How to Slow Dance With a Girl (Weddings, Proms, Parties)
How to slow dance with a girl at any occasion!! How to slow dance with a girl at prom, at a wedding or at any social event! We teach you how to slow dance so you never have to sit out another slow dance song ever again! If you like this video don't forget to like & subscribe! Be sure to check out our full slow dance course for more details/tips/tricks to help you succeed!
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0:00 - How to Slow Dance with a Girl
0:10 - How to Hold Her
2:00 - How to Move (Dance)
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4:56 - How to Turn Her
7:21 - How to Dip Her
9:56 - How to Lead Her
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@Cayson Brammer You got this!!
Awee I hope you had an amazing wedding. I’ll be needing this, I tried to do it with my girlfriend but I’m not a good dancer so it was a muddled mess. Luckily for me she found it adorable 🥰 lol 😂. I’m also taking my best friend to prom so she can help me practice ahaha xx
Good luck! May you be happy!
Last minute! Nice! 👍
The takeaway from this video I got is to be gentle with girls. Which makes sense. Us guys and especially us young lads can sometimes get exited and confuse using aggressive moves to try to show confidence but really if you listen to girls then being gentle is actually much better. Not just in dancing. Great tips!
This is going to sound a bit weird. When I was in 9th grade, I had dance class. I live in a small town so there was only 20 some people in my class. We had to draw names from a jar for a partner. I drew this girl that I actually liked at the time, let’s call her Briana. So I was extremely nervous because we were learning how to slow dance, and I didn’t want her to think I liked her. So I didn’t put much effort into it. It felt really nice, even though I didn’t know how. She told me, “I know this sounds really odd, but let’s do this again sometime,.” So I said nervously, “uh I’ll have to think about that one.” That is when I realized that I just replied with the stupidest answer in the history of ever. My buddy was going to be throwing a party the next Friday, so I thought I could invite her, but she ended up going out of town to see her grandparents. So the next chance I ever get, happened to be a whole 3 years later. (This sounds like a story book, I know) I was in 12th grade and there was a dance, it wasn’t prom, but it was a dance to celebrate our graduation. I asked her to dance and she said, “so you’ve finally made up your mind?” We danced and I was so amazed that she still remembered me saying what I said. After the celebration was over, I drove her home and asked to go to dinner the next day and she said yes. A year and a half later, I’m with the best woman I could ever have wished to be with. I watched this video to refresh my memory because her sister was getting married next weekend. I don’t know why I decided to share this, but I thought it would be a nice story to save for ours kids when they are old enough.
Mason, thank you for sharing!! What a beautiful story 😍 I love how dance brought the two of you together - so romantic! 💙
you legend that is hilarious and heart-warming
Wow
destiny exists
What in the Wattpad
My gf really likes slow dancing and I've never done this so hopefully tomorrow at a wedding (not ours ) maybe I can impress her
Good Luck! Nice job preparing:)
Dude, the fact that you are trying to learn is already impressive. Good for you! Also, how did it go?
Funny how you clarify that
@@pipertheprepper8971 wdym??
howd it go?
Well dammit. I'm a girl, and I clicked on this thinking it was going to be cringy, but I actually learned something. And props to giving your girl a say in this too, and not just having her there as a prop.
Glad you learned something!! Thanks for watching 😊
Couldn't have said it better myself, I totally agree
No shit,they're married 😂😂😂☠
i thought she was the one leading the video at first
Women love it when you pretend they matter.
im going to a party with my girlfriend in a couple weeks. im going to ask her to dance for the first time. thank you for helping me learn so i dont look like a fool. this helped a lot! Update*** IT WENT SO WELL SHE LOVED DANCING WITH ME
Amazing, good luck!!
Ayyy nice one brother!
Well? How did it go? Don't keep us in suspense! LOL
@@johnw9190he got kneed in the balls during the dance because gf caught him ogling another girl’s booty
@@johnw9190he updated 😎😎😎
this feels underrated
We totally agree:)
My aunt taught me when I was in 7th grade before I went to my school dance, I’m watching this because my girlfriend is coming over this weekend and she wants to go drive around the country, and I’m plaining to stop at this road where my grandparents had their first slow dance and their first kiss, but I want to slow dance with her at the same place.
Go ahead and drive around then slow dance first to impress her and then try for a kiss. Sounds adorable have fun
So romantic of you! She's going to love it!! Let us know how it goes :)
@@lukepolonchek105 I’m sorry it took a while to respond. But when I picked her up from her house we went to the movies to see A Quite Place 2 (great movie) but when it was done, we went to a Italian restaurant for dinner. It was around 8 by then and she wanted to go Bass Pro to get some baits since were going to Lake of the Ozark, but after we were driving back I stopped on a road out in the country and I stepped out and picked her up and took her in front of the head lights with the music still playing I grabbed her hand, she leaned in put her head on my chest, and she started crying and when I asked her what’s wrong she told me that she was waiting for something like that to happen. But we just got back from fishing at a lake by us, so we’re gonna go back and just watch anime now.
@@Asianboi-wu2qc Any tips for me I am just 15 dude
@@kushbhatiaking Dating, treat her like she is the only good person on the world, and just listen. But with slow dancing, just do what the video says, take it slow and don’t get ahead of yourself.
30 min before prom
ok, now how do i find a girl ?
I don't even have a girl lmfao, but I find a girl sitting by herself and I invite her to dance with me
@@justinaccount9920you got prom to?
I've been teaching dance for 20 plus years. You guys touch upon details that most teacher never mention. Really nice teaching.
Thank you David!! We appreciate you!!
I am a girl and I'm going to try to teach my boyfriend how to slow dance before our one year anniversary (December 14th). Wish me luck!
So much fun!! Good luck!!
how did it go?
@@georlybibas5846 it was incredible, he remembered how to at our prom as well
Omg me and my boyfriends one year Is on december 14th that’s crazy
Ey that's my birthday... kinda off topic but hope it went well!
I’m a girl and I’m learning a lot from this vid holy cow 😅 I’m here so I don’t embarrass myself at prom
Thanks for watching!
Watching this 30 minutes before homecoming pray for me🙏
Howd it go got mine im a week
@@DonaldDuckTape actually it went pretty well I definitely thought I was gonna do way worse then I ended up doing. I taught my date how to slow dance lol
Going to dance at my schools end year function, going to be my first time asking a girl to dance. Wish me goodluck!
You are going to be amazing! All about confidence:)
@@shqiptariidukagjinit5650 Well I did build up the courage to ask her, but she had a date. I'm still happy because I still danced with a other girl c:
@@marcatomow3546 I have mad respect for you, nice job bro
Marcato Mow Don’t worry there are 700 m girls in this world
@@JOHN-ut4ud Thanks so much for the comment. I always keep it in mind.
Danced with this girl at her 18th birthday a couple of months ago and I’d never danced with a girl before and after she said it was very good. Now I managed to invite her to mine for New Years and will dance with her again. She’s from Poland too and dancing at celebrations is a big deal for the Poles so wish me luck for this.
What a sweet story! If she was impressed before, you'll really sweep her off her feet this time :)
How did it go?
@@hugejackedman7423 lmao
Nearly same as you pal. Except it was for my aunt's wedding. She told me to dance with her and had no choice(i didn't want to beacuse i don't know how to dance lol). I don't regret doing it. I wasn't that good but it was worth it.
@@hugejackedman7423 badum tss
Having my son watch this for a prom photo shoot and prom. I appreciate the instruction and how you broke it down it down and made it easy to follow.
Glad we can help!!
As a girl, never taught how to lead a slow dance, but I can lead a waltz! But now I can impress my girl both ways!!
That's so great!! We are happy to help :)
"Or if you dropped her, gosh," I like this lady's voice.
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed :)
Idk why am i watching this , but im surre im single
But now you'll be ready!
Absolutely phenomenal advice. And having the females perspective is extremely educational and helps with understanding the mentality of both sides. Thank you for the well made video, I learned a considerable amount. I was originally just going to watch, but you mentioning "get in your steps" motivated me to practice with the video, and it opened my mind. Huge difference practicing with and just viewing. Thank you!
Thank you so much for your feedback, it means a lot! So glad you enjoyed it! 😀
100% I'm a guy, and I was swaying and stepping with them!
even 3 years later you still save the lives on anxious boyfriends who want to slow dance with their girls and don't know how, your explanations and advices are really good, thanks for this video
Happy to help! :)
"how to" things like this really help me with animation--this was really helpful ! thank you !
Thank You For Watching!!
omg same dude
I don't even know why I clicked on this, but now I want to go somewhere I can slow dance with a girl, this actually looks super fun and relaxed
I’m one of those dudes that graduated high school during covid so I never had an actual walk on ceremony nor did I get a prom dance. My university is hosting a formal entitled “The prom we never had” and I’m literally watching this before I hit the floor. I’m super nervous but really excited. Thanks for this tutorial! The formal is in a couple days haha!
That's awesome! Best of luck and let us know how it went :)
What are you majoring in ?
@@marvin2678 Elementary Education! :)
@@patrickhsieh9817imagine if you never want to university 💀
Your instruction should be mandatory in high school. Thank you so much, love your videos, so simple
Thank you for watching!!
Yes, it should be. Both sides can learn from this instruction.
I wish it had been. I was great at physics, maths, chemistry, music etc. But what I NEEDED was a lot more of all these social graces. When I met my girl it was a matter of the blind leading the blind. Fun indeed but quite challenging.
I wish it was too!!!
@@timothywade9618 Why not?
I’m gonna try and dance with someone tonight at my prom. It’ll be my first time doing it. Wish me luck boys… Edit: I did it…she said yes 😁
Let us know how it went!!
@@BallroomFeed she said yes, it was a great time. Super excited for homecoming!
Way to go buddy!!
Simple is elegant. Thank you! I was looking for a video on slow dance to show my fiancé. I was looking for exactly this, but KZhead kept showing me these super complicated videos. This is simple and honestly, it’s perfect! Thank you. It’d be great if you could do more of these.
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed :) We do have some more videos like this on our channel. Here's our "how to slow dance" playlist! kzhead.info/channel/PLpRDMDJwhgOyULb9cwyFibyFMEjKZlLXn.html
I have prom this saturday and have basically never danced before. thanks!
Just came back from dancing at my middle school. I can’t say it looked the best but it’s a memory I’ll hold forever.
AHHH I FINALLY FOUND SOMETHING GOOD FOR A SLOW DANCE- my boyfriend and I have a few parties these next couple months we need to go to, this is so simple and perfect.
Glad you found us! Enjoy :)
Learned this in church growing up, along with Swing dancing basics with a few moves. Completely forgot about it until it mattered and I realized I already knew what to do and didn't feel nervous at all. Really good and simple skill to develop that you will not regret.
I have formal tonight and my girlfriend already knows how to dance so I’m just here so I don’t embarrass myself
Thanks for watching!
My senior prom is coming up soon and i really want to dance with this one girl, hopefully all goes well and thank you for this video!!
Thanks for watching! Best of luck :)
Same!
Did it go good for you?
@@Isuckatgames i literally just got back from prom not even 2 hours ago, I sadly didnt get to go with the girl i was hoping to go with but i danced with my friends instead. Afterall it was a great night!!
Junior here. I attend a small international private school and theres not really anyone for me. Im probably gonna end up slow dancing with the bois for the extreme lols 🤣
video with 17k views is more helpful than the one with 5 million...
Thank you so much!
we’re going to try to have prom this year and im so nervous... i’ve never danced before, but i really want to slow dance with my girlfriend. this video’s really teaching me a lot.
Thank you so much for watching!!
Can’t believe how good and helpful this video actually is?? Was super straight forward, simple, and honest. Bravo
Happy to help! :)
Thank you so much for no BS, just dance. I will def try it next time !
Oh Gosh, FINALLY I find the right video about real slow dance. Thank you! ;))
Of course! Glad you found us :)
ima slow dance with my girl to ed sheerans perfect.
Great song!! She's gonna love it :)
My wedding song for this Sunday
Watching this because I’m trying to write a good slow dance scene. Thank you!
Awesome presentation. Haven't danced in 35 years, but my daughter is getting married next year. I don't want to embarrass either of us 😃
Thank you! You'll be great :)
I love the depth you went into and how everything you talked about has an explanation. I'm writing a slow dance scene and this is super helpful for breaking it down to the small details. Thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
I discovered your channel as I prepare a father-daughter dance for my wedding! I also look forward to learning these dances with my fiancé. What a great channel! Thank you for being here!
That's awesome congrats!! Thank you for watching our videos :)
Watching this two weeks before prom, I asked my crush out and for some reason she said yes. When it comes to dancing I'm a nervous wreck wish me luck boys
Good luck! You'll do great!!
How'd it go, dude?
Legend has it, they're still slow dancing to this day
We danced a normal dance it went fine I guess and because of my friends I won prom king while my date got prom queen and the slow dance was uh yeah rough. Regardless I had a great time with her
@@eriko9161 why was it rough?
My Girlfriend doesn’t dance, and I was the Clumsy Guy. But you two are actually teaching me how to dance, and how to teach her. After 2 years I’m ready to propose, and would love to dance with her that night. Thank you for showing me in a way I can understand. Wish me Luck!
That's so awesome! So happy we can help. Best of luck to you both :)
Easily the best dance tutorial I've watched. I feel so much more confident now on how to slow dance. THANKS so much.
Thank you!! Happy to help :)
At 73 still love to dance slow or fast. I just love it. Thanks for bringing real dancing back.
That's amazing!! :)
This video is very simple and not complicated like others i'm gonna try this at my school's dance hopefully it goes well.
*Imma turn on "Earned it" and slow dance with a girl (if I find one).*
"When" you find one, you will be ready!!
Absolutely appreciate this so much!! My bf has always asked me to dance or he'd say he can "envision us doing a slow dance at -parties, future friends or our wedding-" and while I've always enjoyed the idea of it and know how to execute the basic box step (thank you mom for making me watch Fred Astaire movies growing up) I am extremely self conscious and have a lack of confidence when/if I dance, especially slow dancing. What's funny I feel more confident with hip hop style choreographed dances (maybe because it reminds me of an exercise rather than an actual dance) but slow dances I feel puts a little more pressure because while I know everyone else is doing their own thing, I still think of "oh god what I f-up and make a fool out of myself because everyone is watching!!" BUT hopefully, as I have come across this video, very simple, very easy way to learn, this can kinda help me get over that little bump in my own road and put my mind at ease a bit and I'll be able to ~confidently~ dance at a friend's wedding in Sept with him! :D plenty of time to cool my jets, practice and just go with it. Thank you for the vid!
Thank you so much for sharing with all of us!! And so happy you found this video 😊 You will kill it at your friend's wedding!
my mom is gonna love this
Thanks for the help, sir. I hope I get to use this one day.
This has to be the most informational and straight forward dancing video I've ever seen, thanks a lot yo.
Thank you so much!! Glad you enjoyed :)
‘Casual sway sway’ totally calling it that from now on
Let's hope this comes in handy one day
Thank you so much for this video! Yesterday was my prom and my date absolutely loved our dancing! I watched this video and some of your other videos to learn how to dance. Thank you so much! Without your help, her night wouldn’t have been as special.
That is awesome! So happy to hear it :)
@@BallroomFeed Late update but we got prom court!!!
Easy to follow, easy moves, clear explanation how not to do. That's a top notch guide!
Thank you for your kind words!!!
thanks bro i really need it in 20 minutes real life saver
Hyped for the winter formal
I've never danced. You did a great job of explaining it and I can't wait to try it out. Thanks for making it
You are so welcome! Happy dancing!! :)
This was amazing, you guys explained this so well. I feel so much more confident now. Thank you!
Happy you liked it! Thanks for watching :)
Thanks for this video this is very helpful to our Js prom today 😅🙏
this is so cuteee
Really helps and keeps everything very simple and forward for my first highschool dance lmao
Good luck, you'll do great!!
Thank you so much, this is so useful, and you two share such a lovely energy.
Our pleasure! Thank you!! :)
This is awesome. All I need is someone to dance with.... lol. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you SO much!! My son is getting married in 10 days and my friend who was suppose to teach them to not stand there in a circle backed out!!! You both are a lifesaver❤️
Glad we could help!! :)
When i was in 8th grade and a freshman asked me to dance and had no idea how to plus she was hot and I'm me. I had no clue what to do and its embarrassing everytime I start to dance with someone 😂
Well not anymore! Glad you found us and thanks for watching! :)
Literally watching this before my preboards 👍🏻
This will help soooooo many!
Excellent, within a few minutes incorporates a number of BR dance steps and techniques in a easy follow dance sequence
Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed :)
That was surprisingly beautiful to watch. Thank you.
Thank you!!
The fact that when they are explaining they are always holding hands is so cute
Thank you! :)
This was great of you both, thank you! So helpful!
Happy to help! 😊
Never have i ever smiled and blushed continuously for 12 minutes and 28 seconds. I was about to sleep when this video came on my feed and as soon as i saw it, i knew i had to watch it. Very informative and boosted my confidence thanks!
So happy to help :)
You taught this in such an easy-to-understand way. And it was really engaging! Watched the whole thing, thank you
Great to hear, thank you! :)
Watching this a couple hours before my prom!
This guy saving lives
Beautifull video, nicely explained. I love to slow dance, thank you very much! 👌🏻
Thank you for watching!! Glad you enjoyed :)
Me and my boyfriend want to try dancing and we’re gonna try in a few days. This really helped!
That's great!! Enjoy it :)
Thanks so much !
all i want is dance and get to the point she asks "i didnt know you can dance" and with a cool expresion ill be like " Babyy, there are a lot of things you dont know about me" .
Every guy should know how to do it! Thanks for the tips, I usually have to improvise on the spot.
Thank you for watching!
What a great Video, easy simple explaining. Thank you so much, this helps a lot!
Thank you for watching!! Always happy to help :)
I’m watching a lot of these videos trying to figure out how to dance with a girl at homecoming. I’ve never danced before and this seriously helped! Now to practice
Awesome, so happy to help!! Thanks for watching :)
I needed this while ago
Thank you so much This helped me a lot!
Of course!! Happy to help :)
Well this channel is my new regular!
Yay!! We post new videos every Sunday!! :)
This is a brilliant way to teach dancing. You take it slowly at first.
Thank you! Happy you enjoyed :)
I love how people is here telling anecdotes and I'm just here for writing research. Keep going pals.
Watching this 20 hour before my prom
Better late than never! Good luck!
@@BallroomFeed thank you
Beautiful dancing...and equally good explanation...loved it
Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed :)
Thank you So much!
This is actually really sweet
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As I'm a competitive ballroom and Latin dancer I clicked on this video expecting it to be cringey and funny. But now I think that it is an amazing video because you explain the leading very well! A few years ago I started taking ballroom classes at the danceschool Elmayer which is really famous in Vienna. Compared to that dance school, which is really well-known in Austria and is famous for its waltz classes, you managed to explained so many things so much quicker than the teachers at Elmayer. Thank you so much!
So happy to hear it! Thanks for watching and you’re positive feedback :)
I'm watching this day before a ball. KZhead algorithm is indeed an amusing thing.
Not much of a dancer, but this video is really important for a low-key individual. And for anyone really.
Me too! My stepdaughter has invited me to dance with her at her wedding reception! I want it to be perfect!
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this is super cute, simple and casual, and at the same time very romantic! Exactly what I needed, thanks guys! Gonna ask her to dance tomorrow during our time, wish me luck!
Thank you!! Let us know how it went :)
@@BallroomFeed it was the best time spent with a girl in years and it went exactly like I planned! We were sitting on a big rock by the river, listening to lofi girl music, and I asked "do you want to dance?" she was surprised, but agreed with no hesitation! I gently grabbed two of her hands, palm to palm left side, her left hand on my shoulder. I even told her why it shouldn't be on neck :D My right hand was on her left shoulder blade at all times :) We started with simple side to side moves, then I led her into forward movement, then we added the side movement after. The ground was not even so we eventually just started doing side-to-side moves, while talking. When she was comfortable with the rhythm, she have put her left hand higher on my neck. We danced like that for around 20 minutes, then I've put her right hand on my left shoulder, and gently grabbed her by waist with my left hand. I immediately asked if she was comfortable and she said yes Another 20 minutes of slow dance and talks, and as all good things - it had to end. No dips, no rolls. Simple and genius. This was very romantic, I wish I could tell you what the look in her eyes was. Truly a wonderful moment :) Thank you guys, you do not realize the moment that you allowed me to create