Click friedrik.co/2752b6 and get yourself the amazing Carl Friedrik Carry-on X! Thank you Carl Friedrik for sponsoring today's video!
What I'm wearing in this video:
Suit Supply suit (custom) - go.shopmy.us/p-4955605
Brooks Brothers shirt - go.shopmy.us/p-4799614
Brooks Brothers tie - go.shopmy.us/p-4690873
Tie Bar pocket square - go.shopmy.us/p-4843041
I earn a small commission on products bought using the above links, which helps support the channel at no extra cost to you.
www.gent-z.com/
Follow Gent Z on socials:
Instagram: / james.gentz
TikTok: / gent.z.style
Playlist of music used in my videos - open.spotify.com/playlist/0xy...
0:00 Intro
0:54 Preparation
2:10 Style
6:37 Gentlemanly behavior
7:37 Enjoy
8:02 Conclusion
Click friedrik.co/2752b6 and get yourself the amazing Carl Friedrik Carry-on X! Thank you Carl Friedrik for sponsoring today's video!
What is the luggage brand 2:49
Link does not appear to be working...
Always wear a blazer. If you have problems or issues, are wearing a blazer, and act pleasant, you will be cared for and received the best possible outcome. Sad to say, but it’s reality.
Totally agree with leather shoes. Staff will at least pay attention and give you a hearing. My only disagreement is about helping anyone with luggage in and out of the overhead. I will let women and elderly go first, answer questions, pull big bags off the carousel, etc. I will not be an enabler for more carry on luggage. If you cannot put it in the overhead, check it! Once I retired, I always check my luggage and have a small bag that fits under the seat. I never use overhead space. The process works fine. If you want to carry on a big rolling bag, whether you are Emma Roberts or Chris Hemsworth, Vaya con Dios. You are on your own. FYI, note that flight attendants never assist anyone with a bag. They either point to an empty space in the overhead or point to the front where you can check your bag.
@@michaelblazin4093 totally agree. pack as if no one will help you.
Absolutely, a dark blue blazer, pinpoint oxford button down shirt (white or blue)/ fine gauge polo in a bright color, light/dark grey or sand pants (dress chinos pressed) and loafers / driving mocs are my traveling uniform even for business. I have regularly received enhanced customer service at airports. Recently I was traveling internationally in the above wardrobe with the addition of sunglasses which I had to wear due to a recent eye exam. I am a frequent air traveler (business class). From check-in to boarding I was treated like royalty. My seating was upgraded to first without using my points. I will make one additional suggestion wear a good quality cologne. My nieces bought me a bottle of a very expensive men's cologne for my birthday. I wanted to reserve wearing it for special occasions but since this was a very important business flight I chose to wear it. While checking in at my gate a two attractive women were right beside me and I asked the gate attendant to let them check in first. One commented to the gate attendant; "if gentlemen like that fly your airline "ll become a frequent flier." After boarding one of the flight attendants approached me and said "Pardon me sir may I ask you a personal question?" With a cautious quizzical look I nodded. The flight attendant continued; "May I ask what is the cologne you are wearing". My first thought was my fragrance was causing an allergic reaction so my reply was "Is there a problem?," The flight attendant smiled and said "No, but several other passengers have mentioned how clean and fresh the cabin smells and want to know what we use."
@@p9a9r21 No situation gets worse by dressing one level up. Make it your standard.
@@p9a9r21I’m interested in what Cologne you were wearing
While we should always strive to be gentlemen,without any expectation of reward,or even reciprocity,the people in the aviation industry will truly take good care of you,if you present yourself well.
Gent, thank you for including a clip of Roger Moore's cream coloured suit from Moonraker. Best suit of the franchise.
💯 🎯.
Wonderful scene and suit
I'd love if you could do a video on the internal dialogue/mindset of a gentleman? So many people nowadays - including myself sometimes - get carried away with the polarisation online or in an inflamed environment situation, but I see some men who don't seem to get involved or remain calm regardless of the influence that surrounds them which is really impressive. I'm curious to know how they remain grounded. Love your channel ❤ ❤
That’s a great suggestion. Thank you. Often, there is a difference between internal dialogue and what we say to others, and controlling that difference is important for being a gentleman.
i also find a blazer super convenient. try accessing your trouser pockets while in your plane seat. also: skip the braces/suspenders. I've been asked to take them off a few times
I agree with both points
Im gonna travel to London and Madrid , pretty excited because I’m meeting a person I looked forward to seeing long time ago
Have a great trip :)
Another brilliant video, James. The best way to start or end a vacation trip is to be kind and courteous. After all, TSA agents can simply make your life miserable. Don't be that type of person. Respect goes a long way.
Great advice, Richard. Thanks for your comment
Today you earned my subscription, I saw the video when you were used to be a Gothic dresser and how you turned it around completely. That was actually amazing because it shows that if you really wanna make a changed, it can be a dramatic change and I agreed with every point that you made on how people treat you how they view you and now look at you you dress amazing.
Thank you, sir. Welcome to the channel
@@Gent.Z as a gentleman would say. My pleasure!
Way Craig got off jet in Bahamas on his 007 is a perfect casual yet elegant outfit for a travel I always like to make a habit thank pilot & flight crew for a good experience and their service
Good advice. My wife and I are going to Princeton New Jersey in July for a wedding. While we're there, we're also going to travel over to New York for a day to enjoy some shopping, food, and drinks. We're really looking forward to it.
Hope you guys have a great time
Princeton is lovely. You're going to have a great time.
I always wear a sports jacket or suit when travelling. Like you, I find the pockets invaluable. And if you are on business and thus need a suit, it will wear better on you than jammed into a suitcase. While waiting in line at security, I fill the jacket pockets with my watch, coins and any other metallic accessories, then lay my jacket in the bin while going through the metal detector. And yes, I believe it helps to be dressed decently when dealing with any airport problems and when checking into your hotel. The only downside is all the porters and taxi vultures who flock around, thinking you are a plump mark. But I just brush by them and go my own way, so it's not a big deal. For examples of how to travel light and with style, watch George Clooney in "Up in the Air" and William Hurt in "The Accidental Tourist".
Excellent movie recommendations. 👍 👍
A list of clothing that can be put in a carry on bag, and made of materials that do not crease badly, would be a interesting video. Maybe three videos,for following locations. Tropical. Winter. Mediterranean.
Good suggestion, thank you. Packing a carry on case is an art indeed
Your travelling recommendations are so helpful! I remember our charming father herding our large family through the airports of Miami and New York City, always making sure that he had our tickets passports ready. Meanwhile, our mother made sure we were all dressed and polished, looking our Sunday best! Those were days when the airline stewardesses were like glamorous fashion models.The pilots and co-pilots were equally glamorous and handsome! Travelling by plane was an exciting experience in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s!
It’s a tired point I’ve shared but it came to mind again, and that’s the point of being slightly annoyed that a majority of people assume that any dress clothes by default are stuffy and uncomfortable. Because of this misconception (stemmed from people buying ill-fitting clothes with ill suited fabrics), people assume it’s better to travel in shorts or pajamas. For me, I do find my formal menswear attire comfortable. More so than the “comfortable” clothes people wear.
I am a gen Z mom, but I love that you are doing this to show how cool it is to be a stylish gentleman. The gen Z women appreciate it too, I am sure.
Going to Hawaii next week, first time flying, this was what I needed and at no better time
Glad to be of help, have a great flight
I travel very infrequently. However, when I do travel, I will bring a weekender, in either leather or canvas, that carries all my essentials and a change of clothes with me on the aircraft. I have had my luggage lost too many times. Amazing video like always! Keep up the great work!
As always, great advice! Greatly appreciated
Thank you for your video series. I am 54 now. When I was in my early 20s I aimed to be a Gentleman. Over the years I have let the outer standards slip. (But not the inner attitudes of the Gentleman. I still have those, and in a more mature form.) These videos are a wake up call to smarten up and re-invigorate the externals of being a Gentleman as I slip into my silver fox years.
Safe travels! Getting there early is sage advice, the last thing you want to be is rushed. Give yourself time to have a drink or a coffee before boarding and just relax. I recommend wearing socks and reminding everyone you're with to do the same; the shoes are probably coming off when you go through security and the floors are filthy. Also, I seem to get sick every time I fly so, not sure if it helps or not but take extra Vitamin C on the days leading up to your journey and while on the trip.
I used to fly in my worst worn out clothes and then I'd donate all that so I didn't have to carry it back home until I met executive people in a small city who became great clients of mine. Dress for success!
What did you fly back in?
@@danelisslow3269New clothes! That was a good one!
I often pack my extra charity clothes to donate to worthy known recipients. I don't trust the "donated" used clothing mafia which actually sells and profits from "charity donated clothing."
@@danelisslow3269boxers
II usually put all my metallic items in my carry-on bag and my belt buckle is easily removable and put back on (an Ansen belt).
Travel is much more enjoyable when you have the means for something other than economy. Treated myself to Air France business class recently and if I had taken any nice clothes or bag, that would have been the only time wearing it.. in economy it’s not worth dressing up imo, just be comfortable as you can.
You have amazing grasp of sense, as to how people should behave at all times. I've learned a great deal sinse I joined your podcast.
Heading to NY for thanks giving.. great tips thank you
Good content. Very useful. Thank you James.
Thanks Sam
I'll be traveling from the US to London and Lisbon next month. I always bring a physical book with me while traveling. Don't just scroll on your phone like you would if you were at home.
Currently reading "Ian Fleming:The Complete Man". It's excellent. Especially if you are a Bond fan.
Yeah. My BA seat power outlet had no power and I couldn't power my phone. I always bring a Reader's Digest. Do try to use the BA airport lounges after First Wing at Heathrow. It's worth it.
was in london last year, customs is a joke at heathrow. also if you are departing from there to US, you must take out ALL toiletries from carry on, no matter the size.
I’m travelling to the South of France for two weeks this summer - I will certainly take your advice on travelling in style. No more trackies and t-shirts on the plane.
Classy green banker lamp behind you. Timeless
Excellent video. And even better timing. I'm traveling soon and am in need of a new carry-on. Buying right now!
Oh, I forgot to mention where I'm going. Six weeks in Rome (broken up by four days in Paris), followed by ten days in Milan, then ten more in the Netherlands.
I recently traveled by air wearing a suit, shined cap toe shoes, fedora and overcoat. Although I was in a wheel chair I was treated extremely well. Staff were kind and very accommodating. I may do this again next time.
I was born in the era where travelling with a plane was a happening. An event. Class, respect and manners were trendy, unlike today. Sure, you can have these times by taking 1 class. But thats too much. Good advice and trolling with the commercial. Kudos to that. What about my cognac backpack made of Italian lesther? Is that a no go as a gent? I guess you look like a school boy, but I love it. I have a messenger bag thiugh made of brown leather.
traveling today to meet my girlfriends parents for the first time, so gonna have to be on my game
Good luck!
The best guidance here is to be kind. Even to people who are not. It makes a huge difference to your own experience, people usually response very well, and in turn makes your own experience even better.
Your background makes me wonder what you think about architecture and the influence of Bauhaus to it. I personally have to say that I consider the architectural designs implemented in the western cultures before the Bauhaus are theto be the beautiful ones which cared about beauty, style and representation. Those are the buildings that often stand to this day and make our cities gorgeous. Especially as a german I have to say that I can not be proud of the Bauhaus part of my countrys history. But I am always open to other opinions and interested in hearing other side, if there are some.
good advice, good attitude!
Thank you
Please keep an eye ( or a handcuff!) on your luggage after security. Even when buying a snack or essential duty free. I speak from experience.
I did a Carnival (yes, low-brow Walmart of the Seas Carnival) with a dozen neckties 👔. Probably the only Carnival passenger ever to do so. Tux 3 nights. Double breasted suit 8 nights. No jacket 1 night. Tie every evening, and for one matinee stage performance. Double breasted embarking and debarking. One large bag for suits. One medium bag for hygiene, liquids, etc. One personal bag for laptop, prescriptions, and extra change of clothes. Hard-sided checked bags. Bag handlers prefer high-quality wheels. I always get respect from every and all client-facing staff. I also did MSC cruise. That fashionable Italian office crew adored my fine suit.. When I visit my jeans and tee-shirt family, I always tell them that I have to change into "Airport clothes" on finishing my visit. Suit coat pockets are perfectly functional for passports/tickets.
I like traveling in a suit. First: it‘s Handy to have pockets, second security and customs will not bother you if look like a business traveler.
The worst way of starting a journey, as you said, is being late to the airport. I once had a business trip to Oslo and were (I thought) on time at the airport. However, after spending two hours in the security queue had to run for the gate. Arrived to Oslo sweaty and already tired. Took all day to wind down.
great video! I will definitely take your advice!
Great video. I am passionate about traveling, and could not agree with you more about being a gentleman especially with staff, crew, etc. I've been bumped to first class a handful of times in part because I dressed well, and in part because I turned on the charm.
This is good stuff! I’m flying to Canada from the US in a couple of weeks to meet a girl, and I’m very excited for it. I’ll be wearing a blazer, I’m thinking linen or at least a white one, and possibly navy pants. Unclear on shoes though, as I’ll be doing some hiking while I’m abroad. Maybe Chelseas?
I really like the new Halfday bag in navy that I purchased. It is good looking and functional.
Most importantly, get something warm: you don’t want to be stylish but cold.
I’m conflicted about the suggestion not to travel with a backpack. I realize they are usually not as stylish as a good quality roller bag. But in my experience having traveled many times over many years, mostly on international flights, I find a backpack to be more convenient than a roller bag. For example, on crowded flights, some airlines will force you to check your roller bag but allow to keep your backpack; a backpack leaves your hands free and is easier to move quickly with; and if space is limited on the plane, a backpack will compress into spaces that a rigid roller bag will not. I prefer Goruck backpacks, which open flat, have a minimalist aesthetic, and are solidly built. The more stylish models are made with waxed canvas and leather. They also cost more than many roller bags. Anyway, I know I’m not at my most stylish traveling with a backpack, but it’s far more convenient in my opinion.
I recommend one with a clean design or something that can switch between a handbag to a backpack, like a hybrid messenger bag and backpack combo.
This is definitely helpful as I’ll be travelling with my gf for a wedding/vacation
Sadly, the golden age of flying is long gone. I always wear a blazer or tweed jacket when I travel. I find chukka boots - leather in winter and suede in summer, strikes the perfect balance of style and convenience.
It may be gone, but we can do our best to recreate it. Chukka boots are a nice choice
You can find it in 1. Class.
Carl Fridiek...yeah.😊
When a friend and I went to Las Vegas for the Formula 1 race we realized that a round trip ticket upgraded to JSX charter jet was less than $200 more than a commercial flight from SFO. The experience was vastly more enjoyable. Small airport, a nice lounge to relax and get coffee. We were allowed to bring anything on the plane essentially as we brought a couple bottles of Champagne for our host for the weekend. Look into it if it’s an option. Could not recommend it higher!
Thanks for your useful video ! About travels, what do you think about sling bag ? I struggle to find some that look elegant and stylish, but I must admit they seem incredibly useful to carry stuff without having pockets full of stuff..
4:23 I saw that.....
P-boy? 😁
Because of prior experiences, having to help restrain people in a plane, as well as having to evacuate a plane. I always travel in a good pair of lace up boots. Last thing i want to worry about is my footwear falling off. Also i have always used a duffel bag of sorts with a shoulder strap(s). When you have to move quickly a hard case you will most likely be leaving behind, but a soft leather duffle bag no problem. I definitely agree dress to impress. Everyone ends up treating you / listening to you better. Yet as much as possible, balance your outfit to the environment you are going too. You dont want to stick out like a sore thumb. That just makes you a target, for the local thieves. As always enjoyed your video!! Cheers, beers and whiskey 🤠 🥃
This was “wear a blazer when traveling” then full out commercial
Next week I'm going on a vacation to the US, so this video really comes in hand. By the way, gentlemen, which places near Utah I can't miss during my trip?
I’ve never been to Utah myself but I hope some other gents in the comments can help you
I travel multiple time per month for work. Airports are the worst thing. Too much hassle.
Good products.
I'm heading to a big tech conference next week. Thanks for the tips !
In the last few years, as I've become a bit more classy, I've actually traded in air travel for car or train travel at distances that would surprise you. There is no comparison for comfort between rail and modern airlines, and my car itself is comfortable for long distance.
invest in a Rimowa suitcase, stylish, compact, and fits in the overhead!
I always take a travel iron with me when I travel. Lots of hotels I've stayed in have not provided one in the room, and crumpled suitcase clothes (especially lightly coloured holiday clothes) look dreadful. Invest in and take a small travel iron and look your best.
This sunday HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!
I literally booked a ticket to madrid last night and this man made a video on travelling. What a timing
I'll be traveling to Southampton as a production photographer on a cruise ship next month. I've carried 3 lenses and 2 camera bodies, plus accessories in a modified backpack for years, but now that I'm in my 60s it's time to not look like a broke student while not telegraphing that I have commercial equipment and a laptop to others. Any recommendations for a larger leather messenger bag?
I would make the ticketing arrangements for our entire family, and subtract at least hour from the Time of Departure that I would tell them, as they are always at least an hour late for everything. -C
That's a good tip. Telling people to be ready earlier than they need to be is one of the few acceptable forms of lying, in my opinion ;)
Totally agree, NEVER NEVER carry a backpack.
Agree 1000%. If you're out of college and not on a hike in a national park, ditch the backpacks and baseball caps.
Ive done some section hiking where one will cruise in to mountain towns. I stash my pack before town because I can't stand the stigma (because you are often misidentified as transient)
protip - if theres a big storm the day before, get to the airport earlier..those cancelled flights could be backed up. learned this the hardway and was that guy carrying his belt and shoes untied sprinting through the terminal, still made it tho.
Why can't I find the link to the suitcase ?
On the subject of travel, have you considered a video on how to stay at hotel like a gentleman?
Emirates First Class is more elegant and stylish than air travel ever was 😎
I am going to Nasik India tomorrow
Population has almost doubled since the 90s and resources have shrunk. Besides flight tickets were expensive back then so only upper class people travelled frequently
Give Cunard's QM2 a try when doing a Transatlantic crossing 👍
That would be fantastic
@@Gent.Z If time isn't too much of a factor, for the price of a lot of premium economy flight tickets, it's certainly worth bearing in mind
It doesn't matter really. If you are traveling first class then you go in style. But if you are flying economy then who's going to dress up. 👗 Never wear high 👠 heel stiletto shoes , they make it hard when climbing to board the plane.
I disagree a bit about the knapsack, although I ditched my grey Matein that everyone seems to travel with these days for a NordAce - far more stylish and mature, with an over better, more functional design.
I can summarize this video in two words: fly business. And of course, still be nice.
It would help, indeed
I fly economy. Even at 6'3". I can't justify the cost. Although I have bought a cheap upgrade offer.
Yes - jacket in the tray with all your items in the pockets. Saves time and conceals your valuables from light-fingered personnel and chancers on the other side of the scanning machine - safer than detaching a bum bag in some airports. Also, linen suits and pants are your friends on flights - VERY comfortable and no worries about wrinkling. .
At Thiefrow I hide my phone deep within my hand luggage. I don't want a security person to get access to my banking apps and sensitive data. I put a decoy burner phone in the tray because it looks suspicious if you seem to be travelling without a phone these days. If the real phone does get picked up by the scanner person (it never does) you can just apologise and say you forgot it was there, get it out, and show it in person without the risk of it being taken.
Oi! 600 quid + tax is a tad too much lad. Great bag though
🐮🐄🤠 Stress will kill us before anything else so if we can take the stress out of travel for ourselves & others the world 🌎 would be a happier 😊 place. Someone here mentioned loading up on vit C before & after their trip which is something we do but I would carry a few electrolyte packets for good measure because hydration doesn't come from water alone 🧐 & may help with lag & susceptibility to allergens 😘 I would have added traveling with a scarf scented with lavender essential oil but traveling next to a well scented gentleman may just have the same effect 😉😁
Man will choose blazer Child will wear a hoodie or jersey.
How to edge like a gentleman?
If you want a pleasurable flying experience, get into a time machine and go back about 40 years.
Funny how many KZheadrs favour Carl Friedrik... Wheeled bags are inelegant and lacking in style, and so are obviously backpacks. However, for a gentleman, a Globe-Trotter 2-wheeler in a muted colour might be a good compromise that is reasonably stylish. I prefer Holdalls (mine are from Chapman), in leather or canvas, with a matching computer bag for a uniform look. 😊
Flying is not enjoyable. I fly for work a lot, anywhere from a 90' flight to the US to 36 hours of travel to Asia. You're right about a lot of things in this video, including wearing a jacket with pockets to make security easier, having decent luggage, and being kind. But economy seating is not designed to be enjoyable, and certainly is rarely so in my experience. Of course, I don't fly for vacations. If I go anywhere, I drive :)
Always travel on a private jet, so you dont get confronted with the plebes.
Wear a blazer with basketball shorts and socks with crocs...real gentleman style
The only luggage brands I’d like to be seen carrying are: LV, Rimova and Montblanc - not this no name brand! And the root to a happy journey is to fly business class or first class, period. In Economy class that’s where you find those cheap rough people fighting each other as seen on KZhead.
In my opinion, you did not mention one of the most important things - under any circumstance, DO NOT fly Economy Class! Even if you wear the comfiest pajamas outfit, squeezing yourself into your seat and suffering there for the duration of the entire flight will be the struggle... Let's just assume that if the gentleman can afford dressing up in style and wearing high quality items made of natural fibers, be that wool blazer or real leather shoes, then he can afford at least the First Class tickets for the price that is compatible to what he paid for his luggage...
Depends on the journey. A first class flight can add over $3,000 to a transatlantic ticket
This is soooo wrong in so many ways. I've flown ultra long haul economy on all the top ten world airlines for decades. I am not a shill for the airline upgrade game.
Trousers, not pants. You are British man.
No. He's american.
Step 1: fly first class. Done.
Guilty: I wore a pair of crocs on a flight from LAX TO Orlando. Lol i was really comfortable
I’ve heard they’re comfortable. I have never experienced them myself.
I have been following your series and find them refreshing at time when men ubiquitously wear baseball caps and sweatpants in what in days gone by would be considered inappropriate places. However, I do have a concern. I will be traveling with my wife to Key West later this month and if I tried to take over the arrangements and assure her all was well would not go over well. Our relationship is as equals and she has as much to do with the arrangements as I. Chivalry in today's world really should not consider gender. I believe we have evolved from protecting what used to be called the "weaker sex." I get that you mean that a gentleman should strive to make those around him feel comfortable and at ease, but one must be careful about one aims to achieve it.
Wear darker clothes for traveling
Climate change
Lose the stubble. Its like ten years ago.
Obvious stuff on this one. Learned nothing.
Why do you need to be rude? It may be obvious to YOU but not necessarily to everyone else.
Just with this comment, you showed us that you’ve learned nothing from this channel in general.
When did you become the most important person in the world?
@@onceuponatimeinamovie3577 Just giving my honest feedback. Kissing ass is not gentlemanly.
@@maniwyatt6559 💯 🎯.