Toddler Discipline

So cute, me and my second eldest brother used to fight all the time. It got to the point where I figured out if I ran into my room and put a shoe against the door, the rubber would stop him from barging in 😂😂 good memories tho, we talk about them all the time. Once he hit me with a sliotar and I put a plaster on the bruise, which made him mad for some reason lmao

That's a good mom.

The two phrases melted my heart.what beautiful little humans they are.well done mimma❤❤❤❤

Sentences 💀 but anyway it’s still super adorbs

Me too.

Unterstand boundaries by broadcasting children, crying children to millions of strangers on the Internet?

Looks like you watched none of the short. Kids who are disciplined through conversation as opposed yelling and physical altercatios will learn boundaries through verbalizing their needs. Do you do that? ​@@sylvia7958

@@sylvia7958 yes. It’s 2024. It’s a very common income. It’s so important new moms or even older moms, see other moms discipline methods. You don’t have to share a thing hahahahhaa let them make the $$$$ 🥰

NICE FUCKING JOKE BUD

@@kyranx602 who even are you

Well done mom. Well done.

my parents would scream and spank us! LOL that was the 1970's LOL

She did not validate the other son emotions while crying and going to his room

When you KNOW better than you do better

I pretend he's leaning in to whisper, "I'm gonna git you later"

So cute! He wanted to get in on the action 😂

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Me too so cute!!❤❤❤

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Really. Is see it different it tell my nephew/nieces don't push ur brother/sister. Love an respect. Anyone else fair game take bo shit (exempt cousin's)

​@@seanhughes6697they're probably a little assholes then

I hope to be a wise mother one day too this is a great example thank you

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Yes he rushed off crying with his head held down. I watched that bit a few times

He said Sorrry and then had to go to his room. Punishment while he did apologize?

@@mrschou339yes because even though you apologised you still have to learn that you’d still get punished. I’m sorry officer I didn’t mean to kill that person. It’s okay you’re still going to jail though. Understand?

She's doing a 1derful mom.

And good job to you too what a wonderful gift to give the world

Good job to you mama

This is why we’re soft as shit. My mother raised her voice my father chased me around the room. I grew up joined the military served my country now I own my own business. Brother is a cfo at successful company. The world doesn’t hug you when you fall down. I’m not saying you should hit your kids whatsoever but this coddling shit does them no good.

GOOD JOB TO YOU

This comment deserves far more attention and likes❤ The only thing I can see that should be different is a little bit of explanation about feelings. Explaining empathy is really important

I agree! Her voice was clear and firm, as well as calm and even toned. There was no attempt to shame or I still fear. She also maintained that with Hudson and didn't switch to an overly coddling tone, which can be confusing for children and potentially create a friction between siblings. Great job mama!

Wait, this is great but, every kid is not as gentle some kids need a lil more aggression.

This is how Supernanny do it Love to watch her videos

@1nf3ctedd Not all the time, some times kids develop their own personality and it could be more aggressive then another. This is why parents of many tell you all their kids have different personalities. Even if the parenting style is soft and gentle.

Oh my God, you cried?????? Really, are you ok ???? You really cried. I hope you are ok, what a rollercoaster of emotions you must have went through. These 58 second videos are to stimulating for you. Stick to portraits for awhile and see if you can handle those first. Jesus, what does the real world do to you, I can't imagine the whirlwind of emotions you have when you have contact with a real human being???? How do you get through a day??? Do you have some sort of investment in Kleenex? Or are your tear ducts all dried up by lunch time?

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MELTED

God bless this beautiful mom for doing the very best for her children 🙏 ❤lovely little family - blessings to all of you❤❤

Supermom❤

Ain't it!

the Americans in will buy GUNS.

but not on camera in social media!!!

​@@conny-zk7etthere are parents who need to see this. Why is it wrong to post this?

yelling and screaming should't even be an option.

I don't know about that, but she did do a GREAT job!!!

@@markmitchell4400why would you want to yell and scream and be aggressive towards your children

Not really considering she is exposing the poor kids to all of the world.

@@TheFrontyerStill a good mom. The children do not know what the internet is

@@MagicToenail What? Thats exactly why she is a terrible mother. The kids cant consent to being filmed and exposed to the whole world. Its an awful thing to do to children. In what world would you call someone a good mother, when the mom uses their kids to make money

You are a wonderful mother❤🎉

No such thing as 'unconditional love'

@@kainejoyes2981everyone has their own standards, don’t ask others to abide by yours

We use the Bible method!

Yes there is unconditional love. Actually all love is unconditional. When something it is conditional, it is not love

Yea then 5 years later we hear she’s been arrested for abuse of those same children. I don’t trust any KZhead channel that profits from their kids anymore.

She is a amazing mom to show her kids responsibility

@@gabbysegura7453 She's a highly irresponsible mother. I am a single male, 39, with no kids. The reason I am boldly prefacing with that is because what I am about to say is blatantly obvious to all human beings 30 years and over: It is highly inappropriate to film, and broadcast your children like this, in general, but especially for cash. Also, they are so used to being constantly filmed they are not even looking at whoever if filming them. This broadcasting would have been unthinkable 15 years ago but the new generation can not longer distinguish trash. To her defenders, that a mother needs to make a living, how do you think mothers made a living prior to tictok 5 years ago??? The answer: a real job, not posting their children on the internet.

No it DOESN’T! That’s a physical condition!

@@debussy842i totally agree but it’s also showing examples for a good cause it’d be nice if her kids didn’t have to be involved though to get the point across

​@@debussy842 you are so right. I am male, 37, father of one Kid. Never ever would I film such a highly emotional situation and load it up. Also this is not how to eliminate narcism. This is narcism at its best. Selling the emotions of your kids on the Internet.

I like how it's was calm and assertive but she didn't talk to them like babies. She talk to them like human who are going to be adults one day and need to know now how it ought to be

@@Venus_baby_18 yes and she also wasn’t shouting or raising her voice She simply had a calm and firm tone of voice when addressing them

perfect tone, when disciplining and when validating etc also

@ceeejay9112 yesss , goes ti show u can teach kids and discipline them without making them feel like shut abt themselves because really what does that even do. Accept your mistake apologize and move one good mama. No need to go on an on an on this will prevent alot in the future :)

I actually felt the tone to be harsh more than assertive and you can tell the child was scared and felt shamed. I believe the tone should be much lighter.

Was searching for this comment! It's really important. In this way, the child will not be embittered against everyone. Children's psyches are very vulnerable. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear to the older child that he is also loved, despite his mistakes.

And the "good boy" comment.

Hugs are for celebrating after you score a goal and/or girls

Yes never label a child as ‘naughty’ . Focus on reprimanding his behaviour .. *You still love your child, but you don’t love his behaviour, in that moment.

Telling your 2yr old 'Give a hug’ is fine. Asking 3-5 yr old ‘What can you do to make your brother feel better?’ is appropriate also. *Encourage your child (3yrs +) to think of a solution themselves

knows how to raise them except for the fact their lives are documented for millions to see...

Not my experience of life with kids!!!!

Not my experience of life with kids!

I want you to imagine that other person standing in the room with the camera right on top of those kids and in their faces. And then tell me how the HELL this is “amazing”

Almost like she’s done this before. I wonder if those are her first kids she’s killing it as a mom

I agree with everything you said, I really do. Now what happens when the child does the same thing a bunch more times and in the same day. That's the reality.

Facts ​@@juliasnow-xz4kt

@@juliasnow-xz4kt It's obvious the kid is aware it isn't right, he is being taught totally decent manners by a mother with a kind and honest heart and a great set of brains. The little tantrum is ignored, not criticized, as a child that age can hardly control his emotions when felt overcome by them, but mom handles everything with respect to herself and every child around her, appreciating good traits, making them aware of bad traits. Only a mother with respect and kindness in her heart and mind would do this. One without would not do any effort to raise the kid as she should, but would fall prey to any mannerisms badly taught to her in her youth.

@@TheEijkmanProject Are you speaking from theory or experience? How many kids have you raised, just curious? There's a reason you see frazzled Moms, Moms who raise their voice or Moms who ignore their screaming child in a store. None of that is good, obviously. I was lucky in that of my four kids only one of them would do things on the sly when I wasn't looking. The others would respond to discipline much like these cute kids, but I also adopted my sister's kids when she died and I also did daycare and there are kids who don't learn lessons the first time, or the second, or the third. They have a stubborn streak or get moody, are young and don't want to share. It's reality. That's all I'm saying. I thought I was such a good Mom because I genuinely didn't have a hard time with my own kids, but when I tried to apply the same rational, talking it out and explaining like this Mom did I didn't have quite the same results and was often left frazzled at the end of a long day of fits and tantrums. (both my sisters kids are ADHD). I stopped judging Moms like I used to after that. Do what works. Every child is different. Start with what the Mom in the video did, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work and you have to move to time outs, taking things away etc...

Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

Once they go to school and outside influences start shaping their life, we’ll see if “no yelling” works. Because the bully at school who was constantly yelled at and that is the only way for them to actually change their behavior won’t care what Little Timmy says in a calm demeanor. So Timmy will have to figure out a way to stop the bully in another way that isn’t “having a civil conversation”. And Timmy will learn yelling. Greatest parent in the world, but you can’t keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. (Technically you could keep your kid in a protective bubble 24/7. But would you be the greatest parent in the world anymore? Releasing them at 18 or 25 or 30 into the real world after being sheltered and shielded for decades. )

@@AG-yc7vtare you suggesting we teach our kids to be the bully because they may get bullied?

@@AandM8 I’m saying no matter how well you parent. Outside influences will throw a monkey wrench into your plans.

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This is what a strong foundation looks like. I bet she'll not need to discipline them much as they grow older because she did so well as they were younger. And don't you think they'll want to be just like mommy, someday! Some cultures the parents just scream & are out of control. So sad.

Not really isolation is not good for kids

And this is the reason why you guys, women, do that. I think you have the best intentions but you do it because you want to feel something and not because you want to teach the best lecture to them. I think stuff like the woman does in the video makes them weak as a man. I mean what has the other one done? He pushed him down is what she said? I tell you to shame a boy because of being a little bit aggressive makes them weak and is the best way to make them that they never can get beautiful women and make a family. It just makes toxic shame in them.

Thank you for your kind words and your support ❤️

I love how you kids are so kind and respectful. I'm so happy for you because you have kind and respectful kids. I'm going too have a kid I am 8 weeks pregnant I hope my kids are just like yours. I found out my baby's ginger its going to be a baby girl. Ween I was a little kid I wanted to have kind and respectful and honest kids so I hope she is just like that. You kid are also honest. And you are sooo pretty are you are a great person and mother. And also ween I was younger I always wanted to have a baby girl but I am haveing a baby girl I would be also fine with a baby boy but I always wanted a baby girl I am coming a mother I don't have any kids yet but I just wanted to till you that and I subscribe your channel. 😊

I'm crying and that is sad bc now he thinks he isn't allowed to play with his brother bc his mum disciplined him

​@@kaylamccorkell8453 What? Where did you get that from?

​@@kaylamccorkell8453lmao did your brain fart or are you a troll?

saying, 'Don't' to a child gives way for an unhealthy child. you are defying their natural instinct to survive (learn). thx

No, it made him feel like he doesn’t deserve love and playtime for a small Mistake. Children don’t know what’s boundary and space

no, it shows that being sent to a place with toys isn't punishment, and the kid learned nothing.

This was plenty for this small child to think about what he had done and apologize for it. That’s all he needs at this age. Parental guidance with love.

​​@@bb7961 I agree.I feel pain as he runs to his room to sit on his bed. Maybe he accidently pushed in enthusiasm and I would say sonething like be careful, no pushing. But making it a huge issue creates a rejection for him. He is the bad guy and sent to his room. I think it could be handles lighter while still explaining him to be gentle with his brother.

AMEN!!! I didn’t know people these days knew how to do that!! If more parents did these things, teaching their kids right from wrong, there would be more adults that knew how to act and that would teach their children the same!! That way when the children were taken out, like to eat, they wouldn’t act like heathens!

Either too soft or don't care enough. Alot of the bad kids in our area. Have parents who don't give a shit about the kids. 😢

And it's so cute how siblings can Forgive each other so quickly!!..Boys need very firm, but kind, boundaries, & she did it SO well for them!!- Kudos!!- :)

Then giving him a choice....loved that.

More Mothers and Fathers...

thats totally bs. You cant handle a child like a small adult.

Try that with a kid with ADHD or ODD. Good luck!

@@darylmorrison6598exactly what I was gonna say. That word shizz don’t work with ADHD. They need to be affected by the repercussions. It’s technically a mental illness even though they aren’t acting out 24/7 like some of the more extreme illnesses.

Nah she didn’t kid is gunna be soft as can be when he’s older he started crying more when his mom sent the other kid away your suppose to make your kids tough not little girls crying just cause a feather hit their shoulder

​@@sorenludwig3978yes you can, what I wouldn't do is make them say sorry, saying sorry means nothing if you don't mean it. But the rest, especially because if the age, is amazing. When this happens with an older kid you can encourage them to think about other solutions in time out and talk with them about it afterwards, but i think that kid is too young for that.

Yes. We do.

only on camera 😂

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Why does your comment seem like you're yelling at others with the explanation points??

🎀Some people have not been taught another way. Don’t be judgmental.🎀

my concern is that she never asked him why he pushed his brother. it’s possible that he was responding to something inappropriately. he could be getting the message that other people can do bad things to him, and he can’t do anything about it. if that’s the case, he also hasn’t learned an appropriate way to respond when his brother treats him badly. he also may have hugged his mom for the purpose of regaining favor, when hugs should be reserved for authentic love. that’s why i never demand a hug, i only ever ask. she also told him to apologize instead of asking if he wants to apologize, which is bypassing his own moral compass and forcing him to abide by hers instead of his own. if he didn’t want to apologize, she could have explained to him why she would apologize if she were in his shoes, or she can explain how he and his brother will feel if he doesn’t apologize so he can have a better understanding of how to apply the skill in the future. there’s nothing inherently wrong about what happened here, especially when you’re busy, but there are many opportunities for teaching and connection that were missed here.

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There's no universal textbook. Case by case. Family by family. Individual by individual. What works for her, might not work for others. Also, this is a montage. We don't see what happened between cuts.

​@@trrulieeeeeI used this method with my kids and they are all adults now. They are emotionally stable and know how to treat people as well as how they expect to be treated by others. I guarantee that this mom addresses both sides before making a final judgement.

@@dreamchaser7177no you didn’t, if they’re all adults then you’re a liar. Look at how confused this kid is when they have a camera recording the situation. They did this for views and it’s disgusting.

No, she is growing CASTRATED GUYS, who in the future will not know how to act like the real men. NO BALLS, CRYING LIKE BABIES when they are adults. She is deeply indoctrinated by this stupid propaganda which is running around nowadays and which is PLANNED...

@@millieyinaski8495agreed cause it doesn’t work for everybody

Kids can be very happy to play in front of camera and watch themselves again. Let everyone live their own life. Fpr this stupid privacy reason one day in the UK they will arrest you if you take a picture of a kid that's not yours! Not everyone does things for bad reasons

Ffs, it's common sense. THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL, not some outlier

It would be more flowers and same gender lovers

Taken over by the neighboring country.

Yeah, but CLEARLY they are NOT PRACTICING IT. We would not be coming apart at the seams as a country.

@@kelliintexas3575bro did you not watch the video

Give me a break. All she did is sent a kid to his room while blasting him in front of everyone for show and likes at his expense. Yea grate mother she is. SMH

@@3pleSssthat’s not why she posted it she posted it to show the effects of proper parenting

Molim prevod komentara na srpskom..hvala

@@3pleSss You obviously don't have children or shouldn't have a child be in your care! This was amazing from a mom of 3 to achieve such respectable results means so much in the moment not for the camera ...you jackass!

hope your sterile lol

True but kids do lie a lot

​@@tur74d56 this is different, the situation happened in front of the parent so they know that their mom knows and they cannot lie. why would they? also this gives them a chance to explain if something else was bothering them like "he pushed me first!' or "I didn't push, he tripped!" clears up the situation. always give kids a chance to talk

​@@megv7481the punishment was reflecting and reviewing.... She almost had it.... Everything she did was great except there were no actual consequences. It'll be a rude awakening in society for him when there are still consequences after reflection and apologizing

​@@megv7481normally I would never tell someone how to treat their own children but she is posting this like a smug tutorial. She needs humility.

Exactly. I never had to strike my children. Little ones can understand consequences and time outs and then corrective experiences. Really sweet little brothers. Boys can get super aggressive and it’s sweet to see a Mama take time to patiently teach her children how to be better humans.

Yes.

Yessssss tyyy

@@Tanorolife You're welcome 😉 I was 'Behaviour Management Coordinator' for over 2 decades. Was very challenging at times, but also very enjoyable.. especially when you see chidren learning to deal with their emotions in a positive way.

I like this! Thank you for the tip!

@@camillelamb7377 Happy to help 😃 Some children may struggle with this at first. So you could help by offering sugestions. Also if a child just wants to say 'sorry'. you can ask .. 'Ok, what are you sorry for?' - After some discussion the child may say someting like 'I'm sorry for throwing sand in your eye.. are you ok now?’

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I remember the days when dogs were trained.

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am why did you push him off it's okay he's crying because you that's me what did you do that your mom is the best

Handled perfectly, a great mama x

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He did not show the least smidgen of remorse. He would not look her in the eyes. He knows from prior experience that his misbehaviour is easily dealt with by 5 minutes of sitting in his own room, which is no punishment at all.

You can’t be serious!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You mean getting your husband setting up a phone and taking a video and then you post it. That’s how you raise kids lol

LMFAO seriously

That's how you raise a simp not a man

@@michaelirvin4555I can tell you have never had good parents.

Just wait until your daughters start mimicking YOUR parenting! That's what I'm seeing as my kids are in their 30s & raising their own kids. Its awesome! I love it!! However, my own parents couldn't say this because they were physically & verbally abusive, but I was determined to never ever be like them.

I think this was a narcissist thinking that you're having right now

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She literally doing what she should be doing

@@aadilharoon1807it is easer to just do nothing it’s takes more time and energy to do good parenting n sometimes ( more often than not) some ( a lot ) they ( the parents ) don’t know good parenting. And that is the saddest part of the rest of the story

@@aadilharoon1807 unfortunately too many parents these days refuse to say no other tell their children they did something wrong bc it “hurts their feelings” to be scolded, and they let their kids run the household. She’s doing what she should be doing and it should definitely be acknowledged.