How To Evolve In relationships: Tackle The Text
Pastor Keion Henderson is the lead pastor of The Lighthouse Church in Houston, Texas.
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“You know your relationship is going to work because you have work to do. God never gives you prefect people, God gives you willing people”😌 He came for my neck!!! But it’s okay I’m learning and growing!! Thank you Jesus!
Gone Rachel Blu!!! I love it!!!
Had to come back to that part!!
YEEEESSSSS SISTER! WOW that was worthy receive for a teachable moment 🙌🏽
Amen
Thank God to know you are willing to do the work
"Men set the TONE in a relationship, women create the ATMOSPHERE". So profound 💥💞 Reminds me of what Dr Monroe used to say, women multiply whatever you give them 🤔
I loved Dr. Monroe
@@teamus4249 Same here, he shared loads of truths & wisdom and taught me so much. I thank God 4His life (RIEP) 🙏🏽
Yes lord he was a true BLESSING!!❤
I loved Dr. Moore
"Marriage is not about happiness, it's about evangelism. You want to win that person to the Lord. And by the time we finish with each other we are to both be like Christ"......Help Us Lord🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen
But what happens when you have tried for years to get this person towards Christ, like you have done for yourself, and the erson refuses?
It is not that you’re too strong… you have not found love that makes you weak! That hit me so hard because it’s so true!
Uncomfortable and being vulnerable!! That’s when you know that’s the one for you, & you don’t fight it!! You receive it!! With grace & embrace it!! I’m not perfect nor am I looking for perfection, just receiving what GOD has for me!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The way u know your in the right relationship is your becoming wiser❗️God never gives u perfect ppl, God gives u willing ppl❗️Men before u ask for submission make sure the wife is your mission🏃♀️The woman can’t ask for affection if the man is not your attention ‼️Sometimes your dealing w/ someone who didn’t have an example‼️Nobody can make u happy 😊 Happiness is a inside job🔥When u pick wrong, the other person is not willing to be groomed👏🏾 If u lack patience God is gon give u somebody who works your patience 💯 Whatever u lack is in the person he gave u‼️Don’t expect from your spouse what God can only give u‼️Don’t let the sun ☀️ go down on your anger❗️If u r a married man and u hv unanswered prayers 🤲 it’s probably b/c u haven’t treated your wife right‼️‼️‼️God will hinder your prayer 🙏🏾 life if u don’t honor your wife as a weaker vessel 🙌🏾 The way u know that boaz is there. Their is enough capacity in Boaz for the best version of u‼️
This was powerful message
This the one❗
This is a take home for me.sound and clear.
The Kevin Samuels of the world needs to hear these REAL MEN speaking. PERIOD!!!
💥💥💥💥💥
Yes indeed
Say this louder for those in the back not listening!
Is he even a practicing Christian man 🤔
Amen to that !!!!
From Grown Women who may have never heard men talk honestly & openly, you will never know the weight of the words you have spoken. You Have Blessed Atlanta . I know you all are busy men of God, but I pray God will allow you to take this on the road or continue as you have the ear of women to tell what you have always wanted to say. I am taking notes, crying and laughing like I am in the audience or like I was in school. It will definitely change how i move & learn. To God Be The Glory!
AMEN 🙏🏾 I stand in agreement
Well spoken Lillian. I’ve been enjoying listening/watching him for the last few months myself. It’s been so much of a pleasure, that I ordered his book “The Shift”, I’m ready. 🙏🏽❤️
🙌🏽 We need more talks like this im taking notes💯 God bless you all🤗
I’m also in agreement with these women! And I’m doing the same thing taking notes!
God I thank you for allowing me to stumble on this amazing service that blessed my soul. I’m considering to file for a divorce 24 years. The Trust and Protection is no longer present. Please keep me in your prayers.
All relationships are reciprocal, God is a God of cycles and seasons. It’s a give and take in creation. Sowing & reaping, Tithing & Prayers to open doors for miracles, worship for God to come down. You can’t take all the time and never pay it forward or give back. Like Pastor just said, “Before you ask a woman for submission make her your mission”. You have to carry your cross and go through your crushing like Bishop says.
Amen!
I stayed up late watching this like a crash course and it felt like its been only 5mins. These four men don't know the weight of treasure they dropped. God bless you and your families.
GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU FOR DROPPING THOSE JEWELS
What was the treasured dropped?
Yes this is oh-mazing!
The gift of being quiet! 🙌🏽
Chilllleeeee!
The way Pastor Keion saw through the young ladies walls at the end and spoke life into her hurt and pains was beautiful. He said he was once there. I pray that one day I will be able to minister to others and truly see them and not be overwhelmed with my own trauma, triggers and pain. Thank you gentlemen for being so transparent. IN-TO-ME-SEE (intimacy) is required to heal the hurting body of Christ and you gentlemen did it with such grace. Thank you.
Woah, the Assistant Pastor spoke facts! I asked why I walked away from someone I loved and that was it! I didn’t feel safe to love that person…Men and women become more powerful when we know our spiritual purpose! You can’t leave God out of something he created…Relationship is God’s idea! Marriage is God’s idea!
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Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2022 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️~Marcia~
I don’t appreciate y’all talking directly to me like this!!!! 😫😫😫🤣🤣🤣 This was SO GOOD! Thank you!!!
MOG you blessed me, confirmed things for me, and gave me blueprint to continue proceed on course. I'll wait for MOP (Man of Purpose).
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THIS IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN. AS I SIT HERE WITH TEARS IN MY EYES I FIND HOPE THAT I CAN DO IT AGAIN. I WAS 25 YEARS MARRIED TO A PASTOR AND I WANT TO TRUST AND LOVE AGAIN. THANK YOU FOR THIS.
@Beatrice Wilson Amen.
You and the pastor are divorced now?
I’m so thankful for this right here!! I was in a relationship for 9+ years, waiting patiently for the promise, all while God KEPT ME( if you follow me). I told myself if this don’t work, I’m done. Honestly I gave up and focused on other parts of my life. But I want to trust and live again with the man God has for me. 2022, no plans, just allowing myself to be led by God.
I affirm with you that God has answered your prayers. In tears of Gratitude I agree with you my sister, this message was God's GRACE and MERCY are received as mana from heaven. To GOD be all GLORY!!!
I can understand where you coming from. But you can love again God will give you someone that will love you just for you, and trust
There were so many nuggets and gems dropped during this talk it’s ridiculous! The variety of years on that stage and in the audience is priceless. Understanding the culture and atmosphere of your household is essential to the health and well being of your family. The highest compliment to my life as a individual, wife and mother was Reading the Word and taking time to understand, recognize and value the Creator’s voice. Good talk!
Every day
"I value our peace more than I do being CORRECT!!!" #FACTS
Amen
@@marywilliams1842 yes lord
I’m so thankful I was able to ask the question that most women needed answers to. Because I needed answers. But I’m so thankful for these men of god and the out pouring of love I received that night from women in the audience ❤️
Thank you sista God bless you for being vulnerable in the open. I pray God gives you the desires of your heart 🙏🏾❤
@@mizzdrea99 ❤️
Thank you so much for this message everyone was blessed keep shinning🙂❤️
Refreshing seeing someone open, and wanting to learn.
@ Lasharonda Golatt thank you for asking that question. When you said it, I said thats me . I'm learning how to tone it down. As Pastor Keion said give out what you want. We don't want a man speaking to us in that tone.
I am so glad that church folks are having these conversations now. It’s absolutely necessary and it’s the needed thing today to enhance our relationships. So many of us didn’t have a clue how to live life. Thank God knowledge is increasing Go pastors you are doing a great job.
AMEN..... I 👍🏽 👍🏽 agree.
Amen.
ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY
It's so refreshing to see men of God addressing these relationships issues that we have >>so much needed to be unpacked >>it's definitely a lack of knowledge and understanding that we need. Knowing your position in marriage and why you bring what you bring. Marriage will reveal all your short comings so marriage is ministry.
@@MszM305 Jesus died for all of our dysfunctions>>everybody who is in the church came out of the world. Our divorce rate is so high in the church and no body wants to deal with the issues >>stop hiding behind "Church" and get real>>Jesus dealt with everyone's issues>>stop playing church and be the Church we are His bride if you don't know. I pray you find peace with ALL of His word.
Selfless people don't sell their love they give it away freely with the understanding. Respect and love and communication and comprehension
If there is no communication there is no relationship and if there is no trust there is no need to continue .
Pastor Rhema be coming with it 🙏
He is packing!! ❤️👑❤️
@@benitak7951 I know right 🔥. Be blessed my sister n may God keep doin great things in ya life
@@elishanewton7131 Amen my brother🙏🏽
I'm not just a 'trophy but a treasure worthy of being treasured "❤️
1:41:00- this is my favorite quote of 2022😍 "When I love a woman she will never have to ask me to take out the trash, I'll clean her car as a surprise, I'll even clean the rims with a toothbrush!"
Yesterday I had a conversation with God that I wished I had a man’s perspective/wisdom as it relates to relationships. Today I came across this video. This is powerful!!!
Same boat one year later! Helped so much. Had to pick my feet up off of the floor.
The lady that spoke of the dominant personality, OMG I am so proud of her. Thank her for asking that question, a lot of us struggle with that same thing.. Your response was well received.. You all blessed me with your responses. This was such an awesome blessing.
Lord. Because why am I always having to be in my masculine energy
This is good Hearing men speak on relationships and they are helping both the male and female A lot of truth and wisdom on this stage
This issss soooo good 🔥💯🗣🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes I can get the latest version of God 🙏.
I just want to share how amazing Pastor Keion Henderson and your panel of men have been a blessing to me I am a €60 man in October I will be 61 and I am going to be married soon I think God for you guys to have this platform to pour into men as well as women what particular man Pastor yeah I have no idea how you’ve been a blessing to me I pray that you guys continue this platform I reside in Dallas I am proud to say that my bishop is T.D. Jakes I follow you as well so I know the connection between you and my pastor bless you young man me and my sweetie pie we’re going to get to Houston soon may God continue to shine his light on on your ministry bless you bless you bless you you as well as the brothers your panel look forward to coming to Houston bless you young man 🙏🏾
I just had this conversation with a friend of mines. As a woman I myself had to Identify the Problem. I wanted a good man but was I ready for a good man. I am the help mate so I had to be willing to unpack my baggage of old stuff. So new stuff can come in. Real men speaking. Lord this was for me! Prepare me Lord
I understood the 50 miles drive for a snow cone. The drive that my boyfriend & I took last weekend gave our relationship a boost.
Divorce don't cure you...
Lord, let my husband be as wise as these men lol and love me how the man that drives 50 miles!! Save a good one for me Lord 😩😂
Keep praying sis n if its the will of God may u be blessed with a true man of God who will love u n treat u the way u should be treated n may yall be a power couple for the Lord
Amen
I second that Lord...send me one too lol but fr .Amen
I've been hearing about Keion Henderson, stumbled on this message +, I'm about to get married! I needed this word fellas🙏🏿. I've been working on being submissive and knowing when to stfu to really take in and process what my SO is saying.
When you get married you are the student not the standard... 👍😃 I felt that. Just like TD Jake's and his Daughter said " It takes 30 minutes for a wedding but 30 years to learn to be married_
I'm not married neither am I dating anyone rn but I feel everything these professors are teaching... They're absolutely deep. Thank you Sirs...
This was the most insightful discussion, I have ever had on relationship Married 30 years.
Pastor Torrance and the Nigerian Pastor! #Fire
His name is Pastor Rhema
@@mirical4871 Yes, that's it! Thank you! Best!
Tune out by leaving family's home. Men of God this is an awesome presentation. Married for 38 years and treats my husband like a king and he treats me like a queen. You all are so funny but speaking the truth. Blessings.
Men of God, thank you! I am a 48 year old single woman who needed to hear this. I shared this message with women cousins, sisters at my church, and especially my daughters. May God continue to bless, cover, and restore you all.👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
This was a long one.... I got a hour in but with taking notes and allowing my own thoughts to process everything....I was here for 3 hours just in awww how much wisdom and knowledge you all carry. It's a lot of wait.. hold up...let me pause.. wait let me rewind that back.. .Tommorw I gotta tackle the rest 🔥 🔥 🔥 speaking gems Fellas 💎💎💎
Agreed! I need 2 watch again, digest & take more notes! Powerful gems!
Yes I definitely have rewinded this message a few times to hear that again. Great message!
Absolutely! Had a lot of "hol up" moments.
Me too! It’s 2:15 am! I gotta go to work tomorrow!🥴
Everytime 🥺🙏🏽😩
Respect the man so he will fill loved Wow! Just like that that’s deep & right okay Pastor that right their will save relationships women we got this. We naturally Love but it’s the respect they Need. Thanks Pastor
Absolutely Right 🙌
Praise God for this discussion 🙏🏻❤️🕊️ Father I ask that anyone about to watch this become sensitive to your spirit. Examine each of our hearts Lord. Groom us to be the bride You desire. It ain't about us it's all for your honor and glory. 🙌🏻. I wanna be where you are. 😇
Learned something today from all 4 men Of GOD THIS MESSAGE NEEDS TO BE PLAYED IN EVERY CHURCH ⛪️
I love how he ministered to that young lady at the end....that is what ministry at the core
Wow you guys have my attention. This is heavy sending it to my daughter who is awaiting her boaz.
🔥🔥🔥I'm speechless... 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽GOD was here blessing us with your knowledge. ❤️ I definitely want a second part... Single, marriage and keep building each other day by day. I'm very grateful for all of you and I thank God for letting me learn English, so He can bless me even more. I had so many emotions because I was married before for almost 10 years and since 2009 that I've divorced, I haven't find that person that can complement my life. But even though, through all that I've been through, I have peace. I may still not have a husband yet, and a family but I've been building a relationship with God through the years, which I didn't have it before when I was married. It's the best thing ever happened to me. I believe strongly in the word of God and Romans 8:28 has been my strength to keep moving forward. Thank you so much again to all of you for keep sharing the word of God as it is and sharing your testimonies. Blessings.
Proud of you.
@@kellyparadis8054 Thanks! ❤️
good together for work
As a man I feel that I have failed miserably at interacting with the women who have been in my life. I'm choosing to grow now.
Watching this like it was just released...it's still sooooo good! "...if you love them, one of your gifts to them is understanding that they're learning on you." Lord, help me to be patient...love is patient.
I love rev Keion because he is not just a leader but a good one,he's been so authentic with his sheep till they can come out boldly and be vulnerable enough to ask questions concerning their R/ship without a fear or doubt,salute to the whole Tackle the Text pannel 👏 your guys are doing good,looking forward for the infidelity talk,much love from East Africa 🇰🇪
When there are More Men or the same amount of Men in the comments or Watch these types videos as Women Black Love & Marriage will change for the Better. GREAT PREACHING
I can't believe I'm getting all this wisdom for free . I enjoyed this so much. Thank you!
This was powerful ... the answers to the last question gave me life and I felt it deep in my spirit. I cannot wait to get home and write notes and meditate on the wisdom shared. I am so grateful to you four !!! Thank you !!!!
WOWWWWWWW PASTORS, GREAT WORDS OF WISDOM, I PROMISE THIS WAS WELL NEEDED‼️😌 HAVE A BLESSED AND SAFE WEEN, STAY ENCOURAGED 🙌🏽🙏🏽💯‼️🔥😌💯💯
Whewwew weeee!!!! Great conversation and revelation from Christian men. "When you find the right one, trash won't b an issue"! That is so true.... ♥️
Bishop your yesterday sermon, where you said God said we don't have to exchange negative feelings, it PUT A NAIL TO CLOSE MY CHAPTER 1. I THANK YOU BISHOP JAKES, YOU ROCK MY FATHER. I RESPECT YOU AND PLEASE FORGIVE ME NOW FOR ALL.
"I will treat you as I desired to be treated."
I needed a lot of answers, I just got them! This is very powerful.
What answers did you receive?
It is great to hear about how to develop a relationship from the man's perspective. This is what intimacy in a marriage is. I hope they do more sessions like this.
I am that woman that strong and dominant in relationships and I no longer want to emasculate men in relationships. I want to change.
Don’t expect your spouse to give you what only God can give you!! Whew!
That moment when you just get connected to just the word you need . May God increase these powerful, wise men of God.
Watched the whole thing from beginning to end!!!! All GEMS AND TRUTH!! Thank you kings🔥🙏🏾
Life changing message right there
Don’t ask the woman for submission if the woman (and God) isn’t your mission! Love it
I needed this especially the young lady that stood up and asked about being a dominant woman. Praise God for her and thank you for standing in the gap for the rest of us; that weren’t able to asked for themselves. Hallelujah!!!!!
It’s been a rough day in “marriageville” and I came across this! Divine timing! I thank you heavenly brothers for your transparency and your wisdom which I know comes from the Holy Spirit
Humbling is like hobbling to the flesh, Kill it anyway, Preach HOLY SPIRIT👐💯💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
I was clapping like Family Feud good answer😂🤣
What about this made you clap so hard?
I love the comment about taking out the trash. This is helping so many people
This is what the church needs! 🔥🔥
This was such a blessing!! I have been married 20yrs and everything they said to the singles and the married I could relate. The questions from the ladies made me cry because I was there but God turned it. What a blessing to have a pastors who are willing to speak truth and life and be real to strengthen them. This is one of the greatest benefits of being with a body of Christ!
This video and the message was profound. I came into this with a broken heart but left with insight and will use this going forward. Thank lord for making me search for the word. In Jesus might name AMEN
The bible kjv gen 14.18-20 and melchizedek king of salm brought he of the true gods the heavens Damareon black how trey songz chush you
As an African American male and single father of 2, I appreciate this more than words can express. Not only is the unity between man and God outstanding, but to be able to sit down and have a God based conversation about life!! Change starts WITHIN the community and unfortunately, to many times we tear down and destroy instead of uplift and build. Needed to see and hear this. THANKING MY HIGHER POWER!!
I'm not a trophy, I'm a treasure!!!❤❤❤
Men of God, you are helping me tremendously in my walk with Christ. The wisdom and understanding of God’s word and life is eye opening. May God continue to bless each and every one of you, may He stalk you with His grace and mercy🙏🏾
I love to hear men of God speak openly. Thank you for the insight🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
When the right one comes, I will ( not- have a problem with being submitted in Jesus mighty name amen hallelujah 💯🥰
This is so good❣️A wealth of knowledge & truths to apply to self & in relationships.
Absolutely mind blowing. Too much to consume and assimilate at the same time. This discuss should just be a manual to refer back to. Thank you all Pastors...you are all amazing. God bless you all Sir.
I found this video from watching a clip on tiktok, I did not know he was pastor when I was looking for a longer version of the clip. I am glad I found this video, watched the entire thing and I connected on almost every level. I’m going on a road trip with my wife and daughters and we’re going to listen to this together. I thank God for these men and their message. Thank You God Bless.
This has been a Worship experience for me and I shared with my family and friends, married, divorced and single. This has been a Good Meal at the Kings Table. Thanks to everyone.
I stumbled across this today 11-08-21 and I’m so glad it did. This has truly been a blessing. I’m ever so thankful and grateful for the young ladies being willing to be vulnerable and ask their questions. So many others definitely needed to know a response and what great responses that were given
You know I happen to be lead by the Lord and tuned in today too. 11-08-2021. It was a truly the blessing and right timing for today.
Thank You GOD BECAUSE IT TAKES ONE STEP Every Day.
You attract what you respect faster than what you expect 💯
Alot of ppl know how to date and dont know how to updated!...wow...well said pastor!
Right about the enemy using people to get us out of character! Had a test yesterday in the doctors office. I believe that I passed the test. Not because I didn’t allow it to get an reaction out of me, or negative one. But, because I immediately looked inside of me to examine how I was feeling and I realized that I felt nothing. So it was easy not to react! Good stuff!
This set me free in different areas! Thank you for having this transparent and real conversation
This whole video is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I can't explain how grateful I am for this...all of this. Whoo! This is just too much 🔥. God bless y'all forever. Love from 🇳🇬
Pastor Torrance hit the nail on the head talk bout pushing if only one side working it cause problems 😳 omg
Truth
This was beautiful. Not just because it tickled my ears, but also because my toes hurt AND I've learned!
Love how Pastor Keion affirmed the last lady. "You hurt by being strong"... that's me. What a blessing hearing a man recognising that without condemning her🙌🏽
The last question.....spoke directly to me amongst others. This was powerful. Thank you!
You guys have opened my eyes to a lot of things I have not noticed about myself and I just thank you all for that. Listening to Tackle The Text weekly have really helped me in so many ways. May God bless each and every one of you.
This was absolutely brilliant 🤩 Watching from London UK 🇬🇧 WHAT A BLESSING ❤️👏🏽🙌🏽
What is the importance of showing love to someone you love even when you are busy. Powerful 💚💚💚
"when you be in love with a silhouette, you gonna be upset" that's a word Pastor Keion.
Listen up 💑, you live life forward, but see👀 it in reverse👏👏👏👏👏GO AHEAD HOLY SPIRIT
This is my third week tuning into Tackle the text and I love every moment that I get excited to tune into the following week. Thank you to all the Pastors so much knowledge 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
I found it very helpful watching John gray’s ( men are from Mars…) talks about dominant women and how they can tap into their feminine energy. He gives practical steps and much more.
This message really spoke to me all I kept saying was this is my relationship. This is my attitude have I not found the right one but holding on wanting to fight. Thank you
This was food for my soul so many nuggets given I truly appreciate the advice and counsel from these men especially at the end God bless you all.