My Son’s Father Keeps Getting Locked Up... Should I Move On?
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Yes. Next question?
🤣right !
Yeah right 😂 your baby daddy probably in jail right now
😂😂😂
@@kkaybaltimore I'm a guy...I also don't have any baby mommas lol
Pretty much lol
Lmaoooo she said dummy so hard
She said it with her chest
I can tell from the end of the first call she ain't leaving dude lmao. Tragic
Yep. She's gonna play that dumb ride or die role and ruin her and her son's life 😅
@@SedityTigolebitties90 literally lmao. 🤦🏾♂️
Facts smh
@@SedityTigolebitties90exactly typical black woman smh
3rd caller: 🤔why are you calling Jess. Call the👮🏽♂️.
Right smh tf. The next thing you hear is that her son committed suicide from this because he couldn't take it & she didn't get him help yet she called John with the mess.
She looking the Donkey Of The Day. She probably did call the police but looking extra clout off her son
Lol
Yo I'm dead 😅
This is wild and can’t be true. You mean to tell me this awful mom is waiting to go to the cops and no one on the board has contacted the authorities? Either she hasn’t done anything at all or she’s lying.
Move on from a man who has no work ethic and no desire to raise his kid…. You and your kid deserve better!
She needs to hold herself accountable, wouldn't you agree
Random question but has manifesting really been working for you? And is it based on you manifesting but also believing that it will happen?
Definitely part her fault tho
The kid deserves better but this couldve all been avoided this is why the dating pool is fucked up now you saying move on to who?why another man gotta deal with her and her jailbird baby daddy?you think thats gonna go over smooth?she made that bed she gotta lie in it
Should have thought about this before having a child with a man that’s already in and out of jail! You women get with these ain’t shit men and expect them to change. Dont move on support him.
Jess handled those questions WELL!! 👏 👏 👏
She needs to take her child out of that school and press charges on the administrators.
Calling a radio station instead of going to the police when your kid is being harassed and sexually assaulted is wildly stupid. If you dont remove your kid from that school then lawyer up 🤦🏿♂️.
Going to the police for high school insults ? Ok.
Right, call the POLICE!!! TF
The mother is a jackass and she isn't taking this serious. Why would you call the radio station about this smh
“I can’t work for nobody!!!”… people need to check their egos…
Meanwhile they working for the Bureau of Prisons in the library and laundry room
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@@Jrfusion08 lmao exactly
damon dash had this debate with the breakfast club and it was so frustrating to listen to it. entrepreneurship is great but everyone got to start somewhere. i thought dash was wrong and even business owners need employees. shitting on employees when you need them for the business made no sense to me. a business owner never do it by themselves. most can't. respect the people who make businesses successful. and like jess said some drug dealers are working for other people anyway. she wanted to say niggas and did but change direction lol.
Also be working for and risking their life/freedom for another mf in the streets
When she said "He's just selling drugs" that told me all I needed to know. She doesn't care that he's a drug dealer but only cares that he keeps getting caught. She's chose him because he bought her with the drug money! Of course she should move on but probably won't. Sad for her son.
I thought that too; she likes that drug dealer money he brings otherwise the cooch should have dried up long ago for a dude who refuses to provide for his family by any other means necessary
Imagine calling a radio station for advice 😂
Imagine GROWN MEN watching bitter angry "dating coaches" who never been married or had successful relationships give advice on how to choose women for marriage or how to have successful relationships INSTEAD of relying on their FATHERS for this type of advice from the jump as teens😮
@@TellingthetruthShamestheDevilthey don’t hear you though! Love this ❤straight facts!
1st woman: She already chose pookie. She might as well stick with him. She loves him and that lifestyle. A “good man” would only bore her and she will ruin him for a woman who has been raised to be a wife.
EXACTLY, and once he gets out of jail. She’s going to go right back with him like she did the first 2 times.
Never fails bro
Females will choose a man they blame him for being exactly who they knew he was😂
She’s just as smart as him! I feel for the child
I literally try take the hair off my screen😂
Low self esteem and a lack of quality black men is bad combination.
I was about to say this 😂😂
Not really. Most men switch up on women as soon as she gets pregnant. Then she's forced to try to make it work because she got his kid or don't wanna raise the baby alone.personally Rather be a single mom than deal with that. Or be smart like Megan the stallion and AVOID getting pregnant by em
"Now you're a single mom...." 🎶 😂
First thing I thought right after hearing this crap lol
She's already single! He's in jail!
@@NicoliePollieOllie She knew what she was dealing with. She thought she could change him. Men aren't projects. Takes a special kind of woman to bring out the best in us. Obviously, she wasn't it 🤷🏾♂️
That’s nothing to tease about. You probably didn’t have your dad
@kelsblair5963 Lmfaooo. That's crazy you said that. I guess you think you're a "KZhead Therapist." That was cute. I'm not even mad you said that to me. You must be having a bad day. I hope it gets better for you 🙏🏽
3rd caller...Lawyer up!!🙄
@dawgfacesoldier I see ya 3rd I D in the house
@@randywilborn672 3rd BDE, 2-69 AR, Fort Benning, GA (1994-1998)
He dont like no one to tell him what to do but he gets locked up with the most restrictions
That's what I said. He's a joke.
If these are real questions people calling in for them some people real dumb, I ain't coming to a radio station to ask what should I do about a life decision😂
That part 🎯
YOU sound dumb. You ain't never ask advice from nobody in your life? WTF!
Ummm Duh!!! What kinda stupid question is that. No person of value would even have a child with someone like that.
I hope she didn't think a baby would stop him from trapping.
Now girl… you should know the answer is to leave and get as far away as possible from him!!! 😩
Buy that guy some cologne instead. 😂
Who really cares 😐 nobody at the end of the day 🤷🏾♂️. If he keeps getting locked 🔐 up he must have found him a friend with benefits in there ya feel me.
😂😂😂
His response is literally jail.
What about a nice dinner and a cheaper gift like a Gucci wallet?
She let'em hit it raw/now she has 2nd thoughts/now she's single mom/no she's a single mom!🤔🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️😝🤣
Some parents are truly lost...smh
If that happened to my BD just once, and it was really something he did id be gone.
These buzz words like “assaulted’ need to be specified like‘verbal’ vs ‘physical’ j/s
@8:30 She needs to call the ACLU, GLADD, the police, the superintendent of schools (if she hasn't already) -- this is child endangerment. There are laws against this behavior. AND the administrators who are not taking this seriously need to be fired!
That's all they do in jail is tell u what to do smh. HE IS GAY!! Move on babygirl
I love Jess ❤❤
First caller: Never hold on to a dusty boy. Time is a terrible thing to waste.
she choose him.....
Had his baby, a now want a good dude to come help take care of them.😭😭 F out of here.
chose*
Nooooo....much DISRESPECT!
The first two callers were being used, the first one, this lacking knowledge dude kept doing the same cycles of things, knowing that his baby mother (that who she is) will be there for him to pick up the piece's with him and for him. He will not change himself for no one, not even his son who is and will see and know that his daddy is a DEADBEAT, BLAMING OTHERS FOR HIS LOW VIBRATION FRUIT LIFE. THE SECOND, caller, is using gifts to make a man like and love her, that which they are just using her and see her has nothing more than a jump off with benefits of gifts giving. Lady that is not who you say you are, this is a pattern of cycles for you due to low self esteem and lacking self love. These wasteman don't want you and aren't willing to change and see you as the queen you deserves to be and treated with the respect and kindness always. RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN
🎯when you know better, do better👩🏿🏫
@@Warriorvelcro That is it. Concur, by knowledge the just shall be delivered. Why go on the repeating voyages doing the same cycles and patterns over and over again in that same wilderness to not see and transform mindset and heart. Those who know better, do better. For sure. Thanks for sharing your post Fruitful and Joyful week/weekend.
Got a kid with a man who doesn’t see the importance of staying out of jail for his kid. Move on sweetheart cause if you stay you’re teaching your son that’s what a relationship supposed to be. Being selfish because he’s too lazy to try to change his life.
Move on at this stage. As soon as I hear drugs... 🏃♀💨
You've asked yourself that question, then you asked your best friend that question and now you ask a social media podcast that question? You already have the answer!
This mother is SLLOOOW... send them to JAILLLL
Oh Jess I thought that was somebody else yesterday you was about to get beat up😂
Jess came with excellent responses👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. This portion of the BKFTClub is her niche tbh. 3rd caller though: call the cops smmfh. Why you calling Jess? 🙄🙄🙄. Clearly she just wanted to be heard and give a Donkey of the Day shout 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Im so confused why the mother called into the station instead of going to the police or getting a lawyer about the administrators secually harassing her child??????? Im not sure if shes able to put him in a different school or not and dont know what all her options are but you had to call a radio station to figure out how to protect your kid???? That one made me mad
Sis heard too many rap songs 😂 girl! Being a ride or die is something black men made up to keep women loyal despite them not😂😂
Do they film these after the show?
Jess was very articulate, understanding, and wise with her responses. She's really grown alot. I feel like there's more substance to her presence in tbc than yee 🤔
Why do you need to ask anyone not in your family whether you should move on or not?
5:48 good advice Jess! Get something meaningful. If you’re going to be together for a while, you can always get him something fly later. Y’all not even together and you’re thinking of getting him a ROLEX?!
They be knowing the answers before they even ask it
They already know the answers before they even ask it.*
I don’t know the backstory, but I think a big part of this that could be missing is that people wrapped up in selling drugs get trapped into and can’t leave. People do you ‘favors’ while in jail like protection etc and when you get out they don’t just let you go. He could be in all kinds of debt and that debt isn’t just paid because you don’t wanna do it anymore. There’s always more to a story. With that said moving on is harder than it sounds caz guys like her man keep her wrapped and don’t let go
If a drug dealer keeps getting caught he hasnt learned a dam thing and is a horrible drug dealer. That's the type of stupid drug dealer cops can't wait til they get out so that they can catch them again and make their numbers
Orangeburg, SC come on..
Wow she’s from Orangeburg?? That’s wild
When you said the word KEEP I didn't even want to hear anymore
Women who spend money on men are like mutants to me I thought just a lady is amazing but a gift giver as well she a whole superhero out here😂
Yes that’s what you choose you ain’t gonna do better than that when you have him your wombs , next
She’s giving advice to people without knowing all the details.
She can only go off what they tell her . The caller doesn’t have to take the advice
Yes in this case.
Not a Rolex after 2 months 😮
Yes! He probably got a man in there waiting for his ass as much as he keep getting locked up! 😂😂😂
Mabey he needs a little help and his pride won't let him show it. Once your in the system its hard to get out. Especially without a support system. Be there for him Jess.
yeah no
Sara... it's only 2 months. Dinner and maybe a show. If you've done this before, what are the odds of having the same results. 🤔
0:00 - What beat is that again?
The first one won't
Jess cost that man a Rolex. 😅
She said, “Why do you mean?” 😅
What blows my mind is that a woman will chase after a jailbird who shows no attempt to be a dad to his kid. That’s a easy walk
why do yall ask strangers for advice ?
First caller….Yes! Move on! The generational curse has to end. Do better for your son. She probably will stay with him because she doesn’t think she can do better.
FACTS!! This the reason these women can't move up in society. Too busy worried about the men who want to keep them down for their own benefit smh. This gotta stop
When I saw the thumbnail, I thought Jess’s son’s father was in jail.
Bad advice, Jess this is NOT UR LANE PLS STOP 😂
Hey, Breakfast Club. How have you been?
Dude getting a new watch 😅
Easy ass question…
Why is that lady calling the breakfast club about her son being harassed what is wrong with people
If you go to jail y’all might as well break up she’s not going to be loyal they never are
That's true. You have to support your son alone while he keeps going to jail. He's selfish. He should want to do better just for himself, and his son Very sad 😮
mother-son relationships
Tell him Jess
Wanna see Da God face Monday morning when he finds out fake got another child
He's been getting locked up before the baby, and she was attrached to that shit. Lol😊
Exactly! Now she's hit with the reality that she's going to be raising her son alone.
He don't like being told what to do but he keeps going to jail. 🤔
Two months in and you are already spending that kinda cash on him???
You can tell Jess doesn't like doing this segment
I doubt it. She is pregnant AF , tired and uncomfortable.
Both. Move on but support him
The first caller is so desperate to keep a man it's pathetic this shouldt be a question. Smh
She still gonna give him that Rollie
If that spouse isnt trying to grow, leave them. Simple as that. Cant have that around
Disagree with Jess wholeheartedly: she needs to stay with him because she DOESN'T deserve better. She chose to have a child by an ain't 💩 jail 🥷🏾. The most important decision a woman can make is who she chooses to be the father of her child. The man she had her child by is what she deserves. Nothing more And ultimatums only work from a position of leverage? Again: she had a kid by this dude. She validated his behavior by giving him access to her body and her womb. What incentive would there be for him to change when he clearly got what he wanted out of her. If impending fatherhood doesn't illicit a sense of course correct, no ultimatum out of her mouth would
2nd girl.... Gift card always works with men. The gift loadable card is great because they can spend it anywhere but he is not your ex men. Be you
Where's the thought in a gift card?
Didn't even watch the video. Yes. Next question.
“Rolly talking” most people or the average everyday person can’t afford a Rolex if that’s what she meant. So Jess thinking that’s the case is wild lol.
That first caller seems less smart than the drug dealer boyfriend
Angela who?? Yo I never seen a person forgotten so fast
Jess is best🌹
Is this a real question? It does not matter what type of crimes. This woman is a doormat.
Yes but next time don't go after a loser.
Typical brother. Stop messing with them kid or not. Move on
Did he sell drugs when u met him, when u got pregnant, do u accept the money, do u aid him in any way, ANY WAY??? U signed up for this.
So a grown man who rather go back and forth to jail…..can’t go to work for himself, least of all a child and lady?!?! smh
TIX should be in the conversation…😡😡😡
So out of all the men that don't go to jail or sell drugs, you choose someone that does?