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Time flys, don't waste it.
At 48, i'd like to go back in time to tell that to my moronic 20, 25, 30 years old me 🙄
Jumpers for goalposts...
@@Bruegge01 im 17 what would u tell someone my age
Wow that hit home !
@@square7935 Mark already said it. But maybe you have to become older to feel it..
Such an honest video, and the most profound thing you said was a seemingly throwaway line - 'With the right people, anywhere can be ok.' Absolutely...
Home is where the heart is.
The bit that hit me the hardest was, “…not stopping there.”
Blimey Mark. That made me cry. So true though. Good luck.
My favorite line, “Didn’t always get faster, but I got better here.” That’s a hell of a sentence. Been there.
Home is where my girlfriend and dog are. :)
"Didn't get faster but I got better..." There is so much meaning in that simple statement Mark, thank you for probably the best video you have done without meaning to!
Brought a tear to my eye when he made that statement
“Betta” 😅
Completely agree
Yeah that hit hard
Agreed.
very emotional for me mark, 63, cycling lots and recently widowed, life has just got very difficult and scary
You got this! 😊
Much love to you xxx
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Sorry for your loss!
Losing a life partner may be my biggest fear in life. I'm so sorry. Wishing you strength and peace.
When someone who normally jokes about and is sarcastic is sincere and honest like this it makes you realise how deep that person is. A side of you none of us have ever seen, and as someone approaching 40 and currently in a scary situation this video spoke to me.
Basically, my entire KZhead career has just been one long set up to be sincere today. 😂
@@MarkLewisfitness oh for sure, I think it’s why this video was such a shock and really seems to have struck a chord with so many on here.
@@MarkLewisfitness you pulled it off beautifully.
@@MarkLewisfitness Great video as usual, you have a gift behind the camera not many others could do what you do in your delivery, if you are ever in NZ hit us up for a beer, could even put you up for a night, i'll even forgive you for being English (as a welshman 🙂)......
Also approaching 40 and in a scary situation. Hope it works out for you, whatever that means.
This video really upset me, I'm 30, I moved from the UK to Vancouver last year, about as far away from home as I could get in the hope that I'd discover a taste for life, an excitement and freedom from being somewhere else. But all I'm really learning is that if you're not happy with yourself, then it doesn't really matter where you go, because you're still carting all your troubles around with you. I'm walking about in life trying on different versions of myself, the sober one, the stoic one, the marathon running one, the work obsessed one, the creative one, and nothing really feels quite right. I feel like time is slipping away from me, as people's lives are moving forward, and I'm just jutting in random directions, more unstable, and with less direction than ever. "With the right people, anywhere can be OK" - now more than ever, I'm longing for this, a place where I feel I belong, I'm just not sure where it is
If it helps-at 30 I probably felt the same. I was acutely aware that I had an ability to do something, but no real idea what it was. Your age, I was probably 16/17 years away from realising what I enjoyed doing.
Remember that you are 30! You are so so young still! You don’t have to know the answer to any of those things. Try everything and know that it will all work out as it should. And don’t worry about what anyone else is doing. Everyone is on their own journey.
There's a saying in AA, "No matter where you go, there you are." It can be super hard to find yourself, much less the people to support that version of you. On some level, all you can do is enjoy the process of trying on all of the different hats. Some work out, and some don't. Some fit great, then get blown off in the wind. I think in the end, all you can ever do is learn to enjoy yourself and the journey you're on. I think it's really rare to ever find "The Thing", and that's ok.
I hope it’s everything you’ve ever dreamed of Mark. Good luck 👍
@matthewbridges3147 This instability is part of the journey. Not having found a “version” that fits best yet doesn’t mean you haven’t moved- and sometimes aimlessness comes from having let go of driving forces that were a bit crap. There’ll be new shit out there to drive you, but in between, you probably will spend time aimlessly floating. Don’t consider that move a loss; you found something when you did it, it just wasn’t what you expected. Anyway, feelings. I guess the best thing about spaces and moments like this video and comment section is the acknowledgment of shared mortality and the experiences in between.
42 year old me, packs up the family of 4, moves to Norway from the deserts of the southwest States, no job, can’t speak the language and buys a house on a tiny island - bringing the population of the rock up to 24 people. Scary as f***k! Still not sure if it was ballsy or driven by immense self- confidence. 25 years later still here - growing my own food in season, running trails on the nearby island and taking the ferry every day to work or my longer runs on the mainland. Dream fulfilled.
congratulations. all the best.
Congrats 👏. Amazing life you have now. Seems very peaceful and well worth it for sure.
You're living my dream! Sounds like a great life🤩
Recently moved to Norway too. Married a Norwegian woman and moved here last September. Been a lot of change and challenges but don't regret it. 👍
that's amazing. How immigration work without a company sponsor?
It wasn’t until I turned 50 that I stopped fearing the future and started to embrace the uncertainty of life. I’ve changed my job, started to do ultras and Spartans and stopped listening to the people who kept telling me I’m too old to do these things. I can honestly say that I have never been happier.
Mate that's awesome!!
Amen!
I didn't expect to have an existential crisis this Saturday morning. Life is short, on the verge of my own life changing decisions that I've been putting off for too long. Best make my own move before the theme park closes.
"With the right people, anywhere can be okay." You're damn right!
Ok, look, I don't cry at KZhead videos. But this one got me close. Also 50, also have lived within 10 miles of Reading my whole life. Divorced and 3 great 18+ kids. Great new partner. Dad died, dog died, Mum in a care home. Selling the 3 generation house we built. No ties, and no idea where to go next. This vid was a beautiful reflection on a life mostly well spent in and around Reading. The next phase has to be exciting and scary. With content like this, you can be sure that everyone in the comments section is with you and can't wait to follow your journey. Keep it up Mark.
You got me with the dog 🐶 🥲
I think this is my favorite video you’ve made. I’m a grandma in the US. I’m sitting here with tears in my eyes mate (I hope that is term of endearment 😊). I look forward to seeing where you land. Many blessings to you, Jen and family.
I'm sure you were apprehensive releasing something like this, a lil different to usual, you smashed it mate. Quite emotive at places. Nailed the editing again as well, bet you're well chuffed
Thanks. Learning as I go still so nice to play around with styles and approaches to all this.
"I didn't always get faster, but I got better here". Great video Mark, enjoy the new adventure!
My parents moved to a property much like that drone shot at the ripe old age of 70.. my mum was sick of living in the city, where she had lived for the past 35 years. They had to for us kids and my dad's work. Finally they could live how they had wanted to for so long. They were happy there for 5 years, living their dream. Then my mum got diagnosed with incurable cancer in November 2022 She died, at the home she spent her whole life waiting for, less than a month later. Don't wait... Just do it and don't worry, you never know how long you have left.
Heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your loss. I saw a similar thing happen to my partner's mum. Don't wait is absolutely the lesson.
I love this, and I agree with every word. I'm about the same age as you, and recently quit my career of 25 years with its comfy salary and company car. I just came to the realization that every day, it was taking a little bit of my soul away and that a change needed to be made. I'm married, with 3 teenaged kids and a mortgage, and was by some distance the main breadwinner in our house, so the decision was both terrifying, but necessary. I'm infinitely happier now, trying to adjust to a new fulfilling career and a new life. I'm still scared for the future, but I have one thing now that I never had before - hope. To anyone in a similar position I would ask this - which would you rather have...the pain of change or the pain of regret? Go for it, whatever it is. The road is hard, but that thing that you strive for is out there for you. Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear.
Thanks Mark. I am crying at 8:45 in the morning. Looking at my life and you really hit hard today.
This.
I am a serial re inventor. Grew up an Essex girl (which was epic fun) moved to Oxford to get married and turned into a rural village lady who volunteers, had a son, ran a preschool, moved into an ancient cottage with bats, made a cottage garden in two acres. Then we moved to Singapore and lived the city life for nine years. I adored it. Now we are back with the bats. But going back feels wrong. Time for more adventure. I am 71. I don’t want to settle down. Keep moving and they won’t find you, as a dodgy friend says. A word of advice though. Rural living is pretty damn awful all through the winter. There is f all to do and you live indoors for months. Having lived in a proper city I am converted. Being able to walk to a shopping mall, the MRT which links to glamour, shopping, great food, wonderful nature parks and world class attractions like Gardens by the Bay all accessible inside 30 minutes was so enriching. We still had nature and the sea on our doorstep. I am thinking Thailand next, the minute my husband retires.
It’s also a lot less fun as you get older. The constant work is tiring-or you just give up and let nature take it over.
You're my hero. I want to be you when I'm older.
I needed this today. Scarily similar position as you once had, I’m 43, 4 kids, separated 6 months, soon to be divorced. Living alone, bleak outlook. I’ve never felt as low in my life. But seeing this has given me a renewed sense of hope for my future. You look happy with life and that’s my goal, I just want to wake up and feel happiness for one day. That’s all I’d take at the moment, just one day. Life is too short, a mere moment. I need to move on past this and go live. Too scared to live and too scared to die. Thanks mate, much needed
100%. 43 is nothing! Whole life ahead!
Best of luck with the move and keep these vids coming, super content.
Do it. I'm 62 and I've just moved back to the UK after 20+ years abroad. If life isn't an adventure, it's nothing. Resilience is the key, I've cut grass and cleaned toilets, I've run my own business, my new adventure is just beginning and I'll do whatever I have to to make it work. And FFS don't be average.
This message is really for everyone, younger and older. Life is short, you need to live. Living is making difficult decisions, scary decisions and not knowing necessarily what is around the corner in 10 years time. But to be honest, none of us know what's around OUR corner in 10 years time. Live in the moment, yes be calculated in your decisions, not reckless, but live.
Never mind around the corner or 10 years, I don't know what is happening tomorrow. I just wake up and take each day as it comes, I find it hard to make any plans or use up my spare time in interesting ways. I have the dreaded "something will turn up" mentality, I've made it to 45 and nothing has turned up yet...
Resonates hard! I'm 46 now and over in Lower Earley. Love the theme park analogy, except I never went on the rides... I held everyone's bags 😢 Time for a change! Good luck with your journey
“I didn’t get faster, but I got better.” Wow that’s so true for a lot of people who get into fitness when life gets hard. Sometimes you get faster but really it can be a place of healing and working through the hardship
My husband and I quit our secure teaching jobs in London, tried to sell our house and took our child out of school to have a year out in the south of France. Everyone told us that was scary! It was ducking incredible! Then we bought a 1850s house in North Yorkshire. Found an amazing place with a holiday let for some income on our land! Best thing ever. We now live within the boundary of the dales national park. You can imagine how stunning it is up here. We are hundreds of miles away from our families. People told Is that was scary. It’s amazing and now we see our friends and family more because they all want to actually visit us here!!! We’ve had some dark days when the sale On our house fell through several times while we were in France and when we were in the depths of winter in North Yorkshire renting somewhere waiting to buy our house. Oh and although the holiday let was ready to go our home needs work and it’s been tough to get used to but it’s just incredible up here and the outdoor life is amazing!! BTW my husband just turned 60 and I’m in my 40s. There is no time to waste. Also what kind of life did we want for our daughter!? She doesn’t have time to waste either and she was only 4 when we went to France! I’m not even going to wish you luck because it’s not luck it’s bravery you need to just go for it. It’s not the end of the world if everything goes to shit. Nothing is surmountable. There is always a way you just have to find it!
This is one of the best video's I have seen on You Tube. Thank you Mark
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Fellow 50 year old here. I’m not sure of the right word but this connected with me, for sure. Last year I took my son to where I grew up, which was a real moment. You realise how quickly time flies. Go for it. But do avoid the bats. You don’t need that in your life.
I found you looking for fitness motivation. I stayed for the hilarity. I joined the Patreon for the realization that I needed to stop comparison and value authentic creators. Today was a reminder of what makes your channel such an awesome resource for me and others. I think in that time I was 353lbs and forcing myself to be healthy… to now being 210lbs and working on trying to run a sub 4 hour marathon. I realize that the reason I’m happier now is that I get to play with my kid without feeling limited by my body. I get to enjoy the world I have without fear of judgement or feeling less than. You didn’t do that for me, but you were definitely a cog in that wheel that has let me get to the point I am at today.
Amazing results - makes doing this "job" all the better to hear stuff like this.
I needed this today. I'm only 30 but I'm terrified I won't do the things I want to do: leave my finance job to become a full time musician / coach / author. That's what makes me happy. Thanks for all the content Mark, and for everyone's comments on this video. I love this very wholesome part of the internet and the world. Hope to see you out on the road some day.
Thanks for another awesome video Mark. Your content has really helped me during recovery from anorexia nervosa, in the same way I know it’s helped countless others who are fighting the scale from the opposite end. When I’m having a tough time sometimes I throw on one of your videos to remind me that if I want to perform well as an ultra runner I need to fuel my body and treat it right - no way around it. I’ve done a lot of damage over the years, now with osteoporosis at 31, but you showed that a past of poor health does not have to mean the end for future athletic endeavours, as long as we work hard at it. It’s a bloody tough fight, but the message is the same for all of us: treat your body right and it will treat you the same.
Best of luck in your recovery journey Rachel.
I’m 24. I’ve watched your videos for over a year now and this is one of my favorites you’ve done. One of my favorite quotes is “wherever you go, there you are” and this video exemplifies that perfectly.
As someone who also recently reached and passed 50, how great does the idea of having a wilderness property that you can't throw a ball out of sound. i frequently drive past my childhood home, its small and i loved it - because it had green space all round (or used to). Great video Mark.
This video sums what i want to be like when im 50. No regrets (youve done hard scary shit, and lived your life), experienced the world, seen stuff.. and the rest. I am 24, and have dreams and goals... biggest and most scary one is starting my own business - getting it off the ground... but it'd also be one of my greatest achievements as ik the time, effort and emotion that has went into it. Being able to build something by myself (parents are not well off, this is all o me), and being like... i did that. wasnt easy, at all... but im fucking glad i tried and didnt give up. Seeing my parents face when i can look after them when theyre retired, travelling the world myself, and being in the position to help others would mean the world to me. Great watch boss
This message was for me. I needed to hear it because scary holds me back, and I don't have time for that. Thank you.
Hands down, the best video you've done this year. Live now, nobody gets out alive.
While I wouldn't want a million of these videos, I did love this one.
Oh Mark!! What a video. By far your best for me. Thanks, really thanks.
wow, i'm 19 and this video was special - thanks for a sharing a deeper insight into your life
This video was just what I needed to see I'm leaving for Australia on a one way ticket I'm 32 and scared but know in my heart I can't live and die in Cardiff. Thanks Mark this video was really awesome.and too see a guy older than me talking about taking new risks is refreshing and profoundly helpful. Best of luck
Awesome. Sounds like a real adventure.
I made the same decision 3 years ago, best decision hands down. It’s tough at first but worth it.
Best of luck on this new chapter in your life!!
@@perryh.-r.4419 thank you
Great advice. Must have been nostalgic cycling past all your old haunts
Great video Mark. I just turned 49 and have been thinking like this for the last couple of years. When this carnival closes, it does not reopen. Been watching your vids for a few years now. Seems like just yesterday I stumbled across your channel. Jesus.
You’re a legend mate. Thanks for the genuine laugh out louds. ‘It’s a busy road’
Mark, you are a father figure and a role model in so many ways. This is exactly what I needed.
What a brilliant video. As a 50 year old who is kind of stuck in place, it really hit home.
I can honestly say, I’m in the exact same position at this point in my life. This video made me cry - not the field being built on 😂 - it was the theme park analogy that hit me. Time is flying past, take it and squeeze every bit of life out of it that you can, while you can. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
I hope this is a compliment: Half cut Australian approaching 30 with 2 kids: Best video yet.
Mark,....frank, honest, candid, reflective, encouraging, uplifting, humorous,......that's why we love you and your channel...the best one on KZhead....keep going as we are all behind you mate 👍
I think it’s a fantastic move. I’ve watched so many renovation shows of houses in the country and I’m so envious.
Your best video yet, and you do many great vids. I will turn 60 in less than a year, so this one hit home. I just parted ways with a company that I worked at for 17 years and am now trying to start my own business. My emotions have ranged from exhilaration that I do not have to go back to that office to fear and despair that my venture will be a failure. This video is inspirational and gives me hope. THANK YOU!
I emigrated to Australia in my twenties, it was terrifying! I've now come full circle and I am raising my family in Berkshire. I've learned that 'home' is a state of mind and not a geographical location. Best of luck in the move and can't wait to see the wilderness content.
a very beau miles esque vid, really like it
Love your work, dude and this video was a beautiful piece of story telling. Can’t wait for the next chapter.
Man this is so inspirational, keep doing these honest videos in the middle of nowhere, and with the right people, gonna be okay :) rooting for you!
Amazingly, Honest & Raw. Beautiful Mark. Thanks for opening yourself up for this!!!!
I won't bore you with how I relate to this or your channel in general, but thank you. It's a good influence on me.
This is the exact video I needed to see! Thank you for your honesty and perfect timing!
Truly in your Top 5 videos of all time, that was fantastic.
When I turned 40 mu daughter went off to uni; I sat on my sofa and realised it was the first time in my life I was actually living on my own; i was single at the time, so i went and visted my cousin who was living in Kenya with her husband who was serving his last posting before he left the military. On my return i decided to join the TA, or Army Reserves as it was becoming; over the next 9 and a half years I deployed three times on operational tours, met a fantastic lady and from being a non physically fit person to a someone who enjoyed it. Moral of my story: don't sit on your sofa in ten years time thinking what it could have been, yes it can be scary; just do it.
Loved this ... Quite an emotional watch
Best video yet Mark really gets the cogs turning! Honest emotional and heartfelt
Thank you Mark. This was tender, vulnerable and all the more powerful for it. Thank you for the reminder, the perspective and the inspiration.
Great video, and I agree, I'm 53 still racing mountain bikes after 35 years, but time flies, there is not much time for 'one day maybe's', (Until a few years ago if I did this it would be the shortest cycling video on KZhead, all 3 houses I lived in for over 40 years were within 250 metres of each other!)
Liked this one, Mark. Absolutely jump into life. At 62, I don't have a single regret because at least I always tried! Besides, you don't know if you'll die tomorrow or 40 years from now. You're 'young' to 40% of the population, and you enjoy GREAT physical fitness and ability. Do it! We'll be here for it, and for you.
Thank you so Much for your work, sir, and inspiration, this video is absolute gold in scary moments
Wow…this was an amazing video. I am also in my 50s and like you understand that life is short and it goes by fast. My mom is in 80s, but her health started to decline in her late 70s. When you are in your 50s you understand 80 is right around the corner. The nice thing with KZhead, you are not stuck with where your job is because you are your brand. Looking forward to seeing your next chapter
This is a basic principle of Stoicism. Introduce discomfort into your life. Too much comfort and pleasure creates soft people. Hard times help us build resilience and inner strength. Important for weathering the, inevitably, tough times ahead. See discomfort as an antidote to easy living.
Man, did some of that resonate. Four years ago I moved out and my kids didn’t speak to me for two years. But now, with a messy divorce behind me, I’ve reconnected with two amazing sons and have a soul mate (who inconveniently lives in California, but they have better theme parks there). Now it’s time for my last ride. At 54, there are some big decisions to be made, and you’re right: it is scary. But not as scary as sitting in a care home wondering what if one day, maybe…
Thanks for this great message Mark, good luck! and move to that house!!
I love your channel so much. Listening to your advice and your life lesson, it’s like having an extra dad. Thank you Sir!!
This is one of the best things I've ever seen on KZhead. Poetry. Thank you for sharing.
Only stumbled across this KZhead channel very recently but alrwady one of my favourites. Just a bloody good bloke.
❤Not sure why, but this brought tears to my eyes. Hope you get the farm and that it's a blessing to you and your family. Like you said, anywhere with the right people...
In my opinion your best and most important video yet. So many relatable quotes and insights. Thank you!
Damn this was surprisingly emotional! What an honest and real video thank you 🙏🙏
thanks for sharing this aspect of your life and for all the other honest encouragement through your videos. It makes me want to continue to try hard even when I feel quite discouraged.
Congrats old man!! Have an epic journey with not too many regrets!!
Needed this right now. Thanks for sharing. Great video 🤙🏼 Emotionally rewarding to listen to
Loved this , total respect to you !
This might be the best video that I have seen you make. Not that the others are not good… they are great. This one really hits home in so many ways.
Loved this Mark. Great video, great message. Hope all is going well.
I’m watching this on a 2 hour stationary bike ride while getting back into shape at 33. Great message.
Best video yet Mark! Got me crying. You got this!
Your content is so good! Thank you. I’m currently 39 and overweight and a bit lost. You’ve inspired me to get my act together. 👊🏼
I really enjoy your channel Mark - this development is going to make your content exponentially more diverse and interesting. Do it!
Exactly what I needed to see right now in my life. Really, really great video. This kind of reflective video plus the fitness feels whole and gives another dimension to feeling better and how to do it. 🙏🏻 thanks
You have an interesting story mark. I’m always amazed by how simple your videos are, yet infinitely watchable. All the best in your new house and next part of the journey. Chris (Blue Mountains, Australia).
Such an important message and well put together
Blimey, didn’t expect such an emotional one Mark. Fantastic video and very much resonates with me at my current stage in life in my early 30’s. Go for it and enjoy life! Looking forward to seeing how this journey unfolds.
I think by far, your best video to date! I find myself in a similar position and keep pushing off the want to moving to a place just like that. Thank you so much for all the content you create.
Good luck, Mark will be supporting all your adventures
Brilliant video, another reminder that growth & progression happens outside of the comfort zone. Go for it!
A very open and honest video, probably one of my favourite of all your videos, go for it :)
Mark, I loved this video and especially your 'theme park' metaphor. I recently retired after a 42-year career with the same company and now I am trying to figure out 'which ride to pursue' given the limitations I have imposed upon myself. I wish you and your family great success with the new pile and I hope it is less expensive to get the bats out of your attic than it was to remove the squirrels from mine.
Mark, as always great video. Bery inspiring and uplifting. Thanks😊
Wonderful stuff - we all know that moment when it’s time to turn over a new chapter, it’s filled with excitement yet sadness, and you’ve captured that poignant moment when you’re at the precipice of making change so very very well. Beautifully crafted storytelling at its personal best.
"It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult." - Seneca
Great video. One of your best. Really thought provoking and quite profound
A good self-reflection. Thanks for sharing your personal story.
That's utterly awesome Mark. And inspiring. I'm the same age as you and i know what you mean. I'm looking at changes... and they are very scary. Looking forward to seeing and hearing more Mark.
Go for it, mate. 54 here, always train, eat and cycle well… this year brought a heart scare and cancerous tumour removal… but I made the scary move a few years ago already. A great woman with me and pure joy ever since. If it ended early… I was ok with it. I hope you find your peace
One of your best videos for a completely different reason. Loved the reflection and insight. “Didn’t always get faster, but I got better here.” Thanks for sharing Mark!