Conversing with Ms Nosipho Njilo who's friend took over her marriage and her husband married her friend and they moved in together
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@thabanistdlamini26 күн бұрын
2;2
@ThandekaMzangwa22 күн бұрын
Please take your time, God will show you the way, just put yr trust in Him
@user-nn6mu7no5s19 күн бұрын
Mina owami Myeni ulala nomakhelwane nami. Uthandana no gogo Ona 70 mina 36 yena he is 37
@mbalenhlembelu635912 күн бұрын
please don't bring your phone to the show
@NcengileMabuza-dj1dpКүн бұрын
Oh kodwa Nosipho ulunge kangaka sisi. I know you from the time useyingane and you've always been a respectful child. Sorry my baby but God will answer❤
@nancyzinisibisi502427 күн бұрын
Aww Jehova yazi uyambona nje ukuthi inhlonipho isegazini❤
@nobuhlendlovuleta986026 күн бұрын
ULunge kwaze kweqa😢😢😢.And She was young easily get manipulated😢@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860
@Zee012626 күн бұрын
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti - uyambona nje bakithi uzilungele nje uNosipho. Karma will find lo Bhuti
@lungisanimkhize483625 күн бұрын
The parents were wrong to marry this pretty young woman to such an older man.
@user-zz2zj3mh9g29 күн бұрын
Precisely dear, manje yini so
@nobuhlendlovuleta986026 күн бұрын
@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860 ngezwa ubuhlungu uyazi so better to waste time waiting kuloku jaha izinto so.
@user-zz2zj3mh9g26 күн бұрын
The guy wasn't toooooooooo old just a different of 16 years
@gospelallthewaymlilo578326 күн бұрын
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783🫢😳
@gabisilengwenya-mu7gi26 күн бұрын
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783Nah, she was still young and he was older and more experienced than her. She said it herself that she was still young and didn't know what she was doing. A sixteen-year age gap was still substantial.
@_theerealnono_769425 күн бұрын
South Africa ngicela sishayeleni ucc izandla uyimbokodo cc Nkulunkulu aze abe nawe okuhle ngawe kuyeza❤
@phindilemakhathini773829 күн бұрын
She is a diamond this man has lost
@christinenxumalo608229 күн бұрын
Yoh she’s phenomenal 👌✨
@musomuhleradebe29 күн бұрын
Pick yourself up, chin up! No looking bk Your way is clear and bright! Good luck❤
@robertharrington984524 күн бұрын
Yoh sisi ngifunde likhulu from your story ngifisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angiphe isibindi onaso
@MAPASEKAANGELMOKOENA24 күн бұрын
Ey ahlanzela abenamabhodwe impela
@Goodman67624 күн бұрын
The way she is so calm. She seems like shes a good person. Ubhuti lost a diamond la
@simsngema9088Ай бұрын
One man's trash is another man's treasure, ukuwa kwenye ukuvuka kwenye
@akho230429 күн бұрын
God will give you Gold but still you are looking around wasting your own time
@user-cj5rm4lc1u29 күн бұрын
Could not have said it better❤
@ZiyandaNgwane-uo6dg29 күн бұрын
True and u Jehova uzophendula kulu mgani wakhe , wow abantu bakhohlakele emhlabeni 🙌🏽
@hildakgodu579628 күн бұрын
Ubogada ke lapho. Abaningi baba bahle babukeke kahle emva kokwenza amaphutha empilweni. 😂
@Mfundini0728 күн бұрын
Their relationship will never work, only time will tell, there is a God In heaven
@sarahmmoni877729 күн бұрын
Am im the only one crying. I helped him meet his soulmate. She says 😭😭😭😭. May God restore, not the marriage but her.
@siphokaziluzipho419729 күн бұрын
For her to leave the house just like that it takes a strong person to do that she's a good person indeed..The nerve that this guy has brought his people to chase her out joo sad. However God wouldn't allow His child to bring no satani together. I'm sure there were red flags from the start just that she was to young and naive to see them.
@user-bw1vx7yi4u29 күн бұрын
That was deep I felt it
@mandy716827 күн бұрын
@@user-bw1vx7yi4uyou do honey I did for peace sake and mungasafuni nawe she was going to even die for the house do u know the feeling of being in a place where u not wanted yooh it’s hurts
@mandy716827 күн бұрын
Exactly! Otherwise these types of men do not stop. People shouldn't be fighting for such rubbish, honestly. A marriage is about two people, not one person fighting for a useless marriage
@gabisilenkosi832226 күн бұрын
I salute you cc uyimbikodo
@mabukimtyoki17878 күн бұрын
You only 31 my dear....you are still young. Take time to heal....around 35- 40 you will find a good, Godly man and forget about this ungrateful thing❤❤
@charitymlilo751119 күн бұрын
I fought for my marriage physically, spiritually and mentally. I thank God that I didn't get admitted for depression.
@pulengphatedi815329 күн бұрын
Are you still there?
@edithmatsane293226 күн бұрын
@@edithmatsane2932 , no we got divorced.
@pulengphatedi815326 күн бұрын
Man🤨😏...you are strong girl ❤️❤️
@edithmatsane293226 күн бұрын
Story of my life. Eventually got kicked out and I thank God I'm well and alive great peace of mind
@sheronsnethembancube269326 күн бұрын
She's the most beautiful and calm person ever .❤May God give her strength and bless her.
@dipuomangope842423 күн бұрын
This man is going to REGRET doing this to this humble soul who still remained submissive through this pain!
ENGATHI NKOSI INGAKUSIZA UFUNDE UKUTHANDAZA KUZE UNGAFUNDI NGEZINKINGA UPHELELE LAPHO IBA NOKUQONDA SATHANE UYAWUZONDA UMSHADO AND TARGET ABANTU ABASEBENZELA UTHIXO UKUZE BABE AMA REJECT BANGABI NAWO AMANDLA OKUMA SATHANE UYAZULAZULA UYABHONGA NJENGEBHUBESI EFUNA AZOBAGWINYA
@LindizwiLeonard-nq8vr10 күн бұрын
You guys must sell the house and get both your share. 😮 Go get what you worked for. This guy and your friend must go build their house. 😮
@pulengphatedi815329 күн бұрын
Oh I love how uBhuti listens to his guest sana 👌👌👌
@zipolandzela2647Ай бұрын
Yeah he is a good interviewer
@oratilemoyawa293629 күн бұрын
But the phone iyaphazamisa...the guy is not even concentrating that's why anga disturb ....
@amazetimbane27 күн бұрын
What is it that he's busy with on the phone I'm very disturbed
@lindenisikakane990626 күн бұрын
Yazi calmly... no chipping in whatsoever!
@nobuhlendlovuleta986026 күн бұрын
@@amazetimbanekakhulu
@gospelallthewaymlilo578326 күн бұрын
Ngaze ngamthanda ucc, ukube bengiyi nsizwa bengizozi thathela yena🤞her voice👌, her humbleness. Lo bhuti ulahlekelwe igolide while he was busy collecting stones.
@lindiwengwane31114 күн бұрын
❤ This is what I call the real beauty!Beauty from inside out!Her mindset!Okuhle kodwa dear empilweni yakho!
@zandilesokhela157824 күн бұрын
The only thing I learned from cellphone messages is to forward everything to my number as a proof
@ConstanceMthanti-wo3wr28 күн бұрын
35 and 19 hhe eh I blame abazali. I am 35 and unmarried but I can never marry a 19 year old haibo ukuhlakaniphela ingane engingayizala😳
@usabelowakwasimelane463228 күн бұрын
Mina I am even disturbed by indlela ayi funa ngayo ingane engayazi nokuyazi. He's disgusting nje. He hunted this child. Angazi Lo mama wavuma kanjani. Iskhohlakali sendoda.
@lungelolamula707527 күн бұрын
@@lungelolamula7075 ungcoliiiiiileeee lomfo🚮🚮🚮
@usabelowakwasimelane463224 күн бұрын
Yabona nje nendlela awamfuna ngayo ivele yandidika. How could her mother allow that? As if she was advertising her.🤧🤧
@nombewu3322 күн бұрын
Sad 😢
@patiencemankayi821311 күн бұрын
❤@@nombewu33
@carolinekubayi14308 күн бұрын
I love how she thinks and also find ways to motivates herself to let go and start over and trust God
@zamambhele242Ай бұрын
She got married at approximately 19-20 years old, the same age as that girl. She lost herself when she got married, but when she met that girl, she discovered her inner child in her and that's what drew her to her. She felt compelled to help her, hence hearing her mention, "I used to pick her up and drop her off at home." This is because her inner child is in need of healing, as she is broken and vulnerable. Ladies, it is crucial to prioritize attending therapy and to engage in continuous healing.
@JeSsIcA_MAD16 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for the friend not uNosipho . Ngoba unosipho is Blessed. The friend is very stupid to think she has won . I pray God answers and honors this humble Lady’s prayer.
@khanyamvane26 күн бұрын
Yoo I love this lady,she’s so calm. Ngeke u last loyo mshado wabo ushiye umfazi.
@slindilelindumusa805928 күн бұрын
That marriage won't last forever... Naye uzothathwa kuye njegoba u friend enzile ku Nosipho
@thandintlaka277922 күн бұрын
What a calm but strong woman you are MaNjilo❤, You are one phenomenal woman in a million sis, awuve ukhulile enqondweni wow 👏God is with u always🙏.
@musomuhleradebe29 күн бұрын
Yoh this lady is me 😢 I experienced this too
@neegee375529 күн бұрын
Ustrong cc , kudlaliwe ngeskhathi sakho but God was preparing you for smthing big.God of restoration will restore you in every area
@user-cj5rm4lc1u29 күн бұрын
Mzukulu you are a true Christian may God keep you, bless you and shine His face to you, your parents and your children are blessed to have you, you're a GIFT.
@phumzilengwenya782523 күн бұрын
A gift and example of a good wife and Christian... Your God will fight for you cc wam.
@thandintlaka277922 күн бұрын
This woman is so young for having endured such ayibo, the first red flag was her having to leave her job, I hope she finds peace and healing she's such a good person😠
@thatsbahle44329 күн бұрын
As a woman never allow yourself to be pushed to leaving your job. No matter how rich your man is, go to work or do business and save money. Think about the future engekho because besides them cheating or leaving unexpectedly, death may come much sooner than you expect!😢
@spm913025 күн бұрын
@@spm9130True, never rely on them to that extent. Only God deserves that kind of trust in him. Humans are fallible.
@_theerealnono_769425 күн бұрын
But the man was too old for her from the beginning
@busisiwemichelle5391Ай бұрын
Sorry there is no age eluthandweni just that guy ayinangqondo bcz she still love but him and those people cll friends r so dangerous came with evil nalosis didn't see anything wrong ekutshateni ubhuti this teach us couldn't trust anyone accept our lord Jesus 🤞
@user-xo3wj5rv8r26 күн бұрын
@@user-xo3wj5rv8r"What do you mean there's no age in love"? Older men can be predatory and controlling. Do you mean you'd allow some old geezer to marry your minor daughter that's still in high school, all because "there's no age in love"?
@_theerealnono_769425 күн бұрын
Age and maturity are different concepts. It seems this lady is more mature than even the ex, sometimes you'll find a 50yr old man acting 30 and feel embarrassed on his behalf. Maturity is bit more complicated
@johnmash32724 күн бұрын
Lord Jesus thank you for keeping her safe, thank u for the heart that you have given her....qhubekeka cc to trust God with your life umtshato yinkonzo ka Nkulunkullu believe me you are still your husband's wife your friend will never replace you mark my words.Your friend is just helping you to raise your kids , relax do not rush , wait in the Lordcand allow Him to make you to be what He wants you to be .The battle is not yours continue to forgive both of them and may the peace of God continue to be with you and remain humble and put your trust to God uzazakubeka endaweni ebanzi....oh how I love you and God loves you more🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤ you are a rare Gift (Nosipho).
@user-yq7mo2jj4p28 күн бұрын
What a woman!!! I pray God blesses you in every aspect of your life, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH.
@zifikilekunene330129 күн бұрын
Shame nxese...
@mosesngwenya40516 күн бұрын
She’s so pretty 🥺🥰 uthobekile loSisi uyambona nje umuntu ozilungele. Angifune kwisa aide of the husband idlale ngengane yabantu🥺 even noma simphoxile she still talks of him kahle and she’s still blushing🥺 you will find your soulmate/husband.
@sinethembamkhize190525 күн бұрын
Woooow such a calm cool and collected woman,wish I can have here for myself she deserves more love and care seriously ❤❤❤
@luckytlou671229 күн бұрын
The level of patience, I cant...😢 But they say silence and being still speaks volumes...when you react thats when they know they got you where it hurts! God is no fool, thw friend will see flames!
@rosegold620928 күн бұрын
The interviewer 😮😮 why are you busy with your phone when interviewing someone? Its so distracting hai
@boipelomotlhowa73126 күн бұрын
It’s annoying 😮 me
@emile709026 күн бұрын
It's really disturbing, he looked like he wasn't even paying attention.
@amukelanibaloyi49383 күн бұрын
Disrespectful
@zanidinah7583Күн бұрын
I love this girl. You are so matured sisi. This fight is not yours and you accepted it. Let God fight for you. There are not many women like you my dear. Umoya wakho😍 ngiyawuthanda. May God bless you with a good husband and honest, loving friends
@94069Ай бұрын
A beautiful woman like this bakithi Thixo, l believe God will see you through.
@user-zz2zj3mh9g29 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful soul, May god have mercy on your journey.
@YosukeKoide29 күн бұрын
He is a huge hurt breaker and abused so vividly 😮kodwa uzavuna akutshalile kuwena my sweet 😢
@nomgqijoy517526 күн бұрын
sisi, may king Jesus bless and keep you with your children! you don't need that unstable man in your life and how can his family believe him, ababoni ukuthi akekho right ekhanda? good riddens and bayafanelana yena no ex friend wakho....they deserve each other. We will continue to pray for you💖
@No2HeartStoppingClotShots29 күн бұрын
Ngabuzwa ubuhlungu mara unkulunkulu uhlale anamacebo amahle ngathi god bless you cc umuhle❤❤❤
@user-vh3cj2gw2o29 күн бұрын
Wow this lady is beautiful in and out.Uyazi uNkunkulu uzokusula izinyembezi.wait for one or three years things will turn around.mark my words
@dalisudlamini917525 күн бұрын
Let me tell you something. La relationship will never last trust me . Your X is not happy in that relationship. God will never forsaken you. The devil uhleli se ngawe phambi kwe enemies zakho but God uzakukuhlekisa one day . This was your journey In order to be where you are.
@ntombehlubinelani8781Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ncedisakhewuАй бұрын
@@ncedisakhewumanje wena uhlekani? Or are you this man okukhulunywa ngaye?
@NeneShabangu29 күн бұрын
@@NeneShabangu im sure its him
@natashamtshali377426 күн бұрын
Life is not nigerian movies
@mubveleli720426 күн бұрын
Phephisa sis wami ngicabanga ukuthi awusophinde uthembe umngani 💔💔💔uNkulunkulu uzokuthwala esimeni sonke kahle…kahle ayikho into ewumngani la emhlabeni
@businzama6939Ай бұрын
Such a humble soul
@ameliamandisa9082Ай бұрын
Very humble....grace will locate you baby girl, you are still very young.
@vuyonkomo287123 күн бұрын
Maybe the guy faked about the mssage accusation so he could be able to cheat on you.
@user-zz2zj3mh9g29 күн бұрын
Not maybe he faked the massage that's how they start to cheat..he is a lunatic shame he will never find peace
@LebogangTebane27 күн бұрын
Exactly what I thought because she did not even see the message and who sent it.
@loratomoalosi756027 күн бұрын
Yoo cc thank you Lord bless her. Ur calm. U remind me I know how do you feel it's a different story God knows it all He will answer at the right time. ❤
@kedibonemarthakomane235527 күн бұрын
So much wisdom on sis Nosipho and God may bless her
@NompiloMaphanga25 күн бұрын
I hope the son does not grow up to be like his dad ohh My goshh. He better not groom another monster. Also this ladies calmness wow I pray for this❤
@nosipho_ncips21ntombela1426 күн бұрын
Ncoooh mngani you strong and ngyazi umoyawakho omuhle uzokubeka la kumele ubekhona❤
@user-vo2kg2rz8q27 күн бұрын
Shes so calm and humble bakithi and u could tell she's been a good wife
@lindenisikakane990626 күн бұрын
Ey you are such a humble Beautiful woman ❤. I love you so much 💗
@duduzilenyawo253128 күн бұрын
Kuningi cc unkulunkulu akubekele kona izinyembezi zakho zincane kakhulu kunenjabulo ezayo kuwena ngikufisela konke okuhle uwena
@zandilekumalo29 күн бұрын
You are blessed my Sis,uzophila kuze kubephakathi.
@user-sp4ge6cj7y27 күн бұрын
Great interview hope man and woman we wll learn from ths interview, I can't wait part2🎉🎉she humble I have respect for her
@boitumelodilapiso229426 күн бұрын
You're so calm uphole cc ❤May the Living God be with you 😢
@nokulungaprecious2800Ай бұрын
Thank you so much ngifundile kakhulu mina
@user-yo6um9xv3oАй бұрын
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti😢😢 - same situation I found myself in through uMnganii. I respect you sis and you will make it. Umuhle kabi wena.
@lungisanimkhize483625 күн бұрын
The man has lost the diamond and pick the ston this lady she so humble 🎉sending lots of love sis uJohova akwenzele okuhle ngani ungathola indonda ezokuhlonipha.
@lyndmudimba22699 күн бұрын
He is a narcissistic, he manipulated her into marrying him and i am shocked her family allowed a 35 year-old man to marry their 19 year- old daughter . Futsi akukho ne message lengenile efonini yasesi it was just his plan to get rid of her
@iris1896Ай бұрын
That was the first red flag, the problem our parents put imishado on a pedistal which is wrong she was a child and needed to concetrate in school Yes he was very manipulative on how he married her, and uqinisile ukuth there was no message it was really his way of getting rid of her such a vile man
@zamambhele242Ай бұрын
You just hit the nail with this comment👏👏👏
@user-zz2zj3mh9g29 күн бұрын
Exactly. He knew he was not good enough for women around his age, even those 10 years younger than him!
@kitsontuli271313 күн бұрын
People are not the same. Be aware abantwana baza wuba ne life yabo u will be lonely. Khange ube nelife manje uphilile u X- wakho. God has a purpose ngawe . You are so beautiful and polite. I friends ungasabi uba nazo . I would like to talk to you. U are so strong and intelligent. Life must just go on
@ntombehlubinelani8781Ай бұрын
Cha, ngiyakwesaba sisi inhliziyo onaya. Ngiyakuhlonipha nangendlela uphathe loludaba kwakho olubuhlu ngu ngalendlela. May God bless you, ukhulise izingane zakho kahle. Okunye ukubeke eNkosini. Okubuhlungu ngendaba yakho umfo lo ukusukele useyingàne aphi de adlale ngawe. Yena uzokukhumbulà nakanjani Ngiyabonga
@nobhalamagagula622225 күн бұрын
Hayi Nosipho cc its not normal to be so cool. May God give you strength and bring your husband back in Jesus Mighty Name. 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
@FezekaLuhabe-ms6ei11 күн бұрын
Eysh Nosipho u r so humble,ababaningi abanjengawe noma bekholwa,uThixo akukhulise cc ,akubusise ngoMkhenyana ofanele wena wakho wedwa,ukhohlwe osekudlule,I salute u
@zandilegloria276926 күн бұрын
I like your humbleness. God is still going to answer you gal. Stay as you are. He's going to regret. Can assure you is not at peace with his soul. For all the things he accused you of. Stay blessed
@tabilekunjwa691924 күн бұрын
May God continue to heal you siswam. You are so golden ✨️
@sihlemkhwanazi936427 күн бұрын
Such a good listener , the host 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gugulethuyvonne49226 күн бұрын
What a strong woman
@sihledlomo9864Ай бұрын
This is touching, the strong women are still there this is what is called IMBOKODO
@sakhisizwesakhindovela150328 күн бұрын
God will fight your battle sister, don't worry
@user-ib4tc6vx3nАй бұрын
❤❤❤yo sheim I know her beshadele ngasekhaya she is a good person umuntu ohlezi ezihlekela bakithi unkulunkulu abenawe cc
@herbertmabena10 күн бұрын
Nkulunkulu uzokupha amandla cc wami lobhuti usazovuna nje uzokulwela Nkulunkulu 😢
@BusisiweZondi-ki7vzАй бұрын
Waw lendoda yalahlekelwa yiGold engine iphinde iythothole .Uyimbokodo girls ❤noma lkubuhlungu usazokhala lomfana ngyakbongela ngoba akakbulalanga trust in God kuyeza okwakho okuhle ngikufisela iNHLANHLA❤❤❤.Khulisa izingane zakho.Basazohlukana laba very soon.Phola sthandwa sam❤❤❤iNkosi ayphinde ikbusise.
@gezanichauke412228 күн бұрын
Wow sisi you are so kind
@Zaneleh498Ай бұрын
That was not meant to be your husband cc abazali bethu sometimes abekho right ukusithathela amadecition ngithanda ukuzithoba kwakho hlalethembeni cc wami be strong.
@JolinaMokwena-ge8wo23 күн бұрын
God must bless this humble soul in everything she will be doing.
@user-lx8py4wj5f17 күн бұрын
Iyooh this cuts so deep
@miriamkhumalo570226 күн бұрын
😢😢😢😢 ay no...uhambo lwaba buhlungu... Eyokuthi usazoshada yaziwa uMdali...isimo adlule kusona sidinga full healing and deliverance....
@sebentilezanini108525 күн бұрын
You are blessed girl with those children inkosi izokunikeza inhlanhla uthole umsebenzi ongcono ubakhulise akuqalingawe akucini ngawe life injalo don’t worry about it akubuke nje ume asde ubabheke uzabona god will answer and give you okukufaneleyo
@melottyndlovu118127 күн бұрын
Beautiful soul, 💕
@tebbybear192321 күн бұрын
Qhubeka uqine cc, never ever usondeze umngani again empilweni yakho God loves you❤
@zandilemavuso545625 күн бұрын
God bless you sthandwa ujehova unawe 😢
@DeliMhlanga27 күн бұрын
Usazophumelela Sisi you were born with your own blessings don't worry
@user-rg4hq1cn8d7 күн бұрын
You are so beautiful cc. In and out
@normadunjwa7135Ай бұрын
Uyathandeka. Akathobe. Oh marn, have no words. Le ndoda bethuna and the ex friend.
@siphokaziluzipho419729 күн бұрын
Yoo cc is so calm and beautiful and i believe her future is gonna be brighter.. God bless and keep you ❤❤❤
@somisaclovely1382Күн бұрын
Wayalwa kahle kini cc wami i love you❤ uzomtola omunye ukhwenyana dadewethu
@user-yw4dc8rj1d28 күн бұрын
yoh cc waze wangikhulisa ngokwenqondo .....God bless you ..i love the fact that you let god to deal with a frnd ngesikhathi sakhe .....may god protect you and ur kids
@LindiweKhumalo-tc4zc20 күн бұрын
You sound like good person and deserves okuhle okhona obekelwe wena anyway wawusemncane bandla, and know everything happens for a reason we grow through what we go through
@thandiwekubeka718329 күн бұрын
Such a soul indeed people they do take advantage for people like this I’m one of them nami bangigila but uzokukhumbula shame
Hayi Ndicela i number ka Nosipho ngeke i need her calmness
@ndilekamomoza453829 күн бұрын
Udalwe kahle mina ngangiyolwa ibhadi😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
@user-uf5sd4oi7r25 күн бұрын
Nami I need her as my friend❤❤❤ she's therapy
@zandilesokhela157824 күн бұрын
When u said your that 🎉🎉 friend wayengashadanga ngathi good lesson alizwa masilikhuza uba ngumngan njan lomuntu ongashadanga...alizwa Bantu besfazane Nd m happy ngama results ❤❤❤❤
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Please take your time, God will show you the way, just put yr trust in Him
Mina owami Myeni ulala nomakhelwane nami. Uthandana no gogo Ona 70 mina 36 yena he is 37
please don't bring your phone to the show
Oh kodwa Nosipho ulunge kangaka sisi. I know you from the time useyingane and you've always been a respectful child. Sorry my baby but God will answer❤
Aww Jehova yazi uyambona nje ukuthi inhlonipho isegazini❤
ULunge kwaze kweqa😢😢😢.And She was young easily get manipulated😢@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti - uyambona nje bakithi uzilungele nje uNosipho. Karma will find lo Bhuti
The parents were wrong to marry this pretty young woman to such an older man.
Precisely dear, manje yini so
@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860 ngezwa ubuhlungu uyazi so better to waste time waiting kuloku jaha izinto so.
The guy wasn't toooooooooo old just a different of 16 years
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783🫢😳
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783Nah, she was still young and he was older and more experienced than her. She said it herself that she was still young and didn't know what she was doing. A sixteen-year age gap was still substantial.
South Africa ngicela sishayeleni ucc izandla uyimbokodo cc Nkulunkulu aze abe nawe okuhle ngawe kuyeza❤
She is a diamond this man has lost
Yoh she’s phenomenal 👌✨
Pick yourself up, chin up! No looking bk Your way is clear and bright! Good luck❤
Yoh sisi ngifunde likhulu from your story ngifisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angiphe isibindi onaso
Ey ahlanzela abenamabhodwe impela
The way she is so calm. She seems like shes a good person. Ubhuti lost a diamond la
One man's trash is another man's treasure, ukuwa kwenye ukuvuka kwenye
God will give you Gold but still you are looking around wasting your own time
Could not have said it better❤
True and u Jehova uzophendula kulu mgani wakhe , wow abantu bakhohlakele emhlabeni 🙌🏽
Ubogada ke lapho. Abaningi baba bahle babukeke kahle emva kokwenza amaphutha empilweni. 😂
Their relationship will never work, only time will tell, there is a God In heaven
Am im the only one crying. I helped him meet his soulmate. She says 😭😭😭😭. May God restore, not the marriage but her.
For her to leave the house just like that it takes a strong person to do that she's a good person indeed..The nerve that this guy has brought his people to chase her out joo sad. However God wouldn't allow His child to bring no satani together. I'm sure there were red flags from the start just that she was to young and naive to see them.
That was deep I felt it
@@user-bw1vx7yi4uyou do honey I did for peace sake and mungasafuni nawe she was going to even die for the house do u know the feeling of being in a place where u not wanted yooh it’s hurts
Exactly! Otherwise these types of men do not stop. People shouldn't be fighting for such rubbish, honestly. A marriage is about two people, not one person fighting for a useless marriage
I salute you cc uyimbikodo
You only 31 my dear....you are still young. Take time to heal....around 35- 40 you will find a good, Godly man and forget about this ungrateful thing❤❤
I fought for my marriage physically, spiritually and mentally. I thank God that I didn't get admitted for depression.
Are you still there?
@@edithmatsane2932 , no we got divorced.
Man🤨😏...you are strong girl ❤️❤️
Story of my life. Eventually got kicked out and I thank God I'm well and alive great peace of mind
She's the most beautiful and calm person ever .❤May God give her strength and bless her.
This man is going to REGRET doing this to this humble soul who still remained submissive through this pain!
Abasekho abafana naye. Unkulunkule engathi angamnikeza umuntu ozomthanda ngokwanele
Nd he is going to regret shame
Kudos to the host for not disturbing the lady. ❤
Coz u busy ngephone yakhe
@@user-tw1pe5ez3w😂 yall always have something negative
Sbonga kona loko…asbongi phone
Lmaoooo 😂😂😂@@zanelenombika8804
Big ups to the guy he is a good listener
Hleze ngisho ayikho into ekuthiwa umngani
@@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299ey ongakaboni usenkimgeni
Nami ngihleli ngisho Umgani uhlekani nomyeni Wakho Even ukuvakasha nje ekhaya lakho Umgani Akangazi lutho ngomendo wakho😢😢
Ngivamile ukubuka lezindaba zemishado.I'm the Pastor,so ngifunda izinto eziningi kakhulu.Ubufebe bubi kakhulu.Lomoya uhleze ufuna into entsha.Nakuloyo akahleli ngiyakuthembisa.It's a spirit behind him,but not him exactly.And his future is already destroyed.Uzokufuna lapho ungakhona,but kuzobe seku late.Into engiyifundayo kulezinhlelo,amadoda angamaqili kakhulu ayahluleka ukubamba isimilo.Kulula ukubona omunye umuntu wesifazane ngisho phakathi enkonzweni nihamba nonke.Ibe nezinqumo ngaye.Abantu besifazane bavamile ukuba ama victims ezinto ezinjena,babekezele,omunye agcine afe ngenxa yalobunuku.Be strong in the LORD.Ame .
Elam ke mfundisi ndinesicelo ndicela abantu abango tata mabakhe babe ne weekend out bengotata kuphela babonisane ukuba amakhaya okhiwa njani amakhosikazi aphathwa njani emitshatweni ....Futhi otata badeala njani nezikete abadibana nazo imihla nezolo ngoba sihleli nje singomama singomama sitshatile serhalela amadoda abantu phofu side silale nawo amadoda kuse ekuseni sicule uAmen enkozweni phambi kwebandla please mfundisi wam ndiyacela
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You guys must sell the house and get both your share. 😮 Go get what you worked for. This guy and your friend must go build their house. 😮
Oh I love how uBhuti listens to his guest sana 👌👌👌
Yeah he is a good interviewer
But the phone iyaphazamisa...the guy is not even concentrating that's why anga disturb ....
What is it that he's busy with on the phone I'm very disturbed
Yazi calmly... no chipping in whatsoever!
@@amazetimbanekakhulu
Ngaze ngamthanda ucc, ukube bengiyi nsizwa bengizozi thathela yena🤞her voice👌, her humbleness. Lo bhuti ulahlekelwe igolide while he was busy collecting stones.
❤ This is what I call the real beauty!Beauty from inside out!Her mindset!Okuhle kodwa dear empilweni yakho!
The only thing I learned from cellphone messages is to forward everything to my number as a proof
35 and 19 hhe eh I blame abazali. I am 35 and unmarried but I can never marry a 19 year old haibo ukuhlakaniphela ingane engingayizala😳
Mina I am even disturbed by indlela ayi funa ngayo ingane engayazi nokuyazi. He's disgusting nje. He hunted this child. Angazi Lo mama wavuma kanjani. Iskhohlakali sendoda.
@@lungelolamula7075 ungcoliiiiiileeee lomfo🚮🚮🚮
Yabona nje nendlela awamfuna ngayo ivele yandidika. How could her mother allow that? As if she was advertising her.🤧🤧
Sad 😢
❤@@nombewu33
I love how she thinks and also find ways to motivates herself to let go and start over and trust God
She got married at approximately 19-20 years old, the same age as that girl. She lost herself when she got married, but when she met that girl, she discovered her inner child in her and that's what drew her to her. She felt compelled to help her, hence hearing her mention, "I used to pick her up and drop her off at home." This is because her inner child is in need of healing, as she is broken and vulnerable. Ladies, it is crucial to prioritize attending therapy and to engage in continuous healing.
I feel sorry for the friend not uNosipho . Ngoba unosipho is Blessed. The friend is very stupid to think she has won . I pray God answers and honors this humble Lady’s prayer.
Yoo I love this lady,she’s so calm. Ngeke u last loyo mshado wabo ushiye umfazi.
That marriage won't last forever... Naye uzothathwa kuye njegoba u friend enzile ku Nosipho
What a calm but strong woman you are MaNjilo❤, You are one phenomenal woman in a million sis, awuve ukhulile enqondweni wow 👏God is with u always🙏.
Yoh this lady is me 😢 I experienced this too
Ustrong cc , kudlaliwe ngeskhathi sakho but God was preparing you for smthing big.God of restoration will restore you in every area
Mzukulu you are a true Christian may God keep you, bless you and shine His face to you, your parents and your children are blessed to have you, you're a GIFT.
A gift and example of a good wife and Christian... Your God will fight for you cc wam.
This woman is so young for having endured such ayibo, the first red flag was her having to leave her job, I hope she finds peace and healing she's such a good person😠
As a woman never allow yourself to be pushed to leaving your job. No matter how rich your man is, go to work or do business and save money. Think about the future engekho because besides them cheating or leaving unexpectedly, death may come much sooner than you expect!😢
@@spm9130True, never rely on them to that extent. Only God deserves that kind of trust in him. Humans are fallible.
But the man was too old for her from the beginning
Sorry there is no age eluthandweni just that guy ayinangqondo bcz she still love but him and those people cll friends r so dangerous came with evil nalosis didn't see anything wrong ekutshateni ubhuti this teach us couldn't trust anyone accept our lord Jesus 🤞
@@user-xo3wj5rv8r"What do you mean there's no age in love"? Older men can be predatory and controlling. Do you mean you'd allow some old geezer to marry your minor daughter that's still in high school, all because "there's no age in love"?
Age and maturity are different concepts. It seems this lady is more mature than even the ex, sometimes you'll find a 50yr old man acting 30 and feel embarrassed on his behalf. Maturity is bit more complicated
Lord Jesus thank you for keeping her safe, thank u for the heart that you have given her....qhubekeka cc to trust God with your life umtshato yinkonzo ka Nkulunkullu believe me you are still your husband's wife your friend will never replace you mark my words.Your friend is just helping you to raise your kids , relax do not rush , wait in the Lordcand allow Him to make you to be what He wants you to be .The battle is not yours continue to forgive both of them and may the peace of God continue to be with you and remain humble and put your trust to God uzazakubeka endaweni ebanzi....oh how I love you and God loves you more🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤ you are a rare Gift (Nosipho).
What a woman!!! I pray God blesses you in every aspect of your life, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH.
Shame nxese...
She’s so pretty 🥺🥰 uthobekile loSisi uyambona nje umuntu ozilungele. Angifune kwisa aide of the husband idlale ngengane yabantu🥺 even noma simphoxile she still talks of him kahle and she’s still blushing🥺 you will find your soulmate/husband.
Woooow such a calm cool and collected woman,wish I can have here for myself she deserves more love and care seriously ❤❤❤
The level of patience, I cant...😢 But they say silence and being still speaks volumes...when you react thats when they know they got you where it hurts! God is no fool, thw friend will see flames!
The interviewer 😮😮 why are you busy with your phone when interviewing someone? Its so distracting hai
It’s annoying 😮 me
It's really disturbing, he looked like he wasn't even paying attention.
Disrespectful
I love this girl. You are so matured sisi. This fight is not yours and you accepted it. Let God fight for you. There are not many women like you my dear. Umoya wakho😍 ngiyawuthanda. May God bless you with a good husband and honest, loving friends
A beautiful woman like this bakithi Thixo, l believe God will see you through.
Such a beautiful soul, May god have mercy on your journey.
He is a huge hurt breaker and abused so vividly 😮kodwa uzavuna akutshalile kuwena my sweet 😢
sisi, may king Jesus bless and keep you with your children! you don't need that unstable man in your life and how can his family believe him, ababoni ukuthi akekho right ekhanda? good riddens and bayafanelana yena no ex friend wakho....they deserve each other. We will continue to pray for you💖
Ngabuzwa ubuhlungu mara unkulunkulu uhlale anamacebo amahle ngathi god bless you cc umuhle❤❤❤
Wow this lady is beautiful in and out.Uyazi uNkunkulu uzokusula izinyembezi.wait for one or three years things will turn around.mark my words
Let me tell you something. La relationship will never last trust me . Your X is not happy in that relationship. God will never forsaken you. The devil uhleli se ngawe phambi kwe enemies zakho but God uzakukuhlekisa one day . This was your journey In order to be where you are.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@ncedisakhewumanje wena uhlekani? Or are you this man okukhulunywa ngaye?
@@NeneShabangu im sure its him
Life is not nigerian movies
Phephisa sis wami ngicabanga ukuthi awusophinde uthembe umngani 💔💔💔uNkulunkulu uzokuthwala esimeni sonke kahle…kahle ayikho into ewumngani la emhlabeni
Such a humble soul
Very humble....grace will locate you baby girl, you are still very young.
Maybe the guy faked about the mssage accusation so he could be able to cheat on you.
Not maybe he faked the massage that's how they start to cheat..he is a lunatic shame he will never find peace
Exactly what I thought because she did not even see the message and who sent it.
Yoo cc thank you Lord bless her. Ur calm. U remind me I know how do you feel it's a different story God knows it all He will answer at the right time. ❤
So much wisdom on sis Nosipho and God may bless her
I hope the son does not grow up to be like his dad ohh My goshh. He better not groom another monster. Also this ladies calmness wow I pray for this❤
Ncoooh mngani you strong and ngyazi umoyawakho omuhle uzokubeka la kumele ubekhona❤
Shes so calm and humble bakithi and u could tell she's been a good wife
Ey you are such a humble Beautiful woman ❤. I love you so much 💗
Kuningi cc unkulunkulu akubekele kona izinyembezi zakho zincane kakhulu kunenjabulo ezayo kuwena ngikufisela konke okuhle uwena
You are blessed my Sis,uzophila kuze kubephakathi.
Great interview hope man and woman we wll learn from ths interview, I can't wait part2🎉🎉she humble I have respect for her
You're so calm uphole cc ❤May the Living God be with you 😢
Thank you so much ngifundile kakhulu mina
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti😢😢 - same situation I found myself in through uMnganii. I respect you sis and you will make it. Umuhle kabi wena.
The man has lost the diamond and pick the ston this lady she so humble 🎉sending lots of love sis uJohova akwenzele okuhle ngani ungathola indonda ezokuhlonipha.
He is a narcissistic, he manipulated her into marrying him and i am shocked her family allowed a 35 year-old man to marry their 19 year- old daughter . Futsi akukho ne message lengenile efonini yasesi it was just his plan to get rid of her
That was the first red flag, the problem our parents put imishado on a pedistal which is wrong she was a child and needed to concetrate in school Yes he was very manipulative on how he married her, and uqinisile ukuth there was no message it was really his way of getting rid of her such a vile man
You just hit the nail with this comment👏👏👏
Exactly. He knew he was not good enough for women around his age, even those 10 years younger than him!
People are not the same. Be aware abantwana baza wuba ne life yabo u will be lonely. Khange ube nelife manje uphilile u X- wakho. God has a purpose ngawe . You are so beautiful and polite. I friends ungasabi uba nazo . I would like to talk to you. U are so strong and intelligent. Life must just go on
Cha, ngiyakwesaba sisi inhliziyo onaya. Ngiyakuhlonipha nangendlela uphathe loludaba kwakho olubuhlu ngu ngalendlela. May God bless you, ukhulise izingane zakho kahle. Okunye ukubeke eNkosini. Okubuhlungu ngendaba yakho umfo lo ukusukele useyingàne aphi de adlale ngawe. Yena uzokukhumbulà nakanjani Ngiyabonga
Hayi Nosipho cc its not normal to be so cool. May God give you strength and bring your husband back in Jesus Mighty Name. 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
Eysh Nosipho u r so humble,ababaningi abanjengawe noma bekholwa,uThixo akukhulise cc ,akubusise ngoMkhenyana ofanele wena wakho wedwa,ukhohlwe osekudlule,I salute u
I like your humbleness. God is still going to answer you gal. Stay as you are. He's going to regret. Can assure you is not at peace with his soul. For all the things he accused you of. Stay blessed
May God continue to heal you siswam. You are so golden ✨️
Such a good listener , the host 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What a strong woman
This is touching, the strong women are still there this is what is called IMBOKODO
God will fight your battle sister, don't worry
❤❤❤yo sheim I know her beshadele ngasekhaya she is a good person umuntu ohlezi ezihlekela bakithi unkulunkulu abenawe cc
Nkulunkulu uzokupha amandla cc wami lobhuti usazovuna nje uzokulwela Nkulunkulu 😢
Waw lendoda yalahlekelwa yiGold engine iphinde iythothole .Uyimbokodo girls ❤noma lkubuhlungu usazokhala lomfana ngyakbongela ngoba akakbulalanga trust in God kuyeza okwakho okuhle ngikufisela iNHLANHLA❤❤❤.Khulisa izingane zakho.Basazohlukana laba very soon.Phola sthandwa sam❤❤❤iNkosi ayphinde ikbusise.
Wow sisi you are so kind
That was not meant to be your husband cc abazali bethu sometimes abekho right ukusithathela amadecition ngithanda ukuzithoba kwakho hlalethembeni cc wami be strong.
God must bless this humble soul in everything she will be doing.
Iyooh this cuts so deep
😢😢😢😢 ay no...uhambo lwaba buhlungu... Eyokuthi usazoshada yaziwa uMdali...isimo adlule kusona sidinga full healing and deliverance....
You are blessed girl with those children inkosi izokunikeza inhlanhla uthole umsebenzi ongcono ubakhulise akuqalingawe akucini ngawe life injalo don’t worry about it akubuke nje ume asde ubabheke uzabona god will answer and give you okukufaneleyo
Beautiful soul, 💕
Qhubeka uqine cc, never ever usondeze umngani again empilweni yakho God loves you❤
God bless you sthandwa ujehova unawe 😢
Usazophumelela Sisi you were born with your own blessings don't worry
You are so beautiful cc. In and out
Uyathandeka. Akathobe. Oh marn, have no words. Le ndoda bethuna and the ex friend.
Yoo cc is so calm and beautiful and i believe her future is gonna be brighter.. God bless and keep you ❤❤❤
Wayalwa kahle kini cc wami i love you❤ uzomtola omunye ukhwenyana dadewethu
yoh cc waze wangikhulisa ngokwenqondo .....God bless you ..i love the fact that you let god to deal with a frnd ngesikhathi sakhe .....may god protect you and ur kids
You sound like good person and deserves okuhle okhona obekelwe wena anyway wawusemncane bandla, and know everything happens for a reason we grow through what we go through
Such a soul indeed people they do take advantage for people like this I’m one of them nami bangigila but uzokukhumbula shame
Uzoba strong cc nkulunkulu Abe nawe ❤❤❤
Myb wayezokbulala mtase but Nkululunkulu zange avume ngawe,wayengezanga ukuzobheka ukuth uhlel noban mhhhh life😭
To find a woman like this is painfully rare. This guy fumbled kubuhlungu 😢
Nosipho kuzolunga God Loves ❤ ❤❤ you standwa umuhle
Oh my god 🙏 the calm in this woman,she is a perfect example of wat I call a super woman
Love bomb, devalue and discard. The phases remain constant. Sadly tbe friend's days are coming to an end soon too.
You nailed it, she is discarded and the friend is love bombed. Her day will come and be discarded too.
😢uphole mamaz usamncane kusengalunga❤siyakthanda siyimbokodo❤❤❤❤
Hayi Ndicela i number ka Nosipho ngeke i need her calmness
Udalwe kahle mina ngangiyolwa ibhadi😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
Nami I need her as my friend❤❤❤ she's therapy
When u said your that 🎉🎉 friend wayengashadanga ngathi good lesson alizwa masilikhuza uba ngumngan njan lomuntu ongashadanga...alizwa Bantu besfazane Nd m happy ngama results ❤❤❤❤