We Don't Trust Our Son With Our $4.3 Million Mansion | Country House Rescue REVISIT | Abode

2023 ж. 26 Қаң.
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Heath House is a beautiful mansion home to Jon and Flavia. The couple inherited the house in 2002 after John's mother passed. However, the couple are unable to keep on top of caring for the house and dream of selling it. Their son Ben wants to inherit the property and turn it into a business. Ruth Watson returns to the family a year after her last visit to see what’s changed. Has Ben taken over the mansion? Did his business fail? Did the couple sell it?
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  • For anyone curious as to what has happened since this was filmed 13+ years ago: Ben and his brother inherited the house. Unfortunately their father passed away not long after the show was filmed and their mother just a few months later. The younger brother, Justin, ran it as a wedding and photography venue with his wife. No idea what Ben was doing. It seems that Covid was rough for them and the estate was sold in 2021 for over £6 million. After the estate was sold, the Phillips family auctioned off some of the art, silverware, books and furniture of the house in 2022. They had a very active Facebook page until the house was sold.

    @inesolujic2534@inesolujic25349 ай бұрын
    • Imagine losing your ancestral family home after 15 generations… Unbelievable sad how it still happens. ;/ But the proces of emotional decay started in the generation before. The obvious lack of trust and vision and the general negative attitude were not exactly fair nor helpful.

      @DavidS1164@DavidS11648 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for the update. Much appreciated. RIP Jon & Flavia.

      @amalali504@amalali5048 ай бұрын
    • Yup saw it on the facebook page.

      @PankajDoharey@PankajDoharey7 ай бұрын
    • That’s such a shame. Thanks for the information though

      @izaac1312@izaac13127 ай бұрын
    • I didn't think that just the weddings commercial venue alone would uplift the revenues on the upkeep of the estate non plussed by John's unconscious wish to consider selling the house at modest prices.

      @anthonywilliams9852@anthonywilliams98524 ай бұрын
  • The parents need to admit that they want the money from the sale and aren’t interested in keeping the home in the family. Ben is charming and has an endearing quality. He also appears to be quite determined. He’s the perfect person to manage the estate.

    @mdj2742@mdj274211 ай бұрын
    • Absolutely, and I think it's actually wrong to sell an inherited home rather than pass it down to your spring , as the ancestors did to you!

      @krustycreme1093@krustycreme10939 ай бұрын
    • @@krustycreme1093 They just didnt want to burden their sons thats all and they said as much! They knew how much work the house had been for them! Geez

      @terra2730@terra27309 ай бұрын
    • Agree. There's so much you could do with it. Photoshoots, Weddings, Air bnb , glamping, corporate clay pigeon shooting days, artists teaching weekends, yoga retreat weekends ....

      @sarahholland2600@sarahholland26009 ай бұрын
    • Fuc that, sale and get the money. You have to be Mega rich to keep up with repairs on that house, let someone with the financial means take that project on.

      @derricklangford4725@derricklangford47259 ай бұрын
    • @@derricklangford4725 You would be wrong! You must be a quitter

      @terra2730@terra27309 ай бұрын
  • To have a house like this in the family, and a son willing to take on the challenge and to not let him is absolute madness.

    @jamessmithson-br7rm@jamessmithson-br7rm2 ай бұрын
    • I think the dad was the one bad at making the house a business but can't see his own flaws, only that there must be no potential. He seems to have a personality that's not easily challenged and takes it out on his son.

      @jeanettemullins@jeanettemullins2 ай бұрын
    • It is also very cruel!

      @jean405@jean405Ай бұрын
    • Not really

      @johnmightymole2284@johnmightymole2284Ай бұрын
    • read up further the kids ending up selling it anyway

      @gemmaelsworthy5297@gemmaelsworthy5297Ай бұрын
    • It doesn't hurt to try

      @daylehudson6810@daylehudson6810Ай бұрын
  • I would hate to be the one that has to sell a house after it was in the family for 14 generations! Wow!

    @denisedspain7991@denisedspain7991Ай бұрын
    • 5 not 14 there generation had been around for 14 lived in it for 5

      @mr.crowgamer6250@mr.crowgamer625012 күн бұрын
    • Me too!😮

      @angiejohnson6666@angiejohnson66669 күн бұрын
  • I'm dying to pressure wash the outside. It would be so pretty.

    @dorothyfrew6147@dorothyfrew6147Ай бұрын
    • ..... possibly take the protective patina from the outside of the stone, exfoliate and leave it wide open to corrosion and erosion. Seen it a million times, leave well alone. PS sorry I've just looked again, over-cleaning those façades would be a disaster, washing away its protection as well as its history.

      @MrVorpalsword@MrVorpalsword6 күн бұрын
    • No, its supposed to be like that.

      @dodge33445@dodge33445Күн бұрын
  • Parents like this raise insecure children who lack confidence, then denigrate them to say, 'see you aren't good enough'. I'm glad Ben was able to have a go. John was incredibly rude to Ruth.

    @daisy9910@daisy99105 ай бұрын
    • Gaslighting is very destructive.

      @elizabethash4720@elizabethash4720Ай бұрын
    • @@elizabethash4720 I believe they're rigging it up for electricity in the near future.

      @MrVorpalsword@MrVorpalsword6 күн бұрын
  • I love posh people and their stiff upper lip. Them: "Two strokes and a heart attack..it was terribly unfortunate". Me: I can't do anything today, I have a slightly sore throat.

    @emiscand@emiscand Жыл бұрын
    • Only the unrefined and poor use that word unironically

      @snorttroll4379@snorttroll4379Ай бұрын
  • Old guy lived there his whole life....no idea how many rooms😀

    @kjss4345@kjss4345 Жыл бұрын
    • You would think that one rainy, he might have counted them. And thinking about putting it up for sale and no idea exactly how many rooms he is selling.

      @janedoe5229@janedoe52293 ай бұрын
    • He's never counted. Yet thinks his son is too incompetent to inherit it.

      @OffGridInvestor@OffGridInvestor3 ай бұрын
    • @@OffGridInvestortypically how it goes

      @SlayNorway@SlayNorwayАй бұрын
    • Exactly what a moron.

      @ThaidUp@ThaidUpАй бұрын
    • @@janedoe5229 It would seem there would be architectural designs, , archives, tax records or some other documents showing the size and number of rooms in the house.

      @kevinbrown-ge6sz@kevinbrown-ge6szАй бұрын
  • They should also hire the estate out for filming movies and tv shows.

    @mohussain1615@mohussain1615 Жыл бұрын
    • No money in that, believe me I’ve tried

      @WSMITHify@WSMITHify8 ай бұрын
    • @@WSMITHifywell, but it may be a good advertisement.

      @mirandalu6703@mirandalu67038 ай бұрын
    • They have tried that....I think it was called "in the land of plenty".

      @northsouth252@northsouth252Ай бұрын
    • Good idea

      @daylehudson6810@daylehudson6810Ай бұрын
  • Imagine owning a house and not even knowing how many bedrooms it has. Maaaad

    @MartyJackson@MartyJackson Жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @n.g.l.@n.g.l.4 ай бұрын
    • And he thinks the son is incompetent. Lived there his WHOLE LIFE and never counted.

      @OffGridInvestor@OffGridInvestor3 ай бұрын
    • That is so true. They don’t even know what they own, how can they possibly manage it.

      @bonniephelps9481@bonniephelps94812 ай бұрын
    • Thats not an easy question with a home like this its not as cut and dry as our normy houses. So how many bedrooms originally how many rooms are actively acting as a bedroom where do you draw the line of whats a bedroom? You put a bed in a ballroom or a library does it make it a bedroom? If I walk into a 2000 square foot room with a staircase in it and no closet idc how many beds are in it to me its not a bedroom. Then you got areas that are servant quarters or mother in law suits where they have a bedroom and kitchen maybe even a living room area in that section so thats not a bedroom nor can the bedrooms in those areas really be counted as a bedroom.

      @youreatowel9705@youreatowel9705Ай бұрын
    • Old money - folks have like thet .

      @piotr5338@piotr533819 күн бұрын
  • The father needed to trust his son more. He has done well

    @evehawasinare228@evehawasinare228 Жыл бұрын
    • Parent always c their kids r still kids

      @Sthmohtwenty@Sthmohtwenty Жыл бұрын
    • Both parents are dead and the business is still going

      @darren6831@darren6831 Жыл бұрын
    • Ben's father is a mammalian failure.

      @nicolesibylla2541@nicolesibylla25419 ай бұрын
    • No he was right The kids ended up inheriting the house and sold it for over 6 million

      @kristibyerts5987@kristibyerts5987Ай бұрын
    • Parents still remember them as children but they need to adapt and raise adults.

      @pearpo@pearpo15 күн бұрын
  • To Ben and Justin, You did the best you could. Wishing you peace of mind. 🇨🇦🇨🇦

    @mountresplendent@mountresplendent27 күн бұрын
  • Ben is charming which adds to his new found role with hosting events. He is absolutely the right person for this and is well committed towards the business attached to Heath House. He has proved himself worthy of rising to such a challenge and going forward. Well done!

    @susangreen2344@susangreen2344 Жыл бұрын
    • He's not going to marry you.

      @Metaworldwide@Metaworldwide Жыл бұрын
    • @davidoffon Really? Damn I wanted to watch the stable rebuild!

      @maganalia@maganalia Жыл бұрын
    • The other people have been charming as well, but if you watch the other shows, you'll notice that Ruth Watson is extremely rude and she makes very disgusting comments towards the clients (for example about the paintings of their ancestors) that really riles them up. She's behaving incredibly well and humbled on this episode for some reason (even in the tone of her voice). Maybe she feels intimidated.

      @Taina2024@Taina20245 ай бұрын
    • Ben is charming how would you know are you sleeping 🛌 with him you clown 🤡

      @LeaWilson-zc2zm@LeaWilson-zc2zmАй бұрын
    • 🤣🤣🥲🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

      @LeaWilson-zc2zm@LeaWilson-zc2zmАй бұрын
  • Benjamin is a wonderful son! I hope he gets the credit he deserves.

    @totallydomestic433@totallydomestic433 Жыл бұрын
    • Sure…but next time if he’s going to attend or meet and greet, he should wear a suit…looks more professional and he isn’t, than it doesn’t matter. 👍

      @yama5182@yama518210 ай бұрын
    • At 42 he still doesn’t live on his own, I think his head is in the clouds

      @janinep97@janinep978 ай бұрын
    • So sad, the dad passed summer, mum in December, 2021.

      @janinep97@janinep978 ай бұрын
    • He gets credit for being a toff who can't manage an inherited property.

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
    • @@janinep97 oh no…. Sorry to hear that. 😮

      @lindab8397@lindab83978 ай бұрын
  • Lovely guy Ben is. His father criticises him in a negative view. Hopeful he can gain confidence to carry on the good work.

    @lizrigby-jones3700@lizrigby-jones37009 ай бұрын
    • It seems that the family problem goes back further to the Wife Flavia and the Dad’s Mother who managed the house into her death. Flavia said it was part of her wedding vows she wanted to have nothing to do with the house. It seems passed this attitude to her younger son. Who appears a silent saboteur “on Mum’s side.”

      @pearpo@pearpo15 күн бұрын
  • on the market for 2 years and doesn't know how many bedrooms it has? no wonder he hasn't sold it yet

    @spotifyde5979@spotifyde5979Ай бұрын
  • ----Update---- I have checked and in 2021 the house was sold to new buyers and a few years after this was aired both parents passed away leaving it to their sons who tried to keep it afloat but eventually did not work out and then sold the property.

    @-ZED-@-ZED- Жыл бұрын
    • That’s a shame ,

      @sandraford4235@sandraford4235 Жыл бұрын
    • 😢😢😢

      @yvonnemar77@yvonnemar77 Жыл бұрын
    • Yes, I was about to write this. Brother Justin and his wife (married in 2015) tried their hand at Heath House, but it was sold. Perhaps Covid was the nail in the coffin.

      @TomWatsonB1@TomWatsonB1 Жыл бұрын
    • @@TomWatsonB1 sadly it would have been.

      @sventer198@sventer198 Жыл бұрын
    • Maybe the new owners can keep it in their family for 14 generations

      @kenj.8897@kenj.8897 Жыл бұрын
  • Surely there was a way to increase earnings from farm land, too. If he didn't know how many bedrooms were in the house, he likely never met with the farmers to ask how he could help.

    @Whoiskevinjones@Whoiskevinjones Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly. 600 acres and not a damn sheep in sight. I know in Australia we can only run 2 sheep an acre, they can run 22-24 in England. No idea of the amount of rooms although living there his whole life, probably never talked to farmers, and then somehow think THE SON is incompetent.

      @OffGridInvestor@OffGridInvestor3 ай бұрын
    • @@OffGridInvestorI guess this comment applied to Dad and Mom also, they ran the home in deficit for years prior to the filming.

      @raymondgagne8363@raymondgagne8363Ай бұрын
    • Maybe have more owners

      @daylehudson6810@daylehudson6810Ай бұрын
    • ​@OffGridInvestor when people say such things about others they are usually talking about themselves. Seems his father had a blind spot.

      @elizabethash4720@elizabethash4720Ай бұрын
  • Ben is a good son. At least he gives a s**t about his family's legacy.

    @amurleopard1457@amurleopard14572 ай бұрын
  • I'm glad that Jon and Flavia decided to allow their son to go forward with the house, as it is his birthright as it was Jon's, and his father's and his father's and so on. Hopefully Ben will marry some day and be able to pass the property on to his child.

    @suzannegriffin5121@suzannegriffin5121 Жыл бұрын
    • It’s already up for sale 10 years after this show. Seems like he was waiting for his parents to die so he could inherit all the money

      @kayleyholland5655@kayleyholland565511 ай бұрын
    • Not likely. The house was sold.

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
    • @@busterbiloxi3833 Thats a shame after so many generations.

      @rorus9530@rorus95303 ай бұрын
    • @@kayleyholland5655very crude comment in my opinion. The sons would inherit either way, if the house was sold prior to parents passing or after, it’s called inheritance, whether in assets or liquid makes no difference. Dad inherited the house the same way as his son, I’m guessing the comment can apply to Dad too?

      @raymondgagne8363@raymondgagne8363Ай бұрын
    • @@raymondgagne8363 no the parents would have sold it and used the money for their retirement leaving not as much for the son. Whereas if the son managed to get them to keep it, there would be no loss of money spent on the parents retirement

      @kayleyholland5655@kayleyholland5655Ай бұрын
  • What a delight to watch, enjoyed every second. Did not appreciate it being filmed over a decade ago and sad to hear John and Flavia have now passed.

    @user-pb1ue9bk9z@user-pb1ue9bk9z Жыл бұрын
  • Fantastic Benjamin! You are so lovely despite obviously being battered down emotionally by an overbearing father. To finally stand up to him and prove him utterly wrong delights me no end

    @doonewatts7155@doonewatts7155 Жыл бұрын
  • Ugh, when the dad tells Ruth to “Be qwart (quiet)”. The patriarchy is alive and well. Power to Ruth!

    @tostamixtabifana97@tostamixtabifana9719 күн бұрын
  • I don't get "dad" telling son to do what he failed to do.

    @2Sugarbears@2Sugarbears Жыл бұрын
    • Too true!

      @jettykoers8720@jettykoers8720 Жыл бұрын
    • Family interactions rarely make sense lol

      @J3FFRS0N@J3FFRS0N Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly

      @vintagemoss9578@vintagemoss9578 Жыл бұрын
    • I think he undermined his sons ability

      @probablecauzz7038@probablecauzz7038 Жыл бұрын
    • Both of the parents have died and the business is still going so atleast he did some good in the end!

      @jenniferclancy3855@jenniferclancy3855 Жыл бұрын
  • Staggeringly beautiful house and especially the grounds!

    @wendymaybury6329@wendymaybury6329 Жыл бұрын
  • The old lady used to tell her son that he bullied Benjamin… how sad is that

    @rozieofpetitprince@rozieofpetitprince Жыл бұрын
  • Little Ben was so hopeful and enthusiastic, he is so sweet.

    @akashmukhopadhyay9335@akashmukhopadhyay9335 Жыл бұрын
    • Little? He is a 40 something old man.

      @rgray531@rgray5314 ай бұрын
  • Imagine if your primary stressor in life was what to do with your inherited wealth. Glad they kept it in the family.

    @kylie-mareebaldwin4672@kylie-mareebaldwin4672 Жыл бұрын
    • They were going broke why do you think they needed to sell it

      @terra2730@terra273011 ай бұрын
    • A gift or a curse? 😅

      @tslee8236@tslee823610 ай бұрын
    • I think that they could have at least tried and as it progressed, met with large Hotel chains and collaborated, to turn it into a hotel, and high end dining, along with the wedding/ reception venues. They could have made deals, to each have a private suite for each son. The photography office/studio on site. Sometimes locals want to stay close rather than going on holiday abroad. Everyone's needs would have been met and the grand Home would have gone on for years to come. Dad seemed a likeable man and mum too, but ...

      @planetclaire820boulder8@planetclaire820boulder8Ай бұрын
  • Beautiful mansion & grounds. I hate to hear they ended up selling 13 yrs later, but hopefully the new owners will maintain it.

    @GingerNinja1@GingerNinja126 күн бұрын
    • Yeah, True Ginger... If they can afford to buy it for 6 mil, they can afford to keep it up.. Prolly better than the aging couple could.

      @dodge33445@dodge33445Күн бұрын
  • Turn it into a Bed and Breakfast. Serve meals like Miss Mary Bobo's in Lynchburg, TN. Have a horseback-led tours of the grounds. Host activities in the yard as if living in 1836. Partner up with some attraction in town near the home. Maybe have an annual car show like at the Marlborough House

    @JerryDLTN@JerryDLTN Жыл бұрын
    • And where will the money come from. To pay off the mortgage each month? After they pay off the heating bills that is.

      @skontheroad@skontheroad Жыл бұрын
    • Horses are extremely expensive to own; not at all a solution to a property already too expensive to own.

      @virginiamoss7045@virginiamoss7045 Жыл бұрын
    • 🥃 Jack was here.

      @user-sb6uf7sm6g@user-sb6uf7sm6g19 күн бұрын
    • Stables for others horses. Yes business takes capital, but to have a family gem and heirloom of such historic significance and cut off your own children from the earning/ managing their legacy seems very cruel. Someone wrote they did sell it but at least for a higher amount then a lowball offer. And some strides were made in John learning to mature and be Fatherly to his adult son(s). Part of parenting is raising the adults and then letting go.

      @pearpo@pearpo15 күн бұрын
  • These incredible castle type estates you see here is something you would never see in Ontario.. the charm and vast history of these structures is so fascinating and only something you would see in a movie here. I can only think of one estate here like Heath house but it’s only 80 years old.. these estates are hundreds of years old .. I would definitely give it to my son or daughter if they wanted to keep it going and in the family. This son is 42, not a child. I read this couple have passed away so my condolences. 🙏🏼

    @PROUDCANADIANGIRL@PROUDCANADIANGIRL Жыл бұрын
    • That's not true. There's Casa Loma and other places.

      @expo1706@expo17069 ай бұрын
    • @@expo1706 Nothing as old as in England. Ontario is a baby in comparison. Casa Loma is only about 110 years old and came from "new" money and in a different social context than the old houses in England evolved out of. The owner of Casa Loma only lasted 10 years before it was seized for unpaid taxes.

      @vicj9256@vicj92569 күн бұрын
  • Buying a historic home of that calibre is prohibitive for most relatively well off folks-- not because of the purchase price, which can often be suspiciously reasonable, but because of the running costs. THAT'S where you get stung. And it explains why they so often leave private hands and get turned into hotels. How people are permitted to turn Grade-listed properties this gorgeous into modern hotels baffles me but a private owner with intentions to rejuvenate it as a private dwelling is watched like a hawk is one for the scholars.

    @ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 Жыл бұрын
  • Am binge watching these mansions stories!!! These are amazing stories

    @mpalmer7800@mpalmer7800 Жыл бұрын
  • It is lovely to see a family break those negative family role projections that don’t serve to uplift each person, and to see everyone in the family benefit from the changes it has made.

    @Anna.Mason151@Anna.Mason151 Жыл бұрын
  • I’m so sad at how these parents have so much disbelief in their own son and their family lines future in keeping this magnificent property in their family!! They have a spark of hope and they’d rather snuff it out than let it stay lit. However the parents didn’t seem to want the home bc they were always 50/50 prior to having move in. Go Ben go!!! Keep going! Make your ancestors proud and those future generations!!!

    @annagonzales8178@annagonzales8178 Жыл бұрын
  • The father is the problem.....hes a total nightmare ! He wouldnt trust Ben but didnt realise himself how badly he failed himself and that anyone was going to do better.

    @vivdoolan6846@vivdoolan6846 Жыл бұрын
    • Precisely. The father is the unworthy heir !!

      @marcuschonglanceanderson2390@marcuschonglanceanderson23908 күн бұрын
  • This was a beautiful home and gardens. I hope whoever bought it, has respect for it, cares about it and loves this house keeping it a historical piece of beautiful architectual history. Its a truely amazing and has so much beauty and craftsmanship that so many homes lack today.

    @waynemiller6156@waynemiller61562 ай бұрын
  • I love Ben, he has such a sweet awkwardness about him but a blossoming determination to make a success and keep it in his family for generations to come. I would love to have the lady of that manor and the wife of a gorgeous guy like Ben. X

    @nvw2978@nvw2978 Жыл бұрын
    • Alright love this ain't Gold Diggers version of tinder.

      @Metaworldwide@Metaworldwide Жыл бұрын
    • @@Metaworldwide 🤣

      @Di-gr3ex@Di-gr3ex Жыл бұрын
    • @@Metaworldwide 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣

      @gambylou9959@gambylou9959 Жыл бұрын
    • Well he put it up for sale in 2021 again. I think he was just waiting for his parents to die so he could get all the money from the sale himself.

      @kayleyholland5655@kayleyholland565511 ай бұрын
    • @@kayleyholland5655 Seriously? That's disgusting, after 14 generations in the family! I bet Ben was after a husband too, not a wife, which is why he stayed single while his parents were around!

      @krustycreme1093@krustycreme10939 ай бұрын
  • I believe the dad is not as arrogant and ignorant as he sounded at first, he needed some comfort from his son that the latter is capable of doing the business that Ben successfully managed to prove to his father. Bravo, Benjamin, well done 🙏🏻

    @rozieofpetitprince@rozieofpetitprince Жыл бұрын
    • Face it, the dad is a both a mammal and a failure.

      @nicolesibylla2541@nicolesibylla25419 ай бұрын
    • He certainly was! The very reason he had two 40 something sons who couldn't form relationships is a pretty good indication

      @pmc8119@pmc81192 ай бұрын
  • What an excellent choice to leave it in the family. Good luck Benjamin with your new found business ❤️ from New York 🍀

    @deirdremaza2703@deirdremaza2703 Жыл бұрын
    • Yes, all the best to Ben, all the next generation/s. Also from New York (currently).

      @kellyrichards1354@kellyrichards1354 Жыл бұрын
    • I also am glad they didn’t sell! It’s lovely, especially some of the grounds! Even though I am not from New York, I did go to college there!

      @h.r.puffinstuff7099@h.r.puffinstuff7099 Жыл бұрын
    • @@h.r.puffinstuff7099they sold it after the pandemic.

      @kathrynwitte3398@kathrynwitte33988 ай бұрын
    • @@h.r.puffinstuff7099 they already sold it

      @banshee1133@banshee11337 ай бұрын
    • @@h.r.puffinstuff7099 they did sell it

      @neptu17@neptu176 ай бұрын
  • I believe the parents would be embarrassed if their son made a go of it and they couldn't. It is sad that the parents would rather sell than give their son a chance to keep it in the family. Ben would make a real go of this and prove he was more than capable.

    @denisemahoney232@denisemahoney2329 ай бұрын
    • Bingo.

      @nicolesibylla2541@nicolesibylla25419 ай бұрын
    • Nope not true, they didn’t sell And they passed away and the sons inherited it and then ended up selling it, So the parents had to struggle during their final years just for their sons to sell it and make the money and live good smh

      @kristibyerts5987@kristibyerts5987Ай бұрын
  • I love seeing Benjamín hands on , proving his parents that he is more than capable to run the business and keep the State on the Family for generations to come !! Greetings from Oxnard California 🇺🇸 love this Channel 😊

    @jumaris28@jumaris28 Жыл бұрын
    • 805? Wow...

      @MusicList-rl9yu@MusicList-rl9yu9 ай бұрын
    • The parents died a decade ago and the sons sold it after the pandemic.

      @kathrynwitte3398@kathrynwitte33988 ай бұрын
    • Benjamin is totally incapable and sold out.

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
    • A forty plus young man whose father has no confidence in his abilities and makes that clear is whats puling him down.Its obvious that the father never got the property to make itself pay by the letting it outfor weddings or weekend guests or shooting grounds,else his son would be handling it like apro.

      @pushpenderrana6190@pushpenderrana619027 күн бұрын
  • “No no rubbish you 😂 be quiet ! “ 😂😂😂😂😂 he told her off like a headmaster would a pupil 🤦🏻‍♀️

    @Straighttalk95@Straighttalk952 ай бұрын
  • I think the father lost sight of the potential. Happened with my parents just being overwhelmed. This was at a time the travel industry was being overtaken by internet and apps. They were so lost. My family’s business had so degraded by the time of their death there was no option but to sell.

    @RLReagan@RLReagan Жыл бұрын
  • WOW, what a difficult father. Ben almost never had a chance. If they had commercialized a number of years earlier they may have survived Covid and anything else.

    @rosebudame@rosebudame Жыл бұрын
    • Did you ever consider that Ben was a spoiled brat his whole life?

      @North49191@North49191 Жыл бұрын
    • @@North49191 Well who may have created a “spoiled brat”?

      @rosebudame@rosebudame Жыл бұрын
    • Difficult father but from what I can see, Ben is a bafoon. He would bankrupt that house in no time

      @tomdonadel8531@tomdonadel8531 Жыл бұрын
    • Did these comments all move over from another page? It was filmed in 2009. It is now March 2023....

      @skontheroad@skontheroad Жыл бұрын
    • @@tomdonadel8531 He seems quite practical to me.

      @sarahstrong7174@sarahstrong7174 Жыл бұрын
  • So thrilled Ben could live his dream with a little help. Selling that gorgeous stately family home would have been such a terribly heart-breaking prospect. Well done Benjamin. You can be proud of what you've achieved

    @evelynenerveat2077@evelynenerveat2077 Жыл бұрын
    • Yet he sold it after the pandemic for £6.5M.

      @kathrynwitte3398@kathrynwitte33988 ай бұрын
  • Heath House would make a cool place to film Shirley Jackson's THE HAUNTING OF HILL HOUSE!

    @scotnick59@scotnick59 Жыл бұрын
    • If they keep it they shouldn't have sold the art works on the walls. Seeing the art on the walls it part of the joy of visiting

      @daylehudson6810@daylehudson6810Ай бұрын
  • I feel so empathetic to Ben (also because that's my name), because I've been in the same boat. He is clearly ambitious and capable... but a life of your own parents telling you that you are a good for nothing and cannot pull it off takes away all your confidence and trust in your own abilities. I am so happy for Ben that he did manage to pull it off and gain his confidence back despite his father not ever having his back...

    @TiGGowich@TiGGowich5 ай бұрын
  • Absolutely stunning house and land.

    @sherreywurz731@sherreywurz7318 ай бұрын
  • Thank you Hugh Bonneville for your great dialogues amongst some sorry stories. Bravo on your new career.

    @garyblais8602@garyblais860211 ай бұрын
  • " so your kinda use to running out of money" 😑 Story of my life. 😅

    @IDidntAskU@IDidntAskU Жыл бұрын
  • I feel for both son’s having a father like that.

    @brownysshitfightofamind1828@brownysshitfightofamind1828 Жыл бұрын
    • So do I… ahhh, the mother is quite a piece of “art”…((

      @rozieofpetitprince@rozieofpetitprince Жыл бұрын
    • I think Dad was a passive-aggressive bully in the WORST sense of the word. His poor sons.

      @mobius2891@mobius28919 күн бұрын
  • Sad to see Ben's parents has now passed on and the property is up for sale.

    @jacqui9176@jacqui9176 Жыл бұрын
    • Don't know where you got that from It is now being run by Ben and Justin and his wife Julia and has rave reviews

      @jennybertenshaw7694@jennybertenshaw76949 ай бұрын
    • It was sold.@@jennybertenshaw7694

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
  • So sad to see the family who clearly benefited in the past centuries from exploiting the spoils of empire coming to the realisation that it wasn't ever deserved of their intelligence or within their natural means. One's heart goes out! ❤😊

    @bend3rbot@bend3rbot22 күн бұрын
  • Such a shame that the father didn’t trust the son. The mother never wanted any involvement in the house, as evident also by her wedding vows. It’s such a shame as after this programme was aired the house has since been sold at over £6M, as being a successful events location.

    @nelltaylor8171@nelltaylor817111 ай бұрын
    • Really ?

      @mariejosemckeown@mariejosemckeown9 ай бұрын
    • I think there is a reason why he has a concern. He knows his son more than we do. He’s 5th generation of being there & doesn’t know how many BR’s are there? You’re selling the property & don’t know how many BR’s there are? I’m glad the property was finally able to support itself, & not had to tear it down or anything like that. They have the right to sell & get return on the money they’ve invested over the yrs. They don’t owe their sons anything. They have gotten them to the age of majority. They’re done!

      @ecaldwell9@ecaldwell99 ай бұрын
    • The father was aware of his son's, uh, embrace of the love that dares not speak its name.

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
  • It's a pity that these old manor homes are crumbling and being neglected because they are too expensive to heat and light. If the historical societies that are supposed to "protect' thiese homes would loosen the restrictions on certain things then it might save more houses. Discreet solar panels, or renovating to include geothermal heating, making sure the windows are triple glazed etc can all help off set the cost of heating the homes.

    @jaimicottrill2831@jaimicottrill283111 ай бұрын
    • Sometimes you are to let the past die. The economic and social system that created those houses is gone.

      @vicj9256@vicj92569 күн бұрын
  • Sorry to see it up for sale. Maybe it didnt hold the same feeling since his parents passed. Lovely people. 🙏🙌

    @XOX74@XOX74 Жыл бұрын
    • Oh! What sad News! I guess to split up the inheritance.... hum...

      @katharinatrub1338@katharinatrub1338 Жыл бұрын
  • I know what he means by saying Americans will like it. When I'm in England I love staying in the old houses. But to my surprise someone from another country has bought it and has nothing to tell me about the history or the history of the area. It would be very nice to stay somewhere like this.

    @paulafoster2607@paulafoster2607 Жыл бұрын
  • Many people fantasize about living in a castle. The reality is that they are exceedly expensive and demand a lot of work to maintain. As an older person I couldn't imagine having to be responsible for it.

    @lyndaslocs@lyndaslocs29 күн бұрын
  • I’m so proud of the young man and I feel sure he will make it

    @aprilstar3572@aprilstar3572 Жыл бұрын
    • Still sure? The house was sold by the sons, two wastrel laggards.

      @busterbiloxi3833@busterbiloxi38338 ай бұрын
  • The mother wanted it gone. She knew her health was failing and wanted it gone. Especially since dad procrastinates and wouldn’t make any decisions. He was just doing what she wanted. And they were ignoring their son, who was damn near pleading for them to let him run it.

    @stephendennis5969@stephendennis5969 Жыл бұрын
    • Yea, the poor mother didn't want to burden the sons with that huge responsibility.

      @kuchikopi4631@kuchikopi4631 Жыл бұрын
  • It was wonderful to see the house was kept. Good wishes for Ben. I agree the stable house should be fixed up for more income.

    @wasblind4835@wasblind4835 Жыл бұрын
  • With Ben living in the home, I think the Heath house will continue on successfully. I honestly hope he consults PROFESSIONALS in each of the various occupational requirements needed to run such an establishment successfully.

    @mmemphisevonygameaccount7871@mmemphisevonygameaccount78717 ай бұрын
    • since this was filmed 13+ years ago: Ben and his brother inherited the house. Unfortunately their father passed away not long after the show was filmed and their mother just a few months later. The younger brother, Justin, ran it as a wedding and photography venue with his wife. No idea what Ben was doing. lt seems that Covid was rough for them and the estate was sold in 2021 for over £6 million After the estate was sold, the Phillips family auctioned off some of the art, silverware, books and furniture of the house in 2022 They had a very active Facebook page until the house was sold.

      @SirMrShanks@SirMrShanks5 ай бұрын
    • @@SirMrShanks what a shame. The estate was eternal, 6 million spends quickly

      @ClubOceanBlue22@ClubOceanBlue225 ай бұрын
  • Unfortunately, I did some research. John Philips died in August 2011 and Flavia died a few months later in December of the same year. Heath House was sold and its contents were sold at auction by the Italian Art Society in April of 2022. I also ran into an online article that said Ben Philips mysteriously disappeared. Ben and his younger brother, Justin last owned the house. Justin and his wife, Sophie, were managing the business side of Heath House prior to its sale.

    @mrvgstyle2442@mrvgstyle24428 ай бұрын
    • Where did you read that? I just googled it and it’s still with the Philips family.

      @panamajack8055@panamajack8055Ай бұрын
    • @@panamajack8055 , Google 'Heath House, Staffordshire for sale." It was listed by Savills for £6,250,000. You can look it up on the site for Francis York. You need to be careful about internet searches because search engines keep old, outdated information. Best to click on the link for the actual date published.

      @mrvgstyle2442@mrvgstyle2442Ай бұрын
    • @@panamajack8055Did you read the date of what you saw. It was sold in 2023. The website no longer works. I think it was the result of Covid plus the father didn’t seem to want anything to do with the house. I was surprised his mother had lived there until she passed. I think just mistakes made over time as the upkeep costs would have been around 100 grand a year. Imagine needing the plumbing fixed?! But yes it sold and then most contents auctioned off. I’ve been looking up everything I could for hours this afternoon. Maybe the new owners have the money and re-open it again. I’m just glad it didn’t fall into ruins.

      @phoenixgirl70@phoenixgirl70Ай бұрын
  • 30:10 An idea for Ben: Get a couple of GoPros to mount up high to record his events down below and then watch afterward to see what went well and what could have been improved.

    @JerryDLTN@JerryDLTN Жыл бұрын
  • Ben honestly, you most def need a good woman behind you, no shadow of a doubt

    @maidinulster@maidinulster8 ай бұрын
  • I think the Fulford's could learn something from this family. True, the Fulford's need a lot of repairing, but I wonder if they could find some people who would want to help in the renovation for a chance to satay in their house. Mr. Fulford seems like a riot to spend some time with, but Mrs. Fulford would be difficult. As a faux painter and artist, I've worked for similar types, and it's tough when there's a person in the mix, making decisions, who can't reason well. Scaffolding would be one of the biggest issues for the Fulford mansion, and leaving people alone to do the work. I love that kind of work, it's not as enjoyable as painting a canvas, but it is satisfying. I'd love go to the Fulford's and spend a few months to renovate the entire place. They pay for the materials, and we work for food and experience. There would need to be a team of artists, a mason, wood workers, a few faux artists...I've done masonry, construction work, faux wood, faux marble ( both in the French and the Italian influence), sculpting, metal work, plumbing, heating (of course inspections would be necessary). The possibilities would be endless.

    @LaoZi2023@LaoZi20238 ай бұрын
  • The idea that they would even sell off the asset is the mentality that is completely wrong with the UK. People value cash more than assets and then a generation later all the money is gone.

    @nabilfreeman@nabilfreemanАй бұрын
  • Poor Aunt Anthea!

    @skontheroad@skontheroad Жыл бұрын
    • He might be getting lucky,

      @nigelmayer8061@nigelmayer80619 ай бұрын
  • From my viewpoint they did not have the moral right to deny their son of the inheritance. Both of them were old and should let their son have a go on the house like all the generations before. He also showed lot of passion and interest into doing something with the estate. I think both parents were selfish.

    @davidnavratil5349@davidnavratil5349Ай бұрын
    • Agreed 👍 😊

      @Bird1964@Bird196415 күн бұрын
  • I am glad to see they were able to make a go of it.

    @RK-fx4sv@RK-fx4sv Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve recently stumbled upon this program. So far I have completely been enjoying. Seeing this was over a decade ago, I hope that Heath House under the direction of blossoming Ben has journeyed to a wonderful place, wherever that may be. As an American who loves history and decor with a background in event planning , my mind was on overload with endless ideas. Those sofas are amazing. Cheers 🥂 🍾 to Ben, family & The Heath House 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    @kimberlystritt8631@kimberlystritt86313 ай бұрын
  • I would love to visit this beautiful estate, if ever I have the opportunity. I wish them every success in their venture.

    @debbieross5257@debbieross52578 ай бұрын
  • R.I.P to both John & Flavia

    @adam_lux4691@adam_lux4691 Жыл бұрын
  • The sons are so willing, how can they sell their heritages?

    @cynsmi@cynsmi Жыл бұрын
    • Lack of money

      @nata3467@nata3467 Жыл бұрын
  • So painful to watch when senior parents don’t see adult children grown able to manage a historical asset.

    @elizauksamad304@elizauksamad3048 ай бұрын
  • Commitment is an amazingly powerful thing. Full commitment equals full power. Making a decision and sticking with it is power.

    @virginiabotha3545@virginiabotha35459 ай бұрын
  • 謝謝分享這麼好的視頻,很感動,為兒子的努力感到自豪。

    @pohguanlim7987@pohguanlim7987 Жыл бұрын
  • Seems father and mother do not want the son to do things they 🫠Never did Bravo the son well done Bravoto you

    @1NeverunderStood@1NeverunderStood Жыл бұрын
  • This would be a good movie set.

    @angelavonhalle5144@angelavonhalle5144Ай бұрын
  • Dan, Come on man! You graft harder than any 10 men! Killer respect for you. Weather you realized it or not when you first started your KZhead journey, you began creating a priceless gift for your boys! The rest of us are secondary happy travel companions on your journey. The historical record you are creating will be forever treasured by the boys and their future children. Epic gift. I do hope that you will have the time to review your remarkable evolution and enjoy the ride. This venture has proven to be a catalyst, bringing people from all points of the globe together. Allowing new friendships to blossom into a massive Good Vibe Tribe! Whoot! How cool is that? Your perspective is amazing. Good stuff. We are going through it all with you. Loudly cheering you on. Even on your toughest days you are not alone. All you need to do is ask for help from this great community. So many people willing to help sharing their professional experience with you. This also may help others with their own projects. Look at you being such a philanthropist! Way to go! Personally I am honored to witness your endeavors. Thanks mate from Herndon, Virginia USA. Now for the love of God man! Get yourself a pair of steel toed boots! I roll my eyes every time I see you working in those sneakers! Much love and respect to you my friend. Janet

    @janetgreen7678@janetgreen7678 Жыл бұрын
    • Hi, after watching House Rescue, and commented it, I read some of the following and read your comment. It must have been the following video started (happened to me sometimes). By chance I am also a 'follower' of Dan (the gardener), only your comment is on the wrong , 'Page'... Have a good day!

      @katharinatrub1338@katharinatrub1338 Жыл бұрын
    • @@katharinatrub1338 thank you!

      @janetgreen7678@janetgreen7678 Жыл бұрын
    • @@janetgreen7678 You are most welcome ; ))

      @katharinatrub1338@katharinatrub1338 Жыл бұрын
    • Lol, I also knew exactly who the comment was meant for

      @rockyquinn3374@rockyquinn3374 Жыл бұрын
  • I'm sorry to hear his dear ma,ma had a stroke, but thank goodness her recovery is coming along...America wishes her well.

    @bakenumber4@bakenumber4 Жыл бұрын
  • Old place sure would look better with a pressure washing on the outside.

    @kentuckianaboy@kentuckianaboy Жыл бұрын
  • I have taking care of my own little house, can you imagine having to take care that place. His father should have been training his son's all the things they would need to know and writing it down for his son's, that's their father's fault. Let your son take it on.

    @Jennifer62389@Jennifer62389 Жыл бұрын
  • I just read what happen,so sorry for your parents. I 'm glad it was Six million you got for it best wishes to you both !!!

    @blancabulgrin5560@blancabulgrin5560Ай бұрын
  • It's 2013 and just googled the house and it states its owned still by the sons 🙏👏👏

    @Fireflier71@Fireflier71 Жыл бұрын
  • Glad to have an update.

    @dawnwesterbeck346@dawnwesterbeck346 Жыл бұрын
    • This is from 2009 see my comment for a more up to date update.

      @-ZED-@-ZED- Жыл бұрын
  • The image of a grazing cow on the meadow , after Ruth and Jhon's meeting on the bench , has reminded me of the saying: Only a cow doesn't change a point of view. It was brilliant comparing it to the John's thinking .

    @piotr5338@piotr533819 күн бұрын
  • Love restoration...admire those who do it.

    @RideoutMr@RideoutMr Жыл бұрын
  • Love how Ruth sorts them out, despite their initial resistance!

    @AlphonsodeBarbo@AlphonsodeBarbo14 күн бұрын
  • I'm madly in love with this manor. It's my favorite estate so far on this program.

    @stacistein702@stacistein7027 ай бұрын
  • Well done Ben! 👏

    @helenamarich5597@helenamarich55972 күн бұрын
  • With all those bedrooms,I think it would be great as a private school, maybe for exceptional ( Smart) students.

    @servraghgiorsal7382@servraghgiorsal7382 Жыл бұрын
    • This was also my thought. A great place to raise and educate children

      @dunbarnoon9872@dunbarnoon987216 күн бұрын
  • What a gorgeous property! A treat for the eyes. But you have to a substantial amount of money to maintain it, otherwise it's a nightmare 😊

    @curiousaboutanything2454@curiousaboutanything24549 ай бұрын
  • Now Heath House is on the market for a cool 6.2 mil.

    @mikebegonia6134@mikebegonia6134 Жыл бұрын
  • Gotta love this woman. Way to go Ruth!

    @markduncan1477@markduncan14778 ай бұрын
  • Flavia is the only reason the house keeps going up for sale. Dad keeps doing that to keep her quiet....😂🤣

    @GrampiesCorner@GrampiesCorner2 ай бұрын
  • Captains often take the ship down with them as others are seen as less able .

    @jonsnow6741@jonsnow6741 Жыл бұрын
  • These piles fall into disrepair because the older generation are soooo stuck in their ways & cannot embrace innovative ideas. Sad that it sold, but hope the new owners inject a new profitable direction to the house. The parents didn’t believe in their son, that’s sad.

    @Probity100@Probity100 Жыл бұрын
  • How sad for these family estates to get sold off smh

    @user-or6ep1cg5h@user-or6ep1cg5hАй бұрын
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