6 Ways To Be More Charismatic (Yet Still Be YOU)
Have you ever met someone so charismatic that it’s almost impossible not to like them? Charisma is defined as “a special quality some people possess that allows them to relate to and inspire others on a deep, emotional level”. Charismatic people are natural-born leaders who effortlessly command the attention of everyone in the room. They’re always so confident, charming, inspiring, and easy to be around. And that’s just not something you can fake. The good news is, Psychology argues that charisma isn’t as intrinsic or predetermined as we believe it to be. So, here are a few tried-and-true tips on how to be charismatic!
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Thanks for your efforts
Agreed.
Thank you for being a part of this journey :)
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oh so you were gonna go live rt? i read the post abt that
Step 1: get some glue Step 2: put it all over body Step 3: attach magnets
Damn you! I almost spit out my smoothie! 😹
Oh no don't wanna be like that lady on tiktok who glued gorilla glue to her head😂
Haha! Beat me to it, OP! 😂
Step 4: make everyone do the exact same or no one is gonna be attracted to you
Thanks, you saved me time from watching the video 👍
When you're like this until you ran out of energy because you're an introvert.
FAAACTS 🙄😂
I relate to this so much as an artist
😔🙌🏻 My soul felt this comment
YES
I bet these comments consumed energy and y'all need to avoid socializing for hours 😂
Things that kill confidence: - Social inhibition - Negative thinning - Overthinking and doubting past actions - Caring too much about what other people think - Focusing on your securities instead of strengths
For the last three I can say that all of that is in your head. Once you move your thoughts to your body and what’s going on around you, you’ll see that everyone has those thoughts too. That means they are to worried about themselves to see what’s going on with you (in the things your worrying about)
This is all me...
If I listen to something like Knocked Loose in the morning, I have much more energy and my brain works more effectively. I'm quick and quite funny then.
This is sooo me
Don't call me out like this
1. set a playful tone 1:22 2. tell people some good stories 2:05 3. think on your feet 2:43 4. say what you feel 3:29 5. smile with your eyes 4:12 6. be a likeable listener 4:53 I hope I could help! :)
The god amount men!
Thank u :))
How-
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I've always been jealous of charismatic people. When I was younger, I thought it was just something that happened to them and that I would never get it, but for the past few years I've been recognizing these traits and trying to use them. I still wouldn't say I'm charismatic, but I do feel like people enjoy talking to me more than before.
That's great
Charisma
Maybe you are charismatic, but you just don’t know.
Just to lift your spirit today. I enjoyed your comment. ;)
I grew up the youngest of 4. I always tried to make people laugh. But I had the worst stage fright. Anytime the light was on me my face turned into a tomato. I started doing drama class in middle school to try and overcome it. My teacher loved my acting and pushed me to do big roles. After that I learned how to improv and I worked retail and hospitality. Talked to so many people every day. I hate to say it but charisma is all about faking it but not faking it? It takes time to learn but you can make so many people's days once you understand it
Sometimes I have really on days, I’m quick witted and make people laugh, all sorts of talkative. Other times, I’m scared and watch the conversation, being a fly on the wall. Most of the time? I’m on my own, in my apartment, where none of this is possible 🙃
that's a perfect description! XD
Samee lol
You literally described me
Why is that??
@@glutimousmaximous9148 Why am I on my own in my apartment? Because I live alone and don't have anything social to do. It's hard to be social when you don't have friends to do things with or to invite you to things
Or easier way 1. Yell "free food, all on me baby!"
Nonono Ayo i got some watermelon gum want some???
Sets a playful tone
oh gawd this is so underrated
Tbh that is something a magnetic person would say, even if they don't actually buy everyone food
This'll get everyone's attention
How to be the most magnetic person in the room 1: Ingest Magnetite
Sounds painful.
@@boorave at least you’ll be the most magnetic person probably the most effective strategy too
2: Rub self with thick cloth until magnetism is achieved
Lol
That would do it
I love getting "be a good listener" type advice, when no one ever wants to talk to me!
Hey, lets talk! what do you like to do in your freetime? i like to draw :)
be the one to start a conversation
@@kamarishh I used to draw a lot. Lately I'm more of a writer.
@@toweypat thats interseting what do u write bout
@@shikimorisan1527 essay
Pysch2Go: Says I could be this Me: Don't do that, don't give me hope
@Ethan Meszler thats a way to say it
you cute little introvert :DD
@Ethan Meszler :( relate
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we do!!
me!! and i want to thank you for everything, you’ve helped me so much through mental health problems
Seems pretty fun
Way 1: Be a magnet
but people aren’t metal 🤔
Did you know that earth is a 'magnet', because its center is made out of iron. I'm not a scientist though, could be wrong.
@@AleLP8 we all know that lol
@@doratonks2085 blackpink and bts is my life too!!😁😁
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Its more attractive if you be yourself. If that day you feel more reserved, then be so. If you feel more outgoing and playful, then be so. Don't fake things. But practicing these "how to be charismatic" skills would certainly help you in achieving personal goals to be a better person. You'll grow into your own kind of confident.
Always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic. Just being funny and witty and constant positivity just brings everyone together and in return people feel safe and comfortable around you and then there they become more open with social risk slowly gaining their self confidence. Just a beautiful cycle when you can influence others in a positive way
Some of the most charismatic people have been serial killers!?
@@GreasyBaconMan Yes, obviously
You're saying YOU have always been exceptionally skilled at being magnetic? My guy, this isn't coming off as effortlessly charming as you think it is...
All of these are Impossible with being an introvert with social anxiety
takes time ~ fellow introvert with social anxiety
Same
Make a proactive decision to allow change to occur, then create system that exposes you to your fears and stick to it.
People never believe me when I say I am an introvert. What helped me become more outgoing in conversations is realizing that nobody knows wtf they're doing, everybody makes mistakes and we all just prefer to be at home and comfy. Be friendly, honest, don't take stuff personally and smile a lot. When you feel like you did sth cringey, laughing about it or simply apologizing helps. Also remember that people forget ~everything~. I sure as hell don't remember stuff others did that may haunt them forever so who honestly gives a damn if I drop sth or say sth cringeworthy. Life is too short to worry about social norms. Maybe some of this will help you feel more safe. If you keep doing it, you will eventually get used to it even though you will still prefer to be by yourself. An introvert is an introvert even if some of us are not shy
@@rainy_jones yes!
Maybe I should have searched "how to get a personality".
Actually
People who love life have charisma because they fill the room with positive energy. 🧡
Before doing that, we should get to know everyone's personality and their true side
well, this is why i am an introvert :)
A time traveller :0
This is why I don’t like faking til I make it, coz I always feel guilty knowing my true side
Ah yes ✨6 days ago✨
A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles 💫🙏🏾
I don't even want to be with other people, yet I'm here watching this video. Psych2Go makes me happy loll
As an ambivert, sometimes I want to be magnetic and sometimes I want people to leave me alone. I need this when I want to be more like an extrovert
I've been jealous of charismatic people, not in a way like: "What's so good about them" in a negative way but in the manner of "How can I be as good as them?" I have since then learned that it doesn't come naturally, one must work long and hard for it and one day it'll be achieved
I reccomend saying that person's name when you talk to them. People like to hear their own name most of the time so perhaps that might make them feel more connected?
Yes
@@Sunflower_that_loves_you armyyyy 💜
Even if they are not that type of person, it lets them know you are talking to them. I personally would love this.
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@@Sunflower_that_loves_you 💜💜💜 Who’s your bias?
You just need to feel confident, and be yourself. And also show some respect and boundaries as well like when you’re telling jokes, make sure it won’t hurt someone’s feelings. Also, you need to show them that you care and say small compliments to boost their confidence :DD
I've been working towards reviving that charismatic personality of me! I know I'm driven and have successfully done it in the past. Time for the second coming!
I try to be such a magnet for people by talking about things I love. But it is balanced, if I show interest towards other people so they will not get tired of me when I talk a lot of myself. Thank you for your effort.
I swear this is me to the core! Most people flock to me when I walk into a room because they know I'm genuinely interested in them. Not only that, women like me because of my charisma and my easy listening skills.
The social distancing hasn't really altered my life. I generally social distance.
1- set a playful tone: make an energetic and enthusiastic and positive first impression 2- have some funny, short, good stories on hand. Be confident & animated, use present tense with dynamic voices and utilize well-placed pauses. 3- be quick-witted. Think fast on your feet and look for a opening to engage in “banter” with people 4- BE REAL. Stay Genuine, open, and polite. Steer clear from politics/religion/divisive subjects. 5-SMIZE; Open body posture, lean in, nod, make eye contact, mimic their movements. Be “likable” and a GOOD listener. Ask deeper and open-ended questions. Be genuinely interested in learning more about them. *Always remember, PEOPLE LOVE TALKING ABOUT THEMSELVES!!!❤❤❤
I’m a shy person usually, but once I get to know someone it’s easier for me to act like this
I Love you guys, when I saw the thumbnail, I was concerned about my true self, but the words in the brackets relieved me.❤️❤️ Being yourself is very important.
I wouldn't associate every charismatic person with being honest and genuine. Narcissists and Sociopaths are known to be particularly charming and charismatic with others and it's their false self.
Stop being so judgmental and negative.
@@johnnyboy2065 Better to have wisdom and not be so naive.
They are charming because they are good at pretending they are genuine. The difference is: when you really are genuine you will attract people that are similar to you and recognize themselves in you
Optimism is a happiness magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you ✊🏾❤️
Good stuff. One of the simplest ways to raise charisma is to have a great workout. The mood boost and energy really up charisma.
I can do this for awhile but it exhausts me and I become quiet and reclusive. Apparently I've got an electromagnetic personality and it only works when I'm fully charged.
It's the same for me. Some time I'm talkative and then I want to be alone & quiet. My energy is run out! !
and *Apparently* you are the *Apparently* kid :D
**Introverts enter the chat**
@@caelenselke-minogue It might just be the bipolar but I think I fit the profile of an ambivert more than an introvert. I'm pretty good with giving speeches and I've performed vocals in a hardcore band and as an emcee. For some reason it's easier to be the centre-of-attention than it is to be an equal participate.
@@skaldlouiscyphre2453 why is this LITERALLY me.
I've been in the way of personal development since 2020 and I can say that this is the best channel in all of KZhead in terms of mental health. I've been struggling with the way I show my emotions and my emotions themselves. Sometimes I feel like I don't want to react and feel the way I do but I remind myself that it is totally fine to have some "indeseable" feelings. However, this topic of being charismatic and playful is one thing that I really want to improve in my life. I'm not a boring person (at least that's what I think) but I think I can improve my sense of humor and confidence. Especially because I don't have as many friends as I want to and I don't want to be that guy who can only talk to 3 persons and is disrespectful and basically had no idea on how to communicate to other people and be kind. I want to be kind, I want to make people laugh and I want to meet more people at the same time I enjoy being with them. So, (if you read this far you're crazy) I'll be working on all of this stuff and I'll try to be that guy. I hope you have a beautiful day and thanks to Psy2go for the life changing and helping content.❤
i can be super energetic and engaging. im just a little rusty from spending so much time alone. thanks for the tips!
i’ve been having a hard time at school this week, im an extrovert and love talking with people, but i don’t have many friends, i do have anxiety which makes it a little harder to interact some times. i just played the sims today and my sim had the charismatic skill, it made me think about how i don’t have a lot of charisma and which is probably why i don’t have friends. it’s the 3rd week of school already and i have already made some first impressions, but i’m determined to build my charisma up and lower my anxiety, i hope my journey will be great
SAMEEE (the struggles :">). Goodluck in being more charismatic! being an extrovert is one step (introvert here lol), so I know you can do it!
Thanks! I was trying to research how to write a charismatic character for a book, and found this video. I think these tips will help me a lot!
Still working on cultivating these skills - it's a process. But thanks for the tips! Helps a lot.
I have social anxiety and more of an introvert. I spent a lot time cultivating my charisma and social skills. I used Charisma on Demand on youtube. Gaining charisma really helps socially.
most importantly just be nice to people!! juggle playfulness, respect and wit somethin like that
I needed this!! Thank youuuu!!
i've definetly cracked my shell a lot and have come out a more confident person! but- i definetly could also cultivate my charisma more.
I have been using these already before I heard about them. Thank you!
im working on it goodluck to all YOUUU GUYSSSS!!!!!
Sometimes I feel like that. Majority of times I do not. Working on much. We'll see. Great tips.
I didn't realize just how charismatic I am 😇 thanks guys, my ego is swelling exponentially 😂
Thanks for the video Psych2Go! I'm a Charismatic person already but it doesn't hurt to help hone it even more.
Yay! Now i can be ✨charming✨ Thank you!!
This channel is one of the only things keeping me alive right now...
This is such a calming voice 😌💕
7th Way To Be The Most Magnetic Person In The Room: Don't let anyone else in the room watch this video.
I'm naturally charismatic and didn't even know it. Thanks for the explanation
My friend the other day was talking about charisma and he looked directly at me when he said the word. Why thank you, young sir. I'm glad that I'm actually that good with people! Edit: This is where I fall short. I'm mischevious and enjoy listening to people debate so sometimes I delibrately enjoy asking people about controversial subjects. This mischevious spark is also why most of my DnD characters are absolute jerks or extremely flirty. Heehee, I can use my wit and make people mad.
Your voice is enough.CALMING!
In my class I'm not the most the most loved but when i talk people actually listen to me and seem interested, I really love talking and I usually try to put a lot of passion in what I'm saying
Please, make the next one, "how to be the most unnoticeable person in the room," I don't want anyone to accidentally start a conversation with me, y'know . 😂
Be a man, be in a room that nobody knows you
@@kinhoanimes I'd need to change my gender for that, but I might give it a try💜
@@09macka guess humanity will not have a solution for your problem sadly 😢. My small brother said that if you think someone you dont know wants to talk you should pick your nose and they will flee
@@kinhoanimes your brother is genius. I never thought of that.
@@kinhoanimes That is such incredible advice.
Your such a good person even if I was doing this stuff already it’s very kind of you to help people
Don't worry if you feel like you can't do it. It's just practice. A lot of confident people with good body language have practiced to be like that. Confidence is practice as well. You got this ❤
This would help to have more friends in school. Thank you for all lessons for good mentality. I could make a book about that and everything about psychology, attitude and mentality. ❤️❤️❤️
No worries! Thank you for sharing this. We're so happy to help :D
@@Psych2go Thank you. ❤️❤️❤️
Theese vids always help me in tough times, like it helped me get a better relationship with my parents and myself, THANKS SOME MUCH LEAFY BEAN!!!
No problem!! Glad I could help :)
@@Psych2go Im glad u could help tooo ^^ 💖💖💖
Heyy psych2go I was wondering if you guys could possibly make another video on BPD (Borderline personality disorder). It would really help me alot! Love you guys thank you for all the time and effort you guys put into your videos!!!
Hey narrator, you should start a asmr channel because you’re voice is so soothing
“Say what you feel” I feel nothing
Wow guys i really admire your efforts put into videos. They really are something)
Had anybody ever been laying in bed, watching KZhead, and all of a sudden remembering that people know you, have opinions on you and that you exist?
All the time!
Now these are some really good tips!
I absolutely love you guys 🥺❤️
Personally I don't share personal infomation but let thr other person come away from the conversation being heard. I can give lots if infomation about others from what they shared because you've made them feel comfortable and heard, yet they can't say much about me. I think it really is listening to listen , genuine interest in others. Modesty. Confidence in posture and speech. Being or seeming self assured.beye contact and thoughtfulness. Well, for a quiet charm atleast.
Thank you for everything psych2go you’ve helped me through so Much 💛💛💚
Love your voice!
I love big parties and BBQs and stuff but a great feeling is being alone in a room or balcony just above where a party is being held.
I love your videos thanks for making them psychology is so interesting
Great people and great working 🌹
Step one: be gravity you'll attract everyone :>
True
That's beautiful
I tried gaining more mass, but it works on humans as a repulsion.
Just wanted to say this is literally me minus the confidence part but if I build that up which I’m working on itll be awesome being charismatic is a great thing but not a lot of people like it then again it depends on the person but you can definitely connect with a lot of people through charisma
this video got me worlds most charismatic personality.
You should have posted this at the beginning of the year!!!😭😭😭😭
The art! 😫❤️
im definitely one of those people that is i guess quite magnetic once i feel safe around you but if i feel a uncomfortable still im going to be a bit more reserved
I'm on the spectrum and this video helped me immensely... thanks!
The intro nightcore/high piched Is cute
for a sec i thought i was the only one who noticed that they changed the key haha
Thanks for sharing this was helpful! 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Glad it was helpful! :) Which tips will you follow?
Telling good stories because I need to improve on my storytelling skills. I'll be using your tips when I practice! Thank you 👍🏿
It is inspiring to see americans around me being a little more assuring of their loyalty to THIS country, and their adherence to american freedom and equality in personal experience. I had an experience that represented a climactic insight that all things have never ceased to be emptiness, but even despite this, love is. I emphasized the rareness and fullness of the logic and experience of freedom beauty and happiness is gave me, as an equation just that one fractal step beyond the grids. Other americans listened and felt awe, but they then found equalities in their own unique experiences. They are americanly polite. They are finding equality and matching one of my greatest experiences thus making it relateable. Only in america can I be enlightened and instantly everyone else understand without explanation, so i am grateful, this is not a place where spiritual teachers are needed really, so much as a place whose principles must be viewed more simply and constantly for it to grow and flourish as it should. Money alone is not america, and money is possibly in a sense a trap for america, who must assure its true essence of wealth is its adherence to real freedom of life and consciousness without violence. Thank you USA Where nonconformist ideas beat the mainstream every day, and your daily made up myths are as good as the news (thank you for learning all you need to learn from American history up to the 1960s, ) Thank you for the slogan "totally free, sincere 1960" Biden popularizing an OLD hippy nonracism code from the era when it meant more than it does today We shouldn't forget gratitude, it's interesting some of President Biden's comments that US has always opened to the east, but it takes the true stance to really open up the truth the most They, the people are saying what's most healthy, that in traditional language this is unheard of, but basically many can match me because this is truly utopia, only maybe the truly bad karma and of course foreign tourists may be out of the loop with this. Third eye- you are NOT a normal land to sustain what you do for your people, US, but you do it without exploitation, America is a special earth
I do have some of these magnetic traits but sometimes, in a social environment, i feel kinda left out or like the others don't understand me, my jokes etc... Sometimes I think: am i weird or I just didn't find the right group of people in that occasion?! PS: I got more body confident since last year and that helped a lot with me being confident, happy and more outgoing!
Thank you for this unlimited power
I am charismatic according to the points mentioned in this video but I still have difficulty to talk to some people. They don’t like me receiving the attention. They want themselves to receive all the attention. I guess I tried my best. That is life.
We need a whole video describing how to do these steps
True. That's all i'm doing! 100% working
Ok Thank You for this video, I NEEDED THS O-O
No problem!! :) Glad this helped!
I'm going to CFAW so this video definitely helps
I can listen your voice whole day
I LOVE YOUR VOICEEE
Thanks for these useful and important ways.
You are welcome! :) We're happy to help
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I CAN RELATE 💯 PERCENT TO THIS TOPIC, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏💙💪🙊🙉🙏
im going to a new school so i wanna be like this :)
Salience is Charisma. Enthusiasm is salient. Attentive listening is salient. Confidence is salient. Hotness, Intelligence, Communication skills, eye contact, smile all are salient.
I need to Google 'salient' 😂😊
If you are an ENFP, it will come naturally to you
ENFPs and ENFJs are like, so charismatic