What Can Make You Irresistible? Ask Deepak Chopra!
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Three ingredients of an irresistible, magnetic, charming person:
1. Presence: You are present in the moment, attentive to what is. Everything about you reflects that. You do not have the luxury to be distracted. This all reflects life-centered, present moment awareness. Experience life, relationships and environment as they unfold in your awareness in that moment.
2. Self-esteem: You feel beneath no one. You are fearless, immune to criticism and responsive to feedback. You are centered in yourself beyond your self-image. You know who you are, what you want, what your skills are and how you can use them. You are clear about your values and true to yourself.
3. Divine emotions: You exude loving kindness, joy, compassion and equanimity. This connects you to the eco-system, the web of relationships of which you are an expression.
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Summary: Three characteristics for a charismatic magnetic personality: 1) Presence. Be present when you do anything. 2) Self-esteem. Be certain of your true values regardless of what others think. Derive your sense of self from inside, not from outside, although you may be positively responsive to criticism. 3) The emotions that you radiate. Always be aware that you're centered to the divine emotions, i.e., love, kindness, joy, compassion and equanimity.
I don't get it. Why isn't anybody moderating the comments? Dr. Chopra is such a wonderful being. I know he probably doesn't care about all the bad comments, but still... A bit of moderation would bring some order into chaos. Best wishes and thank you for everything !
Everybody has a right to their opinion.
Agree with Miss Molly.
@Astaroth Perfect. Well said.
Thank You Baba*
Thank you Deepak. Have a blessed day 🙏 ✨️
Makes total sense to me Deepak. When you feel really good about yourself other people are attracted to you. Thanks for sharing the knowledge. Respect.
Deepak, You are the essence of charisma. Namaste!
It's a simple, clear, accurate message. If you don't like it, go be negative somewhere else ... you don't have the qualities he's talking about and so can't understand it. I swear, I need to stop reading comments. I don't come here for drivel.
We have the right to express our opinion and don't have to be positive about him or what he says. It's called freedom of speech; get over it.
I actually love the bling. When you have as much integrity as Deepak, you can wear the bling and pull it off.
I just love you dr deepak chopra.you are charming and irresistible too💖👌💖
I thank you for sharing Your spiritual wisdom, may you be Blessed..
I believe charming has to do to being able to appreciate everybody and have empathy - no judgement- just give the best that you have to everybody & show them with actions not only pay attention or giving to the less fortunate with love ❤️ True Love will cast out fear!!!.
Thank you for posting these types of messages.
Thank you for this video!
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼
Thankyou So Much Sir🙏🙏🙏
Thanks!
Thank you
Thank you ❤️
Thank you Deepak!! The comments below are pure examples of this!? Shine on and spread your wisdom and your light to the world. Blessings!!
Usted es ejemplo de ello, es muy atractivo. Gracias ♥
I totally agree with you. There are no shortcuts in the journey of self-enrichment.
Great video. Congratulations.
powerful
Thank you for this! :D
Excelente, para practicar todos los días
I love it! Thank you. Have a wonderful day, Deepak Chopra. ❣
dear Mr deepack thank you for your concepts and thoughts about how to be....it worked for me ...so I'll keep doing it as you suggested....thank again...respectfully yours a greatfull admirer of your unique talents....keep up the fantastic work...and keep posting your videos
Thanks Sir 🙏🤗
Thanks
Very nice. Thanks.
Thank you Deepak! : )
It's amazing how some people judge things just because they don't understand. Keep up Deepak. You are the vastness that allows all the good and the nasty comments too. I know you are not bothered even a bit by the nasty comments. I celebrate with you, that place we are all the same. Namaste.
Yes!
I know you do good,, blessing ♥
You are brilliant Deepak - I learn so much from you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤😊⚘
Gracias Deepak :)
Yes the divine characteristics are Priority!!!.
You have all of them each Mr deepak with all my respect regards to you your family from Mexico ! In here many people we admire you so much thank you for your videos they are great!
उदे्श्य बदलना आसान है लेकिन पुरा करना मुश्किल है।🖋️✨💯
🤗Namaste to all creation🙏
Best advice ever! about how to be irresistble...Simple and easy to understand: I am going to start practising this 3 things today. God; I so want to be a Light for this World!
Åsa S are you seeing a noticed change in your personality after you listened to his advice?
Lovely
I miss all three!!
You're a genius
Thank you, I am there most times.. just have to be mindful.
Today, I promise to practice the first two ingredients.: Be present, and feel below no one. I think I try to overcompensate with the third ingredient to cover for first two. Aaah, no wonder why they don't get me. Thanks for the vid.
genius!!
awesome teacher ………………………….
who can resist a spirit of peace,,joy,compassion,love and understanding? Oh Jesus, Mr. Chopra you are a great rabbi, guru,teacher. Thank you for sharing your gifts.
I didn't know why I was so irresistible. Thanks Deepak!!
A true human man
Like the diamond spectacles there Deepak. I think its a sign of what they call "quantum humility"
I must agree, but it is not easy to have all those ingredients.. maybe regular meditation could help me to get that. Thank you Deepak.
Deepak is great at what he does! :=)
And Yes I am Aware of my presences no matter where I go! I thought being a red head was a strange thing in Latin America but Europe or USA I cause the same “impact” but I am very humble about it - but very flamboyant when it comes to talk to ppl is as if I love them all even if they have issues I will do anything to total strangers even at church to do something so they “wake up”
In sanskrit, we say-"YATHA NAAM TATHA GUN" -DEEPAK(lamp) 🌹🙏👑 u r flower with beauty & the fragrance on this Univers.ur light is enough to me 🙏🏻 pranam, dhanyavad.
A good example that Deepak is immune to criticism is that he allows these kind of negative comments on his channel. Many others just have a very good selection before publishing! Try to take the good out of his words as he as lots of them!
wow u just described me haha ur awesome !!!
I agree with you Deepak Chopra ....now I have to apply it....???
u r my god my second dad...i hope i ll meet u oneday to express how much ui mean to me....u r superb my spiritual dad
How did you learn to THINK like that Brother Deepak? I'd like to learn this. You're a true KING Deepak, a modern day "warrior KING" (in a good way) .. fighting the good fight!
I have thought about this. Agree with Deepak, that, what I would call the Higher Emotions and he calls Divine Emotions, are: Loving-kindness, Joy, Compassion, Equanimity. But I would add Gratitude. And I would place Gratitude as the first of the Higher Emotions as it seems the easiest for the average person to experience. Next, Compassion is what human beings are all about, then Joy is the nature of the true self; then Equanimity: Finally, Loving-kindness requires a lotta work to get to. Peace
Deepak, I had a dream about you last night. You were having a conversation in Hindi with someone else, and it just tickled me to hear you speak that language.
I look to Olivia Fox Cobane and her book the Charisma Myth on this topic. She says presence , power and warmth are the skills behind charisma. Chopra seems to have come to the same conclusion.
March 2019. "divine emotions are loving kindness joy compassion and equanimity" Thank you Deepak for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us the viewer much appreciated as always. PEACE&LOVE
He spews unadulterated bullshit!
Lovely. There is a book which i keep by me and is helpful to me. It's called The Presence Process by Michael Brown. Each time I read a passage it speaks to me. I am not on commission but simply recommend it as it is a kind and deeply positive influence on my growth. I wish I had read is many years ago and I would have accepted the bounty I was being offered. But hey, it is never too late
The 3rd characteristic is THE only one that matters. That one will give you self esteem and presence.
POR FAVOR PONER SUBTITULOS EN ESPAÑOL!!!! GRACIAS!!!
Bill, gratitude is not easy to manifest when the 'ego' is ruling the heart. One cannot be grateful without first being compassionate, loving, and joyful. When one begins from 'ego' and places oneself first gratitude is difficult to achieve or manifest. Blessings.
And Deepak knows all about this because he's so charismatic xD
Deepak, I read your book the 7 spiritual laws of success and was wondering is there a way to speed up the process of manifesting your desires?
I think you are very much right sir. But I think you left the most important part without that you can not get those or even you will try, you wouldn't be able to achieve them in their true sense, that is "destiny" . Why I said it destiny, not because I don't believe in the spirit of man, but rather, as you said presence , euinamity (sambhav) and grounded in true self esteem for being a charismatic leaders (example swami vivekanand). Each one mentioned above is a feature of a enlightend soul. Now for reaching upto soul u need to cross the mind and even after that, your past karmas should be diluted because until there are some karmas left one can not see his true self. And process of karma is really complicated. We make every day new and we pay off for the earlier ones. So In my opinion for being that charismatic there can be two roads :- (1)you should have the destiny (I.e the previous karmas got almost settled and at the same time u are not creating new karmas) and you also keep preserved above three qualities mentioned by you (by not creating major new karmas so that your soul doesn't get clouded). (2)surrender yourself to God completely and the result will be almost the same because you will get leap to cross your mind and karmas will be settled by the super conscious called god(as mentioned in Sri gita. "sarv dharman parityajya mam ekam sarnam vraja, aham tvam sarva-papebhyo mokshayisyami ma such.) and you will be like isko laga Dala to life jhinga lala😁 Don't mind my mistakes sir I know I am very young to say something in front of you but what I felt I said. May God bless you, me and everyone 😊✌️✌️😇
My most irresistible trait is my -body- which isn't spatially conceptualized.
hai sar namasthe.
Thx Bill D...what information are you pulling your comments from?
The 4th characteristic of a magnetic personality is communication through eye contact, to the awakened light can emit from peoples eyes, and the eyes are the true window to the soul. So please Deepak take your sunglasses off so we can see your eyes!
How to improve these charismatic attributes?
Well I don't know how to feel that way about myself. I love myself and respect myself and talk to myself coz there is no one😭
Paying attention to another person is important, self esteem is attractive, confidence and knowing who you are is attractive. Deepak radiating all of these characteristics is going to make you attractive to the other person, I agree. The fourth irresistible charm which being a sex therapist, where I come in to help, is liking the way you look, feeling good about yourself, and feeling sexy. When a man or woman can feel sexy about themselves they radiate that to others.....
I totally agree! Theese are the carracteristics og a truly carrismatic person! But why is the camera so totally out of focus?? My eyes hurt watching this.. Love and light :)
other people are mirrors of our own true selves- sometimes we see in others traits which we, for reasons unknown to us, raise these negative emotions in us. We project these emotions on the person we are seeing these traits in. They belong to us and we need to work them out. Perhaps the trait reminds you of someone else in your past which deceived or betrayed you.
What do you mean by Self-Power
i can make myself irresistible such as wearing sun glasses in the dark room like you Just kidding Thank you you are a divine servant for the human family and beyond..many blessing
I think I need to tone down my emotions that I radiate. A friend told me that I'm too clingy to her. *sigh*
I have the shortest attention span if I'm not interested in something I can't stay focused! But I'm a teenager so it's normal...right?
What of the blurred line between good self-esteem and arrogance ?
He definitely is considered one of thee most irresistible figures of this time. However this does not mean sexually. It is his choice, obviously.
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If Deepak Chopra possesses the key to unlock your charisma, why does he make my skin crawl? And why do I find him so completely repellant?...
Don't let it blur. They are not as easy to differentiate. Neither of them are alike.
Love can´t be bought! If you give a lot of gifts you will experience two things; you eighter attract gold diggers, or you will repel women who want real and true love.. They will feel like you are being shallow, and instead of getting to know them, and see who they really are,what they need etc.You are trying to buy them with things you think they want, maybe without ever asking what they want or like.. Give your heart,love,devotion, be present and look deep into her eyes, then U can rawish her!
Hmmm P.S.D. Is the key to Ease. Instead of Dis...Ease.😜😊😎🙏
RPens, you will not disrespect Deepak.
I have none of these
XDDD hes so monotone! Not to take anything away from his brilliance, but it's really true
Sorry for some comma and full stops which are left even after editing 😁😇✌️😂
Diamond studied glasses, that's what makes people irresistible, also a bunch of words that make you look smart but don't mean anything.
Yeah, totally. Materialism and money its what makes you attractive, dont listen to that old indu guy
Hello Babar -- Deepak says in another video that those "diamonds" are not real and that the glasses were given to him by his grandchildren.......
yet you continue to search and watch his videos. its easy to criticize people, the facts are there, your belief system is in place so all analysis you make reinforce your belief and you get a great feeling from being in your perspective 'right'. thing is its a lot harder, not to mention fulfilling/rewarding/productive watever you wanna call in (i'll admit I don't have the best vocab, but fluency doesn't show intelligence) exploring other perspectives and being open minded. @K Russell
I am so irresistible to the opposite sex as well to women they want to hang out with me & be friend me -even if they are envious- I feel itheir envy has nothing to do with me!. Is like their problem - so negative lonely ppl or toxic ppl They don’t know but I usually pray for them - but they are so toxic -I need my space and alone time!! So when I find they are gossiping and thinks like that it depends on my feelings towards that person I will be friends or keep them close or unfriend and keep them away hahahaha after all is God First us second and their the rest of the ppl!. Yeah I own the moment; also I treat everyone as valuable as I feel and believe I am for others who don’t know how valuable they are I either make them feel treating them as they are priceless and sometimes I tell them !! I treat them or tell them they are “beings of love and light- spiritual beings” For me a billionaire is not what makes ppl important but their True value but no mater your economic situation everybody needs to feel LOVE ❤️ even though their state of mind or whatever their problem is - is that they are not connected to the Foundation of Love which make us very happy & peaceful!!!. God Bless u Praise Jesus!. I’m a Christian who is getting to feel that some teachings of Buddhism are like a complement or let’s say very practical that does not make me any less than other Christians or anymore than anyone else!.