Husband Reveals Secret To Wife He Says He Thought He’d "Take To Grave"
A man who says he is in a rocky marriage, says he’s “come clean” to his wife and is not hiding anything from her. But when pressed, he admits there’s something he hasn’t told her.
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The hesitation and the back and forth, his mannerisms, he’s just OFF. The making of a psychopath. You can tell he’s tormented with his lusts and desires. Eww 😷
@@mercymaestre1265 love at first sight.
@Ttv-polar i love dr Phil from the 1st time i saw him on tv
Hi Phil hoping your good from Evangeline union city nj ❤
talk about snitching
“I’m not gunna out your secrets...buUuuuUuut....” -that’s exactly what we’re gunna do. 👏🏻
"but means erase everything I just said, and here's what I really mean" -Dr phil
gonna
@@kai3220 thank you, grammar police-said no one.
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LMFAOO
That was something I was gonna carry to my grave until I decided to tell the producer of the Dr. Phil show
Not to mention the people who filmed the movies.
And people who watched them 🥴
😂
He told them so they can force him to tell her. He can't do it on his own.
I think he's told a LOT of people, especially people at bars.
Should have just not told anyone if he didn't want anyone to know.
That would be too logic for simple folk.
I'm sure the producers made him feel safe to unload. Pun not intended.
It's a heavy burden to carry
LOL right
@@elisemichaels1198 😂 right 💯
His hands literally go ✊🤛🖐🤏👋🖖🤏
ikr its almost a new kind of sign language
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Exactly! That's all I could pay attention to! 🤣🤣🤣
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 I came to the comments to see if anybody was gonna point that out 😂😂😂😂
The person who can't be trusted is Dr. Phil's Producer. LOL😁
😬 😬 🤷🏻♀️ lol
This guy has been on this show before but it was a different story with a different female.
@@mermaidgirl9232 which one?
@@mermaidgirl9232Don't know about this guy but wouldn't surprise me...Same with Jeremy Kyle. Same man,same first name too, it was about a DNA test.Of course it turned out negative.Have in mind these are all SHOWS.The producers can literally call up certain ppl.& ask them if they wanna play a character.Also, some of these shows take editing to a whole new level.All for the views.More views=more time on air=more💲(hows)
@@harryp.633... the bald headed guy.
That's... That's it? He had a glorified Only Fans? I thought he killed someone 😂
ikr😂i thought it was gonna be a huge secret but that’s nothing LMAO
He’s just a gigolo
I thought he was going to say he used to be gay
Wait how did you even find out about this? 😂
@@moonstar2385 it’s not nothing, wtf? I’d break up with my man in a split second if I found out he ever did anything like that. That’s disgusting. I don’t want other women looking at him naked. I’m not sharing.
"I'm not outing you out" procides to out him in television
Eh, in his defense he could've literally just left as Dr. Phil said. He had two options. Tell the truth and stay on the show. Or go home and see what happens.
@@Brachwah and let everyone on tv think of the worst? lol he had no choice..
@@muneeraxx2360 You're right. Dr. Phil handled this situation rather poorly imo. It lacks empathy or any sense of privacy.
@@Brachwah but he’s the one that agreed & chose to attend a tv show… he’s also the dummy that told the producers something he didn’t want anyone to know… like cmon. No one forced him to say that (or do the thing to begin with). Dr Phil understood the wife needed help & was vulnerable to being re-victimized by her husband and his continued lies. This guy made his choice … again & again & again
Proceeds**
When you’re married, you’re a team. Period. There are no separate lives, and no secrets.
I totally disagree. Maybe there’s no secrets but you definitely need separate independent lives. You can be a healthy person on your own, without betrayal
I agree.
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@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 two become one in marriage
@@shadowstarspammy to quote Carter from Halo Reach: "We're a team, that lone wolf stuff stays behind."
Nothing gets a person more curious than saying “there’s a secret that you don’t know and I don’t want to tell you”. Who in the history of people has ever said “okay then, we’ll move on”
I will say 'ok'
@@spec_wasted Me 2. I'm not one of those people who pushes for information UNLESS the secret is being kept by my life partner. Husband and wife should have no secrets
Me, and people hate when I do that 🤣
@@sensimania that’s my point. If your spouse says it, they had better dish up!
Some people would not want to know.
As if Phil isn't a double edge sword. I'm not going to out your secret. Proceeds to throw him under the bus
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Not really. Dr. Phil said he wasn't going to say what the secret was, and he held true to that. Now, had he said "I'm not going to tell your wife you're hiding something" then that would be throwing him under the bus.
AS HE SHOULD
@@Lulu-mj2fi - right. Thats literally what they are all hear for
Not exactly.. the husband agreed & chose to attend a tv show… he’s also the dummy that told the producers something he didn’t want anyone to know… like cmon. No one forced him to say that (or do the thing to begin with). Dr Phil understood the wife needed help & was vulnerable to being re-victimized by her husband and his continued lies. This guy made his choice … again & again & again
In my opinion, if anyone likes to sleep around with multiple people (he or she should know this about themselves) then they DO NOT NEED to get married...ever. Stay single please and avoid hurting someone, avoid lies and covering stuff up. It should be common sense. 🤷💁
Many girls have this same opinion as yours yet they still go for guys that will cheat on them rather than go for someone like me who will forever be faithful to them.
@@gahishgahba2415 No one can tell from the beginning, when they first meet someone, if they will cheat on them or not, but the individual person should know themselves, right? And what they like in a person, right? So just make it clear from the begining what youre looking for. If its just someones privates and not something meaningful, then make it clear from the beginning; is all I'm saying. Imagine all the heartbreak and years of the significant other guessing and suffering that could be saved if they did that. Since you Gahish, are that type of person (which wonderful btw) then just be upfront right when you meet someone.
@@gahishgahba2415 “iM a NiCe GuY”
@@gahishgahba2415 not the nice guy LMFAO
@@gahishgahba2415 that’s because there are some guys who lie and pretend they won’t cheat. We’re trying to figure out a way to scope them out. No one wants to actually be with a cheater knowingly. So stop blaming people who don’t know
He’s a cheater. Went off with random strangers. Stayed out all night. He’s bi and more went on. He wants to get back to work in that industry and didn’t want the wife to know. Just leave. He’s a creep.
EXACTLY!!!
You beat me to it… some kinky stuff was going on
It's always two. She's a terrible wife. He's a terrible husband. ladies always blame the man White knights always blame the man. Men got broad shoulders.
The "bisexual" part alone would have made me hand over divorce papers. That's disgusting lmaoo
@@jayrowe1643 being bi is disgusting?
His hands are writhing with deception
That are crack lol
that’s tweaker hands. Lol
@@ScottCruz Totally...
Just so people don't get the wrong idea, this isn't therapy. A licensed therapist would NEVER break confidentiality about something like this unless he was bringing a dangerous STD into his marriage. Does this issue deserve to be brought to light? Yes I think it does, but a therapist is bound to not reveal these kinds of secrets. They would instead encourage the client to be honest with their partner.
That’s why Dr Phil doesn’t have a license to practice and hasn’t in 15 years
I'm glad he did! I am thankful for Doctor Phill. She needed to know.... It was a waste of time for her not to know everything.
@@TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion It is best that the truth come out.. I just don’t want people to get the wrong idea about therapy.
@@TheSystem.Co9 He doesn’t have a license anymore because there was no point in renewing it when he’s not seeing patients anymore he’s just doing a show you only need a license to see patients but she’s not doing there’s no point in renewing it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t know what he’s doing he definitely does
@@rambojoe2323 Nobody ever said or thought that the Dr. Phil show was therapy lol. I don't know why you feel the need to let everybody in the comments know what therapy is like and 98% of the time therapy doesn't even work.
John Malkovich should play this guy in a Hollywood remake of this scene
Heck yeah! LOL. I knew he reminded me of someone!
Omg yesssss thank you!
that is so true
Hahaha yassssss
He sounds like John Malkovich. And he looks like a bald Jim Carrey
This is like the episode of Friends when they're all like "I don't know do they know do they know we know"
Mary T 😂✔ Phoebe: "They don't know that we know they know we know" (Coincidentally, that episode will be on Nick@Nite tomorrow night, lol.)
@@morganjanelle4282 lmao 🤣😆
I know
I loved that episode!
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When a certified psychologist puts entertainment above his profession
Pretty sure he isn’t certified anymoren
True
Lol he’s not certified and he’s also not a psychologist. It’s a tv show
@@farewelljupiter at least do some research.His qualifications don't disappear because he retired. McGraw graduated in 1975 from Midwestern State University with a B.A. in psychology. He went on to earn an M.A. in experimental psychology in 1976, and a Ph.D
@@khatdragon7694 lol yeah and hasn’t seen an actual patient since then. He’s not a psychologist anymore he’s a tv personality
"it was a long time ago like maybe 2003 but also maybe again this weekend"
🤣🤣🤣 right!
The parents shouldn't even be on that stage. They need to mind their own damn business
On tv?
I can see them being concerned for their daughter but not on stage for sure. Then telling him to pack his bags, way out of line. Maybe that’s why the wife is weak….mama doing the talking….
@@j.103 well if she can’t come to that brilliant deduction herself she needs to have someone speaking sense
lololol im dead
Did you hear that tea sip 😂😂😂
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 yep
Bro AS SOON as I read your comment he made the sound 🤣🤣
Me too😂😂😂😂
Imagine trying to have your cake and eat it too. People just don't seem to realize that a marriage means you and them are one person. I don't understand cheating, if you are not happy in your relationship than you should leave before unnecessarily hurting anyone else.
It annoys me when people want both
Couldn't agree more
But you don't understand cheating? Ppl have been cheating since society started having relationships.
@@dmoney8502 and that doesn’t mean you should cheat
@@strawberrysundae_megan and that's true. But if you start asking questions and why people do things you would be asking questions all day
Tells his girl he never cheated on her and yet also tells her that he made plans on doing some more “adult” videos later that weekend😂 pretty sure you’re cheating bud 😆
Why? Is a stripper cheating on her husband when she works the pole?
Most of the time they know they’re wife is a stripper.
@@haji818721 nah cuz they both know what's going on bruh. His wife had no clue he was doing this, thats cheating 😂😂
@Jamie Strand bruh wtf? 😂😂 wym? 😂 if y'all are into that and its consensual than its fine. For me its still kinda wrong but like at least y'all both know what's happening, so its not cheating. Like technically it is, but cheating implies you do something that your hiding so no one finds out, like when you cheat in a board game. And she didnt know he was going to do an adult film, so he was going to cheat.
@@haji818721 Relationships with strippers or porn actors or whatever, start with them telling their partner what their work is, way before the relationship is official. No porn actor or stripper or whatever hasnt told their partner about their job. It is cheating if your partner doesnt agree to have a relationship with you working on the adult industry, and you still do it and hide it.
Dr Phil outed him because he can see how much help his wife needs. She is so vulnerable and Dr Phil rightly has become her champion. He wants her to dump this low life so he is on a mission to make that happen by shock therapy!
Eh, he mainly outed him because it makes good TV
Oh god. You stink of pretentiousness, White Knight Eric Hay. Time to get off your high horse! “She is so vulnerable and Dr Phil rightly has become her champion” I was almost sick in my mouth, at such Narcissism.
Do you happen to study psychology by any chance Eric? You seem like the type to brownnose themselves that hard.
Enjoy your life of minimal social interaction, and constant bullying, you holier-than-thou W⚓️
Ehhhh that’s not the therapists job tho
The first few minutes I thought he was going to admit he was gay all along
Me 2!!
I think that’s still part of it..maybe they were gay porn films.
Or trans. I was expecting that
def got that vibe when he said he was hanging out with a couple and went to an after hours club with them.
😂😂😂
Why would he tell the producer he obviously wanted to get caught otherwise keep we could’ve kept his mouth shut really easily
Maybe he felt like in order to admit to it, he had to be backed into a corner, not that that’s an excuse for lying. He clearly needs help.
if my relationship had to go to the Dr Phil stage, I'd divorce my partner.
This guy is just selfish. Why would you keep that sort of thing hidden from your wife? He robbed her of choice!
Everyone has secrets, and yes this is a big one though could be he was very ashamed of his past and didn't want to hurt her with it, I agree he should have been a bit more honest though I don't know if she had to know everything. It doesn't seem like a very trusting relationship in any case, I think both he and the wife are flawed. Also it could be he wasn't thinking about your comment about robbing her of choice when he decided not to tell her. He doesn't seem like a very critical thinker in any case.
Him being in adult films is not the problem at all it’s the fact he tried to do it again while currently married
Girl just leave him…. It’s not even worth it…
*I thought he was going to admit his secret crack addiction because he was uncontrollably fidgeting like he needed another hit!*
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He does have a crack addiction.
I thought he was jack the ripper
Me too! I thought it was a drug addiction as well
Hes on something
Yeah, those hand movements are sus
Looks like a coke comedown
lol yeah this dude is def coked out
I would’ve laughed if he said I was the one who ate the last pudding cup and didn’t put it on the grocery list
I love how they unlocked this videos comment section. I came back just for that!
My sympathies to the police interviewer if this guy ever gets arrested.
We need proof he did these movies. Let’s roll the film! 🍿
you can tell he’s putting on an act, look at his face, he’s so animated, thats not natural behavior and you can see it a mile away
So I'm confused. Is he shooting PRN next week or leaving her
He figured as long as they were coming out there he might as well put his chance at restoring his marriage aside to sell his body for pocket change. That's what happened.
I’m trying to figure out his name. I want to know if they stayed together
@@GirlycarDawn 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“I want so bad to be honest with you, but I feel like with my track record, if I am, you’ll see me as not being honest with you. If that makes any sense whatsoever.”
Language of a narcissistic. All he cares about is his own self. Trying to send them on a guilt trip for a completely normal response.
"by being honest with you i'll show that up until now i wasnt being honest and you'll stop trusting me" Also note how he said he wanted to know what dr. Phil knew before going ahead and admitting it. He was only ready to tell what Dr. Phil already knew... he had no intention of coming clean on his own.
Nobody's gonna know... they're gonna know...how would they know
This is proof positive that just because you're wearing a suit, it doesn't make you any less of a dirtbag.
The people defending a compulsive liar like this is normal behaviour speaks volumes to their personality. This "man" for want of a better word couldn't be honest if he's life depended on it. When dr phil confronted him on it and gave him an ultimatium mimicked a child that was caught in the act on a continual basis yet couldn't own up to it with undeniable evidence, it is scary af to a personal that exhibits even close to normal behaviour and doesn't thrive off lying, cheating, bs.
The movie was called 'Doing John Malkovitch.'
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Haha. I was trying to figure out the name of that movie! So spot on !!
3:36 "thats not your decision thats his" lmao well played phily, well played after you threw him under the bus 🤣
lol I would’ve shock the world and said “Well…LETS DO IT TOGETHER!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That left hand was giving me vertigo! That wasn't that big of a deal and she still went overboard. Girl, that's why he was going to take to his grave.
“And listen 👋 you don’t got to tell her” 🤣🤣
Guy's a lizard. She fixed his messes. They deserve each other.
“I’m not going to say the secret but you have one”……….so manipulative and obviously dramatized for tv.
Damn imagine marrying a liar like that! That’s a nightmare!
I'm sure A LOT of ppl are...I'm sure A LOT of couples have secrets they want to take to the grave...this man just got caught or gave himself up rather
"I wanna know what he knows that I don't" Well buddy that's not why we're here!
credits to the man for sharing this
1:57 total FRIENDS moment 😂
Bro when he asked if he had anything that she couldn't know his face was priceless like faauckkkkk
“Pack your bags, get out & move on!” NOTED 📝
I know some people are joking when they Dr. Phil put him on the spot about his secret. But it would be bad in my opinion for him not to confront the idiot!! If he’s sneaking around her back cheating on her, lying to her, she needs to know so she can move on with her life!! The guy is a pathological liar, she’d be crazy to stay with him!!
don't blame him if he is cheating on the way she treats him
The fact that he wanted to cheat on her shows he doesn’t love her. I’d divorce him if I were her
The urge to cheat has nothing to do with love. Its actually the 'control' you have that has everything to do with love. You do not cheat because you do not want to hurt your loved one, not because you do not feel the temptation
@@melmel7011 If you have the urge or thought of cheating, its time to move on. No excuses
@@lucianaromulus1408 Life its not like that. I'm not saying cheating is ouk but temptations do come. I'm just wondering how old you are to not know this
@@melmel7011 no temptations do NOT come. Only immoral people say that. If you're easily swayed stay single, you don't deserve commitment.
@@melmel7011 I'd say 31 is a good age , including going through a marriage ...long distance relationships, etc to know this 🤣 only the immoral excuse such behavior.
That was shocking he really wasn't given a choice.
I haven’t laughed this hard in a long time ☠️☠️💀💀
Out till 5A and on a TV show?!? He’s a beast.
Facts 😆😆😆😆 he is nearly hanging in there
Ummm. He’s disgusting 🤢🤮.
Weirdo for sure
Your mans been hiding his gangsta..
Why is it bad that he did porn?
@@crim6958 that's bad but what's mainly bad is that he was planning on cheating on her and doing it again, if you watch the video carefully he explains that.
Man that secret wasn’t even that bad😂
I love how dr. Phil says I’m going to out you but he literally outs him 😂😂
Everyone has secrets he just said what he was actually trying to hide he was honest about his secret and all of us commenters here we have secrets like that too... We are no Angels
Am I the only one that thought he was gonna ask her to be in one? She said “you’re sick” I thought “he didn’t even ask you to be in it!!” But seriously that’s horrible.
Bless her heart.
Give this man a oscar for most suspicious acting
lesson here is dont tell Dr Phils associate producer any secrets
Love this guy 👑
Hat off to the guy for getting it off his chest and being honest. Atleast now he can be at ease and the moving forward decision is hers. He hasn't done anything illegal. He's trying to make ends meet. most men would have lied about something like that until their dying days. So respect
If your going do something you at least have to Have the balls to face your imperfect self
He reminds me of John malkovich Even his voice
That’s a great John Malkovich impersonator.
I see it.
Way he moves his hands tells everything
I didn't recognize his face but something rang a bell!!!!.
That’s because he wouldn’t look at you
Candy If he was doing _porn,_ they probably never showed _his face_ much _anyways._ (lol)
"No one knows that about me", so I decided I'd tell a TV producer!"
I can think of worse things people have done..
HE HAV'TO SAY IT TO HIS WIFE HE'S NOT MARRIED WITH YOU LADY "PACK YOUR THINGS AND GO"
This man that called him self a doctor doesn’t know how to keep a secret between two people he is a snitch and a master manipulate wow 😮
Hunny this is a tv show he makes milkiin from this. This is not a therapy session its a show
"I want to know what he (Dr. Phil)knows that I don't know ."- Husband with a secret.
My thing is who tf are these other people telling him what he needs to do.
Aww, C'mon, man! The dude's just trying to make more money!
That wasn't Dr Phil's right to open up this man secret.
Yeah it is
Gotta respect the hustle.
Thought he was gonna say he's gay 😂
Why do the parents think they have a right to know?
No one knows that except all the people that saw his video probably on PH 😂
Why in ph
Smart one.
"i want to know what you think you know that i don't know..." "i want to know what he knows that he's not sharing that we don't know..." "i'm wanting to know what he knows that we don't know" jesus, can the level of confusing idiocy descend any less ?
Dear Dr.Phil&Viewers! As a Japanese noticer,I admire Dr.Phil squeezed the insight&honesty culture which my country would be enlightened but didn't grasp it in the United States! Dr.Phil,thank you for exampling that!
And THIS is why the show has to be listed as “entertainment”! Dr. Phil is a hack!
Dude wanted to multitask with his secret while on a trip to Dr. Phil to talk about that secret.
His hands 🤚🏽 ✌️🤚🏽✌️🙏🤚🏽✌️🙏🙏✌️🤚🏽
That’s not all. You can tell that he is withholding even more information. His wife needs to leave him.
Can see John Malkovich playing the husband in the Broadway play.
Dr. Phil put John Malkovich in makeup and gave him a quick backstory and thought we wouldn’t notice, huh?
The issue is not doing porn. The issue is letting your partner know about it early on. Not everyone is gonna be okay with it, and that’s okay. Gender not relevant.
Gender is relevant in my opinion. Men respond to being cheating on worse than women. Men don’t seek the same social support as women after a stressful situation.
Right on!!!
Exactly!
Damn that producer went around telling _everybody_ hahaha
So Dr. Phil betrayed his trust on national tv. That’s what I heard.
Yep. Just witnessed pure manipulation for the sake of entertainment. Real love is love, and forgiveness is part of that. Everyone has little dark secrets, but that's not what makes the person we become, and the qualities we endure. I really felt for this guy, being put in this position.
phil really said 💁🏼🥃
Ummmm pretty sure if u announce someone has a secret, you've broke a confidence even if u don't reveal the content of the secret. Phil.
"I wanted to take to my grave the fact that I secretly made porn for the entire internet to not see." Top tier logic.