As long as Benny isn't treating Selena like shit, their relationship is none of my business.
@tmamone8325 күн бұрын
Period bby
@cheer4me100025 күн бұрын
Selena treating Benny like shit too right?
@tamarapenwarden12825 күн бұрын
i feel like it be that way either way. its creepy and annoying for random ppl to be invested in other's relationships at all
@nekomancer0925 күн бұрын
I agree but like people change he may have shaded her before but i guess noone heard of enemies to lovers thing lmao
@drewc.956225 күн бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼
@jlpetal956125 күн бұрын
Trying to tell a grown woman how to live her life is hilarious like I’m no Selena fan but the way her fans try to tell her what to do is hilarious like I hope she marries this mf so her fans will learn their place
@Monica7221525 күн бұрын
as much as i get viscerally disgusted every time i see benny blanco pop up on my fyp, i agree, i think people should leave selena alone. to be more specific, i dont just mean his looks, its just his internet presence especially on tik tok
@thesaltines822025 күн бұрын
Well said, it's crazy that ppl are like "well that's just her fans". Like, no.. it's not okay.
@jenniferjohnson-jb7ki25 күн бұрын
@@thesaltines8220wait why you just don’t like how he looks?
@toriplayssg25 күн бұрын
do i get her attraction? actually yes but i get why other people are so hateful. but she's the happiest i've ever seen her since the early days when she was with youknowwho.
@bamabby01024 күн бұрын
@@toriplayssg i never thought too deeply about how he looks, i mentioned it bc this video specifically talks about his looks, i mostly dont like the fact that he acts immature in the videos ive seen of him online gagging at ethnic foods. i associate that mans face and voice with gagging and i hate it.
@thesaltines822024 күн бұрын
I love how everyone can “tell” how he’s a “bad guy” or a “horrible person” but y’all can’t identify the red flags in your own relationships? 😂
@aiyner25 күн бұрын
the man posted his child naked
@kpopqueenie808525 күн бұрын
@@kpopqueenie8085 Now this is the kind of information I care to know about. This is a reason ppl should hate him. Not because he’s not attractive.
@aiyner25 күн бұрын
They need a gentle reminder that a lot of serial killers are attractive men
@Riatehmonstrrbunneh25 күн бұрын
@@kpopqueenie8085wtf. like accidentally or what?
@ugh.good.25 күн бұрын
@@kpopqueenie8085yeah the problem is most ppl don’t know this bc they’re too focused on how he looks
@princesscherry521725 күн бұрын
Nah I’m on Selena’s side. Literally leave her alone. She’s the only who’s with him not you. Let it go
@bubblesawesome328425 күн бұрын
I would have said the same if she has not benefited so much in her carrer from involving her fans in her relationships and drama. She uses them like weapons when it's convenient and encourages them to defend her by liking and replying shady comments... now she doesn't want anyone in her business 🤡 ...you can't just deactivate the unhealthy attachment they have.
@missymani24 күн бұрын
@@missymanieverything I've seen of Selena the last year she's been encouraging her fans to not go and bully people such as Hailey Bieber. To blame her for the actions of some of her crazed fans is WILD. To think you can have an opinion on her relationship now because of past actions IS WILD. To think you have some sort of opinion or stake in the game because you're her fan? IS WILD.
@chronicallygilliann24 күн бұрын
@@missymani are we talking about the same person?
@bubblesawesome328424 күн бұрын
she and her fans needs to let it go.
@meBeelicious23 күн бұрын
I don't understand the people telling her he's not a great guy. She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions, if he turns out to be a bad guy, so be it??? But those are her choices, people need to stop babying her tbh.
@flaviam705725 күн бұрын
That video of him talking shit about her is so bad though. It's public. Everyone can see that.
@celestialceleste36925 күн бұрын
And he made an off handed comment that could have been about anyone. This is what they're using to call him a bad person. It's so strange.
@wesley216125 күн бұрын
Yeah no fr lol I'm confused why anyone gives a shit? Like if you have a job, full time college student, or in a relationship of your own I cannot envision you caring at all. It's boredom that makes peopel care
@Amila-ym7ny25 күн бұрын
Constantly sharing love life online. Surprised about getting reception.
@rakenzie25 күн бұрын
@@rakenzie Insulting someone, their boyfriend, and then saying they have low-esteem is not reception. Y’all seriously need to get a life.
@DavidKen87825 күн бұрын
The guy interviewing Benny WAS BRUTAL LMAO. He kept backtracking but also kept going 😂😂😂
@yellyeys67125 күн бұрын
Andrew is a comedian and really good friends with Benny. Otherwise yeah, I'd be worried because he went hard 🤣.
@user-sz8qo1sp1i24 күн бұрын
I'm pretty sure he was doing a bit. I thought it was funny and I think Benny did too lol
@owl.feathers24 күн бұрын
You have now been introduced to Andrew Santino. That was very mild for him though, so I wouldn’t recommend watching him again if that felt brutal. He goes too hard, to anyone’s face but especially with people he actually knows. 😂😂😂
@MsJamnation23 күн бұрын
the amount of bodyshaming i've seen regarding this relationship is insane, so sad thought we were better than that
@lauraboredom216825 күн бұрын
According to the internet, we can’t body shame women but men are fair game. And they wonder why more men commit suicide….sad world we live in
@AliciaJoonam24 күн бұрын
Apparently he's a man so it's okay.
@jobivuvuvfvi60522 күн бұрын
"Fighting your fans for a man is embarrassing"? Lmao naw What is embarrassing?Is these people being so obsessed with a celebritg who doesn't even know them 💀 You are so obsessed with this person that you expect her to listen to your words and dump somebody that she loves? For you? THATS weird. People are mad because of how Benny looks. Period. Who cares if he shades pop stars who have a make up brand. If that is the worst thing I could experience with a partner, I'd be incredibly grateful. Her "fans" are being gross and judgmental
@babyturkey834225 күн бұрын
💯
@Life-is-a-birdsong25 күн бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@myopinionnotyours.605325 күн бұрын
Her fans are their worst enemy
@niziangely546925 күн бұрын
Preaaaach!!!!!!
@maja207625 күн бұрын
You should see how korean fans are with their korean idols (actors/singers). They can't even have a relationship or else the fans cancel their own idol.
@LetsBHonest25 күн бұрын
I feel kinda hurt for Benny in that interview . To be spoken about how you look everyday I can never imagine the emotional damage and self insecurity’s that are building up because of other people . We need to do better as a society .
@savanahkatzke25 күн бұрын
he’s a gross person so he deserves it idc
@6ngelic24 күн бұрын
I feel really bad for Benny. I think its way too low to comment on someones appearances
@Caroline1025.25 күн бұрын
Why did people think that she was going to go after a guy that is like socially attractive? She’s happy he’s happy. He cares about her. She cares about him like leave it alone. I feel bad for the guy.
@Milo1Cosplay25 күн бұрын
I think it's absolutely ridiculous that strangers legitimately believe they know Selena's insecurities and what's best for her. Like STOP! And bringing up how someone's appearance is less than standard... that's in your eyes, not anyone else's. People are SO WEIRD.
@panduh548025 күн бұрын
If she’s getting treated amazingly.. Looks ?? Do they matter that much?
@ericagonzalez907525 күн бұрын
Who else found Spill Sesh one day and just cant stop watching her videos?
@chynabarbieeeeee25 күн бұрын
Can’t relate, been here for years.
@trayas227225 күн бұрын
@@trayas2272that’s what they mean tho cause u came across her channel one day and you’ve been a fan ever since
@ruviigrace25 күн бұрын
I don't even know most of the influencers/celebrities but I click so fast seeing a new video posted. Her voice is soothing and entertaining.
@kirraa319125 күн бұрын
Me. I think it was during the Colleen Ballinger thing last year. I actually found a lot of "tea channels"/commentary channels that way. Spill Sesh is one of the better ones. The rest are either boring (Radiantbritt), preachy (Drama Kween), or just cheap content mill shit with AI vocals that mispronounce half the words (can't remember that one, but it's something like Tea Spill or some variation of the tired old "spill the tea" phrase we need to permanently retire because white people have ruined it for everyone else).
@tmamone8325 күн бұрын
I clicked to sort by oldest and realized one day that I've been watching since they started
@yukil.spencer384825 күн бұрын
I'm just shocked she actually replies to trolls. With as many followers/fans she has and how big she is in the industry, she actually replies which means she also reads that many comments too.
@BeNiceBeGood25 күн бұрын
I don’t see how people don’t see how sick she is. If she didn’t give it any attention no one would know about this. The only reason people care is cause she’s responding. All celebrities have to deal with fans talking sh1t but most don’t engage cause they know it makes it worse. But Selena knows she is nothing without the drama so she has to participate.
@nitely234525 күн бұрын
@@nitely2345plenty of celebrities engage with online comments. Ariana grande, Taylor swift, and some ex one direction members had their own online drama pre covid, whether it be twitter or tumblr.
@dotcom301525 күн бұрын
@@nitely2345She's sick for responding but y'all ain't sick for going on her page talking mess?? Make it make sense plus she's more relevant than you sis literally had a song blow up before it was released and her makeup line is successful but she's nothing without drama that y'all start?? Ok
@ZionDoesMakeup25 күн бұрын
@@ZionDoesMakeup right? how dare a woman stand up for her man when she's a celebrity and she's just supposed to shut up
@denise753025 күн бұрын
@@denise7530 EXACTLY YOU GET IT!!
@ZionDoesMakeup25 күн бұрын
Lmao wait, he does look like the guy from Ice Age 😂
@templeoflite1125 күн бұрын
YES
@Kellylynn_25 күн бұрын
Are we referring to Sid? Cause personally I really don’t see it 😭 what am I missing
@america443825 күн бұрын
He looks like the baby from ice age 😭😭
@andreaperez121025 күн бұрын
@@andreaperez1210 now that makes more sense
@america443825 күн бұрын
yup 💯
@trusha_tungare25 күн бұрын
Idk why people think they know whats best Selena... Let the girl live. And so fucking what if he made a silly comment 3 years ago. Just because he mentioned Justin doesnt mean hes referring to Selena either..
@mckaylastorms176725 күн бұрын
Honestly I went down a rabbit hole of this guy and honestly he's so chill. I think people just HATE ethnic looking people
@ryn861325 күн бұрын
I agree. I don't know much about the guy but based off what Ive seen, he seems like such a friendly and easy going guy.
@RandomPerson125 күн бұрын
He posted a video of his kids privates or something I'm pretty sure that's why they don't like him....
@JJj-tx1dr25 күн бұрын
nothing about his appearance but there's also this controversy about him posting his child naked on the internet.
@ricaramos963124 күн бұрын
@@ricaramos9631he has a kid ? And he posted them naked ? Gross
@MandyAliens24 күн бұрын
YES EXACTLY ITS SO FRUSTRATING
@cakebby1824 күн бұрын
I’m not Selena’s biggest fan, but if they are happy that’s what matters! She loves who he is for WHO HE IS and he seems to love her for being her.
@madamekida25 күн бұрын
the same fans that talk sh!t about Benny's looks are the same ones that want Selena and Justin back together. That man literally treated her like trash.
@itsnatashadavis25 күн бұрын
She needs to go back to not running her socials 💀 I feel like she's been wreaking havoc in her own reputation for the past 2 years
@skeletonizer952925 күн бұрын
I think it’s great to spread more awareness about how toxic social media can be. And how taking breaks once in a while is healthy. Also I can respect standing up for your relationship when you’re legitimately happy. No matter what people say about shallow things like looks. If she forgives him for those past comments, then it could have the potential to be the real thing. Who knows.
@Life-is-a-birdsong25 күн бұрын
It’s 2024, literally everyone is aware social media can be toxic. She wasn’t spreading awareness, she was whining and fishing for sympathy. Based on your comment, it worked. At the end of the day, social media is not a necessity If you can’t handle it, simply don’t use it. I don’t understand the “breaks are healthy” part, but if using Instagram requires her to constantly take a break in order to keep her health, then she definitely shouldn't be using it.
@DavidKen87825 күн бұрын
You can't be a unicef world ambassador and not speak out against genocide...
@alyssacolver432825 күн бұрын
PREACH !!!!!!!!!!!!
@nourhassine363324 күн бұрын
Took way too long to find this comment! 🍉
@dariasdouble21224 күн бұрын
But she can fight all night with her fans who made her rich over a guy who poops his pants 🤭💀 and people tried to warn her about Justin she had the same pick me reaction years ago 😅 I don't know why people care about her dating life, let her destroy it 🤷🏻♀️
@talkingtochapri24 күн бұрын
Isn’t Benny blanco also a z1onist
@5autumndream23 күн бұрын
@@5autumndream He sure is!
@dariasdouble21223 күн бұрын
Not that I care about any of these celebs but people telling her Benny isn't good for her are kids still hoping for a reunion with Bieber. The same kids who keep fighting Hailey for "snatching JB away."😂😂 Get off your diapers!
@directorme666925 күн бұрын
I guess i’m part of the percentage of people who actually love their relationship!! I find them so adorable! And I also find Benny attractive.
@bibinunez508925 күн бұрын
but he posts his child naked
@ricaramos963124 күн бұрын
Yes! Same!
@cakebby1824 күн бұрын
Relationships are not for public consumption. He seems like a great guy tbh. People who talk about his looks are immature. There is much more to a person other than what they look like.
@sagascending80425 күн бұрын
He’s posted disturbing photos and captains of his infant child to instagram
@lyss.n.wndrlnd25 күн бұрын
@@lyss.n.wndrlnd many parents do the same thing. Maybe stop being pedo. And thrust over a kid.
@Junelily8924 күн бұрын
This is so disgusting. Imagine if the world was dissing a woman in that way, the world would be in an upoar. But just because benny is a man it's ok to go after his looks??
@yasaminmehrazar16325 күн бұрын
Selena Gomez is in the top 5 most people followed on IG. And now she's telling people it was just her marketing team running the page for her and she didn't even check what they were putting out for 4 years?
@declan9210025 күн бұрын
Just because other people were running her socials doesn't mean she didn't know about or approve the posts. It just means she didn't directly interact with the social media sites herself. It's a pretty common setup for celebrities
@owl.feathers24 күн бұрын
@@owl.feathers I highly doubt she was approving photos but even if she was, it was just a PR agency posting captions, comments and likes as though it was Selena directly interacting with her fans Do you see the posts from girls crying with happiness after getting a like from "Selena" or "Taylor Swift" on their post? It's just a bit of a slap in the face to fans now she's admitting any response was from a Brent working as a PR media manager..
@declan9210024 күн бұрын
Y'all worried abt the wrong things.. the real problem is him posting his child naked on the internet full of creeps
@kpopqueenie808525 күн бұрын
When?
@LOVEALR9124 күн бұрын
👏 That and him being Zionist.
@dariasdouble21224 күн бұрын
This is why celebrities hate their fans. You can support someone’s art/music without being so invested in their personal lives.
@YPM49825 күн бұрын
True but no one wants to support a person they don’t believe to be good
@MandyAliens24 күн бұрын
Selenas fans telling her how to live her life yet they go back to an ex who cheats on em is WILD 😂
@Luna_MorningStar24 күн бұрын
He actually looks like a nice guy. I wish them the best
@ricardograna435325 күн бұрын
I don’t understand why she keeps replying to everyone on ig
@niziangely546925 күн бұрын
She only gets attention for her relationships
@KittyCatt132625 күн бұрын
@@KittyCatt1326she has a billion dollar beauty brand. She hasn’t been single for like 4/5 years. You can’t act like she’s relevant because of Benny blanco
@dotcom301525 күн бұрын
She replies because celebrities aren’t above everyone else on social media just like youre allowed to leave comments wherever you please. It’s her instagram page, why do people comment there if they don’t want her to see and react?
@dotcom301525 күн бұрын
@@dotcom3015 so true, why can't it be "I don’t understand why people keep leaving nasty comments on a celebrity's IG"
@denise753025 күн бұрын
because she human lol 😂
@bluepurrrgrey24 күн бұрын
Love when you post, I can finally eat in peace 💞💞
@Maru_93825 күн бұрын
this is so real
@Amila-ym7ny25 күн бұрын
Me too !!
@adriijaramillo818725 күн бұрын
Benny just needs to hire a stylist or something to give him that non surgical glow up on par to Jack Harlow.
@residentevil4life25 күн бұрын
All drama aside. How is it normal to bully someone for their looks ? In this self-confidence, body-positive society ? Let the man be, he's more successful than any of us.
@EmMy-cp8bi24 күн бұрын
She has enabled and used her fans for years. Especially when they go after people she does not like. Obviously now the fans think they get a say because they've been doing her dirty work for so long. The celebrities that weaponized parasocial relationships haven't really seen the negative sides of them yet.
@Indigo56525 күн бұрын
This is the only comment that matters! Thank you for making this statement
@karro80124 күн бұрын
What do Selena fans expect from someone who’s built a career off a victim complex? Like that’s her whole aesthetic 😂 respectfully she’s always going to “clap back” because her fans enable her behavior just stop talking about her and she’ll be fine
@DeeRio954625 күн бұрын
Idk why people knock her make up line. I’m not even a fan of her music, but her make up is amazing. The only celeb line that’s good imo. Idk about the new lotions she’s come out with, but the rest is so good
@lindseystein967625 күн бұрын
Her fans actually dont have to think he is attractiv. Only she has to think that
@para9725 күн бұрын
She looks happier than ever and he seems like the sweetest guy !! Not to mention incredibly talented. I’m happy for them and would love to see them make music together
@samanthajoy514325 күн бұрын
I am literally watching this channel EVERY DAY😂
@someonesgoat901125 күн бұрын
Same omg
@Fudu-yd7vr25 күн бұрын
Spill Sesh and Sloan are my tea updates ❤
@Chal81325 күн бұрын
I really wish happiness to Selena, but her man gives me bad vibes
@IncrediBelleJessi25 күн бұрын
She is the bad vibes
@tamara1025 күн бұрын
@@tamara10 Nah, wrong.
@tatltael226625 күн бұрын
@@tamara10they're both both bad vibes 😂
@talkingtochapri24 күн бұрын
I've never cared for her. Selena. Also, imo selena received all thise followers the wrong way aka other ladies getting bullied while her numbers grew. Her speaking voice is 😖
@myopinionnotyours.605325 күн бұрын
She gained her followers by being a famous Disney actress and dating an international superstar + makeup brand. I just don't think these insults of her speaking voice or anything of the sort are fair. She can't control how she SPEAKS. Her voice is shaky. Lupus can cause voice issues. A quick google search shows that..
@Amila-ym7ny25 күн бұрын
I’m all about women supporting women but the clip of her has me wondering whether her monotone speaking voice is a trauma response/disassociation thing? Has she always spoken like that?
@bunny203225 күн бұрын
I find him endearing and adorable and you can tell that he speaks with loads of sarcasm and I’m happy that she’s happy. Outward appearances aren’t shit they really aren’t and I think he’s handsome as all hell, I really do, then after finding him on TikTok his personality makes him even more so. No one is perfect and if you are, you spent a hell of a lot of money to get that way.
@ReeLMLA25 күн бұрын
At first I was neutral about Benny because I don’t know who he is outside of these videos about him. But he was shiiiiiiitty about Jollibee. Super disrespectful. Not so neutral now.
@seakelp1525 күн бұрын
As a Filipino, fuck him for saying that about Jollibee.
@markramos121625 күн бұрын
& did you see those posts of his son a few years ago? (Naked photos) The proof is out there on tea or other channels.
@myopinionnotyours.605325 күн бұрын
@@markramos1216 I’ve never had Jollibee but I was absolutely disgusted about how he acted. I wanna try it even more now
@seakelp1525 күн бұрын
Sorry but Jollibee isn't that good, maybe overseas but here in the u.s it's pretty nasty with no flavor and soggy ass school cafeteria fries
@insomniacat008825 күн бұрын
I forgot way too over priced for chicken shack 😅 you're better off getting chicken shack in the most dangerous neighborhood then go to Jollibee, all that hype for medicore chicken
@insomniacat008825 күн бұрын
Salina needs to totally ignore those from the peanut gallery who denounce her current relationship😺
@marygonzalez-pf7cb25 күн бұрын
I just feel like since she was young she had this persona of being the ‘girl next door’ that she doesnt even realise she can fo wrong and her behaviour on so many different issues had made me lose more and more respect for her each time.
@LolsIssajoke25 күн бұрын
3:52 so is being worried about a celebrity’s, or anyone for that matter, love life.
@accioyoongi24 күн бұрын
People need to worry about their own lives
@CC-nh6gt25 күн бұрын
Selena Gomez fan base is rabbit, they don't know who he is. He was making fun of her years ago, yeah because he was Justin's friend and you talked bad about the ex. Until, he actually knows who she is and was like I want to tap that. Allegiance changes when you start dating a person.
@ericrobins518825 күн бұрын
I always thought benny seemed like a very relatable and down to earth person. I saw him in a tv show called "dave" where he played himself and it was so funny. So when i heard he was with selena gomez now, i was genuinely happy for them ❤ and lets be real folks at the end of the day a person's character is so much more important than any looks...
@arriah281024 күн бұрын
Benny reminds me of Abel funny enough. Maybe shes trying to relive her weeknd days.
@celestialceleste36925 күн бұрын
Didn’t she break up with him though?
@80sbrunnette25 күн бұрын
@80sbrunnette I'm not a selena fan at all just one of the bored one they talk about in these comments.
@celestialceleste36925 күн бұрын
He doesn’t look like Abel, tbh Abel is better looking. 👀
@sumihaque615025 күн бұрын
@@celestialceleste369 I’m not a Selena fan either😂 that’s why I asked if she broke up with him
@80sbrunnette25 күн бұрын
Selena’s fans can be so toxic. They feel entitled to say hurtful words and dictate how she behaves under the guise of care. Even to a family member, maybe I would give them warnings but never act condescending like that. Edit: the word “toxic friend/family member” comes to my mind.
@TheStarrySky-sb9df23 күн бұрын
Was it just a rumor or did Benny post really gross videos of his child a while ago?? When ppl do stuff like that, I never have respect for them again. Everyone in the comments are saying he's a good guy, so maybe it wasn't true.. I'm just confused lol
@rlly716925 күн бұрын
Yeah, I only read one other comment similar to yours mentioning that. everyone is calling him an angel and it confused me too.
@5autumndream23 күн бұрын
Love the new upload but hate it’s about Selena
@katlynnnolastname321025 күн бұрын
They should totally dress up as beauty and the beast for halloween as a response
@Rose-bg9xr25 күн бұрын
That’d be iconic
@AliciaJoonam24 күн бұрын
Lmao she never took a 4yr break
@kendallnavarro935625 күн бұрын
It wasn’t a secret. I actually thought they were still running it until recently when she started clapping back and being messy
@jengreen685924 күн бұрын
I'M NOT SHOCKED! He gives her everything she needs! Looks mean NOTHING! When will people understand that? Quit judging!
@melissareiger138725 күн бұрын
I think it’s one thing for Benny of saying something off and then it’s another thing when he gets to know her and then he’s dating her. I just hope they’re having the best relationship with each other.. but that dude that was interviewing Benny like he really doesn’t like him or things he doesn’t deserve her. That’s kind of scary.
@kina857525 күн бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking! He’s allowed to change his opinion on her after getting to know her more
@MiniMexii24 күн бұрын
He looks like the kind of guy who could truly make Selena happy
@rinherdez24 күн бұрын
I’ve watched Spilly since 2018 and she never disappoints🤩
@orchidlover513725 күн бұрын
if they're happy and the relationship is healthy, their relationship is no ones business. also a break can last anywhere to a few hours to a few days to a few weeks.
@bamabby01024 күн бұрын
I've said it once and I'll say it again Selena's 'fans' are her biggest enemies-
@high_on_mirinda25 күн бұрын
So what if he isn't attractive to y'all he clearly treating her better than Justin ever did 🤦🏽♀️ like y'all needa worry about y'alls relationship
@ZionDoesMakeup25 күн бұрын
Yeah y'all.
@carolynrjackson24 күн бұрын
People need to mind their own business lol parasocial relationships are getting out of control especially when everyone dogpiles on someone (like they did with Selena and Hailey) and then one person will be like the bullying (that everyone started for no reason because of control parasocial relationships) is too much now guys and then everyone loves the person they were bullying and by doing that they bully someone else and it’s a really bizarre online cycle that never stops it’s so weird
@Annakay027825 күн бұрын
Honestly I love them together because she looks so happy and vibrant. She deserves this love❤❤
@Thatonemomcarri24 күн бұрын
It’s no one’s business who she’s fallen in love with and it just shows how superficial these people are. The most important thing is how a person is from the inside out before the outward appearance which if anyone knows someone who is funny, kind and a decent person would know how easy it is to fall in love with a man when he’s not ideally who you go for or would loo at…… but when there someone with substance, personality & funny it like a wow, ahhha moment. Couldn’t be more happier for her she deserve someone who loves her and treats her properly.
@saraha700624 күн бұрын
*_Those jerky fans are miserably bizarre! Thinking they have a right to someone else’s intimate relationship?! What they would do & what she should do?! They ALL need to find a real life productive hobby._* 😳
@SuzyKim8425 күн бұрын
She’s been in so much drama that I refuse to believe she’s the victim EVERY single time.
@Hope4freedom7621 күн бұрын
Fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE whats going on, and they have no right to order her around. Shes a grown woman who can make her own decisions.
@AKbaby8925 күн бұрын
Arrest records are publicly available actually
@kelseyling98719 күн бұрын
@kelseyling987 that has nothing to do with my comment, and im aware of that, I never said they're private.
@AKbaby8919 күн бұрын
@@AKbaby89 Just saying, she is a grown woman and can make her own choices. There’s no need for people to tell her what to do. Doesn’t mean people have to like him. A lot of people naturally won’t like him since a lot of people don’t take kindly to those that distribute child porn. Don’t get why thats a controversial stance. Its one thing for people to discuss his appearance and to make nasty rumors, (not cool), but arrest records are public knowledge, not gossip.
@kelseyling98719 күн бұрын
@kelseyling987 dude are you replying to the wrong comment thread? I legitimately do not understand why you're saying all this. My comment says "fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE what's going on, and they have no right to order her around. She's a grown woman who can make her own decisions." Not only did I explicitly say the public has no right to order her around, and she's a grown adult who can make her own decisions, but I also never talked about any criminal record, my comment has absolutely nothing to do with her criminal record and weather or not criminal records are public info or not. You're literally arguing about something I wasn't even talking about, and at the mean time you're saying the exact same thing I said. How you got to where you are, I truly have no clue. I also never said that a criminal history is gossip, and I never said shit about his appearance or insulted anyone, or spread any rumors.
@AKbaby8919 күн бұрын
@@AKbaby89 Oh it seems like you don’t know? My apologies then. My comment will make more sense if you google his arrest records. Outside of public records people have no clue about their life, but yeah he has cp on his record so people do have somewhat of a clue of who he is as a person.
@kelseyling98719 күн бұрын
Leave Benny alone !!! He has lupusssssssssss
@Alice3025424 күн бұрын
I like Benny, he seems like a nice guy, people are way too harsh on him and Selena deserves all the love, people should leave them alone
@SINIESTRA24 күн бұрын
Just commenting for the algorithm 💜
@Rainbowofthefallen25 күн бұрын
At last she came to know how toxic her fandom is I'm living for the drama but the way thy treating Benny is disgusting
@yuktasharma42324 күн бұрын
As long as he makes her happy that’s what matters and the most important thing she needs at the moment
@Carmen_Yuli2Barragan23 күн бұрын
I just hope she has inner peace for if he leaves her or breaks her heart. I hope the happiness is REAL. That’s it. I don’t care for her anymore so I don’t keep up with her but I still hope she’s happy.
@7Pxndx724 күн бұрын
Once you find this channel you’re IN , there’s no escape ! 😂❤
@memeeemee21425 күн бұрын
Parasocial relationships are so weird. People feel entitled to their opinions because they think they know the person from social media. 😂
@missmagpii341624 күн бұрын
“you’re so red…. you’re SO red.” 😂😂😂
@kassidycolburn60424 күн бұрын
Girl needs to protect her peace and stop replying to comments or all together not read them 🫠 shes a grown women who can date whoever she wants. Replying to those comments does nothing but make her look bad and its not helping AT ALL bc its feeding the fire
@Shesmiles9925 күн бұрын
She should just block the comments 😂
@NohBody00025 күн бұрын
they go well together, end of discussion.
@spicyrosie223 күн бұрын
it's kinda ironic tho because when justin was dating sofia richie she was lashing out on him because he was defending her from fans lol
@user-wz6oq7uv7u22 күн бұрын
4:22 lolmaia2020 couldnt have said it better myself 😂
@vengfulmushroom18 күн бұрын
people blame her for how she reacts to shit online but then try and control who she dates. like if i had that many people coming at me i'd probably get frustrated too.
@prongssupremacy25 күн бұрын
Its how are you inside that counts
@BeckyShaw-rz9tv24 күн бұрын
The reality is, you’re not a real fan if you don’t support your girl in a healthy relationship but try to bully her back into a relationship with Bieber. You don’t care about her, you care about your sick fantasy. I’m so happy Selena finally found someone who treats her like the absolute Queen she is.
@wallowinthehallows24 күн бұрын
It's interesting she doesn't have the same attitude towards speaking up against genocide when her fans tell her how important it is only if it's about her
@SimonkaShow24 күн бұрын
Can we agree this society pays too much attention to looks? Nobody has to be the hottest man or the hottest woman for you to date them, I dont understand why people pay only attention to that, and I get he's problematic but that's on selena
@SnapeArgento25 күн бұрын
He's a live action Moe Szyslack
@deliciousdallas855525 күн бұрын
Everything is not what it seems
@Rawwrrrrrrrrrrrr24 күн бұрын
When you spend your limited lifetime telling celebrities who they should or shouldn't have relationships with, YOU are the embarrassing one. She likes him the way he is. He gives her something she loves and that's between them. She is finally happy and not lonely. No person who supports her will do that to her. Those are not fans those are trolls, pathetic trolls.
@gayanekhachatryan271125 күн бұрын
The fans who hate Benny and tell her he’s bad are some of the same fans who still wanna see “Jelena” back together 🙄
@Taytaycuppycakes20 күн бұрын
I don’t like her anymore but why do people think they have a right to comment on her relationship. Or think she owes them anything. Keep your opinion to yourself and let her date whoever she wants it’s no one’s business.
@ranatamir25 күн бұрын
He said something a long time ago that people are so offended over while selena isn’t. People talking bad about his appearance are so awful and shallow
@ranatamir25 күн бұрын
I love how everyone watched Justin treat Selena like literal SHIT, FOR YEARS... and still some are hardcore "Jelena" fans.... but Benny says ONE fucking barely shady comment years ago, not even known for sure if it was toward Selena.... and suddenly she's not doing what's best for her, she's with a loser, she deserves better, etc. What the fuck.
@duckie396124 күн бұрын
Go Selena! Claim your happiness with whoever makes you happy. Good grief, some people are toxic. Hope she has an awesome life with Benny!
@miriams.434119 күн бұрын
She, as well as many other celebrities, need to put up stronger boundaries earlier on with these fans. I think it's great she's holding her own. Honestly, if the key argument is based on looks then truly that's despicable. If he treats her like gold and she's attracted to him, that's what matters. Why do these "fans" feel like they should get to dictate such personal things? Seriously superficial horseshit
@amandaredd305725 күн бұрын
I know how she feels. So many people called my husband so many names. Cause he was overweight and told me that he was a woman beater and that he was gonna hurt me and why not? Well, those she poured no longer in my life and my husband has been there for 28 years. Marriage 29 years together. Don't listen to the hate.
@bethblackburn743025 күн бұрын
I'm glad your marriage sustained and you are happy. I hope he was also able to work though that - that's genuinely horrible and traumatic. I have a firm policy of not speaking negatively about my partners or exes with friends and family. I won't hide the truth if something occurred, but I don't allow others to speak negatively like that to me. Genuinely curious, why did they claim that he was abusive? That's a life ruining and crazy thing to lie about somebody with. Especially if it was multiple people. I have a toxic family that I went no contact with, so I know sometimes groups of people can double down on saying/doing anything just to control a single person's life.
As long as Benny isn't treating Selena like shit, their relationship is none of my business.
Period bby
Selena treating Benny like shit too right?
i feel like it be that way either way. its creepy and annoying for random ppl to be invested in other's relationships at all
I agree but like people change he may have shaded her before but i guess noone heard of enemies to lovers thing lmao
👏🏼👏🏼
Trying to tell a grown woman how to live her life is hilarious like I’m no Selena fan but the way her fans try to tell her what to do is hilarious like I hope she marries this mf so her fans will learn their place
as much as i get viscerally disgusted every time i see benny blanco pop up on my fyp, i agree, i think people should leave selena alone. to be more specific, i dont just mean his looks, its just his internet presence especially on tik tok
Well said, it's crazy that ppl are like "well that's just her fans". Like, no.. it's not okay.
@@thesaltines8220wait why you just don’t like how he looks?
do i get her attraction? actually yes but i get why other people are so hateful. but she's the happiest i've ever seen her since the early days when she was with youknowwho.
@@toriplayssg i never thought too deeply about how he looks, i mentioned it bc this video specifically talks about his looks, i mostly dont like the fact that he acts immature in the videos ive seen of him online gagging at ethnic foods. i associate that mans face and voice with gagging and i hate it.
I love how everyone can “tell” how he’s a “bad guy” or a “horrible person” but y’all can’t identify the red flags in your own relationships? 😂
the man posted his child naked
@@kpopqueenie8085 Now this is the kind of information I care to know about. This is a reason ppl should hate him. Not because he’s not attractive.
They need a gentle reminder that a lot of serial killers are attractive men
@@kpopqueenie8085wtf. like accidentally or what?
@@kpopqueenie8085yeah the problem is most ppl don’t know this bc they’re too focused on how he looks
Nah I’m on Selena’s side. Literally leave her alone. She’s the only who’s with him not you. Let it go
I would have said the same if she has not benefited so much in her carrer from involving her fans in her relationships and drama. She uses them like weapons when it's convenient and encourages them to defend her by liking and replying shady comments... now she doesn't want anyone in her business 🤡 ...you can't just deactivate the unhealthy attachment they have.
@@missymanieverything I've seen of Selena the last year she's been encouraging her fans to not go and bully people such as Hailey Bieber. To blame her for the actions of some of her crazed fans is WILD. To think you can have an opinion on her relationship now because of past actions IS WILD. To think you have some sort of opinion or stake in the game because you're her fan? IS WILD.
@@missymani are we talking about the same person?
she and her fans needs to let it go.
I don't understand the people telling her he's not a great guy. She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions, if he turns out to be a bad guy, so be it??? But those are her choices, people need to stop babying her tbh.
That video of him talking shit about her is so bad though. It's public. Everyone can see that.
And he made an off handed comment that could have been about anyone. This is what they're using to call him a bad person. It's so strange.
Yeah no fr lol I'm confused why anyone gives a shit? Like if you have a job, full time college student, or in a relationship of your own I cannot envision you caring at all. It's boredom that makes peopel care
Constantly sharing love life online. Surprised about getting reception.
@@rakenzie Insulting someone, their boyfriend, and then saying they have low-esteem is not reception. Y’all seriously need to get a life.
The guy interviewing Benny WAS BRUTAL LMAO. He kept backtracking but also kept going 😂😂😂
Andrew is a comedian and really good friends with Benny. Otherwise yeah, I'd be worried because he went hard 🤣.
I'm pretty sure he was doing a bit. I thought it was funny and I think Benny did too lol
You have now been introduced to Andrew Santino. That was very mild for him though, so I wouldn’t recommend watching him again if that felt brutal. He goes too hard, to anyone’s face but especially with people he actually knows. 😂😂😂
the amount of bodyshaming i've seen regarding this relationship is insane, so sad thought we were better than that
According to the internet, we can’t body shame women but men are fair game. And they wonder why more men commit suicide….sad world we live in
Apparently he's a man so it's okay.
"Fighting your fans for a man is embarrassing"? Lmao naw What is embarrassing?Is these people being so obsessed with a celebritg who doesn't even know them 💀 You are so obsessed with this person that you expect her to listen to your words and dump somebody that she loves? For you? THATS weird. People are mad because of how Benny looks. Period. Who cares if he shades pop stars who have a make up brand. If that is the worst thing I could experience with a partner, I'd be incredibly grateful. Her "fans" are being gross and judgmental
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Her fans are their worst enemy
Preaaaach!!!!!!
You should see how korean fans are with their korean idols (actors/singers). They can't even have a relationship or else the fans cancel their own idol.
I feel kinda hurt for Benny in that interview . To be spoken about how you look everyday I can never imagine the emotional damage and self insecurity’s that are building up because of other people . We need to do better as a society .
he’s a gross person so he deserves it idc
I feel really bad for Benny. I think its way too low to comment on someones appearances
Why did people think that she was going to go after a guy that is like socially attractive? She’s happy he’s happy. He cares about her. She cares about him like leave it alone. I feel bad for the guy.
I think it's absolutely ridiculous that strangers legitimately believe they know Selena's insecurities and what's best for her. Like STOP! And bringing up how someone's appearance is less than standard... that's in your eyes, not anyone else's. People are SO WEIRD.
If she’s getting treated amazingly.. Looks ?? Do they matter that much?
Who else found Spill Sesh one day and just cant stop watching her videos?
Can’t relate, been here for years.
@@trayas2272that’s what they mean tho cause u came across her channel one day and you’ve been a fan ever since
I don't even know most of the influencers/celebrities but I click so fast seeing a new video posted. Her voice is soothing and entertaining.
Me. I think it was during the Colleen Ballinger thing last year. I actually found a lot of "tea channels"/commentary channels that way. Spill Sesh is one of the better ones. The rest are either boring (Radiantbritt), preachy (Drama Kween), or just cheap content mill shit with AI vocals that mispronounce half the words (can't remember that one, but it's something like Tea Spill or some variation of the tired old "spill the tea" phrase we need to permanently retire because white people have ruined it for everyone else).
I clicked to sort by oldest and realized one day that I've been watching since they started
I'm just shocked she actually replies to trolls. With as many followers/fans she has and how big she is in the industry, she actually replies which means she also reads that many comments too.
I don’t see how people don’t see how sick she is. If she didn’t give it any attention no one would know about this. The only reason people care is cause she’s responding. All celebrities have to deal with fans talking sh1t but most don’t engage cause they know it makes it worse. But Selena knows she is nothing without the drama so she has to participate.
@@nitely2345plenty of celebrities engage with online comments. Ariana grande, Taylor swift, and some ex one direction members had their own online drama pre covid, whether it be twitter or tumblr.
@@nitely2345She's sick for responding but y'all ain't sick for going on her page talking mess?? Make it make sense plus she's more relevant than you sis literally had a song blow up before it was released and her makeup line is successful but she's nothing without drama that y'all start?? Ok
@@ZionDoesMakeup right? how dare a woman stand up for her man when she's a celebrity and she's just supposed to shut up
@@denise7530 EXACTLY YOU GET IT!!
Lmao wait, he does look like the guy from Ice Age 😂
YES
Are we referring to Sid? Cause personally I really don’t see it 😭 what am I missing
He looks like the baby from ice age 😭😭
@@andreaperez1210 now that makes more sense
yup 💯
Idk why people think they know whats best Selena... Let the girl live. And so fucking what if he made a silly comment 3 years ago. Just because he mentioned Justin doesnt mean hes referring to Selena either..
Honestly I went down a rabbit hole of this guy and honestly he's so chill. I think people just HATE ethnic looking people
I agree. I don't know much about the guy but based off what Ive seen, he seems like such a friendly and easy going guy.
He posted a video of his kids privates or something I'm pretty sure that's why they don't like him....
nothing about his appearance but there's also this controversy about him posting his child naked on the internet.
@@ricaramos9631he has a kid ? And he posted them naked ? Gross
YES EXACTLY ITS SO FRUSTRATING
I’m not Selena’s biggest fan, but if they are happy that’s what matters! She loves who he is for WHO HE IS and he seems to love her for being her.
the same fans that talk sh!t about Benny's looks are the same ones that want Selena and Justin back together. That man literally treated her like trash.
She needs to go back to not running her socials 💀 I feel like she's been wreaking havoc in her own reputation for the past 2 years
I think it’s great to spread more awareness about how toxic social media can be. And how taking breaks once in a while is healthy. Also I can respect standing up for your relationship when you’re legitimately happy. No matter what people say about shallow things like looks. If she forgives him for those past comments, then it could have the potential to be the real thing. Who knows.
It’s 2024, literally everyone is aware social media can be toxic. She wasn’t spreading awareness, she was whining and fishing for sympathy. Based on your comment, it worked. At the end of the day, social media is not a necessity If you can’t handle it, simply don’t use it. I don’t understand the “breaks are healthy” part, but if using Instagram requires her to constantly take a break in order to keep her health, then she definitely shouldn't be using it.
You can't be a unicef world ambassador and not speak out against genocide...
PREACH !!!!!!!!!!!!
Took way too long to find this comment! 🍉
But she can fight all night with her fans who made her rich over a guy who poops his pants 🤭💀 and people tried to warn her about Justin she had the same pick me reaction years ago 😅 I don't know why people care about her dating life, let her destroy it 🤷🏻♀️
Isn’t Benny blanco also a z1onist
@@5autumndream He sure is!
Not that I care about any of these celebs but people telling her Benny isn't good for her are kids still hoping for a reunion with Bieber. The same kids who keep fighting Hailey for "snatching JB away."😂😂 Get off your diapers!
I guess i’m part of the percentage of people who actually love their relationship!! I find them so adorable! And I also find Benny attractive.
but he posts his child naked
Yes! Same!
Relationships are not for public consumption. He seems like a great guy tbh. People who talk about his looks are immature. There is much more to a person other than what they look like.
He’s posted disturbing photos and captains of his infant child to instagram
@@lyss.n.wndrlnd many parents do the same thing. Maybe stop being pedo. And thrust over a kid.
This is so disgusting. Imagine if the world was dissing a woman in that way, the world would be in an upoar. But just because benny is a man it's ok to go after his looks??
Selena Gomez is in the top 5 most people followed on IG. And now she's telling people it was just her marketing team running the page for her and she didn't even check what they were putting out for 4 years?
Just because other people were running her socials doesn't mean she didn't know about or approve the posts. It just means she didn't directly interact with the social media sites herself. It's a pretty common setup for celebrities
@@owl.feathers I highly doubt she was approving photos but even if she was, it was just a PR agency posting captions, comments and likes as though it was Selena directly interacting with her fans Do you see the posts from girls crying with happiness after getting a like from "Selena" or "Taylor Swift" on their post? It's just a bit of a slap in the face to fans now she's admitting any response was from a Brent working as a PR media manager..
Y'all worried abt the wrong things.. the real problem is him posting his child naked on the internet full of creeps
When?
👏 That and him being Zionist.
This is why celebrities hate their fans. You can support someone’s art/music without being so invested in their personal lives.
True but no one wants to support a person they don’t believe to be good
Selenas fans telling her how to live her life yet they go back to an ex who cheats on em is WILD 😂
He actually looks like a nice guy. I wish them the best
I don’t understand why she keeps replying to everyone on ig
She only gets attention for her relationships
@@KittyCatt1326she has a billion dollar beauty brand. She hasn’t been single for like 4/5 years. You can’t act like she’s relevant because of Benny blanco
She replies because celebrities aren’t above everyone else on social media just like youre allowed to leave comments wherever you please. It’s her instagram page, why do people comment there if they don’t want her to see and react?
@@dotcom3015 so true, why can't it be "I don’t understand why people keep leaving nasty comments on a celebrity's IG"
because she human lol 😂
Love when you post, I can finally eat in peace 💞💞
this is so real
Me too !!
Benny just needs to hire a stylist or something to give him that non surgical glow up on par to Jack Harlow.
All drama aside. How is it normal to bully someone for their looks ? In this self-confidence, body-positive society ? Let the man be, he's more successful than any of us.
She has enabled and used her fans for years. Especially when they go after people she does not like. Obviously now the fans think they get a say because they've been doing her dirty work for so long. The celebrities that weaponized parasocial relationships haven't really seen the negative sides of them yet.
This is the only comment that matters! Thank you for making this statement
What do Selena fans expect from someone who’s built a career off a victim complex? Like that’s her whole aesthetic 😂 respectfully she’s always going to “clap back” because her fans enable her behavior just stop talking about her and she’ll be fine
Idk why people knock her make up line. I’m not even a fan of her music, but her make up is amazing. The only celeb line that’s good imo. Idk about the new lotions she’s come out with, but the rest is so good
Her fans actually dont have to think he is attractiv. Only she has to think that
She looks happier than ever and he seems like the sweetest guy !! Not to mention incredibly talented. I’m happy for them and would love to see them make music together
I am literally watching this channel EVERY DAY😂
Same omg
Spill Sesh and Sloan are my tea updates ❤
I really wish happiness to Selena, but her man gives me bad vibes
She is the bad vibes
@@tamara10 Nah, wrong.
@@tamara10they're both both bad vibes 😂
I've never cared for her. Selena. Also, imo selena received all thise followers the wrong way aka other ladies getting bullied while her numbers grew. Her speaking voice is 😖
She gained her followers by being a famous Disney actress and dating an international superstar + makeup brand. I just don't think these insults of her speaking voice or anything of the sort are fair. She can't control how she SPEAKS. Her voice is shaky. Lupus can cause voice issues. A quick google search shows that..
I’m all about women supporting women but the clip of her has me wondering whether her monotone speaking voice is a trauma response/disassociation thing? Has she always spoken like that?
I find him endearing and adorable and you can tell that he speaks with loads of sarcasm and I’m happy that she’s happy. Outward appearances aren’t shit they really aren’t and I think he’s handsome as all hell, I really do, then after finding him on TikTok his personality makes him even more so. No one is perfect and if you are, you spent a hell of a lot of money to get that way.
At first I was neutral about Benny because I don’t know who he is outside of these videos about him. But he was shiiiiiiitty about Jollibee. Super disrespectful. Not so neutral now.
As a Filipino, fuck him for saying that about Jollibee.
& did you see those posts of his son a few years ago? (Naked photos) The proof is out there on tea or other channels.
@@markramos1216 I’ve never had Jollibee but I was absolutely disgusted about how he acted. I wanna try it even more now
Sorry but Jollibee isn't that good, maybe overseas but here in the u.s it's pretty nasty with no flavor and soggy ass school cafeteria fries
I forgot way too over priced for chicken shack 😅 you're better off getting chicken shack in the most dangerous neighborhood then go to Jollibee, all that hype for medicore chicken
Salina needs to totally ignore those from the peanut gallery who denounce her current relationship😺
I just feel like since she was young she had this persona of being the ‘girl next door’ that she doesnt even realise she can fo wrong and her behaviour on so many different issues had made me lose more and more respect for her each time.
3:52 so is being worried about a celebrity’s, or anyone for that matter, love life.
People need to worry about their own lives
Selena Gomez fan base is rabbit, they don't know who he is. He was making fun of her years ago, yeah because he was Justin's friend and you talked bad about the ex. Until, he actually knows who she is and was like I want to tap that. Allegiance changes when you start dating a person.
I always thought benny seemed like a very relatable and down to earth person. I saw him in a tv show called "dave" where he played himself and it was so funny. So when i heard he was with selena gomez now, i was genuinely happy for them ❤ and lets be real folks at the end of the day a person's character is so much more important than any looks...
Benny reminds me of Abel funny enough. Maybe shes trying to relive her weeknd days.
Didn’t she break up with him though?
@80sbrunnette I'm not a selena fan at all just one of the bored one they talk about in these comments.
He doesn’t look like Abel, tbh Abel is better looking. 👀
@@celestialceleste369 I’m not a Selena fan either😂 that’s why I asked if she broke up with him
Selena’s fans can be so toxic. They feel entitled to say hurtful words and dictate how she behaves under the guise of care. Even to a family member, maybe I would give them warnings but never act condescending like that. Edit: the word “toxic friend/family member” comes to my mind.
Was it just a rumor or did Benny post really gross videos of his child a while ago?? When ppl do stuff like that, I never have respect for them again. Everyone in the comments are saying he's a good guy, so maybe it wasn't true.. I'm just confused lol
Yeah, I only read one other comment similar to yours mentioning that. everyone is calling him an angel and it confused me too.
Love the new upload but hate it’s about Selena
They should totally dress up as beauty and the beast for halloween as a response
That’d be iconic
Lmao she never took a 4yr break
It wasn’t a secret. I actually thought they were still running it until recently when she started clapping back and being messy
I'M NOT SHOCKED! He gives her everything she needs! Looks mean NOTHING! When will people understand that? Quit judging!
I think it’s one thing for Benny of saying something off and then it’s another thing when he gets to know her and then he’s dating her. I just hope they’re having the best relationship with each other.. but that dude that was interviewing Benny like he really doesn’t like him or things he doesn’t deserve her. That’s kind of scary.
Exactly what I was thinking! He’s allowed to change his opinion on her after getting to know her more
He looks like the kind of guy who could truly make Selena happy
I’ve watched Spilly since 2018 and she never disappoints🤩
if they're happy and the relationship is healthy, their relationship is no ones business. also a break can last anywhere to a few hours to a few days to a few weeks.
I've said it once and I'll say it again Selena's 'fans' are her biggest enemies-
So what if he isn't attractive to y'all he clearly treating her better than Justin ever did 🤦🏽♀️ like y'all needa worry about y'alls relationship
Yeah y'all.
People need to mind their own business lol parasocial relationships are getting out of control especially when everyone dogpiles on someone (like they did with Selena and Hailey) and then one person will be like the bullying (that everyone started for no reason because of control parasocial relationships) is too much now guys and then everyone loves the person they were bullying and by doing that they bully someone else and it’s a really bizarre online cycle that never stops it’s so weird
Honestly I love them together because she looks so happy and vibrant. She deserves this love❤❤
It’s no one’s business who she’s fallen in love with and it just shows how superficial these people are. The most important thing is how a person is from the inside out before the outward appearance which if anyone knows someone who is funny, kind and a decent person would know how easy it is to fall in love with a man when he’s not ideally who you go for or would loo at…… but when there someone with substance, personality & funny it like a wow, ahhha moment. Couldn’t be more happier for her she deserve someone who loves her and treats her properly.
*_Those jerky fans are miserably bizarre! Thinking they have a right to someone else’s intimate relationship?! What they would do & what she should do?! They ALL need to find a real life productive hobby._* 😳
She’s been in so much drama that I refuse to believe she’s the victim EVERY single time.
Fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE whats going on, and they have no right to order her around. Shes a grown woman who can make her own decisions.
Arrest records are publicly available actually
@kelseyling987 that has nothing to do with my comment, and im aware of that, I never said they're private.
@@AKbaby89 Just saying, she is a grown woman and can make her own choices. There’s no need for people to tell her what to do. Doesn’t mean people have to like him. A lot of people naturally won’t like him since a lot of people don’t take kindly to those that distribute child porn. Don’t get why thats a controversial stance. Its one thing for people to discuss his appearance and to make nasty rumors, (not cool), but arrest records are public knowledge, not gossip.
@kelseyling987 dude are you replying to the wrong comment thread? I legitimately do not understand why you're saying all this. My comment says "fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE what's going on, and they have no right to order her around. She's a grown woman who can make her own decisions." Not only did I explicitly say the public has no right to order her around, and she's a grown adult who can make her own decisions, but I also never talked about any criminal record, my comment has absolutely nothing to do with her criminal record and weather or not criminal records are public info or not. You're literally arguing about something I wasn't even talking about, and at the mean time you're saying the exact same thing I said. How you got to where you are, I truly have no clue. I also never said that a criminal history is gossip, and I never said shit about his appearance or insulted anyone, or spread any rumors.
@@AKbaby89 Oh it seems like you don’t know? My apologies then. My comment will make more sense if you google his arrest records. Outside of public records people have no clue about their life, but yeah he has cp on his record so people do have somewhat of a clue of who he is as a person.
Leave Benny alone !!! He has lupusssssssssss
I like Benny, he seems like a nice guy, people are way too harsh on him and Selena deserves all the love, people should leave them alone
Just commenting for the algorithm 💜
At last she came to know how toxic her fandom is I'm living for the drama but the way thy treating Benny is disgusting
As long as he makes her happy that’s what matters and the most important thing she needs at the moment
I just hope she has inner peace for if he leaves her or breaks her heart. I hope the happiness is REAL. That’s it. I don’t care for her anymore so I don’t keep up with her but I still hope she’s happy.
Once you find this channel you’re IN , there’s no escape ! 😂❤
Parasocial relationships are so weird. People feel entitled to their opinions because they think they know the person from social media. 😂
“you’re so red…. you’re SO red.” 😂😂😂
Girl needs to protect her peace and stop replying to comments or all together not read them 🫠 shes a grown women who can date whoever she wants. Replying to those comments does nothing but make her look bad and its not helping AT ALL bc its feeding the fire
She should just block the comments 😂
they go well together, end of discussion.
it's kinda ironic tho because when justin was dating sofia richie she was lashing out on him because he was defending her from fans lol
4:22 lolmaia2020 couldnt have said it better myself 😂
people blame her for how she reacts to shit online but then try and control who she dates. like if i had that many people coming at me i'd probably get frustrated too.
Its how are you inside that counts
The reality is, you’re not a real fan if you don’t support your girl in a healthy relationship but try to bully her back into a relationship with Bieber. You don’t care about her, you care about your sick fantasy. I’m so happy Selena finally found someone who treats her like the absolute Queen she is.
It's interesting she doesn't have the same attitude towards speaking up against genocide when her fans tell her how important it is only if it's about her
Can we agree this society pays too much attention to looks? Nobody has to be the hottest man or the hottest woman for you to date them, I dont understand why people pay only attention to that, and I get he's problematic but that's on selena
He's a live action Moe Szyslack
Everything is not what it seems
When you spend your limited lifetime telling celebrities who they should or shouldn't have relationships with, YOU are the embarrassing one. She likes him the way he is. He gives her something she loves and that's between them. She is finally happy and not lonely. No person who supports her will do that to her. Those are not fans those are trolls, pathetic trolls.
The fans who hate Benny and tell her he’s bad are some of the same fans who still wanna see “Jelena” back together 🙄
I don’t like her anymore but why do people think they have a right to comment on her relationship. Or think she owes them anything. Keep your opinion to yourself and let her date whoever she wants it’s no one’s business.
He said something a long time ago that people are so offended over while selena isn’t. People talking bad about his appearance are so awful and shallow
I love how everyone watched Justin treat Selena like literal SHIT, FOR YEARS... and still some are hardcore "Jelena" fans.... but Benny says ONE fucking barely shady comment years ago, not even known for sure if it was toward Selena.... and suddenly she's not doing what's best for her, she's with a loser, she deserves better, etc. What the fuck.
Go Selena! Claim your happiness with whoever makes you happy. Good grief, some people are toxic. Hope she has an awesome life with Benny!
She, as well as many other celebrities, need to put up stronger boundaries earlier on with these fans. I think it's great she's holding her own. Honestly, if the key argument is based on looks then truly that's despicable. If he treats her like gold and she's attracted to him, that's what matters. Why do these "fans" feel like they should get to dictate such personal things? Seriously superficial horseshit
I know how she feels. So many people called my husband so many names. Cause he was overweight and told me that he was a woman beater and that he was gonna hurt me and why not? Well, those she poured no longer in my life and my husband has been there for 28 years. Marriage 29 years together. Don't listen to the hate.
I'm glad your marriage sustained and you are happy. I hope he was also able to work though that - that's genuinely horrible and traumatic. I have a firm policy of not speaking negatively about my partners or exes with friends and family. I won't hide the truth if something occurred, but I don't allow others to speak negatively like that to me. Genuinely curious, why did they claim that he was abusive? That's a life ruining and crazy thing to lie about somebody with. Especially if it was multiple people. I have a toxic family that I went no contact with, so I know sometimes groups of people can double down on saying/doing anything just to control a single person's life.