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1:47 “If a man asks you out, and he’s not willing to buy you a plate of food? How can you possibly think that this guy, can take care of a family.”
Agree!
True cause I don't think he would be a provider
@@thelifeofaria😂😂lol so Kuch effort for a plate of food ?? U really believe women would do that
@@thelifeofaria that’s a fair assessment. Most women are not looking for a man as a paycheck. Sometimes it’s hard to determine character on a first date. Having honest dialogue about expectations helps to decide to go further or part ways.
@@Mimi_622 Ain’t that the truth. Had two parties where two sets of friends connected and they eventually got married and had kids. Sometimes life brings you together for others to discover.
If a man is asking a woman out, it is the man's job to pay for everything. The woman didn't ask the man out, the man asked the woman out. Fellas man up and treat your woman with the love and respect they deserve.
Definitely. But it also goes the other way around. It's all about circumstances and who the people are. Both deserve the same love and respect; both give and receive.
@@Tenseiken_ So true.
@@Tenseiken_if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone
@@michochotvYou can say the same damn thing for women. If they dont have the money to pay for the date for the both of them or for herself than she shouldnt be dating in the first place either STOP BEING A DAMN GOLD DIGGER
@@Tenseiken_Preach
Never went on a date, went on office lunch with colleagues, he paid for everyone, 4 years later we got married and now he pays for everything. ❤
He got a brother😮😂😅
Awwwww can you share a brief story? I fell upon this video and im kinda down. I love hearing about love and your comment seemed sweet and worth asking if youre willing to share!❤ If not, your comment is sweet!! Happy for you!
Yes please share your story! I love this!
So sweet. That is a man.
What happened in the four (4) years?…btwn lunch w/colleagues & marriage?
You’ll never have to ask a real man to pay for date. Real men show up without asking
Women just want men to pay for all the dates because they are a bunch of gold diggers only going for money
Tell that to the stingy Brits!
@@EcoworksFL Thats cause the loser men convinced women that "equal rights"
@@EcoworksFLexactly. Smh lol! Leave 😅them kind right where they are!
Exactly 👏 💯
If a man is having financial difficulties he still should provide the date and not let women pay for anything. He can prepare a picnic basket and arrange a picnic or something else creative that he can afford.
I love Steve’s old fashioned dating and relationship values ❤
Yes, same!
Absolutely
Absolutely he even tried to tell Kiki Palmer about her BD but she didn't listen 👂🏾😂
Yes!!!! ❤
It should still be in fashion and it’s up to us ladies to keep the standards high for ourselves and our daughters
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks
You wont regret it
@@bartholetbay412 please help me where I can find her 🙏
I made the mistake of buying meals as well and now he thinks he can always rely on me and “got it” at the end of the day. LADIES PLEASE DONT DO IT.
You’re still with him?
You’re way too beautiful for that. Require more & you’ll get more.
I have paid for both dinners in situations where I had NO interest in a follow-up date and didn't want to feel any obligation to the guy.
@@GlenMcDowellFarmplease stop lowering the bar for men. It's a date. They are exchanging a nice meal for your time and a chance to get to know you better - not for sex or a guaranteed 2nd date. They may not even want a second date. It's really that simple. Neither person owes anything to the other.
On a date with a man, a woman should never be expected to pay for a meal, period.
I am 26 years old about to turn 27 this year in December. The way I was raised by my father is when ask a woman out on a date you pay for the meal and I mean the whole meal!!! You asked her out if you want to show her that you're really interested you pay the bill and you pay the tip!!!! That's how you tell a woman that you're interested and you mean business 💯💯💯
Should go for the woman as well than if she was the one asking the man out it goes both ways girly
@@Kenyagirly Facts 🤜🤛💯
@@Kenyagirly STOP SAYING THAT! WE HEAR YA ALREADY! BUT WOMEN DONT' REALLY DO THE ASKING!
@@nofybn7794 Some of us do. But he still offered to pay.
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It's the men with the huge Ego... that feels he doesn't need a relationship. But goes out looking for multiple women to fill a void. And has lots of options, or says he just wants a friend or a companion with the benefits of a relationship. Be aware of these kinds of men.
The best thing you can give your children, is roots & wings.
To fly one has to cut off the shackles.
BEAUTIFUL
You said it perfectly!
a stable diving board to dive off of!
No. I had a date asked me to pay on a first date and I never dated him again!
I agree 👍 if you ask me out on a date and I have to pay! That's your last date with me
100%. I had an amazing first date with a guy...at the end of the date, he had the audacity to ask for SEPARATE bills! Then tried to kiss me at the end of the date. ( I don't kiss on the first date anyway) but after the date he msgd me and asked why I seemed different at the end. I told him point blank I was turned off by what he did... he tried for a veryyyyy long time to make it up to me...but I could never see him differently after what he did. I was soooo turned off. Felt like he showed his true colours that first date
Good 4 u 👍
Yet you want him to pay for everything though
@@kk-xi8liI'm sorry, but you said you had an amazing date with a guy and only because he didn't paid he lost you?! Really? So on the other hand if a guy paid for everything then he has the right for some action? Because that would be an exchange for it... I'm sorry but that so wrong in so many ways. I was like you in the past. And one day I had an amazing date and we split the bill on the first date. Today we are happy married and have a wonderful relationship. Why had my husband spilt the bill then? Because he was been used for free meals and never heard of the girls again. There two sides of the story. I was also raised that the man pays the bills for dates. But also he has the last word in everything! Woman can be housewifes and keep their opinion for themselves. That's how the past was. Also, sorry not sorry. Steve's have so many good advices which he preaches but has one woman after the other. I'm sorry but with such stupid stuff women and man will be alone forever. 😢
Steve is a God send. He should teach a class for men today. 😂😂😂
Yes... He does tell men today how not to behave in modern world by giving advice on how men behaved in 1960s.
Steve, please consider contacting Oprah to do a Masterclass on relationships. You are a great speaker and educator. So many people need help with this. God bless you!
@@debbiecreter2005 if that's sarcasm, it's lost on me😂
@@Rahul-ml2xb I’m confused by your response. I sincerely meant what I said. I think a lot of people need help with how to have meaningful relationships as evidenced by high divorce rates, reluctance to commit to marriage, and high domestic violence situations. Plus dating apps that are mainly hook up opportunities. It’s worrisome. Steve often addresses relationship issues and has professional guests on his shows who give excellent advice. Social media is interfering with normal human interactions and connections.
Can Steve please preach this to all the loser single men out there who are cheap and broke and still trying to date!?
Most good men don't date at all. We were taught all our lives all the things that women hate about men. Number one was unwanted approaching. I'll never do that as Im a good man . Only bad boy, felons, and sociopaths are thriving in this culture. If a man approaches a woman, he's probably one you should avoid!
Or to the good men who don't date at all because it's no fun for them?
Yeah! Preach this to all the loser single and broke guys out there!
Its simple, its not forced on you, you ask her out on the date, if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, you claim to like, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone
Agree 100%. As well as if you claim to like a male and not willing to sleep with him leave him alone 😂. Tit for tat
@@alonzojones9626 creepy
@@alonzojones9626 lol loonie..are talking plate of food and you are going all the way to what is traditionally an act reserved for marriage. And what definitely can lead to a pregnancy that you're not carrying. Does a plate of food have the same repercussions to life as sleeping with someone? I can't understand how men claim to have reason and logic lol...this mentality of yours is a fail! What a shame!
WOMEN SHOULD LEAVE MEN ALONE AS WELL THAN IF SHE CAN'T EVEN PAY FOR HER OWN THINGS ON A DATE OR FOR BOTH OF THEM
@alonzojones9626 I can like your company without wanting to sleep with you.
A man should always pay for the full meal on the first date.
And All the Dates etc
Yeah...a man who is stupid. If a woman cannot provide for herself - she a golddigger.
Yes ❤❤
Nonsense!!
Ok ok
Steve tells it straight. I am listening.
"It dont make no sense" a.k.a "the math isnt mathing" 😂
*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*
Steve said a real man will find it insulting because he’s intelligent enough to understand that it is indeed questioning his capabilities. A powerful man will pay for a woman’s meal he is interested in, is what I understand. There are men and then there are men standing in their power and owning it.🤷♀️ Men who have went through the lessons and fully experienced them to be able to achieve true understanding of manhood. Steve’s right to specify heterosexual men because the world is so unique in fashion now that you’ve got to be very specific at what you’re acknowledging. Steve is so wonderful to enlighten women this way without the bull crap. We thank you. We admire you. We love you. 🙌 It can be difficult to navigate without experiencing terrible things firsthand because there’s just no manual only truth and authenticity and people don’t walk around explaining anything these days. It’s a competitive place.
Steve isn’t God. People say a lot of things. Don’t you have an opinion.
I love your comment...It's spot on...!
I love how Steve never say how a REAL WOMEN are supposed to behave. Otherwise comment section will be an obituary for steve 😂😂😂😂 I specifically liked steve sentence that A MAN IS NOTHING WITHOUT A WOMAN 😂. he wouldn't dare say- AND vice versa😂
I'm from Eastern Europe and it's common sense that a man pays on dates. If the woman offers to pay for her half later on, sure, but have your wallet out and ready. It's just an universal thing you hear or taught to as a child and a no brainer later on whether you are a teenager and invite her for ice-cream or in your 20s 30s on a formal date. The man pays, period. If he is not willing to make that efforts he's not serious.
Plenty of American guys SUCK compared to you guys. It's TRUE!
Not that serious about you or just broke! Not REAL at all!
“REAL MEN; we know the deal!!!” The unfortunate problem is there are fewer and fewer REAL MEN left in the world!!! Thank you so much Steve for keeping it real; and speaking the TRUTH!
If we try to find real men we are doomed. These so called REAL MEN are dead/ pushing 60s. Now only there are modern men😂😂😂 same logic for modern women too
That Mother & daughter looking after her daughter at midnight alone is NOT crazy!!! Knowing who she is going out with is necessary now! You HAVE to do that these days! Women are being abducted every day & r’d & killed. If she lives alone down the street, she is not a hostage! Keep looking after your baby girl!🙏💪
Agree 💯❤❤❤❤
@@Ladyblogtest Its late at night and anything could happen during those few steps to her dorstep.
"You gotta let her fly" ❤ ~Steve Harvey
My mom taught me this. She said “ you have what they want, make them earn it.”
But it's also true that u won't have it forever (youth). Then u get replaced. Its Better to have a non toxic mindset such as this
The key is REAL MEN, not sure if they exist any more????
They definitely do...but most girls of today's time turn them down when they meet them. Let's be real it goes both ways.
@@Drizzydid you’re absolutely right. I’m ashamed by the way a lot of women behave these days!
@@Drizzydid Those are fake nice-guys, who often have communication issues and are unable to engage with a women without being weird.. The guys that think because they have a job and open the door, that they deserve to have s3x and affection. Most "real men" are already married and committed. Women are not turning down good quality men, who understand emotional intelligence, and are affectionate and loyal.. Men who are "good" are often surrounded by women (wives, sisters, aunts, etc), and they have zero issues interacting with women.
We still here...just being quiet and on the 2nd row of fellas hollering and hailing you ladies hoping that you notice amidst the loudness and bravado of the 1st row of fellas
Exactly. This current culture is emasculating men.
My eldest son knew this at 13. Flowers ,chocolates ,other gifts , a nice place to eat and he ( well , I 😅 )
He sounds like a nice boy whom you raised well.
@@peacheedandee Thank you very much for your kind words.. He was a nice boy ,now he is a nice man.
Mine too!
I love this man, God keep him for me
Speak it Steve! The man doesn't appreciate it! If he asks you out... enjoy the date! "REAL MEN" ☆☆☆☆☆
In my 20s i used to go dutch with men. My mother laughed at me and said any man who would allow a woman to pay on a first date is not a real man. I brushed her off as being old fashioned but she was right nothing ever came of the dates with guys who asked me to pay. Now i wouldnt dream of paying for a thing, at least not early on in the relationship. I took my bf out for his 48th birthday (i am 39) on Feb 22 and he wouldn't even let me pay - he insisted on getting the tab on his own birthday! This is how men are - they are born with the drive to hunt and pursue what they want and to provide. If he is not providing for you and pursuing you and instead are giving you silly excuses about feminism and women's lib he is either a poor excuse for a man or he is not interested...in you. Watch all that feminism crap fly out of his vocabulary so quickly when he comes across the woman he's actually been looking for, the woman he's dreamt about. 😂
You are absolutely correct! Men have double standards for their dream girl and they will treat the placeholder like crap and take advantage of her
Steve, I love your morning inspirations on the radio.The day after my mother passed, I got up to listen to your inspiration in my truck alone. When you said your mother could have just passed I heard the Lord say "Now we can begin". Thank you for being the voice I needed to hear that day. You're more than a comedian.👏🏽 You're changing lives.❤🙏🏼
for sure
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. May she rest in peace. 🙏🏻❤️
That’s what I taught my son too is you pay for the dates and be a gentleman.
@@emmanuelcharles38 😃
@@caroltz8220 🙏🏼 Thank you ♥️
Appreciate that you still have a protective mother, she just wants your safely 🙏🏾 ❤
Yes that woman Gone Overboard with her protection. Her daughter needs to get from around her.Is the mother a Detective or what??
That is too much!!! It is invasive and controlling
Don't just set your financial goals without consulting a financial advisor. Their expertise ensures a solid plan for success. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly setting aside money in intervals for smart investments.
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
I agree. Based on personal experience working with an investment advisor, I currently have $1m in a well diversified portfolio, that has experienced exponential growth. It is not about having money to invest in stocks,but also you need to be knowledgeable, persistent, and have strong hands to back it up.
@@joiechretienneF Alice Legan Mitchell
She’s the license coach I use.
Look her up on Google you will find the necessary information and also her web page to make a contact and schedule an appointment with her.
that's why eve was created ❤ to be a complement, not provide but to support and love in response for protection and care ❤
There's nothing wrong with her telling her mother where she's going and with whom, even giving the friends phone number. Enough times people disappear and family don't know where they went and with whom. You're never to old to show respect to your parents. When I travel abroad I'll stay at family or friends. When I go out I'll say where I'm going and give the number of the other friend just in case. It's also a smart thing to do 😊
Better do it 2024 for sure that show was 12 years ago and All Hell have broke lose around the world..Oh they will call Mom and Dad to come get them a half block away now of days .. it’s March 6 2024
@@Blue-jq9wu I did see the show then.
These young people don’t watch the news. They better thank the Lord for somebody looking out for them. So many young ladies can’t warn you from the grave to be careful and communicate with your support/family and let them know where you’re going and when you will be back and who you are with.
Amen! I appreciate your fair statement. They’re young and believe what ppl are saying about parents “are too much”. It really is the responsibility thing to do imagine coming home at 1am my goodness. Young lady you have someone special in your mother and I know you know that. It also seem like they have a great relationship too
To request that at 21 is insane though.
I have never paid on a first date. The only time i would offer is if I had no interest in ever seeing the person romantically again, but I still was likely to see them again. Like maybe they were connected to a friend circle or professional circle. I feel like me offering to pay on a date is like saying I'm not interested
Lucky you..I have had men blatantly ask me to split the bill on the first date, so embarrassing, I end up.paying my share but have no interest to see them again.
@EcoworksFL I can understand why you wouldn't want to see them again. I would suggest trying to screen them better maybe.
@sagefi1 yes I agree..but is difficult to screen and you don't know who is stingy and tight till you meet them in person
Me too! If I end up paying on the date, I'm not interested. Yes, just in case the same of friends or what not.
I'm the same. If I'm not interested in the man I will pay for myself. Otherwise he pays.
There’s a thin line with caring and overbearing but these times are dangerous and one can never be too careful.
That is exactly what I was thinking.
That is the risk of living. You can't live with your mamma forever
I disagree with this on Steve. We all need for someone to always have our backs husbands and wives. Sisters brothers neighbors. Why is it different for parents and children. These ppl are biologically tied of course she wants to help you and do what she can to protect you. Why is it so hard for us to keep protecting our child because they’re 21. Not because it wasn’t done for you (generally) means we should not read thr times we live in and make adjustments. When you have a friend leaving your home you call to see if they reach home or if they’re coming for a visit and are late you call to make sure they’re not in a wreck much more your daughter 9:31
I thought the daughter was going to say something way out. But the truth is the mother is doing what she ought to do. Steve’s daughter might have a driver/bodyguard or assistant (don’t listen to Steve he isn’t telling the whole story, living in an apartment with security and doorman… very unfair to say that your kids have moved out implying they are on their own) The mother isn’t talking precaution because the daughter might hurt herself… it’s so the guy (who she doesn’t know) WILL KNOW she’s loved and is cherished and will come find his whole family if something goes wrong. Where’s the problem. Young lady I pray you just relax and let mom who’s so wise lay the protection around you so you can go out confidently knowing someone is looking out for you. Keep going mom Mr Harvey you are wrong wrong wrong on this one
@@Bambuzajamaica yes, couldn’t agree more! The world isn’t what it used to - walk alone, and open the door to all kinds of dangers. As they say, when you become a parent, you’ll understand.
Yup! Especially first date. Want someone's time, present and energy but dont want to pay? I feel like especially younger guys these days expect to split more.
Because they dont have the money. Steve should of specified depending in which bracket of age and income someone is
Mr. Steve Harvey, Almighty God bless you.
Tell them Steve🙌🏾✊🏾🤲🏾
Facts 💯. Real talk
Steve , you got to the exact point. Thanks. God bless you
Wonderful Steve !!!....please don't let the real men to extinguish !!!!! 👏
Thank you Steve for your advice on men. Came at just the right time. ❤ Love your shows.
DON'T SETTLE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. STOP SETTLING. DON'T EVER CHOOSE TO SETTLE AGAIN IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. ❤❤❤
Amen!!!!
AMEN!
Steve you are nothing short of amazing. Ty for your show!
He's got a point. 💯
I'm glad to be seeing this today. Sometimes I feel like there really feel like there's something wrong with my thought process. Thank you, Steve.
Steve’s pulpit - awesome ministry
Preach Steve ❤
One more reason to love Steve Harvey. LOVE this man's advice!
I appreciate Steve for your motivations and inspirations
Great advice. Great conversation. Keep it up!
Steve is spot on! 👏
I love love love Steve Harvey. He is such a good man
I love Steve Harvey! He is such a breath of fresh air and common sense in this crazy world!!❤
Thanks Steve. I truly felt that. I'm glad that I watched this. I need to Reiterate my way of thinking
I agree with Steve.
Oh yeah 👍🏿
Hey Steve. I watch your videos from the very beginning of your KZhead channel. You give the greatest advice ever on all subject matter. Thank you so much keep up the great work I’m still learning.❤
So true.
I love Steve Harveys honesty !!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I love your inspiration man,you rock
A man should always pay for everything when out on a date with a lady... period!
What about equality 🤔
Hey Dianne 🌹🌹, good day. I love your comment. How are you feeling today.?
My last date insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu. $1,100 then she told me she was married!! Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again. I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life. Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.
Maybe try to get to know them better before you ask someone out on a date. Hope u find the right one. Or at least can enjoy the freedom of not being with the wrong one
@@nightlady2001 nah, that was years ago. Like most men I gave up. The hard part is I wanted a family, but dating is broken beyond repair and men don't have rights to their children.
Brilliant thanks Steve
It's very rare that I agree with Steve, and this is another one of those times
I never paid for a single date in my entire life nor payed my way when in a relationship. No matter what anybody says...i consistently do what comes naturally to me wich is be a woman in the presence of a man. End of story.
Right! Real men. If he doesn't walk away
Women walk away from men all the time
My last date insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu. $1,100 then she told me she was married!! Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again. I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life. Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.
I miss Steve having a show. He gives on point advice ❣️
Awesome my brother...totally completely awesome. I love this segment. Anyway, just praying that you and your family continue to shine, grow, prosper, and be incredibly blessed as you diligently pursue your life purpose and continue to enlighten souls all around the globe!!!
Online dating has ruined dating. Full stop
I lived in a rural area, it took weeks of constant work online and paying for all the extras to get a date. The way women treat men dating (like an option, or HR interview for a job with too many applicants) I finally get a date, she insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu. $1,100 then she told me she was married!! Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again. I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life. Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.
I agree with Steve 💯 %.
I love,this love the mother has for her girl ❤❤❤❤I feel like it's good to show love to those you care about when there's still time and when you can still show and practice ❤❤ life is too short, when you are gone they will remember you
Steve!!! Thank you for this!!!
God bless you SH!
Yess well said sir. 😊
Once I click on the video and heard Steve say Darlene, where I’d Darlene I was like I’m right here lol. This Darlene, loves you Steve! Enjoy your day ❤
🤔I might not get in my car to go get my daughter from a few yards away but you best believe that we WILL be standing outside waiting for her ...😐 ..READY should any criminal want to find out!
That was awesome Steve, thanks for sharing! 😅😂🎉❤
Very well said! Steve...
I absolutely love Steve and his advice. It’s 100% right on.
“ Their wings work “ amen
You are so right Steve.😊
Personally, i would only go for coffee and go dutch if I dont like a guy romantically or atleast still in the fence. The moment I agree on a full meal, it means I like someone genuinely. However, I would suggest a place I know that is within his budget. I can pay for myself by harvey is right. If you cant even provide something as simple as a meal, why would I think he can afford a family.
Well I guess I'm not paying for dates anymore 💯 Steve you are right!! Thank you for this message 💕
THIS IS TRUE ❤❤❤❤
PREACH!!!!!!
PERFECT ANSWERS!!❤ And the first 2 minutes into the video said it all!!!
I’m not baby boomer era, but man must pay on a date. It’s a total turn off( cross him off the list) for me if we go half on it.
Gold digger
Amen Steve!
I think real men just come and ask you out, not online swipe not serious or investing in you. You need Jesus pray for real men and for exactly what you want? Thank you Steve 💖 it’s so refreshing listening to the truth about men from a man . God bless you 😇
Steve your the MAN ❤❤❤
Steve is a real man😊.
Truly*
Beautiful 💯🙌🏽
His advice and wisdom were Phenomenal!!! 👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Real 🙏❤️
I love steve harvey❤
Exactly!
Thank you
True Steve💓