Louis Cozolino on core shame in therapy
2016 ж. 23 Мам.
6 261 Рет қаралды
An interview with Dr. Louis Cozolino where he introduces "core shame," one of the many clinical ideas that can be found in his book, "Why Therapy Works."
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I have major problems with core shame. My last therapist evoked this profoundly thru rejection and abandonment. When i tried to re-engage and take back my power, get angry, assert myself… she refused and decided to cut me off completely. Why does the profession allow this to happen, and where are the resources for clients who face a compounding and escalation of their core shame, in therapy? It was traumatic.
Great you asserted that. Please have courage work on further, you are strong, resilient and beautiful!
So v helpful. Would like to hear more on how to be assertive with the shaming voice in our head.
I've always wondered why so many use shame to discipline, not just in families, but I see it frequently in the classroom and workplace. This makes sense, because it is such an ancient system, it is a very easy way to establish hierarchy and control, especially in an overcrowded system like a classroom. It is terrible how quickly a student/employee becomes a scapegoat not just to the one in power but the entire group, so please don't use it, you are just setting up the target to be bullied. I do see it now, it is simply a lazy way to get people to do what you want.