Attracting a high value man

a high value man does not have to be excessively wealthy, and judging men for their wealth primarily is a red flag.

to attract any man, don't be promiscuous, be loyal, be feminine, dress modestly, and most importantly respect him.

Just don't be overweight or a feminist and you'll be fine :)

Part of why we men don't care about women having money: My money is our money, your money is your money, despite of your so-called wanting to be equals, you're still the same as you always were: wanting a provider. It's the double standard thing that women just don't seem to get.

You should do a video on "attracting a high value women"

She took 8 minutes to say, looks for money. That was mind numbing.

Men want attraction, but we also value personality, purity, and loyalty. Men who are in "demand" ( 10% ) have access to 80% of women. So a lot of these men will sleep with you but will never consider you marriage material.

any women can do the beauty thing. what stands out is a woman with morals and conviction

If you want to attract a high value men as a woman then enable and support him in his purpose. Be fit, feminine and friendly.

High Value doesn't equal high finances... so within 6 minutes, you are already wrong.

Beautiful, feminine, pure, innocent, loyal. Not a 304

Chill Keira chill. We are not going for looks alone. As long as we are not appalled by your looks, the only thing that truly matters is how much respect youre showing him.

You get a high value man by being a high value woman. You get a high value woman by being a high value man. You get what you put out.

Thats no relationship thats commerce...

This is everything wrong with modern materialist society, trying to pick someone thats high status, as a prize, rather than someone that actually likes you, with common beleifs, goals, mentality who support each other.

Whether man or woman, there's a big difference between looking like high value person and living with integrity and acting like one.

Ladies listen up, the only thing a high value man wants is respect. Period.

If your only vision of the world is that the quality of a girl is to be beautiful and a guy to be rich it's really depressing, you don't need a boyfriend but a 'a sugar daddy. What if the man loses his money, or the woman gets old, does the relationship end? Reminds me the movie "gone girl".

We want a beautiful (feminine), low or very-low body counts, and respectful (humble) woman, period ! The rest really does not matter to us.

"high value" lmfao🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

Preach. High value men understand actions speak louder than words.

Attractive women are everywhere. Good luck attracting a high value man youl need more than that. What exactly besides your looks (that will wear off with short time) do you bring to the table? He looks at a woman that can be a strong mother, who is not financially dependent on us because the world is a dangerous place. A quality man looks ahead and not just present attractiveness.

It's sad that you think that all that makes girls attractive is their looks. Attractiveness is more than just that

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as a high value man, I find that most women have invested A LOT in their beauty. telling them to invest more into beauty is not going to get them a high value man. what high value men want is a woman with HIGH FEMININE ENERGY. women do not know what this is but I'll explain. high feminine energy is: 1. GRACE - having class and tact in how you say things even when you're upset 2. RADIANCE - having a spunky, bubbly personality with childlike enthusiasm 3. COMPLIANCE - listening to what your man says without arguing 4. LOYALTY - actively avoiding situations that could lead to infidelity

Your mistake girl is that you think that rich dude's value is equal to just beautiful girl value (even if she is really very very beautiful). There are a lot more beautiful girls than rich guys and he knows that he is in demand much more so your plan will not work. He will get rid of you after first minor quarrel because there's a line of beautiful girls from his Ferrari to the Ferrari factory. In the mid-term perspective the winners will be average looking girls who chose perspective & energetic office workers in good standing with the leadership and hustler mentality, a year-two and he is a commercial director or something like that meanwhile the girls who chase rich dudes will not get anything

beauty, smartness, common values, purity and having compatibility/ chemistry

girls, listen up. Hot is what gets the dude, character is what keeps him.

Men are in love , women are in business

A woman's looks are purely the initial sexual attraction. The novelty of that wears off pretty quickly for a man (with respect to how a man views the long term viability of that relationship) so there has to be something behind the attractive facade to turn the relationship into a partnership. Once the honeymoon phase is over and the rose tinted glasses come off, there needs to be a compatibility and long term draw for the man to want to continue the relationship. Otherwise he's just sticking around for the sexual benefits and that's not a relationship. When a man asks what a woman brings to the table, if she responds; I am the table....then she's missed the point entirely and that man is moving on to greener pastures.

The girls that have made me interested have started out with giving me repeated tender gazes combined with a kind smile, and then looked at me with those eyes whenever we have talked to each other. There is something _very_ powerful about that form of eye contact.

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thank u sis. I have already lost 10 kg and I try to take care of my hair. I'm learning to be feminine and becoming more beautiful every day

Just be high value woman)

A high value man does not want a dumb women. Do not put all your points just to your look.

Showing more skin, trying to reel in more Simps. Business as usual.

So, the point of this video is "girls, be pretty and you will attract a high value man". I think you are wrong with this point, or maybe you just want to get some interactions with this video. In any case, I know that you, as women, are comfortable and feel feminine carying about your look and will attract men because we are visual beings, that's true. However, that's only the first step, it's NEVER the way you are going to attract a high value man. You will attract any type of man, and if you don't know how to really identify a high value man and pick him ("the gold thing" isn't the only way to take care when talking about high value man") you will probably end up in bad relationships and just increasing your trauma and bodycount, leaving you even further from a high value man. From my own point of view, attracting a high value man or woman, always starts by taking care of yourself. Of course improving your physical appearance is a key point, but people keep stucked on the superficial stuff and forget working on their communication, empathy, child trauma, spirituality, core values, and, at the end, everything that actually will MASSIVELY impact in the way they interact with other people, not only talking about romantic relationships. If you focus only on superficial shit, you will attract superficial people that are far away from giving you deep, fulfilling and long-lasting relationships. I hope you appreciate this point of view, regards.

Definitely have to focus on growing as a person first and understanding yourself. And then once you get yo self right and have the security in yourself then this definitely attracts a good man. Also knowing what character traits your looking for and most importantly one who will like you for you, one who will love you, respect you and will have something you both can build upon.

I stopped watching at 3.52 because you said what a man looks for. As a man I disagree with you. I look for intelligence, honesty, trustworthyness, the ability to have a conversation, the ability to look after yourself (i.e. being able to survice without a man). You can go to the gym all you want it makes absolutely no difference to me because to me a high value (your words) woman is a woman who respects herself and others, does't need to show off, doesn't want to look like Barbie but is happy being her natural self, and can survive quite well without a man. Anything else is either a show off or a sponge and that is something real men don't want and/or need in their life.

Respect. And accountability. Everything else is subjective.

The beauty industry, ie. cosmetics, hair products, anti-ageing creams, perfumes, cosmetic surgery, the beauty salon, jewelry, clothes and shoes etc... are largely geared towards females. Of course such products are there for males as well, but to a lesser extent. An attractive or average-looking woman can get a guy for a fling or a one-night-stand whenever she wants. For deeper long-term relationships, neither gender has an advantage over the other.

you naturally attract your equivalent. be valuable, you'll attract that. be promiscuous, you'll attract that.

Loyalty, beauty, youth, smarts and good values. Thats what high value men want.

Yep spot on, first thing I look for is does she look after her health, if she does she would be in good shape, not looking for perfection, i dislike perfection. These days its hard to find a girl that truly looks after her health, in the sense that she treats her body and mind like her temple, but again doesnt need to be perfect. Also ideally as little make up as possible, natural beauty! And these also looking for someone a bit awake! Oh and you are like the female version of terryjoeljunior , i literally just found you 2 at the same time, you are both awesome!

I like this one. What a real, proper, feminine, gorgeous Woman.

looks and youth are 80% of attracting a male. To keep him though, the values and how much peace you can bring to the relationship are important.

A diamond is a diamond. That's interesting

Thank you so much Keira!... I love your person!

If it clicks it clicks, if it doesn't it doesn't.

My mama is a high value woman, but even elon musk isn't good enough for her.

a true romantic relationship is not transactional but sentimental

We want feminine and sweet women but in a genuine and natural way, not faked!

Thought I had a feminine woman for years until I discovered she was a narcissist in disguise. It's like a switch turned on and she turned into the most awful person playing all sorts of mind games, triangulation, silent treatment, you name it. The promiscuity is the thing that really turned me off on top. This person would later tell me that I was the one that got away and that we were soul mates. I now have trust issues that will carry over for probably the rest of my life.

Talented, empathetic, good morals, loyal, patient.

So much easier to just get F'D on tinder and go about my day

OHHH so that's what weman think, that they can be selective and they can have every man in the world if they want just by nature, that changed my perspective drastically in only 30 seconds of video, i knew i had to watch this video, thank you Keira Lhotan you are a gift from god. Guys, no need to watch the rest of the video, just first 30 sec to 1 min. When such precious information given, going to focus on me.

trust me as long as you take care of yourself and is not delusional you'll be perfectly fine.

It's not money, status, or looks if you want to keep one. If you want to attract him, it's beauty. That's just the beginning. In the long run, the way you keep him is by being useful for his goals. By making what he is trying to accomplish easier

One more thing. A long time ago I remember a roommate telling me that he needed to get married so that he would have someone to do the dishes and wash his clothes. I was disgusted and felt a total loss of respect for this guy. I'm looking over a lot of the comments here and it's also upsetting. First off, the variety of the backgrounds we come from spans a very wide range of experience and learning and understanding. So, I'm not criticizing people that have a view similar to my old roommate's point of view. However, I think and feel that if you want for someone to clean your home, do the dishes and laundry, then hire a maid, seriously. If you don't have enough money to hire a maid then you probably shouldn't be getting married anyway. I'm not throwing shade. You will be better off and so will the poor woman who could have ended up marrying you to become an indentured servant. If you need to get laid then hire an escort. Again, if you don't have the money then you probably shouldn't be getting married. The idea that some poor woman is going to be lucky enough for you to be paying the bills and in return she gets to be stuck at home doing the chores and getting you off is small-minded thinking. For real though, if that's where your level of development is at and she's in the same place, then no harm, no foul. For the guys, this is your chance to find a partner, akin to a business partner, a creative partner, an inspirational partner, supporter and coach. Otherwise, hire a maid and or escort when needed. If you're too afraid of losing your partner that you feel the need to cage her up, then you've got work to do. You're better off being single for your own sake until you can shake that.

The problem is that you might be able to attract a high-value man, but you probably won't be able to keep him. If he is truly high-value, he has lots of options and will likely be content to just go from woman to woman without ever settling down.

We’re Kings…. We should always be first in a woman’s eyes, we are the prize not females. You have alot to learn 😂

High-value men have options so be prepared to share.

A wise person once said: "a woman can choose who to get laid, but a man chooses who to be with". For me personally, being charming, not a feminist and be there to give company to each other is all i care about. You can have all the things in the world, but it wouldn't matter

I totally agree on what you said, "If a man can buy it why would you try to buy it for him?". I know it's kind of a controversial topic, but you can buy beautiful women too. Of course looks and health matter, but it's not what will help you find a high value man. True care, compassion, emotional support and similar things are what a high value man seeks in a partner. Those things cannot be bought. As a man myself I can assure you those things are the most rare things a man can experience in his life.

Thank you! I can't thank you enough for this ❤

a high value man will recognize a high value woman...but it wont be her look thats giving the essence..its her inner energy...thats what seperates a good looking woman to a "high value" woman

I normally don't comment on this topic.. but spot on👍

One girl liked me, although I didn’t really like her at first. I decided to take a walk with her and chat. She ended up falling deeply in love with me. We began to spend time together often. And I appreciate her kindness, modesty, love for animals, the fact that she didn’t have boyfriends before me. I will try to make her life better.

Looks are indeed very important BUT women nowadays don't have anything else, they are shallow as a sheet of paper and that is the most frustrating thing, it is impossible to have a real connection with such an empty being.

Kind, feminine, caring, confident and soft. That's all.

High value just means rich and/or good looking. Women talking about “high value men” already should be a red flag, especially to the men who those women want who have options

What I've been doing is hoping some woman would come along and care about me for me, to be my muse or my motivation. It's opened up my eyes and shown me how materialistic women are. They don't care about a struggling man.

she is so smart 😭😭 i think girls still need to seek a good job, so they can be more free and less stressed financially. So some career success is good too.

Key point about hvm... We aren't on dating apps.

Keira you might want to take a look over at The Happy Wife School with Karyn. Karyn tackles a lot of issues there. Do take care.

Should do a vid on where to find “high value” feminine women, bc they are not easy to find

As a man, what attracts me is femininity. beauty, youth, emotional/mental stability and loyalty, and I don't like women who overexpose themselves on social media to find external validation. I don't need more. I could marry the McDonald's cashier if she gives me that.

So is this you in this ‘Snow Strippers - So What if I’m a Freak’ music video? I sure hope not, especially if you’re coming out talking about this

Idk if you’ll read this comment, but I think you should ponder this topic a bit more. I’ve really liked several of your videos and insights. Sorry I wrote such a long comment, but I think you’re intelligent and looking for the truth, so I thought I’d give the perspective of someone who’s found a high value woman. Your basic premise is absolutely right - if you want to attract a high value man, be a high value woman. And your secondary point is also right - men often don’t care how much wealth or professional success their woman has. But leaning into looks is not it. Looking good is valuable, but it’s mostly valuable because it gets you a second look. If you want to actually stand out as marriage material, that’s going to have much more to do with character, personality, and how you treat people. Character is the most important. Can’t have anything without that. You need to be honest, prudent, loyal, resilient, patient, authentic, etc. All of those are things you can choose to work on and develop, especially prudence, which is a lot like wisdom - it’s knowing what to do in specific situations; how to apply your knowledge and your ethics to circumstances in order to do the right thing and the best thing for you. How you treat others will show a lot of your character. Of course, how you treat your man. But even (and perhaps especially) how you treat people you have power over who you will never see again, like waitstaff and cashiers. And then personality - if you don’t have compatible personalities, it’s extremely unlikely you’ll have a lasting relationship, no matter how much you recognize the value in one another. The good news is that there are lots of different combinations that are compatible, and there’s a high value man for nearly any personality. That being said, gracious, kind, and funny are always popular traits.

Keira preaching again!

Right on with the Money - a secure guy that is competent does understand a competent Women - there are 'rogue' guys - pretty boys or just guys that 'have it' where they hook up with a worker girl who just likes working and making money - but the best is two players who are hard working or modest and will sacrifice (and hopefully have 2 kids)

"Be attractive, don't be unattractive"

If you don’t have a “High value “ man then you can’t speak on the subject 😂😂😂 and you come across as born into wealth 😂

man love is suppose to heal. Its about being at your worst and someone willing to see you for better and cares for you. What kind of nonsense is KZhead and society becoming ? Man, all this is just thot talk and im so sick of it. KZhead and podcasts dont teach people, your experience does. Thanks for the game doe sista cracka!

I'm marrying the first woman that says she loves me and actually means it. I don't care about anything else

Correction: A high value man is a man who fears the Lord and has an upright and righteous heart. Girls who chase men for money are enslaved by money. Whatever you choose above God will be what youre enslaved to. Do not be consumed by the world but be consumed by the love of God and He will give you all the most precious things.

beauty is important but not the main thing i would say is better be well rounded how u act how u communicate how approachable u look even past matters how much positivity u get back from ur social circle because we don't give points we take them away in our mind. There is around 20 qualities which men look at women of course priority order is different for each person.

It always fascinates me when women talk about how physical size does not matter 🤔

can you make a video about what makes a man more attractive from a high value women perspective

You got this one all wrong. We want an innocent, loyal, mother-like soul who we want to offer to shield from harsh reality in order to preserve her purity. If we find her attractive is up to nature and physical compatibility, not how well toned her body is or how pretty her makeup. Zero dollars or valuables needed.

I would focus on the character of the man. The main thing that I want in a woman is sincerity, honest communication and trust. I also want someone who’s pleasant and enjoyable to be around and who I look forward to seeing because of her energy. I think that some of the main things that you should look for in a man are honesty, dependability, integrity and someone who values you. High net worth men run the gamut. People love to talk about appearances but I would focus on someone who you’re happy with behind closed doors.

Only high value attracts high value. Low Value attracts only low value too.its the law of attraction in action.😊😊❤

How to attract high value female: be high value male. Whatever that means to you, not them. If youre proud of yourself they will pick up on that my brothers

Saying high value man is so cringe.

To me as a medium value man, I don't care for extremely ambitious, "strong and independent", "can do whatever a man can do" boss babes. Those are all manly traits and I'm not looking for a man. And no, they don't intimidate me, I work alongside them just fine and have not problem having them as friends, but not what I want in a partner. I could not care less what she earns

Basically no one watching this video

The flex of having multiple options doesn´t work because your options don´t want to commit.

pure luck, relax 🐢 "high value man", haha omfg what a time to be alive

this kind of videos are really good keep doing it

The problem with the 'now' (starting before) is sacrifice for what ? for who ? and for how long ? and what what assuredly that your nice house and neighborhood you 'sacrificed' for isn't turned over night into a polluted renta center - and many younger people just don't have confidence that sacrifice is honored in a dishonorble society