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A Simple Game To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation

Charisma on Command
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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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  • -So, how do you like Toronto? -I've never mentioned Toronto... - ... Why?

    @nachocabo4221@nachocabo42214 жыл бұрын

    • Underrated comment lmao

      @streamepiphany9932@streamepiphany99323 жыл бұрын

    • only he spelled it toranto

      @robertkruse6035@robertkruse60353 жыл бұрын

    • Lol

      @koen6468@koen64683 жыл бұрын

    • Lmao

      @Kevessi@Kevessi3 жыл бұрын

    • Why what? Erm… You remind me of Toronto…

      @haoyuanjin8280@haoyuanjin82802 жыл бұрын

  • "I see you have a big mouth, do you like to talk a lot?"

    @DanielVoyles@DanielVoyles4 жыл бұрын

    • 😂

      @jared4575@jared45753 жыл бұрын

    • Toronto?

      @xavierblitz5647@xavierblitz56473 жыл бұрын

    • @@xavierblitz5647 Why

      @topeque6993@topeque69933 жыл бұрын

    • @@topeque6993 that reminds me of...

      @thebombspayloadisexposed@thebombspayloadisexposed3 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @2layIa@2layIa3 жыл бұрын

  • - Whats are you doing? - Drinking - Why? - Because I want to forget - What? - The shame I feel for drinking (Awkward silence) - This reminds me of that time I was in Toranto

    @FonchoVidal@FonchoVidal24 күн бұрын

    • Family guy ahh conversation

      @Kayoloz@KayolozКүн бұрын

    • Little prince

      @cheezit4080@cheezit4080Күн бұрын

  • One of the best feelings is when you're so close to someone that even the awkward silences aren't awkward anymore and you're just enjoying one another's company.

    @Dr.Discombobulated@Dr.Discombobulated2 жыл бұрын

    • Bro I feel that.. I'd love my date to be just like me, to enjoy and embrace the silence, exchanging smiles and eye contact, that kinda something

      @imusingmymomsandroid2375@imusingmymomsandroid2375 Жыл бұрын

    • Nice name

      @user-dy1vf7lu3i@user-dy1vf7lu3i Жыл бұрын

    • 🗿🗿 2 bros being bros in silent peace

      @gameseeker6307@gameseeker6307 Жыл бұрын

    • It's so rare. If you meet someone that vibes with you like that never let them go, whether they're a lover or a friend.

      @ada5851@ada5851 Жыл бұрын

    • pulp fiction

      @callasan1681@callasan1681 Жыл бұрын

  • Flirting with the bartender: “you come here often?”

    @ziimbo3957@ziimbo39574 жыл бұрын

    • 😂

      @user10842@user108424 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂

      @rpeshbhujade3974@rpeshbhujade39744 жыл бұрын

    • Bro, why.

      @skullj2872@skullj28724 жыл бұрын

    • I swear, if she’s that type of cool girl, she’ll laugh and that’s the spot where you want to be! Now order a se+ on the beach and she’ll be all yours 😏

      @claudizero6964@claudizero69644 жыл бұрын

    • "You, come here often."

      @mitsuracer87@mitsuracer874 жыл бұрын

  • Me: How old are you? Her: 21 Me: *Why*

    @Gigatless@Gigatless4 жыл бұрын

    • lol

      @fiorenzacavallini6730@fiorenzacavallini67304 жыл бұрын

    • Because I drink the blood of babies, of course

      @brianwalendy3735@brianwalendy37354 жыл бұрын

    • Well, I was born at an early age and I've been alive ever since.

      @nopeq7993@nopeq79934 жыл бұрын

    • Her: Because I was born at a very young age.

      @ragnasheen8950@ragnasheen89504 жыл бұрын

    • Have a date in an hour. I’m using this as a pick-up line for sure dude lmao

      @ShadowZone1996@ShadowZone19964 жыл бұрын

  • 1. Say ‘this reminds me of..’ 2. Ask open ended questions. 3. Ask ‘why?’ 3. Use revival questions - like ‘How do you guys know each other?’ 5. Ask them about their future plans 6. Compliment them 7. Allow the other person to move the conversation by maintaining eye contact, or repeat the last words they said to encourage them to continue

    @kookiesjams595@kookiesjams595 Жыл бұрын

    • Thank you,this reminds me about that radom guy who used to give these

      @afiqhalib7232@afiqhalib7232 Жыл бұрын

    • Cool...So how do you like Toronto

      @not_jared9404@not_jared9404 Жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @ArrowMaster_@ArrowMaster_ Жыл бұрын

    • 8. Ask them where is point no. 4.

      @lm-oi1ke@lm-oi1ke Жыл бұрын

    • What are your future plans?

      @gamertardguardian1299@gamertardguardian1299 Жыл бұрын

  • Me: "as an introvert, I've had a lot of experience with awkward silence." Therapist: "and what have you learned?" Me: "How to weaponize it against my enemies." Therapist: ...... Me: .... "So how do you know Toronto?"

    @jamesq7954@jamesq7954 Жыл бұрын

    • There is something wrong with my mind… TheRapist is how I read Therapist.

      @Twowheelsandadream4@Twowheelsandadream4 Жыл бұрын

    • I lived there once but I had to get out there u know because of the dream killing and the boring silence and the bloody hippies smoking weed

      @drumerdude2661@drumerdude2661 Жыл бұрын

    • @@Twowheelsandadream4 💀💀

      @idrinkwater1124@idrinkwater1124 Жыл бұрын

    • @@Twowheelsandadream4 nawh same

      @lilyoda4208@lilyoda4208 Жыл бұрын

    • To pack even more tips into there: *So why do you know Toranto?*

      @cloudfinraptor@cloudfinraptor Жыл бұрын

  • me at his house- “so do you come here often?”

    @camryn9597@camryn95974 жыл бұрын

    • That is a nice way to talk to a thief he'd peacefully leave.

      @FBWUniverseMode@FBWUniverseMode3 жыл бұрын

    • @@FBWUniverseMode"and that's how me and your mom met son"

      @Xinyannya@Xinyannya3 жыл бұрын

    • Maybe we should just be friends Mind: She's insane, just distance yourself, man.

      @mistertrueromance@mistertrueromance3 жыл бұрын

    • That will Bring more Awkwardness

      @uttkarshkumar6897@uttkarshkumar68973 жыл бұрын

    • Why

      @2trekkers777@2trekkers7773 жыл бұрын

  • Me with my girlfriend at their place meeting her family: So how do you all know each other?

    @carageak@carageak4 жыл бұрын

    • Lookl

      @m.m7732@m.m77324 жыл бұрын

    • lolololol

      @NiceEyeballs@NiceEyeballs3 жыл бұрын

    • bwahhahaa i would probably do this and not notice

      @kaylamuller441@kaylamuller4413 жыл бұрын

    • 😄😄

      @danamoldovan9135@danamoldovan91353 жыл бұрын

    • I dying man. 🤣

      @icannotcomeupwithanything4609@icannotcomeupwithanything46093 жыл бұрын

  • My dad, who is really great at socializing, taught me one rule: Try asking your conversation partner questions about he/she. Not only will it lead to new conversation topics like they mentioned in the video, it also gives you time to think about how to follow up after they finish. As an introvert, this works greatly for me.

    @tetrabirac779@tetrabirac779 Жыл бұрын

    • Till the person says I'm good you?

      @caramelese8520@caramelese8520 Жыл бұрын

    • @@caramelese8520 usually it does not continue like that, but if it does thennn bruh it's gonna be awkward silence again

      @tetrabirac779@tetrabirac779 Жыл бұрын

    • @@caramelese8520 after that talk about something that happened to you recently that might continue the conversation (in a good way obviously)

      @jadenpina3989@jadenpina3989 Жыл бұрын

    • Ohh I got the same tip! He even used it on me without me realizing and after I finished talking he said “see” Stuck with me since then and as a shy introvert, has helped me a lot

      @ahleenah@ahleenah Жыл бұрын

    • Please gimme some more tips like this I really die during a conversation have nothing to ask or say and the conversation ends right there with awkward silence from both sides

      @as8kay@as8kay Жыл бұрын

  • It's amazing the wit and humour in this comment section, from people who are here because they believe they struggle to hold a conversation!!

    @jordwright507@jordwright507 Жыл бұрын

  • Awkward silence: Why and Toronto: I'm about to end this man's whole career

    @clutch_zone72@clutch_zone724 жыл бұрын

    • Lmao 💀

      @adr_x1114@adr_x11143 жыл бұрын

    • Why dpes this only have 66 likes. Lmaoo

      @ezdor8877@ezdor88773 жыл бұрын

    • Hahahaha

      @santaclaus3077@santaclaus30773 жыл бұрын

    • I woke my sister up laughing at this😂😂😂

      @n-3262@n-32623 жыл бұрын

    • Bahahaha 😂😂😂

      @agathawiebe6339@agathawiebe63393 жыл бұрын

  • Me meeting my friend standing with his father Me:So how do you guys know each other?

    @saadanwar9559@saadanwar95595 жыл бұрын

    • dead😂😂

      @xerx_is_bored@xerx_is_bored5 жыл бұрын

    • Saad Anwar 😂😂😂

      @itspurelypassionate@itspurelypassionate5 жыл бұрын

    • I have done that one before

      @frankievaldez6816@frankievaldez68165 жыл бұрын

    • @@frankievaldez6816 what was their resonse?😂

      @saadanwar9559@saadanwar95595 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂

      @francescorotolo1947@francescorotolo19475 жыл бұрын

  • I always say, “you too” at the wrong times. Usually it’s at the end of a conversation. Like to someone working at a movie theater and they say, “enjoy the movie”, and I say, “you too”. Or when the doctor ends with, “make sure you take your medicine”, and I’m just like, yea, “you too”.

    @elizabethwest5949@elizabethwest5949 Жыл бұрын

    • 1st person: hryd today Me: I'm ok 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️ 2nd person 1 sec later: hryd today Me: pretty great, & you? Most ppl: idrc Me: yeah me either Response back sometimes: nothing. Maybe just an acknowledgement Replys to Greetings: hi (that's not what they asked) I c u I c u 2 Ok cool Cool Bye K bye

      @ahhwe-any7434@ahhwe-any7434 Жыл бұрын

    • - Happy birthday to you ☺ - u2 😊 - 🤨 - 😰

      @mouplayerbr@mouplayerbr Жыл бұрын

    • Imagine the doctor telling you to remember to take your medication and your just like, “yeah you too” as if they are crazy or something or you think they need help lol, it just sounds aggressive to say “you too” back to a doctor about taking medication lol

      @skillatar4572@skillatar4572 Жыл бұрын

    • Btw if this ever happens, just laugh it off. Like seriously, sometimes embracing the fact you can't talk changes the mood from awkward to goofy. People don't realize it but good conversations are more about feeling comfortable then being charismatic

      @scarlet7960@scarlet7960 Жыл бұрын

    • You too

      @megamaser@megamaser Жыл бұрын

  • I tried that complimentary cold read technique at a work event - "What do you like to do for fun" and "You look like you're pretty into fitness" after introducing myself. The woman (a complete stranger) thought I was flirting with her and I ended up in a disciplinary with HR for inappropriate behaviour. Be very careful who you use this advice with.

    @JetBlackJester@JetBlackJester Жыл бұрын

    • "It seems you were hitting on that female coworker. What are your thoughts?" "Don't worry, I have learned the lesson. So you all look like you enjoy eating a lot?"

      @danny.ray101@danny.ray101 Жыл бұрын

    • @@danny.ray101 Not really. I had been talking shop all day and was looking for common ground. If it hadn't been a networking event and I wasn't already supposed to chat to people I didn't know I might have seen it that way.

      @JetBlackJester@JetBlackJester Жыл бұрын

    • @@JetBlackJester Then it's even more ridiculous...

      @danny.ray101@danny.ray101 Жыл бұрын

    • Don't trust women.

      @abodieqwerty4678@abodieqwerty4678 Жыл бұрын

    • @JetBlackJester I think that talking about fitness to a woman brings up different connotations than if you talk about fitness to a man, quite simply because a man talking to a woman about her body is considered flirting or at least borderline usually, while guys are not as sensitive on the topic. That said, at a setting where people are supposed to interact, and given the information I am aware of, I feel like she could have cut you a little more slack and tried to guage your intentions before coming to a conclusion. In summary, I believe all parties involved could have done better, its just a little unfortunate that the learning experience for you was rather awkward.

      @theinacircleoftheancientpu492@theinacircleoftheancientpu492 Жыл бұрын

  • Me flirting in class - "So which school are you from?"

    @sovereignty7897@sovereignty78974 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @Kuza01@Kuza014 жыл бұрын

    • @@Kuza01 Just Asking

      @mandystop1077@mandystop10774 жыл бұрын

    • @@mandystop1077 how do you like Toronto?

      @AlexandruRadu96@AlexandruRadu964 жыл бұрын

    • @@AlexandruRadu96 Toronto? isn't that a city? that reminds me of where I'm from. which is kind of like a city but much smaller.

      @advancedtheories1332@advancedtheories13324 жыл бұрын

    • @@AlexandruRadu96 yes

      @dragonicbladex7574@dragonicbladex75744 жыл бұрын

  • *me flirting at a funeral "So, do you come here often?"

    @blacklarry998@blacklarry9984 жыл бұрын

    • Who you trying to flirt with at a funeral?

      @nicktokar2459@nicktokar24594 жыл бұрын

    • @@nicktokar2459 the widow

      @blacklarry998@blacklarry9984 жыл бұрын

    • That funeral comment made cry bc my grandma died not to long ago and now im sad

      @Xelexment@Xelexment4 жыл бұрын

    • @@Xelexment why? Did you flirt with someone there?

      @kaysas9686@kaysas96864 жыл бұрын

    • @@Xelexment Why...

      @terrencesora1174@terrencesora11744 жыл бұрын

  • Most important thing imo - make yourself genuinely interested in the person. A lot of the conversation will just fall into place by itself instead of trying to come up with the next best thing to say 🙂 This helped me so much in life

    @oljenka88@oljenka883 ай бұрын

  • People who you can just be silent with are the best!!! ❤

    @monaebreak561@monaebreak56114 күн бұрын

  • “you look like you would be great with kids“ “Oh actually not really“ “well I had the impression because you look like my mom“

    @rainyclouds7631@rainyclouds76314 жыл бұрын

    • "why?"

      @rei-pq8vx@rei-pq8vx3 жыл бұрын

    • “toronto?!”

      @levince9315@levince93153 жыл бұрын

    • This reminds me of..

      @margaritagonzalezbenegas1040@margaritagonzalezbenegas10403 жыл бұрын

    • HAHAHAHAHA

      @jajangmyeon0618@jajangmyeon06183 жыл бұрын

    • Underrated comment lmao 😂

      @gabelbuddy_4941@gabelbuddy_49413 жыл бұрын

  • me in an airplane: “so, where you going?”

    @PatoValdes18@PatoValdes184 жыл бұрын

    • On a plane

      @shotgun_daddy-1089@shotgun_daddy-10894 жыл бұрын

    • @@joaquin991 to Toronto?

      @panlis6243@panlis62434 жыл бұрын

    • I did do that once actually

      @flymb3358@flymb33584 жыл бұрын

    • somehow that's what I get ask all the time

      @MrDoon-ez5qm@MrDoon-ez5qm4 жыл бұрын

    • Is this directed at someone or just a question out of nowhere hoping someone replies?

      @vmillio7564@vmillio75644 жыл бұрын

  • One thing I learned through my conversations, "some people are boring" don't push it, it they are exciting or excited in you, you'll never stop talking.

    @fa5rani@fa5rani Жыл бұрын

  • What I've found is that people looove to talk about themselves! If you want to keep the conversation going, act like everything they say is the most interesting thing you've ever heard and you want to hear every single detail. You study commerce? What do you do? What job would you pursue in the future? What are the assignments like? Your parents made you study it, what do your parents do? What would you rather be studying instead, why? Every single piece of detail is a prompt that you can keep building on. And most of all, remember that the other person is a human being too! Chances are they want to keep the conversation going too and they'll want to cooperate with you. While trying to come up with ways to keep it going, remember to actually listen to what the other party is saying as well!

    @seaweedcat4267@seaweedcat4267 Жыл бұрын

  • Person: "So where are you from?" Me: "Why?" ..............*awkward silence* Me: "That reminds me of all the other awkward social interactions".

    @Judoka008@Judoka0085 жыл бұрын

    • Pure gold

      @hansitorsnes5020@hansitorsnes50205 жыл бұрын

    • The funny thing is that could actually be a really hilarious conversation😂

      @RhinoGamin@RhinoGamin5 жыл бұрын

    • I'm screaming laughing at this

      @amyh1755@amyh17555 жыл бұрын

    • you cant hear me right now but im clapping

      @Zgtsu@Zgtsu5 жыл бұрын

    • @@Zgtsu 😂😂

      @tuyuu2191@tuyuu21915 жыл бұрын

  • “I had a good time yesterday at the party.” “So you had a good time yesterday?” “Um yeah like I just said... “Why?” “...Because I went to the party...”

    @Aubjordan@Aubjordan4 жыл бұрын

    • so anyways, how do you like toronto?

      3 жыл бұрын

    • 😂

      @AlexanderMacleod@AlexanderMacleod3 жыл бұрын

    • What’s your story?

      @novelle.27@novelle.273 жыл бұрын

    • @Doggo 😂😂😂

      @animerequiem7041@animerequiem70413 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂

      @laavanya2335@laavanya23353 жыл бұрын

  • The more I see videos like this, the more I understand that I just have anxiety. I follow this script, I don't do anything incredibly weird. But my mind puts everything under a microscope. And sometimes I just got to accept that I just don't vibe with everyone. Some conversations just arent going to be great.

    @Wheredidigetthismuffin@Wheredidigetthismuffin Жыл бұрын

  • 1. Open ended questions (how do you like ?) 2. Ask about their motivativations with a simple "Why?" (Why did you decide to get into ?) 3. When the conversation stalls, use revival questions: - "How you guys know one other?" - "What's your story?". The person might give options on what specifically, then you can read which option was mentioned in a more excited tone of voice - "What are your plans to the future?" 4. Complimentary cold read (you look like you are pretty into ) 5. In a cold silence, deep breath and keep easy eye contact. Alternatively, repeat the last words they've said

    @LucianoBAF@LucianoBAF Жыл бұрын

    • Jesus Christ, does anyone else want to write yet another comment stating the exact same thing that was in the video?

      @Prizm44@Prizm44 Жыл бұрын

    • how do you like toronto?

      @xhvsh@xhvsh5 күн бұрын

  • Her : So do you like Toronto ? Me : Hey that's my line !! Her : Why? *Awkward Silence*

    @rohan1748@rohan17483 жыл бұрын

    • Man what a hilarious comment section, I wish I cud meet u all and make more jokes about this video, that would be epic! I'm so weak for good humour 😂😂

      @babayaga3064@babayaga3064 Жыл бұрын

    • @@babayaga3064 We are really doing okay in comments section but chances are it will be *severely awkward silence* if we meet in real life.

      @missingpatel7349@missingpatel7349 Жыл бұрын

    • Uno reverse :D

      @ungewohnlich510@ungewohnlich510 Жыл бұрын

    • Underrated comment 😂

      @IoannisFragiskos@IoannisFragiskos Жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂

      @muhammadraza2766@muhammadraza2766 Жыл бұрын

  • Them: How old are you? Me: Toronto Them: That’s not an age Me: Why?

    @jobless5866@jobless58663 жыл бұрын

    • That’s technically a conversation

      @jonathanSpg@jonathanSpg3 жыл бұрын

    • Why

      @jonathanSpg@jonathanSpg3 жыл бұрын

    • Lmao

      @jacobharris5894@jacobharris58943 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂

      @laavanya2335@laavanya23353 жыл бұрын

    • the perfect conversation killer doesn't exi

      @1minutequickvideos-169@1minutequickvideos-1693 жыл бұрын

  • There’s nothing cooler than curating a vibe where you sit confidently with a dash of aloofness during those “awkward silences”

    @dbliss741@dbliss741 Жыл бұрын

    • I do that practically all the time by accident bc of not often starting convos (unless with already established friends)

      @Mo-.@Mo-. Жыл бұрын

    • I disagree. I've been practicing this my entire life because I enjoy silence. But it hasn't made me "cool" or curate any kind of vibe that anyone else notices. Mainly it makes me forgettable, which is good. I don't want boring people to remember me, only the ones worth talking to.

      @megamaser@megamaser Жыл бұрын

  • I have a friend who asks questions like the ones from this video when trying to hold conversations, and now I think he got the conversation ideas from this video.

    @DrownedInGames@DrownedInGames Жыл бұрын

    • ask them how they like toronto and see what they do

      @joanna4500@joanna4500 Жыл бұрын

    • @@joanna4500 I'll do that sometime hahah

      @DrownedInGames@DrownedInGames Жыл бұрын

  • A depressed person:"sometimes I just feel like this world would be better without me" .... Me: "so what are ur plans for the future?"

    @oblobbles@oblobbles3 жыл бұрын

    • You know the word future reminds me of a state that is my destiny to behold my actions a period of time following the moment of speaking or writing; time regarded as still to come.

      @DeadeyeToya@DeadeyeToya3 жыл бұрын

    • "I wanna kill myself" Me: "Toronto"

      @thinginground5179@thinginground51793 жыл бұрын

    • why?

      @meowww7557@meowww75573 жыл бұрын

    • Why would be better ;)

      @jimsclub8080@jimsclub80803 жыл бұрын

    • damn that went dark quick lmfaoo

      @iiCounted2134@iiCounted21343 жыл бұрын

  • me: what's your name? them: Emma me: why? them: me: so how do u like Toronto?

    @alyssa3415@alyssa34153 жыл бұрын

    • So all of them are named emma

      @jaymike8611@jaymike86113 жыл бұрын

    • Emma: why?

      @marshayas3494@marshayas34943 жыл бұрын

    • Her*

      @XORevolveOX@XORevolveOX3 жыл бұрын

    • that reminds me of Toronto

      @user-ck8pk5kq3x@user-ck8pk5kq3x3 жыл бұрын

    • Plot Twist: Emma has never even been to Toronto.

      @____-zk1iq@____-zk1iq3 жыл бұрын

  • I've never wanted to meet someone who's been to Toronto this much in my life.

    @willandrews8577@willandrews8577 Жыл бұрын

  • “Do you like Toronto?” “Yes” *awkward silence* “How do you like Toronto?” 😌 “It’s good.” *awkward silence*

    @oppelo5981@oppelo59813 жыл бұрын

    • Why

      @fl3tched@fl3tched3 жыл бұрын

    • So much for an open-ended question lol

      @nil4897@nil48973 жыл бұрын

    • That’s when you ask then what they like about it

      @cartanfan-youtube@cartanfan-youtube3 жыл бұрын

    • Yes

      @roscoe4943@roscoe49433 жыл бұрын

    • i’m from toronto and i can confirm it is good

      @mg-lb3tm@mg-lb3tm3 жыл бұрын

  • “The weather nice today huh?” "Thanks, you too"

    @_username@_username3 жыл бұрын

    • I’m dead 😂

      @mikolajk2372@mikolajk23723 жыл бұрын

    • Well someone could be called Carl Weathers somewhere

      @jellymatsuryuka6853@jellymatsuryuka68533 жыл бұрын

    • Hahahaha

      @jenniperkins4260@jenniperkins42603 жыл бұрын

    • y-you too

      @luchinazo@luchinazo3 жыл бұрын

    • Relatable

      @brookie_pooh@brookie_pooh3 жыл бұрын

  • I just like to ask completely random questions out of the blue. I don't mean stuff like "Where'd you get your shirt from?" or something. I mean questions like "Is soup a drink?" or "Do you pour cereal or milk first?" since those types of questions usually lead to a debate, or just an interesting conversation. Also yes, both of those questions were food related. Food is always a good conversation topic, since most everyone enjoys food (or at least has an opinion on it). Some other good questions to ask are hypotheticals. I like these since they're pretty interesting, and if you run out of them it's really easy to just make one up. Ex: "Would you rather fight 10 5 year olds or 2 20 year olds?" or "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" You can also elaborate on the question, or change it slightly depending on their answer, like instead of "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" it'd be "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 3.5 dollars?" Sorry for the long comment, and thanks to anyone who read all the way through! Hoped this helped!

    @deli_bread@deli_bread Жыл бұрын

    • How to get friendzoned in just one interaction

      @R9naldo@R9naldo Жыл бұрын

    • @@R9naldoyeah 💀

      @CosmicRando@CosmicRando Жыл бұрын

    • My cousin always asks us these kinds of questions lol! Its usually very crazy so we roll our eyes each time he starts with a 'would u rather...' 🤣🤣 Questions like, 'would u rather, marry/date a person who is shockingly ugly, (he also includes some kind of abnormality, like he has unstoppable diarrhea) but he has the best personality (factually) and loves u dearly , or would u rather marry someone who is impossibly gorgeous and rich but has the shittiest personality.. This is tame actually, compared to some of his other ones 😂🤣🤣

      @hazelmint6671@hazelmint6671 Жыл бұрын

    • 😂 love that approach! Not too personal yet allows someone to display their personality and go into other subjects.

      @pinkroses135@pinkroses135 Жыл бұрын

  • short, ad straight to the point, no unessecary buildup or intro, love it

    @marcusfarrands9311@marcusfarrands9311 Жыл бұрын

  • Bold of you to assume that I engage in conversation.

    @_tronk_2529@_tronk_25295 жыл бұрын

    • James Hickok I have aids :)

      @treblinka9530@treblinka95305 жыл бұрын

    • Swear bro I ain’t never starting a convo

      @sus3509@sus35094 жыл бұрын

    • @@treblinka9530 so.., what do you enjoy most about having aids?

      @stevesbonesai@stevesbonesai4 жыл бұрын

    • noo i feel bad for liking your comment and making the number iLlUmInAtI

      @bl8d5uck3r@bl8d5uck3r4 жыл бұрын

    • @@bl8d5uck3r dw i changed it :)

      @VisionVaultArchive@VisionVaultArchive4 жыл бұрын

  • I tried to make my crush laugh by extra saying “Why” “Toronto” etc. But she just watched me awkwardly. Then I remembered that not everyone knows this comment section.

    @ltv9784@ltv97843 жыл бұрын

    • Hahaga

      @jenniperkins4260@jenniperkins42603 жыл бұрын

    • @@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

      @Sam-ih9pi@Sam-ih9pi3 жыл бұрын

    • @@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

      @lukesmith8896@lukesmith88963 жыл бұрын

    • @@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

      @hazyhope._.@hazyhope._.3 жыл бұрын

    • @@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

      @someoneyoumayknow5637@someoneyoumayknow56373 жыл бұрын

  • The open ended questioning was one of my key plays on first and second dates, along with asking what favourite and to elaborate on what makes it so

    @justmechanicthings@justmechanicthings Жыл бұрын

  • I've come to learn a bit about this, and it took me a while to understand that it's not only me in a conversation that is struggling, it's both sides, (or in a group, all sides). This made me less worried about the responsibility of the conversation failing falling on me.

    @helved807@helved807 Жыл бұрын

  • Me: You look like you are really into food! Her: I'm pregnant. Me: ...Why?

    @anythingbutme6602@anythingbutme66024 жыл бұрын

    • Anything Butme Who the hell says that in the first place?😂 “You look like you are really into food!”

      @FirstnameLastname-es1ko@FirstnameLastname-es1ko4 жыл бұрын

    • @@FirstnameLastname-es1ko that's why they watch this video! 😂

      @xapokalypse@xapokalypse4 жыл бұрын

    • 🤣🤣🤣

      @aaliyahs.adventures.@aaliyahs.adventures.4 жыл бұрын

    • She allowed herself to get nasty

      @itzelneptune@itzelneptune4 жыл бұрын

    • Seriously. Why? Smart people stopped having kids in 2008.

      @benderisgreat95able@benderisgreat95able4 жыл бұрын

  • *The gods have given us this outstanding comment section.*

    @levince9315@levince93154 жыл бұрын

    • Yess

      @m.m7732@m.m77324 жыл бұрын

    • More than we could ever wish for.

      @ironforged2329@ironforged23293 жыл бұрын

    • So what's Ur story

      @arzu3587@arzu35873 жыл бұрын

    • *Why?*

      @yoiamparthu7887@yoiamparthu78873 жыл бұрын

    • God tier comment section

      @theonlygrizzy9769@theonlygrizzy97693 жыл бұрын

  • With this, I was able to bring back a conversation with my grandparents at dinner. This was very helpful, thank you.

    @Skeletone56@Skeletone56 Жыл бұрын

  • Ayy this was a GREAT video. It was very friendly and positive, not making you feel awkward imagining saying these things because you also brang out some arguments with them. Also, very important is, for someone with ADD like me, and with poor memory too, this video was very short and to the point and you even made a recap at the end to remember easily. I mean, first off, it’s important to always be yourself but this video really help out people with social anxiety. Thank you, I will use this in my future conversations!❤

    @cultless699@cultless699 Жыл бұрын

  • [ awkward silence ] Me: [ sees glass of water ] “heh, reminds me of how humans need to stay hydrated”

    @yahdood6015@yahdood60153 жыл бұрын

    • 🤣 🤣 🤣

      @Narstar100@Narstar1003 жыл бұрын

    • lmao

      @ivonunes3937@ivonunes39373 жыл бұрын

    • Lolll

      @jonaskragt3006@jonaskragt30063 жыл бұрын

    • hahahahaha

      @YungGrpeTurno369@YungGrpeTurno3693 жыл бұрын

    • 10/10

      @SjonnyBB@SjonnyBB3 жыл бұрын

  • I can tell from this whole comment section that we are all introverts.

    @pikarizardcharikachu2573@pikarizardcharikachu25733 жыл бұрын

    • 😶

      @lilpogchamp4904@lilpogchamp49043 жыл бұрын

    • *Why* ?

      @sauce-ke6202@sauce-ke62023 жыл бұрын

    • Don't you mean toronto

      @coldrain4115@coldrain41153 жыл бұрын

    • so how was toronto?

      @pinkcherry9695@pinkcherry96953 жыл бұрын

    • So how do you guys know each other

      @Abdullah-hc7il@Abdullah-hc7il3 жыл бұрын

  • Idk why this is on my feed but for anyone that needed this video y’all just gotta go out and enjoy life. Don’t take things to serious joke around be funny be yourselves and quit worrying about the best thing to say in every situation just talk lmao. Love y’all god bless🙏

    @ResetYourCard@ResetYourCard Жыл бұрын

  • With the right person, you’ll never run out of words

    @chookers1074@chookers1074 Жыл бұрын

    • Bollocks

      @werixwolf@werixwolf7 ай бұрын

  • Me: How old are you? Girl: 19 Me: when I was your age I was 21

    @Whydoothercomments@Whydoothercomments4 жыл бұрын

    • why?

      @vairiskovels@vairiskovels4 жыл бұрын

    • Kovels because 19=10+9=9+10=21

      @ReaSeBy@ReaSeBy4 жыл бұрын

    • 69

      @oliverschaible3189@oliverschaible31894 жыл бұрын

    • XD Old memes

      @whiskers8771@whiskers87714 жыл бұрын

    • This situation is as confusing as king crimson's timeskip

      @anouarzizine8272@anouarzizine82724 жыл бұрын

  • If someone asked me "so what's your story?" I'd break into a cold sweat

    @zacadoole1@zacadoole13 жыл бұрын

    • why

      @thefork4416@thefork44163 жыл бұрын

    • @@thefork4416 toronto

      @loot3647@loot36473 жыл бұрын

    • this reminds me of the time I got -cold- feet and ran out on my wedding. … so what’s Toronto like?

      @AvaRose06@AvaRose063 жыл бұрын

    • @@loot3647 PAHAHAHA YALL LEAVE. IM CRYING

      @linasbubble@linasbubble2 жыл бұрын

    • @@linasbubble why?

      @dinowattz@dinowattz2 жыл бұрын

  • This video was so helpful I talked to a woman and she didn’t run away! 10/10 would recommend

    @bean2468@bean2468 Жыл бұрын

  • seeing that this video has so many views makes me feel less alone. we just all have some problems with social skills but hey, nothing that we can't overcome

    @majadinicc@majadinicc Жыл бұрын

  • “So...tell me a bit about yourself” My mom at the dinner table: “..what?” *pointing to vase on table*“This reminds me of a vase I have at home” “????”

    @pasteltheunicorn3899@pasteltheunicorn38993 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @omid1442@omid14423 жыл бұрын

    • toronto

      @TracyMing@TracyMing3 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂

      @gregorbugri717@gregorbugri7173 жыл бұрын

    • I love these comments

      @tofferooni4972@tofferooni49723 жыл бұрын

    • @@tofferooni4972 why?

      @TracyMing@TracyMing3 жыл бұрын

  • 1. Maintain an unblinking stare 2. Randomly and substantially change the tone of your voice. 3. Respond to all of their responses with "As was foretold in the prophecy"

    @socklips7655@socklips76554 жыл бұрын

    • Socklips and then follow up with “Bring me the child!”

      @martinprince7773@martinprince77734 жыл бұрын

    • I love you guys

      @00wolfQUEEN@00wolfQUEEN4 жыл бұрын

    • @@martinprince7773 bonus points if you point to a pregnant lady

      @willrogers9932@willrogers99324 жыл бұрын

    • I’m so glad I had your advice

      @lunacyrus2274@lunacyrus22744 жыл бұрын

    • LMFAOO

      @Ryan-rv5em@Ryan-rv5em4 жыл бұрын

  • I’ve been using your tips at job interviews and they’re working great! Thank you!

    @katlibby83@katlibby83 Жыл бұрын

  • This is great... For 1 on 1 conversations. I've got a friend who won't shut up in a group conversation and won't let anyone have a word in and he'll eventually change the subject.

    @iansarmiento23@iansarmiento232 жыл бұрын

  • Her: I had a fight with my sister Me: How do you two know one another? Her:..... She's my sister Me: *why?*

    @augustuscaesar5076@augustuscaesar50764 жыл бұрын

    • Augustus Caesar her: because we’re related Me: because you’re related?

      @IsaiahReitanFilm@IsaiahReitanFilm4 жыл бұрын

    • @@IsaiahReitanFilm Me: Actually that reminds me of a friend who, just recently, got into a fight with her sister

      @KingLoof@KingLoof4 жыл бұрын

    • @@IsaiahReitanFilm Her: uh..yes Me: *_why?_*

      @hankiedave@hankiedave4 жыл бұрын

    • Augustus Caesar Well her parents did the big f*ck twice.

      @user-dc4yr2ev5h@user-dc4yr2ev5h4 жыл бұрын

    • Her: Toronto

      @AdmiralBonetoPick@AdmiralBonetoPick4 жыл бұрын

  • - This place reminds me of my grandma's death. - Maybe that's because it's my mum's funeral. - How did she die? - I don't want to talk about it, please. - Ok. How did you meet each other? *Akward silence* - How's your mum doing?

    @unacuentadeyoutube13@unacuentadeyoutube133 жыл бұрын

    • 🤣🤣

      @penglu364@penglu3643 жыл бұрын

    • This one's underrated

      @frossknight3209@frossknight32093 жыл бұрын

    • That sounds like something that Oversimplified would write for his videos😂

      @kylewadley5031@kylewadley50313 жыл бұрын

    • Ouch 😂

      @Lucas-gx8ic@Lucas-gx8ic3 жыл бұрын

    • I'd love to like thus comment vut really dont wanna ruin the fine like counts 420

      @rhitoja1@rhitoja12 жыл бұрын

  • Also learning not to be akward in silence is great too. You don't need to be talking all the time. Very helpful video anyways! Sometimes you just wanna talk but don't find common ground.

    @zxkredo@zxkredo Жыл бұрын

  • I feel like as long as you're a good and kind person you can just say the first things that come to mind

    @averyward2116@averyward2116 Жыл бұрын

  • Laughed my lungs out!! This comment section is on fire!!

    @hamza3065@hamza30654 жыл бұрын

    • why?

      @ryoo1234@ryoo12344 жыл бұрын

    • Ryo Hilmi how do you like Toronto?

      @katiecook9774@katiecook97744 жыл бұрын

    • ikr😂😂😂

      @user-ef5nd3ho3n@user-ef5nd3ho3n3 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂😂

      @robertremy9067@robertremy90673 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂

      @Mohammad-Almemari@Mohammad-Almemari3 жыл бұрын

  • PRO TIP: You can’t run out of things to say if you never initiate a conversation

    @trevorwhiteboy2649@trevorwhiteboy26493 жыл бұрын

    • The other person is just not interested

      @harsha307@harsha3073 жыл бұрын

    • Me after reading this: kalm Me after someone else initiates a conversation: PANIK

      @ultrablitz9673@ultrablitz96733 жыл бұрын

    • Big brain stuff

      @igorbednarski8048@igorbednarski80483 жыл бұрын

    • Fax

      @ETn4606@ETn46063 жыл бұрын

    • Catch this radio (This is a joke)

      @ashbash8716@ashbash87163 жыл бұрын

  • It's all about the weather in the end. If you run out of things to say, the weather talk saves the situation...it always leads on to other subjects that spring from how the weather is affecting you, your plans ahead etc. Well known thing in the UK 🤣

    @donna-elizabeth@donna-elizabeth Жыл бұрын

  • The one that always help is remember about “FORD”: Family Occupation Recreation Dreams. Also using open statements questions like why, how, when, where instead of closing ones.

    @andresf.3472@andresf.3472 Жыл бұрын

  • Me: *Looks at flower* Also me: Woah, That flower reminds me of flowers.

    @aurilio5633@aurilio56334 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @panlis6243@panlis62434 жыл бұрын

    • Bahahah

      @tania2299@tania22994 жыл бұрын

    • h o w d o y o u l i k e t o r o n t o ?

      @Josuh@Josuh4 жыл бұрын

    • Does it look like it would be great with kids?

      @preciousoh705@preciousoh7054 жыл бұрын

    • @@preciousoh705 LOL

      @thefamoustoilet4632@thefamoustoilet46323 жыл бұрын

  • Me, talking to my cousin at her mum’s funeral Me: this reminds me of that time my aunt died

    @f.b.iagent3971@f.b.iagent39714 жыл бұрын

    • John McKenvil r/woooooosh

      @bingbong5786@bingbong57864 жыл бұрын

    • John McKenvil LMAO

      @Zangetsu_@Zangetsu_4 жыл бұрын

    • @John McKenvil But you didn't give any signs that u understood. Sooo how do you like Toronto

      @fade2008@fade20084 жыл бұрын

    • @@fade2008 *_Why?_*

      @MushisCow@MushisCow4 жыл бұрын

    • @@MushisCow ummmm *_Nice weather, huh?_*

      @fade2008@fade20084 жыл бұрын

  • that was great. thanks for your precious channel. I really appreciate it. many many thanks.

    @mohsenjan4540@mohsenjan4540 Жыл бұрын

  • I'm quite introverted and I'm more of a listener than talker so I'm good with people who talks a lot.

    @SG003@SG003 Жыл бұрын

  • My fav question to ask when convo goes quiet is “how do u think chairs would work if our Knees bent backwards” I’ve had some wild convos from it

    @audreythorpe6962@audreythorpe69623 жыл бұрын

    • That question is so random lol

      @harambe8302@harambe83023 жыл бұрын

    • Lmaoo

      @fercam4792@fercam47923 жыл бұрын

    • You’re a saint Audrey

      @rustyshackleford3917@rustyshackleford39173 жыл бұрын

    • Having read this comment yesterday and asked this question today I can confirm the results are legendary

      @tomjones6277@tomjones62773 жыл бұрын

    • Or something like "have you ever asked yourself if hippos think that rhinos are unicorns?"

      @edsonq.valencia1802@edsonq.valencia18023 жыл бұрын

  • Barber: "So what do you do for work?" Me: "I'm a cashier, what about you?" *awkward silence*

    @Zwervar_@Zwervar_4 жыл бұрын

    • lmaoo

      @d9095@d90954 жыл бұрын

    • 😭😭😭

      @amirtamang4210@amirtamang42104 жыл бұрын

    • Gold

      @kristiteneqexhi5833@kristiteneqexhi58334 жыл бұрын

    • I actually did this once. Most akward 10 minutes of my life

      @panlis6243@panlis62434 жыл бұрын

    • omg yeah I've actually been there... ooff

      @FlikkieFloekieFlakkie@FlikkieFloekieFlakkie4 жыл бұрын

  • Good tips, I shall definitely give this a go. I suffer badly from social anxiety disorder but I’m trying to improve the whole time.

    @matthewclark7952@matthewclark7952 Жыл бұрын

  • My wife and I had dinner with people we see occasionally. Not real close. The other couple are very outgoing and talkative but we came to one of those grinding halts where everybody just sits there wishing they were not there. Then the host asked "read any good books lately". We were off and running. It was brilliant.

    @ronvavra@ronvavra Жыл бұрын

  • *at a bar* Me: you look like you come here often Her: What, I look like an alcoholic?? Me: what’s your story Her: I don’t have a drinking problem! Me: Tell me why

    @airyballoon@airyballoon4 жыл бұрын

    • *Her, starts to get drunk and proceeds to loosen up:* ain't nothin but a heartache

      @nelmae6026@nelmae60263 жыл бұрын

    • @@nelmae6026 glad I wasn't the only person who though BSB lol

      @ej_matthewsart@ej_matthewsart3 жыл бұрын

    • 🎵Ain't nothing but a heartache🎵

      @sarahgebhardt404@sarahgebhardt4043 жыл бұрын

    • @@sarahgebhardt404 TELL ME WHY

      @fiipknife3830@fiipknife38303 жыл бұрын

    • @@fiipknife3830 ain't nothin' but a mistake

      @sarahgebhardt404@sarahgebhardt4043 жыл бұрын

  • We all lack social skills , don't we?

    @d.lastbreath2272@d.lastbreath22725 жыл бұрын

    • D. Lastbreath no just had that a few hours ago.. damn that was the most awkward thing. long story short she turned me off with one sentence and then i had to change my sentence i wanted to say and then i left..

      @kblc7952@kblc79525 жыл бұрын

    • @@kblc7952 thats what you get for being a oldhead

      @peterg9798@peterg97985 жыл бұрын

    • Apree i’m 15 lmao

      @kblc7952@kblc79525 жыл бұрын

    • @@kblc7952 you can be 15 and an oldhead tf

      @peterg9798@peterg97985 жыл бұрын

    • Apree yeah aight u a oldhead too?

      @kblc7952@kblc79525 жыл бұрын

  • Thank you, I needed this

    @tannerw1332@tannerw13322 жыл бұрын

  • This is the no BS content that is helping us in real life 🙏👌

    @waelchorfan9349@waelchorfan9349 Жыл бұрын

  • Me: So what’s your story? Her: What do you mean by that? Me: ... Why? Her: *leaves* Me: sits to rewatch this video and take notes

    @rottencheeseballs2496@rottencheeseballs24964 жыл бұрын

    • Great!

      @pragyanatri7942@pragyanatri79423 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂😂

      @LadiiBlues14@LadiiBlues143 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂

      @erfanfekri7156@erfanfekri71563 жыл бұрын

    • 🤣🤣🤣

      @amethystspeaker6919@amethystspeaker69193 жыл бұрын

    • practice makes perfect 👌🏻

      @belieall9974@belieall99743 жыл бұрын

  • I told my first date „You look like you enjoy McDonalds quite a lot!“ She really opened up, even raised her voice. It brought so much energy to the conversation.

    @reallynoname@reallynoname2 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂bruh lol

      @mitch1488@mitch14882 жыл бұрын

    • 😩😂

      @alishamedlock4904@alishamedlock49042 жыл бұрын

    • you really down bad 😭

      @nightdream586@nightdream586 Жыл бұрын

    • 🤣

      @charlesm2627@charlesm2627 Жыл бұрын

    • Man this made me smile so hard XD

      @EchelonPandora@EchelonPandora Жыл бұрын

  • what a fantastic video! i have some problems about talking to other people, i think acctually that it is the bigest problem i have, so with this video i learned some things new im will try next time i see someone. THANK YOU

    @angelogabriel2316@angelogabriel2316 Жыл бұрын

  • Thanks for the upload

    @exodus146@exodus146 Жыл бұрын

  • Me: hi Her: hello Me: tell me your story Her: I was born in Switzerland... Me: so how do you like Toronto? Her: I said Switzerland Me: you said Switzerland? Her: yes Me: Why?

    @haironyourscreen4848@haironyourscreen48484 жыл бұрын

    • i thought there was a hair on my screen, Lol

      @masud_1@masud_14 жыл бұрын

    • @@masud_1 ibwas blowing it the whole time until i read ur comment😂

      @moural1133@moural11334 жыл бұрын

    • I literally thought there was hair on my screen and was blowing on it the whole time until i saw your username lol

      @ananya1541@ananya15414 жыл бұрын

    • oH lol I tHoUghT tHEre wAs A hAiR On mY ScReEN

      @sarahB06@sarahB064 жыл бұрын

    • 😂

      @therebelartisteofficial@therebelartisteofficial4 жыл бұрын

  • "how do you like Toronto" "I've never been there" "why?" "because I live in another country" "this reminds me of the time I didn't have anything to say"

    @whim_tv@whim_tv4 жыл бұрын

    • Haha😂

      @puthtikmony4071@puthtikmony40714 жыл бұрын

    • 💀💀💀

      @16ounceproductions@16ounceproductions4 жыл бұрын

    • That reminds me that i live in a different country lol

      @skie6282@skie62823 жыл бұрын

    • except he misspelled toranto

      @robertkruse6035@robertkruse60353 жыл бұрын

    • Toranto lmao

      @Noctifern@Noctifern3 жыл бұрын

  • Whenever I have a silence with someone I ask him whether he/she wants to talk or enjoy the environment. When they wanna talk I‘ll ask which topic he/she wants to discuss. You‘ll build easily a conversation again. If he/she chooses the other option it’s not awkward anymore. Besides they will start a convo again about how happy they are/like the environment/ you know when….etc

    @vatos3367@vatos3367 Жыл бұрын

  • I love this idea! I hope I don't forget these points!

    @Makememesandmore@Makememesandmore11 ай бұрын

  • Teacher : Where is your homework ? Me: At home , and yours? Teacher : what? Me: why? Teacher : *confused* Me: So what do you do for living?

    @brunotheexpert8230@brunotheexpert82304 жыл бұрын

    • Bruno The Expert thank you for making me actually lol 😂😂

      @ashleyw5579@ashleyw55793 жыл бұрын

    • Thats just “how to escape homework”

      @ernarjandos1031@ernarjandos10313 жыл бұрын

    • This made me laugh 😂😂😂

      @jeamychun@jeamychun3 жыл бұрын

    • Omg this was awesome hahahaha

      @swoop155@swoop1553 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂

      @user-sl1ry6op7m@user-sl1ry6op7m3 жыл бұрын

  • Person: My son died last week! Me: You look like the type who would be great with kids.

    @nilsdula7693@nilsdula76934 жыл бұрын

    • 🤣🤣🤣

      @Bossmanplayzzz@Bossmanplayzzz4 жыл бұрын

    • Nah, better response "why?"

      @thomashardacre@thomashardacre4 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @router9717@router97174 жыл бұрын

    • lmao! 😃😃

      @superflea72@superflea724 жыл бұрын

    • NO!

      @mariocart98@mariocart984 жыл бұрын

  • I usually try to convince myself to stay calm like I'm comfortable in the silence and then the other person becomes comfortable as well. It usually helps if there's somewhere I can look off to like the sea or people walking by

    @Anonymous-ev3rl@Anonymous-ev3rl Жыл бұрын

  • That helped me a lot! Thanks brother!

    @eliaziegler8810@eliaziegler8810 Жыл бұрын

  • Kid: I’ve forgot the letter after x *Me: why* Kid: wow thank you

    @markazain8996@markazain89963 жыл бұрын

    • best comment out of this godly comment section

      @dangergun2346@dangergun23463 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂😂

      @laavanya2335@laavanya23353 жыл бұрын

    • This is incredible

      @ultrablitz9673@ultrablitz96733 жыл бұрын

    • So how do you like Toronto

      @omaryassir8775@omaryassir87753 жыл бұрын

    • @@omaryassir8775 medium rare

      @oreorf4569@oreorf45693 жыл бұрын

  • This is the most legendary comment section ever

    @jp_03766@jp_037663 жыл бұрын

    • Agreed “Star Lord”

      @macewindu6853@macewindu68533 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @hadimasri420@hadimasri4203 жыл бұрын

    • This comment section is making me cry. Cry of laughter.

      @icannotcomeupwithanything4609@icannotcomeupwithanything46093 жыл бұрын

    • Why?

      @vivavideostudio8477@vivavideostudio84773 жыл бұрын

    • Moist critical reference

      @octoberv8320@octoberv83203 жыл бұрын

  • This is helpful. As alternative to “that reminds me of…” (something that happened to you), it’s nice to say, tell me more about that or ask for a detail about what they were talking about. When I was first learning to be a therapist, I learned that you can ask questions or make comments when a person’s talking to get them to talk more and you have choices about whether to “reach“for question about some content they were talking about or to reach for a feeling that they Expressed directly or indirectly. I don’t know if this is helpful for people and social situations, but I have gotten a lot of people to open up asking about mixed feelings or ambivalence that I might’ve noticed.

    @ozzieenglelewis@ozzieenglelewis14 күн бұрын

  • As an introvert, I can say that this video is very helpful

    @epicencarnet5297@epicencarnet5297 Жыл бұрын

  • Her: My dog died today. I'm really sad about it Me: Yeah they do that

    @nice-me9ce@nice-me9ce3 жыл бұрын

    • TheOdd1sout hah that joke hasn’t been overused

      @elodiec3099@elodiec30993 жыл бұрын

    • Still got me somehow

      @brodybingham6808@brodybingham68083 жыл бұрын

    • Why do you like your dog dying?🤔

      @luisbreva6122@luisbreva61223 жыл бұрын

    • That reminds me of mortality

      @KingNothing1118@KingNothing11183 жыл бұрын

    • Hahaga

      @jl_jc@jl_jc3 жыл бұрын

  • I haven't laughed/cried this hard in ages. Love this comment section

    @jaimieomalla8676@jaimieomalla86763 жыл бұрын

    • Made my day!

      @yazdanahmed7790@yazdanahmed77903 жыл бұрын

    • Mine too!

      @Leo-kd1xy@Leo-kd1xy3 жыл бұрын

    • Same!!

      @daliblue_@daliblue_3 жыл бұрын

    • What's your age?

      @itsmanasK@itsmanasK3 жыл бұрын

    • Same, this comment section is hilarious..

      @alishaikh3663@alishaikh36633 жыл бұрын

  • *Me sensing awkward silence in operating room* Me to a senior surgeon: Any exciting plans for future? Senior surgeon: Not now! The patient is bleeding to death, damn it!

    @nicitakhattar3279@nicitakhattar32792 жыл бұрын

  • Fun story I have been playing vrchat for a while now and recently thanks to this channel I have started noticing stuff like this in conversation. Now I am very socially awkward and I been working on my social skills. I realized being social is alot like a good form of mind games know how manipulate the conversation you can befriend anyone and it helps with the work force

    @forbullitwin.@forbullitwin. Жыл бұрын

  • Awkward silence with a single person “So how do you all know each oth-wait, damnit that’s not it...”

    @spethmanjones2997@spethmanjones29974 жыл бұрын

    • Soooo true lmao

      @crusader2603@crusader26034 жыл бұрын

    • why

      @user-ef5nd3ho3n@user-ef5nd3ho3n3 жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂😂😂😂😂

      @iamlame9631@iamlame96313 жыл бұрын

    • This one cracked me up 😆

      @kylesykrebs@kylesykrebs2 жыл бұрын

    • *frantically pulls out flash cards and drops all of them*

      @datmangotho9618@datmangotho9618 Жыл бұрын
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