
My mouth was open the whole time God abeg oo🥲
@Chizoba2.08 ай бұрын
I’m so pissed for watching that and it’s has ruined my whole day. I keep saying that May God bless me with a child both genders and I’m going to raise them well that whenever they come into contact with someone they will understand what humanity and common sense is… what nonsense.
@heymanndeborah43848 ай бұрын
Na person who dey bring more food to the table be the oga for house. Now, some women dey make huge money more than their wives.
@pilatostats76368 ай бұрын
😂😂 Thank you for this 🙌🏽
@goldie_ngozi8 ай бұрын
Love you Maraji!Thank youuuuu!💫
@AbbasStoryteller8 ай бұрын
Well said Maraji.... Yeye dey really smell. Some people are just really too full of themselves Sha. Men and women are lucky to be married. Know this and know peace.
@faithotaigbe8948 ай бұрын
Sorry what's yeye
@nicolenatsai8 ай бұрын
@@nicolenatsai yeye is a slang in Nigeria for rubbish
@faithotaigbe8948 ай бұрын
@@faithotaigbe894 oh okay, thank you
@nicolenatsai8 ай бұрын
Loving the new format. We want more❤
@klenamx98338 ай бұрын
Na person who dey bring more food to the table be the oga for house. Now, some women dey make huge money more than their husband.
@pilatostats76368 ай бұрын
True talk, well done sis, I love this
@abimbolanature-po8sz8 ай бұрын
He is just being honest many men think like him by their actions he just bold to own up to his thoughts
@nkwehzitabelewungole95798 ай бұрын
You can be honest and also be stupid, one does not negate the other
@chinenye44578 ай бұрын
Okay but Maraji’s set up and video quality?!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 am luvin itttt!
@Gabbygirl7248 ай бұрын
❤❤I love the way you spoke sis 😁
@Blessingc_nwankwo8 ай бұрын
Please destroy the table, cos i get seriously "what"!!! When i hear people (who even say they educated), talk with the boiling point of ignorance, it's shocking. What a piry
@eruangaomuasarah97557 ай бұрын
I love your set up. It feels so warm and happy and relaxing
@mbabss8 ай бұрын
I disliked the video then went back to like it when I remembered she’s just reacting to it😂😂 Yeye Dey smell is an understatement
@femifade1047 ай бұрын
Preach on sis.
@damilolaoladipupo88708 ай бұрын
The way i love this skit is almost as much as i love you. Your sense no go finish my sister.
@kikelomodorcas75958 ай бұрын
Everything Miraj said is so accurate fr
@osagieprecious97498 ай бұрын
You deserve an award 🥇 ❤❤❤. I applaud everything you spoke with grace Periodtt
@momentswithlumi.e20818 ай бұрын
2:36 thank you for this particular part
@D.Youngest.Youtuber8 ай бұрын
Your sound is so crisp.. love it
@taikehtwins8 ай бұрын
Goddd Nigeria is really deep in this patriarchal system. Tueh
@somkeneodikpo56298 ай бұрын
Lol. Go read Genesis 3:16.
@blueresolve29547 ай бұрын
@@blueresolve2954haha Go read Galatians 3 :28 1 Corinthians 11:11
@JandeangelaKenneh2 ай бұрын
Wow!!! They said that with their full chest!!!!🙄 Issokay!
@Nnekaokpalefe8 ай бұрын
The closing remark though 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ojochideomale94558 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯😂😂😂 our privates talk too! 🦜
@AL-ALady8 ай бұрын
Oh dear Maraji I wished this video was longer,kudos to your opinion on this. You spoke my mind❤,these men be bragadoing anyhow
@amakajerome29108 ай бұрын
Couldn't have said it better, girl!
@imainyang81198 ай бұрын
Maraji you have said it all
@Debbypotsandspice8 ай бұрын
Huh! Who are these men? 😡
@UK-sm4co8 ай бұрын
I had your same exact reaction 😂😂
@eloho_space8 ай бұрын
Very true Maraji. Very well said. Both men and women are lucky to be married to each other.
@chinenyeokonkwo36188 ай бұрын
God bless you Maraji.. I always say it Men no scarce Na me know wetin I dey find, men and women full everywhere Las Las everybody with Hin preference
@wynnetodi8 ай бұрын
Thank you Maraji , you have said it all. Infact yeye dey really smell from that video😅
@elodiepamazi52448 ай бұрын
Yeye true true Dey smell😅 “Mr Prize”
@ogbiyeshade13878 ай бұрын
My heart almost sank because I thought you were gonna agree to this o 😭
@Dodohulahoop7578 ай бұрын
Maraji give dem😂
@priscillakp9918 ай бұрын
Well thank them for being honest, single life forever 👍👍👍👍
@digimonalvatrax27388 ай бұрын
Like... I genuinely can't believe anybody would actually willingly want to get married.
@nazzie92088 ай бұрын
Preach girl😂
@chisomokaufulu-kumwenda49558 ай бұрын
At ‘na ME be hotcake I’ I lost it😭😅🤣🤣🤣is this is SKIT?!
@mutelarsorhougbe46068 ай бұрын
I just subscribed to your KZhead channel is because of this video. I love the reply and I learnt too 😍🥰🥰 Thanks
This is why i tell alot of women to decenter men from their lives. It's okay to acknowledge the roles that good men play in society but please never put them on a pedestal.. Don't make husband your God and marriage your religion cause you'll regret it Don't ever let any man act like he's doing you a favour by entertaining the idea of being married to you. Protect your peace, get comfortable with loving, respecting and being by yourself cause at the end of the day you are all you have. It's not your job to keep any man, don't let anyone shame you into thinking it is or shame you into getting married. Take your time and protect your peace.
This your message is from the pit of hell. Decenter men from their lives?? Do you realize men and women was made by God for each other?? As a single person, your goal should be to continually improve yourself in your (masculinity or femininity) for your coming king or queen. Think! Men and women who always have a very high standard or sometimes even unrealistic standard about who they want to get married to. If you plan to get married, let your ideal mentor be someone who has enjoyed marriage for many years and has grown old. Roles and responsibilities define relationship and marriages. I have no need for a woman who can’t cook, in the same way I expect my sister to have no need for a man who has no capacity for violence if the need arises.
You couldn’t have said it better…spot on!. Woman! , learn to have an amazing life without your man.
@@K-ONE16did you read her comment at all ?
Spot on 💯
I agree 👍
Lack of self control has become a flex in our present age So sad
Really sad
Their offspring will be disappointed to watch his father make baseless statement on air.
I recently got married and I've been hearing comments like... Oh! You're very lucky, You should tell your husband thank you every morning for marrying you, do you know how many single unmarried girls are out there, men are scarce and some other unprintable comments. It's annoying when society makes it look like men are the prize. I'm grateful my husband understands that I am the prize and He is also. And doesn't appreciate such narratives God go epp us for this World sha
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains FAVOUR from the Lord. I am the real deal😇
@comfortgideon, the world sure has a lot to say. I'm a Christian and I'd rather look to the Bible. You are right ❤
That’s because it’s rare miracle. We have women everywhere not wives.
🎉🙌🏼 Yesssss girl
PERIOD🎉
You've said it all. Let men with Godly wisdom know this and know peace ✌️
When we say men are starting to think they’re “princesses” this is it. He say “we’re the prize” 😂😂😂😂
Women have options too. We’re not trapped by husbands in this modern world.
I'm beggining to think that's why a lot of men lose their minds when we leave
@@digimonalvatrax2738and they trying to use fear tactics to make women stay 🌝
I swear women that are unmarried for a long time, it's not cause no man wanted them. They just don't like the many options they have to choose from (and yes "MANY OPTIONS" is not an exaggeration) But these men will start making shiloh jokes so..
And men don’t understand that there are less qualifying candidates that’s why there less married women nowadays
The way they talk about marriage like we should kneel and thank them and most of them don't have anything to offer.
Check most of those guys, they can't stand where better women dey stand.
That's why women are now getting angrier these days. Besides, it doesn't just make sense. Why is it the man that should be "kept in marriage"?? Why can't the woman be "kept in marriage"??? Please it's too early for rubbish. I'm irritated by hearing such nonsense.
Can people help us search for the identity of his wife? 😂
Very important! 😂 I wan see something.
😂😂😂😂this comment
I asked myself the same question.
I pity the wife oh 😢
Will she admit to being his wife?
The truth is this man has refused to grow up. Only matured people will understand that no one is doing anyone a favor by being married to them. It's this kind of mentality that makes marriages break up and down. 😢
To think that this is someone's "my king my all..."😂
😂😂😂😂😂 Ahhhh!!!
"Yeye dey smell" I love it😂
Yeye was really smelling (hissing in different types of languages right now)
what does that mean ? 😂😩
@@gladjum7531 a close equivalent would be “I smell bullshit/nonsense/rubbish.” Basically acknowledging that stupidity is apparent.
these men preach about discipline and self control 24 hours a day until it comes to them holding in their sexual urges for something more important...suddenly they're like "oh no i just can't hold it in because it is nature!" where did all that self control and self discipline go eh? 💀
Don't lose yourself in a man. Continue to have some sense of self and identity. Women are the prize but modern men are now trying to flip it. Don't allow it!
These are the typical men we have in Nigeria as of now. Imagine raising your daughters well, only for them to meet these kind of men out there.
THANK YOU!!!!! AH! GOD!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I've had this on my mind for such a long time now and you just voiced it out.
It’s not easy to find a good MAN and it’s not easy to find a good WOMAN! It is a blessing to find someone that you trust and is right to marry, for both genders. Glad to see more people sharing valuable takes instead of podcast people running up and down looking for views. You are an inspiration to women and men alike, we all need a God fearing woman like you by our sides. 👏🏾
This is why I tell my teen daughter now she has my full Blessing to Marry outside her race. So long as he Truly Fears God, and God approves, please be Merry 🙋♂️🙋🏾♀️💃🏾🕺
Couldn't agree more!
Sad!!! Women make him feel so insecure that he has to put them below him in order to feel any self worth
Ah yeah the blame is yet again on women 🤡
Absolutely loving this non-skit content! You were born for the camera Maraji and spot on with the commentary! Marriage is a blessing to both parties and can be equally burdensome to both. Indeed the man that can be kept is the one that wants to be kept.
Couldn't have said it any better
Who gave him the microphone 🎤 😂
Exactly what I was thinking. Who called him for Interview?
@@moyinoluwaadegoke1855 Aswear 😂
Men say women are lucky to bag them, then still get triggered when women declare that they don't need them.....I don't understand what men want.
I get his point. It is the desperation and low self esteem of many women that have led to this. As for the part of 'keeping a man in a marriage', the truth is most men don't want to be married, they don't want to be 'domesticated'. They just do it bcos they want to be seen as 'responsible'.
Imagine being married to such a guy😅 ( problem). The importance of having proper conversations and asking right questions before marrying someone can not be over emphasised, you would think whack mentalities like this don't exist until some people open their mouths. Pray before committing , ask the right questions before committing.❤
Probleemmmm😂😂
😂😂 PROBLEM O !! E SHOCK YOU! Me, I'm shocked as well at what he said. NB !!! "Pray before committing" -so right. We ask God to expose any such thing during before commitment
😅😅am telling you, its soo embarrassing. Like Marazion said, there are women everywhere men can choose from but to find a GOOD WOMAN ahhhh only God can give you that as a gift.
These type of men irritate me so much cause what the actual f. He doesn’t know women can move even inside the marriage and still be in the marriage. Do you get? Like your wife will be with you but not with you. He should fear women ohhh.
I told my husband I chose him because among all the men who proposed I accepted his
Nah I don't blame him though, I've seen women say that we women should count ourselves lucky that men find us worthy enough to marry us, we should treat them like demigods, worship them Radarada, as per our personal lord and savior Women who make such comments are the ones who give men the audacity to say things like what this man said
Religion taught women and men to worship men. Brainwashing from the womb to the tomb.
I always say the very same thing you said here to some of my fellow women,it is us women who give men the power to behave how they behave. My fellow women always look at me like I have grown six heads.
Abi o if no be see finish this man for no fit open e mouth dey cap rubbish
@@ycbgmtobi my sister I'm gotten to the point where i just ignore them, cause there's no point trying to reason with them
@@cecicaesar6444 😆 to each their own. I believe some women believe such cause they were raised in broken homes.
You said it all girl Like WTF It's the woman's sole duty to keep the man in a marriage Wahala oo The most annoying part is their confidence in their lack of self-control.
"their confidence in their lack of self-control" - smh, it's a shame really
*Is our very own Maraji's podcast starting soon? Caz you have a lot to say, and we're here for it. BTW I love this your new layout❤*
How did we even get to this level tho 😢
It has always been this level. We just have social media elevating it 😅
Really sad I must say
The key word is STANDARDS.
Na me suppose dey keep the man? As per I'm a "keeper". That man was just spilling trash. Very spot on, Maraji!
As far as the Lord is concerned, men and women need each other. 1 Corinthians 11:11 CEV
This is how the Majority of our American Black Men think, I guess the African men has begun to drink that koolaid
There's literally no difference, they both think they are kings of the land
Don’t let desperation lead u into marriage oooo 😂 I did not even send my husband when we met 😂😂😂 But I keep thanking God that I married him not because of what that man said but because I found a good and exceptional man I pray for a long life with him ❤ I am lucky indeed. Not lucky out of desperation
This is the reason why I don't argue with my african brothers on some subjects, it's just a waste of time
Bombastic side eye I’m giving this men 👀 mtchew
Eww! This is absolute senselessness and to think that these men will bring up kids with this mentality is even heartbreaking cause I can't imagine him telling his daughter this crap he just aired. I don't blame them that much though...it's the women in their lives that make them feel like they are all that. Shameful!
In the year of the Barbie, no one can weaponise my high standards!
I really like to watch the black table, it helps me get some perspective on how some men think. It is very very sad how low some men place women especially as a married him. This is why you should know who you are and the value you carry so no one can help you define you
💯 very right!
It’s the audacity for me 🙄🙄 me I really thought at the beginning he was about to say something useful when he said mariage is not easy…then he goes to talk absolute rubbish
They even knelt down to beg and us if we would marry them! 😂 Chaii… women have suffered in the hands of some men
Men are beginning to realize that they are the prize. Prize for 100M race or what😂😂😂
😂😂😂 it’s the end for me” yeye dey smell” ahh so sad to think that people still think that way. Some men no get respect or value for women.
If I were the man's wife, I am filing for divorce.
So they think they’re doing is a favor by marrying us. This is why I broke off my engagement 2 years ago. The way that guy was acting as if being married to him would be the best thing since slice bread to happen in my life. Had to drop that real quick. Husband is not my God and marriage will never ever be my religion.
I like your new background! That’s all I can say- I can’t even waste my reasoning on those nuisance speaking about women in such manner 😏
When I saw his head I knew it was over
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Wow. Wat a privilege for these men to wake up, want to marry me n wat a work for me to do to keep my marriage. Wow!!!! My work on earth is so defined! 🙄
Lol 😂
"The phrase is men and women are lucky to be married"!!!❤️
I love you Maraji!!!! Like, I feel like these days everybody just has something to say, especially those with unfiltered crap!
Maraji your background is AMAZING!!!❤
She totally express how I felt watching that video at the beginning. Mtcheew
Stinking mentality…. Both men and women are the price… periodt
God bless you o, Maraji!
This man needs to renew his mind, that's all.
Very true sister, the women praying to God for husband have a type of husband they are praying for so that a woman says no and the man marries another woman does not make him a price.
My mouth was open the whole time God abeg oo🥲
I’m so pissed for watching that and it’s has ruined my whole day. I keep saying that May God bless me with a child both genders and I’m going to raise them well that whenever they come into contact with someone they will understand what humanity and common sense is… what nonsense.
Na person who dey bring more food to the table be the oga for house. Now, some women dey make huge money more than their wives.
😂😂 Thank you for this 🙌🏽
Love you Maraji!Thank youuuuu!💫
Well said Maraji.... Yeye dey really smell. Some people are just really too full of themselves Sha. Men and women are lucky to be married. Know this and know peace.
Sorry what's yeye
@@nicolenatsai yeye is a slang in Nigeria for rubbish
@@faithotaigbe894 oh okay, thank you
Loving the new format. We want more❤
Na person who dey bring more food to the table be the oga for house. Now, some women dey make huge money more than their husband.
True talk, well done sis, I love this
He is just being honest many men think like him by their actions he just bold to own up to his thoughts
You can be honest and also be stupid, one does not negate the other
Okay but Maraji’s set up and video quality?!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 am luvin itttt!
❤❤I love the way you spoke sis 😁
Please destroy the table, cos i get seriously "what"!!! When i hear people (who even say they educated), talk with the boiling point of ignorance, it's shocking. What a piry
I love your set up. It feels so warm and happy and relaxing
I disliked the video then went back to like it when I remembered she’s just reacting to it😂😂 Yeye Dey smell is an understatement
Preach on sis.
The way i love this skit is almost as much as i love you. Your sense no go finish my sister.
Everything Miraj said is so accurate fr
You deserve an award 🥇 ❤❤❤. I applaud everything you spoke with grace Periodtt
2:36 thank you for this particular part
Your sound is so crisp.. love it
Goddd Nigeria is really deep in this patriarchal system. Tueh
Lol. Go read Genesis 3:16.
@@blueresolve2954haha Go read Galatians 3 :28 1 Corinthians 11:11
Wow!!! They said that with their full chest!!!!🙄 Issokay!
The closing remark though 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly 💯😂😂😂 our privates talk too! 🦜
Oh dear Maraji I wished this video was longer,kudos to your opinion on this. You spoke my mind❤,these men be bragadoing anyhow
Couldn't have said it better, girl!
Maraji you have said it all
Huh! Who are these men? 😡
I had your same exact reaction 😂😂
Very true Maraji. Very well said. Both men and women are lucky to be married to each other.
God bless you Maraji.. I always say it Men no scarce Na me know wetin I dey find, men and women full everywhere Las Las everybody with Hin preference
Thank you Maraji , you have said it all. Infact yeye dey really smell from that video😅
Yeye true true Dey smell😅 “Mr Prize”
My heart almost sank because I thought you were gonna agree to this o 😭
Maraji give dem😂
Well thank them for being honest, single life forever 👍👍👍👍
Like... I genuinely can't believe anybody would actually willingly want to get married.
Preach girl😂
At ‘na ME be hotcake I’ I lost it😭😅🤣🤣🤣is this is SKIT?!
I just subscribed to your KZhead channel is because of this video. I love the reply and I learnt too 😍🥰🥰 Thanks
Unrelated but your braids look amazing😍