Mom Saves Daughter’s Birthday Party After No One Shows Up
2023 ж. 21 Мау.
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Lex Fitzgerald wanted to give her daughter the best birthday party ever. Unfortunately, her 5-year-old daughter was left sitting all alone at the end of a long decorated table waiting for her classmates, who never show up for her party. Desperately trying to save her daughter's birthday, Fitzgerald sent out a plea on social media for anyone with young kids to show up to the party. Within 15 minutes, people started to arrive. Inside Edition's Ann Mercogliano has more.
The little girl got a lesson that most learn as adults, about 'friends.'
Seriously!!!
not really the friends fault, i suspect more like the parents. I'd imagine kids her age wanted to go to the party, what kid is gonna turn down birthday cake, but the parents said no
I have also learned the same lesson, NEVER depend on friends and family to support your joy! It will NEVER happen!
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Yep. You find out who your friends aren't.
The fact that so many people from the community came that fast to show love and kindness to make a little girl’s birthday special melts my heart beyond measure.
This is what the true spirit of being both a Christian AND an American is all about!! To the mother, please make sure to continue these AMERICAN values so your daughter can pass it on. 😎👍🏻🇺🇸
So wonderful & uplifting!❤
What about the homeless veterans how sad is that.
I guess there is some goodness in social media.
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Sometimes strangers treat you better than “friends”
Sometimes strangers treat you better than family.
Sometimes I feel like the more people know each other, the more opportunities they've had to have conflicts and have a falling out. I have a hard time speaking to my best girlfriend of many years because of all of the hard times we've had.
Always
My friend and I were invited to a 18th birthday party for a kid we knew but not super well, we almost didn’t go because of that but we decided to stop by, we were the only two who showed up. He had the house all set up and we ended up just going mini golfing with his family because it was just the 2 of us. Our hearts broke for him even as an 18 year old, this shows the importance of showing up because we have often thought back to “what if we decided not to go”
Many celebrities that do charity or autograph events say the same thing....just by showing up, you make someone's day. You don't know whose life you will enlighten just by being there. Well done!!! (Mark Hamill of Star Wars has that on his Twitter/X account...just showing up means everything)
His life would have still went on, but maybe not as happy as now
Yeah, you don’t know the impact you can have on someone’s life. If no one showed up, that would have stuck with that poor person forever and probably not gone well.
Same happened to a kid on my brother’s football team. My brother didn’t really want to go but felt like he should stop by! He was the only person who did and they ended up playing video games for a couple hours!
Honestly this is one of the most devastating things that can happen to someone. It'll break you and you'll probably end up hating people and start a hermit crab life with social anxiety. Glad y'all showed up, but it still was most likely his last party.
Kudos to the people who not only showed up, but showed up with presents in hand!
And with more cake to go around too.
Yes!❤🎉
Bro nobody showed up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@gunnercade7728 they mean the kind strangers 😉
@@gunnercade7728bro didn’t watch the end of the video💀 people literally showed up….
as someone who had a party that no one showed up to as a kid, it scarred me to this day. i still don’t believe people will show up for me as an adult. i’m so glad she was spared the pain!
Omg girl me too! I'm glad I'm not the only one I've never had a party and I'm 30 😢 I dream of it one day
same! if 1 person showed up I'd be happy
Oh man you just identified a huge weakness in me. I have the same issue. I feel a lot like Gatsby trying to basically bribe people to attend stuff with me because I can't believe anyone would show up just for me. That said, I'm blessed to have parents that will show up for everything and anything so I can depend on them at least.
@@dbrooke3629 i’m blessed to have parents that will show up too and for that i’m so grateful🥺❤️
Same here! 25 yrs old, and only 2 showed up for my birthday, never ever again I celebrate my birthday, just spend it with me, myself and I, watching a great movie, and with my pet of course.... The best company I've ever had so far ♥
My teen daughter made a Facebook friend through video games and he ended up in hospital with a terminal condition. She went out of her way to visit several times. After he died his sister got in touch with her and told her that she and her boyfriend were the only people apart from family who ever visited him in hospital, and thanked her saying it had been very lonely for him and he was very cheered up by her visits. I was so proud of her doing that.
Damn whats with the other family not visiting? Is it just me or does it seem like america canada anywhere really(yes i have been living under a partial rock ) its a mad mad world ? Matrix ?
That’s heartbreaking. No matter how popular or unpopular the child is, I always have my kids go to the party. No child deserves to be alone at their birthday party.
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I really mean it too. I have 4 children, 3 girls, 1 boy. I see the snobbery among the parents. It’s hurtful and petty. The kids need to see their classmates at their birthday parties to make them feel great and help celebrate their moment. Did you catch that? Their moment! Caddy wives, $notty dads make the child experience horrible. The kids need the joy shared among their own, the parents have nothing to do with it. I have to say this post really emotionally touched me.
as a former unpopular child. I would have hated having some kids I don't really know well come to my party because a well meaning parent thinks I don't deserve to be alone. Having to pretend I'm friends with them, worse than not having a party at all. You can't force friendship, the birthday kid knows it, your kids know it; it'll just be awkward for all of them.
@@adriansue8955Is it possible however, that being the only ones who show up, the children can get to know each other better and make friends? I would hope this is so.
I worked at a movie theater and there was one time there was a party where only one kid showed up. We did much more than we usually did for the parties just to ensure those two kids had a good time. They got posters, promotional items, person tour of the projection booth (we weren't supposed to that anymore), refills on everything, all the employees sang them happy birthday. Like just as a worker its so hard to watch that kind of situation and not try to help
that was so sweet of you guys :')
What a great thing to do for those kids! Thank you and to all your co-workers! ❤
thank you!
I would also like to thank you for your kindness. You and your coworkers restored some faith in humanity 😊
KUDOS to you and the staff !! I bet it was the most unforgettable birthday for those kids !
As a Mom, I understand how it hurts to see your baby hurting
Yes, and as a Father just as Much.
@@worldsbestfun There's no denying that. But clearly the video is relatable to that of a mother bc she is a mother. I'm not diminishing the father but clearly he wasn't present 🫤
I'm not even a dad and these kinds of stories always hurt to hear. I guess those paternal/parental instincts kick in when you hit a certain age. I'm glad that there were people from the community who were able to come and celebrate with her.
Its the worst feeling in the world
@@JessicaBeeehe’s saying he’s a father and feel the same way
This happened to me in middle school. I started calling friends asking if they were coming. Not only did no one show up but two girls orchestrated the whole thing so no one would come. I ended up getting apologies but it did scar me so much that I still tear up about it when I think on it as an adult over 30 years later.
And then they wonder what possible reason you might have had for going off the deep end one day...
so do I just from your telling it. it's emotional abuse, pure and simple. it's hell beings doing this kind of stuff because it destroys the basic minimum of trust between human beings. it destroys the idea that simple generosity and goodness suffice to produce goodness. it teaches us to never be good to people if you want to play it safe.
I am a school teacher and some years ago a colleague and I became aware of such a plot amongst our 7th graders. One mean girl circulated a letter telling the other girls to RSVP yes, but instructed them not to attend the party. We called in the mean girls' parents and their response was shocking! They supported their daughter's actions and commended her for being a good judge of "class". The birthday girl was delightful and without flaw, but the other children were terrified of the mean girl so they were too scared to cross her. I am certain this is what happened to you. One nasty piece of work dissuaded the others. There was nothing wrong with you. 24 years later, I still remember that child and her awful parents and get a sick taste in my mouth. She probably has had this effect on many people. She had no class at all, just money, but was too egotistical to know the difference.
You know they orchestrated it, it was never because of you. ❤️
Thank you all. I appreciate your kind words. It took many years to understand the motivation and understand it wasn’t about me. To Claire… it was a couple of the popular girls that orchestrated it.
I saw a similar story years ago about a boy with disabilities who threw a party and nobody showed up. Mom put out a meager as well and the town fire and police department showed up and gave him the best kid's party ever.
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When I turned 4, my parents threw a party and no one showed up. Decades later, I still remember that pain. Luckily, my family is awesome, and helped me have a good time. Man, my family is awesome.
Why would no one show up though??? Have you ever asked yourself that?
@@samadams219Because people suck.
Who cares?! That’s a them problem. They missed out. He had a great time.
That's your parents fault. There's nothing wrong with having something smaller at home. Now every kid in school has to go to every other kid's birthday party.
maybe you were a obnoxious person and people really hated you , its quite possible
I'm impressed so many people got their kids out the door to the restaurant with a wrapped gift in 15 minutes. Impressive!
I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not but things aren't adding up here lol.
I know! I have an aunt who keeps a closet full of gifts for a moment's notice. Apparently, she is not the only one...lol. That is awesome :-)
@@chainuser1774 "sarcasm" ... seriously????!!!! Some people may have already been ready to do things that day. All they had to do was pop down to the local toy store, grab something, wrap it or have the store wrap it and then make their way to the party. 30 mins to an hour is all people need. Anything is possible.
@@rick_terscale1111yeah, & with hundreds of fb followers & instagram followers seeing the post, 30 people showing up is not the most improbable event to occur. It’s totally possible, absolutely.
There could be a store nearby that made it convenient
I don't usually comment on videos, but this was hands down the most amazing show of kidness and hometown love I've ever seen! Kudos to Mom, the selfless people who showed up to make a little girls day, and the most wonderful of wishes to that sweet birthday girl!
This happened to me when I was 16; of the 50 people who had said they were going to attend and that I thought were my “friends” only 4 showed up. We had enough food for everyone that said they would be there so we had to give everyone who did come lots of food to take home because there’s no way we could eat all that food that day. I was so grateful for the 4 that kept there word.
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It says a lot about those who didn’t show up. Especially those who RSVPed. That means you gave your word, and couldn’t take an hour or two out of your day, to bring your child to a birthday party. What a lesson to teach your child.
I feel our society these days has really gone downhill socially. I always blame dependency on phones making us into these quirky committophobes. It’s not okay!
Lmaooo the girl prolly gets bullied in school
@@gunnercade7728 tf u on
Lmoa about a lil girl getting bullied??????wtf???? What is actually wrong with you?
I missed a boy's party and will be devastated for the rest of my life. I didn't mean to, something really traumatic happened and I completely forgot.
The fact that they not only showed up, But they took the effort to bring gifts to. God bless this community and their hearts♥
Oh yeah the family of this kid sounds great. Didn't show up until they got put on blast for doing zero. Ya real hero's.🤮🤮🤮
God bless ❤
@@jamessievert350whats with the barf emojis🤷♀️
@@jamessievert350ah jealous? Well hope your birthday people show not having barf issues.
I’m sure the mom paid the parents for compensation.
This happened to my son. I think it was the beginning of his change from a confident extrovert to a shy introvert.
When I was younger we had only small parties (at home) for really, I mean Really close friends. Now it is MADNESS!! The stupidity of parents and the need to show-off is crazy. Did you invite his best friends or the whole class? Sometimes is better to invite less people and be sure they will come and will have a great time together. Or just spend time with family.
@@EvenWinter, I totally agree!
I’m glad the community came through for her. When I was in grade school a peer invited everyone in the class to his birthday party and I was the only one who went from the school. The party was only his family and me. We weren’t great friends, but we were pals, and I was very honoured to be invited and made a point of arriving on time. His family were so excited that I was there and though I have really severe social anxiety, I enjoyed myself and we had a lot to talk about at school that week. This is a kids Nightmare, so I’m glad people came through and brought her gifts also, that is above and beyond.❤🎉
This happened to me when I was 16. It wasn't a birthday party, just an invite to a group of friends when my parents were away for the weekend. I got everything ready and....no one showed up. Not a single one. Turns up they were on their way and stumbled upon a house party of someone they knew and decided to go to that instead. Was a terrible feeling and still remember it to this day despite it being a long time ago.
Thats just so mean of them to do that to you I hope ur doing fine now
That's not true friendship if they decided to do that to you. How horrible.
fair weather friends as they say
That kinda happened to me when I was 16, too. I invited all these people yet only my best friend, my boyfriend & an old neighbor friend & his brother showed up. It was for my 16th birthday & my brother’s 21st birthday (he’s Autistic so he was just happy to go to Pizza Hut). It was at that moment that I realized those “friends” I invited weren’t my friends. Ever since then, when it’s my birthday, I take myself out or take my brother out.
I was there in spirit
The face of the little girl during the interview speaks volumes about how much it hurt her, hearing the mom talking about that day.
While I was watching the video I thought it would had been better for the little girl not be there during the interview, because that makes her remember the hurtfull moment again. I think it was better for the girl that her experience ended with the memory of the number of people who did show up to her party. Obviously the mother has not done it with bad intentions, I can tell. As for how the mother handled the party situation, wow! marvelous! ❤
@@tatianaa.3694I agree, the mother had an amazing response. But unfortunately, this wouldn't work in all areas of the country, only where it's reasonably safe. It certainly wouldn't work in my city lol! I shudder to think who'd show up from my local "community" 😅😅
@@tatianaa.3694EXACTLY!!!!!!!
The mom should have interviewed without the little girl being there!!!!
So sad 🥺
This happened to me when I was a kid… a birthday party where no one showed up. That’s hard for a kiddo to understand. Heartbreaking. So glad there was a community of loving, supportive adults to show up with their kids to make this a special day.
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Heartbreaking… how can you EVER accept and then not?! I hope those mums of the children appreciate the pain they caused.
I’m a grown man, and as a dad myself I wanted to cry. So sad to see her alone at a party. My daughter would have been so hurt.
I'm in the same boat. Sad day for the kid.
Same here. I would be so heartbroken to see them alone with no one to come to the party...
Same.
When I was in third grade, a classmate had a party at a bowling alley. Originally I didn’t get an invite, but after asking her for one… she handed me the invite. When her bday arrived my mom got her a small gift… and we arrived at the party. No one from our school came. I was the only one. From then on we’ve been friends. I remember her older sister telling her to cheer up and hug me because I’m the right friend for her.
Wow...
But you got a great gift…. a BFF❤
that's so precious 😭
That was wholesome
So why did you grow up and be a terrible person to everyone else tho?
I know this is old and no one will probably see this. But it breaks my heart, it hits home because at the age of 15, family members decided that presents and parties were no longer necessary. At age 48, about to turn 49 its been 35 years since I've received a gift except for ones I buy myself
I'm sorry - that sucks 😞 ❤️
that's sad. I'm an adult and have family members every year suggest that we don't do gifts. I fought this idea every year by telling them I'd still get them one (which I would do).... and so they keep giving me gifts. As a disabled person who lives alone and don't get to see family members often, it just feels nice getting a few gifts from family members each year (I don't care if the gift is cheap, it's just nice to have any gift no matter how small).
We do not do presents, but that’s between adults. Kids always get presents.
What about friends? Perhaps it is time to heal the hurt and fill that void with so much love and joy that you start to meet people of like caliber who love to celebrate with you!
That has got to hurt, especially as you were not yet an adult. One should feel special on one’s birthday. It hurts even as an adult; I don’t get presents or cards from my family either, not even from my son. My husband and I buy ourselves a present from our joint savings, but I have to choose my own present and it really doesn’t mean much to me. Same story at Christmas. It’s hurtful knowing that no-one really cares enough to bother. So I get your pain.
Imagine a world where everyone's goal was to bring joy to just one person they hadn't met before. What an incredible place that would be.
will be, is becoming… each of us who smiles at a stranger, as well as every friend and neighbor, is being that person and helping that goal become.
Unfortunately sometimes strangers will treat you better than family and friends!! Thanks to all who made this girls birthday party wonderful after all ❤❤❤
Why?
Amén for that
Very true!!
You got that right
Thats how strangers become friends
I really don’t understand why an adult would say that her/his kid will attend to a kid’s party and not show up. This is rude and irresponsible, and only shows how low they think of kids and others.
Right?!?! This blows my mind.
That is Amazing! I'm glad that Willow got the Birthday party that she deserved. Happy Birthday Willow❤🎉 You deserve it.
That's why you put RSVP on the invitation.
@mytv89626 did you watch the video? Several people DID ravp.
@@TheLovelyMissBeans RSVP.
THIS is the type of story we need to hear about. What a show of compassion and humanity.
More like a show of the selfishness and superficiality of our current culture. People have no sense of commitment or responsibility anymore, but give them an emotional story to post about on their socials, and they'll drop everything to show up. I guarantee you that every one of the people who showed up at that party did it for the gram.
Willa is cute when she smiled and hugging her party attenders. She got a great mom.
This makes my heart burst. Blessings to those who showed up for this little girl on a moments notice
Poor parenting on her part . Child suffering.
@@Winstn2331how??
@@Winstn2331 Your comment makes no sense
Her mom in planning the party did a bad job and did not put her cellphone down to know her child suffering from social and so is she. The child should know her for th e making a mistake.
@@speaktrue77 you make no sense can't fix stupid.. common sense. Googl will tell you
This happened to my sister on her 10th birthday, when I had got home and saw it I called up every friend I had and within 30 minutes we had a full house for her birthday. Always do your best for your family.
No one messes with baby sister.. us big sisters will lose it
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My heartfelt congratulations go out to the individuals who not only made it to the event but also arrived bearing thoughtful gifts.
Bless her!!! What a Sweet & Thoughtful Mom!!❤
I used to work as a party pro/manager at BounceU and I cannot tell you how many parties i worked where no kids showed up! Its the most devasting thing to see in the childs eyes, but also the parents. They spend so much money and put so much time and effort into these birthday parties just for nobody to show up.
This is heartbreaking. :-(
That’s crushing to hear. Many moons ago I worked at Discovery Zone (in Canada) and thankfully never did that happen.
How sad
This was always my fear as a parent so I made sure to only invite kids who were close to my daughter that I knew for sure would turn up (and determine which might be a no show), and keep the party intimate. Also, don’t they rsvp anymore to give these parents an idea?
It's an epidemic of selfishness. There's always an excuse!
I bet that little girl NEVER forgets this birthday party. Mom truly saved the day. This video has such a positive outcome and has renewed my faith in humanity.
Now she can bring up her birthday was on the new years later
The little girl is destroyed for ever.
@@crayonburry Yep, exactly what I was thinking. It's gonna be on KZhead for as long as KZhead is around, and probably a few other online spots. When she's older, she might even want to avoid this notoriety, but I'm not sure social media will allow her to.
@@Winstn2331 Do you mind explaining exactly what you mean by that?
@@bowed305 You already explained why.
That poor little baby. U can still see the hurt in her big eyes. Breaks my heart
❤ So beautiful. Made me cry. Community filled with so much compassion and love. Just shows how many kids wanted to do something that day and were maybe bored at home. Forget the ones that didn’t show. They missed out on a good time!
I feel bad for this poor girl! I’d come to her birthday. I’m so happy she has an amazing mother ❤
This doesn't make sense why did all her friends didn't come, maybe the kid did something
@@Sa.d.bo26Plot twist: she made the story up.
@@crazygrl689Plot twist: you're lonely
I would come to her party, with my friends
This happened before with two other moms that went viral on Inside Edition as well I guess it happens once every other year apparently
One time in elementary school, I was invited to a classmate’s sleepover. She was only a few blocks away so I was able to go, but despite inviting the entire class, I was the only one to show. From there we became best friends until the day I had to move out, my last memory of her was holding a big container of cheese balls waving goodbye to me and my family with a big smile. She was always there, even during the process of my family moving, she’d be happy to hang out. Sadly haven’t been able to talk to her since that day but I hope she’s doing well:)
You can still search for her via social medias
The power of social media! Find her please 🥺
Hope you're doing well also you cared enough to show up she was lucky to have you and vice versa 💕
I so love reading beautiful comment like that of yours.. I hope you're doing well yourself. Love from Swaziland 🇸🇿 ❤
Find her!!!!
Her mother was so smart ❤❤❤ God bless them, for showing up.
Taking a negative into a positive is master level momma right there!!! Good job! U saved her from the trauma doing damage
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This happeded to me when i was 10. I invited all my friends at school to come spend my birthday at the skating rink. Had a long table full of pizza and ice cream and i got there early to greet everyone at the door. Time went on and i realized nobody was coming. Spent my birthday crying in my moms arms. It scarred me for life and i never had another birthday party since. Im now 35. Thinking about this sweet angel. I wish i could have come to yours.
It happened to me for my 7th birthday. I am now 58. Yes, it still will pop up and your emotions can be stung by a trauma like this.
Woah, I can't fathom how many people bail on going to birthday parties and don't even give an ahead notice. I'm so sorry no one came to your party, I sure as hell would've loved going to the rink! Even at 26 it's still something I would enjoy, lmao. Don't let that sour memory stop you from having fun, tho!
@@sharonbrookes1188 yeah I appreciate it Sharon... It's been a hard one to shake but I do the best I can
I think this type of thing happens to every single one of us in some form or another at LEAST once, if not more! It's the sucky part about being human. Never too late to start celebrating you. Start today!!
Creep?
There was one time where my son was the only ones to show up at his classmates bday party. The two of them had a blast. It’s so important for parents to communicate when it comes to this stuff. I always thought of it as a very important obligation to go to all the kids parties he was invited to. If they were kind enough to invite we were definitely going and with a gift.
You have class. You’re doing such a great job raising your boy
This is why when you rsvp it’s important to show up or call ahead if you need to cancel. Common courtesy. I know emergencies come up, but not for that many people. What a great mom she is. Glad it all turned out okay
"Friends didn't show up." Another definition of "friends", is required.
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I just clicked on the link, and now I'm in tears!! How sad, but such a beautiful ending; I'm so happy for you and her!! ...I really don't know why this got me so emotional.
As a Dad with 3 girls, much much respect for the quick thinking Mom all the respect. And for those who show up yall all angels🙏
If this happened to my daughter I would not bother the public with this lying mother . I would seen this problem before it came.
@@Winstn2331that's also true but then again it's still a clever last min idea. It's other kids in the community and it gives the child a chance to meet other kids and interact so still a win !
Why didn't they come???
@@Winstn2331 How do you know she's lying? Do you know something we don't?
@@luckyclover716 put your phone down and pay attention to your kids.
We threw my 7 year old shy brother a party and invited his whole class. No one came. And to top it off, a monsoon destroyed most of the decorations. I felt so bad so once the storm stopped, we went into the bouncy house and jumped together. He was so happy. We have a huge age gap, so my knees were feeling it the next day, but my brother smiled the whole time.
Maybe that’s why they didn’t come, I mean if a monsoon was coming I would have just rescheduled the party.
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Where's the chi?
Hahaha
Wait. Not you mad because A MONSOON stopped people from coming to a party.
That's so 😔, shame on her school mate's, I know what it like to be alone,but your special, and don't forget it
I’m balling my eyes out I couldn’t imagine seeing my daughter at a empty party table. I’m so glad community showed up for y’all! This is what community is!!!!! Mothers and children need community !!!! 💜💜💜💜💓💜💜💜
*bawling
As someone who was bullied as a kid and still suffers the affects of it, this made me cry. I’m so glad the community showed up for her. Shame on the parents of the classmates who didn’t show up. I hope you step on legos.
Well said! I was not invited to parties after kindergarten age because the kids could tell I was “different”. This got me bullied and left out a lot. I have general anxiety disorder and BPD. To this day, I’m still lonely. My bf (at the time) ghosted me on my 25th birthday. Blocked my number and everything. I hate birthdays.
Bless her And all the folks and kids who turned up. That is so brilliant. Great support for a nice kid.🥰🍰
you still sound like a kid 😂
Bobby, gimmie your lunch money or else!!
Jesus loves you!❤❤❤
Every time my son or daughter is invited to a birthday party, I always make sure we go! I also explain how it’s important, that if someone has been kind enough to invite you then it’s polite, respectful and courteous to attend. I’m so saddened to see that not one child and parent showed up to this little girls party.
This!
@@angelacleveland75Not this*
My parents taught me this when I was kid when I didn't want to go to girl's party in my class they said how would you feel if you invited someone somewhere and they didn't come so I end up going because it's hurtful to do that to someone
Kind enough?? They're not doing it to be nice to you, they're doing it because they want you to be nice to them... Momma thinks princess deserves 100 presents. I still remember cake, ice cream and a couple small presents at home with the family. I was always happy with that.
@@jeffwvu4602 yes family everything ❤️
Every child is special and deserves a special day for their birthday.
The beauty of social media coming through during a urgent time in need. I'm super glad Willow was spared the emotional and heartbreaking nightmare let alone emotional scar from her party. Bless all those in her community who came to her rescue baring gifts and all ❤
This brought tears to my eyes. I have an autistic child who had the same thing happen to her, but only one child showed up. We made it the best two person birthday party ever! My daughter, 6 years later, still asks why no one else showed up though 😢
You can tell her this: a birthday is a blessing of life that you can see another year in this world. The only important person that should celebrate the birthday is yourself! We cannot change other people's opinions, but not having people come to your celebration is such a tiny problem compared to the blessing that is life.
God! I am so sorry
Same thing happened to my child. We invited around 40 people including every kid in her class. Planned it all. Had food and drinks for tons with little gifts they could take home. We made everything ourselves and was so adorable. 3 kids did show up thankfulky. 1 came later so was only 2 for most of it. Broke my child's heart. She had waited at the door for everyone to show up. And kept asking where they were. After that year I never planned for more than say 8. I knew all 40 wouldn't show so that's why we invited so many and I figured at least 15 or so would show. Just broke my heart for her. Now I try my best to reach out and get others to come and invite lots of family as well hoping for anyone with kids to show up. She's had a couple now with at least 10 kids which is nice but also a few with only 2 to 3. Bugs me when others RSVP and don't come when they didn't have an emergency or anything else going on. Just don't RSVP
This speaks volumes about those people who decided not to show up. It’s amazing that they have such a kind and loving community. And the fact that they brought presents is the cherry on top!
I was just about to comment on this. Shame on those who said they would be there. Don't the parents realize that a "yes" is practically a blood oath for that age? I would not pursue friendships with those kids after today 😡
As a parent, Really? You know yer kid wouldn’t let you miss that party if they were invited unless something really important conflicted. No one showed. “Some parents rsvp’d”That’s all hear say and conjecture on the part of the interviewer. Read what the lady actually texted out. Never did they say why no one was there, assuming isn’t a logical explanation. There is more to this story then meets the eye.
@@Yabroproductions33u sound slow. You don’t have any facts behind your skepticism. Please stop reaching for straws, taking up for faceless parents for which u don’t know the explanation either. I read what she texted. Please enlighten us what was wrong with the invite? Or just keep talking in riddles and conspiracies
@@MrShaiya96 that’s right, I am slow. I’m not in a hurry to blame fictional characters. No one has all the facts. Until a parent/s that couldn’t make comes forward, this is nothing more than entertainment. I’m not one to pass judgment without ALL sides of a story. This reminds me of a “feel good”advertisement for the importance of social media.
I don't know that they meant to be hurtful. Perhaps something came up that prevented them from going, or they just forgot. Even so, you should at least have the courtesy to tell them why you didn't show up. To say that you're coming and then not attend without explaining why is very rude, no matter what the reason.
The fact that families rolled up on no notice WITH PRESENTS melts my heart.
Sometimes an unintentional act of kindness can change someone. God bless
This happened to me twice, so I stopped having parties to protect my feelings; I still celebrate alone. I'm so happy that this sweet girl got a much better day, nobody needs to feel unworthy on their day to celebrate living
This has happened to all of us at least once in life in one form or other. Keep celebrating -- if your happiness is going to depend on human beings, you will always be disappointed. You win some, you lose some.
Don’t stop but I’d suggest just an intimate gathering of friends you know will show up. Doesn’t have to tons of people to be a party.
Whenever is your birtbday ,you will never be alone ! Somewhere in the world will be someone who will think of you whishing you the best and say :happy birthday ,my dear !!😊❤
It happened to me one time at 20 years old then on new year eve too by my best friend at the time
This has happened to me twice also, I couldn’t believe the second time!!
As a single dad of a beautiful 5 year old daughter that is my life , my heart sank and broke at the start of this video knowing how much it would destroy me to see the look on my angels face. I commend this mom for thinking fast and for the community comming together so quickly! If I’d of known I’d of been there with my baby in a heart beat! So happy it worked out for you but I’m still upset with those that RSVPd and didn’t show but greatful that your angler will only remember that SO many new friends came out to support her! Beautiful!!!
Indeed, it takes a village to raise a child.
Your daughter is one blessed little girl to have you as her dad!
Don't feel bad, this story is fake, mom is an influencer and she's being called out for faking this story on instagram as we speak.
@@grossguy9570I don’t believe you, but there’s something. What about apologies from “suddenly vanished” other parents, did they all have the same excuse?😂
These things can and will happen just keep enjoying life no matter what
That melts my heart how everyone showed up!
Aww. That's so sweet of her neighbours.
I remember inviting my friends over to my house for my Birthday in my twenties and none of them wanted to come. It happened 2 years in a row. I was devastated as an adult, I can't imagine how sad an innocent child would feel 😢. Kudos to the quick thinking mom and I'm so happy many wonderful people came and celebrated with her! ❤
Aw my heart hurts for u. 😢 This a sign u need better friends who don't stad u in the back like that. I hope your okay now with happiness in your life 🙏💞
@@FluffyCakeASMR1 Thank you so much 💓! I upgraded to much better friends 🥰🥰.
@@cookiesncream789 💖💝🌺💖💝💕💗💕💗🌺🌺💝💞💞💕💗
I had a similar experience. When we invited our neighbors to our house warming most of them doesn't showed up. The larger portion of the food we ordered for the party was wasted.🙂I really hate my neighbors😑
@@amalbaiju4980 Your acting like as if they have to go Though I don't know them so rip ig
I am a grandmother of 5 grandchildren, I was so sad for the little girl. I am so proud of what her mom did, by inviting strangers who were so sweet to go and made her birthday party amazing. Those that didn't come , it's their lost. Great job mom
Okay so why am I crying 😢 I’m so happy the community showed up for this little angel❤
Happened in Keller, TX. Kudos to the fine people in Texas!
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I feel like I see a story like this at least a few times every year. Never rely on classmate only parties. A lot of the times the kids aren't really friends and the parents have never even spoke to each other. Some parents RSVP just to pretend to be polite. If you don't have family or friends with kids to help celebrate, just take your child out for dinner/lunch and a fun activity.
Agreed
I remember in 2nd grade, I invited a select few kids to my birthday party, and the teacher scolded me because I invited a select few. (Mix of boys and girls) she told me either invite the entire class or just the girls, but not the whole class. Not like it mattered at the end of the day, because only a few kids showed up, and only like 2-3 were from school and the other few were either neighbors or people from Scouts.
@@Maw0what's wrong with this teacher. It us not their business who the kid invited to a private event. If adults throw parties we invite whoever we want. Why can't kids do the same?
Good point
@@Maw0 dude same thing happened to me in 2nd or 3rd grade. I got along with majority of the class, but I only had a few friends I liked hanging out with. I'm not trying to invite the class troublemakers to my house 🙄
I can relate to this. No one showed up to my tenth birthday party and I remember how awful it was. I can only imagine how much pain this girl went through
Yeah same. That really sucks.
This happened on my 6th birthday and it didn't make the news....
@@liliannapassut2246 ...sure thing ,1946, different media landscape
This one kid in my class had nobody show up to his party and i felt bad but that guy was rude and honestly disgusting
Why people do this?
Omg this gave me tears!! A mother’s love has no boundaries.
I was not expecting to cry but when they showed the entire room full of people singing happy birthday I started bawling! I shocked myself at my reaction. This was so beautiful!!
I cried too!! It gave me hope for humanity! ❤❤
Me too! augh!
Same
I cried too such a good ending for the little girl how sad no one showed up
me too!
Shame on all those parents that didn't take their kids after they said they would! And applause goes to all of the people in the community that showed up... In more ways than one! So glad that in the end it turned out wonderful for her special day! 🎂🎉🎈🎁😊💜
Agreed 👍 It's already disappointing if nobody wants to come to your party, but it's even worse if no one shows up after they said they would! I'm glad that poor girl was still able to have an awesome birthday, thanks to her Mom and the Community ❤❤🎉
If they rspvd and still didn’t show up it’s either that they had an emergence or something unexpected came up or they’re all just jerks
Let those parents be damned.
@@Solo_man69 I'm probably guessing the latter.... because every single one of them couldn't have had an emergency on the same day
Way too many parents suck.
This is so sad 😢 at the end of the day that beautiful lil birthday girl made alot of new friends.. props to you mom for pulling such a beautiful moment off and props to all of the random parents and kids to show up ❤
Had a similar situation back in the day when my daughter was 16. Heartbreaking. Same thing: positive RSVPs, and no one showed up. That little girl has a great Mom.
What was people reasons for not showing up?
Our son was ostracized too. He was never invited to one single school birthday party growing up. Therefore, I never had a “school” birthday party for him knowing the chance of no one showing up was pretty great.
The same happened to me, I will never again invite my family, why do they confirm and don't show up? Poor baby, I would have gone to her birthday party.
They RSVP because they're too nice to say no. Let me guess, you asked them face to face. That was your first problem. You should have given them a way to say No while saving (your) face. If no one showed up, then no one wanted to go. The girl in this video had no friends. It's her mom's fault for not realizing this
@@veryslyfoxwell likely it’s the mom who’s not friends with the other moms in the class
I would not be telling this story in front of the girl and be talking publicly about this. Kind of embarrassing for the kid.
I thought the same thing.
kinda strange tbh.....something seems missing from this story
@@lIlIlIll-kg2cmWell you caught us, it was supposed to have been a recruitment drive for the Lizard Illuminati. How you figured out that something was missing is rather clever of you, now if you just provide us with your home address. As we have a prize for you, it's a special prize 👽😎
Nope this is embarrassing for the people who never showed up. And judging by all of the comments on here, this has happened to A LOT of other people through time, so it did not just happen to her
Children comprehend more than adults think they do. If my 18 month old daughter could say "Bye" while watching the Superbook story about Lot & his family leaving Sodom and Gomorrah, this little girl is smart enough to understand that the original "friends" who were invited never showed up. Hearing her mother tell the story is not new news to her.
This ❤. This made me cry, cried for the little girl, cried for the wonderful folks that did not let this child down.
This moment in Willow’s life will be a sweet, kind and tender memory she’ll cherish forever! God bless the attendees for their outpouring of love and compassion! Great story, too!
That broke my heart. No child should have to experience that but she got a happy ending!
Same thing happened to my daughter when she was 5, we never had another party. Now we spend the entire day catering to whatever the birthday person wants, buy a super nice present and take an expensive family outing with all the money we don't spend on a party. We end the day in matching PJs and movies where we can eat all their favorite snacks in the bed without worrying about the mess tomorrow. Screw undependable people. One of the ones who didn't show were literally a 2 minute walk away and "forgot" an hour before the party.
People wouldn't show up to my party
thats gross, and inappropiate
@@colinsellers1143 your mind is in the damn gutter.
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
that’s heartbreaking but i’m glad the mom cheered her little girl up and i bet that made her day❤
Thanks for making me cry first thing in the morning! Oh, that poor child...I cannot imagine what it must have been like for her! But, WOW, what a great party it turned out to be! I'd love to know the aftermath. If I were that mom, I would have called the school the next morning and homeschooled until I could get her registered in another school. I'm so very glad that this little girl had a great party...and God bless all the parents that made that day for her! After reading the comments, I'm amazed at how many other people had this happen to them. Unreal! The world truly has changed...and not for the better.
What a wonderful community. Thank you all for making this little girls birthday a day she'll never forget. RESPECTS TO HER MUM AND THIS AWESOME COMMUNITY.
All those people coming to the rescue made me tear up.
Me too!!!
Me too 😥
Same here especially when the camera captures not only the kids of her community showed up, their parents were there too.
😢same here...I hate seeing children upset .
Me too!
That went from an empty table with a happy birthday girl to a restaurant full of happy birthday guests. This is awesome. I have always wanted to show up to something like this and take my kids just to support other families. Thank God people showed up 👏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾❤️.
Homeless people all over. Open borders. Sex trafficking. True.
Happy belated birthday beautiful Willow and her lovely Mom. Cheers too all the kids who helped her celebrate.❤🎂🎂❤️👏🏻👏🏻
This is why I don't do parties anymore. You send out the invitations and then people forget sometimes maybe or plan other things. It's almost like you have to send out invitations and then send a reminder.
I love that story! What a great mom, pulling out a wonderful memory for her baby girl❤
I can’t imagine a mom letting her child not show up for a party after giving a “yes” RSVP. That’s horrible. I was the only little girl not invited to a classmate’s sleepover birthday party once. That one hurts, too.
I’m sorry that happened, it sounds so cruel. It hurts not to be invited to things
Fr same thing my "friend" actually didn't invite me to her birthday party this summer but invited all the other girls 😢
My son is now in his 6th and last year of preschool and I've seen many birthday invitations over the years and many playdates. He got invited to his first birthday party this Sunday. Fortunately our little children cannot see what's happening around them.
@@cocobunitacobuni8738 my mom had a policy: if I was inviting most of the girls (or boys and girls when I got to that age)in my class, then I had to invite all of them. If it was a limited number of classmates, then I couldn’t pass out the invitations at school and couldn’t talk about the party at school.
@@4evrnick excellent policy!
This happened to one of my teenagers on their 16th. It was a weekend summer day and the previous day all had told me they were coming. Thirty plus years later, I still cry at the memory. Bless those parents and kids.
No one turned up for my 21st. I still got upset for a while but learned those peotdontbmatter. Those same people used to tell me all the time I'm to blunt, I'm tactless and far to litteral and it's embarrassing for them.. and I eventually found out these was the reasons they kept canceling plans with me.. fast forward some years just before my 37 birthday I was dinaosed autistic and that's the reason they didn't really like me 😂 I've over it now! Screw them! I've since had amazing party's with amazing people who like me for me and wouldn't leave me out and push me out of things! I hope your child heals from the hurt from it. It's not a nice feeling.
@@rbmw981 I'm so sorry. Some of the smartest most unique people ever have this gift. I had a friend's 8 year old son in the car with my 3 yr old daughter and a blinding snowstorm closed the road. I was not very familiar with their town so didn't dare take side streets. Michael normally recited every word with ads of all the shows he'd watched the night before. Suddenly I realized he was repeating street names and turns. I followed his directions and we arrived at his house the back way. His mom didn't even know he knew the way by memory. Forty five years later I'm still amazed. Blessings.
Even on my 18th birthday I preferred playing god of war to socializing. I'd say it all depends on the individual. But more than likely, someone who has good meaningful friendships will still have someone show up if asked.
That's awful! What I can't understand is why people would say they plan on coming and just bail? If you can't go, then it's better just to say so. It's far more hurtful to lie.
@@Momoyueyeah I agree. It wastes someone's time and it can be mentally draining to be left in the dark about what is happening.
This made me cry. Thank you to all the people that stepped up.
What an amazing community it’s heartwarming ❤ to see such love and and compassion for this little girl who they did not know…❤️
As a mom seeing your child at a party with no guest its heart breaking thank heavens for her quick thinking and her community
Ikr
Exactly, Amen.
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
It’s hot outside!
This is a moment to remember, people coming together for this wonderful little girl. Blessings to everyone!
Idk, the fact that not a single little girl came makes me think this may be one of those little “mean girls”. Or the “no that’s my toy you can’t play with it” type and no one wants to be around her. People forget how mean and not fun to be around some kids can be. Then in the beginning of the video just look at the girls face. That’s not a friendly facial expression lol.
@@booboodafoo3247I agree with you.
@@booboodafoo3247 It could be that the reason.
What a nice story. I love stories of true kindness like this.
At this age it is not the kids but the parents who decided no to show at the party
That mom taught her daughter such an incredible important life lesson….. ‘When life hands you lemons make lemonade.”❤
LOVE this comment. Yes what a great lesson for this girl to watch unfold by her loving mother.
Technically life never gave us lemons. We invented lemons all by ourselves!
This is why I never held parties. I always knew I was one of the less popular kids, so this was my biggest fear...Glad she got a great birthday party in the end. Very much deserved
Same bro 😔👊
I’m so sorry you feel this way :( I LOVE YOU AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE ❤❤❤
Same. And I remember there was one girl who invited me to her party in all of elementary school and she told me that everyone told her not to invite me but she wanted me there. I will never forget it!
That's why they got the kids (parents) to confirm with an RSVP in advance. It's cruel for her "friends" to say they were attending then break that promise. I hope some flakes see this and realize how much harm they can cause when they break RSVPs. Obviously legit things can prevent attendance and courteous to notify event planner, but rare that 100% of those who RSVP to flake out.
I got really introverted after 1st grade so I just didn't want parties anymore because I didn't really talk much to my classmates, so I felt like no one would come anyway, but if any did it would be just as much of a nightmare to deal with.
This is so wholesome and I love to see the community come together and showing support ❤❤❤
Damn, that had me in tears. Well done mom for some forward thinking and saving the day for little Willa. Such a great ending to what could have been such a devastating event for a little 5 year old.
Happened to my daughter too. She invited her whole girl scout troop and other friends. One girl showed up. There was no social media back then .I took the girls to the movies and the friend slept over. I will never forget the anger I felt for my daughters "friends".
You were mad at little kids? Lol, it was probably the parents
@@alexanderthegreat4358 You don't know the whole story. The most popular of the group didn't like my daughter so she convinced the others not to go. It starts very early my friend.
@@debby8428it was probably they didn't come anyways
@@debby8428-Your daughter didn’t deserve that. 💔Try enrolling your daughter in activities like theatre, dance;anything that allows her to expand her friend group with people who have similar interests. A therapist friend of mine suggested that when my daughter was 9 and it changed her life in ways I couldn’t imagine.
@@lee48lee68 Thank you so much for the advice. That is exactly what I did. She is 34 years old now has a wonderful husband and beautiful daughter. I wish the best for your daughter as well!
This reminds me of a girl’s party I went to in 4th grade. She invited everyone in class, and I was the only one to show up. Her family came from Louisiana (we were in Texas at the time) and they cooked crawfish, lobsters, and a bunch of other seafood. It was odd being the only kid there, but I think that girl will always remember that I was the only one to show up
Now that's good food
True. That incident will remained in her mind her whole life and hopefully will not affect her. This kind of treatment could be one of the little incidents triggering in those massive shooting killer mind's that those absent parents never give any thoughts on effect. It is a another form of "invisible" bullying similar to verbal bully.
crawfish, lobsters and seafood would make me so happy as a little kid! you were so lucky lol
Good for you! God bless
A couple years ago my son was invited to a birthday party of a kid he barely knew. He invited the whole class and only my son showed up. I was so glad that my son was available that day because I would have felt terrible knowing no one showed.