Building self-confidence
2019 ж. 9 Қыр.
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I would like to build my confidence in talking comfortably with other people whom I don't know. How do you think I should go about to do it?
Pick Up Limes cooking your recipes. Or recipes in general. Always afraid it would be inedible. I am a new subscriber and new to cooking. Tried out 3 pick up limes recipe. Ate them all. Were very good. Grocery shopping is scary to me since I had to ask many of the grocers what many of the ingredients are. Lost 7 lbs from cooking for myself. Not intentional but feel better about making my own meals.
Pick Up Limes Hi Sadia, thank you so much for making this video, I have trouble often times with eye contact 😌 trying to work on that .. I wonder if others struggle with that.
Pick Up Limes, " Thanks for your kindness with your message, Sadia ! "
In public speaking 😭
"We overestimate what we can do in a day and underestimate what we can do in a lifetime".. so deep and so true
I love this quote !!
love this so much
Shouldn’t it have been the other way around
Sowmya B what the quote means is that persistence is key.
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As a single dad to a fourteen year old daughter, I want to thank you for your videos. You are the strong and POSITIVE female roll model that she always needed in her life. And she absolutely adores you. After years of emotional abuse from her mother, she is deeply wounded and sees you as a beacon of hope. I am here for her everyday with love, patience, and understanding. But you epitomize the woman she needed in her life rather than the one she had. Again, thank you. You mean a lot to my little girl. And she means everything to me.
You’re doing a great job 💖
God bless you, what you and your daughter are searching for is Jesus. He loves you. As humans we will always fail, he is faithful. God bless you
Beautiful, Tom. Absolutely beautiful. I agree with you - Sadia is an amazing woman. I wish you and your girl all the best.
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua so true Amalia, He is our source, He see everything Praise Him! ♥️🙏 0:00
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From one who doesn't have confidence Confidence comes from being comfortable in your own skin. It comes when you 'can' smile like you do. Your smile comes from a place of self-acceptance, from a place of satisfaction of where you are right now, with the hope of where you'll be. Did you work for that smile? Or were you born with it? You smile with your eyes and I bet your heart too. ... Some tears later... Confidence comes when you just be instead of trying to be. Confidence comes when you accept yourself as you are.. as raw as you are. Confidence comes when you realise that one person accepts, acknowledges and appreciates your being. It is heaven if that is person is yourself. ... You're blessed more than you know and I hope you remember that when you're feeling low. Lots of Love) To you and The one who reads it.
I love the way you speak, its like you are talking to me privately just the 2 of us. So soothing..
You could tell us something in dutch at the end of every video and put subtitles in english. That way you would practice and maybe some of your subscribers would learn a word or two in dutch.
That is a cool and interesting idea!
Cool idea 😎
I was thinking the same thing! Or maybe just a word in Dutch.. I don’t need to learn it myself but I like it when people speak Dutch.
Would love this as well. I live in The Netherlands and find it challenging to learn Dutch. 👍
That will be super cool
When people compliment me, I usually respond by saying “Thank you for the encouragement!” It’s better than deflecting the praise, and it also acknowledges that I appreciate their words. :) Great video!
Wonderful comments Hatsf You have good heart God bless you My heartfully wishes to you
Wow
1. Be Good at Something--> Confidence 2. Goals--> Chunk down into Steps 3. Realistically Challenging--> Flow State 4. Rewarding--> Look upto Achievements I learnt these from the video. :)
The fact that you smile a lot, makes you more adorable and make us feel the positive vibes you exude. Keep it up!
I had no confidence as a child, due to the people around me who made it a point to break my confidence. But I worked on myself and now I am confident and love my life. I think that family and friends can make or break your confidence. Thank you for the video.
How did you learn to ignore them or fight against them? I think I'm in a similar situation, and it ruins my life. I rather do nothing than try and fail and further confirm that I am useless. I so helplessly fear failing yet I still know that not trying is a 100% fail.
Well done Esther, and yes the people around you can have a huge impact on one's confidence :)
Same here
Ultimately the choice is always yours...in your heart of hearts you should know to ignore any negativeness and only listen to positiveness even if it only comes from within.
@@iwua37 I studied the most in my family. I am not a very smart student but when I try I do get by with hard work. I have a good job, and they do not as they just gave more importance to their looks. My confidence was low because I was not the best looking due to my dark colour and they did make it a point to tell me that I am the darkest which indirectly mean not beautiful. Knowledge is power and I got above them and got my confidence by learning things. I would suggest do not be afraid of making mistakes and try to ignore them. Increase your knowledge because knowledge will build up your confidence. Also, I would suggest whenever possible go and volunteer. Volunteering taught me so much and also boasted my confidence. It is a win-win situation because you give and you get ten folds. Good Luck to you.
Ive missed you. Your voice is soothing and videos are uplifting :)
Krissyboo75 yes! 😊✨
omg I've noticed that too, I wish my voice was as calming as hers haha!
I agree😍
Krissyboo75 AGREE😩🤩
@@ParisHedger Im sure it is more calming than you think ♡
I always wanna be a confident person. I can't even stand by group of people with confidence. Public gathering always makes me feel uncomfortable. Hope i will overcome it.
I believe in you
I think confidence is the byproduct of how much a person has worked on himself..... Although there are some exceptions
This popped up in my feed just when I needed it!
So needed, Thank you @pickuplimes
Mine too...😎
Exactly the same happened to me.
same💛
me too :)
Dear Sadia, I don't often comment on anybody's video, but I need to express my gratitude. Thank you for giving me a life I've always wanted to live.
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@@PickUpLimes I love you!!
I think you should be most grateful to yourself! ❤️ Because you are the only one who really gave you the life you wanted, with much inspiration because of Sadia of course! :D
@@femkes3014 of course! :D
Woo..can u tell me how u did that..😇
Confidence and self-esteem are my goals for the future . i hope to improve my confidence and self-esteem I pray to God I will achieve my goals. Amen
Be Successful Get good in something Building confidence Celebrate achievements Accomplishments Accept praises
Thank u
Actually we missed you. Especially your soothing voice.
Ritesh Mahato yes! 😊✨
Agreed! I believe confidence is built through *_time, effort & experience_* Have a wonderful day everyone :)
Thank you and wish you the same
Thought you said lime
U too(◍•ᴗ•◍)
One thing that works well for me in building up confidence, is to revisit previous projects/work I've done. It is so easy for us to constantly raise the bar for what is the standard, that we overlook how much we have grown. Revisiting old work helps realise, that what we can do today, we may only have dreamed about one year ago. Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing these lovely videos.
Ooh revisiting old work that you’re proud of is def confidence-boosting!
Underrated comment!
One of my professors says repetition is the mother of skill
it was mother of success actually
@@komiljonyangiboev3669 ehh either or
“The no.1 way to build confidence is to build competence meaning getting really good at something. And the only way of getting good at something is to put in the time; repetition, doing it over and over again and being really subbornly persistent.” YESSS! Thanks Sadia🙌🏼 Love thiiis.
'We over-estimate what we can do in a day and under-estimate what we can do in a lifetime.' This went into my favourite quotes' list.
Nice comment Hatsf
Firstly you're beautiful, your dark hair and your smile is flattering. Secondly this was aesthetic Thirdly, QUALITY conteny
Don't u think the third point should be the first point :)
@@spaul9697 theyre not in order :)
I don't know why...But I cried watching this video as I realised that I underestimate myself for years, not knowing that I can be better by starting small. I've burden myself so many times by forcing myself to do things that I'm not good at & neglecting the areas where I'm really good at. Thank u Sadia for waking me up.🌹 Much love from Malaysia 💗💗💗
Also your plants and vines in your studio look heavenly 🥰
We overestimate what we can do in a day..but underestimate what we can do in a lifetime! Well said..
Pickup Limes has been such a source of inspiration and positivity for me since 2018. Her videos always seem to come at the right time, filling me with motivation and joy. She truly brings relatable content and adds so much value to life. Whenever I need a boost or feel like I'm lacking certain qualities, her channel is my go-to. Here's to the positive vibes she spreads! I'm usually more of a silent viewer, but I just had to express my appreciation this time. And here I am, finding myself back again on this video because I needed to re-boost my confidence.
Passion ➕hardwork =success
Missed these videos! So awesome as always 💓🦋
You seem like an introvert but exceptionally articulate.. You speak on behalf of them ♥️
I think I need to build my self-confidence back by standing up for myselfbecause of other people a lot of times I don't say what I truly feel or do what I truly feel and I'm paying the price for it I guess that's not meaning to say that I'll stay down forever but how do you get up and how do you build your confidence after you've been down for so and I'm trying to make peace with the past year brings me some peace give me a way out because I really don't want to be in the same place feeling the samegrab situation can you please give me some pointers on how to feel better and how to make it through the day by day
@@michelleturner4052 The answer is within you. Because the best answer comes from us. We are the sum of our thoughts and emotions. So be aware of your thoughts and picture your life and yourself how you want it to be. Your life will change for the good, with practice.
Good words
I love when people can show their imperfections and make fun of them. No one is perfect. Doing this actually shows true confidence and makes you more "real" to your audiences. Really love your channel. :)
Love the warm and cozy vibe!
The bloopers were so cute. I have missed these videos a lot.
OMG !! I missed your videos a LOT !! I’m so happy !
Watching this before my thesis presentation. This is just what I needed to make me feel better about it all! Thank you!
your channel is one of my favs in u tube!whenever i need motivation i just search for u on u tube!u r such a inspiration ❤️❤️
I really enjoyed your teatime Tuesday. Thanks! xxx
Love the phrase "confidence by building competence"! And that needs time and effort.
Wonderful message. This just makes complete sense that competence gives rise to confidence. Sincerely appreciate the job you are doing 🙏😊
U remind me of how powerful one can be by simply being truthful/genuine.
#PickupLimesSquad!!🙋🏾♀️❤ I need to work on my Self Confidence level that has been a Big Struggle for me for years. Thank you for this.
I was eagerly waiting for one of thessseee. You are always so inspirational Sadia!
I really really love the tea time chats /advice / vlog videos besides the recipe ones. You're one of my role models
I always go back to this video whenever i don’t feel confident!And it helps me everytime!Thank you Sadia❤️
Competence brings me confidence for sure 😉 Thanks for everything Sadia!
I missed you... You're a ray of light
Confidence can be learned and that's so true! I find that keeping a journal of your progress and accomplishments helps motivate you daily. ❤️
Beautiful message! Confidence is definitely something that we learn and repetition is key. I love that I stumbled across your channel, thank you for you message beautiful soul!
Yaaay!!💚💚 Tea time tuesday is back ☕🍃 Missed you and uplifting as always🍁
I’ve missed the Tea Time Chats!!!! Please keep sharing!!!! Also I would love to see a DITL/vlog!!!
confidence = competence + courage + complement + celebration
I love the way you gave a great smile while talking❤
Thanks a much for this video. I really missed these Tea Time Tuesday and self help videos. Please make more of them .
I wish you’d put out a video everyday, that’s how much I love your channel 😂
I love your voice talking about building confidence in ourselves.
Missed you too Sadia! Thank you for the tea time ❤️❤️, competence builds confidence. So true! And accept credit without talking down on ourselves.
thanks for always sharing your wisdom and knowledge
You’re not just making videos on YT but you made a lot of inspiration to a lot of people all around the world. I just watched this and it's my first time seeing ur channel, I already a subscriber with no doubt.❤️☝🏻
It was so nice to see the bloopers, you look even more warm and approachable, knowing that you are not always 100% composed and calm, like you seem in the videos. You seem like an amazing human being.
It's soo cool you can be both very calm person with a soothing voice and a playful one who screams DAMN IT in the kitchen. Love you!
I went through a period at work where I was in a new position at the same company and I was the newest one on the team. Everyone was super nice but I just felt like I'd never be as good as those people, and they all must do the job so easily and I was surely the only one that was struggling. For reference, I work in software deployment for a multinational software company. I work with 6 or 7 clients at a time to set up their software, understand their business needs, etc. A few things that helped me to gain confidence: 1. As Sadia said, just practice helped immensely. Finding answers on my own instead of running to a teammate first gave me a sense of accomplishment. 2. Basically jumping off the deep end and realizing that hey, I'm likeable - my customers like me, and realizing they didn't expect me to have every answer to every off the wall question they had. Learning to be honest and say, "You know what? I'm not 100% sure, but let me research that and get back to you by tomorrow. 3. Honestly, hearing from the more tenured members of the team that they get nervous too. Knowing that I wasn't alone in my pre-meeting jitters, and that they go through the same struggles, helped me. 4. Finally, and probably the biggest one - soon, I wasn't the newest on the team anymore. And I was expected to help the newer team members. Helping to answer their questions and teaching them how to do things made me realize how much I DID know, taking away my usual focus on how much I still didn't know. Not sure if this will help anyone, but I'm happy to say I'm totally over it and feel very confident at work now. 😊 Great video as always.
Exactly what I needed right now :) THANK YOU!🌻
She is so honest. I like her. I really like her vibe. ✨ ❤️
Thank you for teaching us how repetition and determination can help us in many areas of life. Self-confidence is so important to success, and becoming comfortable with ourselves is just one way we can live full out!
„We overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime” - this is going to be my new favourite quote! ❤️🙏🏼
I love this message. It's good to see the behind the scenes and how you work your way to a perfect video. Often times we look at a finished product and how flawless it looks and beat ourselves down for not being as flawless and yet it's part of the journey. Thanks so much for sharing.
I literally have a cup of coffee while I watched this one. Thanks for sharing.
I've been learning Dutch this year as well since I've been planning to move to the Hague, I empathize on how difficult it is, but we'll get it!! Thanks for all your videos, your channel teaches me so much 💙
I always get so excited when I see that you uploaded a new video 😍
I am so glad I found your channel! So inspiring
Her voice makes me feel like I have my life together and what i am doing is right and I can Do IT. Thank you for it 💖
My favorite book “So Good They Can’t Ignore You” by Cal Newport talks about how to build competency early in your career and how that will lead to your professional confidence :)
Thanks for sharing this book :)
Thank you, just what we need sometimes! I really missed Tea time Tuesday too. Sending love ❤❤
Perfect timing! Thank you.
I love how comfortable you make the viewers feel. Seeing you smile, I just feel so positive and happy. I want to let you know that you're doing a great job! Keep going!
"Often, we overestimate what we can do in a day and we underestimate what we can do in a lifetime" Amazing line!
Love seeing your bloopers, Sadia.It makes me laugh and know that EVERYONE has those days/times when they aren't as put together as they'd like to be. That-in itself can make you more confident--getting over the obstacle!
what a beautiful smile she has, it is contagious her good energy
I absolutely LOVE this message!!! Thank you for sharing this information ❤
2:14 - 2:17 "damn it!" so cute! :) reminds me of someone I loved.
I really needed this, and I love tea time tuesdays, you're my favorite also loved the ending! Your channel really bloomed me into someone I really love. Thank you 🌟❤
Watching her videos gives me so much inner peace. Thank you so much :)
I love listening you, watching your videos and just, “being with you”? It just make me relaxed, comfortable and calm. Thank you for everything you do ❤️
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
I feel so healthy and blessed watching this gorgeous angel talk. It’s like heaven on earth. I can just imagine what heaven what be like someday such a nice place.
OMG I can hear you all day long. such a relaxing voice. please keep posting your videos, they are so uplifting
Wow, I wasn't expecting this video to be so deep, your message had me tear up and feeling hopefull. I was in such a rut but I can see clear again thank you so much 💖💖
I can totally relate to it and attest the fact that "To increase your confidence, you need to improve your competence". I had been struggling in my early months of my first job and with time as I improved my competence, I felt confident with what I do. Beautifully said, Love ❤️🤗
This was amazing Sadia! Absolutely adore your content. 💕 For me making videos has also been an ongoing struggle with self confidence. I am mostly introverted anyway. Beautiful video! 💕xo
You’re one person whose video I watch from start to end without forwarding or exiting halfway through ♥️ much love! You’re my role model!
Love love love this video. I definitely fall in the category of overestimating what I can do in a day and then feeling a drop in confidence when I can't get it all done. I think that list of accomplishments will definitely come in handy 😊
One thing I learned that made a huge difference. Try and enjoy the journey, savor it. There's absolutely no rush.
How can a background be so beautiful?! Love it! 😍
I always love how soothing your videos are, and you give such genuinely good advice! ☺️
Putting in the time... competence turns into confidence... well said chica!
Please do these videos more! You're literally making me a better person and I learn so much from you. Please don't ever stop what you're doing- you honestly have a gift & you should continue to share it with the world. God bless you you're truly a ray of sunshine.
I’ve missed your videos, hope you post more 🥰
I was in a dire need to hear this. Thanks for bringing forth the positivity and the incentive ! 😇💯 Keep empowering
Got one of your videos in my recommendations the other day and have been checking out your channel ever since. You are so amazingly beautiful and eloquent, it's so impressive! More power to you 🌻