15 Things You Shouldn't Say to Your Parents

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How to Avoid Conflicts with Your Parents. We all get emotional at times and it seems like the whole world including our parents is against us. However, there are certain phrases we say that don’t do any good and instead set parents off and only make things worse. Find out what phrases you’d better avoid and what to replace them with to be heard and have good relationships with your parents.
Nothing is better at making the pain of sadness or anger go away than the exact opposite of hate. Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.
TIMESTAMPS
“I’m so bored.” 0:58
“School sucks.” 1:41
“You can’t tell me what to do.” 2:35
“I never get what I want.” 3:10
“No one cares about me in this family.” 4:06
“Why can’t I just be like everyone else?” 4:40
“I don’t need your advice.” 5:13
“It’s all your fault.” 5:42
“You’re a monster.” 6:06
“I can do perfectly fine without you.” 6:30
“I hate this house, and I’m gonna run away.”
“I don’t see any meaning in my life.” 6:58
“I wish you were dead.” 7:27
“I’m gonna kill myself.” 8:29
“I hate you.” 9:08
Music:
The 126ers - Winds of Spring
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SUMMARY
-Instead of just complaining to your parents that you’re bored out of your mind, tell them “I need your help because I don’t know what to occupy myself with.”
-“School was tough today” is a good way to open a dialogue that will hopefully lead to some helpful solutions.
-What you can try to tell them is “I’m upset that I can’t make my own choices and always have to listen to you.”
-Say something like “I really want it, but it’s hard for me to make you understand how much I need it”. An open dialogue is much more effective than arguing.
-Let your parents know you need some love and support right now. “I need you because I feel really sad” is a great alternative in this case.
-“It’s hard to stand out because I need support and approval from my friends” is a good way to remind your parents of their school years and the struggle to be popular.
-Don’t miss out on your chance to get advice from people who care about you most of all, especially when it’s free! It’s okay to tell them “I’m out of control and I need your help.”
-Pointing the finger at your parents for something they didn’t do is basically your way of saying “I feel guilty”.
-Your subconscious mind is actually crying out for your parents to “Tell me you love me.”
-The reality is that your family is your rock to lean on in hard times, and it’s okay to admit it and still be totally cool. So just tell them “I need you so much I feel helpless without you”.
-Even if you think so, what you’re really saying is “I’m afraid of leaving this house”. Let your parents know you feel insecure out in the world without their protection.
-Try to get over the rough patch together. “Please help me in finding meaning in life” is a good call for action and problem-solving.
-You need support, and you can get it by simply saying “I really need to hear something nice to cheer me up”.
-Something like “I don’t want to hurt myself, but I’m having dark thoughts” is a good way to open up a dialogue. Plus, there are always 24/7 suicide hotlines that you can reach out to.
-Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.
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  • TIMESTAMPS “I’m so bored.” 0:58 “School sucks.” 1:41 “You can’t tell me what to do.” 2:35 “I never get what I want.” 3:10 “No one cares about me in this family.” 4:06 “Why can’t I just be like everyone else?” 4:40 “I don’t need your advice.” 5:13 “It’s all your fault.” 5:42 “You’re a monster.” 6:06 “I can do perfectly fine without you.” 6:30 “I hate this house, and I’m gonna run away.” “I don’t see any meaning in my life.” 6:58 “I wish you were dead.” 7:27 “I’m gonna kill myself.” 8:29 “I hate you.” 9:08

    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL5 жыл бұрын
    • chloe gumbo same

      @TerribleT666@TerribleT6665 жыл бұрын
    • Forgot about "you're a bad mother" phrase

      @HetNeSS@HetNeSS5 жыл бұрын
    • BRIGHT SIDE early

      @atv1378@atv13785 жыл бұрын
    • I don't think time stamps r accurate I'm not sure

      @dinko9860@dinko98605 жыл бұрын
    • I’m most guilty of all of them(I use all of them) :/

      @bratt4318@bratt43185 жыл бұрын
  • #15 “I need help occupy myself” My parents: *go clean your room” me: i-

    @quitanaa@quitanaa4 жыл бұрын
    • Glad im not alone

      @amberbagby7987@amberbagby79874 жыл бұрын
    • "Go do your homework"

      @marshmallowyellow7075@marshmallowyellow70754 жыл бұрын
    • True lol

      @tokyounderscoreboom1567@tokyounderscoreboom15674 жыл бұрын
    • milk tea YEEEES 😫😫😫

      @peachy6358@peachy63584 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @madysonnichole9706@madysonnichole97064 жыл бұрын
  • I feel like I can never prove my mother wrong, everytime she realized Im right She will say something to back her up, like WHY U TALKING BACK, if ur parents does this, it’s because they don’t have anything to say besides that, they realize ur right but some parents want to be right all the time so they say things like that

    @godzillaearth3617@godzillaearth36174 жыл бұрын
    • MonPlayz same.. my mom never wants to listen to my opinion to anything, and apparently everything she says is supposed to be facts to me.

      @Ray-lb4rc@Ray-lb4rc4 жыл бұрын
    • My mom.pulls out the "I had you in my belly for 9 months on me

      @christiany.9@christiany.93 жыл бұрын
    • Ikr I don't understand why th is my mom and dad like this?

      @hiimnewyay7583@hiimnewyay75833 жыл бұрын
    • THANK YOU PREACH!!!

      @lesercraft@lesercraft3 жыл бұрын
    • That's why parents scold us when we want to talk about our problems with them and other problems too They try to cover up by scolding They don't know that we are the one getting more hurt

      @neelamk9532@neelamk95322 жыл бұрын
  • Dad:jack stop arguing Me: I’m not Dad: see this is what I mean

    @64PARIS.@64PARIS.4 жыл бұрын
    • CoD is Life same as thing for me

      @Ray-lb4rc@Ray-lb4rc4 жыл бұрын
    • same, they say that to me sometimes for no reason... but i still love them

      @kimothelimo@kimothelimo4 жыл бұрын
    • Same!

      @zqpped1624@zqpped16244 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂this isnt the only (exploit i cant think of a better name)

      @ironman-sy4ew@ironman-sy4ew4 жыл бұрын
    • This is the one

      @tylert8093@tylert80934 жыл бұрын
  • I say nothing on this list except for “I’m so bored.” WE’RE EXPRESSING WHAT WE WANNA SAY. ;-;

    @Rachifier@Rachifier4 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @theapplebest69@theapplebest693 жыл бұрын
    • I fairly disagree. As an early teen, I recommend telling your parents what you want to do, otherwise they feel like they have to do tons of stuff for you and find exactly what you're interested in at the moment, whereas it is easy for you to know what you want typically. If you don't know what to do, I recommend calling a friend.

      @Gloom_Shroom_Gaming@Gloom_Shroom_Gaming3 жыл бұрын
    • That word is very dangerouse if i say that to my parents-

      @lmaoanimations252@lmaoanimations2523 жыл бұрын
    • @@Gloom_Shroom_Gaming my mom doesn’t let me have friends and I can’t go to any one’s house I can’t even leave my house

      @yehahkiyostahomer-shenando1760@yehahkiyostahomer-shenando17603 жыл бұрын
    • @@theapplebest69 One time my mum called me a witch and it made me upset and angry for revengev😢😢😈😢😢😈😢😈😢😈😈😢😈😢😢😈😢😈😢😈😢😈😢😈😢

      @superteen5640@superteen56403 жыл бұрын
  • When you have just had a fight with Mom 😒😒 And want to spend some time alone ND this comes up on your phone 😔😔😔😔😔

    @brejeshmishra7141@brejeshmishra71415 жыл бұрын
    • I understand but let's keep in mind parents also have feelings like us - no one likes to fight with ppl they live with and love

      @novaiqbal@novaiqbal5 жыл бұрын
    • 🙂

      @karenserrano2682@karenserrano26825 жыл бұрын
    • I don’t to be rude but that is a bit funny the way you say it.

      @Kampion@Kampion5 жыл бұрын
    • I never fight with my mom

      @420Watashi@420Watashi5 жыл бұрын
    • At least you have your phone

      @megacool5718@megacool57185 жыл бұрын
  • During quarantine mom: *"I'm bored...play another round of UNO with me"*

    @XXXXXX-go2vg@XXXXXX-go2vg4 жыл бұрын
    • Lol ur lucky

      @louisratatoulielinson@louisratatoulielinson3 жыл бұрын
    • @@louisratatoulielinson yup...

      @tooclxchrichiiie1236@tooclxchrichiiie12363 жыл бұрын
    • lol yas

      @wennycake3057@wennycake30572 жыл бұрын
    • Wait your mom actually wants to play games with you. Wow must be nice

      @avahamlincoln874@avahamlincoln8742 жыл бұрын
  • Anybody remember being Young and trying to run away? Just me? :(

    @toby2633@toby26335 жыл бұрын
    • ღwolfy eclipseღ れ口

      @gamingwithkent3383@gamingwithkent33835 жыл бұрын
    • me

      @kaylastokes3285@kaylastokes32855 жыл бұрын
    • Because I'm a kid

      @kaylastokes3285@kaylastokes32855 жыл бұрын
    • I made many attempts back in 2nd grade

      @kaylastokes3285@kaylastokes32855 жыл бұрын
    • Me

      @karenserrano2682@karenserrano26825 жыл бұрын
  • i got scolded for saying “you don’t love me” now i know how much love my parents have for me.

    @ihaveafatpuss7616@ihaveafatpuss76164 жыл бұрын
    • 💜💜💜💜💜💜

      @UnKnow-uk6vh@UnKnow-uk6vh2 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @6yearsoldhahaha@6yearsoldhahaha2 жыл бұрын
    • same

      @ThatKid252@ThatKid2522 жыл бұрын
  • Me: I need your help because I don’t know what to occupy myself with. My parents: um are you okay ?

    @inayazahidd@inayazahidd5 жыл бұрын
    • lol

      @atanil7019@atanil70193 жыл бұрын
  • 15 thing I used to say and still do sometime "not my fault" 😑

    @gameralex6901@gameralex69015 жыл бұрын
    • Good

      @JJ-zt3wz@JJ-zt3wz5 жыл бұрын
    • It's really not

      @filipkocev1273@filipkocev12734 жыл бұрын
    • 😑

      @kiangabrielhernandez4373@kiangabrielhernandez43733 жыл бұрын
    • why?

      @ellabrown262@ellabrown2623 жыл бұрын
    • Saaame

      @Mostsanestkaitoliker@Mostsanestkaitoliker3 жыл бұрын
  • me: *runs away* parents: who's gonna babysit your sisters now?

    @angelaluo2979@angelaluo29794 жыл бұрын
  • All of this is literally opening up your heart, and if it's hard for you to open up to your parents you need help! 'Cause noone loves you more than they do! And yes, they can be pretty annoying and misunderstanding at times!

    @afshantarannum341@afshantarannum3415 жыл бұрын
    • It looks like it's true in most people's cases but there's none of the above things that won't make my parents start screaming and breaking each other's noses😓😓

      @christinepan.1149@christinepan.11493 жыл бұрын
    • Then... I need the help...

      @barbaraa3645@barbaraa36453 жыл бұрын
    • I agree

      @sagar8534@sagar85342 жыл бұрын
    • my mom loves my niece more than me 🥲

      @lexii2654@lexii26542 жыл бұрын
  • “Humans are social creatures” *i beg to differ, take me for an example...*

    @chaotichoneybee2871@chaotichoneybee28715 жыл бұрын
    • Lol relatable!!!😂

      @hihi-lu4mh@hihi-lu4mh4 жыл бұрын
    • bright side: humans are social creatures me: INTROVERTS

      @jamietheawesome8319@jamietheawesome83194 жыл бұрын
    • Relatable

      @stuarthallick417@stuarthallick4174 жыл бұрын
    • mood im the exact same 😂

      @wthistreasureisummon@wthistreasureisummon3 жыл бұрын
    • SO IM NOT HUMAN

      @CatherineKLopez@CatherineKLopez3 жыл бұрын
  • I love my parents, no matter how hard they are to me I have always been different from other girls i am not bi but i am a huge tomboy. In our religion girls don't go out that much but i am not like that. Everyone calls me different even boys and i am proud of it

    @raheenamjed1600@raheenamjed16005 жыл бұрын
    • Where r u living?

      @haveagoodday5690@haveagoodday56905 жыл бұрын
    • You just told my story, wow, we r just exactly same, well what s your age though?

      @namitadeka1478@namitadeka14784 жыл бұрын
    • I͟͟m͟͟ a͟͟l͟͟s͟͟o͟͟ p͟͟r͟͟e͟͟t͟͟t͟͟y͟͟ d͟͟i͟͟f͟͟f͟͟e͟͟r͟͟e͟͟n͟͟t͟͟

      @huh9922@huh99224 жыл бұрын
    • Me tooo I am a tomboy but thankfully my parents respect that I am the way I am today

      @dhuhaalasadi8615@dhuhaalasadi86153 жыл бұрын
  • The biggest lie I told to my parents: Im ok Edit: why was I this wannabe edgy emo last year 😳

    @WeebCanon@WeebCanon4 жыл бұрын
    • Lol same

      @MintPro47@MintPro474 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @barbaraa3645@barbaraa36453 жыл бұрын
    • Y

      @clownfish0@clownfish03 жыл бұрын
    • Fyjk

      @clownfish0@clownfish03 жыл бұрын
    • Lol

      @clownfish0@clownfish03 жыл бұрын
  • "It's just a phase, MOM"

    @MichaelJayValueInvesting@MichaelJayValueInvesting5 жыл бұрын
    • Michael Jay - Value Investing I thought it was "It's not a phase, MOM"

      @coolcactus9766@coolcactus97665 жыл бұрын
    • Michael Jay - Value Investing I saw you in a king Richards loot video

      @myleshearne9026@myleshearne90265 жыл бұрын
    • Michael Jay - Value Investing Hi! Can you help me reach a goal of 100 subscribers! It would mean the world to me! I post iPad gameplay on Roblox and Minecraft!! ❤️

      @braerayplays@braerayplays5 жыл бұрын
    • Lol

      @dirsaurydiaz5052@dirsaurydiaz50525 жыл бұрын
    • Yeah, I'm a ten year old and I am already going through the phase of adolescence

      @tabithaondriezek2171@tabithaondriezek21715 жыл бұрын
  • Me:I'm bored MOM:GO WASH THE DISHES

    @mddystydryyfghdfggghhftu9063@mddystydryyfghdfggghhftu90633 жыл бұрын
    • Same here

      @barbaraa3645@barbaraa36453 жыл бұрын
  • I haven't been a teenager in 20 years. And when I was a teenager I did not say this kind of stuff. Well maybe number 1 I did. But you mention parents in this video. When I was a teenager my real father was never really in my life. It was just my mother, my older brother, and her boyfriend who she married about 10 years or so later. And the only time when my mother made time for me was on the weekends. When she was not working. My mother had a very demanding good paying job back then. And she also had very nasty and very uncaring supervisors. Who didn't care at all about someone's personal life. My mother used to be a postal worker. Who is now retired. When I came home from school she was getting ready to leave for work. So she didn't have much time to talk to me. Leaving me alone with our cat. Plus with my family no one really cares about each other. No one really shows any kind of affection or love in my family. So this video is all good and great if you have a loving, understanding, and caring family. I most certainly don't. And it is something I have very long since gotten very used to.

    @srkfan4ever137@srkfan4ever1375 жыл бұрын
    • I agree with you, many from our generation experienced the same. I am of a similar age to you. I can relate to what you say. Don’t think much has changed. As our generation went without, the kids of today get gadgets video games etc as babysitters. I would rather the cat as a living creature to keep me company than be showered with gadgets, and still no parent in our life. I watched this video as an older person with intent of hearing what the child is trying to say with their comments, rather than reflect on my experiences. I feel for you and have experienced the same. I guess our parents just though putting a roof above our heads and feeding us was enough. It is not, and no matter what generation, we crave the love and support of our parents, but we do not have the skills to let them know what we are missing. I completely agree with your comment about it depends on the parents you have, and hope some parents that watch this wake up and take these suggestions to understand their kids a bit better. I hope you are doing well now in life, and best wishes to you.

      @brettst01@brettst015 жыл бұрын
    • I'm 13 now but I can relate. My parents work 12 hours a day and on their days off they rather spend time with each other. They buy me a lot of stuff and use that as an excuse every time i get mad at them for not wanting to spend time with me. I sometimes get angry and sad and go to my room and my mom always comes in and tells my that she spent a lot of money on me and I should be grateful for that, which i am but i get very lonely and i don't think they get that

      @Galaxy-um4dj@Galaxy-um4dj4 жыл бұрын
  • If I complain, while being really subtle and water it down, like, school was rough today, my mom will say," ok, don't tell at me about it" I wish my mom loved me...

    @v3xing216@v3xing2164 жыл бұрын
    • Stg my dad is the same way doesn’t mean they don’t love u they jus don’t care abt ur problems well my parents don’t anymore

      @RllCozyK@RllCozyK2 жыл бұрын
  • I usually do the “No one cares about me in this family”/“no one loves me or cares about me”.😅

    @fullsunforhaechan8991@fullsunforhaechan89915 жыл бұрын
    • Same here

      @kanchana.a.g.8173@kanchana.a.g.81733 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @maheletanbesaw7636@maheletanbesaw76363 жыл бұрын
    • SAME

      @davidplunkettiii8239@davidplunkettiii82393 жыл бұрын
    • @@kanchana.a.g.8173 SAMEEE E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E EE E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E

      @kristiaxplayz2031@kristiaxplayz20312 жыл бұрын
    • Same here

      @nightistic1217@nightistic12172 жыл бұрын
  • Calling your parents name. Big no no.

    @AirElegant@AirElegant5 жыл бұрын
    • Air Elegant a REALLY big NO NO NO NO NO

      @nekocat4293@nekocat42935 жыл бұрын
    • Some parents actually encourage their kids to call them by their name. 😂

      @paradox9369@paradox93695 жыл бұрын
    • My. Mom. Punished. Me, for. Calling. Her. A. Name.

      @tinker.belle.501.@tinker.belle.501.5 жыл бұрын
    • I have done that beforw

      @emmacraw3269@emmacraw32695 жыл бұрын
    • Before

      @emmacraw3269@emmacraw32695 жыл бұрын
  • I hurt my parents many but they were never hurt me again and loved me Tomorrow I will be a great daughter to my parents 😊 I love you my parents 🙂 ✌️

    @jebujebujebujebu2558@jebujebujebujebu25584 жыл бұрын
  • No body: Not a single soul: Not even god: Me: mom I’m bored

    @emili5091@emili50914 жыл бұрын
  • Me: Mom why can't i have a new phone Mom: *My goals are beyond your understanding*

    @reichsfuhrer-sshans2263@reichsfuhrer-sshans22634 жыл бұрын
  • I’m feeling guilty because I said something hurtful towards my dad. I said: “Not to hurt you or make you feel bad. But, it feels like you don’t belong in this family anymore..” And my dad said: “You shouldn’t talk like that.. 😞” At first. I felt nothing and now I feel like everything’s out of hand in my life

    @Evelynn_Is_Trash211@Evelynn_Is_Trash2113 жыл бұрын
    • I once said to my father that to turn off the music or i will break everything, and i regret saying it, i felt so bad and have cried so much after, but i love my parents and i pray for them everyday.

      @sagar8534@sagar85342 жыл бұрын
  • If I said these ‘alternatives’ to my parents, they would think I’m crazy

    @gracescanlan419@gracescanlan4195 жыл бұрын
  • If I say I'm bored, then they make me study But if I even say that 'Can you help me how to ocupy my time' they still make me study Like if same thing happens with you

    @huazascorpion2261@huazascorpion22614 жыл бұрын
  • I remembered that I accidentally called my teacher my mom.

    @cavebob5989@cavebob59894 жыл бұрын
    • I also

      @robotershortsfficial3165@robotershortsfficial31652 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @bismahnaeem592@bismahnaeem5922 жыл бұрын
    • Same,

      @klang8753@klang87532 жыл бұрын
    • same

      @beluga_underscore3416@beluga_underscore34162 жыл бұрын
    • I accidently called my teacher aunt few years back

      @WINDOWS9Gamer@WINDOWS9Gamer Жыл бұрын
  • Me: “I am not a baby anymore.” My parents: “We understand. Let’s talk.”

    @jcwt_pdx@jcwt_pdx3 жыл бұрын
    • um what kind of comment is that

      @Drunken_duck69@Drunken_duck693 жыл бұрын
    • @@Drunken_duck69 um agood one

      @blindlife6082@blindlife60822 жыл бұрын
    • In a different multiverse:

      @lDontExist@lDontExist Жыл бұрын
  • Out of these things I have only said one thing to my parents " I'm so bored" I couldn't even imagine saying most of the things on this list to my parents.

    @nimratmand3318@nimratmand33183 жыл бұрын
  • I say it to my parents. And they love me for it. But when I say weird things like I say *I like jpop and anime, kpop and guitar* She slaps the asian out of me

    @sharedaccount7994@sharedaccount79944 жыл бұрын
    • why would they do that? I mean everyone has their own interests and they should accept that

      @cherrydeer812@cherrydeer8123 жыл бұрын
    • @@cherrydeer812 my parents are same dude whenever I say I like kpop they make fun of it and say you better study

      @chandradeep1230@chandradeep12302 жыл бұрын
  • "Mom, I think I'm mental, I need help!"

    @i.2776@i.27765 жыл бұрын
    • I've several times used it

      @science-y9209@science-y92095 жыл бұрын
    • My mom would call the police on me...

      @averagenoah1410@averagenoah14105 жыл бұрын
    • Susan Gacha YT Yup

      @averagenoah1410@averagenoah14105 жыл бұрын
    • Guys thats so mean for mental people you guys should BE ASHAMED

      @brookescott9827@brookescott98275 жыл бұрын
    • @@brookescott9827 it's not rude, they are just suspecting that they are mental

      @darthunify9025@darthunify90254 жыл бұрын
  • I love you mom💜😓

    @MBM-uj2yc@MBM-uj2yc5 жыл бұрын
  • There's always conflict and in many cases it's the best to confront the situation and solve it instead of just delaying the solution. We had an animation on this a few weeks ago.

    @thetruthbetweenthelines8521@thetruthbetweenthelines85215 жыл бұрын
  • You make best friends *And enemys* You fall in love *and get your heart broken*

    @yesscrazy4197@yesscrazy41974 жыл бұрын
    • 🤣🤣

      @barbaraa3645@barbaraa36453 жыл бұрын
    • That's kinda dark bright side 😂😂😂😂😂

      @alisonjoseph450@alisonjoseph4503 жыл бұрын
  • when u realized that u said all of these things on the list

    @TBNREllaXx@TBNREllaXx4 жыл бұрын
  • Something I always have said: Listen. I don't wanna fight can we just forget it and pretend it never happened! Always works

    @pansyparkinsonuvu6267@pansyparkinsonuvu62673 жыл бұрын
    • I try but it doesn’t work

      @The_Biggest_Swiftie_13@The_Biggest_Swiftie_132 жыл бұрын
  • I think I told some or more things to my parents One thing I always tell is #SchoolSucks 😣

    @karundathi47@karundathi475 жыл бұрын
    • No I don't coz school rocks. You could learn stuff and make new friends in school. Think differently...

      @FishlandicFishy@FishlandicFishy5 жыл бұрын
    • @@FishlandicFishy haha, lies.

      @darthunify9025@darthunify90254 жыл бұрын
    • FishDoesMC so wait you wanna spend hours instead you can search on internet

      @insanitylol@insanitylol4 жыл бұрын
    • I love school ;^;

      @Rachifier@Rachifier3 жыл бұрын
    • @@FishlandicFishy u have huge problems

      @MrGeraldinepierre@MrGeraldinepierre3 жыл бұрын
  • but sometimes i do need to blame my parents for making me bored, such as always going somewhere without me all the time, there was even a time i hadn't left my house for a month because of that.

    @rogerxie955@rogerxie9553 жыл бұрын
  • It’s my birthday 🎁

    @hahahahahha8458@hahahahahha84585 жыл бұрын
    • Widows wail Happy birthday! ♥️🎂

      @z670s@z670s5 жыл бұрын
    • Widows wail happy birthday then!

      @speedhunter3421@speedhunter34215 жыл бұрын
    • Widows wail Happy birthday💐💐💐🎂

      @rainyvibessubliminals@rainyvibessubliminals5 жыл бұрын
    • Widows wail Happy b'day d00d

      @onorichie@onorichie5 жыл бұрын
    • Widows wail HBD

      @munirilyas7615@munirilyas76155 жыл бұрын
  • My mom: screams at me, makes me feel bad, dosent trust me, throws a pile of school at me, tells me she wants to hang out with me then decides otherwise, gives me no free time, when I get mad because she did something then turns the blame on me Also mom: “I dOnT kNoW wHy yOuR aVoIdInG mE?”

    @saturn821@saturn8213 жыл бұрын
    • Because you don't want to let her ruin the relationship more and hurt you feelings.

      @anharr4662@anharr46622 жыл бұрын
  • I used to yell "school stinks" Every night before bed and asked to be home schooled but that backfired and now I'm homeschooled and have only 1 friend and I'm socially awkward and only talk to my friend and my brother

    @jjcierra2407@jjcierra24073 жыл бұрын
  • "Tell me you love me." Me: burst out singing Demi Lovato😂 anyone else

    @peytonparabdeen9890@peytonparabdeen98905 жыл бұрын
  • Me: I'm so bored. My mom: Go bored that bathroom then Me: Bu- My mom- You back talking me,GO clean that bathroom Proceeds to clean bathroom

    @midnightstar7432@midnightstar74324 жыл бұрын
  • Me:I need you because I fell feel really sad Mom: ok my boy 😍😍😍

    @Zaidknight9@Zaidknight93 жыл бұрын
    • Lucky...😢

      @barbaraa3645@barbaraa36453 жыл бұрын
  • This video should be called "how to be submissive and suppress your emotions"

    @clairedelunefleurs@clairedelunefleurs4 жыл бұрын
    • Yes, definitely.

      @existentialchaos8@existentialchaos83 жыл бұрын
    • Ya somthin like that

      @bakkon7588@bakkon75883 жыл бұрын
  • My parents doesn't even care about me. I wish I had a more caring parents

    @mrfishbag7838@mrfishbag78384 жыл бұрын
  • If I ever say i am bored to my parent they make me do chores.

    @vvlovescatsvvlovesjesus7989@vvlovescatsvvlovesjesus79895 жыл бұрын
  • I just got mad at my parents and watched this -_-

    @cert1fiedoffender@cert1fiedoffender5 жыл бұрын
    • SAME XDDDDD

      @honeyluv1169@honeyluv11693 жыл бұрын
  • Life sucks sometimes My mom dosent understand me when she’s mad I tell her things I feel and she just brushes it off as if I’m getting ideas but it really real feelings I just wish I ca tell her a phrase that will get her to open her eyes and ears It’s making me lie more and more to her it hurts me so bad since I was a an angle child

    @iihxneyxbunmoved8207@iihxneyxbunmoved82075 жыл бұрын
    • I can relate to you buddy.... It really hurts...😟

      @chetnasachdeva3907@chetnasachdeva39074 жыл бұрын
    • I can relate I wish my heart was warmer but it’s very cold

      @nina_does_art@nina_does_art4 жыл бұрын
    • Always love your parents, have a conversations with them tell them your problems and ask for their problems also and then u can give them some advise, don't be angry when they don't get free try to understand their situations, look at their reasons behind their actions don't judge the actions, every actions have a reasons and u can find solutions when u will understand the reasons. Love your parents.

      @sagar8534@sagar85342 жыл бұрын
  • You do realize that you’ve said “ but if so you need to get help” twice

    @billmcdonald412@billmcdonald4125 жыл бұрын
  • It's all happening without Krishna Consciousness...true I felt it in my life and now I got changed and love my parents...😍

    @nscollectionindia@nscollectionindia4 жыл бұрын
  • I'm glad for the children and parents that actually have a safe way to talk to each other and both listen and open up. But this video does nothing for me since my parents and I have a very fragile connection. I hope this video helps the ones that just needed a little push to open up and the ones that are open I wish for you to grow stronger together. Parents please have an open and nonjudgmental relationship with your child. If not it can bring a lot of negativity from depression to feeling unwanted, isolated, may turn to drugs and even may suicide. Don't do this to your child. Be emotionally there for them and not just financially.

    @kiac3609@kiac36095 жыл бұрын
  • 4:43... In a way, you are like everybody else. You're the light of your parents' life, and they want you to be safe, always. Every parent wants that for their child/ren. Like every other teen, you are... a teen. It seems like your parents don't listen to you, but, hey, they've gone through that, too. They'll relate to you when you use the right words. So, you are like everybody else. You want to fit in the society and be accepted, without your parents meddling in your matters, like every other person. Just a fun fact: You can't just be like everyone else, since you're unique in your own way/s. You don't need the latest things to be popular, and you don't really need that much friends to fit in. In fact, every person is living for a purpose. You are here to do something different, something you and your parents would be proud of since no one else had done it but you, or maybe you're one of the few people who'd done it. So, in conclusion, you can be who you want to be, and your parents will know what is best for you. It is your decision whether to leave the comfort of your own home and live the life you choose or stay and be a loving child who actually cares about the people around him/her.

    @clarkepercivaljaeblood4886@clarkepercivaljaeblood48865 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for making the world a brighter place

    @jackwong9007@jackwong90075 жыл бұрын
  • This one time I said “ITS MY LIFE ANYWAYS” to my mom, and literally after that I never ever dared to say something like that to my mother again 😳

    @keylasanuwu5167@keylasanuwu51673 жыл бұрын
    • I have once said to my father that to turn off the music or i will break everything cause i was angry and yeah i regret saying it, i felt so bad and cried a lot, but i love my parents no matter what.

      @sagar8534@sagar85342 жыл бұрын
    • keyla San Iwu it’s

      @lexihunnel4024@lexihunnel4024 Жыл бұрын
  • But!!! They say don't argue , when THEY start it! If we don't reply , they say oh you got no answers , but if we reply, we get DON'T ARGUE!!! Always stuck in this situation ... 😑😑😑😑

    @18football18@18football183 жыл бұрын
  • School - a place of study, bringing friends, enemies, falling in love, betrayal and sometimes, being killed by major students.

    @accountdisbanded@accountdisbanded3 жыл бұрын
  • Don’t ever get mad at your parents for signing you up for classes, because they feel you need to pick up a passion and don’t want you naively letting others decide for you

    @aduvenku7779@aduvenku77794 жыл бұрын
    • they dont want other people making deicsions for you, yet they'll do it themselves

      @lachellanutella3867@lachellanutella38672 жыл бұрын
    • As if they're allowed to decide our passions

      @lidafcev8971@lidafcev89712 жыл бұрын
  • Hey BrightSide, do you need a video editor in your team?

    @SideNote233@SideNote2335 жыл бұрын
    • SideNote their editing is cool

      @vincinnum798@vincinnum7985 жыл бұрын
    • hey side note

      @animationinsider3384@animationinsider33845 жыл бұрын
    • SideNote n

      @jiyaganatra4519@jiyaganatra45195 жыл бұрын
    • Ee

      @jiyaganatra4519@jiyaganatra45195 жыл бұрын
    • SideNote they do

      @JonesDaMan@JonesDaMan5 жыл бұрын
  • Me: i am bored... Mom: come help me with dishes. Me: ...

    @vaishuuu7530@vaishuuu75302 жыл бұрын
  • Who hade a fight with their parents watching this ;(

    @evilestwolf7489@evilestwolf74894 жыл бұрын
    • SAMEEE

      @honeyluv1169@honeyluv11693 жыл бұрын
  • Bright side is cool cause all the good and bad stuffs its telling that be carefully and take care your body even its hard

    @pearlalvarez4524@pearlalvarez45245 жыл бұрын
  • Actually, some of this word are want introvert say to their parents but still keep it in their hearts. Because of their love to their parents

    @kitdoesnothing@kitdoesnothing4 жыл бұрын
    • True

      @SHiNON_26@SHiNON_263 жыл бұрын
  • Notice how every picture had people that were not black accept for like 3. Our parents don't play that. 😂

    @Ariaraee@Ariaraee5 жыл бұрын
    • I see me and you share the same pain

      @amvcity6076@amvcity60764 жыл бұрын
    • Just saying, I don't think they were trying to be racial.

      @justafriedegg24601@justafriedegg246014 жыл бұрын
  • For anyone on here who thinks that their parents are just a silly burden, as long as they have stuck it out and raised you right...later on down the road when they are gone you would give ANYTHING for one more moment with either of them. They really will do anything they possibly can for you even if you don’t understand how it is helpful sometimes it’s a lesson in disguise. You don’t get that new iPhone? Maybe they are teaching you responsibility and showing you bills come before fun. Please PLEASE spend time out of your life to say thank you for raising me. Because as a parent that is literally all we want to hear. Just a little bit of appreciation for feeding you, changing you, loving you and protecting you. Just say thank you.

    @Oblivious2488@Oblivious24885 жыл бұрын
  • I say all of these 😂 Like if you agree!

    @jadenlee7892@jadenlee78925 жыл бұрын
    • No

      @summer7348@summer73484 жыл бұрын
    • No I wish I did

      @wht_editz828@wht_editz8284 жыл бұрын
    • 😂 😂 I bet someone do lol

      @daliasaleh1575@daliasaleh15754 жыл бұрын
    • @Techno Sponge gggg

      @peacea4508@peacea45084 жыл бұрын
  • ''It's all your fault'' I used to use this one 😢😟😥 Actually I'm very disappointed with my height I'm dwarf enough because of the second issue of my parents which was in a short time later

    @kumarchade3715@kumarchade37155 жыл бұрын
  • 4:06 im crying here cuz i feel like no one loves me.......they r just happy if i do the household chores....

    @louisefranchesca1997@louisefranchesca19973 жыл бұрын
  • To anyone saying that your parents dont love or care for you, its not that they dont care, its because they're probably going through rough times and find it hard to give you the attention which you deserve. At least, you have a roof above your head right? Your parents are working hard to try and give you the life that you desire. At times, things can get hard and stressful, that either the child or the parent or even both lose sight of whats important...so remember this. Your parents love you, they get strict to try and discipline you, because they want you to become a strong and independent person in the future...and if ever you feel tht they dont love you, think about the roof and walls around and above you

    @meannetan623@meannetan6232 жыл бұрын
  • me: I need something to ocyuopy myself in : mom ...WHAT!! My brother: I got something stick your head in a cocktalle bird : Me ...NO!!

    @entity_4154@entity_41544 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you very much! I miss the other Bright Side presenter though.

    @chaotichoneybee2871@chaotichoneybee28715 жыл бұрын
    • change your icon

      @animationinsider3384@animationinsider33845 жыл бұрын
    • @@animationinsider3384 why?

      @honeyluv1169@honeyluv11693 жыл бұрын
  • I have asked my mom “ why am I still here “ but then me and my mom had a heart to heart talk and afterwards I felt so much better parents save the day yet again and my dad even tried to make me laugh hope you all have a nice day

    @catiabras5898@catiabras58985 жыл бұрын
  • If I tell my parents I need something to occupy myself with then they'll tell me to go and study which I don't wanna do :(

    @kriti6169@kriti61695 жыл бұрын
    • Well be thoughtful of your decision

      @scp-0467@scp-04673 жыл бұрын
  • I say all of this to my parents now today I understand how parents feel sometimes when children are not listening 😂😂

    @ruthlkangamboyo8158@ruthlkangamboyo81582 жыл бұрын
    • SAD

      @funtailedfoxes@funtailedfoxes Жыл бұрын
  • Mom: stop giving me attitude! Me: I'm not Mom: see what I mean stop that! When my mom dosnt even realized she's the one raising her voice and she's the one that triggered me and blames everything on me I'm 12 and turning thirteen soon they act like I don't have my own issues

    @AngelCake123@AngelCake1234 жыл бұрын
    • Tell your mom that u love her. And sometimes have conversations with her tell your parents about your problems and then you can ask about her problems too, then u can give her advice, love your mom she loves u.

      @sagar8534@sagar85342 жыл бұрын
  • Never tell them that you are hurt or depressed because they are gonna just laugh or worsen the things.

    @namelesssoul104@namelesssoul1043 жыл бұрын
  • Alternative title: “how to turn 3 words into an English essay”

    @chornicorn@chornicorn3 жыл бұрын
    • Underrated comment

      @cherrydeer812@cherrydeer8123 жыл бұрын
  • 190 likes and 50 views wow KZhead is correct 😂

    @gameslix8799@gameslix87995 жыл бұрын
  • And you say 99 percent of this already. And now you feel guilty 😢

    @aditisolanki8247@aditisolanki82475 жыл бұрын
    • I would never consider running away from home I consider myself lucky to have my mom and I love my life I would never wish death upon my mom I would never even consider killing myself I can’t believe people say that I hate you it’s mostly used for sarcastic jokes in my family I would never scream at my mom I hate you because she means a lot to me

      @angeegee-gcabellogrande4639@angeegee-gcabellogrande46395 жыл бұрын
  • Many of these happened with me but 2 cases i never come yet, but its true and I'm going to learn from this. Thank you for these lessons. Helpful to me and again I'm thankful to you.

    @samtab8892@samtab88925 жыл бұрын
  • My mom used to ignore me crying as a baby in my crib from time to time when I needed food. Lead to a lot of physical agression after I saw agression as a child by my family. My parents destroyed me in more ways than one. My dad destroyed my life, too. My mom tells me she loves me then gets mad at me for doing some thing she doesn't like to hear or have me do to live my life.

    @cooldude8912@cooldude89123 жыл бұрын
  • 1 of them are i subscribed bright side!!!

    @scienceinfinity7788@scienceinfinity77885 жыл бұрын
    • science infinity!!! "Are I" does that sound correct? "One of them is like me" is the correct way to pronounce that.

      @touplesoup@touplesoup5 жыл бұрын
    • llama living life it has deep meaning!!!

      @scienceinfinity7788@scienceinfinity77885 жыл бұрын
    • science infinity!!! 😂

      @CreativeAnshi@CreativeAnshi5 жыл бұрын
    • llama living life He is trying to say - One of them are : I subscribed bright side.

      @CreativeAnshi@CreativeAnshi5 жыл бұрын
    • Me trying to understand this conversation: Uh so now its, "One of them is like me subscribed to Bright Side!" Also, some people are too worried about grammar, yet many people use: Ur u r lol omg

      @mahinoriart@mahinoriart5 жыл бұрын
  • My parents:Wait until your 18 Me:🤬 My parents:I'm taking away your phone Me inside:😭 Me outside:🤣try me Real storie,pray for me and my bad decisions,but taking away my phone is to far to far I say!!😤

    @cognitivepanda158@cognitivepanda1583 жыл бұрын
    • And you are tedting now

      @oneosix106decena@oneosix106decena3 жыл бұрын
  • I can agree with these but when you tell what you should *really* do. It’s useless, my parents aren’t going to help me that easily

    @former.@former.5 жыл бұрын
  • I love myself. Never ever had I done any of them and I influence every person on earth to respect our beloved elders .

    @thedailyhack-up@thedailyhack-up Жыл бұрын
  • Not even once in my 18 years of life have I said any of the last 11 things mentioned in here to my parents.

    @rose-iu5ij@rose-iu5ij5 жыл бұрын
  • Me: I wanna run away Mom: Ok, see you tomorrow

    @kaseylirious2612@kaseylirious26124 жыл бұрын
    • I've ran away 4 times don't do it

      @kliyahslife8165@kliyahslife81654 жыл бұрын
  • Whenever I ask for something my dad he just tells me is it really necessary.

    @j0e175@j0e1755 жыл бұрын
  • *I have a problem!* *When I have nothing to do I always say "Mom I'm bored!* She says "You have a sister play with her" AND IT ALWAYS WORKS!!!

    @seamonec1@seamonec15 жыл бұрын
  • I don't feel guilty, I feel *SUPER* guilty when I hear this (and at some of these I wanted to punch something)

    @GenesisDoesGacha@GenesisDoesGacha5 жыл бұрын
  • So true!!!

    @kookie4539@kookie45395 жыл бұрын
    • ok ,

      @animationinsider3384@animationinsider33845 жыл бұрын
    • I love you erica

      @mrright5166@mrright51665 жыл бұрын
    • hey , it is not dating side

      @animationinsider3384@animationinsider33845 жыл бұрын
    • Lol

      @voidicality5388@voidicality53885 жыл бұрын
  • Brightside:im so bored Me:i just said that to ma parents while watching dis vid

    @mennatullahsamir6042@mennatullahsamir60424 жыл бұрын
  • When I say I am bored or I need your help cuz I don’t know what to occupy with they just tell me GO AND STUDY THAT WILL HELP U TO GET OCCUPIED

    @kolinobi@kolinobi3 жыл бұрын
  • My dad forgot about me and what should i do tell them that i never telled them that why should i do it now

    @bigyesman2496@bigyesman24965 жыл бұрын
    • Niko Vickovic are u maybe Serbian Croatian or Bosnian? Just becouse the surname Sorry for bothering if u aren't

      @kerimkodzaga2463@kerimkodzaga24635 жыл бұрын
    • Radioactive Gaming how do u know it and im croatian

      @bigyesman2496@bigyesman24965 жыл бұрын
    • Ok

      @bigyesman2496@bigyesman24965 жыл бұрын
    • PancakeVortex Plays wut

      @bigyesman2496@bigyesman24965 жыл бұрын
  • Just subscribed!!! ❤️❤️❤️👌👍👍👍

    @laiba2275@laiba22755 жыл бұрын
  • After running through the comment section a feeling of relieve come to me as I was bombarded with amazing relationships between son/daughters and their parents and so I felt as I'm the odd bad person

    @hussnagaysar6339@hussnagaysar63395 жыл бұрын
  • Bright Side be like: If someone blinks RUN AND SCREAM FOR HELP IMMEDIATELY

    @geogijoseph1759@geogijoseph17595 жыл бұрын
  • What about brothers and sisters that deserve a chanal to there own

    @theguardian4946@theguardian49465 жыл бұрын
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