10 Tricks from a Former FBI Agent to Become 200% Attractive
Former FBI agent Dr. Jack Schafer revealed top 10 tricks to become 200% attractive. These secret tips will change your life forever. Follow these easy successful techniques to find a common language with anyone anytime.
In informal communication, the inclination of the head to the side is a sign of trust. Eyebrows give a certain signals to your opponent as well. When the brain recognizes a sincere smile, it makes you smile back and starts producing endorphins that help feel a little more joy. Never hesitate to ask a person for a small favor, for example give advice or help to choose something. Whispering is perceived as an intimate form of communication. People love when something that was achieved by working hard is noticed in them. Your opponent's gestures at this moment reflect emotions, feelings, and sympathies. There's nothing a good movie can't teach you!
TIMESTAMPS
Start with bending your head to the side 0:37
Develop facial expressions, play with eyebrows 1:14
Learn to smile with your eyes, without a grin 1:58
Forget the phrase “You're welcome” 2:45
Shift to a whisper, emphasize without a reason 3:28
Let people compliment themselves 4:23
Make mistakes in front of your opponent 5:22
Pay attention to the pottery when you spend time together 6:02
Watch the lips of the interlocutor, learn to change the color of the eyes 6:41
If the situation is not that smooth, recall movies 7:34
Other signals and tactics that will help you win sympathy and trust 8:15
The formula of friendship developed by an FBI agent 9:04
SUMMARY
-Bend your head to the side as a sign of trust.
-If you like a person you don’t know, give them a quick distant signal by uplifting your eyebrows.
-Smile sincerely to push people to continue communicating.
-Never say ’You are welcome" when responding to a person for the service rendered to them.
-Whisper if you want to take your relationship with someone on the next level.
-The best way to make a compliment is to encourage a person to praise himself.
-Make a deliberate mistake during the conversation and let your opponent correct you.
-Your opponent's gestures at this moment reflect emotions, feelings, and sympathies.
-Avoid narrowed eyes, compressed lips, ostentatious yawn and wrinkled nose.
-Sometimes people like each other only after a series of obstacles and contradictions they go through together.
-Use emotional gestures, be sincere, demonstrate coldness or inaccessibility, show that you are alike.
-Proximity, frequency, duration and intensity are the main characteristics necessary for strong trust and friendship.
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The FBI agent watching me through my phone camera approves of this 👍🏽
L PC lol
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Welcome.
L PC 🤣
😑gay
"Here's your coffee" "Thank you" "I think you would have done the same thing if you were me"
simo 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
Glad to be of service.
This would actually be fun to mis-use. Imagine all the confused looks you'd get as people tried to process what you said.
Hilarious!
I help a blind guy across the street Guy "thank you!" Me "I think you would have done the same thing if you were me" Guy "actually no"
Llamf 😂😂😂
😫😂😭😂 I'm wheezing!!
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Lol 🤣
You made my day sasa! Of course cannot do the same thing to you xx
I feel like this video was for robots on how to act more human to gain our trust
Mark Zuckerberg likes it.
It's always nice tipd to know for manipulating people =)
😂😂😂
Skynet got Arnold Schwarzenegger to watch this before sending him back to 1991
Best Comment Award
"Avoid narrow eyes..." *me as an asian thinking awkwardly what to do
Lol 😆
My eyes are that shape too and my friends always think im tired or upset
harmony331000 Indians are asians too Indians have large eyes.
Jeff Yeo I’m not Asian too but people seem shocked when I tell them not Korean. I really look like one, I guess. But hey I LOVE K-pop, so what am I complaining about ?
Jeff Yeo Asian eyes are cute 😍
Me: you're cute Her: thanks Me: I think you would of done the same thing if you were me Her: sure....
Trollfacetv *continuation* Her: (in her mind: Ummm.. No I wouldn't)😂😅
I think you would have done the same thing if you were me.
LOL
Lololol
😆
First step: be good looking
*everyone has left the chat*
@@dingdong4826This is so true - the better looking a person is, especially a woman, the better things will go for her. People will respond more positively to you if you are attractive looking. So don't believe this guff I'm hearing women say that being beautiful is a disadvantage! Women don't spend millions on beauty treatments, diets and plastic surgery for no reason. Consider yourself blessed if you are gifted with natural good looks!
Lol
Well not exactly, people that are attractive sometimes might not have friends due to being too intimidating for other people.
@@shiningstar2559 that's true too
How to pretend to be human with human emotions. Noted.
someone should share this with Mark Zuckerberg
They figure us out😱
guide for robots
So does that mean FBI agents are psychopaths or are they dealing with psychopaths?
@@catherinecookson225 As the daughter of a fed.... both....
Useful tricks to identify FBI agents
Jose Diola 🤣🤣🤣
Jose Diola 😂
Omg so right
Awesome!!!
Lol
I thought some of this might help in an interview setting. But if I’m moving my eyebrows all crazy, tilting my head, making mistakes, whispering, and asking for some of their food, I don’t think I’m gonna get the job.
Lol
Jessica S 😂
🤣
Me: hands in homework Teacher: Thank you Me: I think you would have done the same thing if you were me Teacher: ...👁👄👁
Bahaha😂👍
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The start of a beautiful friendship
I swear I'm going to use this as my personal inside joke and laugh alot lol
This was hilarious i was laughing for 5 mins
These all come naturally when you're a kind and genuine person. X
I thought she was gonna give us like hair tips or whatever but instead she teaching us how to be manipulators and politicians 😂😂😂😂
Looking for hair tips from FBI agent?!?
Summary: 10) Bend your head to the side as a sign of trust. Don't roll your eyes with your head back. 9) Raise your eyebrows 8) Smile with a real smile 7) Don't say you're welcome (I prefer no worries). Ask people for small favors like advice 6) Whisper and lean slightly forward 5) Let people compliment themselves 4) Make mistakes (deliberate). But don't go too far 3) Share plates when appropriate 2) Watch the lips. Don't touch your own. 1) Recall movies if things aren't going well. Additional: Nod slightly and emotional gestures, be sincere, demonstrate coldness (sometimes), show similarities, Aspects of relationships: Proximity (slightly violate personal space occasionally), frequency (more interactions are better), duration (alter amounts), intensity (satisfy the needs of another through verbal or non verbal communication)
uncnem Thanks!
thank you
Hey, someone took notes!
Thank youu
Thank you! My husband is watching the weather and I didn't want to bother him by playing this out loud...thank you for the summary 😊
Next week, CIA mind control techniques to get your opponent to do your bidding
I apparently involves LSD and repeated vomiting.
Eeeeexcellent( fingertips tapping) 😂
Arno Theadorno 😂😂😂😂😂😂💦
MK ultra Version 3.0
or just keep some scopoline handy
*Gives customer food*: "thank you" me: "I know you would do the same thing for me!"
Erik JoHANDSOME Lolol I was thinking the same thing! 😆🤣😂😆 yeahhh...I’m not going to be doing that at work when I seat people at the restaurant.
Maybe "My pleasure" would be a better response in that particular situation. 🤷
Erik Johanson That's hilarious and the customers would think that staff members were a bit weird if that happened. 🤣
“How to Make Friends for Sociopaths. “
Jackie Freeborn, or "How to appear like a friendly human" for psychopaths.
I need those tips, how else am I to claim a "friend" for 4-8 hours at a time in a group setting?
“Opponent”😂
Jackie Freeborn yuh
Ikr
Customer : "Thank you." Worker : "I think you would have done the same thing if you were me." 😉 Customer : "I actually wouldn't." Worker : "Then you wouldn't have a job." 😀
customer: Exactly
Just say no worries or something, idk
It made me so mad when they said that in the video.
Best comment lol
Exactly. You don't say this in customer service. It'd be weird.
Maybe don’t call the people you’re communicating with opponents
Asking people for small favors is such a great way to quickly bond. They feel helpful and also psychologically they rationalize, “If I took the time to help them, I must like this person.”
So everyone you meet in life is an opponent, thanks for the reminder FBI agent.
Ima go on a date and forget 200% of these tips.
iunnor Just remember the leaning in one, the whisper one, and the eyebrow thing. Show genuine interest (not really a tip, more like a personality trait). And later on, looking at their lips sometimes will create a spark. Just these and you’re good to go :)
*laughs*! Just be yourself. Because if it works? At some point you'll hafta be, anyway;) XO
My dog taught me that tilting your head shows confusion and now I can't see anything else.
Instead of pretending to be interested you could also just genuinely be interested.
How do you be genuinely interested?
Just be genuinely interested in nuclear reactor maintenance schedules if it's that easy, then.
I honestly thought "Mirroring body language" would be number one. But it wasn't mentioned at all!
R I know, right?
It’s pretty basic though and most people know about it, I guess that’s why they didn’t lost it. Also mirroring body language can backfire as it also shows that you are *very* interested in a person.
Yes true
Yeah and smiling and laughing at other people's jokes...
Not always the case. If someone is shy and avoiding eye contact and slouching their body and I mimic that, it usually will only make things more awkward and strange. Someone in the conversation needs to show confidence and project it. Not to show dominance but to show they are interested and respect the others perspective and emotion in that moment.
*Man buys girl a drink* Woman: "Thanks." Man: "I'm sure you would do the same thing for me." *Woman loses interest*
Hahaha 😂👍😁
Lol
That's true :)
Guy invited me out for coffee, he didn’t order coffee, i did (i paid for it). He then proceeds to ask me for a sip of mine. Lost interest immediately
Sophia hahaha as you should, who asks for a sip of a stranger coffee 😭
I'm gonna go into work tonight, head tilted, eyebrows wiggling and whispering. I can see the men in white coats coming now! lol
For real! Or someone might think you're a zombie and double tap you lol
As a fellow robot, this tutorial was very helpful and productive. Thank you. *raises eyebrows*
The Video: I think you’d have done the same thing if you were me
I will be the most attractive once I finish off all my opponents! Who's next huh!?! Who wants some of this attractiveness!?!
Samer Khatib hahhaa had a good laugh at this
Hahahahaha
Hahahaha 😂😭
Samer Khatib You had me at, "Round One, Fight!"
Hmm. Well, if everyone else is dead then you are, by default, the most attractive. The reasoning works out.
Copying gestures and expressions and using the same common phrases as the other person helps with bonding as well. In addition to that, if you sometimes walk together, try to match your footsteps to theirs so that you're both taking steps with the same foot at the same time (but do it without being obvious). Both of those things will cause you and them to bond more than usual.
Boy: you’re pretty Me: thanks Boy: I think you would have done the same thing if you were me Me:....
Lol😂😂😂😂
What does being an FBI agent have anything to do with attractiveness?
dana skully.
Kitty Cat to be able to quickly develop friendships to get information and spy on people also to develop a relationship to ease people confess!
They are trained heavily to understand body language, some of which would be positive or considered ‘attractive,’ and some of which negative and considered ‘unattractive.’
I suppose the kinds of people attracted to the idea of a career in the FBI have no social skills whatsoever.
how to manipulate people in to liking you, for those who cant make friends.
if you have to manipulate others into being around you, then they will never really like you. you should just be yourself and find others that enjoy your company, instead of pretending to be something you are not to have people around you that are not really your friend.
For sociopaths
SingingintheDark: But lots of people just end up with no friends that way. And changing a few small gestures may not be that much in terms of compromising your "true self", its rather petty. But I still think you should be yourself for the most part, and especially in the things that are important to you
This is true, I’ve gotten plenty of people to like me after realizing I do a lot of these tricks subconsciously but you never end up making a solid group of friends, just acquaintances using you to gas up their ego
- yes exactly
Opponent? I'll just challenge them to a d-d-d-duel.
*everyone you're perfect just the way you are*
*hands customer what they ordered* Customer- “Thank you” Worker (me) “i think you would have done the same thing if you were me.” Customer- “.....what?” 😂
😅😅😅
I followed all these rules and a bunch of female FBI agents started following me around and giving me their numbers. Are you sure this information isnt specific to FBI agents?
Wait, that happened to you too?
That happened with y'all too?
On the next show !!! Tips from an Astronaut how to make your mustache look more appealing to woman ! ......
Haha that's a Gud one 😁.
😂😂
gold
My upvote to this comment was not done in irony. I'm metaphorically speechless.
Thank you. Preach
I couldn't figure out if my date was my interlocutor, companion or my opponent. So i yelled a compliment at her and demanded a response. Didnt go over well. Thanks FBI.
Always opponent...
Haha!
Good one. So true, this works so well in interviews.
Number 5, I already do it, when I think pll get bored of me I get them to talk about themself, it works, the get so happy everytime😂
Twerk in front of them so that they feel comfortable
LOL!!
Good one
Hahaha, you win the internet today!
Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
I make people feel comfortable by making continuous eye contact without facial expressions
I say you’re welcome all the time to rude people who don’t thank me. I love it and it wakes them up!
- "Hey, could you pass the milk?" "Sure" - "Thanks" "I think you would have done the same thing if you were me!" - "..."
Exactly! Like, what is that even supposed to mean! It sounds rather self-centered. I can't picture any situation in which that line wouldn't be a turn-off. :/
Emily Lamb I know right? Thanks for putting it in words, btw :D
If all else fails try waterboarding
this is for the fbi man who watches me. thanks for keeping me safe dude now i want to help you
'If you were me, you would have done the same to me.'
Beautifuly presented -clear,concise and to the point ! No-nonsense art & science facts that should guide everybody .Congratulations to you folks who have researched and conceptualized this awesome video !
I recommend working in sales and marketing as your first job out of high school. I learned MOST of these same tips in the office years before this video was published.
Instead of “you would have don’t the same for me” say “happy to help” it makes you seem more approachable and they will remember your willingness to help them :)
Better title 4 this: How To Become Practiced At the Art of Manipulation & Deception.
Bernard Popp these skills are also built up from experience over time and its unconscious so you dont realise your doing it(not saying you do) but if you consider yourself a 'good talker' then whether you like if or not your manipulating the people you talk to in an unconscious way
"Wanna get down?" saves a load of time. It's like dynamite fishing.
This is brilliant I didn't know I was doing alot of this now I am going to focus on this and see if I note it
'You would have done the same!' Sounds like you're expecting your opponent to return the favour in future
Thank you for this, I needed my opponent to not think I'm a threat. Lol
Being relatable and accepting are also ways to charm your “opponent” lol
Cool now the FBI can listen to my phone calls and give me dating advice, yess!!
I mastered the smieyes from Tyra Banks lol
Beyonce k or Beyonce nee Beyonce no get time to dey watch this kind thing.
Joe Roscoe what?
Queen Beyoncé yes
SMIZZZE! yup
.... smize.
I cannot smize to save my life. When I try to smile with my eyes, my mouth would also smile
These tips were really helpful and special
I find it a major turn off when I thank someone for something and they brush off my thankfulness by explaining it away or saying „Oh, it was nothing.“ Now I‘m feeling subconsciously like I’ve offended them for saying thanks. „You‘re welcome“ always stands out to me and sounds strong yet still humble.
Too early . Love your videos
I'm sure psychopaths must've been really thankful for this video.
I gotta take notes!!!
I don't know if people will get what I mean, but I have anxiety, however, I am very confident. I find that when u show signs of both, people start to take an interest in you as someone who is different. Even if you aren't naturally anxious, doing things like purposefully taking a deeper than normal or shaky breath before you start moving onto a topic more personal than small talk, people become increasingly charmed by your nerves, but when you say what you want to say with confidence and willingness to listen to another opinion, they become almost enticed by your open and accepting nature. As well as your jittery yet strong confidence.
Interesting...
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And you got 128 likes for writing “interesting...” ?! Those are definitely bought likes, admit it. 😬
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Why would someone buy likes for a youtube comment
I'm glad my dog trusts me cuz he bends his head slightly.... I'm so happy!! Lol
I like how they refer the person you're talking to as "opponents"
me: gives customer their change them: “thank you” me: “I think you would have done the same thing if you were me”
Hello. Good job on the vid bright side.
But what do you use on people like me, who hate unnecessary chitchat, compliments, violation of personal space, strangers, and long conversations?
a person who wants to win you over would never start with those things. instead, they'd get themselves introduced to you through a family member or friend who is more susceptible to influence. (see Patricia Highsmith's novel The Talented Mr. Ripley.) that family member or friend would, after trusting the person, tell them about your actual weaknesses, which they can exploit.
I'm the same way. This stuff doesn't work on me. I'm like "get away from me" to people who act this way.
A bugging device😉
This advice goes both ways, I think the best attractive thing is being yourself without this overboard control
Well this was hilarious and the comments were hilarious. Thanks for a good laugh! I think I got attractive by laughing lol 🤪😂 where the opponents at??
What the heck do FBI agents know about being attractive
Jessica Being a undercover FBI agent to get some extra information by being extra attractive
BECAUSE THEY WATCH YOU THROUH YOUR WEBCAM.
That's why she keeps saying opponent lol
Jessica because they are also humans
deepak kumar that's debatable...
Your Beauty comes from your heart ❤️. I hope everyone has a great day.
"So do you have any charming tricks of your own?" Why do you think I'm watching this?
lol
The thumbnail! Lol! I guess having a lazy eye is more attractive than a full blown smile. 😆
Remind me again why I’m subbed to this channel? “200% Attractive”
Whoaaa....... Good 👍
very informative, I like this video
I try to listen (truly), and be sincere & kind. When my heart feels moved for a person, I usually touch them kindly in some way. (If it's a hug, I'll ask first if I can give them one.) That's it. I try to be artifice-free.
"Hey, can you pass me the salt?" "Here you go!" "Thanks!" "Oh. You would have done the same for me..." "...." "...." "I-I guess.."
HAHAHHAAHAHAHA LOL
Most people wouldn’t begin to fathom the outcome we’ve predicted behind most of the gestures stated in this post! Try our best in creating a situation we believe may win people (any unknown stranger) over!
2:15 in AP Biology last year my teacher freaked over this clip all the time hahaha. MOTOR PROTEINS
This is probably the only helpful persuasion tricks video I’ve seen
I really found this video interesting!
I personally think the ‘Wrinkled Nose’ is kind of cute. 😍
It's the microexpression of disgust
I am brilliant at setting people up and making happy couples. This year I've been keeping count, 14 so far. I can never set myself up tho so I understand how cupid feels ;(
There's a lot to be said for just being authentic and transparent. People pick up on inauthenticity pretty quickly.
This is gold.
This video feels like the training videos the monsters used in the scooby doo movie to appear like teenagers on spring break
So this is a tutorial on manipulation
Froufrou Deluxe EXACTLY
Right up my ally
We manipulate all the time, we just don't realize that were doing it. Better to manipulate to control your life as long as you can create a win win situation.
@@johnremley6931 Nobody wins in a win-win. There is no greater thrill than lecturing your enemy's severed head as you hold it aloft in your hand (or so I'm told, no personal experience here!).
@@TukaSlave lol
Intensity...arguably the most important subject to learn that was offered. was glossed over! LOL!
I just smile and hearts melt.
To become attractive on a date(according to this guide) steps 1 and 2: have your head tilted constantly, and have your eyebrows raised and/or just randomly wiggle them. This way, you will look so attractive no one will be able to take their eyes off of you. Oh and don’t forget to always whisper when you say something to them.
While imagining this, I think I'll end up laughing at my date all the time.
@@myplaywithwords I think I'd be making an excuse to leave within 5 minutes
Instead, just thousand yard stare at them. Much better.
What’s the connection between working for the FBI and being an expert on attraction?
Haha 🙈
This is fantastic and valuable. I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“Your opponent” that’s what I feel! This is why I have no friends.
I've noticed I have more pleasant interactions with others when I spend more time on my appearance. Hygiene and well-dressed attire can go a long way!
I'm already 500% attractive ;) Who else?!
Koen's Travels I'm -500%, Does that count?
Nooo don't think that way about yourself :D
Everyone is beautiful :D
I'm 99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999666666666666969999999999999999999 percent attractive 🔥🔥🔥
I'm 1000% attractive
Actually this is good advice and I have been working in body language and instinctive behaviour for the past 12 years and this has picked up on several basic traits that have been with us since we started herding in social groups. You should take note of the above and work it into your everyday life with your peers
This video could also be titled "The sociopaths guide to pretending you are not emotionally disabled", although it can also be a useful tool to help us re-connect with some of the social skills that our currently socipathic society beats out of us....AND it can also help us to recognize when a predator is trying to play us.