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BM on The Selfishness & Selflessness Spectrum | GET REAL S3 Ep. #32

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2023 ж. 29 Нау.
116 054 Рет қаралды
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Let's welcome BM of KARD to this week's Get Real episode! BM and the hosts discuss and explore the gray area between selflessness and selfishness in today’s world.
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  • The original trio ❤ we miss them together 🥹

    @carlosangel9871@carlosangel9871 Жыл бұрын

    • Yeah it nice

      @dianaosazenaye1313@dianaosazenaye1313 Жыл бұрын

  • It would be so much fun to have all the hosts together for an episode!! Peniel, Ashley, BM, pH-1, and Junny.

    @starryyynighttt@starryyynighttt Жыл бұрын

    • It’s Peniel

      @haleznz@haleznz Жыл бұрын

    • @@haleznz my bad 🥲

      @starryyynighttt@starryyynighttt Жыл бұрын

    • Harry and Junny are on tour 😅

      @lolalazovic1950@lolalazovic1950 Жыл бұрын

    • Ohhh plsssss

      @chikicutay9191@chikicutay9191 Жыл бұрын

    • Make this happen pleaseee!

      @user-ub9wp4yn7u@user-ub9wp4yn7u Жыл бұрын

  • Am I the only one who thinks this trio are the best hosts for these show?

    @mahmudayesminlipi9308@mahmudayesminlipi9308 Жыл бұрын

    • Agree

      @KrisC.@KrisC. Жыл бұрын

    • Junny is a good host too. Both trios have different energies that's only natural. I think it's kind of inconsiderate to say that cuz Junny might see it

      @maria199736@maria199736 Жыл бұрын

    • I agree

      @giselagarza6293@giselagarza6293 Жыл бұрын

    • I actually like Junny more no than BM too

      @niimahrabiu5815@niimahrabiu5815 Жыл бұрын

    • You can definitely see how this show came to be in the first place…they’ve been good friends for years and it shows. They’re super comfortable around each other and so the conversation flows naturally. The others hosts add a different dynamic too and I love them as well. I miss this trio a lot though !

      @NoraRez@NoraRez Жыл бұрын

  • Harry last week and BM this week?? Dive kicking it old school this month!! I'm stoked for this episode

    @l_o123@l_o123 Жыл бұрын

  • we should have harry, bm, ashley, and peniel all together in one frame again

    @MaryGaileDSingh@MaryGaileDSingh Жыл бұрын

    • we should add junny too

      @isra_arsi@isra_arsi Жыл бұрын

    • It’s Peniel

      @haleznz@haleznz Жыл бұрын

    • Junny too

      @karanda7832@karanda7832 Жыл бұрын

    • Who’s pinel?

      @k-poppersince0951@k-poppersince0951 Жыл бұрын

    • Pinel😭

      @honey10tionup17@honey10tionup17 Жыл бұрын

  • Can we get a Bambam appearance on how to save money lol

    @user-jh1nl2nj8f@user-jh1nl2nj8f Жыл бұрын

    • AmaZing suggestion !!

      @nessrineboukhari0167@nessrineboukhari0167 Жыл бұрын

    • Need that

      @siahts2sena@siahts2sena Жыл бұрын

    • Not from a rich person

      @dibamansur4843@dibamansur48438 ай бұрын

  • Peniel: "My memory isn't that good" (Five minutes later): *remembers Kevin's pet snake when Ashley clearly doesn't and even asks who's Kevin*

    @rururandria7131@rururandria7131 Жыл бұрын

    • but you know, the thing about bad memory is, you remember the most random unimportant stuff and not the important stuff at the right time. Sometimes you just don't remember that part or moment of your life anymore no matter how much you try. I say this coz i have this too.

      @sp-fw4wh@sp-fw4wh9 ай бұрын

  • peniel from his friends pov : he is brutally honest, knows when to say no, storng about his opinions peniel from managers and members pov : he is a 'yes man' (says yes to everything)

    @andhiniretno3886@andhiniretno3886 Жыл бұрын

    • he puts himself first for everything EXCEPT the group, it's admirable. btob and the members always come first for peniel, bc he always wants to do what's best for the group and believes the members know what that is. but even then i believe he always states his opinion, like with joining kingdom he stated his opinion but said he'd do what the members decided. peniel's truly the best.

      @curiositykilledthekat@curiositykilledthekat Жыл бұрын

    • I think for BTOB it's because they knew each other's likes and dislikes bc they've been living together since debut days until 2016. i also believe they have honest talks to make their team works. And i think Peuni is the yes man just in BTOB standards even if he is expressive of his opinions bc other members are more expressive of their opinions like Changsub. And everyone in the team are all kind and understanding to each other that Peuni said they are his family. They takes care each other, protect each other.

      @usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody@usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody Жыл бұрын

    • @@curiositykilledthekat agree with you! he put others first when it comes to BTOB. he loves his family so much.

      @cindhytheresia841@cindhytheresia841 Жыл бұрын

  • 22:30 Ashley - "Can you think of a time when you were selfless?". Peniel - "No"... About Peniel being selfless: He literally is selfless more than selfish with his BTOB members. They call him "Yes-Man"! Y'all should see ANY BTOB stage, he is the one picking up the water bottles to give the members some water before he drinks it himself, he CONSTANTLY takes care of them about food, giving them the food or snacks before eating himself, comforting them when they need it, makes sure they don't fall off the stage, caries them off the stage LITERALLY on his back when they are sick. When the stage gets messy MID-CONCERT he starts cleaning up so no one trips over. He was seen walking an older lady across the streets. He's super concerned when a member needs anything. No matter how little sleep he gets the night before, he always attends his members solo concerts/musicals. In the latest concert (BTOB's 10th year anniversary concert) in new years, he said in one of the ments that the reason he's still in Korea (and not in Chicago where his family is), is because of BTOB and Melody. There's like a tone more and probably better examples that I could've written, but these are on the top of my head rn. All I've known is Peniel being selfless and caring. He's so selfless it kinda worried me that he would be a pushover, I think the BTOB members have expressed the same worries in the past, but I'm glad hearing his friends say that he knows when to say no! Love you Peniel! 💙

    @shtapan5454@shtapan5454 Жыл бұрын

  • Lol Ashley pretending to be the needy girlfriend had BM sweating 😅😅😅

    @priscillas4722@priscillas4722 Жыл бұрын

    • And Paniel having instant comebacks to everything she said haha

      @StirredNotShakenPlz@StirredNotShakenPlz Жыл бұрын

    • @@StirredNotShakenPlz This isn’t his first time! 😂

      @priscillas4722@priscillas4722 Жыл бұрын

  • The way that BM keeps up with Bambam’s KZhead channel 🥺💚

    @adelepenguin13@adelepenguin13 Жыл бұрын

    • My igot7 heart was so happy ❤💚

      @1989snb@1989snb Жыл бұрын

    • they need to get bambam on the show

      @jgak071048@jgak071048 Жыл бұрын

    • Really want bambam on this show

      @sehriniazi@sehriniazi Жыл бұрын

    • Plus he just had a comeback

      @whenisaysayyousaysay@whenisaysayyousaysay Жыл бұрын

    • @@whenisaysayyousaysayhe’s gonna be on the daebak show - so him coming to get real isn’t too far fetched an idea

      @theyoutubersfromdenmark8143@theyoutubersfromdenmark8143 Жыл бұрын

  • BM!!!! Stop!! you guys are spoiling us... first back to back Harry episode and now Matilda!!?

    @luro2122@luro2122 Жыл бұрын

    • i was waiting for someone to call BM his real name assksk

      @kolenwu4850@kolenwu4850 Жыл бұрын

    • Yessss...march has been good because of get real❤❤❤❤💘💘🙌🙌🧡🧡💙💙

      @nirjanayak3702@nirjanayak3702 Жыл бұрын

    • Right, the production/casting team has been going off. Bless them!

      @bobthebuilderday6leader@bobthebuilderday6leader Жыл бұрын

    • He let it slip he'll be back next week!

      @janvdb9258@janvdb9258 Жыл бұрын

    • @@janvdb9258 YES!

      @luro2122@luro2122 Жыл бұрын

  • 23:50 finally we have an episode with BM again bcs I kinda miss the OG interactions 🥲 BM : I hate snakes. Ashley : Does anyone like snakes? Nobody likes snakes. Peniel : Kevin (The Boyz) does. Ashley : Oh yeahh, he has a real snake. BM : Real snake is okay. Peniel : I dunno, real snakes are kinda freak me out.

    @hanna_fdhl@hanna_fdhl Жыл бұрын

    • i love it when their conversations take a turn like this lmaoo

      @curiositykilledthekat@curiositykilledthekat Жыл бұрын

  • Poor Peniel, he’s still in pain but he always push himself to dance and do the concert. Hope you have a speedy speedy recovery uri Peuni Peuni

    @olaayupuspasari1333@olaayupuspasari1333 Жыл бұрын

  • In case the word "selfish" is too negative or incendiary for people, another way to phrase it is self preservation. Often times people don't know when to say no, so they end up helping others at the expense of their own mental health and well-being.

    @rahjahknows@rahjahknows Жыл бұрын

    • I agree with you. I would also say assertive instead of selfish. Good discussion with these three.

      @ferniverse1@ferniverse1 Жыл бұрын

  • what about all 5 hosts in one ep together? eh? sounds so good

    @lychee23@lychee23 Жыл бұрын

  • BM is such a good talker. I always fall more for him in every podcast he comes in.

    @glorianamultistan@glorianamultistan Жыл бұрын

  • Guys, call BamBam for his TED Talk on finances😂🎉 P.S. original trio always melts my heart❤

    @ShumKaY@ShumKaY Жыл бұрын

  • 24:01 "kevin does" 😭

    @reii9554@reii9554 Жыл бұрын

  • Could you get Mark Tuan on the podcast? I would love to hear how he's doing and his take on things

    @OhMiOhMyMelon@OhMiOhMyMelon Жыл бұрын

    • Omggg yesss please bring marktuan

      @user-got73@user-got73 Жыл бұрын

    • I love Mark but he is so vanilla

      @olugboyeopeyemi2428@olugboyeopeyemi2428 Жыл бұрын

    • @@olugboyeopeyemi2428 vanilla??

      @user-got73@user-got73 Жыл бұрын

    • @@user-got73yh don't know what it means? if you have watched his American interviews...you would know what I am talking about

      @olugboyeopeyemi2428@olugboyeopeyemi2428 Жыл бұрын

  • Big Maltida, Penelope and Ashley ❤❤❤

    @tins_melo@tins_melo Жыл бұрын

  • All in all, you just can't give from an empty cup. You have to put yourself first and take care of yourself so that you can take care of others. In that same vein, you can be selfish, I believe, as long as you're not hurting others and with that you can be selfless as long as you're not hurting yourself. Setting boundaries and letting people know when you just can't help them is always going to be the best option whether that causes you to be selfish as a reaction towards other people's problems/requests or selfish towards yourself as a reaction to what you can do for yourself at that time.

    @cyannaashanti182@cyannaashanti182 Жыл бұрын

  • It’s so nice to see everyone together. OG and the craziest trio. Love PH1 & Junny but I missed those trio. BM looks super cute today, so darn cute 😍🤩🔥🔥🔥💙

    @IssaK.@IssaK. Жыл бұрын

  • Peniel please be healthy. BM I hope you get through whatever that is made you think of this topic. And Ashley continue to be a ray of sunshine to your friends.

    @randomcommenter3713@randomcommenter3713 Жыл бұрын

  • Finally the OG! BM! 😭

    @nhijrah@nhijrah Жыл бұрын

  • When I tell yall I LOVE Matthew, I mean that with my whole heart. Anything he does, I'm supporting to the fullest! ❤

    @ceraleexo@ceraleexo Жыл бұрын

  • Aaah peniel please take care of yourself and stay healthy

    @yessica5231@yessica5231 Жыл бұрын

  • I got tired of being "selfless" all the time,!! Like Ashley said that people will continue to take advantage of your good graces. Now its my turn to take care of me!!!

    @janicebolosan119@janicebolosan119 Жыл бұрын

  • my trio!!! i miss all of y’all together 🥹🤍

    @baisha@baisha Жыл бұрын

  • I love this episode so much 'cause this episode remind me to Get Real season 1. The topic is very interesting, light, related to our daily life so fun. This is what i love from Get Real. I always love BM when he get into the topic and Peniel Hey I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! I always love the way's Peniel of dealing with his situations. And Ashley being Ashley as usuall. I miss Junny btw

    @rahayuwahyu_@rahayuwahyu_ Жыл бұрын

  • Honestly, the original 3's dynamic was my favorite as they seemed like real friends way before the podcast.

    @medioreblatherskite@medioreblatherskite Жыл бұрын

  • good to see BM back to the house with you, missed him alot

    @Fantasy_Subs@Fantasy_Subs Жыл бұрын

  • It's official. My fav combination is these 3. The way I'm jumping walking to my hostel listening to this 😂

    @notmeowbutmeow5269@notmeowbutmeow5269 Жыл бұрын

  • 13:24 the sibling energy 😂😂😂

    @callmevitaaa@callmevitaaa Жыл бұрын

  • Can’t wait for the new Kard comeback. I’m so excited!!!! And I love the trio. Glad to see them all back together again!

    @JDMalu@JDMalu Жыл бұрын

  • Peniel talks a lot if the subject is not that serious 😂 but glad BM is back!

    @JSJA19640@JSJA19640 Жыл бұрын

  • I really miss this OG lineup.. be permanent BM! Please!

    @jaycee4679@jaycee4679 Жыл бұрын

  • Guys, StrayKids are going to have a comeback this April 🎉you should invite them 😉 BangChan, Felix and Seungmin speak English well 🤍

    @dohastay1468@dohastay1468 Жыл бұрын

  • I love what BM said about being selfless and selfish and how you definitely should help someone in need, but also be careful that no one takes advantage of you. Like Peniel said: everything in moderation is the key - I think that’s true and everyone should look out for themselves, but also for each other ❤

    @reh_ot7@reh_ot7 Жыл бұрын

  • This episodes theme to me was the definition of “protecting your peace” you can protect your peace while still being selfish and selfless, but as soon as it crosses your own boundaries you need to protect yourself first.

    @user-bs4oq9xv7p@user-bs4oq9xv7p Жыл бұрын

  • I just really love Ashley as a host and the dynamic she has with these two and Junny and Harry. 💙 I want BM back as a host! 😭🙏💙

    @shtapan5454@shtapan5454 Жыл бұрын

  • I want to see more BM in get real I didn't realize I Missed him so much! Just listening to him talk I love it

    @antonellafernandezcastella9184@antonellafernandezcastella9184 Жыл бұрын

  • ashley BM redhead siblings...between hwaiting and this I'm happy this trio is back so soon!

    @alicial4930@alicial4930 Жыл бұрын

  • @peniel , your helicopter thing you talked about at 9:37 is probably referring to probiotics. It's found in some yogurts to help with digestion and has good bacteria to support your stomach.

    @rustybros@rustybros Жыл бұрын

  • 5 Michelin stars 😂 Its 3 guys Reminds of bang chan and felix ❤

    @anitabharti6004@anitabharti6004 Жыл бұрын

  • First of all, I really needed this ep regarding the issues that they discussed. I've been dealing with this for a while now. My friends that I have since I was a baby, were kinda concerned abt how I'm always a "yes person" even when I'm fked up mentally. I've been with them for so long and I noticed how they changed over the years and became more "selfish", but not in a bad way, and they were trying to make me like that too because I was too selfless. For like 6 months I was exhausted physically and mentally trying to be there for some people, and when I found myself in a bad situation, I was overexplaining myself about what I feel and think because I felt like I'm just speaking to a wall. When I had to decline them, my whole body was trembling because of what their feedback would be and when I finally did it, they called me selfish, irresponsible, bad, someone who doesn't keep promises and lot of other things. Even though I felt exhausted I've never thought that they are just sculpting me how they want me to be, but since that incident I just left. I'm not mad, they thought me a lesson. A lesson that my close friends tried to teach me long ago when I didn't want to believe in that, but now I finally learned it. I'm INFJ-T. I've heard that you change over the years but everytime I test it, it always comes out the same. Maybe it will change in my 30ties or later.

    @jovanav.4784@jovanav.4784 Жыл бұрын

  • Awww seeing these guys together again makes me so happy! 💚

    @sodasunnnyshine2482@sodasunnnyshine2482 Жыл бұрын

  • Oh man… this episode is really something i needed to hear. I recently started working my first job in customer service and find it extremely hard to say no to customers and coworkers since I’m naturally timid and don’t feel comfortable with the thought of being difficult. Recently through these difficult situations, I slowly learned how to control my emotions to think more calmly and the realization that I have to become more firm instead of staying a pushover. Thanks for bringing up this topic BM!

    @OurBlueOcean7@OurBlueOcean7 Жыл бұрын

  • this episode came at the very right time form me! i was in a fight this week which kind of around being selfish/selfless, this gave me a new perspectiv on things, thanks!

    @isabellevoldy@isabellevoldy Жыл бұрын

  • My favorite trio! So happy to see them together 💕

    @ttaka3821@ttaka3821 Жыл бұрын

  • Peniel is right about an injury making other things worse. After my knee surgery, my good knee started to bother me. It’s bc you overcompensate. It sucks!

    @charro028@charro028 Жыл бұрын

  • 😭😭i missed this, now that the OGs are back i love it

    @arohame4104@arohame4104 Жыл бұрын

  • Sooo good having the OG3 back. Great time to kick back relax and hang with the team.

    @RhodesToKpop@RhodesToKpop Жыл бұрын

  • Prev weeks, Harry, and now BM!!! Get Real fam is spoiling us! 😍

    @anjh2cs@anjh2cs Жыл бұрын

  • no because the way they bounce off each others ideas and thoughts makes it so much more interesting to watch like I could watch this trio for hoursss

    @bangpinkardexid@bangpinkardexid Жыл бұрын

  • AHHHH it's BM!!! Can't believe KARD is having a comeback soon, really excited for new music!

    @acyein@acyein Жыл бұрын

  • Aww! Another reunion. Love when OG host come visit n chill. 😂😂. Funny how Korean is so into Personality trait even introduced each other and remember each like 👏 Ashley.

    @peacelife@peacelife Жыл бұрын

  • This episode hit me so hard. Love this original trio! Thanks GetReal! ❤️

    @maiters5503@maiters5503 Жыл бұрын

  • I love the OG trio.... so much funnnnn. BM we miss youuuuu

    @43385489@43385489 Жыл бұрын

  • In the morning I saw this ep coming out and I instantly liked it even though I didn't have time to listen to it. Now I'm back and I wanna say what everyone says and thinks "I LOVE THIS TRIO" 🥰🥰

    @jovanav.4784@jovanav.4784 Жыл бұрын

  • BM!!!!!!!!! It’s was about damn time we had him on get real, missed him so much. The trio is back and I couldn’t be happier. This podcast was so chill and wholesome, it’s just feels nice seeing them talk about ordinary things and their lives😊. Hope you’re doing well BM and see you soon.

    @crystal-11@crystal-11 Жыл бұрын

  • Just back from my skincare clinic to treat my acnes, then watch this and peniel share his experienced about pimple’s treatment . Relate so much! I hate the most when they did my nose part too😂

    @liveinsoco2504@liveinsoco2504 Жыл бұрын

  • Yayyyyyy BM is back!!!!❤❤

    @EvolvingwithRen@EvolvingwithRen Жыл бұрын

  • thank you for sharing peuni 🥺 your health is the most important

    @pnlsprkls@pnlsprkls Жыл бұрын

  • The conversation , most i needed 💌

    @anshikaverma7407@anshikaverma7407 Жыл бұрын

  • I love this though, it's very chill and feels like hanging out with a few friends

    @ivanmagnusmartinez78@ivanmagnusmartinez78 Жыл бұрын

  • ahhh missed these three together!!! plus ashley looks extra pretty in this ep 🤧

    @eiouiu@eiouiu Жыл бұрын

  • OG Get Real crew I love it 😍 Also Matthew’s looking extra fine with that hair color

    @nessk7825@nessk7825 Жыл бұрын

  • This episode was to Get Real!!! Love it! I really had miss this trio!! 😸😸

    @valeriaarias483@valeriaarias483 Жыл бұрын

  • Missed this trio soooo much 🥲 wish they're always together huhuhuh

    @diannegarcia4351@diannegarcia4351 Жыл бұрын

  • It's always good to see the OGs in da house! God is GOOD! 😊

    @fdoctor79@fdoctor79 Жыл бұрын

  • Love these three together 💯 And grubhub absolutely took too much money last year, so relatable BM

    @idivine1312@idivine1312 Жыл бұрын

  • Omg last time Harry and now BM 😭😭😭 love you guys

    @pinkocean6137@pinkocean6137 Жыл бұрын

  • Glad to have BM back. Even though he's just a guest this time. I miss him on this show. I could listen to him all day long.😊 ❤

    @SuperLulaby@SuperLulaby Жыл бұрын

  • I'm so happy to see this iconic trio again 😊 I think Junny is a great addition because he adds a younger perspective to the show, but I just love the og3!!! Their level of friendship & comfort with one another really make for an easy & interesting listen! Would LOVE to see an episode where Junny & BM meet 😆 there are some other guest hosts I don't think we've seen with BM either so I think it would be really fun to see those interactions someday too :)

    @Orblinkluv@Orblinkluv Жыл бұрын

  • Today's topic is great and I could relate with B. M It's true we should be clear when to be selfish and when to be selfless. Before even I was helping others thinking it was what I am supposed to but when I had to put others before me, and to help some times going way beyond my capabilities to help them and it started get on me too. Yes we should really know when to say NO. Anyways this was a very good episode. Thx get real show and dive studios!!

    @mlm510@mlm510 Жыл бұрын

  • Finally seeing bm without a hat on in the podcast is the biggest blessing he luks so handsome 😍🔥

    @Aaishax99@Aaishax99 Жыл бұрын

  • I know im late but i legit screamed so loud my brother got scared, out of excitement when i saw BM in the thumbnail!! the King of the gang is back!!

    @farziakarim3087@farziakarim3087 Жыл бұрын

  • Damn, watching this while fasting when Peniel said greek yogurt and fruits and what not I don't even eat healthy but that sounds really good right now.

    @Ashqhun@Ashqhun Жыл бұрын

  • I've always been a giver (the rock) for friends, family and even strangers, but now that I'm older I'm entering a space where my main priority is making sure that I'm self-FILLED. I'm focused on making sure that *I'm* good and sometimes that means letting the chips fall wherever they may when it comes to everyone else. We do a disservice not only to ourselves but also to others when we step in and try to protect them from facing the consequences of their own choices by being everything that they want. *We* figured out how to get whatever it is that they want from us, so letting them figure out how to make it happen for themselves is the best thing that we can do for selfish, greedy, and needy people.

    @Lita_213@Lita_213 Жыл бұрын

  • Love the topics they bring up ❤️

    @another20sth@another20sth Жыл бұрын

  • This was a fun episode. I like seeing funny Peniel here. Here he seems more confortable and he is funny.

    @erikac2720@erikac2720 Жыл бұрын

  • I almost called bullsh*t when I saw the thumbnail and the date today. But then it's not exactly April 1 so I actually got excited. This is pretty dope!!!

    @katekyojp6338@katekyojp6338 Жыл бұрын

  • When I think of selfishness, I think ‘ONLY thinking about yourself’, while selflessness is only thinking about others. Taking care of/standing up for yourself is not selfish in this sense it’s just allowing your thoughts and needs to be apart of the equation rather than being dismissed. Great episode! I love these 3.

    @StrayaK8@StrayaK8 Жыл бұрын

  • B.M., that's what's ageing is, buddy. Our senses got attuned to all these the older and the more experienced we get. Sensing them is already a step up in your life experience 👍 stay strong, stay healthy, stay safe all of you

    @zed2711@zed2711 Жыл бұрын

  • So glad BM is back

    @larissacavalcante8983@larissacavalcante8983 Жыл бұрын

  • very interesting topic ! I think it’s impossible to be both selfish and selfless as to be selfish requires you to not be considerate of the other person so they kind of juxtapose each other in a way. I think when selflessnesses is subjective to any factor or context then it isn’t really selfless .. what i have come to realise is that being selfless done correctly can only be positive as it stems from kindness ,compassion and confidence/secureness in oneself . being selfless doesn’t mean i value you more than myself in fact i believe it’s a reflection of how much i value myself.. being a selfless person doesn’t mean you can’t say no !

    @chosen558@chosen558 Жыл бұрын

  • I love how they are more natural and unfiltered in this episode comparing to the older ones 😁

    @VHShologram@VHShologram Жыл бұрын

  • glad to have bm back, i can't wait for kard's comeback!!!!!

    @curiositykilledthekat@curiositykilledthekat Жыл бұрын

  • Boundaries and Balance! Let your "yes" be yes and your "no" be no!! Friends are your chosen family...sleep when your dead! 🙋🏼‍♀️🙏🏼💯

    @susanhawson17@susanhawson17 Жыл бұрын

  • This episode is deep....at some topics ,I actually genuinely learned alot....thank u Ashley, BM and penile😊..penile has an admirable personality ngl....pretty cool

    @preciouslyunhinged@preciouslyunhinged Жыл бұрын

  • glad to see the OG TRIO BAAACK

    @got7_crackheads-800@got7_crackheads-800 Жыл бұрын

  • I am also realising this in my new workplace. I finally realise that I don’t need to give my all to everybody and everything. I need to be more confident and stand up for myself. Like f*** all this

    @diannetapalla1645@diannetapalla1645 Жыл бұрын

  • THE OG'S ARE BACK 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    @caaaster@caaaster Жыл бұрын

  • Well damn, hope you're good BM. Sounds like you been through it, wishing you the best 🙏

    @OhMiOhMyMelon@OhMiOhMyMelon Жыл бұрын

  • The OG crew 🎉🎉🎉

    @piadabrown@piadabrown Жыл бұрын

  • matthew'e hair omg!!!!! suits him so good 😍

    @mavwithcats@mavwithcats Жыл бұрын

  • Its Helicobacter Pylori 😂😂

    @rosannavizcainomendoza7806@rosannavizcainomendoza7806 Жыл бұрын

  • Hell to the yeaAhH....! The 3 ultra pro max OG’s are back.. I click as fast as the lightning and roared like a thunder in my female voice ❤❤❤

    @melc5000@melc5000 Жыл бұрын

  • I missed this! 3 friends meeting and talking a little bit about the topic, and then about random friends things! haha missed it! but it was so fun

    @siriih.974@siriih.974 Жыл бұрын
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