Shawn Mendes on When He’ll DATE Again and How Camila Cabello Reacted to ‘When You’re Gone’
2022 ж. 31 Нау.
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Shawn Mendes gets extremely personal in this new interview with ‘Extra’s’ Katie Krause, opening up about writing ‘When You’re Gone’ a month after he and Camila Cabello broke up. Mendes shares that he talked to Camila about the song before releasing it and later reveals if he’s ready to start dating again. Shawn explains their shared puppy, Tarzan, is currently with Camila in Miami but that he ‘misses him.’ Shawn talks about his next studio album and if we will finally get that Niall Horan collab. The singer also talks about hanging with the cast of ‘Euphoria’ at the Vanity Fair Oscar party. Shawn’s new song and the music video for the track are out now.
i love how open he is about his feelings. that's what makes him a good artist. being vulnerable and sharing that with the world is never easy.
Do you mean open about his feelings in songs or interviews? Because those are rather different. I immediately think of The Weeknd, who's arguably also very open about his feelings through his music, but for one - the messages are almost always vague and let you interpret them for yourself, and the other thing is, he almost never gives interviews about his music, let alone his personal life.
His spirit is really incredible for a man. I’m sorry to say that but he really has so much divine feminine energy and he has healing energy. I wish more men were able to be as soft with themselves as he is. I think our world would be much more gentle.
@@mole1596 the thing abt shawn is he's open in both his songs and interviews. in terms of artists like the weeknd who leave it up to audience interpretation, i admire that. it's the mystery that keeps the audience listening and the fact that many can relate it to their personal situations.
@@mole1596 x z
Good human over everything
She literally asked all the questions that never really get asked and he answered all the questions that never get answered I can tell Shawn is becoming more open & honest with others and himself.. You can tell he’s healing and starting to be happy with life❤️
Did the girl break up with him? It kind of seems that way. He also seems like a really shy guy who is definitely in touch with his feminine side.
@@HH-gv8mx no. They both decided it together (like what grownups do)
Ι mean it kinda happens when your while relationship has been on display
@@dstoc7427 yeah I do believe the publicity helped them but also destroyed them. Every-time they went for a walk or for a swim Camila always got body shamed. They always had something bad to say about them both and with people saying “it’s a publicity stunt” etc. I’m trying to think if the paparazzi/headlines/haters ruined it. I hope not but I honestly won’t be surprised
@@YoitsSarahx they picked locations super busy and known for paparazzi action so it's not really like they couldn't go elsewhere.
My respect for this man is just unbelievable .He is so humble , soft spoken and a great human being
You couldn't of said it better.
Shawn Mendes broke up with Camila and called their relationship stale and complacent. Camila Cabello has anxiety and OCD to deal with and his fans body shaming her but she has family. He said in the first place he has no one to call when He has panic attacks . people were asking if he doesn't have family or friends so now, He pointed out that He have them to not get the same comments as he was using Camila as his therapist
I think these two will probably get back together.
How can you confirm he is a great human being? He’s in front of a camera, being interviewed 1 on 1. It’s all a fake act.
@@ketonemotto5888 ooooo oh hjlflmng mmmm mgm g u
There respect for each other "I would never make a song abt her without her permission" I love them sm omg 🥺💕
Ummm, how many albums did he write about her and she just found out about them in his documentary, please another bs
how long were they together and why did they break up
@@h3arty that's none of ur business
You stans are certified crazy
But he made 'treat you better' w/o her knowing
I love Shawn & Camila. Together & Separately. They're both incredible artists and so humble.
What 🧑🏾🦲
Yeah even on their own they're powerhouses but I felt they were incredible together and wish it couldve worked out
@@jxy8938 they’re still super young tho, if they’re meant to be they could always try again! Atleast it seems like a mutual and respectful break up which is good because I did like their friendship
Ok?
This is it!!!
I love how he's so open about his anxiety. I'm a huge believer in making mental health a part of our everyday conversation. That is how I try to be in my life in hopes that if my friends or family are struggling with anxiety they can come to me because they know I know what they're going through and I've been there too. Thank you Shawn for modelling this kind of vulnerability for us. Absolutely beautiful!! Also, love the new song!!!
Shawn Mendes broke up with Camila and called their relationship stale and complacent. Camila Cabello has anxiety and OCD to deal with and his fans body shaming her but she has family. He said in the first place he has no one to call when He has panic attacks . people were asking if he doesn't have family or friends so now, He pointed out that He have them to not get the same comments as he was using Camila as his therapist
He and John Mayer would make a cute couple
😡 men you Break up you 💔😭
Well said and totally agree, he could be a therapist with these simple words speaking from his heart...
@@RC-mc6pu Eeeewwww! No, they aren't!!! 🤮
Something about his voice calms me down, he’s a sweetheart and very polite & respectful, i loved him the moment i heard his first song and ever since he’s personally one of my favs, i really hope he finds love as he deserves.
Well obviously his voice calms u down he’s a singer
He broke up with her but was very ok going around the world and with friends looking happy but in interviews after 4 months playing melancholy to promote his song
@@muzamilwaqar7367 not every singer’s talking voice is attractive.
@@MusicLover-tl7mu so you knew how he really felt when he was with his friends!? , sometimes we can feel better and smile around our friends and people we love but you are not really moving on or happy.
@bubbly sparkles i agree.
i love that she asked about the collab with nial so he doesn’t feel like all people talk about is their breakup
she talked about a lot besides their breakup..
It’s that moment when person smiles but you can see he dies inside. Many of us can relate. I hope Shawn will be ok
He literally broke her heart
@@nicole-iy4nm the breakup was mutual, she literally called the relationship stale...
@@CC-QIrsh this is such a good and true explanation. Ive been following them for a while and shawn's had a crush on her for THE longest time. You can tell from their "I know what you did last summer" collaboration. They had interviews and stuff and he'd always be making eye contact w her even when she wasn't looking. And ofc he also admitted to having wrote ALL his songs for her. And camila pretty much rejected and friend zoned him for years until that Matthew guy dumped her himself
@@kathyford8728HE called the relationship stale and was already following models few days after the breakup 🤨
@@Maria-em4oz you don't know them
Everyone please stop blaming either Shawn or Camila about their breakup. That's between them. None of us know what happened so please stop assuming shit.
Holy crap, girl. I totally agree, thank you for just saying it.
Exactly
He can’t satisfy her.
@@neiladriangomez He broke up with her
@@MusicLover-tl7mu Again, none of us know what happened and even if we did, that is between them, not us.
he sounds just like camila, seriously.. his tone..his smile and laugh is just like hers...
Yea she had a great impact on him n it shows . But i don't hear people raising her for saying these things but they do for him all over these comments
@@CosmicKindness exactly 💯!!
@The Heart stop with this bs please
@@CosmicKindness who cares. go praise her on her interviews then.
@@CosmicKindness they basically bashed her and flooded him with love
She asked the questions more nicely here that Shawn looked happier here. In the other video where he was interviewed by another news outlet in the same outfit, he looked like he was on the edge of crying.
Shawn Mendes broke up with Camila and called their relationship stale and complacent. Camila Cabello has anxiety and OCD to deal with and his fans body shaming her but she has family. He said in the first place he has no one to call when He has panic attacks . people were asking if he doesn't have family or friends so now, He pointed out that He have them to not get the same comments as he was using Camila as his therapist
@@ketonemotto5888 gosh how pressed are you that you have to comment the same thing like 50 times calm down
@@annika9196 Shawn Mendes fans were body shaming Camila a lot they called her cowmila
@@ketonemotto5888 I know that she got bodyshamed a lot and that's terrible although i don't if that was all shawn's fans or just internet trolls... also if you look at the comments under his posts and posts about their break up he get's imense hate now as well. it's terrible none of them should get hate and neither of us should get involved in what went on behind their closed doors that's not our place
@@annika9196 I literally have proof a lot of them were Shawn Mendes fans always see them on Twitter since 2019 body shaming her. Do you have instagram?
they asked such personal questions and he answered them like it was no big deal, the way this guy is able to be so open....
He answered like no big deal because he was coached, he spoke about being coached during his Wonder erra, he said can't you tell I'm speaking more freely because he felt connected to the subjects. He has been groomed by the industry since he was 15, he is back answering questions robotically. Notice in another interview he talks about seeing pictures of her before they were together and he use to say he had feelings now he says when he sees the picture Wow, then goes on to say he felt same during the time together and even now seeing pictures of her Wow. What he is doing is being groomed by his team/publicist covering all the the fans and skeptics concerns of how he could have loved her, not see a picture and say Wow, but he use to say he loved her all those years, so he is covering all these topics to put them aside so comments will be squashed but he is not answering like Shawn use to answer and it is so obvious. I kept going over and over thinking why was his answers off and this is why
@@ds-eq7hd hes being groomed? how
@@ds-eq7hd can you elaborate more? Some of what you say doesn't make sense
@@camryn3877 he has spoken on this subject before Wonder Album and him talking freely about it. He said they train you what to say and how to avoid or get around subject matter, after listening to him speak the last couple of years to his latest interviews you can tell it's back to controlled answers
@@somethingalongthelinesof7946 what part doesn't make sense to you so i can answer you on that
Everyone says that he's literally the nicest person in Hollywood. I feel so bad for him that he's heart broken right now but we got two great songs out of it. And I'm so glad that "When you're gone" has a dance beat instead of being sad and depressing.
me listening to the acoustic so i can be sad 😭
Stay tuned for the coming out party.
@@GERENDAZEE 😯
She incredibly respectful with the questions. The professionalism in here it's a great moment for an artist. At the end of the day all of us are the same. Just humans and I love how she reacts and keeps the distance without another intention. And of course how wonderful was him answering with his truth. 🥰
What a great interview...so much wisdom from a young Canadian artist that can write, play and sing with the best...'I want to be full, satisfied and content with myself before I try and get that from somebody else." Shawn Mendes
Right on!
Because he wants Camila🤦🏻♀️
@@teresasavanich3019 He brokeup with her.
Thank you so much for making this interview🥺it’s so nice to get to know more details of the song😭😭
I worked at a venue when he was younger and barely 100 people showed at a 1000+ venue. Seeing him now is just amazing. Genuinely happy for him.
This is such a great interview! So respectful and credits to Shawn for being so open to his feelings
Very nice interviewer/interview. I like Shawn Mendes and Camila as artists and they seem to be so nice. I still question how fair it is for the media and fans to ask deep personal questions. Our society is too intrusive and disrespectful towards entertainers. They don't own the public any explanation of their personal lives. Haven't we crossed a line? Thinking out loud.
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Actually they were the ones who displayed every detail of their relationship so it’s quite expectable that the media asks intrusive questions. Also, he doesn’t seem to be bothered by them, he answered every question comfortably
I usually would agree and say the same things, but their relationship actually had business perks for their careers. So I think this was inevitable due to the business aspect.
I love his honesty and genuinity in thus interview. Most artists don't mention the name of their ex or skate around issues but he was so real and maintained respect for her and himself in the answers given. Much love Shawn. Rooting for you both. The 2 new releases are 🔥
I like how she asked the questions with so much calmness and understanding and appreciating his answers and just having a mature kind of discussion
Loved this video, he's being real and it's awesome. Also love the interviewer, good vibe and questions! She did a great job! Wish more interviews were like this!!!
His aura is so calming and sweet.
He is a gem I swear, I hope his fans support his decisions and always be there for him
His song "In My Blood" got me through alot and it still calms me down when my anxiety comes
I think men are in his blood.
@@GERENDAZEE WTF, what are you talking about? He’s singing about his anxiety, jeez leave him alone WHEN HE SAID A THOUSAND TIMES THAT IT BOTHERS HIM THAT PEOPLE ASSUME HES NOT STRAIGHT WHEN HE SAID HE’S. So leave him the fuck alone…
he’s so open, honest and vulnerable, love that about him
Great interview! The interviewer asked thoughtful questions, and Shawn answered organically and authentically.
I like his friendship with Niall they're the best
Lollll
Yeahh 😭🇮🇪
@@Hazzabearr they should do a song
Yeah. Friends
@@mouthdestroyer8847 i know what you insisting here💀
You don't get to decide when emotions come out...so true. and relatable!!
This makes me cry, I regret not giving him a chance but I didn’t want my Dad to ruin that/his night
his words are so wise, I always loved his vulnerability and maturity. his music is so underrated nowadays, but hopefully people with taste still listen to it 🙏🏼 can’t wait to see him on tour!!!
I love him. His music is amazing.
Same i can’t wait he’s coming to NYC!
Your consistency and quality of content never disappoints 💖💖💖
Such an incredible eloquent interview 💜
i hope he's doing well🌱and i hope him and Niall will drop a song someday !!!
I love him so much, hope he’s okay, it’s okay to not be okay all the time. Love you❤️
I don't know how people can hate on such a sweet and loving person, shawn mendes is the best😭♥️
@Certified Queen like you're doing now? When bitterness and jealousy aren't clouding you, you always see the good in people
I mean, this is 1000% true but just rudely worded to the point some people can’t accept the message! 😂😂😂❤️ People have got to stop putting celebrities on pedestals! Shawn has said bad things in the past about people that he never thought he’d be addressed about. He is learning and growing, but I doubt even now he is sharing everything about himself with us.
You're also right but that's no reason to hate on somebody, people judge celebrities by bad things they've said or done in the past but never see the good in them that's obviously there. A lot of people are hated on nowadays for a lot of stupid reasons.
People just don't like false narratives.
He’s so right. Meditation 🧘🏻♀️ has really helped me too
I just love how candidly he’s talking about his ex girlfriend and being vulnerable. He’s a man every women deserves
Such thoughtful questions. Great interview, loved her enthusiastic vibe & energy! 👏
This really inspires so much. The breakup phase he explained , are so true . The line i dont hate myself , it's jst memories which flooded . Its so relatable . I love you shawn❤️
This was an amazing interview, I don’t even like his music or know anything about him but he was just so real and vulnerable and genuine, it was really cool. Also this interviewer was so kind and gentle. ♥️
I love seeing him like that, calm and mature in some way? It's healing
He has such a big and soft heart, you can hear it from his voice. 💛
Thank you Shawn for your amazing and inspiring words❤️
He seems so sweet, gentle and pure heart that makes me so happy
The questions were amazing and he answered them so well wow
respect him so much for being so honest, wise and humble
Shawn is so mature and emotionally intelligent! I love it 💜 True bravery of spirit! It takes tremendous courage to embrace vulnerability, and live so open heartedly.
I’m so sad that they aren’t together, they really were made for each other. They suited each other and the deep love they have for each other. I hope you both find your happiness. God bless you both
Shawn is such a organic and loving truthful kind soul! Never met him or camilla and ai love them both as artists and watching them genuinely are beautiful humans!
I hope him and Niall do end up having a collab one day ❤️
Shawn talking about Tarzannn. I miss them
You know he can pick him up and be with him but he chooses not too
This is kinda emotional tbh.. Shawn will be okay and he has that strength! We love you Shawn! 😘❤️ -Mendes Army
I love how he is so honest “ ima big fan lmao” but it’s hard to be open and I’m glad he is sharing a lot of information and trying you help people with anxiety
The interview is so authentic, just love how personal, vulnerable & therapeutic it was!
Ily Shawn......❤️❤️thankyou for always being open ... always be blessed 😘😘
I’m so incredibly proud of how far Shawn has came I absolutely adore him he’s such a genuine human being thank you so much for sharing :)🫶🏻💕
I love how honest he is ❤️❤️
You’ll never know his true self off camera. Stop idolizing strangers you do not know. It’s unhealthy.
There's nothing wrong with doing that. Keep your opinions to yourself if they aren't nice
@@imanetimite8642 Wrong- there are a LOT of things that are messed up with idolizing strangers. It's the whole reason the world was shocked when Will Smith assaulted Chris Rock. Wake up.
@@PHILLYMEDIC69 I get your point but if other people want to do it then that's on them. You don't have to bash them with your opinions.
@@imanetimite8642 I am allowed to have my own opinions and speak however I want.
His smile is so contagious and I'm so here for it
I hope Shawn feels ok! We all love you Shawn
He broke up with Camila
@@MusicLover-tl7mu I know
@@LMusicloverKi09 He broke up with her but was very ok going around the world and with friends looking happy but in interviews after 4 months playing melancholy to promote his song
@@MusicLover-tl7mu well, it’s not like he’s trying to hurt her or anything
@@MusicLover-tl7mu even if you are the one to initiate the break up you are allowed to mourn it
Shawn and Camila are beautiful human beings. To much press from the outside world especially the media. They healing now and they have an honest friendship. Good luck for both of them
Beard.
It's refreshing to see a celebrity be open
god i love this man so much. at one point he was my whole world, the comfort of him made everything better. but then i grew up, i got busy with my life, with my future. i still am so so busy but every once in a while i will see a video or a picture on my fyp or feed and my heart combusts with the nostalgia and pride. over the past couple of weeks ive really been reconnecting with shawn and realising he will alway be so special to me.
🧡He is such a sweet and calm guy.🥺
We love you Shawn✨
im glad you have people to turn to when your anxious i suffer from anxiety as well and their was a point there was no one to talk to and meditation and your music helps
He’s so honest and wants to be that way.
What a sweet and genuine soul. 🙏🏼
@5:10- @5:30 really wise words. It takes time to get through that after being with someone for a while. And then bam, you are suddenly on your own... It is like you need to relearn how you survived on your own. Hard but not impossible
Never knew I needed this interview until I heard it. 😊
Shawn is such a beautiful human. God bless him for sharing his heart with music💗🎶
Stop idolizing strangers. It’s very unhealthy. Go outside, touch some grass.
@@PHILLYMEDIC69 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shawn in love- Omg I can see that pain GOD bless you precious soul
He broke up with Camila
@@ketonemotto5888 ikk but it doesn't mean the love ended-
It breaks my heart the way he looks down everytime he get asked about something that clearly still hurt.💔
It's after their break up I started listening to Shawn Mendes. I respect him as a singer and songwriter and his latest song is beautiful. I can feel he is broken inside or was but it's getting better for him.
idk how but i think he is always being honest about his feelings. this is what makes him my favourite song writer and performer
Interesting to hear about his process, how touring fuels his creativity and how his music takes shape through his connection with his audience 🙌💪✨
I really enjoyed the questions asked :)
Thank you for this!!
such a sweetheart!
I absolutely admire Shawn Mendes he's so humble and down to earth and is just a beautiful person who has a heart for those around him.
Please stop idolizing strangers.... you don't know him behind the scenes
@@PHILLYMEDIC69 Well I have a right to voice my opinions. Have a nice day :)
lmao. ok
Nice job with interview, Katie.
I’d love to have a casual conversation with him, so many things could come up and lead to interesting things to talk about for a really long time. I hope I have a chance to do that in this lifetime
That's quite pathetic
He genuinely seems like the nicest, most genuine guy. Wow!
Genuinely afraid of getting outed I think. just saying.
I am thoroughly impressed with how he answered those questions. Very well-spoken.
Seeing him smile is great and all but you could tel he’s hiding his real feelings and he should have to
What do you think are his true feelings ?
I am so annoyed. Honestly it’s nobody’s knows what fully happened. Everyone just has so much judgement. I want them to both be happy and people need to realize that they are still human! Beside media can always twist words and opinions with such ease. Take everything with a grain of salt. As fans or hater will never know the full story. Always having spotlight sucks. But they both are amazing artist that impacted my life. Just saying people need more empathy.
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but you're not annoyed with this interviewer right? because she was super respectful
From what we know from their songs after the break-up, it’s so clear that camila was the one who ended the relationship, and she has enough reasons to do that I think
@@hanza69 hmmm I've been seeing comments all along saying that it was Shawn..
@@portmoregirl No not the interview. I just saying be wary in general.
You are the creator Shawn, blessings, love and light to you during this difficult period in your life. I truly understand what it's like to experience the pain that you both are going through, it's not easy 🙏❤️
The tired but calm but content voice reminds me of how I feel right now too… it’s like.. yes I feel very blessed and I’m more than grateful, but life comes with it’s humbling challenges that can SEEM unbearable..He seems like he’s healing ❤️🩹 good for him. Love can be very addictive and some people are so cruel, they use that against the sensitive person but the sensitive person once they are back on their feet that’s it, that same person who caused a lot of internal pain can no longer cause it (not saying that’s his situation I’m just going off into my own rant now sorry 😅)
I don't listen to his music but he seems like such a nice down-to-earth guy. Very chilled vibe.
I genuinely wished that he would just learn to keep his life private. People ruin beautiful things , evil eye exist whether you want to believe or not. Your truth will not change if you keep it to yourself. You and Camila are great humans and we thought of nothing apart from love and respect, but it's time you learn to keep things to yourself. Music exists and people can think whatever they want , but that should be it.
He’s a Leo, so…😂
Shawn Mendes broke up with Camila and called their relationship stale and complacent. Camila Cabello has anxiety and OCD to deal with and his fans body shaming her but she has family. He said in the first place he has no one to call when He has panic attacks . people were asking if he doesn't have family or friends so now, He pointed out that He have them to not get the same comments as he was using Camila as his therapist
I agree with this. Lots of artists write songs about their ex’s & don’t feel the need to say their name every 5minutes, even when fans usually know who they’re singing about. To me & im just talking about my own opinion here, him thinking that being so open to, let’s face it strangers, will endear him to his fans. And he does seem to make a lot of decisions based on fan reaction. but to me, who is a fan I feel like he’s trying to manipulate us & it makes me feel like he’s using her to get more streams or whatever & it cheapens the relationship they had. He’s coming across as a bit of a user. I’m also not denying he’s upset over the split, but if what we know is true & it was his decision, well being someone myself who’s broken up with people, generally you’re in a much happier place. I mean that’s kind of the point, cos it means you’re unhappy in the relationship, so when that’s finished with, it’s generally a relief. Otherwise why break up at all. So in conclusion, it’s Camila who I feel for as no one likes to be dumped. The dumper is never gonna feel as bad as the dumpee.
@@jjjagger1 You said it all
He's a celebrity. It's the life he has chosen.
Hope you feel well now Shawn!❤️
He broke up with Camila
@@ketonemotto5888 huh? I know.
This was such a great interview. 😊
Thanks shown your the one that was teaching mediation and it really did help me thank you so much
I would love for Shawn to get a cameo in Euphoria that would be amazing
You've already given so much through your music. I wish you happiness in your personal life just take it a day at a time 😊
He’s so genuine. It’s nice to hear someone just be authentic
This is how interviews should be.
Oh Shawn 😣😔💔 I can tell how he's breaking inside behind that sweetest smile, all his pain reflects though his eyes but I love the way he's handling it. I need to learn A LOT from him.
You really shouldn't speak for people especially ones you don't know. Nobody knows if he's breaking inside. We can only take what he says.
Such a great person for real. He goes through things that so many of us go through. To relate to him is something I never feel towards any celebrity. Very humble young man. I wish him nothing but the best.
You’ll never know his true self off camera. Stop idolizing strangers you do not know. It’s unhealthy.
@@PHILLYMEDIC69 I’d completely agree with your statement, had it not been for Shawn. He has always been great, showing love, gratitude and vulnerability. You simply hate on him, because you recognize the amount of goodness you’re lacking.
I love that he gives meditation it's props. It's helped me do much too