UPDATE:: I had to turn the comments off due to a lot people arguing and being very negative towards this video. Negativity is something that I do not want on my channel.
Thank you to everyone else that left positive comments on this video as well.
UPDATE:: I had to turn the comments off due to a lot people arguing and being very negative towards this video. Negativity is something that I do not want on my channel.
Thank you to everyone else that left positive comments on this video as well.
Being a food server is an extremely important job. Especially for older disabled people. Don't let anyone criticize your job.
It's like being a therapist some days 😂 Edit:b(and I wouldn't change it for the world)
No…… You were giving me hope especially as a young adult trying to find an apartment in california Then I saw how old the video was 😭😭
Times where defiantly different back then. It's honestly impossible to survive off of minimum wage now a days all thanks to inflation.
I understand you, I make 13hr full time job but it isn't enough living alone. At least for a decent place here, rent would be 1200$ 1bdr. Plus food and other utilities.
This video is 6 years old I totally get it's impossible now to live off of minimum wage. I also pay $1600 for a one bedroom apartment now.
Food isn’t 50 dollars anymore 😢
Nope it sure isn't.
If you can manage your life with minimum wage, you can manage anything.
I totally agree!
La Dama del Caribe so true.. this what I’m trying to do now..
This is VERY true.
Well I'm 61 now and I have. Don't need all that shit ppl think they need. A place to live and a pair of clean panties and I'm good. I've bartend and waitress I'm casinos most of my life. And have done very well. Do damn what ppl say..it's none of their business. I'm not going in debt for no one. 💞
@@deborahfoster1960 lmao yeah a place to live, car FOOD and clean panties ..I'm all good
School doesn’t guarantee a job. Sometimes the “real” job doesn’t meet your expectations. Sometimes it pays less than what others claim it does and it’s not as satisfying as others make it out to be. It’s smart that you’re taking time out to figure out what you want. One day it will come to you. Good luck!
School really helps though
One of my best friends started working after high school. Now she makes twice than my bros do (my bros got bachelor's degree)
Agreed! I worked in childcare for several years and didn't make nearly as much as I do now. I currently work in airport retail.
Your mom was very noble and understanding. My mom has the same thought process. Parents should not take from children, it doesn't actually prepare them, it keeps them stuck.
I am an asian and like most asians i live in joint family. For me paying your own parents a rent is very unusal .. while watching video i asked my father ..do you accept if i will pay u a rent for living in your house? He replied . This is our house . I want my whole family to live in this house together. I build this for my kids not for myself..i really love my father.
That’s is one the most heart warming things I’ve ever heard a parent say to there child 🤭💕 now that’s a dad 👍🏼
Sometimes parents need help to provide for the family. My mom is a single mom I happily give her money toward the rent and utilties. Its not fair to judge that based on your fam.
+Kyra Ann I am divorced with a 7 year old child. And few months ago my dad bought me upertment and all new furniture. And when my son is angry with me he says to my father don't give her money any more and my dad said I will as long as I live, actually that happened last night. My mom and my dad are my angels...I like you so much.
Zaineb Fatimah that gives you funds to save. Thats lovely
conflictpersona8 i was not judging anyone dear ..i just share an experience..its a universal fact that nobody can love u like your parents and what they do according to them is best for you.
You are absolutely right, your job doesn’t define you, your behaviour does. Well done for being so wise beyond your years. It’s quality of life that counts, not how many material things you own/money you have? I have known some incredibly wealthy people who are totally miserable trying to chase their tails, and I’ve known people who are as poor as church mice but incredibly happy with their lives. Life is too short, do what makes you happy and don’t care about what other people think. If someone judges you by what work you do they’re not worth knowing anyway. 👏🏻💐
Mom Life 😊
This
What a fantastic comment. 😘
Jess D 🤗
Beautiful comment
I've never lived in the US so I have no idea how it works there, but here in India and in a lot of other Asian countries, the whole concept of paying rent to your parents for staying in their house is kind of insane. Indian parents usually want their children to stay in their households for as long as possible, and in return the children take care of them in their old age. Retirement homes are not even an option. I can't speak for anyone else, but I feel like the system in the US kind of drives families apart and inhibits close parental connections. Does anyone else have any views on this?
Pragnya Konanur agreed
its true... i feel the culture in US is somehow causing too much loneliness and emotional problems for people. being from india its crazy for me to think parents will take rent from kids or kids will take rent from parents.
My understanding is it's not like they NEED you to like pay into the family - it's more so teaching you responsibilities. Culturally, we believe that people who live in their parent's homes and work outside of the home and yet waste that money on other things don't learn how to be responsible with their money. So then when they later have a place of their own, they don't rely on other people to take care of their basic needs because they've already learned how to do so. Now you could not work outside of the home, but many careers in N. America require work experience. If you simply just go to university and then try to get a job, no one will take you seriously since you have zero life skills to show for it. No one wants an employee that feels entitled -- and that's the concern here. Once you become an adult you're expected to take on adult-like responsibilities. It's almost inappropriate to keep living the same way as you did when you were a child. Making a ton of money and not putting it toward your livelihood (ex. rent) can be dangerous bcs then later you don't know how to manage your money on those essentials. Now of course there are many cultures within N. America so all of this is a broad generalization, so is the idea that ALL people pay rent to their parents as adults. The mindset here is that if you care about your children you need to prepare them to live as an adult instead of holding their hand until their married and then boom magically they are supposed to figure it out for themselves. *Please note that I do not think the opposite is true of adults who live w their parents and don't pay rent or those people living in Asia. My reply is merely to assist in the understanding of whyyyy this practice happens. To explain that it's done more so out of respect - just viewed differently. Every parent wants to raise their child in the best way possible. Different cultures may just have different ideas on what the best way of doing this is.
Okay so for me I’ve just finished secondary school and my mom normally does laundry and buys food and all that regular stuff so I offered to give her €20 a week or every two weeks haven’t really decided yet just to help out with groceries and just regular household stuff
You are absolutely right. It's the truth, and it's sad.
Minimum wage is $11!!!????? Wow... minimum wage for me is $7.25. THE STRUGGLE IS REAL. $11 would be a hugeee raise compared to what I make now. Very lucky, go you.
Remember though, minimum wage is based off how expensive everything else is. In reality they’re not making more
It really makes no difference the cost of living makes it about the same ..
Where I live it's 100$ a month.
Where I live its 15$ an hour
Shaylaun Ford Yo wtf, where do you live
“Too long in a job?” That is strange advice to someone who has a job and is able to support herself. Someone who has a strong sense of self-responsibility and independence. So called “better job” does not necessarily translate to a “better life”. Kyra, you have setup this time in your life based on reality, not fantasy....a great foundation for creating a comfortable rewarding life. Keep your day job and your side-hustle. You are excelling at both. Remember your “real job” is contributing to the wellbeing of elderly people who need your cheerful presence.
Patricia .. I couldn't agree more !!! Such encouraging words!!!
Thank you Patricia for your beautiful words 💕
Kyra. Just wanted to add my voice to the advice to “get a man to support you.” This is old OLD and redundant advice meant to keep women subservient to men. It didn’t work last century and it doesn’t work now. Unfortunately, men often come with debt or will at the very least distract you from your financial goals. There are many good books and blogs written by great women financial experts on the need for women to be self-sufficient.
Having a long standing job looks better on a resume also to employers
Patricia Muir this is the most thoughtful and kind comment I’ve ever seen on KZhead ❤️
I'm sorry but I have to say this I watch a lot of videos on KZhead and I have noticed American people really judge people on what job they do .ie cleaning ..waitress .store worker ect ..it makes me sad as long as it an honest wage packet who cares also I was brought up to respect the janitor the same as the CEO of the company both are working just different job titles .luv ur channel
It is sad. Many people have jobs that contribute great value to society (Mom’s, caregivers, and many more). Many are jobs that others will not or cannot do. Fortunately, there are some of us who do appreciate a good days work done with pride and enthusiasm regardless of the title. We are on Kyra’s channel for a reason.
This is absolutely true. They say in the USA there is no class system, and it isn't quite the same as it is in the UK, it's more flexible, but people certainly judge you by what you do. It's very unfortunate. I think Kyra is amazing, not "just a waitress" as she said some people have said.
Jenny Jen1010 who says there is no class system? We have lower class, middle class and upper class. We also have the terms for blue collar and white collar jobs. I don’t think any country lives without a system. The system determines financial assistance and taxes. In the past our country has had issues disrespecting those who live in a lower class with lower paying job. Thankfully there is a great movement to get people of all walks to respect each other and work together.
.......well said.......✨
Americans are raised the same way. There are 300 million Americans. They aren't all like the people on youtube flashing their Gucci bags.
In summary, living on minimum wage is no big deal if you: 1) only spend $50 per MONTH on food 2) just go to work then come home 3) live close to your job 4) don't travel 5) live a minimalist lifestyle 6) have side hustles What's sad is there are people making minimum wage while working for insanely rich companies that can afford to do better.
Mike P also -don’t have kids and live rent free with parents die a while to save lots of money first. Lol
For* a while
Exactly
And watch your savings slowly fall as they subsidize your bills that minimum wage doesn't cover. God help her if she gets sick or breaks a leg! My daughter spent 3 hours in an ER to have her neck/shoulder xrayed after a sports injury. $1200 AFTER insurance. Took a year to pay off.
Does she even eat? I spent $50 a week on food and sometimes thats not enough
I needed this so much! I am 25 and have no idea what I want to do with my life. I can’t commit to studying because there is nothing I’m 100% passionate about. I like far too many things! Right now I am working as a Clinical Assistant at a Medical Centre. I earn above minimum yet at least once a week I have told by my co-workers ‘you can’t do this forever’ ‘you need to become a nurse’ ‘you need to upskill’ ‘you won’t get anywhere in life’ ‘your pretty much the dogs body’ It is sooo constant and they constantly put my job down, it makes me so angry as they honestly think they are far superior because of their job titles and degrees. I love so many different things in life that one job title doesn’t define me. Also I’ve been getting more into minimalism so glad I’ve found your channel.
Girl do not go to school if youre unsure dont go back bc you think should. If being a waitress works for now its your life. I love that you dont let your job define you bc its ridiculous that ppl judge ppl based on that.
I think if you are def interested in studies tho You can just do some core basic intro classes at a community college to see what you care for. Try free events at unis if school is interesting to u. :]
conflictpersona8 I agree. Don’t let family or friends make you think you have to go to college. But I will say having a trade can be worthwhile if you find something you love. You don’t need a 4~8 year degree to succeed and be happy. So when people tell you you should be more than a waitress-asked them. How much debt are you in? When they look at you with one eye rowed raised. You can say I don’t have any debt. Now who is in a better place? Sadly in today’s society the first thing people ask you after they ask your name is what do you do. This what they can judge you to see if they are higher than you on the food chain.
Exactly that's what I was going to say! You took the words out of my mouth! I totally agree! I'm following your KZhead channel I totally want you to influence me Kyra!
iseektoknow thats an awesome strategy I love that!! Looking into trades thats a good alternative
L7997 i think esp some of these undecided kids who come straight out of highschool they could def benefit from that. Theres this pressure to just know what you want and for some ppl it takes time.
I wish KZhead was around when I was young...so I could have made better decisions... You are not just a waitress... I was a CNA in a basic care facility & nursing home... You are very important to these residents!! Appreciate the experience!! In North Dakota you have a title...Dietary Aide...
Thank you
Carol Sailer
I'm a CNA too and I tend to be looked down upon especially by my own co workers that are LPN's or RN's for doing the "dirtiest, lowest paying job" but seeing my residents clean, comfortable and cared for is the most rewarding thing I've ever done. My boyfriend makes 3x as much as I do per hour but due to him just HAVING to live in a big house, have a nice car and nice things, he's in debt and has to work 2 jobs. I live in a small apartment, old car with no car payments and I live close to everything as well. Thanks to that, I was able to save enough to go back to school, work just on the weekends while he can't go back even though he wants too because he has to work SO much in order to keep up with the fancy lifestyle that he just has to have.
Tania Mayoral. 💗God bless you for the work you do, and for taking pride in keeping the residents clean and comfortable. That means more than you could ever know!!
I respect everyone’s hustle, you got to eat in this world. There is a way to live on minimum standards it’s all the want and need rule. I’m asian myself raised in a strict home,strict parents. All of both sides of my family have degrees. Doctors,nurses,lawyers,realtors,dentist,surgeons,engineers. Everyone would bash me for wanting to weld as a living. Graduated high school with a technical degree in welding. Straight out of high school began working at a warehouse at 15 hr heavyweight work and hard labor. My parents never supported me or agreed with my decisions they wanted me to get a degree. Managed to saves since high school working fast food. @19 I landed my first pipeline job making 48 hr working 7days 12 hours. Married young. Moved out young. During my first year of working in pipeline I managed to make 6figures my first year. Invested in my own bussiness. I’m 22 now married paid for my wife’s school she’s a neonatal nurse makes the same as me yearly. I’m a second year bussiness owner with 2 bussiness booming and double my investment coming in. Paid my first home in full worth half a million 500k with my wife. No kids. No bills.just utilities taxes no truck notes simple lifestyle. Travel. Work and build together with my now wife. Proved everyone wrong who told me welding wouldn’t get me nowhere. you don’t always need a degree it’s how bad and how hard you work and want it. Anything is possible it’s up to you what you do with your time and where your energy is put at. Good to see people doing good and smiling god bless you and your future.😁
Idk you but I'm proud of you!!
You blow me away with how self aware you are at such a young age. I wish i had been like you at your age! You will go to school if and when it makes sense for you. Just keep living your own life and keep that great head on your shoulders!
People tell I should find a boyfriend to help pay rent , bills, etc...I am like, no, I will do it on my own .I am working and in school, I am focused and determine. I literally don't have time for a BF
Shai Wilde Smart young lady ! no man with credentials want a woman who’s in debt.
Thats the dumbest advice I've ever heard omg.. Good thing you have common sense
No one has time for something they don't make time for. Js
That's also a terrible reason to have bf. Lol
Yeah, I rather struggle financially alone , then to use someone else for their resources.
Good for you waiting until you know what you want to do. Most people don’t even work in their degrees. I have a ridiculous amount if school debt bc that’s just what people did. When you get criticism for what you’re doing, that’s the other people coming from a place of guilt or discomfort. Keep on! Love your wisdom at what I see as a “young” age. 😂 Getting older is funny.
Exactly!!! Great answer. Do you...your business is none of mine. It works for you and that's what matters 👍
I couldn't agree more, I am doing the exact same thing I am undecided so I am just working now.
What Laura Likes Yeah, I majored in social work bcuz all my friends were going to college and I didn’t know what I wanted to do, so I chose it out of desperation. Now I have a TON of student loan debt and don’t even work in that field anymore bcuz it was low paying, dangerous, and stressful! I now make a ton more than I was making in SW and this job doesn’t even require a degree! I will admit I got lucky and/or my prayers were answered bcuz a lot of decent paying jobs require some sort of training/degree. But if I didn’t have student loan debt, I think I would be able to survive in a lower paying job.
@@karmaisab777 what job is that?
Josh I transcribe police reports at a local police station. It’s a govt. job. If I can hang in there for 7 more yrs. my student loans will be forgiven bcuz I work in the service industry. I was scraping by working from home transcribing(low pay + unsteady work) while my ex paid the bills. But that experience landed me where I am today!
I happened to stumble across your video & the first thing I want to tell you is I don't know you but I'm so proud of you. So proud to see a BEAUTIFUL YOUNG girl FOCUSED & RESPONSIBLE. Please don't you dare or allow any negative comments to change your way of thinking.
Awww... that was soo sweet!!!
Does me good to see an appreciative daughter and humble as well. You are beautiful and wise beyond your years. Keep positive and grounded. Wish you well.
thank you for the advice. ignore people's ugly comments. You're not asking anyone for anything.
found your channel... and absolutely love it! I agree with everything you said in this video. I make less than $2000 a month and I am still able to live comfortably, travel & balance work and life. Keep it up girl you're doing great!
Thank you💕 that’s awesome good for you hun 👍🏼 sometimes people feel certain things are impossible simply because they have never tried it before. It’s only possible if you put in the effort :)
@@Kyraann. exactly! nothing is impossible 🌱🌻
Meh. The idol of a college degree is over rated. People are brainwashed into thousands of dollars of debt so they can have a higher paying job to pay off the debt they wouldn't have had if they hadn't attended. 👋 Two degrees here so I'm speaking from experience. You're smart and not brainwashed and think with your brain. I hope you stick to your guns.
Nikki Schumacher Official yea. I just got my degree and I got a salary job. With taxes taken out and pension 40k I'm making the same amount that I made working as a waitress.
I don't think it's overrated, knowledge is power and education is key. People who come from immigrant parents tend to think that way. Fortunately I live in Canada so having a degree does not mean hundreds of thousands in debts.
@@18ormorexox It depends...My sister owes $35,000 for her poli sci degree with accumulating interest. We live in Ontario.
You are exactly right. I spent $100,000 on a private, all women's college education. My husband spent $12,000 to go to trade school. He's making 3x as much as I am. I could be doing my job without my degree. We're not sending our child to college unless she knows what she wants to do and it requires a degree. And even then, she's going to pay her way, Dave Ramsey style.
@@theclassicstare5713 Really? I did my law degree and bar at Ottawa u. Took loans for the whole 4 years... My debt is not that high...
Wow, $50 a month for groceries 😯 I would love to see a vegan grocery haul!! I feel like I spend so much on groceries weekly/bi-weekly and I would love to learn ways to cut back in that aspect of my spending!
Girl... keep livin’ your life. Do t worry about miserable people. You sound like you’re doing really well.
Can you show us your grocery shopping on a $50 budget?
Will definitely do so :) I’m vegan also so most of the items I grab are all veggies
Yes! I would like this as well!
@@Kyraann. I shop at local farmers market's and ALDI. I am not vegan , but I do incorporate a lot of vegan and vegetarian meals and when I do my bill is $25-30 a week.
My weekly grocery budget is $40 at Aldi. I make jokes that no matter what I get there my total is always less than 40! Unless I get wine hehe
$50 Grocery Budget for a month $10 boneless skinless chicken breast (this should get you a 4lb bag at stores like bargain grocery outlet, smart and final, food4less & vallarta) $3 salad (99cts spinach, 99cts lettuce, 2 for $1 cucumber) $2 salad dressing (normally 1.99 on sale. You can get these at almost any stores or the ones listed above) $4 Black eye pea beans 2lbs (same stores like above) $5 5lbs bag of parboiled rice( same stores) $2 eggs (same stores, trader joes, costco) $2 bread or frozen naan bread (same stores, costco, trader joes.) $5 for almond milk 2 (2 32 oz for 5 bucks. They have that sale almost every week at those above stores. You can also get 3 half gallon packs at Costco for 10 bucks) $2 tea park (for tea lovers like myself. You can make a tea cup everyday or try cold brew) $5 honey (same stores) $5 oil (for anything) $5 tissue paper Total $50
Kudos to you. Thank you thank you thank you for sharing this. This is great advice for young people and for people who are starting over. And don't let anyone job shame you, it's honest work.
I am impressed with your positive attitude and your responsibility. But what you described isn’t “living on minimum wage” in a sense where minimum wage is actually all you have to live on. People against raising the minimum wage may see this and say, “See! ‘They’ just need to be more like this girl!” In reality, living with your mom rent free so you can save and support yourself isn’t living on minimum wage-it’s living on minimum wage + your mom’s income to offset your expenses. Many young people do not have the privilege of parents who can do that for them. So your savings you use to pay bills now are from that “safety net” which was enabled-not by a minimum wage income-but by your mother’s income. You also have your sister’s boyfriend who offered you free labor - this is a form of capital not everyone has access to that enables you to avoid spending money. Due to your mom using her income to help you save, you were able to afford a place with a convenient location that makes your cost of living cheaper. Someone who *only* has minimum wage to go off of and wasn’t able to use someone else’s resources to save money can’t do that. They wind up in inconvenient places where they have less control over their budget and expenses. Kudos to your mom for helping you! But in no sense is just a straight-up minimum wage affordable or fair. You deserve more. And shame on your job for not giving you a raise above minimum wage after 6 years of faithful service. Totally unfair.
100%. And I'm guessing that many won't realize what you just mentioned.
LunaWave ; she has a loving family that work and support each other. They are encouraging her to take care of her self which I understand since I have 2 daughters who are handling business on their own. Minimum wage is different in every state and the cost of living in that state has a huge impact on how far that income will go. I live in The “Mitten state and the cost of living isn’t cheap here. Our minimum wage is 7.75(I think) and rent for a decent place to stay is at least $800 a month. They don’t match. No everyone isn’t privileged to have a great family with the means to help or live in a small town with reasonable cost of living. But she’s not say anyone can do what she is doing. She’s just talking about her experience.
Deborah Allen I agree with all you said. And I agree, she is not telling people to do what she is doing. But what I said was, she described her situation as “living on minimum wage.” After listening to her story, I gave feedback that I did not think she was describing what she said she was describing. You are not living on minimum wage when your income is off-set by someone else’s. The moral of my comment is - she deserves the life she has even if she was on actual minimum wage. I hope she gets it. I hope she keeps advocating for herself. I hope her job realizes they need to pay her a living wage, especially after being there for 6 years. She is worth more. We all are.
This comment is worth being pinned or whatever, to be seen by more people. 😄
I agree. I live on minimum wage and I am a PhD teaching and doing research at a university in Italy. All I have is my salary of 1400 per month ,rent is 700 (one bedroom apartment in Pisa, city of the leaning tower), car is old and fortunately not expensive but still 45 a month goes for gas. Add the cost of electricity, water, heating, phone, and it goes to around 150/200, 150 for food... In the end I have worked 6 years to have 2k in the bank. How lovely. That's freaking minimum wage, not living with my mom for 2 years to save and move out. She is a great girl with a good message for us all, but living modestly with 14k in your account is not the same as living with minimum wage.
SO HAPPY you made this video! money is still that topic that gets everyone bent out of shape and I feel its important to pinpoint your values and budget! simple things you mentioned can make a tremendous difference!! Im so happy i found your channel and I look forward to following your journey (:
I lost a job I hated in corporate America at the beginning of this year and felt more ashamed because I didn't know how I was be 'defined' rather than being scared I didn't know my next step! I agree - having a strong amount of savings is definitely key and got me through to my new job! :)
How do you live on only $50/month for groceries?
Also having extra groceries in your pantry would make sure there's food to eat. Food pantries are good to visit if you need them.
@@buddypenny12345 Buy potatoes. Onions. Celery. Make lots of soup. Preserve your food. Eat lots of beans. Eat less and healthy
50 bucks a Month goes a lot further for a Vegan. Meat & Dairy be Big Money.
The part that perplexed me was the $100.00 for Fall/Winter wardrobe? Capsule or not, she must be going 2nd hand. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, just would have been cool of her to mention. Mostly because some people don't have a clue 😉
In my state the min wage is $8.00, I think. I pd a mortg, truck payment, utilities, food etc on min wage. If money is managed properly, you can be very comfortable. Please don't listen to ppl from school. They owe more money for a house, 2 cars, kids and all their stuff. Don't listen to them. They don't pay your bills. As long as you are happy, content and hardly any debt, stay as you are. Credit card and shopping alot, is not good!!!!Any job that you love going to, is not really a job. Now or in the future. Take care. Always remember, "STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF, ONLY"!!!!!!!!! Don't tell ppl or even friends, everything.
Judy A. Shroads how did you manage to pay all that on $8 an hour??? Please help a sista out lol
Yikes $8 is way too low. Minimum wage here is $15 and even that's not much. I couldn't survive on $15 not with the rent here in Ontario....on average rent is $1,200 - $1,700
@@MoniqueViola You probably won't like what I tell you. I have a $45.00 Straight Talk phone, no dryer, no cable. My treat for me is Wendy's, Pizza Hut or Dairy Queen. Fine dining. Lol. My house payment is very low. It's the taxes that I have to save for most of the yr. I'm retired after 43 yrs and there's not alot of money coming in. Best advice I can give you is cut your spending drastically. Track spending for a month. You will be surprised. Take coffee, juice or pop and lunch to work. Buy lunch things in 6pks and lunch meat. Cut going out with the ladies and eating out to just a few times. Unplug all things you don't use every day. Elec co charges for ghost power. Shut off lights unless necessary. Close all rooms off so as not to heat or a/c and shut off vents. Clean out car, it costs extra gas. Keep car full or half full. Keep car checked and go to a reputable mechanic that won't rip you off. Buying the car parts at auto store is also cheaper if it needs fixed. Always have extra food in your house with a manual can opener just in case. Like tuna, crackers, soup, canned hams, sardines, water etc. I hope that helps you. Most ppl won't live this way. If I was younger, money in the bank because I cut my spending, it would be precious. Don't even tell ANYBODY you have money saved as it grows. Your Mom may just talk and it comes out or with friends. Just talking or Jealousy from others once you start cutting costs to start saving. I'm long winded. Haha "CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK AND THINGS WILL CHANGE".
Judy A. Shroads 45 dollars for a cell phone!!! I only pay $23 for my cell and only have it for emergency.
@@tracywalker244 WOW, Tracy, that's a great price. I'll have to look for this in my area. Thank you!!!!
Well thankfully you also have income coming in from KZhead. Creating multiple streams of income is so important.
I agree job does not define a person
You should've added the word ALONE in the title. Living alone on minimum wage is much more manageable.
Could you show/explain more how you only spend 50$ a month on food? Like a weekly shopping list or something.. would be great! 💕
WisdomOnTour it’s impossible she’s getting help or she is living with her parents
She's vegan.
Scarlet Moonlight So did you just comment before watching the video or didn’t listen at all? She said she lives alone so why would her parents being helping if she said that’s not the case.
@@Gypsysow Well she works in food establishment, so she probably gets a free meal during her work hours. And perhaps if she's scheduled a dinner service (closing), she may be able to take food home that was left over, being the type of food service she works in. Best I got as a server was a free cup of soup and an entree at a 50% discount.
I was wondering the same thing! It seems like $50 a month isn't feasible. Here in Wisconsin I spend about $250 a month on food for just me but that can be a challenge sometimes.
Yes! Girl! What this says to me is that your soul and spirit are really strong. Keep going and keep doing what feels good for you and your own pace. Everybody that keeps telling you to 'level up' forgets the costs that are associated with it. Do you!
Girl!!!!! I can relate to you so much. Thank you for sharing your situation. You have no idea how much this video made my day. You’re amazing !
I would love to see your fall capsule wardrobe!
Thank you for those video! Not many people on KZhead do, definitely going to keep watching your videos you’re an inspiration♥️
Girl, you are everything!!! I am a new subscriber and I couldn’t be happier. Great content and very relatable delivery. Keep shining! ✨
You should be so very proud of yourself.
I waited until 25 to go back to college and it was the best decision of my life. I waited so I wouldn’t invest thousands of dollars into a career that I didn’t want. Turns out I ended up getting free tuition due to many factors regarding my age, income and skills
Girl I seriously NEEDED this. THANK YOU so much!
Thank you for posting this video, I’m 22 and I still live at home and I struggle with money problems and I also work minimum wage after watching this video you’ve inspired me too save more and I also feel a lot better about my self. So glad this was on my recommendations, and by the way you seem like a very lovely person. :)
You have 14k saved to be able to do this. Leaving on your own in MA with minimum wage is impossible.
She lives in MA in Boston 😂😂😂😂
You, young lady, have your head on straight! You're the Dave Ramsey of your generation! You are waaaay ahead of the game. Doesn't listen to your detractors!
Hell yes sister!!! You are SO smart. Your channel is so relatable. Thank you so much for putting yourself out there and sharing.
I needed this sooo much and I am literally in the same situation and I am so proud that you had the courage to share this.❤️❤️❤️
Well we know you don’t live in California lol
i was looking for someone to mention this lol
Alexa Cruz my husband makes 35 an hour 40+ hours a week and I make around 4-500 every two weeks and we can barely afford a 2 bedroom condo in a decent area! It’s actually sickening
I completely understand.. In downtown SF my grandparent's studio was 500-600 growing up, now in the same apartment is 1800+
It is so expensive to live here in Los Angeles! Good for her though. She is so disciplined!
this. I live in SF and I was forced to stay living with my parents and my son.
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You are a kind person The residents at the senior living facility are lucky to have you. You brighten their day every day
You do what you want to do..ITS YOUR LIFE..ONE THING I'VE LEARNED IN LIFE.."You can't please everyone"...Your doing a great job..BUDGETING YOUR MONEY AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE..
You definitely don’t live in New York, for sure lol
Or Los Angeles!
God living in the OC here in California on minimum is damn near impossible
Or Vancouver, BC lol. Living costs here were more expensive than Manhattan at one point
Or Seattle
Most people on decent wages can't afford city life.
Your so genuine and I love your positivity. Subscribed !
Well done! It is so true, I have lived on my own many times before. It feels so great. All you need is to work out a budget and use that. It shows you can look after yourself and put a roof over your head, food and what not. Love this video. x
$11/hr (plus tips?) is pretty good for a waitress. I think in my state wait staff make $2-4. Anyway, I love what you said about your job not defining you and what you said about school. I was in retail / child care for a while and my grandma would always tell me to get a real job or hound me about going to school. It’s not the same as it was where getting a degree guarantees you high pay. I see plenty of job postings requiring degrees but paying minimum wage. So how is that gonna help at all lol?
I wish we got tips but unfortunately we aren’t allowed to accept tips. I work with elderly people that have Alzheimer’s and sometimes they will hand you $100 only because they simply do not understand anymore :( it’s very sad. and when we do holidays the residents family try to give us money for serving them and their parents but we have to simply decline the money. It’s so true I see that to :/ my sisters both took classes to become managers at cvs and now with that manager title and countless hours of then learning they only make $2 more than me.
I agree!that is funny!
Kyra Ann i think tip becomes less important when they show such a love to u.
Kyra Ann that’s an additional $320 she’s making a month. That’s more than a payment on a new Ford Focus. It doesn’t seem like a lot but that additional $2 and hour can help a lot. Even if it’s just put into savings
Kyra Ann but it’s cvs lol
I will be forever paying my student loan. And it didn't make my salary increase. So college doesn't define your pay check
what did you study?
Human services. Which doesn't pay great. It's rewarding though.
How much do you pay a month in student loans?
I am so proud of you, and I don't even know you. You are such an inspiration. I suspect that I'm close to 3 times your age, and I only wish that I had had half the wisdom and self discipline that you have now, when I was your age. Do not ever feel like you have to manage the expectations of others. Educate those toxic people if you can, but politely walk away, if you can't. Don't waste your time and energy on them. I have made such a financial mess of my life, but I'm finally getting my act together, thanks in no small part to young people like you. Keep doing what you're doing. ;-)
You’re very inspirational!!! There a lot of people that earn a lot of money and they’re stressed and broke because they can’t manage their money. Thank you for sharing!!! To God be the glory for your gift.
New subscriber! I absolutely love your channel. ❤️❤️❤️
You are far more wise than your peers. If they had the identical budget/income etc, and told to make the most of it and be responsible, you would've kicked ALL their butts! You're awesome.
You’re extremely transparent, humble, and courageous/ strong. God bless you.. wish you the best of luck on everything, including KZhead :)
Waitressing includes tips so it’s not min wage. Free rent at your moms is not the same as having to start from scratch. 50 for food? Are you eating rice and beans daily? 100 for fall wardrobe? Not even Amazon is that cheap. Something missing from the information your sharing. Side hustle? I live in the cheapest apartment and my whole check goes to rent. I get money from my parents to compensate.
Same thing I was thinking. And I mean, she got to save up thousands of dollars because her parents let her live at home until she was 25, so technically she had a huge jump start to be able to live a little more comfortably than many people making minimum wage.
I agree with these comments.
She works as a waitress, surely she can save money on food. And she didn't say that she will buy an entire new wardrobe of clothes, probably she will integrate what she owns with something new, maybe shoes or a jacket. And in a shop that sells used clothes you can buy many things at great prices, it's a paradise for sweaters and jeans.
Too bad she didn’t share the details huh.
I'm assuming she's American and not Canadian here..... In America, restaurants can legally pay waitstaff way below minimum wage because they're expected to get tips, so in the end, it probably amounts to the actual minimum wage.
This is so inspiring and informative! Plus, I can relate to a few things you said like having people tell you to go back to school when you’re not even sure what you wanna do yet & living with a parent without being charged for rent. I literally was starting to make a list while I was watching this and I’m gonna give myself a budget every month and not spend so recklessly. The tips you have are great and I’m definitely going to apply them to my life, thank you!
Girl I live in MA too, I’m a new subbie but I need you as a life coach!! Been dealing with so much mentally and I know I’d feel so much more free as a minimalist and I have no clue where to start 😭😭 love your energy, sending love💓
This really hit home for me. I'm 28 and constantly feel like I'm not as successful as I should be. I've gone to school for different things that haven't worked out and I'm still trying to figure out what I'm doing with my life and not worry about what people think and expect from me. Thanks so much for sharing this!
Girl, you are so wise! You have such an amazing and attention- grabbing presence. I am glad to have found your channel while searching for videos on living in Austin. I subscribed!
I am working as security guard in book store ,I feels it's humilation when somebody mentioned my job or some of my acquaintances recognizes me there ,but I can't do half of u do in life ,I always spending my money on makeup stuff or clothes ,I think I should live my life on budget right now since I watched your videos ,I am got inspired by your positive attitude to life ,life isn't fair for everyone ,but u make this video make our people working as minimum wage like u see something in hope ,so I will reference your lifestyle ,it will really helps me to take control of my life for even one time ,thax girls !!!
Love your attitude. ❤️ This was a really helpful video for me! I just finished my degree but I need something to keep me going until something else comes up. It's really helpful to know that there's nothing wrong with being on minimum and being a waitress, because I was getting insecure about it because of what everyone was telling me. Seeing you doing so well is really empowering thank you. ❤️❤️
So inspiring! Thank you for being transparent and being so self aware and sticking to your own journey! I needed this!!
I needed this❤ this makes me feel so much better about working in fast food and paying for college on my own.
Love this video and your outlook on life, personal finances, and working just hard enough and strategically enough to love stress-free. Thank you for sharing!
It’s a mistake to wait till you figure out what you want to do. Take anything and let that pay for what you want. I forced my sister to take something in school and to this day she thanks me because it gave her the means to pursue what she really wanted to do.
You are amazing and doing great managing life and your wellbeing! Your job is helping our elderly feel cared for, nourished and loved and that is priceless. I have had the same experiences of people trying to push me to go to school even though I am not comfortable with the debt and not sure what to study. I let go of people who give me a hard time and I focus on my health and happiness. You are very wise for your young age and I am so proud of you! I am in my forties and I also live simply and enjoy the little things in life. Always do your thing and not worry about others who are so depressed they feel the need to tell you how to live your life. Thank you for this video it was so refreshing and positve!
Wonderful video:) Thank you! You’re a smart cookie! Dave Ramsey budgeting, minimalism, and a holistic humble lifestyle has made me SO much happier than when I was trying to keep up with the Joneses.
Everything you said is correct. It absolutely makes sense. Not only does it make sense but a person can choose to live this wAy and be happy and not so stressed out . The more money we have, the more money we spend or the more money we owe and then we find ourselves needing more money- it will never be enough- or will it? You just proved something. Good Job Girl
I love your eyebrows! Awesome vid too :). I have been in the process of “growing out of” that buying all the clothes, make up etc lifestyle for awhile. I’m doing better but still have a ways to go. You’re inspiring, keep it up!
Thank you for this! I resonate so much, I think people wanna just go go go and especially if you have side hustles in motion they don't get why you wouldn't want to go to school or back to it.. Not everything is linear and even becoming a doctor or a speech therapist, etc. is not permanent and you're not guaranteed a fulfilled life. What's for me is for me, as for everyone else. People especially strangers have to learn to mind their own!
Eeeee I think I have an awesome new KZheadr to watch! Go Kyra, loved this video. I’m all about real talk and personal finance and you are such a smart cookie. Like my Aunty says “ my futures so bright I gotta wear shades” I think you are this personified!
Wow. Such maturity & insight from such a young lady. You are an inspiration. Keep it up!
Love, love, love this video! Thank you so much for the tips and sharing this! I’ve been wanting to move out on my own and I’ve heard the “you’ll need a roommate” and blah blah but your proof that when you want something and determined, it will be accomplished! I can’t wait to see where you are in a few years because with a mentality like that, you will go far ❤️
This is one of the most beautiful and positive KZhead videos I’ve seen in a long while.
Do you girl. The right path will always present itself if you follow your instincts. Love the simplicity of your home set up 👌🏾
I am a new subscriber, and I am very inspired by you, very wise beyond your years..I liked how you said you saved while you were living with your mother, and your mother is everything, because first of all she didn't charge you rent, which help you to save your money, so beautiful💝
I’m so happy that I came across this video! This is great advice and a great perspective on minimum wage jobs. I used to feel so down on myself because I was working a minimum wage job while my friends had actual careers.
U are such a beautiful person..and ur very appreciative. Make the big change when ur ready. As long as ur happy keep doing just that.. Love ur video!!
I love your perspective. Thank you for being so candid and open 💜
This is a great series & it’s different than doing just regular vlogs or something. You’re going to go far with this. Wishing you lots of success!
I’m so glad I clicked on this video. It’s extremely relatable and I even work in the same environment. In high school I was a server at a retirement/nursing home. After I graduated I became a dietary aid and I’ve been there for 5 years now.
Thank you, I needed to hear some of things you said. Lately I been down but what you said is completely right. 💚
I think it's awesome that you're waiting until you figure out what you want to go to school for. It's very expensive and if you're going to go in debt make it worth your while! I went back to school later in life and so happy I waited. Great video.
You are an extremely sensitive sensible positive practical and grounded person. Kudos to your attitude! I was staying in the States 20years back so I have an idea of the scenario. You are of my son's age. Your parents must be so proud of you for having a daughter with such a wonderful attitude. Have learned a lot from you. God bless!
Dang I already liked her from the first 2 minutes of the video. U go girl!! I definitely subscribed! ❤️
I love your humble spirit and authenticity. That will take you so far in life. You are young and have made some wise decisions based on your circumstances, not people. Best wishes in whatever you set out to do.
You should be really proud of yourself, young lady. I admire your attitude towards life. We need more young people like yourself to show the world that we don't need much to feel happy. I wish you all the best and hope you can do whatever you want to do in life.
U are making the right decision for you right now! I wish I was this smart at your age concerning my money. Don't worry about anybody's opinion of you or your job. U know its not going to be forever, but as long as you are happy that is all that matters 💕
Thank you so much! Just subscribed! I really appreciate your point of view! Makes me feel better about not being in school rn!
I commend you for living a minimalist lifestyle! I'm downsizing in October bc my life has shifted & I don't buy things just to say I have it. My daughter was a freshman in college last year & that really encouraged me. Great video!!