Proverbs #3 - How do you emotionally heal from a hurt?
2019 ж. 25 Там.
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Everyone has had hurts in their lives but why does it happen and how do we heal from them? In this helpful and practical sermon from the book of Proverbs, Pastor Mark gives several reasons why hurts happen and how we can start to work through them by the grace of God.
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This is some of the best teaching. I am surprised it's not filled with comments. I am going to do a Bible study off of his teaching. The Lord woke me up and gave me this. Thank you for your obedience brother may God continue to bless you
Me too
Same
Thankyou for this. It's turned me around.
GOD loves you all, GOD bless you all in JESUS name Romans 10-9:12 “that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the Scripture says, "Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame." For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek, for the same Lord over all is rich to all who call upon Him.” Luke 13-2:3”"Do you suppose that these Galileans were worse sinners than all other Galileans, because they suffered such things? 3| tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.”have trust and faith in GOD✝️
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This is my life currently. Message I needed to hear loud and clear. Received. God bless 🙌. My husband has stage four prostate metastatic cancer. We adopted his three precious grandchildren. We are in our sixties had recently retired, recently married. His house flooded twice...life is hard...my father an alcoholic...my first husband an adulterer...I pray for everyone listening. 🙏 God is faithful. I had not realized Jesus took my shame. Thank you Lord. 😊
I believe I had not just come across your comment for nothing.I'm not sure if you have ever heard of Henry Wright. But he has a book called a more excellent way to be in health in this book it talks about. Prostrate cancer Henry Wright gets to the bottom line of each sickness and dplease prostrate cancer Has a Spiritual root called FEAR and ANXIETY which causes excessive histamine secretion, self-rejection and self,-hatred coupled with some guilt to produce the proliferation of white corpuscles.
GOD loves you all, GOD bless you all in JESUS name Romans 10-9:12 “that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the Scripture says, "Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame." For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek, for the same Lord over all is rich to all who call upon Him.” Luke 13-2:3”"Do you suppose that these Galileans were worse sinners than all other Galileans, because they suffered such things? 3| tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.”have trust and faith in GOD✝️
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God brought me to your sermons. Thank you Mark. My wife has asked me for a divorce almost a month ago. I asked her if we could give our marriage to God. Accepting Jesus is the best thing I've ever done. I've learned so much through your work Mark. Thank you and my Lord and savior Jesus Christ. God has given me strength to change my life and I continue to pray every day now. Even my daughters have grown comfortable with "saying goodnight to God" ❤ hallelujah ❤
I'll give an update if or when we renew our vows. It's day by day at this point. And I have faith in God blessing our marriage with healing and love.
I broke up with my boyfriend. We had sexual relations and a lot of trauma. I want to so much to go back to him so bad. I need to draw closer to the Holy Spirit. I need to draw closer to my God. I need to pray right now. My love to all of you during these hard times
My pain is from having 76 years with a close person being used of satan..being in my life..who is a narcissist. Having only recently finding help(on utube)..and pulling away. I repented of any known or unknown sins and discovered(through desperate pain).. that it wasn’t me. I pray to God in Jesus name, that more people will be used to help. This type of person can rob you of everything.
So sorry for your pain. I empathize with you..I myself have there. Not 75 years. But it sure feels like. It. May Hod continues to bless you with Love, peace, wisdom, joy knowledge and understanding. 🙏🏼
Sounds like my daughter 😢. I can only pray for her as she has chosen to not believe in God because of the man she lives with who is an atheist. I raised her and my son to believe in God. She only comes around when she wants $$$. I pray that she change her mind. 😢 Amen
I understand. It's been 5 months since I broke free from my covert narcissist boyfriend after 13 years. It's by God's grace and guidance that I was able to do so. The healing journey can be difficult but I believe well worth it. Praise God for loving us so much and being so gracious to us and my best to you in your ' new life'! ✨✝️✨🌷
Wow. I swore off Christianity after a childhood filled with religious abuse but this makes me contemplate, considering giving Jesus another chance. Either way this is a message worth hearing and I needed it. I have a bitter heart that I want softened but I can’t let go of the hurt. I’ve tried therapy, medication, read every self help book. Journaling, yoga, anger management, cried enough tears to fill the Red Sea. I’ve lost friends, family, moved hundreds of miles away for solitude and clarity and I’m still so broken. Im constantly reminded of the unfairness I’ve endured and the pain of betrayal. I’m so desperate to be free of this hurt. I’ve tried everything but God. Against my better judgement I may give him another chance. I have nothing to lose at this point.
You won't regret trying God. He truly is the great healer.
Life hurts. You are fortunate that you recognize the bitterness. I hope the brokeness evaporates and you find wholeness.
I plan on listening to this message once a month for the next year or so.
I prefer this type of admonishment (counseling) instead "having people all up in my business." "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." 2 Timothy 3:16-17
Bow & arrow "Going back to move forward " "Go back & deal with a few things, to load up power to move your life forward." "You can have pain & when something happens, you're over reacting because you're not just reacting to that, you're reacting to that which happened prior as well ." "If it's brokenness internally, & bad behavior externally, if all we do is go after the external behavior & not the internal brokenness, we're not really helping the person."
You are very wise. Rachael Hamm recently did a video about how she saw someone from her past who hurt her badly. But she and Jesus dealth with it. She said the exact same words you wrote here: "Sometimes you have to go backward to move forward."
If you go after the bad behavior without listening to what broke someone, it can only make them feel more abandoned, hopless and harder to heal.
Listeniing to this again.
I love this: "All of a sudden there's a mushroom cloud all over your life." A real danger of bitterness and unforgiveness: verbally unleashing curses on people's lives. What are we told: '"We'll be held accountable for every careless word we utter." That's sobering.
God has put it in my heart to watch you and listen to your ministry. I'm a 74 year old great grandma, and you have taught me so much. Listening to your men's ministry reminded me to let go of the hurts that the men in my life have put themselves through and the rest of my family along with them. Thank you and may God bless you greatly.
Thank you Mark for teaching this sermon. I have to watch it again because your words have opened my heart and mind. My mind to deep thought and my heart to deep healing. I thank Jesus for leading me to your teaching and your humor. I’m an old woman now but still learning more things that the Lord has for me. Thank you very much. God bless you!🇨🇦🇨🇦❤️🇮🇱🇺🇸🙏🏼🙏🏽✝️🕎☝🏻June 2023
GOD loves you all, GOD bless you all in JESUS name Romans 10-9:12 “that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the Scripture says, "Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame." For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek, for the same Lord over all is rich to all who call upon Him.” Luke 13-2:3”"Do you suppose that these Galileans were worse sinners than all other Galileans, because they suffered such things? 3| tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.”have trust and faith in GOD✝️
Thank you brother. All 8 points reveal truths of me that until now I had no idea of how to let the Holy Spirit help me nor did I realize I even needed it. I will repeatedly listen to this because it's the truth but it needs to sink into the depths of my soul. Thank you for being obedient and faithful because this is the only way that I could be helped and I thank GOD for HIS goodness in you. ❤❤❤
So dense. Have to listen to again. Really appreciate this teaching.
I immediately played it again. I needed this!❤
You're probably not dense at all! You are just learning a new way and trying to process it.🙏
Thank you Mark Driscoll!! This really gave me Clarity. I will definitely watch this again and I'm taking notes. Thank you God for leading me towards this video I will look up all his videos and continue to learn.
No matter how many times I listen to this, I need to listen more!
God led me to your channel and I am so happy! It is such a blessing to find a pastor that really loves God and man. This is what I feel when I hear your sermons. God bless you !
Thank you🙏🥵😭Please put me on your prayer list Pastor, broken,💔💔bad men my whole life, it’s their turn to give, help,trying really hard to heal, care for me, not everyone else, existed, traumatized, evil spirits from others,I reached that pain I couldn’t handle anymore grief, loss, cruelty on top of cruelty, lots of trauma 🥵🥵🥵😭😭😭🙏🙏a few years ago, please pray for me🙏😭🥵Crisis after crisis. Biggest enemies are those you love, the thief comes to kill steal and destroy, then blame and punish you. My husband has cheated since he married me, I let a demon in my life, you have no idea what he’s done to me, tried it all, it’s demonic, gave evil for good. This is just 1 trauma grief, I’m not high control kind caring giving loving, been highly controlled my whole life. Renewing my mind, the voices are abusers, lies, thieves, he spiritual warefare, I am tired of it forgiving 1k times a day
EXCELLENT, PRACTICAL TEACHING! I've been praying about dealing with my past hurts and this was an answer to prayer. THANK YOU, JESUS!!! And "Thank You!," Pastor Mark.
Divine Knowledge sometimes in life you need to hear from a different perspective. Blessings to you Mark Driscoll🙏🏽
PLEASE GOD I AM DESPERATE
That’s how I feel most days,crushed and broken seeking Gods face to repair things
Same here
I’m so broken and crushed I feel is beyond repair. My husband of 24 years left me for his late best friends widow. Went on a cruise, she bought him a Harley, they go places together all the time. I was a proverb 31 wife, unconditional love and he threw it all in my face. I’ve begged God to heal me or take my life! It’s unbearable most days, I can’t function in daily living, I’ve tried to lean on God but I feel no relief or peace. I don’t understand why he’s not healing me. 8 months of hell when does it stop
Amen! Purge me from what’s not of you Father and shows us your ways
I think i love this pastor lol im so glad GOD led me to this guy. Thank you so much this is the best sermon I think I've heard on forgiveness made me cry and then made me rejoice and then I was able to tell God I sincerely loved him without being just grateful for grace because of my mistakes which isn't good I am able to realize how he works in mysterious way and truly was happy I lost my job lol.
heal me OH YAH AND I SHALL BE HEALED SAVE AND I SHALL BE SAVED ALL WHO CALL UPON THE NAME THE LORD WHICH IS YAH SHALL BE DELIVERED
I got scammed because of the brokenness I experienced after horrendous narcissistic abuse. My brain was in such a state of trauma that the deception wasn't detected.
I hope ur better now. Im healing my narcissistic trauma too. Its not easy.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this.
Thanks for this wonderful teaching. After a broken heart, I felt empty inside and I couldn't love God properly. I'm getting delivered.
One of the best sermons I’ve heard! SO much wisdom, truth and love!! I praise God for this message! ❤
I really needed to hear this sermon, I am grateful Pastor Mark- truly appreciate the anointing God has on your faithful service to the Body of Christ ❤🙏🏼 thank you.
This is unbelievable. Thank you Mark for such honest insight. I was watching this very early in the morning as I was doing chores. At first, I thought boy he is talking fast. I told myself to listen. I was then slowly pulled in and I really listened. So much was relatable to my life. If you don't find something, look again. We are all damaged in some way. I saved this sermon for a time when I can sit and write. I have had a lot of sadness and trauma in my life but as I walk with Jesus through and in my life I will see someone out there that I know suffers physically. I see it right before me you can't miss it and I say to the Lord I here you Lord and continue through my day. We all need tools to get through our lives and Mark provides some tools. Maybe we just need to reflect on that person that hurt us and look at things from their perspective or talk to a Minister or a Psychologist. Don't let it sit. There are things that happened to us that sometimes are deep or from long ago. Complicated. We all deserve forgiveness. I'm going to definitely listen to this again. I pray for everyone reading this to get the help they need and deserve. In Jesus name I pray Amen. Thanks again Mark.🙏
Thank you for your teaching of scripture in such a good relatable way.
Listening again!
This should be mandatory show in mainstream media, this is wisdom, most news are just gossip in som form. Thanks alot for this! God bless you Mark!
I don't blame anyone else as far as I am concient of it. I know I am the one who chooses to drink when the going gets tiring and weariness sets in. It is my weakness and my responsibility to deal with it, but sometimes it just feels like it is too much to bear. I feel volnurable and with very little Witt. I feel tired. Beer only helps ease the tension for a short little while. .. man, I just feel like crying like a little mid-40s kid at heart
Thank you for this message 🙌this message is for me 🙏 it’s been hard 🙏
I think when a loved one sins against you believing it's a loving God stripping you of your idols almost brings comfort as you try to make sense of it and deal with it...
🙌prayers for you, in Jesus name 🙏 amen
Wow thank you so much. This gave me a breakthrough for the first time in a long time. Thank you for doing the work that you do.
Thank You so much for this. It’s so good to hear a true voice of God. I’ve used up 15 pages front & back with notes of this. (Notes seem to help me learn better) you really don’t know what you have done for me. I couldn’t have found you at a better time. I was listening to Peter Marshall & somehow got to you. Thank You from my heart.
I wish I would have found you and heard this 20 years ago. This is such a good sermon.
Good advice. Thank you! I pray, plan and then get on with it. I say I can and I will until what I want to accomplish is done. I do what God tells me to do . Yes, I know that voice. I am 76 and He has blessed my life unbelievably. And I don't deserve it.
This is my second time listening to this & I'm taking a bunch of notes. I needed this message so badly. My heart is hardened & I'm carrying so much hurt. Praying over these 8 points & asking God to change my heart ❤️
I want prayer for my healing, to heal my codependency, My wife runs to rescue her adult son and daughter 25 and 28, always runs to help them with any issues, And is not teachable, I pray 🙏 for healing of always at the bottom of priorities except to provide financial support 😢
❤Powerful words with clarity. I am so grateful for waking up to this message. Thank you God for this teaching❤
Thank you very insightful, truly a blessing.
Wow!!! Thank you so much!! Thank you Father for revealing uour fathering heart towards me and my son in hard times. You love us and we are accepted and blessed not rejected and cursed. We are created to be loved and give love.
This teaching has given me so much today. I have t even gotten through the whole thing but im going back to take notes. This is so powerful. Recently i was assaulted by the pastor of the church thats been counseling me for 2 years through heavy sexual abuse from my past. And there are many lies that i had untangled that had come back with a vengeance. Along side that my friends have repeatedly told me that this was my fault. My own sin caused this and God let it happen because I’ve been rebelling and cold and distant. After searching my heart i front of God i became angry and rebellious toward God because i believed that it was my fault. That he was punishing me. That i deserved it. I started doing what everyone accused me of… all the while hearing God call me saying dont run im here. I was angry. With in the last two days. God and broken through all the hurt and pain. And I’m still wrestling in front of him. But for the first time in a while i dont feel alone or stressed just. Broken
Excellent Word. I needed this teaching. He covered the emotional (soul) of man and offered Christ. 😊
Ive lost everything in my life due to parents abuse of me kids brainwashed against me how do i see a future after these consequences the pain is unimaginable
Deepest sorrows. Hopefully 5 months later things are going better ❤
You just have to pray for forgiveness for your parents and ask God to heal your heart. Most times the reason we experience certain difficult and sufferings in our life is due to an inability to forgive those who hurt you. I know it's not easy , but I realized the easy way and more sure way is to ask God to forgive the person. Your own feelings of forgiveness will come eventually as you keep praying for those who have hurt you. I've seen major healings come for me when I let people out of my heart. Keeping hurts in our hearts are those against people is equal to carrying around a heavy burden. God wants you to hand it over to him and He will heal your heart.
Great explanation of how to give our burdens to Jesus. I have heard that scripture all of my life, but didn't really get it! Thank you, Brother Mark. Your teachings are life changing.
That is pure Gospel. I love Jesus even more. I had prayed yesterday in our prayer group that I could see more and understand deeper Jesus's sacrifice. That helps me tremendously to walk further with the Lord, facing my problems when they come. Thank you pastor. Praise the Lord and God bless you!
I am grateful to God for having me find you. I've been binge watching and gaining more understanding than I have all year so far. Thank you for your bible based teachings and appropriate humor! God Bless you. 🙏🏾
The BEST TEACHING I have ever heard! Thank you so much! Straight from the word of God
Pastor Mark, too many times pastors teach on Job’s wife, and they ignore the fact that she lost everything too. Numerically 70 times 7 means wholly and completely!
Wow ! What a great message ! What an eye opener
I have enjoyed this teaching and I am praying for a 2nd chance to make corrective actions.
I needed this sermon
Thank you Father God , the first step to healing is to admit you need help from the one who freely gives it ! Wonderful message you have to be ready for the change embrace it get well get Jesus & Gods wisdom! 🙏🩸🙏✝️🙏
Amazing!! I really needed this today!! THANK YOU for this teaching!! Blessings!! 🙏
Absolutely nailed it... Finally...
Great teaching. God bless you 🙏
Wow this is an amazing teaching.
This is so, so good! Wow! Sharing.
This is amazing teaching ❤
Awesome teaching ❤️
Love it!
Fantastic👍 Blessings
Great message... definitely have to listen to again.. great scriptures.. thank you..
Thank you Pastor ...needed this ❣️🌴☀️
Great teaching and wise words...Pastor mark..
This was for me!!!
❤ Thank you
This is really good, I am blessed.
I agree. This is superb teaching. Praise God for this ministry!
Thank u so much for this teaching. It is poignant and life changing/fixing. Thank u and Blessings to u. 🙏🏼
Pastor Mark, I love and know that he is with me because I should have died. But he saved me. I would be very grateful if you would say a prayer for me as I am having full knee surgery in 10 days. 6 months ago I lost my only son. I miss my Russ very much. 💔 I thank you in advance. In Jesus' name. Amen
🙏🙏🙏from a sister in Christ. May God bless you and heal your heart & your body.
Please pray for awakening to happen within me. Help me heal from ongoing turmoil in Jesus name . Pray I no longer call myself abandoned but named a true daughter of God, he is my Heavenly Father.
Well done pastor,this was really helpful for me,help me with my healing journey....of pain in the marriage of 40years.....
Thank uou
Much needed thank you Lord ❤️
A sorrowful heart ❤️
Listening for a second time
"It wasn't because of Job's sin, it was because of Satan's" Yes.... but that misses the point Satan had to go to God to get permission to test Job, and each time God set limits God is LORD of *all* creation, even the Devil Glory and honor to Him who reigns!
But God had a purpose in letting Satan go after Job. It was so Job could see pride in his heart and & get spiritually clean. Always more to God
Pride?
Amen and Amen ❤❤❤
people think everything will work out on its own. something goes crooked. resetit. you yourself not others stick to Jesus. help us Godfather amen
giving in together making balance. we need to fix that balance. God bless you all. where does truthly people listen to each other. they take something and run with it and think theyve got it. 😅
Mrs job is suffering unbearably her children were ripped out from under her she too has suffered unimaginable loss.. Anyone would be devastated. Thank The Father He knows our hearts.. yes she wasn't right but The Lord understands..iam amazed she didnt go absolutely insane..
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen ❤
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maybe the root of a hearing problem is wanting to escape the world . ?? iwhere do you find wise COUNSEL? i learned to stop blaming parents, family, past circumstances. I need to focus on Jesus and HIS WORD .
Forgiveness is responding to Jesus not reacting to the person that have hurt you
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How do you practically have grace for someone but not trust them? I feel like in order for someone to show me grace in a situation, it requires a bit of their trust. Or maybe I don't understand either concept? Anyone with a good example, it would really help in my life right now to know the difference
amen. for me the perscription is Jesus. it would be eseaier to deal with Jesus than others. Keeping Balance between 2 differenes. tug of war. 😅 different ages different experiences. i need more time. i agree with you. seeing and doing that. takes time. once you got it. i will do my best.
I'm at the end of this study, and all the the things mentioned here, are mainly preventable & sound like very immature people couldn't figure out where they went wrong. I have been gutted and paralyzed by pain cause by calculated sick games of abuse on my life. Those things were done by a father that was an LA Deputy Sheriff, who got away with beating me...then it continued through my life until he was a Retired LA Deputy Sheriff who broke my belongings, loved to try for sympathy, which I'd always say, you're forgiven, to the repeat of his horrible actions, horrible name calling, and obvious pleasure of breaking, my belongings, my life, to lying about me to everyone so I would get rejection, after they flung some lie at me. It's a long story, the last assault went on for 3 & 1/2 yrs, with me going to jail because he, behind my back, replaced my defense from lies, with lies to make me look guilty. The same situation that caused a $30,000 payout from the county for him. Basically he beat lying cops at their own game, but allowed them to falsely, actually write false reports, (I was never interviewed by them). No matter how many times God answered my prayers, my dad would destroy them. One day I had a very strong feeling, telling me to get out of your home ASAP, and I mean, pack and go. I went to my daughters 90 miles away for 2 wks. When I got back I heard the police were there every day to arrest me for elderly abuse. I was in my mid 50's, and I just healed from 2 broken ribs when my dad slugged me and left me frozen in pain. I was broken, lost 25 lbs, and I only said, I told you to stop, w my weak voice. I had told him i was going to fix everything, make it right with the false police lies. I had ordered him to stay out of my business, he didn't. He came in my house when my daughter was 16, at the house with her friend, he came to my bedroom, for some reason I locked the door. He said, "Open this door or I'm gonna break it down". I said, Go Away, and he busted in. He committed suicide. I had taken his gun, put it in a lockbox, basically stole it. But I told him, and added, "If you don't stop messing with my life, I'm going to take that gun to my head". Well, a few wks, I felt guilty for taking his gun, so I gave it back. He thought he was going to be exposed for the creep & liar he was, so he shot himself in his head. All of these hurts I've heard here, don't sound like the suffering that destroyed me
Yuup me too 🌼🌠🍀