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How We Fell in Love in 3 Days | Dear Black Love | Refinery29

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2022 ж. 25 Қар.
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Colby didn’t know that she would meet the love of her life on a work trip to write about Black-owned business. Truly a whirlwind romance, Colby and Khaliah met and fell in love over three days in Houston. A year and a half later, Colby has relocated from Mérida, Mexico to Houston, Texas - a place they now both call home.
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  • I love seeing black women happy and in heathy relationships. I am here for this.

    @angeljohnson234@angeljohnson234 Жыл бұрын

    • This is cool. The communication, intellect, and sensibility mentioned in this video is amazing.

      @PinkYellowGreen2023@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын

    • I’ve been waiting for intelligent lesbian conversations that elevate us. The way in which you two effectively communicate, understanding that you each require separate healing. Mentioning the 8 year old version was offended; many women have yet to comprehend the little girl in them must be healed. I fell in love at 55, met her online, after three months I moved in with her (when you know, you know; I definitely knew she was my special person). We’ve been together for six years and married for five years. I feed the little girl I see in my wife, she asked me how I know about her childhood, my response was, dearest wife, I’m a great listener, plus I love observing you: Fears brought on by things happening during your childhood, being mistreated for the darkness of your skin, and more. A willingness to open up, revealing your truths although is totally uncomfortable, yet necessary to maintain a healthy relationship in my opinion is a must. Thank you for this video, keeping a journal then sharing a entry was profound.

      @rhondaclaiborne7283@rhondaclaiborne72835 ай бұрын

  • My mom would say they definitely knew each other in a past life.

    @toecutterjones@toecutterjones Жыл бұрын

  • I love seeing black women LOVED! That's the ultimate...because when we are loved, we bloom. Doesn't matter by who!

    @daniellejohnson373@daniellejohnson373 Жыл бұрын

    • I soooo feel this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

      @jessicacooper3236@jessicacooper3236 Жыл бұрын

    • If it works for them it just does ..

      @PinkYellowGreen2023@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын

    • 🤣🤣 ok 👍

      @Florida305all@Florida305all Жыл бұрын

    • Love what you said

      @iggygirlsballersclub7819@iggygirlsballersclub781911 ай бұрын

    • ❤

      @ohamspromise4328@ohamspromise43287 ай бұрын

  • As quiet as it’s kept “straight women” who get involved with lesbian women have had the desire to do so before they entered into that relationship. Energy attracts energy. Just because you don’t act on being gay does not make you any less gay. This “straight” woman is by definition a bisexual woman. The desire of her being with another woman attracted them to be together. You are not going to attract what you don’t think about. Lesbian women often times know they are gay like myself before there is any interaction with the same sex. You literally just know, it’s innate, even though we define sexuality by who you have sex with, i think it’s more so on a spiritual level. Who you have sex with doesn’t necessarily determine your sexuality. Who you are to your core and spiritually who you truly desire as well as your true essence determines what your sexuality is.

    @sadiM653@sadiM653 Жыл бұрын

    • 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

      @juratory8876@juratory88769 ай бұрын

    • I completely agree with this.

      @Jess-hf9me@Jess-hf9me8 ай бұрын

    • Agreed

      @_srnao@_srnao8 ай бұрын

    • this is random but are there any black lesbian influencers, writers etc that you specifically follow?

      @chocolateprincess2656@chocolateprincess26565 ай бұрын

    • Love this comment and the connection to spiritual knowing. I had a “late-in-life” discovery of queerness and it wasn’t because I fell in love with a particular person; it was truly a spiritual discovery. I feel like God opened me up and guided me along this journey. It’s challenging to understand why it happened in my late 30s/ and into my early 40s, but such is life:)

      @cudabrown1980@cudabrown19804 ай бұрын

  • They seem very much in love. This is beautiful to see.

    @Jess-hf9me@Jess-hf9me8 ай бұрын

    • Are you seeing someone currently 🌈

      @adriannakatieshelton4947@adriannakatieshelton49476 ай бұрын

  • This is such a BEAUTIFUL story! Just shows that people should stop trying to fall in love with a " type" and fall in love with people...true love always comes unexpectedly... it finds you... you can't force it.. this story is a true testimony of that...

    @Fancym80@Fancym80 Жыл бұрын

    • Sooooo true

      @lwhite474@lwhite474 Жыл бұрын

    • Indeed 💕

      @everythingispolitics6526@everythingispolitics6526 Жыл бұрын

  • Beaming through this whole video! I feel my spirit received something it truly needed

    @nykki21@nykki218 ай бұрын

    • What you looking for ?🌈

      @adriannakatieshelton4947@adriannakatieshelton49476 ай бұрын

  • I totally relate to that situation where things that don't normally happen bring 2 people together and they have an instant deep connection ❤

    @davidbrixton6955@davidbrixton69558 ай бұрын

  • I love them together so much. This seems like a grown, real relationship.😍🌻😘

    @mwinjinakambasiame9496@mwinjinakambasiame9496 Жыл бұрын

  • I absolutely LOVE their energy!! What a beautiful couple! 😍

    @anabra874@anabra8747 ай бұрын

  • Wishing for a love like this. Organic, genuine, and fulfilling ❤️❤️

    @clari.therealtor@clari.therealtor Жыл бұрын

    • Same

      @yungshaaaa777@yungshaaaa77711 ай бұрын

  • “I stay because you were CREATED for me”

    @chatp89@chatp89 Жыл бұрын

  • The part i like is being emotionally available for a relationship, not choosing a women but connecting with a person that happened to be a female.

    @lashondascruggs8809@lashondascruggs88097 ай бұрын

  • Like wow...this is some fine chemistry..really soulmates, i am sure that these two wonderful women had a connection from a previous life. I had seen lady in the jeans jacket at a wedding which she was the priest ( so to speak) giving two also drop dead beauties each others hand in marriage..She has great energy..so happy for her that she finally found her lady. May they both have years of happiness, great health and blessings together. 👍🏾🤗🌹I,m thinking of trying my luck in Atlanta to find my queen and bring her back to Switzerland, seems like magic happens there.😄😄😄

    @tyford2661@tyford26619 ай бұрын

  • I want a love like this…honest, open and brave ❤

    @LivT04@LivT04 Жыл бұрын

    • Same here

      @Vilicah@Vilicah6 ай бұрын

  • I can feel the authenticity in their bond. I would caution people who fall for the same sex to not identify as gay immediately particularly if they have been straight their whole life. You are who you are not who you love. If she was straight then she likely is still straight she just organically fell in love with one woman. She may not be attracted to other woman, just the woman shes with. so in essence she found her person.

    @karasays01@karasays01 Жыл бұрын

    • I guess bisexual people don't exist then?

      @juratory8876@juratory8876 Жыл бұрын

    • But she’s in a gay relationship, so she’s definitely not straight. The label ‘gay’ isn’t a negative thing. If she goes back to men for the rest of her life after this girl then she’s bisexual/queer/whatever… but straight? No. Words have meaning.

      @nso5625@nso5625 Жыл бұрын

    • Sexuality is fluid and each individual can choose to identify however they want, whether it's straight 5 years ago, gay now or pansexual in the future. You never know what life could throw your way.

      @cesium419@cesium419 Жыл бұрын

    • 😂😂 girl bye

      @kandylaland@kandylaland Жыл бұрын

    • We label ourselves so much as if categorisation is needed when feeling and experiencing the wholeness of Love and the energies going with that.

      @luchialight@luchialight Жыл бұрын

  • Relationship goals... it's beautiful.

    @evam6555@evam6555 Жыл бұрын

    • With a female interesting

      @mcmike2956@mcmike2956 Жыл бұрын

  • Non struggle love… amazing!

    @keade5273@keade5273 Жыл бұрын

    • Deviant love.

      @DW-zd7sc@DW-zd7sc Жыл бұрын

  • Colby and Khaliah, you seem like a wonderful couple, and I wish you nothing but the best!

    @PaulKabera@PaulKabera8 ай бұрын

  • Love how organic and beautiful this relationship seems to be. It really reminds me of "LOVE is LOVE!" and sometimes the package that it shows up in may not be what we expected. Such an incredible and poetic love story. Happy for them.

    @iluvlatisha@iluvlatisha27 күн бұрын

  • I truly love this, this made my heart smile to know that true love exists. Loving how you both worked on you both together. I’m praying for this love 🌈

    @sunshinelifelover@sunshinelifelover18 күн бұрын

  • Love this!!

    @nkipmo1154@nkipmo1154 Жыл бұрын

  • This was so beautiful. Such a beautiful couple! Make sure yall spend the block for the wedding coverage.❤

    @-RLM@-RLM6 ай бұрын

  • This was so beautiful! Thank you so much Colby and Khaliah for sharing your wonderful love story, I’ve never seen two people look so happy to be with each other, you are both absolutely GLOWING with love and joy! ❤❤❤

    @Arabella391@Arabella391 Жыл бұрын

    • You single ?

      @adriannakatieshelton4947@adriannakatieshelton49476 ай бұрын

  • 😍So amazing! Gives me hope for the future x

    @serenityenderson@serenityenderson Жыл бұрын

  • Our sexual preference is more fluid than we were originally taught.

    @ivysmith2794@ivysmith279411 ай бұрын

  • Whew!! Beautiful!!!

    @can-can9@can-can9 Жыл бұрын

  • ❤this is beautiful

    @thandosbistro6458@thandosbistro6458 Жыл бұрын

  • I love this!

    @MegaChi33@MegaChi33 Жыл бұрын

  • Khaliah O. Guillory- she has a business called Nap Bar. I was going to go but Covid hit everyone has told me it is an amazing experience.

    @shayf7188@shayf7188 Жыл бұрын

  • Love it so much!!! We can relate 100%!

    @ChasinSunsets@ChasinSunsets17 күн бұрын

  • I want this kind of love!

    @dmccray6755@dmccray6755 Жыл бұрын

    • Meee tooooo

      @sydneyschneider2207@sydneyschneider2207 Жыл бұрын

    • YES! No matter what age everyone deserves love!

      @OliverNorth9729@OliverNorth9729 Жыл бұрын

  • This is amazing! I’m so happy for the two of you!❤

    @amandajohnson4428@amandajohnson4428 Жыл бұрын

  • This was soooo beautiful to see 🥹

    @theblvkswan@theblvkswanАй бұрын

  • Love this! ❤

    @sdavis6456@sdavis6456 Жыл бұрын

  • Breathtaking...

    @emykol@emykol Жыл бұрын

  • Love this representation so much! 😍

    @godzchyld08@godzchyld084 ай бұрын

  • Love the dynamic you two have created ! You two are wonderful!❤

    @PomSptz@PomSptz14 күн бұрын

  • They look great together and very happy!!!

    @backroad55@backroad559 ай бұрын

  • Wow! That was absolutely beautiful in every sense of the word. The two of them, their interaction, their words communicated! It’s a grinning yes for me! This is beautiful and exemplifies parallel but individual and couple growth through love, fear, openess and honesty and phew!! All the very best to this gorgeous couple!

    @lolojen794@lolojen7943 ай бұрын

  • Awww a beautiful love story 😍 ❤️❤️

    @hahalmafo@hahalmafo Жыл бұрын

  • I'm Jealous and also so happy for them. Thank you for sharing

    @kimwang2787@kimwang2787 Жыл бұрын

  • This is Gonna b so Beautiful🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Saturday😀…..

    @whitneybrown4067@whitneybrown4067 Жыл бұрын

  • Absolutely love this! ❤️ ❤😊

    @QuannLi@QuannLi23 күн бұрын

  • "I stayed because I know you were created for me." Damn❤

    @MM-lo2dk@MM-lo2dk Жыл бұрын

  • Wow!! This is breathtaking!

    @CoachCocoa3@CoachCocoa317 күн бұрын

  • I love the apology playlist, and the warm batch of chocolate chip cookies.

    @colettehylan19@colettehylan198 ай бұрын

  • This is beautiful ❤

    @NoelPendergrass@NoelPendergrass Жыл бұрын

    • 🤢

      @Florida305all@Florida305all Жыл бұрын

  • Beautiful

    @AnieJoanna@AnieJoanna Жыл бұрын

  • All I can say is divine timing …

    @PERSNICKETYREBELSHANGO@PERSNICKETYREBELSHANGO10 ай бұрын

  • Beautiful story! 💛

    @neon_berni@neon_berni Жыл бұрын

  • So beautiful and inspirational. 😊

    @Rachel-so4kw@Rachel-so4kw3 ай бұрын

  • I hope for a love like this one day. Black luv is beautiful 🤎

    @wyckede356@wyckede356 Жыл бұрын

  • Love them 💕

    @angelajimson4100@angelajimson4100 Жыл бұрын

  • So beautiful

    @carolinel.6204@carolinel.6204 Жыл бұрын

  • Wow, just wow! 🥹 💕

    @Rocioslane@Rocioslane Жыл бұрын

  • Two being of chaos together. the future holds 🌪

    @tnbn55@tnbn555 ай бұрын

  • Woow this is inspiring..I just met my partner, I feel like my story is almost the same as yours..I'm going to follow you journey if you still post. This is my first time viewing this one.❤

    @sontosokhela5627@sontosokhela5627Ай бұрын

  • They look so happy

    @nyakwada@nyakwada20 күн бұрын

  • Nice one

    @AlhassanZurufawu-cu5kh@AlhassanZurufawu-cu5khАй бұрын

  • I need one exactly like this❤

    @purityfredrick5299@purityfredrick52995 ай бұрын

  • I rally like both of their styles. This is a great story about finding love in unexpected places

    @jip230@jip230 Жыл бұрын

  • Love is a beautiful thing as long as it's based on truth n honesty.

    @mercyarjan6765@mercyarjan6765 Жыл бұрын

  • I need to follow them such a beautiful couple

    @precioushughley674@precioushughley6747 ай бұрын

  • They are a gorgeous couple ❤

    @tems__30@tems__304 ай бұрын

  • This was beautiful to see. I just came out a year ago and I'm still struggling to accept who I am. It gives me hope that one day I will find my soulmate.

    @reesecup95@reesecup955 ай бұрын

  • I feel the love through the phone🙂

    @lyshondavis5839@lyshondavis5839 Жыл бұрын

    • Okay 🤣

      @Florida305all@Florida305all Жыл бұрын

  • How sweet.

    @tulsacaupain2882@tulsacaupain28824 күн бұрын

  • Love it❤❤❤ Patiently waiting to meet mine

    @Ms_Introvert_4_Life@Ms_Introvert_4_Life Жыл бұрын

  • Ah true divine 💕💕💕 love. I wish you many years of happiness. Peace and many blessings upon you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    @user-je3zc3nj9c@user-je3zc3nj9c7 ай бұрын

  • Love this comment and the connection to spiritual knowing. I had a “late-in-life” discovery of queerness and it wasn’t because I fell in love with a particular person; it was truly a spiritual discovery. I feel like God opened me up and guided me along this journey. It’s challenging to understand why it happened in my late 30s/ and into my early 40s, but such is life:)

    @cudabrown1980@cudabrown19804 ай бұрын

  • Beautiful couple and wished to have one like this!😍😍❤❤❤

    @lindaakinyi8295@lindaakinyi82956 ай бұрын

    • It's amazing 😍

      @Vilicah@Vilicah6 ай бұрын

  • super cute

    @soulfurious1845@soulfurious1845 Жыл бұрын

  • I would love a follow up with them …

    @lorenvanderbyl@lorenvanderbyl5 ай бұрын

  • I love how they look at one another #lovewins

    @HeyAuntieP@HeyAuntieP5 ай бұрын

  • Beautiful…..❤

    @jillstclair1426@jillstclair1426Күн бұрын

  • Nice! Black love is cool.

    @PinkYellowGreen2023@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын

    • Queens and boss ladies 🤣🤣🤣

      @Florida305all@Florida305all Жыл бұрын

  • Amazing love story. I loved your beginning. Hoping for an everlasting love. ❤

    @ninajustice9365@ninajustice9365 Жыл бұрын

  • Thank you…I get it…

    @sclement20@sclement20 Жыл бұрын

  • They're such a beautiful couple 😍

    @everythingispolitics6526@everythingispolitics6526 Жыл бұрын

  • ❤❤❤

    @sxerosie@sxerosie Жыл бұрын

  • They are so cute.... 🥰

    @azyurentertainment1496@azyurentertainment14966 күн бұрын

  • How sweet I love ❤️ you. You just don't know it. Day 8.

    @nuggygillard795@nuggygillard7953 күн бұрын

  • I don't do label shit bcoz people id just people and love is just love, period.

    @Tinatrudie@Tinatrudie2 ай бұрын

  • This is definitely me and my baby, she’s so addicting to me, everything is so perfect with her. 3 months and counting in love with my future wife ❤

    @Dayum_issa_vibe@Dayum_issa_vibe11 ай бұрын

  • 💕💕💕💕

    @jamilaanderson7505@jamilaanderson75058 ай бұрын

  • This is so gorgeous I’m melting 😭🥹🥹🥹

    @l3ui909@l3ui909 Жыл бұрын

  • 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Our stories al start differently and they all matter..be proud be free

    @jayfelsberg1931@jayfelsberg1931 Жыл бұрын

  • Didn’t you have a wedding vlog on here

    @kisha0712@kisha07123 ай бұрын

  • maybe Black women need to forget about Black men and turn to each other!

    @akwaabab8504@akwaabab850410 ай бұрын

    • Agreed

      @tarshaledwards7468@tarshaledwards74689 ай бұрын

    • They already are most black women are with studs

      @daquanhartman9101@daquanhartman91018 ай бұрын

    • Yep, I’m getting ready to wrap up a 3 year relationship, no more males for me 👋🏽

      @lizzie2301@lizzie2301Ай бұрын

  • U H A U L

    @DizzieDaCrazzie88@DizzieDaCrazzie888 ай бұрын

  • Wow

    @joda1432@joda14324 ай бұрын

  • 🙏👍💜TRUE LOVE

    @OliverNorth9729@OliverNorth9729 Жыл бұрын

  • I love love...look at em😍😍😍

    @scorpiorising_@scorpiorising_ Жыл бұрын

  • Radarada

    @awofadejusegun@awofadejusegun Жыл бұрын

  • Te amo andy 🤞🤍🐐

    @gloriacavazos5100@gloriacavazos5100 Жыл бұрын

  • ❤❤❤❤❤

    @shecreates365@shecreates3656 ай бұрын

  • Wait a minute??!! I thought KG was married!! Kg was on a lesbian yt channel that showed lesbian weddings a few years ago.

    @DakotaLenn0x@DakotaLenn0x9 ай бұрын

  • I'm a gay bottom. It's fun of heaven 🇧🇩 💟

    @AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou@AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou7 ай бұрын

  • Who know who is the man in the relationship

    @alanaban1840@alanaban18405 ай бұрын
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