"Two" is from Sleeping At Last's "Atlas: Year Two" project. Spotify: open.spotify.com/user/sleepin... Produced by Wonderkind Studios Wonderkindstudios.com Handwriting by Ryan O'Neal www.sleepingatlast.com
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"I just want to build you up, build you up 'til you're good as new. And maybe one day I'll get around to fixing myself too" I felt that
@juls_sisyphus5 жыл бұрын
Father Alpha Same...
@gabrielafinell71514 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Jasmina21064 жыл бұрын
Yup
@maybe74174 жыл бұрын
That hit hard
@Phoenix-ey7kc4 жыл бұрын
this one hit a little too hard
@sofiazervos85294 жыл бұрын
This song is for the personality trait of a” giver” which means that you give all you have to make someone else happy even if you’re miserable so this isn’t really a love song
@kenzie75714 жыл бұрын
It's more of a struggle for finding self love and the struggles of a Two
@ikebranstad76314 жыл бұрын
it's as if you give everything and think it is fine to not get something back in return. to build up so much stress that you don't even know how to love yourself anymore. where you just get lost and you wouldnt mind as long as another person is happy. it hurts, everybody knows that, because we're all two's.
@kun81704 жыл бұрын
Koen Ye it doesn’t always hurt I know I always love seeing people happy I am In the middle of sad and happy so nothing really bothers me ya know like I’m happy a lot but sad also but it makes me even more happier knowing people are happp and extra happy when I make them happy
@robyn93154 жыл бұрын
Tbh I’ve never thought of it as a love song, for some reason I thought of it as a father daughter thing
@dreamwish2864 жыл бұрын
@@dreamwish286 my mother was definitely like this she gave everything to make everyone happy
@jamilbarbee61694 жыл бұрын
this song is so powerful, it sounds like a typical love song originally but then the second verse comes and suddenly you start to realize that this song is actually about someone caught in a self destructive pattern of giving all and accepting nothing in return
@matveyxivan71593 жыл бұрын
yep. sounds about right.
@joycesmagnets2 жыл бұрын
That's what makes it love. Both have to do it tho
@Neil_mccauley3652 жыл бұрын
Guess that's unconditional love
@shiplirani76212 жыл бұрын
@SHIPLI RANI … Unrequited seems a better fit
@aubreenickle85302 жыл бұрын
@@aubreenickle8530 Kinda both. Unconditional because the Two would love their person regardless of anything. Even through unrequited love , which is the situation they're in in the song.
@anti_fragile2 жыл бұрын
I will never get over the line "what a privilege it is to love, a great honor to hold you up"
@cptnwynn Жыл бұрын
My favorite line too, so inspirational to love someone up so high for everyone to see how special and beautiful they are.
@greeneyes011765 Жыл бұрын
Same here. I absolutely have always loved this line the most .
@Celtic_Fairy11 ай бұрын
💜🤟🏽🤟🤟🏻💜❤️
@dillonwatson78409 ай бұрын
@@wuba5456honouring and loving someone deeply with everything you have(which is very rare❤) doesn't bring down your self esteem.
@unknownno14566 ай бұрын
@@wuba5456It’s my favorite line, too. I didn’t realize what a privilege it was to love the love of my entire lifetime until they were gone.
@mellotune75 ай бұрын
“No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts” This line hit me hard
@nathannieves89874 жыл бұрын
me too
@jeremypatient45754 жыл бұрын
Nathan Nieves same
@celly67874 жыл бұрын
Same
@viivil66374 жыл бұрын
Nathan Nieves me too
@v1cki3074 жыл бұрын
It hit really hard
@g_calla25794 жыл бұрын
Took the test. Got a two. And I can promise this isn’t a love song XD it’s about how you’re too caring to the point where it’s self destructive.
@raccoon_socks034 жыл бұрын
It is a love song. Its a love song about a person with a type 2s personality doing whatever it takes to make their partner feel loved and safe and not sad or stressed.
@harliemacdougall4664 жыл бұрын
@@harliemacdougall466 it's not really a love song though. it's about loving everyone, and caring about everyone, so much so its self destructive. like you want to do everything in your power to help people, and you forget to help yourself along the way. i like your perspective though, and maybe your in love with someone but I really dont have anyone so I dont really consider this a love song between 2 people. I considerate more a love song for everyone.
@jaydine63364 жыл бұрын
I think it can have more perspectives, I see it as not giving too much love to yourself bc you are busy with pleasing the rest
@isagroot13214 жыл бұрын
I got a two, and in my perspective I see at as 2s would do any to make their partner/friends, anyone they have a good connection with feel pleased happy anything that would give them a smile in their face. 2s would risk their own lives just to save another’s just to make them happy or feel alive. 2s are too nice they care people too much that they forget to take care of them selves that they would have the fear of losing control of their emotions. I’m a two I can certainly agree with this song and comments I really do care about people in my life they are them who make it keep going and they know them selves I’m thank full:)
@xxayeitsme-ashleyxx37314 жыл бұрын
@@jaydine6336 that's how I've always felt the exact comment
@casper34714 жыл бұрын
I read something that hit deep; it said Twos love deeply and selflessly but that doesn't mean there aren't any conditions. There is only one. They don't always know about this condition, and they might deny it. But it's that they want to be loved back. They relate to this singer, but they want to be the audience, too.
@uprisingsun91053 жыл бұрын
this hit pretty deep not gonna lie
@kyra43183 жыл бұрын
So I've been reading the comments on this video, and so many people seem like they need to be loved and cared for. I don't know how to help people, but this comment section is one of the nicest I've seen, and after putting some thought into it I thought that maybe if the people here had a place to communicate with other people like them it could help. I decided to create a discord server that's open for anyone here, and is just for people to get help from each other or to talk. I don't want to pressure anyone into joining, nor do I know how it will turn out in practice, it seemed like a good idea in my mind, so I decided to do it. If you want to join, the link is discord.gg/2Bg2EYpghr EDIT: Replaced the link
@samuelransom44943 жыл бұрын
that’s the sad part, when we first hear it we imagine we are the one being sung to, only to realize we are the singer. the giver of love, not the receiver.
@kathrynelaine97362 жыл бұрын
@@kathrynelaine9736 I was the opposite. I've always known I was the singer, but it hit me after reading comments that how I treat others is how I want others to treat me, but it never happens.
@siriusblack74722 жыл бұрын
@@kathrynelaine9736 Thats exactly what happened to me. I listened to it multiple times mostly imagining im being sung to, and tonight I came back, and unexpectedly it just started hitting differently. Suddenly I could see myself being the singer.
@limeylemon16852 жыл бұрын
type two’s, you are infinite, in simply the way you are and exist. the way you impact people every moment, the way you connect with others, the kindness and selflessness you radiate, the way you see the world, the way you put your heart and soul into everything you do. but most importantly, in all of the ways that you love. that love will always guide you. and despite it all, you’ve stayed kind. you are rare. it’s what makes you extraordinary, and truly beautiful. no matter how long it may take for you to realize, all of the the love that you’ve put out into the world will always find its way back to you. you live on in the memories, minds, and hearts of others. infinite. - your type two pal :)
@aryannacharles52322 жыл бұрын
You are the kindest, most incandescent person I’ve ever had to meet on this platform; thank you SO much for your kindness, sweet star
@meeeeee7090 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@anthonmarlz32mb Жыл бұрын
shit. this is beautiful.
@lolafisher9500 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dianalaughlin Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, but what do these types mean? How do you know what type you are?
@ImTired1711 ай бұрын
What is funny about two's is that this song is speaking about how we behave, but it also is exactly what we want to hear.
@kyleyreinhart15583 жыл бұрын
What you just said is how I felt and didn't even know it until I read it 😭😭😭
@betsyann4533 жыл бұрын
im a two and this very true i read it and started crying :/
@kristalasmr3 жыл бұрын
Omg
@Eshal_3 жыл бұрын
I feel this so hard, just the opening line makes me cry, I am tired and no I haven’t ate but I’m always the one to ask this question to others
@remmi55923 жыл бұрын
THIS. i'm a 9 but i probably have 2 in my tritype, and god isn't this me
@purpleneons3 жыл бұрын
the worst feeling is when you want to cry but no tears come out and it's just this heavy feeling inside your chest
@diyasabapathy27743 жыл бұрын
It's because we're so used to being so comfortably numb,let it all out sometimes,it'll really help ..till then don't keep it all to yourself,take care
@mrtruth3113 жыл бұрын
i have that every day :( i'm always so jealous of people who can just cry when they hurt. i can't let it out, it just keeps building up. even when it feels like it's gonna burst, nothing comes out...
@sadweeb353 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss exactlyyyy✨✨
@nureenmahmoud78933 жыл бұрын
hehe
@marzana46433 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ, get of my soul
@nassan15993 жыл бұрын
this hits different when you're crying and you feel so hopeless. it's like someone is comforting you through their words and there's an invisible hug wrapping around you.
@misora76572 жыл бұрын
😢
@babyegypt4514 Жыл бұрын
me roght now, also a 9 so basically being depressed is my personality?
@JustABitJank Жыл бұрын
yea...
@kemaniparker469710 ай бұрын
This song is from the perspective of a two and is not necessarily from the perspective of a healthy one
@alexandriariley956510 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much. He can heal the areas of pain you hide. ❤
@jesussavedme626010 ай бұрын
"It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest" Always resonates so loud and so deep in me. Absolute beauty. Did you ever love someone that much too?
@lemyosotisbleu31802 жыл бұрын
Yeah. It was beautiful. ^_^
@OneBiasedOpinion2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah... I love people around SO MUCH🥲 and I resonate to this line as well, I even yelled when I saw it.😭
@joyliu92682 жыл бұрын
Yes. It ended horrible. I was in love with a narcissist.
@janedoex1398 Жыл бұрын
@@janedoex1398 been there :-/
@ivanalaiguana1131 Жыл бұрын
Yes…and he died, now he is angel like I always told him he is 🥹 ❤
@andreeaburcea2862 Жыл бұрын
I think when most people first hear this song, they don’t initially position themselves as the singer. At first you kind of imagine that you are the one being sung to, especially with first lyric being a direct question. I think this is very intentional. I think it represents how “twos” want to be to others what they wish others were to them. They give to others what they never received themselves. And I think that’s pretty beautiful, but also a bit sad.
@maryv58154 жыл бұрын
Agreed it is very beautiful and sad at the same time and it hurts twos when what they give to others is not reciprocated back to them. But yet they continue loving others anyway.
@musicallands73854 жыл бұрын
yes yes yes!!!!
@user-tatibaby4 жыл бұрын
:'(
@alynfrancis4 жыл бұрын
Just listened to the podcast that the artist has about the creation of this song (highly recommend btw-very very informative and fascinating!) But the song is meant as both how the twos give to others and as a love song back to twos as a reminder that they need to take care of themselves
@abbiewhite79874 жыл бұрын
I actually did think this at first, as a two myself. It made me cry first time I listened to it.
@youreverydayace97683 жыл бұрын
“It’s okay if you can’t catch your own breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest” This line hits hard. I started crying at this part.
@gdrm40234 жыл бұрын
That line kills me everytime. That's exactly how it feels to give everything to/for someone.
@jeffreitz16294 жыл бұрын
Me too, me too
@thisyofavoritesng4 жыл бұрын
Me too. I really felt that.
@xyz123ohme4 жыл бұрын
I heard the first line and knew it would hit heard and started bawling my eyes out
@rowan43084 жыл бұрын
Me too..
@valentynaroudnicka48854 жыл бұрын
As a two who has been trying and making progress on the road of recovery and self love, i dedicate this song to my inner child. Have it child.
@sunnyc.6122 жыл бұрын
And here I am feeling sorry for myself because the one I’m with, as with many before, doesn’t seem to love/ accept me enough, but really I could stand to love myself this unconditionally.😢
@calimon00 Жыл бұрын
I’m in the same place.
@AHappyFlower Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@leenbee1711 ай бұрын
Yes! 🙌💛😭 Let us learn to love ourselves as much as we love everyone else
@charityann06119 ай бұрын
😁 That made me genuinely smile - so thank you 😊 And have a wonderful day ^^
@zentimehd1551Ай бұрын
I'm not a two, but my best friend, my platonic soul mate, is a two, and imagining her singing this to me literally made me start crying.
@oliviahaglund89783 жыл бұрын
Trust me she loves you with her whole heart. I hope you show her how much you love her, it says with no strings attached but we 2's wanna be loved back or at least shown that we are thought about at random times
@justme-rr3dy2 жыл бұрын
THIS.
@alyssasehn Жыл бұрын
same
@enk335 Жыл бұрын
"It's okay if you can't catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my chest" That's the sweetest line I've heard in a long time. This song, I swear. It really makes my heart go soft.
@raiukii5 жыл бұрын
Eunice I feel like that line sounds sweet on the surface, but it’s actually talking about the person self sacrificing, for the other person to be okay, even if it comes at the expense of the other person’s oxygen, at the expense of that person not having enough for himself. which isn’t sweet or healthy. I interpreted this line as something maybe a not so healthy two might say, just because it’s something I absolutely believed in 100% before I realized it was actually damaging to put other people’s needs above your own.
@mariee_e5 жыл бұрын
@@mariee_e That's actually a pretty good interpretation. That makes perfect sense as well. We all have our own way of interpreting and understanding things anyways, and I'm happy to hear different perspectives on this song :)
@raiukii5 жыл бұрын
Yours and mine
@Holycryptonite475 жыл бұрын
Ugh sammee, agreee!
@trivandrysam86285 жыл бұрын
Eunice Yes!! :) ❤️❤️❤️
@mariee_e5 жыл бұрын
The saddest parts of this song aren't the lyrics or the melody, it's the fact that I thought this was what love was. I thought love existed in self-destruction, in sacrifice without anything in return. I thought love was "no, I don't wanna talk about myself, tell me where it hurts" I thought it was "I just wanna build you up, build you up, 'til you're good as new and maybe one day I'll get around to fixing my self, too". This isn't love, it never was and that's the saddest part.
@whiskeyeyedfool4 жыл бұрын
:,((
@purrclaws4 жыл бұрын
ColdFridgePizza same 😓 but that was beautiful and you wrote something that I’ve been trying to put into words for the longest time. I hope your ok and I’m happy u realized it as sad as it is
@ailanygutierrez63294 жыл бұрын
lord, your comment though!!! this hit me hard really :(:(
@hyacinthars4 жыл бұрын
I've seen you post on other emotional songs, and I resonate with you deeply. 💕
@nataliecampos17324 жыл бұрын
@@ailanygutierrez6329 I'm glad I could put into words what you've been feeling for a long time. I'm okay and I'm happy too
@whiskeyeyedfool4 жыл бұрын
Its fascinating to me how before the song starts, you can hear something is going on, rustling or taking a deep breath and the singer starts to sing. Shows how the singer, would drop everything to prioritise someone else, mentally and physically. The singer also uses a different tone or note when he sings about himself, it goes much quieter whenever he mentions himself. Some of the examples would be my own chest, put my mask on first, fixing myself too and to be loved myself. Like the singer has his own issues that he'd rather hide and keep secret about. Throughout the song, there is also a sense of exasperated? in the way the singer sings to his significant other. To tell and assure that they are loved, they are safe and that the singer would move heaven and earth for them. Exasperated in a good way? Idk the exact adjective to describe it. Like the feeling you get when you're explaining something to someone and getting so breathless and fired up but them being clueless still. And after the song ends, you can hear the singer releasing a breath or rustling about. Other songs on this project dont really have that bits left out, but I can be wrong. That last bit as if to indicate, the song has now end and the singer can take off their mask because during the song singer represses their emotions and feelings and basically put on masks to comfort others.
@vsbjd6272 жыл бұрын
Each song in this series starts with the sound effect of someone in Ryan's life that matches up with the enneagram type that's being focused on. If I remember correctly the rustling at the start is his wife making a bed, as his wife is a Type 2.
@NateSearson9 ай бұрын
"You and your brother," She said ", are bound by something stronger than fate, and stronger than death." She dropped her hands and stepped back. The distance between them was a chasm. "One is gone, but not forever. One is gone, but not the other." -Kristen, Passerine.
@aspenserage46102 жыл бұрын
Dont mind me, just gonna go re-read it and fuckin sob my eyes out (:
@ijustwantedcookies25492 жыл бұрын
Pain
@nekoyumi27742 жыл бұрын
@@butter3d_t0ast Same I can't get pass chapter 2 without crying
@nekoyumi27742 жыл бұрын
:(
@urangeltruly2 жыл бұрын
STOOOOP I LITERALLY WILL CRY
@kyliemac26512 жыл бұрын
Some see a love song, I see a plea for help. I relate to the lyrics. Being so broken and unable to love yourself so you desperately build others up in hope of some sort of reciprocation happening. The part where the singer refuses to talk about himself hints at this disconnection happening inside him due to years of devoting everything unto others except himself. I am in love.
@nitsuji67055 жыл бұрын
Well, that's the beautiful thing about songs like these. Some see a loving, devoted partner wanting to do everything to make sure their partner is happy. No matter what. Whereas some people see someone tearing themselves up to make someone shine brighter. I understand both and see both. This song is immaculate.
@theonlybingledingle5 жыл бұрын
Jayce D'rick I know how you feel, if you ever need to talk my Instagram dms are always open; bbydoll.gnv
@laurelcaumbey1155 жыл бұрын
Jayce D'rick I understand it as well, love hurts
@luciellawliet5 жыл бұрын
On the Enneagram test I'm a 2 and what you said is what I live threw all the time. I try finding self worth in helping others. To a point I became suicidal. I had to get professional help to be able to over come that. I still struggle finding the balance because its who I am to want to help people.
@shinypokemonfan35825 жыл бұрын
What you wrote is really wise. I understand what you mean.
@mykonto50985 жыл бұрын
This song gives me the feeling of finally being asked “are you ok?” By someone who actually wants to listen rather than asking because they feel obligated. Like the weight of the world in finally lifted Edit: yes I’m ok and doing better
@ash._.brianna4 жыл бұрын
you ok?
@dumbghsot4 жыл бұрын
The song didn't make me cry this comment did oof my heart 😔
@maheentuba21664 жыл бұрын
woah... relatable
@summysmile4 жыл бұрын
Me too... 😭
@darkbeast30344 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If someone asks me if I'm ok or if something's wrong I breakdown
@mariannavandergriff32814 жыл бұрын
My wife is a 2. This song describes her perfectly. I know how lucky I am to have her in my life. I may not have always been perfect throughout my life, but she loves me despite it. She lifts me to places I have never been before, and makes me feel a love like I have never felt in my life. She tells me I love her well, and I hope she is telling me the truth because she deserves to be treated well. She is light, love, hope, kindness, faith, empathy, humanity, and compassion. Every single day of her life. She is the warmth in my bones. I tell her everyday how much I appreciate her sensitive soul, and just how lucky I am to have her love me. I will tell her every single day until my last breath.
@adamb9477 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for appreciating her so much! 😢
@leenbee1711 ай бұрын
Adam, God Bless you for being able to feel & express your love & gratitude to your wife. Heartfelt ❤
@SpiritedReds10 ай бұрын
You're both lucky to have found each other. I'm happy for you.
@Muh-gc2lv5 ай бұрын
"And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too." That line hit me hard. I feel like as a type two, we help others not only for them but also ourselves. We seek validation in a way that if we can "fix" them, maybe one day we'll realize what is the solution to fixing our own problems ans hardships.
@shamirazoeb.dullas25942 жыл бұрын
This isn't a love song However.. ..if you are a type 2, then technically...this *is* a love song..Because it's the only love you know how to give
@maturelydisapointingmember26994 жыл бұрын
YES!!!! I mean I put everyone above me but I dont get nth bacck but Im just glad all my friends happy. Sometimes I do feel like if I dont deserve to be as alone as I personally am
@darkbeast30344 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@mariannavandergriff32814 жыл бұрын
This needs more likes this is amazing
@Tr4_k3y4 жыл бұрын
this comment hit me hard
@earthtograysea75734 жыл бұрын
OUCH
@dudaschone4 жыл бұрын
"Sweetheart you look a little tired. When did you last eat?" that hurt
@nicoleaguirre99614 жыл бұрын
Victoria Aguirre - i feel it every time i listen to this song
@amberbamberrr15264 жыл бұрын
I saw that at the start and was like yep I'm in the right place LMAOO
@scottderrig4 жыл бұрын
ikr... damn
@alexbarrameda59714 жыл бұрын
felt that.
@kingtaehyung96804 жыл бұрын
Im eating rn -_-
@azybeansanimations61414 жыл бұрын
It's wild how at the start of the song, I immediately put myself only in the singer's shoes. And it isn't until the 2:17 mark that I realized how much I wanted to be the person being sung to, as well. Ryan absolutely 1000% understood the assignment when creating these songs for each of the enneagram types, I am in tears thank u sir
@destroyedparadise2342 жыл бұрын
To someone in a relationship this might be a good reminder to take care of your own needs. But as a mom whose son died 6 months ago, this song says every single thing in my heart. I would have given my last breath to help him. I sob every time I listen to it, but it is beautiful and perfect.
@cynthialasher63342 жыл бұрын
Hey i hope you are at least a little ok and have people who are there for you, especially in a time like this💜
@mushroomkid45102 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, as a parent I honestly don’t want to imagine the immense soul shattering grief you must feel. I immediately thought of my child, too.
@HL-hr4ox Жыл бұрын
i'm truly sorry about it. hope your pain heals, and you get the love and care you need for that
@gabrielapontes9243 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for ur loss , souls of kids who die r taken to a garden where they live under guardianship of Prophet Abraham or Ibrahim peace be upon him , they live there until they r resurrected n then entered into paradise kzhead.info/sun/a9Kle8eJi5agjGg/bejne.html
@fahimakbar123 Жыл бұрын
song: ”sweetheart-” me: *ugly sobbing
@gremnda4 жыл бұрын
This song isn’t a love song. It’s about “the giver” type of persons and how they worry more about other people than themselves. Like me. I’m sobbing right now
@samanthabaker80604 жыл бұрын
Hey! Another type 2 here. Hope you're feeling great and ready to tackle the day ahead of ya! Stay safe and keep on lovin those around ya and take some time to love and take care of yourself too! Toodles👋🏻
@francescadilorenzo15304 жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for people who are type 2, but I just can't stand being near them. I can't stand when someone tries to help others while they're broken to pieces. The worst is when they deny it. It just... breaks my heart. I can't just stay there and watch them smile as they crumble to ashes. I guess what I'm trying to say is... take care. We care about you too, even when we sound rude.
@cleliaoconnell37054 жыл бұрын
its crazy how im not generally the self destructing giver type of a person for everyone, but would completely wreck myself for that one special person- over and over again.
@spogmairabnawazmaken48484 жыл бұрын
This song is the musical version of being given a hug and told that everything is going to be okay.
@Fruit_Cake_Boii8 ай бұрын
I've always imagined myself as the singer, because when I'm cared for, I feel greedy, like I need to give back in some way and say thank you constantly, so eventually I just stopped being the receiver at all, two's are givers, sometimes to the point of exhaustion, they give until nothing is left, they dont fix themselves to focus on others, they believe that their problems aren't as a bad and therefore unworthy of being resolved, so they bundle it up and put it in the back of their heads, putting all their focus and fixating on someone else in need of help, to distract them from their own burdens. It isnt love, it usually is a distraction.
@freyacowburn59982 жыл бұрын
I dont think its necessarily a distraction.. given that often its so painful to help others.
@limeylemon16852 жыл бұрын
as a two dont really think its a distraction, i see giving as my way of giving other people what i so desperately wish for everyday: lots of pure straightfoward gentle love kindness and compassion
@whowhatwhenwherew2 жыл бұрын
i’m going to be completely honest i’m a 2 and i just realized how true this is for my friends i would stay up with them until 3am if i had too just to make them feel better but when i’m feeling sad no one rlly knows bc i don’t make a big deal of it and when i get home i sit here and cry and i check my phone and there r no messages so i’m just sitting there alone staring at my ceiling and wondering if anyone actually cares. ok so it is now been 6 months since i wrote that message but when i wrote that i was at a tough time in my life i had lost my grandma and grandpa and now that i’m looking back at all of these comments i realized ppl can relate... rn i am doing perfectly fine and some advice i can give to u guys is to find something that u feel passionate about and focus on that for me it was video game... thank you for reading and god bless u all
@retardedtimes75294 жыл бұрын
You might be a stranger to me but, I care about you. I know that there are lots of people who care about you
@mantipost62474 жыл бұрын
This hits close to home
@natalieadams34634 жыл бұрын
joe mama what i’m doing right now.....
@katief88394 жыл бұрын
holy shit thats always me
@ellagoede26824 жыл бұрын
You basically just described my whole life. I may not know who you are, but I care about you.
@savannahmeland89664 жыл бұрын
helping people and ruining yourself in the process only to realise they wouldn't do the same for you
@waffleamv_4 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@daddlus52743 жыл бұрын
I felt that
@rasmitdevkota52953 жыл бұрын
The point is that no one should ruin themselves for someone else, not that everyone should
@Rachel-og8jy3 жыл бұрын
@@Rachel-og8jy when did i say everyone should? i was just talking about an experience i had in the past that some people found relatable
@waffleamv_3 жыл бұрын
y u gotta do me like that
@czareanajousch3 жыл бұрын
I cry to this for different reasons, 1, I'm hurt. 2, I feel like I'm always there for everybody and yea, I do it cause I love them, but sometimes it'd be nice to have someone love and care for me in the same way but I will never say that aloud. 3, nobody understands me.
@starsforeyes65452 жыл бұрын
if you want you can reply, will listen and maybe i wont understand but it will be heard by a random person on the internet
@whowhatwhenwherew2 жыл бұрын
That is exactly how if feel. It sounds selfish, but I’m so giving and thoughtful, so selfless and am a people pleaser. And I’m not even looking for recognition or credit or whatever… I don’t even know what I’m looking for.. maybe attention? Appreciation? Myself?
@TheThora17 Жыл бұрын
You are understood here. Stay strong. Sometimes tell someone close to you about it. Its okay to do so.
@houtsin Жыл бұрын
@@TheThora17 being cared for and being loved. As someone who is not a 2 and having a wife that is a 2 I can say that you guys give that much love and attention (I'd say plenty of time uncall for and not needed) because you have an extra need to receive that loved back, you are loving the way you'd like to be loved back. Sadly the non 2 types out there dont have to that degree the need of love, apreciation and care, nor can we give it or are willing to. It's a priorities problem. We have to compromise, I do every now and then the extra loving thing for my wife because she really needs it and enjoys it, but I just can't do it or want to do it to the degree or frecuency she feels she "needs". Same way for her with my extra needs.
@cristiancouso693811 ай бұрын
@@cristiancouso6938 that makes sense- thank you🌸
@TheThora1711 ай бұрын
This reminds me of my grandma who passed away recently at 91, she survived two heart attacks, one at home and one in the hospital and then she died due to an untreated UTI. It went septic the day they sent her home. She was such a kind person and always had a beautiful smile, she put everyone way before herself and always thought the world of her family. I will never forget her. She was like a mother to me as she raised me unlike my biological mother, well my dad has always been there for me too. I’ll miss her so much, I spoke at her funeral and I broke down crying when I talked about how much I wanted to just wake up and see her in her chair again. I’ve been thinking about sharing my story to spread awareness on how hospitals treat the elderly.
@raven80692 жыл бұрын
😢 How are you doing now?
@Violet_Jedi_Sylveon2 жыл бұрын
I would love to hear your story.Your story will connect with a few people and impact them as well which sounds like a blessing.
@lavandercharmander2307Ай бұрын
“What a privilege it is to love” it makes you think.
@ethanpanganiban49374 жыл бұрын
yeah true
@deepakumari95073 жыл бұрын
omg so true
@diyasabapathy27742 жыл бұрын
I don't think we understand just how intensely unique the emotion of love is. To have such an unwavering attraction to another individual aside from yourself because they simply are them, is powerful. It's an honor to encounter this intense experience like no other. To think some deny this emotions existence, that it's a construct of society and economy.. No. It has been deep within human capacity since we reached this level of intelligence. And type twos just know how love works.
@phauxdy2 жыл бұрын
This song hits different after you find out you're actually a two.
@mikaylatober64594 жыл бұрын
omg ikr or if you knew you were a two before hearing the sing but coming back to the song after doing something very two-ish hits different too
@gracedoesmakeup12113 жыл бұрын
i know! i though i was a 6 but turns out i'm at 2w3
@ellahawkins61783 жыл бұрын
can i be enlightened on what 2 is?
@woahhello91673 жыл бұрын
@@woahhello9167 a two is an enneagran number. 2's are the caregivers.
@ellahawkins61783 жыл бұрын
@@ellahawkins6178 thanks
@woahhello91673 жыл бұрын
I jokingly say “I’m a 2 in Recovery.” I had a dream awhile back… In it a friend and I were talking about a super stressful and upsetting thing I was experiencing. Though it was still happening in real life, the dream conversation was referring to it in the past tense. In the dream I asked my friend “Are you mad I didn’t tell you about X? Was I right or wrong to wait until it was over?” The friend looked at me and in grief said “You robbed us of the chance to love you.” I started sharing the situation with friends the next day. Really glad I did, they were a huge support and made things so much more bearable.
@kelseyregank-drawproductio95102 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling burnt out from loving unconditionally. I feel like I can't recharge as people keep taking, and I can't say no. This song is the beginning of me taking back control. It's hard, though. It's hard to feel like I am being selfish. I hope I can love myself as much as I love others. I hope I can feel love too.
@garrettjanz7382 Жыл бұрын
I'm here too, I'm the same way. I want to befriend the people like this, and give to and love them so they don't give up on loving at all. I wish you well. If you need a friend I am here. If you need to vent I don't judge. Don't lose yourself, but please don’t give up on being kind.
@nataliabarnett6113 Жыл бұрын
@Natalia Barnett it's a tough spot to be in when you give so much, but then feel like you don't receive any in return. Luckily, I've been focusing on how I can move forward. It's come to the point where I need to possibly get rid of a friend in my life who has been a big source of these issues. I had to talk with many people to realize that he was using me, and it wasn't healthy for me to give in all the time. Thank you, Natalia, for responding and offering to be someone I can vent to. I bet you are feeling like this as well, and I would love to be someone you can talk to as well. You have value, and it's not in what you can do for others. You have value because you are you.
@garrettjanz7382 Жыл бұрын
You feel burnt out because truly, you are "just" a human being. You can't love unconditionally.
@cristiancouso693811 ай бұрын
I feel like no relationship will ever be healthy for me because I’m too eager to give myself away, and it’s nobody’s fault but mine.
@sockonthewall4 жыл бұрын
Yes. This.
@bellyfulochelly42224 жыл бұрын
Hey! As a type 2 in a healthy relationship, my advice is to go slow. Get to know the other person slowly, give yourself the time to think about the way you feel towards your potential partner. You can tell them straight up that you have a tendency to care for others and to put them before you and your well being. When you'll open up slowly to them, they'll be aware of the reason why you are doing that. Hopefully they'll respect your way of thinking. That will show honesty, transparency and emotional maturity on your part and respect on theirs. I think it's a blessing to be a type 2 because we have so much love to give to everybody, even to ourselves. We just need to find balance between the rest of the world and us, and learn that it's okay to be loved and allow other people to help us love ourselves. Be hopeful.
@francescadilorenzo15304 жыл бұрын
this is everything i couldn’t put in words
@niayx38384 жыл бұрын
My advice, get to know yourself first, try to love yourself more... it ain’t easy... it took me 9 years.... i don’t want to get myself in relationship with a mindset I don’t need to be loved as much as i do for him...but after all those years you spent loving yourself, your true self is still there, and sometimes you love other people more than they do, and it hurts you, but as long as you remember that you need to be loved too, you will speak up to him/her, and the right person will give you all the love you need. Good luck to you my friend
@vania74624 жыл бұрын
Fran Shadow thank you so much, i’ll keep that all in mind 💘✨
@sockonthewall4 жыл бұрын
My lovely type two, You tend to love people like nobody else does. You really live to help us connect with our hearts. You are nurturing, emotionally inteligent and seriously, you are the embrace of all that is good in us. You understand people better than people understand themselves, you are empathetic, generous and supportive. You totally give yourself to your inner work, you minimise your needs and you give yourself away. I know it is devastating for you to acknowledge that you have needs but it is totally OK to admit that you crave love. It is time you realise that people around you appreciate and love you even though you do not. You need to understand that you have to love yourself as much as you love the others. You are one of a kind, gorgeous, sweet, enough and worthy for all the love in the world. I know it hurts when people take you for granted and that you fear rejection more than anything. It is totally OK to say no sometimes even though your heart is so big and forgiving that you would be willing to give people endless chances. You are not weak for loving the others, your love is a superpower that not many people know how to handle. Your key word is love, the superpower to handle love at its best. Use it to change the world! Yours sincerely, type two friend UPDATE: I am on instagram @tirucatalina for anyone who wants someone to talk to.
@tirucatalina11573 жыл бұрын
Wow... Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@emmagreen61203 жыл бұрын
I’m not a 2 but trying to help one.....Your note confuses me. I thought the pride of thinking they are the most loving is one of the issues of a 2? So why would it be helpful to tell them over and over that they are the most loving?
@shelierichardson41653 жыл бұрын
@@shelierichardson4165 because we are loving, and on our way to love everyone we forget to love ourselves. We don't actually realise how loving we are... we just do it. Of course, when we are toxic we do it for our self purpose, we love to get it back... but our aim is to be healthy and love just because we enjoy loving. Hope it helps!
@tirucatalina11573 жыл бұрын
Hey... I fell like this could be something my older self writted for me, Thank you, realy, thank you 🥺❤❤
@juliamartins53693 жыл бұрын
I teared up as I was reading this and the music was in the background. I felt this. Thank you.
@ByeByBui3 жыл бұрын
"i will love you without a single string attached." that line felt like a knife straight through the heart.
@lexi_catherine3 жыл бұрын
"I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself" That line hits hard, partly because it's so relatable
@Poetic-Thoughts9 ай бұрын
I definitely don't see this as a love song. As a 2, I hear this song for what it is; a desperate cry to be loved in the same way the singer loves other people. In most of my relationships, I'm the "helper". The "oh you're so great to talk to" the "you're such a good listener" and "wow, you're really good at giving advice". I've never really felt like I COULD open up to other people and feel needy. It's more a feeling of "as long as everyone else is happy and loved and healthy, that's what matters" but deep down you have this intrinsic need to just be wanted. No, this isn't a love song.
@laikynvictoria5 жыл бұрын
I see the relationship displayed in the song it more of a patriarchal on anyways
@Corviidei4 жыл бұрын
Laik I know how you feel 😪
@blacklotus18754 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but what is a two
@aaqib61774 жыл бұрын
@@aaqib6177 one of the enneagram test types (which this song is based off of) that goes through the numbers 1-9
@tori57884 жыл бұрын
Laik that’s exactly how I see it
@hixitzpeanut14334 жыл бұрын
“I will love you without any strings attached.” _”You know I’d tear my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat”_ *” I just want to build you up until you’re good as new.”*
@kaitlynn86463 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺
@thefilmparade64583 жыл бұрын
i just want to love you, and maybe, somehow, learn how to be loved myself.
@WhiteShadow-ue4nt2 жыл бұрын
Omg
@mariazildah2 жыл бұрын
For all the twos out there: sing this to yourself in the mirror because you deserve love too
@PotatoSmashes3 жыл бұрын
“It’s okay if you can’t catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest” that’s such a deep, powerful line. You just feel that one
@cosmicgames70922 жыл бұрын
Okay twos, let's all love each other so we can each feel loved ourselves. We all know we need it. ❤
@candiewrapper5 жыл бұрын
Twos unite
@gabrieljones5025 жыл бұрын
Candiewrapper, whoever you are, wherever you are, I do love you. :3 A two.
@SionaHouses5 жыл бұрын
I'm a two and I love you all. You guys are such amazing and compassionate people
@theschuylershippers76045 жыл бұрын
I needed this comment so much. Thank youu ❤
@chrisellellesirhc265 жыл бұрын
Me and my bf are both 2's and honestly we give our all for eachother but at the same time receive the same love we give, it balances out and honestly this is the happiest I've ever been in my life
@alissakipp014 жыл бұрын
"I know exactly how the rule goes; put my mask on first." As a two with OCD, that line hit super hard because sometimes my mind makes rules for giving and receiving love that really hurt me.
@rueinred31532 жыл бұрын
What's OCD?
@proto6086 Жыл бұрын
@@proto6086 Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is different for everyone who has it, but for me, my mind makes rigorous rules and systems that I have to follow, otherwise I fear I am going to get hurt. What I meant in my comment is that my mind makes a set of rules for how I can give and receive love, and if I don't follow through with the rules, I feel as though I am undeserving of love.
@rueinred3153 Жыл бұрын
This is so accurate! Twos just want to make everyone around them happy because we feel this enormous empathy to all around us. But what we’re scared to admit is that we what that to and that feeling like nobody appreciates our help and devotion is suffocating
@lrkebryan-lund82772 жыл бұрын
I’m a type 2. I feel this. I feel like crying.
@ryleethompson27884 жыл бұрын
I cried when I got halfway through it.
@desihart54394 жыл бұрын
I cried
@TairyinKlossner4 жыл бұрын
I cried in the few first seconds
@samsara46604 жыл бұрын
samsara shyangdan dame
@sofiazervos85294 жыл бұрын
What test?
@broghoops79374 жыл бұрын
As a type 2 even tho this is how we act, I feel like the beginning is what we all want to hear in the end from other people.
@witchyyeol75314 жыл бұрын
witchyyeol agreed
@kyhoney4 жыл бұрын
Yup 😢💜💜 Btw I love ur name and pfp 😂
@chenjipoo83294 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I probably sound really rude, but what type 2 do you mean? 🤔
@fallingskies89914 жыл бұрын
@@fallingskies8991 Enneagram test, it tells you which type you are and this song matches it
@hxllie_25824 жыл бұрын
You can shut your gorgeous face with your truth telling. I really don't feel like crying anymore, lol
@epochabove84534 жыл бұрын
I always view this song as somebody finding a person who’s recently gone through the same trauma as them. They’re experienced in how to feel better, so they take in this newly traumatized person and heal them with the thought that it will heal themself as well
@LauRen-pr2ic2 жыл бұрын
Listening to this whilst reading Two on Ice chapter 26 is a magical experience
@Blackhawk211Ай бұрын
Dear Twos, Beautiful Souls, sometimes, it is okay to be the one who takes. Because you never know, in some moments, taking equals giving. I love you ♡
@yourcoldshoulder79735 жыл бұрын
I love you soo much😭💕
@tracinetzband84924 жыл бұрын
Love you too!
@mondog53994 жыл бұрын
You made me cry. I saw this comment and I started to cry 😭
@visgirlfriend92954 жыл бұрын
"And i just want to love you, to love you well. I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself."
@tvishav41775 жыл бұрын
This song was the ultimate call out I think I needed, my boyfriend of a few months introduced me to this artist so we can try to gain a better understanding of each other and from hearing these it helped us open up more and ever since he has been helping me break my unhealthy habits of keeping everything to myself. I never thought a song could help so much but this really is a blessing and I thank you greatly for this beautiful song.
@crossilleux Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is a two, I’m a six, and after listening to this song a couple times, I finally get the way he feels about me, it just took a while to get through my own self doubt in out relationship. I feel so lucky to have such an amazing guy at my side who is completely willing to give anything to me, and now I’m ready to give my all to him without any doubt. This is amazing.
@charlieputman68363 жыл бұрын
How are you guys doing now? I am a two, who is looking to be in a relationship with someone I know very close, and want to know if you had any advice or insight from your guys' relationship
@matthewglennon43267 ай бұрын
There's nothing more angelic in the world than his voice
@shrabanidash55706 жыл бұрын
I know something more angelic, at least as angelic as his voice: Jón Þór Birgisson's voice.
@sullivanlemaitre28196 жыл бұрын
Reine Ebeneser I dunno man Mike Wazowski has a pretty angelic voice
@deactivated375 жыл бұрын
The Spooky Animator I will listen to him then. (:
@sullivanlemaitre28195 жыл бұрын
Reine Ebeneser he/she is talking about the one eyed funny monster from monster inc.
@shrabanidash55705 жыл бұрын
Shrabani Dash Why am I so stupid.
@sullivanlemaitre28195 жыл бұрын
okay but "put my mask on first" is even more relevant now
@oliviad70294 жыл бұрын
No matter how or whatever you wanna do, put your mask on first 😅
@telescope_s3 жыл бұрын
IT TOOK ME A MINUTE FKJXND BUT YES
@user-tt5tw3ut1x3 жыл бұрын
OMG YES
@justhere7503 жыл бұрын
This really aged like fine wine, huh
@jaylahrice15093 жыл бұрын
Olivia D lol yeah
@kelci28593 жыл бұрын
I'm listening this again thanks to a mango called Two on Ice wich I'm almost certain hint that the music use in the story in the last chapter (26) is this one. Such a great song !
@calimera41Ай бұрын
This makes me daydream of having someone there for me. A *best* friend. And I feel so, *so* good inside. But when the song ended I felt lonely. I am very glad I came across this so I could feel better even for a few minutes
“I know exactly how the rule goes, put my mask on first. No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts” You treat others the way you want to be treated but you never give them the opportunity to wipe your tears away because you never show them.
@nina._.2793 жыл бұрын
I feel that.
@samuelransom44943 жыл бұрын
never giving others the opportunity to care for me because I never let them know when I need their care. sometimes I could really use a friend. just sit with me and allow me soak in the experience of that moment, but it seems no one is really ever there then. smiles.
@lifeernest5672 Жыл бұрын
im the 666th like, idk why but i feel a lil happy so here is the comment :)
@vothienbaochau Жыл бұрын
So true.
@bbhohahabook3391 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the 2 people put into a relationship what they can. All that matters is not who put what, it matters did they put their heart & sole in & love eachother.
@loisnicklas8180 Жыл бұрын
dear unknown lover, I dedicate this song to you. Edit: thank you for 468 likes!
@corecore6515 жыл бұрын
thank you
@squircle35935 жыл бұрын
Crimson Blue and Orbit, wanna fight?! Shafisnotanerd is mine!!! Back the crap down!
@annahernandez63855 жыл бұрын
Haha seriously 🤭🤭
@vanisharma12765 жыл бұрын
No! I dedicate this song to you! 😂
@bethbearden45075 жыл бұрын
shablegum wahhh- you know this song is about a guy who can’t love himself right???
@azazazz0995 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh. I just realized that in the first chorus, they make us see it as helping and comforting one we love but in the second one, it feels as if we're talking about and to us.
@shamirazoeb.dullas25942 жыл бұрын
I remember I sent this song to my recent ex-boyfriend, right now as I cry to this song it reminds me if the time, I just stood sightlently outside as he got out of his car to hug me tight and sing me the beginning of this song. As I was there crying, I now look back and wishing I could talk to him again and thank him for always being there for me even in the moments I treated him bad. There is not a day I go without missing him and cry. As I've been healing I am just reminded of so many memories of him and me and all I want is for him to be happy. I am learning to trust God in the process, slowly forgiving myself, I think I've forgiven him but it's so much harder to forgive myself. You have always been a favorite artist of mine. I would cry to the songs you make, they remind me of God always being there for me and what I've gone through in life. I'm always praying for the best for my ex-boyfriend. Praying he achieves his dreams and goals. I also showed him the song I wanted for my wedding when I entered the room which is the song "Turning Page" Ever since I saw one of the Twilight movies, I fell in love with that song. Despite the ex-boyfriends I have or the next lovers, I go through in life, or hopefully the next one is the one lol, whenever that may be but ofc I am still healing and am choosing to heal. I want that to be the song I enter with as I walk the aisle. Thank you for the beautiful music you make, may the Lord protect you and inspire you to make more beautiful music that touches all of the depths of our souls. God bless you and Jesus loves you. Your music helps me continue on in life when things get tough, Jesus is the helper and the one I go to but from time to time I just love listening to your songs and it helps me remember that everything will be okay.
@Anahis_764Ай бұрын
any other type 2’s crying their eyes out? just me?
@lucy-bn8fh4 жыл бұрын
Lucy- not just you, love.
@kaylahasbrook59064 жыл бұрын
Kayla Hasbrook ❤️
@lucy-bn8fh4 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone 🥺❤️
@virginiecollin41624 жыл бұрын
Virginie Collin 🥺❤️
@lucy-bn8fh4 жыл бұрын
Lucy 🥺❤️his songs really knows how to make me cry
@virginiecollin41624 жыл бұрын
One of the hardest things is giving all of your love and even when they say they love you you still want more. You want more love more acceptance just more all because you feel empty because you don’t love yourself.
@parast38282 жыл бұрын
I always saw the line “a mighty ocean or a gentle kiss” as “am I the ocean or a gentle kiss” and I feel both hit just as hard and really drive the point through. But gosh do I feel that at times where everything is crashing down or it feels like I can be tender with someone and make them feel better. When im an ocean, its time to help myself but only if others are ok too.
@stardustbits11482 жыл бұрын
Listening to the first verse, I thought this was a song that was meant to comfort type 2s like us and make us feel loved, and I bawled bc I was like this is exactly how I want someone to treat me. Then the comments made me realize that this is me, this is how I act towards others. It made me cry even more bc it made me realize I want the love I give others to be returned to me too, and how frickin lonely that sounds. I want to be loved the same way I love them. I know how it feels to feel like you're unloved and unappreciated so I tend to be that caring and funny friend bc I don't want them feeling the same way. And sometimes, I have this little hope that they'll do the same thing for me. But yanno, there are some who just take it for granted. I just need someone.
@_lostjams_51924 жыл бұрын
As another two, and as someone who has experienced similar things. You are loved and cared for. Remember that you have to love yourself as well. You are one of a kind, and there isn't enough people like you in this world. Keep on caring, and loving. Keep moving. We care.
@thehex27664 жыл бұрын
Just steer clear of the takers. We have no protection against that kind of selfishness.
@bellyfulochelly42224 жыл бұрын
@@bellyfulochelly4222 this right here!!!
@mariospeachey4 жыл бұрын
If you listen to the maker of the song go through the process of making this song, they say “this song is a love note to a 2, from a 2” because this is us, but also what we want.
@nelnellynilth68914 жыл бұрын
Omg you describe why I’m bawling my eyes out rn
@crystaldelarosa91384 жыл бұрын
I know it’s supposed to be about people with the personality type 2, but this song feels comforting. It feels like someone actually cares about you. I keep coming back to this song and I cry every time. It’s sad because they (perspective of the singer) sound so selfless and I want to be there for them too.
@currentlydaydreaming33333 жыл бұрын
That means everything to us twos because this is exactly what we want to do for other people so when a song we are supposed to relate to helps you be comforted it makes my day. I love you random internet stranger.
@lavenderbrown37303 жыл бұрын
I think it’s comforting for a reason, type 2’s lean to be like that supposedly- when I listened to the song (I’m a 2) I really felt like the words were something I’d say and I agree with the other comment that it makes us feel appreciated that you are comforted by something we relate so heavily to in the way we try to be :)) much love
@kit51762 жыл бұрын
Just speaking from my perspective as a Christian this is how I feel like Jesus is like
@MaybeLily12342 жыл бұрын
I think that’s part of the message. Because in the end it’s what Type 2s want for the people they love. They want nothing more than to see their loved ones happy, content, safe, and cared for. Even if the 2’s own life feels like its shearing apart, seeing their “people” happy and safe is a form of catharsis.
@OneBiasedOpinion2 жыл бұрын
But the truth is type 2s only love and don’t accept love in return because we know that we’d only feel disappointed when the other person cant return the love equally so we are fine with just giving it when they need it. Even if we yearn for it, the least painful and disappointing route has always been to just give without expectations.
@katsan9155 Жыл бұрын
This song ripped my heart out and stomped on it. It hits so deep. Always as a kid and even still, I just want to be loved unconditionally.
@br-ken_rec-rd3 ай бұрын
the first two lines are so comforting, it's like i could feel someone cupping the side of my face with their hand and i'm just warming up to them yes i am touch starved someone pls hug me
@creativename15903 жыл бұрын
I wish I could give you a hug but sadly I can't due to the distance of the internet between us but for what it's worth I send you a virtual hug 🤗
@Lucky_AMV3 жыл бұрын
@@Lucky_AMV *hugs u back*
@creativename15903 жыл бұрын
take this virtual hug ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
@3starsburningbright3 жыл бұрын
Have another virtual Hug! 🤗Remember to take care of yourself, not just of others.
@samuelransom44943 жыл бұрын
Have a ghost hug and virtual hug.
@Violet_Jedi_Sylveon2 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I truly believed love and self destruction went hand in hand. I didn't understand why I would get so drained from helping and supporting others. My art consisted of dark themes, mostly of me drowning while others were being held above the water by me. Now I know how to love and be loved. Love isn't destruction, love is creation.
@giat11583 жыл бұрын
I used to draw people laughing, and dancing... but I can't seem to bring myself to draw; at least not the way I used to. Everyone looks kinda dead now. :/
@ohome98932 жыл бұрын
More power and love to you, sweet being. I hope you're in a much better place now.
@Lanzeyyy2 жыл бұрын
"What a privilege it is to love a great honour to hold you up" That line just breaks me every time...
@ryfrz5 жыл бұрын
"and what a privilege is to love, a great honor to hold you up" ♥️
@ameliamanhique30632 жыл бұрын
The sound you hear in the beginning is someone making a bed, and that ties into the hospitable and caring nature of Twos while nodding to the tidy, orderly nature of Ones, which was the song that came before. The ending sound is a dancer practicing, which bridges into the performance theme in the Threes personality. They're fingerprint sounds that the artist hid into these songs, which were sounds that he asked his friends and family to send him in order to incorporate them into songs of their respective types. As if we needed another reason to absolutely love Ryan O'Neal XD the work that went into these songs is crazy!!!
@eckamirceb77294 жыл бұрын
I always thought the end was someone collapsing, like they cared so much about others that they forgot to care for themselves.
@TeenyTonnie4 жыл бұрын
Dang, I thought it was taking off someone’s coat and taking it for them. Holding on the that burden. Taking the weight off their shoulders but that makes sense.
@kaydiallen70524 жыл бұрын
Omg that so crazy cool!
@emmvids69203 жыл бұрын
No waaaaaay!!!! 😭🌿
@dinangerisceballos5723 жыл бұрын
Please write a book!
@xombiesque3 жыл бұрын
Hey... Go easy on yourself, okay ? You're doing the best you can, and that's enough. Tomorrow will be better. I love you :)
@keylasanga96604 жыл бұрын
Hey, I don't think you have any idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much, I really appreciated it❤
@daddlus52743 жыл бұрын
Me too, thank you
@nadrealove9273 жыл бұрын
Thank you..🥺
@eevemira33783 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it feels like I can’t do anything right
@ellagoede26823 жыл бұрын
@@ellagoede2682 honestly I think a lot of ppl do but I promise you, you have your own special thing you are loved trying to smile and keep your head up
@nadrealove9273 жыл бұрын
I think this song on the album best represents God's love for us... unconditional and often unrequited
@amyu6082 Жыл бұрын
I like how the song's real subject isn't evident. It sounds like it's about the person Two is trying to help but in reality it's about Two's innermonologue about how they want to help others but have to put their own agenda on the shelf first and put on the 'mask' that they don't need to be helped, that they're the ones who help others. My dearest Two's... You deserve to have someone help you too. A wall cannot protect others without being mended every so often.
@Khontis2 жыл бұрын
I just want to let you guys know I finally put myself first today. It hurt but it’s for the best.
@hellopeople45493 жыл бұрын
GREAT!! YOURE DOING INCREDIBLE MATE!! keep it up :)
@charleslebowski88783 жыл бұрын
seeing this so late but man am i proud of you. all my love
@violetjustine60183 жыл бұрын
We are so proud of you, keep going you are doing great
@aghabykiwan24903 жыл бұрын
proud of you, angel :)
@boooooooooooop3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you. It’s hard so that’s pretty cool
@AlexFirebaugh3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else feel like this isnt a happy love song? The more times i listen to it the more it sounds like the singer is holding this person up and letting themselves fall down.
@leavethecity89845 жыл бұрын
agalloway.neptune the whole song cycle is based on the personality types of the enneagram, and God bless him, he is doing his homework on all of them. That is the basic definitiom of an enneagram 2: giving and loving, but pathologically unable to ask for help, and constantly trying to earn love instead of believing that it can be given. So yes, I agree with you, and thank you.
@adiposeNarnian5 жыл бұрын
@@adiposeNarnian That makes much more sense-thank you :)
@leavethecity89845 жыл бұрын
agalloway.neptune glad to help!
@adiposeNarnian5 жыл бұрын
leavethecity8 type twos. Will apologize so much. Just to make the other person feel better even if they’re in the wrong.
@JuanTorres-pd7pq5 жыл бұрын
@@adiposeNarnian ♥♥♥♥♥♥
@covadongacuervo58695 жыл бұрын
This is the perfect song. This is the song of my soul, I can't even explain how much this song puts my person into words. "I will love you with every single thing I have - I will love you without any strings attached" I wish my friends knew how much I loved them.
@adleighstrickland29529 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@lilredhaze5558 ай бұрын
Despite being a two, I never connected with this song in the same way I did with some of the others. I think, for me, it rings almost hollow because I am deeply, personally aware of how much pride and resentment can linger under the surface of twos, how we wish that others would give us the same forethought and consideration we give to them. We feel selfish asking for it, and fear that we'll be rejected in our request while still being expected to provide it. I think maybe this is supposed to be showing the outer mask of placidity, with only the tiniest glimpses of the sadness and pain underneath- before that pain turns to anger.
@uhohspaghettios2391 Жыл бұрын
For all the 2’s out there, this isn’t love. Love shouldn’t feel like giving up so much to the point of exhaustion. Sometimes it’s better to look after yourself xx
@mcdreamysbabe11704 жыл бұрын
Hey, thank you for this. I wish people would remind me of this more. Love isn't about sacrificing everything you have without anything in return. I know that now. I only wish I could have known earlier on.
@evan36873 жыл бұрын
@@evan3687 I feel like that too I really like him alot . He only gave us a month
@maryfjackson71393 жыл бұрын
lol
@lord_squiddie3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder. I had to learn this the hard way a few years back, but I think I've come a long way since. Always feels good to have the reminder though😊💙
@KailieCromwell3 жыл бұрын
Love has no specific explanation. I mean it will be different for each one's perspective. If he/she thinks this is love, it's love. U can call it "not" if u hurt someone. But in this case, he/she expresses love by letting someone do that makes them happy.
@juancarlosmanrique1153 жыл бұрын
"i just want to build you up 'til you're good as new and maybe one day, i'll get around to fixing myself too" this line really hits me. i'm often seen, by the people close to me, as the one they can come to for advice, or a shoulder to cry on, and although i am more willing to offer that, it's exhausting holding everbody elses problems on your shoulders. on top of this, i don't easily share mine -i don't want to be a problem. and so, people assume i'm fine. i put all my energy into other people, but give none to myself. this song is a piece of art and really strikes a chord with me.
@freya14465 жыл бұрын
I can relate to every single word you said
@kay71555 жыл бұрын
Same
@justjoy55495 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much. I was always there for everyone and asked nothing in return... the only time I asked for help when I was afraid and alone my friends told me they did not know what to say to me and walked away... I can't even talk to them right now. I am sorry you feel this way to. All the love.
@catarinathebookworm5 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly me too, I was always the counsellor to my friends. The nice, trustworthy guy that could help you out of hard times. My worries for others and my unrealistic attempts to help them, it all came crashing down on me, but I couldn’t stop trying to help, because I knew that they depended on me to be okay. Due to this, I dropped into a low point in my life, and I couldn’t get out, because every time I tried, the weight would pull me down again. This song describes my exact feelings during this time.
@spag32074 жыл бұрын
carrying other people's burdens are so heavy. i know. i'm sorry, too. i hope we all learn to be selfish someday.
@shadowfire044 жыл бұрын
As a two, I can attest that this is incredibly accurate. And.... it's heart-wrenching to hear my own personality spelled out by this musical master, with simple yet profound lyrics and beautiful instrumentation... love this song so much.
@nathanm56532 жыл бұрын
My mom is a two. And there is nothing more encouraging than growing up with a TRULY selfless mom🤍 I can truly say without a doubt, I want to be like my momma when I grow up. She has been such a great example to me and I hope to even be half the mom she is when I’m a mom🥺
@kara_frost_2 жыл бұрын
Imagine being loved like this.... Now that, breaks my heart.
@nataliecampos17324 жыл бұрын
I love like this. And my heart is in so many pieces and places. Its unbearable sometimes.
@daniellebrown99064 жыл бұрын
@@daniellebrown9906 You're right, and no one knows; not a soul knows, though there are other souls that understand. And it can turn the world into such a lonely place too, though we still find ourselves surrounded by people. Our homes are found in them, shelter is given unto them; but how much more often are we ourselves left homeless and unprotected out in the rain? Craving the same love we give. Thank you, Danielle. Your heart may be shattered, but truly, you are a constellation of eternal burning fires; your life is ever so essential to this Earth. Thank you, Danielle. Thank you for more than just the love you give, but also for the air you breathe. 💕 You matter, too, beautiful soul.
@nataliecampos17324 жыл бұрын
I love like this too. Not just with my partner, but my friends and family too. I could care less for myself. So long as theyre happy, so am I
@Penguin_Animates2 жыл бұрын
I want to sing this as a lullaby so I'm gonna put the lyrics here as well:- Sweetheart, you look a little tired When did you last eat? Come in and make yourself right at home Stay as long as you need Tell me, is something wrong? If something's wrong, you can count on me You know I'll take my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat It's okay if you can't find the words Let me take your coat And this weight off of your shoulders Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess Or calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest I know exactly how the rule goes Put my mask on first No, I don't want to talk about myself Tell me where it hurts I just want to build you up, build you up 'Til you're good as new And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too I don't even know where to start Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you without any strings attached And what a privilege it is to love A great honor to hold you up Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess Or calm waters if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached I will love you without a single string attached
@snowa3754 жыл бұрын
Quelqu'un peut traduire ?
@maelle90994 жыл бұрын
Ma ëlle Chéri(e), tu semble un peu fatigué Quand as-tu mangé pour la dernière fois ? Viens et met toi à l'aise à la maison Reste aussi longtemps que tu le veux Dis moi, y a t'il quelque chose qui ne va pas ? Si quelque chose ne va pas tu peux compter sur moi Tu sais, je donnerai mon cœur si cela peut aider le tiens à battre Ce n'est pas grave si tu ne peux pas trouver les mots Laisse moi prendre ton manteau Et ce poids hors de tes épaules Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j’ai Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bazarre Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées Ce n'est pas grave si tu n'arrive pas à respirer Tu peux prendre l'oxygène tout droit sortie de ma poitrine Je sais exactement quelles sont les règles : Mettre mon masque en premier Non, je ne veux pas parler de moi, dis moi ou tu as mal Je veux juste te reconstruire, te reconstruire Jusqu'à ce que tu sois comme neuf Et peux être qu'un jour, je me reconstruirai aussi Je ne sais même pas par où commencer Déjà fatigué d'essayer de recoller quand tout s'est effondré Je veux juste t'aimer, t'aimer, t'aimer fort Je veux juste apprendre comment, quelque part, être aimer moi aussi Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées Et quel privilège c'est d'aimer Un grand honneur de te soutenir Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j'ai Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bizarre Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées
@sarahctd45794 жыл бұрын
@@sarahctd4579 Mercii beaucoup
@maelle90994 жыл бұрын
This had been my comfort song for a very long time now. Everytime i wonder how it feels to be okay. This song helps me.
@janellayumol50212 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: Sweetheart, you look a little tired When did you last eat? Come in and make yourself right at home Stay as long as you need Tell me, is something wrong? If something's wrong you can count on me You know I'll take my heart clean apart If it helps yours beat It's okay if you can't find the words Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess Calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest I know exactly how your rule goes Put my mask on first No, I don't want to talk about myself Tell me where it hurts I just want to build you up, build you up 'Til you're good as new And maybe one day, I'll get around To fixing myself, too I don't even know where to start Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well I just want to learn how to somehow, to be loved myself Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you without any strings attached What a privilege it is to love A great honor to hold you up Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess Calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached I will love you without a single string attached
@sabrinalopez14203 жыл бұрын
❤
@Yuki_yuno10 ай бұрын
I thought this was a simple, beautiful song, but the passage at 1:53 adds *A WHOLE* nother dimension to a reality that should be discussed as well-- the harder task of loving oneself while loving someone else and showing only our best self.
@hina45005 жыл бұрын
Yep, especially 2:12. These songs are based on personality types, and that's the problem with this type of person: they have trouble loving and taking care of themselves.
@Sup-jz2ow5 жыл бұрын
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@geu87645 жыл бұрын
Krystal Everett I think instead of “showing” only your best self, you should work to become your best self :)
@zain40195 жыл бұрын
zain of course, that would be healthy. That's where the issue lies: helping someone love themselves but being unable to do that for yourself.
@hina45005 жыл бұрын
Songs by sleeping at last aren't just simple, beautiful songs.... they are absolutely gorgeous, majestic, breathtaking, angelic,.... they are pure and true excellents.
@denisek.25375 жыл бұрын
*Can't stop thinking about how much this is what my mom wish she could say to me but can't because she doesn't know how to love me and show me notable affection*
@tylerc.arnoux71605 жыл бұрын
Tyler Malfoy - Standall thank you for giving this a new meaning :')
@marirzacervantes62165 жыл бұрын
VIEWING THIS IN A MOTHER'S PERSPECTIVE MAKES IT SO BEATUIFUL THANK YOU SO MUCH
@elenaarnold37305 жыл бұрын
Tyler Malfoy - Standall you read my mind. :')
@swatinambudiri20735 жыл бұрын
Tyler Malfoy - Standall well this view is perfect to make me cry
@kivizade5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you, but I hope you don't take this as a normal "Oh I'm sorry" because I mean it really, because I don't know how to show love to others...
@krussyarts5 жыл бұрын
I'm a mix of two and three. Someone who would give their life to help someone, when they're just as tired and burnt out as them. Two is how we try to help and love people, how we would give it our all just to even make they're day slightly better, whilst three is like the same burnt out person trying to find a reason to be loved themselves. I'm only 12, but I've been told so many great things about how I can draw, which is basically my talent. I've written a book, I've won several art competitions, I've done so many things, but I never felt it was good enough. I've done so many things that sometimes I think maybe I've done enough. Like a comment I saw in the three video: "This song is the definition of gifted kid burnout". I've been told so many good things about how much I've achieved, but sometimes I just really question if I'm worthy of that love anyway. Am I just seen for my talent? My 'gift'?, not for truly who I am as a person? But then, I'm also a two. Two's are caring. They're kind, sweet and nice as a person. I've been torn between being that kid good at art and that nice kid that helps everyone. It's like two sides of me, fighting. I found two first. It was in an animation video I was watching, and the lyrics really hit home. I listened to the song, and then three came up. And it broke me. 'You're golden child grew up' 'maybe I've done enough" "maybe this trophy isn't real love" "worthy of love anyway?" "Its so exhausting" Hit me hard. Basically the whole song did, both two and three. It's hard being almost two completely different people on the Enneagram. But two and three's are practically made for each other. Three questions if they're worthy of love, but two still gives it to them. Sorry for the long rant, just wanted to get it out. Three: Maybe I've done enough, is this trophy even real love, am I worthy of love anyway? Two: Tell me where it hurts. Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders. I will love you without any strings attached.
@gabrielledanalei55572 жыл бұрын
“I just want to learn how to be loved myself.”
@james82284 жыл бұрын
That first sentence got me so weak. Then the melody comes and i just break and cry. This is so beautiful
@rosieposie37126 жыл бұрын
Rosekookislife oh BLACKPINK and BTS? cool!
@spooky80215 жыл бұрын
same.
@silvrbeach5 жыл бұрын
same
@shymaaj12545 жыл бұрын
A couple years ago I found I’m a two. I listened to the song and I cried,it hit deep and depressed me thinking that my love was too much to ever get returned back to me. Now a couple years later I’m engaged and my intense love is always being returned . I promise to any of you that may feel hopeless, it isn’t. You’re so full of love and you deserve to feel loved and taken care of too, never stop loving and make sure to always keep some love for yourself. You deserve it.Everything comes back around. 🖤
@Lionessofmayhem Жыл бұрын
I love the "sweet heart,you look a little tired,when did you last eat?'' part so much.. I wonder if anyone would ever ask me that with so much love in their voice
@pocoloco96882 жыл бұрын
i hope you find the person who does do that, someday. you deserve love too
"I just want to build you up, build you up 'til you're good as new. And maybe one day I'll get around to fixing myself too" I felt that
Father Alpha Same...
Me too
Yup
That hit hard
this one hit a little too hard
This song is for the personality trait of a” giver” which means that you give all you have to make someone else happy even if you’re miserable so this isn’t really a love song
It's more of a struggle for finding self love and the struggles of a Two
it's as if you give everything and think it is fine to not get something back in return. to build up so much stress that you don't even know how to love yourself anymore. where you just get lost and you wouldnt mind as long as another person is happy. it hurts, everybody knows that, because we're all two's.
Koen Ye it doesn’t always hurt I know I always love seeing people happy I am In the middle of sad and happy so nothing really bothers me ya know like I’m happy a lot but sad also but it makes me even more happier knowing people are happp and extra happy when I make them happy
Tbh I’ve never thought of it as a love song, for some reason I thought of it as a father daughter thing
@@dreamwish286 my mother was definitely like this she gave everything to make everyone happy
this song is so powerful, it sounds like a typical love song originally but then the second verse comes and suddenly you start to realize that this song is actually about someone caught in a self destructive pattern of giving all and accepting nothing in return
yep. sounds about right.
That's what makes it love. Both have to do it tho
Guess that's unconditional love
@SHIPLI RANI … Unrequited seems a better fit
@@aubreenickle8530 Kinda both. Unconditional because the Two would love their person regardless of anything. Even through unrequited love , which is the situation they're in in the song.
I will never get over the line "what a privilege it is to love, a great honor to hold you up"
My favorite line too, so inspirational to love someone up so high for everyone to see how special and beautiful they are.
Same here. I absolutely have always loved this line the most .
💜🤟🏽🤟🤟🏻💜❤️
@@wuba5456honouring and loving someone deeply with everything you have(which is very rare❤) doesn't bring down your self esteem.
@@wuba5456It’s my favorite line, too. I didn’t realize what a privilege it was to love the love of my entire lifetime until they were gone.
“No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts” This line hit me hard
me too
Nathan Nieves same
Same
Nathan Nieves me too
It hit really hard
Took the test. Got a two. And I can promise this isn’t a love song XD it’s about how you’re too caring to the point where it’s self destructive.
It is a love song. Its a love song about a person with a type 2s personality doing whatever it takes to make their partner feel loved and safe and not sad or stressed.
@@harliemacdougall466 it's not really a love song though. it's about loving everyone, and caring about everyone, so much so its self destructive. like you want to do everything in your power to help people, and you forget to help yourself along the way. i like your perspective though, and maybe your in love with someone but I really dont have anyone so I dont really consider this a love song between 2 people. I considerate more a love song for everyone.
I think it can have more perspectives, I see it as not giving too much love to yourself bc you are busy with pleasing the rest
I got a two, and in my perspective I see at as 2s would do any to make their partner/friends, anyone they have a good connection with feel pleased happy anything that would give them a smile in their face. 2s would risk their own lives just to save another’s just to make them happy or feel alive. 2s are too nice they care people too much that they forget to take care of them selves that they would have the fear of losing control of their emotions. I’m a two I can certainly agree with this song and comments I really do care about people in my life they are them who make it keep going and they know them selves I’m thank full:)
@@jaydine6336 that's how I've always felt the exact comment
I read something that hit deep; it said Twos love deeply and selflessly but that doesn't mean there aren't any conditions. There is only one. They don't always know about this condition, and they might deny it. But it's that they want to be loved back. They relate to this singer, but they want to be the audience, too.
this hit pretty deep not gonna lie
So I've been reading the comments on this video, and so many people seem like they need to be loved and cared for. I don't know how to help people, but this comment section is one of the nicest I've seen, and after putting some thought into it I thought that maybe if the people here had a place to communicate with other people like them it could help. I decided to create a discord server that's open for anyone here, and is just for people to get help from each other or to talk. I don't want to pressure anyone into joining, nor do I know how it will turn out in practice, it seemed like a good idea in my mind, so I decided to do it. If you want to join, the link is discord.gg/2Bg2EYpghr EDIT: Replaced the link
that’s the sad part, when we first hear it we imagine we are the one being sung to, only to realize we are the singer. the giver of love, not the receiver.
@@kathrynelaine9736 I was the opposite. I've always known I was the singer, but it hit me after reading comments that how I treat others is how I want others to treat me, but it never happens.
@@kathrynelaine9736 Thats exactly what happened to me. I listened to it multiple times mostly imagining im being sung to, and tonight I came back, and unexpectedly it just started hitting differently. Suddenly I could see myself being the singer.
type two’s, you are infinite, in simply the way you are and exist. the way you impact people every moment, the way you connect with others, the kindness and selflessness you radiate, the way you see the world, the way you put your heart and soul into everything you do. but most importantly, in all of the ways that you love. that love will always guide you. and despite it all, you’ve stayed kind. you are rare. it’s what makes you extraordinary, and truly beautiful. no matter how long it may take for you to realize, all of the the love that you’ve put out into the world will always find its way back to you. you live on in the memories, minds, and hearts of others. infinite. - your type two pal :)
You are the kindest, most incandescent person I’ve ever had to meet on this platform; thank you SO much for your kindness, sweet star
Thank you
shit. this is beautiful.
Thank you
I'm sorry, but what do these types mean? How do you know what type you are?
What is funny about two's is that this song is speaking about how we behave, but it also is exactly what we want to hear.
What you just said is how I felt and didn't even know it until I read it 😭😭😭
im a two and this very true i read it and started crying :/
Omg
I feel this so hard, just the opening line makes me cry, I am tired and no I haven’t ate but I’m always the one to ask this question to others
THIS. i'm a 9 but i probably have 2 in my tritype, and god isn't this me
the worst feeling is when you want to cry but no tears come out and it's just this heavy feeling inside your chest
It's because we're so used to being so comfortably numb,let it all out sometimes,it'll really help ..till then don't keep it all to yourself,take care
i have that every day :( i'm always so jealous of people who can just cry when they hurt. i can't let it out, it just keeps building up. even when it feels like it's gonna burst, nothing comes out...
Yesssssss exactlyyyy✨✨
hehe
Jesus christ, get of my soul
this hits different when you're crying and you feel so hopeless. it's like someone is comforting you through their words and there's an invisible hug wrapping around you.
😢
me roght now, also a 9 so basically being depressed is my personality?
yea...
This song is from the perspective of a two and is not necessarily from the perspective of a healthy one
Jesus loves you so much. He can heal the areas of pain you hide. ❤
"It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest" Always resonates so loud and so deep in me. Absolute beauty. Did you ever love someone that much too?
Yeah. It was beautiful. ^_^
Oh yeah... I love people around SO MUCH🥲 and I resonate to this line as well, I even yelled when I saw it.😭
Yes. It ended horrible. I was in love with a narcissist.
@@janedoex1398 been there :-/
Yes…and he died, now he is angel like I always told him he is 🥹 ❤
I think when most people first hear this song, they don’t initially position themselves as the singer. At first you kind of imagine that you are the one being sung to, especially with first lyric being a direct question. I think this is very intentional. I think it represents how “twos” want to be to others what they wish others were to them. They give to others what they never received themselves. And I think that’s pretty beautiful, but also a bit sad.
Agreed it is very beautiful and sad at the same time and it hurts twos when what they give to others is not reciprocated back to them. But yet they continue loving others anyway.
yes yes yes!!!!
:'(
Just listened to the podcast that the artist has about the creation of this song (highly recommend btw-very very informative and fascinating!) But the song is meant as both how the twos give to others and as a love song back to twos as a reminder that they need to take care of themselves
I actually did think this at first, as a two myself. It made me cry first time I listened to it.
“It’s okay if you can’t catch your own breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest” This line hits hard. I started crying at this part.
That line kills me everytime. That's exactly how it feels to give everything to/for someone.
Me too, me too
Me too. I really felt that.
I heard the first line and knew it would hit heard and started bawling my eyes out
Me too..
As a two who has been trying and making progress on the road of recovery and self love, i dedicate this song to my inner child. Have it child.
And here I am feeling sorry for myself because the one I’m with, as with many before, doesn’t seem to love/ accept me enough, but really I could stand to love myself this unconditionally.😢
I’m in the same place.
Yes!
Yes! 🙌💛😭 Let us learn to love ourselves as much as we love everyone else
😁 That made me genuinely smile - so thank you 😊 And have a wonderful day ^^
I'm not a two, but my best friend, my platonic soul mate, is a two, and imagining her singing this to me literally made me start crying.
Trust me she loves you with her whole heart. I hope you show her how much you love her, it says with no strings attached but we 2's wanna be loved back or at least shown that we are thought about at random times
THIS.
same
"It's okay if you can't catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my chest" That's the sweetest line I've heard in a long time. This song, I swear. It really makes my heart go soft.
Eunice I feel like that line sounds sweet on the surface, but it’s actually talking about the person self sacrificing, for the other person to be okay, even if it comes at the expense of the other person’s oxygen, at the expense of that person not having enough for himself. which isn’t sweet or healthy. I interpreted this line as something maybe a not so healthy two might say, just because it’s something I absolutely believed in 100% before I realized it was actually damaging to put other people’s needs above your own.
@@mariee_e That's actually a pretty good interpretation. That makes perfect sense as well. We all have our own way of interpreting and understanding things anyways, and I'm happy to hear different perspectives on this song :)
Yours and mine
Ugh sammee, agreee!
Eunice Yes!! :) ❤️❤️❤️
The saddest parts of this song aren't the lyrics or the melody, it's the fact that I thought this was what love was. I thought love existed in self-destruction, in sacrifice without anything in return. I thought love was "no, I don't wanna talk about myself, tell me where it hurts" I thought it was "I just wanna build you up, build you up, 'til you're good as new and maybe one day I'll get around to fixing my self, too". This isn't love, it never was and that's the saddest part.
:,((
ColdFridgePizza same 😓 but that was beautiful and you wrote something that I’ve been trying to put into words for the longest time. I hope your ok and I’m happy u realized it as sad as it is
lord, your comment though!!! this hit me hard really :(:(
I've seen you post on other emotional songs, and I resonate with you deeply. 💕
@@ailanygutierrez6329 I'm glad I could put into words what you've been feeling for a long time. I'm okay and I'm happy too
Its fascinating to me how before the song starts, you can hear something is going on, rustling or taking a deep breath and the singer starts to sing. Shows how the singer, would drop everything to prioritise someone else, mentally and physically. The singer also uses a different tone or note when he sings about himself, it goes much quieter whenever he mentions himself. Some of the examples would be my own chest, put my mask on first, fixing myself too and to be loved myself. Like the singer has his own issues that he'd rather hide and keep secret about. Throughout the song, there is also a sense of exasperated? in the way the singer sings to his significant other. To tell and assure that they are loved, they are safe and that the singer would move heaven and earth for them. Exasperated in a good way? Idk the exact adjective to describe it. Like the feeling you get when you're explaining something to someone and getting so breathless and fired up but them being clueless still. And after the song ends, you can hear the singer releasing a breath or rustling about. Other songs on this project dont really have that bits left out, but I can be wrong. That last bit as if to indicate, the song has now end and the singer can take off their mask because during the song singer represses their emotions and feelings and basically put on masks to comfort others.
Each song in this series starts with the sound effect of someone in Ryan's life that matches up with the enneagram type that's being focused on. If I remember correctly the rustling at the start is his wife making a bed, as his wife is a Type 2.
"You and your brother," She said ", are bound by something stronger than fate, and stronger than death." She dropped her hands and stepped back. The distance between them was a chasm. "One is gone, but not forever. One is gone, but not the other." -Kristen, Passerine.
Dont mind me, just gonna go re-read it and fuckin sob my eyes out (:
Pain
@@butter3d_t0ast Same I can't get pass chapter 2 without crying
:(
STOOOOP I LITERALLY WILL CRY
Some see a love song, I see a plea for help. I relate to the lyrics. Being so broken and unable to love yourself so you desperately build others up in hope of some sort of reciprocation happening. The part where the singer refuses to talk about himself hints at this disconnection happening inside him due to years of devoting everything unto others except himself. I am in love.
Well, that's the beautiful thing about songs like these. Some see a loving, devoted partner wanting to do everything to make sure their partner is happy. No matter what. Whereas some people see someone tearing themselves up to make someone shine brighter. I understand both and see both. This song is immaculate.
Jayce D'rick I know how you feel, if you ever need to talk my Instagram dms are always open; bbydoll.gnv
Jayce D'rick I understand it as well, love hurts
On the Enneagram test I'm a 2 and what you said is what I live threw all the time. I try finding self worth in helping others. To a point I became suicidal. I had to get professional help to be able to over come that. I still struggle finding the balance because its who I am to want to help people.
What you wrote is really wise. I understand what you mean.
This song gives me the feeling of finally being asked “are you ok?” By someone who actually wants to listen rather than asking because they feel obligated. Like the weight of the world in finally lifted Edit: yes I’m ok and doing better
you ok?
The song didn't make me cry this comment did oof my heart 😔
woah... relatable
Me too... 😭
Exactly. If someone asks me if I'm ok or if something's wrong I breakdown
My wife is a 2. This song describes her perfectly. I know how lucky I am to have her in my life. I may not have always been perfect throughout my life, but she loves me despite it. She lifts me to places I have never been before, and makes me feel a love like I have never felt in my life. She tells me I love her well, and I hope she is telling me the truth because she deserves to be treated well. She is light, love, hope, kindness, faith, empathy, humanity, and compassion. Every single day of her life. She is the warmth in my bones. I tell her everyday how much I appreciate her sensitive soul, and just how lucky I am to have her love me. I will tell her every single day until my last breath.
Thank you for appreciating her so much! 😢
Adam, God Bless you for being able to feel & express your love & gratitude to your wife. Heartfelt ❤
You're both lucky to have found each other. I'm happy for you.
"And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too." That line hit me hard. I feel like as a type two, we help others not only for them but also ourselves. We seek validation in a way that if we can "fix" them, maybe one day we'll realize what is the solution to fixing our own problems ans hardships.
This isn't a love song However.. ..if you are a type 2, then technically...this *is* a love song..Because it's the only love you know how to give
YES!!!! I mean I put everyone above me but I dont get nth bacck but Im just glad all my friends happy. Sometimes I do feel like if I dont deserve to be as alone as I personally am
Truth.
This needs more likes this is amazing
this comment hit me hard
OUCH
"Sweetheart you look a little tired. When did you last eat?" that hurt
Victoria Aguirre - i feel it every time i listen to this song
I saw that at the start and was like yep I'm in the right place LMAOO
ikr... damn
felt that.
Im eating rn -_-
It's wild how at the start of the song, I immediately put myself only in the singer's shoes. And it isn't until the 2:17 mark that I realized how much I wanted to be the person being sung to, as well. Ryan absolutely 1000% understood the assignment when creating these songs for each of the enneagram types, I am in tears thank u sir
To someone in a relationship this might be a good reminder to take care of your own needs. But as a mom whose son died 6 months ago, this song says every single thing in my heart. I would have given my last breath to help him. I sob every time I listen to it, but it is beautiful and perfect.
Hey i hope you are at least a little ok and have people who are there for you, especially in a time like this💜
I’m so sorry, as a parent I honestly don’t want to imagine the immense soul shattering grief you must feel. I immediately thought of my child, too.
i'm truly sorry about it. hope your pain heals, and you get the love and care you need for that
So sorry for ur loss , souls of kids who die r taken to a garden where they live under guardianship of Prophet Abraham or Ibrahim peace be upon him , they live there until they r resurrected n then entered into paradise kzhead.info/sun/a9Kle8eJi5agjGg/bejne.html
song: ”sweetheart-” me: *ugly sobbing
This song isn’t a love song. It’s about “the giver” type of persons and how they worry more about other people than themselves. Like me. I’m sobbing right now
Hey! Another type 2 here. Hope you're feeling great and ready to tackle the day ahead of ya! Stay safe and keep on lovin those around ya and take some time to love and take care of yourself too! Toodles👋🏻
I feel really bad for people who are type 2, but I just can't stand being near them. I can't stand when someone tries to help others while they're broken to pieces. The worst is when they deny it. It just... breaks my heart. I can't just stay there and watch them smile as they crumble to ashes. I guess what I'm trying to say is... take care. We care about you too, even when we sound rude.
its crazy how im not generally the self destructing giver type of a person for everyone, but would completely wreck myself for that one special person- over and over again.
This song is the musical version of being given a hug and told that everything is going to be okay.
I've always imagined myself as the singer, because when I'm cared for, I feel greedy, like I need to give back in some way and say thank you constantly, so eventually I just stopped being the receiver at all, two's are givers, sometimes to the point of exhaustion, they give until nothing is left, they dont fix themselves to focus on others, they believe that their problems aren't as a bad and therefore unworthy of being resolved, so they bundle it up and put it in the back of their heads, putting all their focus and fixating on someone else in need of help, to distract them from their own burdens. It isnt love, it usually is a distraction.
I dont think its necessarily a distraction.. given that often its so painful to help others.
as a two dont really think its a distraction, i see giving as my way of giving other people what i so desperately wish for everyday: lots of pure straightfoward gentle love kindness and compassion
i’m going to be completely honest i’m a 2 and i just realized how true this is for my friends i would stay up with them until 3am if i had too just to make them feel better but when i’m feeling sad no one rlly knows bc i don’t make a big deal of it and when i get home i sit here and cry and i check my phone and there r no messages so i’m just sitting there alone staring at my ceiling and wondering if anyone actually cares. ok so it is now been 6 months since i wrote that message but when i wrote that i was at a tough time in my life i had lost my grandma and grandpa and now that i’m looking back at all of these comments i realized ppl can relate... rn i am doing perfectly fine and some advice i can give to u guys is to find something that u feel passionate about and focus on that for me it was video game... thank you for reading and god bless u all
You might be a stranger to me but, I care about you. I know that there are lots of people who care about you
This hits close to home
joe mama what i’m doing right now.....
holy shit thats always me
You basically just described my whole life. I may not know who you are, but I care about you.
helping people and ruining yourself in the process only to realise they wouldn't do the same for you
Ouch
I felt that
The point is that no one should ruin themselves for someone else, not that everyone should
@@Rachel-og8jy when did i say everyone should? i was just talking about an experience i had in the past that some people found relatable
y u gotta do me like that
I cry to this for different reasons, 1, I'm hurt. 2, I feel like I'm always there for everybody and yea, I do it cause I love them, but sometimes it'd be nice to have someone love and care for me in the same way but I will never say that aloud. 3, nobody understands me.
if you want you can reply, will listen and maybe i wont understand but it will be heard by a random person on the internet
That is exactly how if feel. It sounds selfish, but I’m so giving and thoughtful, so selfless and am a people pleaser. And I’m not even looking for recognition or credit or whatever… I don’t even know what I’m looking for.. maybe attention? Appreciation? Myself?
You are understood here. Stay strong. Sometimes tell someone close to you about it. Its okay to do so.
@@TheThora17 being cared for and being loved. As someone who is not a 2 and having a wife that is a 2 I can say that you guys give that much love and attention (I'd say plenty of time uncall for and not needed) because you have an extra need to receive that loved back, you are loving the way you'd like to be loved back. Sadly the non 2 types out there dont have to that degree the need of love, apreciation and care, nor can we give it or are willing to. It's a priorities problem. We have to compromise, I do every now and then the extra loving thing for my wife because she really needs it and enjoys it, but I just can't do it or want to do it to the degree or frecuency she feels she "needs". Same way for her with my extra needs.
@@cristiancouso6938 that makes sense- thank you🌸
This reminds me of my grandma who passed away recently at 91, she survived two heart attacks, one at home and one in the hospital and then she died due to an untreated UTI. It went septic the day they sent her home. She was such a kind person and always had a beautiful smile, she put everyone way before herself and always thought the world of her family. I will never forget her. She was like a mother to me as she raised me unlike my biological mother, well my dad has always been there for me too. I’ll miss her so much, I spoke at her funeral and I broke down crying when I talked about how much I wanted to just wake up and see her in her chair again. I’ve been thinking about sharing my story to spread awareness on how hospitals treat the elderly.
😢 How are you doing now?
I would love to hear your story.Your story will connect with a few people and impact them as well which sounds like a blessing.
“What a privilege it is to love” it makes you think.
yeah true
omg so true
I don't think we understand just how intensely unique the emotion of love is. To have such an unwavering attraction to another individual aside from yourself because they simply are them, is powerful. It's an honor to encounter this intense experience like no other. To think some deny this emotions existence, that it's a construct of society and economy.. No. It has been deep within human capacity since we reached this level of intelligence. And type twos just know how love works.
This song hits different after you find out you're actually a two.
omg ikr or if you knew you were a two before hearing the sing but coming back to the song after doing something very two-ish hits different too
i know! i though i was a 6 but turns out i'm at 2w3
can i be enlightened on what 2 is?
@@woahhello9167 a two is an enneagran number. 2's are the caregivers.
@@ellahawkins6178 thanks
I jokingly say “I’m a 2 in Recovery.” I had a dream awhile back… In it a friend and I were talking about a super stressful and upsetting thing I was experiencing. Though it was still happening in real life, the dream conversation was referring to it in the past tense. In the dream I asked my friend “Are you mad I didn’t tell you about X? Was I right or wrong to wait until it was over?” The friend looked at me and in grief said “You robbed us of the chance to love you.” I started sharing the situation with friends the next day. Really glad I did, they were a huge support and made things so much more bearable.
I'm feeling burnt out from loving unconditionally. I feel like I can't recharge as people keep taking, and I can't say no. This song is the beginning of me taking back control. It's hard, though. It's hard to feel like I am being selfish. I hope I can love myself as much as I love others. I hope I can feel love too.
I'm here too, I'm the same way. I want to befriend the people like this, and give to and love them so they don't give up on loving at all. I wish you well. If you need a friend I am here. If you need to vent I don't judge. Don't lose yourself, but please don’t give up on being kind.
@Natalia Barnett it's a tough spot to be in when you give so much, but then feel like you don't receive any in return. Luckily, I've been focusing on how I can move forward. It's come to the point where I need to possibly get rid of a friend in my life who has been a big source of these issues. I had to talk with many people to realize that he was using me, and it wasn't healthy for me to give in all the time. Thank you, Natalia, for responding and offering to be someone I can vent to. I bet you are feeling like this as well, and I would love to be someone you can talk to as well. You have value, and it's not in what you can do for others. You have value because you are you.
You feel burnt out because truly, you are "just" a human being. You can't love unconditionally.
I feel like no relationship will ever be healthy for me because I’m too eager to give myself away, and it’s nobody’s fault but mine.
Yes. This.
Hey! As a type 2 in a healthy relationship, my advice is to go slow. Get to know the other person slowly, give yourself the time to think about the way you feel towards your potential partner. You can tell them straight up that you have a tendency to care for others and to put them before you and your well being. When you'll open up slowly to them, they'll be aware of the reason why you are doing that. Hopefully they'll respect your way of thinking. That will show honesty, transparency and emotional maturity on your part and respect on theirs. I think it's a blessing to be a type 2 because we have so much love to give to everybody, even to ourselves. We just need to find balance between the rest of the world and us, and learn that it's okay to be loved and allow other people to help us love ourselves. Be hopeful.
this is everything i couldn’t put in words
My advice, get to know yourself first, try to love yourself more... it ain’t easy... it took me 9 years.... i don’t want to get myself in relationship with a mindset I don’t need to be loved as much as i do for him...but after all those years you spent loving yourself, your true self is still there, and sometimes you love other people more than they do, and it hurts you, but as long as you remember that you need to be loved too, you will speak up to him/her, and the right person will give you all the love you need. Good luck to you my friend
Fran Shadow thank you so much, i’ll keep that all in mind 💘✨
My lovely type two, You tend to love people like nobody else does. You really live to help us connect with our hearts. You are nurturing, emotionally inteligent and seriously, you are the embrace of all that is good in us. You understand people better than people understand themselves, you are empathetic, generous and supportive. You totally give yourself to your inner work, you minimise your needs and you give yourself away. I know it is devastating for you to acknowledge that you have needs but it is totally OK to admit that you crave love. It is time you realise that people around you appreciate and love you even though you do not. You need to understand that you have to love yourself as much as you love the others. You are one of a kind, gorgeous, sweet, enough and worthy for all the love in the world. I know it hurts when people take you for granted and that you fear rejection more than anything. It is totally OK to say no sometimes even though your heart is so big and forgiving that you would be willing to give people endless chances. You are not weak for loving the others, your love is a superpower that not many people know how to handle. Your key word is love, the superpower to handle love at its best. Use it to change the world! Yours sincerely, type two friend UPDATE: I am on instagram @tirucatalina for anyone who wants someone to talk to.
Wow... Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
I’m not a 2 but trying to help one.....Your note confuses me. I thought the pride of thinking they are the most loving is one of the issues of a 2? So why would it be helpful to tell them over and over that they are the most loving?
@@shelierichardson4165 because we are loving, and on our way to love everyone we forget to love ourselves. We don't actually realise how loving we are... we just do it. Of course, when we are toxic we do it for our self purpose, we love to get it back... but our aim is to be healthy and love just because we enjoy loving. Hope it helps!
Hey... I fell like this could be something my older self writted for me, Thank you, realy, thank you 🥺❤❤
I teared up as I was reading this and the music was in the background. I felt this. Thank you.
"i will love you without a single string attached." that line felt like a knife straight through the heart.
"I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself" That line hits hard, partly because it's so relatable
I definitely don't see this as a love song. As a 2, I hear this song for what it is; a desperate cry to be loved in the same way the singer loves other people. In most of my relationships, I'm the "helper". The "oh you're so great to talk to" the "you're such a good listener" and "wow, you're really good at giving advice". I've never really felt like I COULD open up to other people and feel needy. It's more a feeling of "as long as everyone else is happy and loved and healthy, that's what matters" but deep down you have this intrinsic need to just be wanted. No, this isn't a love song.
I see the relationship displayed in the song it more of a patriarchal on anyways
Laik I know how you feel 😪
I'm sorry but what is a two
@@aaqib6177 one of the enneagram test types (which this song is based off of) that goes through the numbers 1-9
Laik that’s exactly how I see it
“I will love you without any strings attached.” _”You know I’d tear my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat”_ *” I just want to build you up until you’re good as new.”*
🥺🥺
i just want to love you, and maybe, somehow, learn how to be loved myself.
Omg
For all the twos out there: sing this to yourself in the mirror because you deserve love too
“It’s okay if you can’t catch your breath - you can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest” that’s such a deep, powerful line. You just feel that one
Okay twos, let's all love each other so we can each feel loved ourselves. We all know we need it. ❤
Twos unite
Candiewrapper, whoever you are, wherever you are, I do love you. :3 A two.
I'm a two and I love you all. You guys are such amazing and compassionate people
I needed this comment so much. Thank youu ❤
Me and my bf are both 2's and honestly we give our all for eachother but at the same time receive the same love we give, it balances out and honestly this is the happiest I've ever been in my life
"I know exactly how the rule goes; put my mask on first." As a two with OCD, that line hit super hard because sometimes my mind makes rules for giving and receiving love that really hurt me.
What's OCD?
@@proto6086 Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is different for everyone who has it, but for me, my mind makes rigorous rules and systems that I have to follow, otherwise I fear I am going to get hurt. What I meant in my comment is that my mind makes a set of rules for how I can give and receive love, and if I don't follow through with the rules, I feel as though I am undeserving of love.
This is so accurate! Twos just want to make everyone around them happy because we feel this enormous empathy to all around us. But what we’re scared to admit is that we what that to and that feeling like nobody appreciates our help and devotion is suffocating
I’m a type 2. I feel this. I feel like crying.
I cried when I got halfway through it.
I cried
I cried in the few first seconds
samsara shyangdan dame
What test?
As a type 2 even tho this is how we act, I feel like the beginning is what we all want to hear in the end from other people.
witchyyeol agreed
Yup 😢💜💜 Btw I love ur name and pfp 😂
I’m sorry I probably sound really rude, but what type 2 do you mean? 🤔
@@fallingskies8991 Enneagram test, it tells you which type you are and this song matches it
You can shut your gorgeous face with your truth telling. I really don't feel like crying anymore, lol
I always view this song as somebody finding a person who’s recently gone through the same trauma as them. They’re experienced in how to feel better, so they take in this newly traumatized person and heal them with the thought that it will heal themself as well
Listening to this whilst reading Two on Ice chapter 26 is a magical experience
Dear Twos, Beautiful Souls, sometimes, it is okay to be the one who takes. Because you never know, in some moments, taking equals giving. I love you ♡
I love you soo much😭💕
Love you too!
You made me cry. I saw this comment and I started to cry 😭
"And i just want to love you, to love you well. I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself."
This song was the ultimate call out I think I needed, my boyfriend of a few months introduced me to this artist so we can try to gain a better understanding of each other and from hearing these it helped us open up more and ever since he has been helping me break my unhealthy habits of keeping everything to myself. I never thought a song could help so much but this really is a blessing and I thank you greatly for this beautiful song.
My boyfriend is a two, I’m a six, and after listening to this song a couple times, I finally get the way he feels about me, it just took a while to get through my own self doubt in out relationship. I feel so lucky to have such an amazing guy at my side who is completely willing to give anything to me, and now I’m ready to give my all to him without any doubt. This is amazing.
How are you guys doing now? I am a two, who is looking to be in a relationship with someone I know very close, and want to know if you had any advice or insight from your guys' relationship
There's nothing more angelic in the world than his voice
I know something more angelic, at least as angelic as his voice: Jón Þór Birgisson's voice.
Reine Ebeneser I dunno man Mike Wazowski has a pretty angelic voice
The Spooky Animator I will listen to him then. (:
Reine Ebeneser he/she is talking about the one eyed funny monster from monster inc.
Shrabani Dash Why am I so stupid.
okay but "put my mask on first" is even more relevant now
No matter how or whatever you wanna do, put your mask on first 😅
IT TOOK ME A MINUTE FKJXND BUT YES
OMG YES
This really aged like fine wine, huh
Olivia D lol yeah
I'm listening this again thanks to a mango called Two on Ice wich I'm almost certain hint that the music use in the story in the last chapter (26) is this one. Such a great song !
This makes me daydream of having someone there for me. A *best* friend. And I feel so, *so* good inside. But when the song ended I felt lonely. I am very glad I came across this so I could feel better even for a few minutes
Same
are you okay? i love you so much
@@samhitabanerjee5342 I’m managing, thank you, really ☺️
“I know exactly how the rule goes, put my mask on first. No I don’t want to talk about myself, tell me where it hurts” You treat others the way you want to be treated but you never give them the opportunity to wipe your tears away because you never show them.
I feel that.
never giving others the opportunity to care for me because I never let them know when I need their care. sometimes I could really use a friend. just sit with me and allow me soak in the experience of that moment, but it seems no one is really ever there then. smiles.
im the 666th like, idk why but i feel a lil happy so here is the comment :)
So true.
Sometimes the 2 people put into a relationship what they can. All that matters is not who put what, it matters did they put their heart & sole in & love eachother.
dear unknown lover, I dedicate this song to you. Edit: thank you for 468 likes!
thank you
Crimson Blue and Orbit, wanna fight?! Shafisnotanerd is mine!!! Back the crap down!
Haha seriously 🤭🤭
No! I dedicate this song to you! 😂
shablegum wahhh- you know this song is about a guy who can’t love himself right???
Oh my gosh. I just realized that in the first chorus, they make us see it as helping and comforting one we love but in the second one, it feels as if we're talking about and to us.
I remember I sent this song to my recent ex-boyfriend, right now as I cry to this song it reminds me if the time, I just stood sightlently outside as he got out of his car to hug me tight and sing me the beginning of this song. As I was there crying, I now look back and wishing I could talk to him again and thank him for always being there for me even in the moments I treated him bad. There is not a day I go without missing him and cry. As I've been healing I am just reminded of so many memories of him and me and all I want is for him to be happy. I am learning to trust God in the process, slowly forgiving myself, I think I've forgiven him but it's so much harder to forgive myself. You have always been a favorite artist of mine. I would cry to the songs you make, they remind me of God always being there for me and what I've gone through in life. I'm always praying for the best for my ex-boyfriend. Praying he achieves his dreams and goals. I also showed him the song I wanted for my wedding when I entered the room which is the song "Turning Page" Ever since I saw one of the Twilight movies, I fell in love with that song. Despite the ex-boyfriends I have or the next lovers, I go through in life, or hopefully the next one is the one lol, whenever that may be but ofc I am still healing and am choosing to heal. I want that to be the song I enter with as I walk the aisle. Thank you for the beautiful music you make, may the Lord protect you and inspire you to make more beautiful music that touches all of the depths of our souls. God bless you and Jesus loves you. Your music helps me continue on in life when things get tough, Jesus is the helper and the one I go to but from time to time I just love listening to your songs and it helps me remember that everything will be okay.
any other type 2’s crying their eyes out? just me?
Lucy- not just you, love.
Kayla Hasbrook ❤️
You’re not alone 🥺❤️
Virginie Collin 🥺❤️
Lucy 🥺❤️his songs really knows how to make me cry
One of the hardest things is giving all of your love and even when they say they love you you still want more. You want more love more acceptance just more all because you feel empty because you don’t love yourself.
I always saw the line “a mighty ocean or a gentle kiss” as “am I the ocean or a gentle kiss” and I feel both hit just as hard and really drive the point through. But gosh do I feel that at times where everything is crashing down or it feels like I can be tender with someone and make them feel better. When im an ocean, its time to help myself but only if others are ok too.
Listening to the first verse, I thought this was a song that was meant to comfort type 2s like us and make us feel loved, and I bawled bc I was like this is exactly how I want someone to treat me. Then the comments made me realize that this is me, this is how I act towards others. It made me cry even more bc it made me realize I want the love I give others to be returned to me too, and how frickin lonely that sounds. I want to be loved the same way I love them. I know how it feels to feel like you're unloved and unappreciated so I tend to be that caring and funny friend bc I don't want them feeling the same way. And sometimes, I have this little hope that they'll do the same thing for me. But yanno, there are some who just take it for granted. I just need someone.
As another two, and as someone who has experienced similar things. You are loved and cared for. Remember that you have to love yourself as well. You are one of a kind, and there isn't enough people like you in this world. Keep on caring, and loving. Keep moving. We care.
Just steer clear of the takers. We have no protection against that kind of selfishness.
@@bellyfulochelly4222 this right here!!!
If you listen to the maker of the song go through the process of making this song, they say “this song is a love note to a 2, from a 2” because this is us, but also what we want.
Omg you describe why I’m bawling my eyes out rn
I know it’s supposed to be about people with the personality type 2, but this song feels comforting. It feels like someone actually cares about you. I keep coming back to this song and I cry every time. It’s sad because they (perspective of the singer) sound so selfless and I want to be there for them too.
That means everything to us twos because this is exactly what we want to do for other people so when a song we are supposed to relate to helps you be comforted it makes my day. I love you random internet stranger.
I think it’s comforting for a reason, type 2’s lean to be like that supposedly- when I listened to the song (I’m a 2) I really felt like the words were something I’d say and I agree with the other comment that it makes us feel appreciated that you are comforted by something we relate so heavily to in the way we try to be :)) much love
Just speaking from my perspective as a Christian this is how I feel like Jesus is like
I think that’s part of the message. Because in the end it’s what Type 2s want for the people they love. They want nothing more than to see their loved ones happy, content, safe, and cared for. Even if the 2’s own life feels like its shearing apart, seeing their “people” happy and safe is a form of catharsis.
But the truth is type 2s only love and don’t accept love in return because we know that we’d only feel disappointed when the other person cant return the love equally so we are fine with just giving it when they need it. Even if we yearn for it, the least painful and disappointing route has always been to just give without expectations.
This song ripped my heart out and stomped on it. It hits so deep. Always as a kid and even still, I just want to be loved unconditionally.
the first two lines are so comforting, it's like i could feel someone cupping the side of my face with their hand and i'm just warming up to them yes i am touch starved someone pls hug me
I wish I could give you a hug but sadly I can't due to the distance of the internet between us but for what it's worth I send you a virtual hug 🤗
@@Lucky_AMV *hugs u back*
take this virtual hug ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
Have another virtual Hug! 🤗Remember to take care of yourself, not just of others.
Have a ghost hug and virtual hug.
When I was younger I truly believed love and self destruction went hand in hand. I didn't understand why I would get so drained from helping and supporting others. My art consisted of dark themes, mostly of me drowning while others were being held above the water by me. Now I know how to love and be loved. Love isn't destruction, love is creation.
I used to draw people laughing, and dancing... but I can't seem to bring myself to draw; at least not the way I used to. Everyone looks kinda dead now. :/
More power and love to you, sweet being. I hope you're in a much better place now.
"What a privilege it is to love a great honour to hold you up" That line just breaks me every time...
"and what a privilege is to love, a great honor to hold you up" ♥️
The sound you hear in the beginning is someone making a bed, and that ties into the hospitable and caring nature of Twos while nodding to the tidy, orderly nature of Ones, which was the song that came before. The ending sound is a dancer practicing, which bridges into the performance theme in the Threes personality. They're fingerprint sounds that the artist hid into these songs, which were sounds that he asked his friends and family to send him in order to incorporate them into songs of their respective types. As if we needed another reason to absolutely love Ryan O'Neal XD the work that went into these songs is crazy!!!
I always thought the end was someone collapsing, like they cared so much about others that they forgot to care for themselves.
Dang, I thought it was taking off someone’s coat and taking it for them. Holding on the that burden. Taking the weight off their shoulders but that makes sense.
Omg that so crazy cool!
No waaaaaay!!!! 😭🌿
Please write a book!
Hey... Go easy on yourself, okay ? You're doing the best you can, and that's enough. Tomorrow will be better. I love you :)
Hey, I don't think you have any idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you so much, I really appreciated it❤
Me too, thank you
Thank you..🥺
Sometimes it feels like I can’t do anything right
@@ellagoede2682 honestly I think a lot of ppl do but I promise you, you have your own special thing you are loved trying to smile and keep your head up
I think this song on the album best represents God's love for us... unconditional and often unrequited
I like how the song's real subject isn't evident. It sounds like it's about the person Two is trying to help but in reality it's about Two's innermonologue about how they want to help others but have to put their own agenda on the shelf first and put on the 'mask' that they don't need to be helped, that they're the ones who help others. My dearest Two's... You deserve to have someone help you too. A wall cannot protect others without being mended every so often.
I just want to let you guys know I finally put myself first today. It hurt but it’s for the best.
GREAT!! YOURE DOING INCREDIBLE MATE!! keep it up :)
seeing this so late but man am i proud of you. all my love
We are so proud of you, keep going you are doing great
proud of you, angel :)
Proud of you. It’s hard so that’s pretty cool
Anyone else feel like this isnt a happy love song? The more times i listen to it the more it sounds like the singer is holding this person up and letting themselves fall down.
agalloway.neptune the whole song cycle is based on the personality types of the enneagram, and God bless him, he is doing his homework on all of them. That is the basic definitiom of an enneagram 2: giving and loving, but pathologically unable to ask for help, and constantly trying to earn love instead of believing that it can be given. So yes, I agree with you, and thank you.
@@adiposeNarnian That makes much more sense-thank you :)
agalloway.neptune glad to help!
leavethecity8 type twos. Will apologize so much. Just to make the other person feel better even if they’re in the wrong.
@@adiposeNarnian ♥♥♥♥♥♥
This is the perfect song. This is the song of my soul, I can't even explain how much this song puts my person into words. "I will love you with every single thing I have - I will love you without any strings attached" I wish my friends knew how much I loved them.
❤️❤️❤️
Despite being a two, I never connected with this song in the same way I did with some of the others. I think, for me, it rings almost hollow because I am deeply, personally aware of how much pride and resentment can linger under the surface of twos, how we wish that others would give us the same forethought and consideration we give to them. We feel selfish asking for it, and fear that we'll be rejected in our request while still being expected to provide it. I think maybe this is supposed to be showing the outer mask of placidity, with only the tiniest glimpses of the sadness and pain underneath- before that pain turns to anger.
For all the 2’s out there, this isn’t love. Love shouldn’t feel like giving up so much to the point of exhaustion. Sometimes it’s better to look after yourself xx
Hey, thank you for this. I wish people would remind me of this more. Love isn't about sacrificing everything you have without anything in return. I know that now. I only wish I could have known earlier on.
@@evan3687 I feel like that too I really like him alot . He only gave us a month
lol
Thanks for the reminder. I had to learn this the hard way a few years back, but I think I've come a long way since. Always feels good to have the reminder though😊💙
Love has no specific explanation. I mean it will be different for each one's perspective. If he/she thinks this is love, it's love. U can call it "not" if u hurt someone. But in this case, he/she expresses love by letting someone do that makes them happy.
"i just want to build you up 'til you're good as new and maybe one day, i'll get around to fixing myself too" this line really hits me. i'm often seen, by the people close to me, as the one they can come to for advice, or a shoulder to cry on, and although i am more willing to offer that, it's exhausting holding everbody elses problems on your shoulders. on top of this, i don't easily share mine -i don't want to be a problem. and so, people assume i'm fine. i put all my energy into other people, but give none to myself. this song is a piece of art and really strikes a chord with me.
I can relate to every single word you said
Same
I can relate to this so much. I was always there for everyone and asked nothing in return... the only time I asked for help when I was afraid and alone my friends told me they did not know what to say to me and walked away... I can't even talk to them right now. I am sorry you feel this way to. All the love.
That’s exactly me too, I was always the counsellor to my friends. The nice, trustworthy guy that could help you out of hard times. My worries for others and my unrealistic attempts to help them, it all came crashing down on me, but I couldn’t stop trying to help, because I knew that they depended on me to be okay. Due to this, I dropped into a low point in my life, and I couldn’t get out, because every time I tried, the weight would pull me down again. This song describes my exact feelings during this time.
carrying other people's burdens are so heavy. i know. i'm sorry, too. i hope we all learn to be selfish someday.
As a two, I can attest that this is incredibly accurate. And.... it's heart-wrenching to hear my own personality spelled out by this musical master, with simple yet profound lyrics and beautiful instrumentation... love this song so much.
My mom is a two. And there is nothing more encouraging than growing up with a TRULY selfless mom🤍 I can truly say without a doubt, I want to be like my momma when I grow up. She has been such a great example to me and I hope to even be half the mom she is when I’m a mom🥺
Imagine being loved like this.... Now that, breaks my heart.
I love like this. And my heart is in so many pieces and places. Its unbearable sometimes.
@@daniellebrown9906 You're right, and no one knows; not a soul knows, though there are other souls that understand. And it can turn the world into such a lonely place too, though we still find ourselves surrounded by people. Our homes are found in them, shelter is given unto them; but how much more often are we ourselves left homeless and unprotected out in the rain? Craving the same love we give. Thank you, Danielle. Your heart may be shattered, but truly, you are a constellation of eternal burning fires; your life is ever so essential to this Earth. Thank you, Danielle. Thank you for more than just the love you give, but also for the air you breathe. 💕 You matter, too, beautiful soul.
I love like this too. Not just with my partner, but my friends and family too. I could care less for myself. So long as theyre happy, so am I
I want to sing this as a lullaby so I'm gonna put the lyrics here as well:- Sweetheart, you look a little tired When did you last eat? Come in and make yourself right at home Stay as long as you need Tell me, is something wrong? If something's wrong, you can count on me You know I'll take my heart clean apart if it helps yours beat It's okay if you can't find the words Let me take your coat And this weight off of your shoulders Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess Or calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest I know exactly how the rule goes Put my mask on first No, I don't want to talk about myself Tell me where it hurts I just want to build you up, build you up 'Til you're good as new And maybe one day I will get around to fixing myself too I don't even know where to start Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well I just want to learn how, somehow, to be loved myself Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you without any strings attached And what a privilege it is to love A great honor to hold you up Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, I'll make a mess Or calm waters if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached I will love you without a single string attached
Quelqu'un peut traduire ?
Ma ëlle Chéri(e), tu semble un peu fatigué Quand as-tu mangé pour la dernière fois ? Viens et met toi à l'aise à la maison Reste aussi longtemps que tu le veux Dis moi, y a t'il quelque chose qui ne va pas ? Si quelque chose ne va pas tu peux compter sur moi Tu sais, je donnerai mon cœur si cela peut aider le tiens à battre Ce n'est pas grave si tu ne peux pas trouver les mots Laisse moi prendre ton manteau Et ce poids hors de tes épaules Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j’ai Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bazarre Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées Ce n'est pas grave si tu n'arrive pas à respirer Tu peux prendre l'oxygène tout droit sortie de ma poitrine Je sais exactement quelles sont les règles : Mettre mon masque en premier Non, je ne veux pas parler de moi, dis moi ou tu as mal Je veux juste te reconstruire, te reconstruire Jusqu'à ce que tu sois comme neuf Et peux être qu'un jour, je me reconstruirai aussi Je ne sais même pas par où commencer Déjà fatigué d'essayer de recoller quand tout s'est effondré Je veux juste t'aimer, t'aimer, t'aimer fort Je veux juste apprendre comment, quelque part, être aimer moi aussi Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées Et quel privilège c'est d'aimer Un grand honneur de te soutenir Comme une force qui est comptée avec Un puissant océan ou un baiser galant Je vais t'aimer avec chaques choses que j'ai Comme un raz de marée, je vais faire un bizarre Ou des eaux calmes, si cela te sers plus Je vais t'aimer avec n'importe quel cordes attachées
@@sarahctd4579 Mercii beaucoup
This had been my comfort song for a very long time now. Everytime i wonder how it feels to be okay. This song helps me.
Lyrics: Sweetheart, you look a little tired When did you last eat? Come in and make yourself right at home Stay as long as you need Tell me, is something wrong? If something's wrong you can count on me You know I'll take my heart clean apart If it helps yours beat It's okay if you can't find the words Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess Calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached It's okay if you can't catch your breath You can take the oxygen straight out of my own chest I know exactly how your rule goes Put my mask on first No, I don't want to talk about myself Tell me where it hurts I just want to build you up, build you up 'Til you're good as new And maybe one day, I'll get around To fixing myself, too I don't even know where to start Already tired of trying to recall when it all fell apart I just want to love you, to love you, to love you well I just want to learn how to somehow, to be loved myself Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you without any strings attached What a privilege it is to love A great honor to hold you up Like a force to be reckoned with A mighty ocean or a gentle kiss I will love you with every single thing I have Like a tidal wave, we'll make a mess Calm waters, if that serves you best I will love you without any strings attached I will love you without a single string attached
❤
I thought this was a simple, beautiful song, but the passage at 1:53 adds *A WHOLE* nother dimension to a reality that should be discussed as well-- the harder task of loving oneself while loving someone else and showing only our best self.
Yep, especially 2:12. These songs are based on personality types, and that's the problem with this type of person: they have trouble loving and taking care of themselves.
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Krystal Everett I think instead of “showing” only your best self, you should work to become your best self :)
zain of course, that would be healthy. That's where the issue lies: helping someone love themselves but being unable to do that for yourself.
Songs by sleeping at last aren't just simple, beautiful songs.... they are absolutely gorgeous, majestic, breathtaking, angelic,.... they are pure and true excellents.
*Can't stop thinking about how much this is what my mom wish she could say to me but can't because she doesn't know how to love me and show me notable affection*
Tyler Malfoy - Standall thank you for giving this a new meaning :')
VIEWING THIS IN A MOTHER'S PERSPECTIVE MAKES IT SO BEATUIFUL THANK YOU SO MUCH
Tyler Malfoy - Standall you read my mind. :')
Tyler Malfoy - Standall well this view is perfect to make me cry
I'm sorry for you, but I hope you don't take this as a normal "Oh I'm sorry" because I mean it really, because I don't know how to show love to others...
I'm a mix of two and three. Someone who would give their life to help someone, when they're just as tired and burnt out as them. Two is how we try to help and love people, how we would give it our all just to even make they're day slightly better, whilst three is like the same burnt out person trying to find a reason to be loved themselves. I'm only 12, but I've been told so many great things about how I can draw, which is basically my talent. I've written a book, I've won several art competitions, I've done so many things, but I never felt it was good enough. I've done so many things that sometimes I think maybe I've done enough. Like a comment I saw in the three video: "This song is the definition of gifted kid burnout". I've been told so many good things about how much I've achieved, but sometimes I just really question if I'm worthy of that love anyway. Am I just seen for my talent? My 'gift'?, not for truly who I am as a person? But then, I'm also a two. Two's are caring. They're kind, sweet and nice as a person. I've been torn between being that kid good at art and that nice kid that helps everyone. It's like two sides of me, fighting. I found two first. It was in an animation video I was watching, and the lyrics really hit home. I listened to the song, and then three came up. And it broke me. 'You're golden child grew up' 'maybe I've done enough" "maybe this trophy isn't real love" "worthy of love anyway?" "Its so exhausting" Hit me hard. Basically the whole song did, both two and three. It's hard being almost two completely different people on the Enneagram. But two and three's are practically made for each other. Three questions if they're worthy of love, but two still gives it to them. Sorry for the long rant, just wanted to get it out. Three: Maybe I've done enough, is this trophy even real love, am I worthy of love anyway? Two: Tell me where it hurts. Let me take your coat and this weight off of your shoulders. I will love you without any strings attached.
“I just want to learn how to be loved myself.”
That first sentence got me so weak. Then the melody comes and i just break and cry. This is so beautiful
Rosekookislife oh BLACKPINK and BTS? cool!
same.
same
A couple years ago I found I’m a two. I listened to the song and I cried,it hit deep and depressed me thinking that my love was too much to ever get returned back to me. Now a couple years later I’m engaged and my intense love is always being returned . I promise to any of you that may feel hopeless, it isn’t. You’re so full of love and you deserve to feel loved and taken care of too, never stop loving and make sure to always keep some love for yourself. You deserve it.Everything comes back around. 🖤
I love the "sweet heart,you look a little tired,when did you last eat?'' part so much.. I wonder if anyone would ever ask me that with so much love in their voice
i hope you find the person who does do that, someday. you deserve love too
@@mailaau2227 thank you °^°
That line hit me in the feels