The SAD Truth About Mary J Blige's Love Life

2024 ж. 22 Мам.
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Mary J. Blige’s songs are known for being a raw reflection of her life experiences. She managed to pull herself out of those dark times, which included turbulent relationships. Here’s the sad truth about her dating history.
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  • THIS IS THE BEST EPISODE..WE LOVE MARY💖💖💖

    @retrobabesaves2522@retrobabesaves25224 жыл бұрын
    • RETRO BABE Coupon Deals and Savings yes indeed 🌹

      @beautyishername5116@beautyishername51164 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks so much for watching ❤️❤️

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • 💕💕💕 yes we do!!!

      @NaeThaGoddesz44@NaeThaGoddesz444 жыл бұрын
    • Yes indeed

      @simplymarvelous4130@simplymarvelous41304 жыл бұрын
    • I see her with nas last summer and 2 years before that.

      @solinfinitymusicworks1366@solinfinitymusicworks13664 жыл бұрын
  • “When you hate yourself, you attract people who hate you too” 💔

    @LocdandLovelyT@LocdandLovelyT4 жыл бұрын
    • 😔

      @TheRealArrendondo@TheRealArrendondo4 жыл бұрын
    • Well said

      @Hardtime201@Hardtime2014 жыл бұрын
    • This hit me in my soul... So profound!!

      @leandav2055@leandav20554 жыл бұрын
    • Mary is a man...lol People are dummies...she is worn out.....a sellout allegedly...don't get mad...

      @jocruse4904@jocruse49044 жыл бұрын
    • 😭😭😭😭

      @katrinataylor600@katrinataylor6004 жыл бұрын
  • Imagine being in a 12 year relationship with someone who says "they were not as serious as people thought" Jesus wow. Hoping for the best for her ❤

    @Nissis.future.mummy1@Nissis.future.mummy14 жыл бұрын
    • Try

      @berniceharris9321@berniceharris93214 жыл бұрын
    • Right?!? What a trash, clown ass man 🤣🤣🤣 that’s such a ridiculous thing to say

      @paulailonze8067@paulailonze80674 жыл бұрын
    • He's a liar

      @MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK@MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK4 жыл бұрын
    • Right 12 years is fucking serious!!

      @millymilly8264@millymilly82644 жыл бұрын
    • Diddy dragged Cassie for ten years

      @collectivecreators6312@collectivecreators63123 жыл бұрын
  • No one ever mentions how physically beautiful this woman is. I was always so proud of her journey 😊

    @cocoasweet@cocoasweet3 жыл бұрын
    • That's what a real queen look like God bless you

      @marjaposey6532@marjaposey65322 жыл бұрын
    • She should have played Etta James.

      @everettwilson1416@everettwilson14162 жыл бұрын
  • Mary’s story is the story of so many black girls in ghettos all over the world who grew up in toxic environments and didn’t know any better. So many of us grow up angry at the world because it’s a defence mechanism from all of the hurt and trauma experienced as young children. I’m glad she has overcome and I remain one of her biggest fans to this day.

    @yetundepink@yetundepink4 жыл бұрын
    • exactly 💯 her story was so many women's upbringing in tough areas around drugs abuse etc that's why her music is our therapy our stories and so many others are in her songs.

      @musiclover-cn7tb@musiclover-cn7tb4 ай бұрын
    • Same here.

      @musiclover-cn7tb@musiclover-cn7tb4 ай бұрын
    • not just the ghetto

      @nicolerobinson835@nicolerobinson835Ай бұрын
  • No wonder her songs were so good, she had several first hand accounts.

    @stormb28@stormb284 жыл бұрын
    • Mary always wore her emotions on her sleeves. Everything that she was going through she put it all in the music

      @joshuamcdowell5782@joshuamcdowell57824 жыл бұрын
    • @@joshuamcdowell5782 Facts!

      @justbeencouraged2495@justbeencouraged24954 жыл бұрын
    • His Wife

      @bobbiefrear5153@bobbiefrear51534 жыл бұрын
    • stormb28 she always got a story to tell lol.

      @mzshanti2012@mzshanti20124 жыл бұрын
    • The best music comes from pain

      @draesynesofficial@draesynesofficial3 жыл бұрын
  • Mary J is undoubtedly the queen of hip hop soul, a legend, an icon, a winner, inspired so many. We cant ''be without you''

    @salmanlawal9289@salmanlawal92894 жыл бұрын
    • Yesss! 👑

      @Cherry-J@Cherry-J4 жыл бұрын
    • Most beautiful comment ever!!!!

      @therealblackqueen1654@therealblackqueen16544 жыл бұрын
    • True story from me. I just had to listen to my life this morning. I have been singing it in my head the entire week and so decided to do a trip down memory lane: Reminiscing, You are certainly beautiful Mary J. Blige and don't allow anyone to steal your joy ever. Look to HIM, " The Man Above" - ALMIGHTY GOD. God bless you and keep you. 😘🤩😍🎁♥️

      @irismckeown5192@irismckeown5192 Жыл бұрын
  • She gave these men 24 years of her life my God. I am so happy that I drop them fast AF.

    @nikkievans7133@nikkievans71333 жыл бұрын
  • Kendu said, "It felt like a brother-sister relationship" when they met⁠-I bet it did⁠-with Mary being the big brother provider & Kendu being the needy little sister. So sad Mary was surrounded by toxic leaches. 😣

    @leagueG5@leagueG54 жыл бұрын
  • Mary faced so many challenges. Her perseverance is astonishing. Most ppl would not make it past those circumstances she faced. Glad she conquered her demons and had a turning point. Kendu was a chump for being a cash cow. Still bumping “ALL NIGHT LONG” & “Be Happy” till this day.

    @mspishposh@mspishposh4 жыл бұрын
    • Well said, Mary has always been a warrior of life!. She is a ongoing fighter.

      @debrajames6316@debrajames63164 жыл бұрын
    • 1neta Remember Mary was skeptical of Kendu from the jump 🤔🤔🤔 and she let her guard down he was showing her he wanted her and Mary trusted him then HE DROPPED THE BOMB ON HER 😱😱😱

      @patriciabrown8666@patriciabrown86664 жыл бұрын
    • she had those footprints walking alongside her the whole time.

      @blossom866@blossom8663 жыл бұрын
    • Also Mary have a lot of support. It's when people don't have that is when they succumb to issues.

      @sandracorley3944@sandracorley39442 жыл бұрын
    • There's MANY who faced all of that and more without the fame and fortune. Lol

      @SoulSearch11110@SoulSearch111102 жыл бұрын
  • She’s been through so much she’s such a strong woman I hope she finds the happiness she deserves one day

    @prinprin3324@prinprin33244 жыл бұрын
    • We hope so too!

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • @@rrg Thank you for the upload . Its clear that Mary is a warrior. She will go down fighting. Her x husband was a con Artist, he used her for her money and she was blinded by his lies and deception.

      @debrajames6316@debrajames63164 жыл бұрын
    • I hope so too. She was broken for a long time, but I can sense the genuineness in her. Real love will find her one day ❤.

      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect4 жыл бұрын
  • "When you hate yourself, you draw people to you that hate you too." Wow, that's deep. Through Mary's music, essence, & resilience, she receives my utmost adoration/respect. 👑❤

    @DynamicallyDC@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
    • It is so true because when you don't love yourself you'll allow any and everything to come into your life to wreak havoc.

      @TheNewgreatlife@TheNewgreatlife2 жыл бұрын
  • If Method Man wasn't already married I think him and Mary would make a dope couple. But Method Man loves his wife and he ain't leaving her for nobody! That's how a REAL husband should be!

    @misss.162@misss.1623 жыл бұрын
    • He took him several decades to get that way. He stayed cheating.

      @jasminacortezonline@jasminacortezonline2 жыл бұрын
    • @@jasminacortezonline So true. Method was cheating on her with multiple different women during his prime with Wu Tang Clan and later on.

      @maniwatson5503@maniwatson55032 жыл бұрын
    • @@maniwatson5503 ...I'm sure he has but he still stayed by her side at the end of the day. P.S. not saying cheating should be acceptable.

      @misss.162@misss.1622 жыл бұрын
    • @@misss.162 Cheating is not acceptable at all. If I was her I would of left him in the heartbeat.

      @maniwatson5503@maniwatson55032 жыл бұрын
    • @@maniwatson5503 ...girl me too but I think her having cancer might've scared him and made him appreciate her.

      @babylelee22@babylelee222 жыл бұрын
  • Wow she’s won 9 Grammies 💪🏿👸🏿

    @user-tn6fg2du6v@user-tn6fg2du6v4 жыл бұрын
    • That's right because she is the queen of Hip-Hop soul

      @isaiahwinbrone@isaiahwinbrone4 жыл бұрын
    • @@isaiahwinbrone what was @aish thinking 🤷🏾‍♀️ that's MJB

      @patricecandice4057@patricecandice40574 жыл бұрын
    • She deserves it 💙

      @619G_@619G_3 жыл бұрын
    • She deserved it. She worked hard

      @lioness-sx6fr@lioness-sx6fr2 жыл бұрын
    • Well deserved!

      @brendajackson13@brendajackson132 жыл бұрын
  • She called her family evil, jealous, ignorant and hateful. Reminds me of my own damn family...

    @shenyaeturner842@shenyaeturner8424 жыл бұрын
    • My family as well.

      @shuntiamcmillan1503@shuntiamcmillan15034 жыл бұрын
    • The same

      @Princess0ftheLight@Princess0ftheLight4 жыл бұрын
    • Shenyae Turner Hello!!

      @leiahdavis1908@leiahdavis19084 жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @kenny808kine8@kenny808kine84 жыл бұрын
    • Same 😰

      @GiaJayee@GiaJayee4 жыл бұрын
  • When you pick the "Bible" up, Never put it back down.

    @Passivity211@Passivity2114 жыл бұрын
    • Amen proundly true

      @msladylibra8373@msladylibra83732 ай бұрын
  • Its a blessing she's still standing. What she has gone through would've broke some people. She's a fighter and a strong woman. Believe me she will find her happiness.

    @yolandaepps4459@yolandaepps44594 жыл бұрын
  • Mary J. Blige is a true living legend.

    @timmy841212@timmy8412124 жыл бұрын
  • It sucks that mary hasn't found someone that truly loves and care for her but maybe someday it could happen!! I wish her the very best!! ❤️

    @Waifu_Domo@Waifu_Domo4 жыл бұрын
    • Waifu DomoTron “maybe someday “. 😂😂😂

      @envyallison926@envyallison9264 жыл бұрын
    • @@envyallison926 I'm no psychic!! 🤷🏾‍♀️😅

      @Waifu_Domo@Waifu_Domo4 жыл бұрын
    • She is dating a African billionaire.

      @prettyhair7684@prettyhair76844 жыл бұрын
    • maybe mary is just like 95% of women out there who love when niggas mistreat them and cheat on them, instead of looking to be with a man who would love and respect her.

      @mrknowitalllt1@mrknowitalllt14 жыл бұрын
    • Good people always end up lonly

      @glorihulda933@glorihulda9334 жыл бұрын
  • You can literally feel her pain in her songs. Every time I listen to her songs I break down crying because it brings back painful memories of my life but her music does help me get through life.

    @TheLeah2344@TheLeah23443 жыл бұрын
  • Mary has always used her pain to make the best hits. Still looks amazing ❤️❤️❤️

    @24pekanpie@24pekanpie4 жыл бұрын
  • Poor Mary.....these men don’t want to be in a relationship, but want to get the benefits of being with her.

    @ninamiller2678@ninamiller26784 жыл бұрын
    • Don't want to be in a relationship with HER but yeah,take full advantage of the benefits & lavish lifestyle

      @CiaobellaAmour@CiaobellaAmour4 жыл бұрын
    • Tell me about it. I'm living it now

      @terrilee734@terrilee7344 жыл бұрын
    • She’s probably broken. Her choice in men may be bad as well.

      @Th3lite@Th3lite4 жыл бұрын
    • @Nina Dollard Now you all know how the Guy's feel bout this 🙄

      @afms-jo2de@afms-jo2de4 жыл бұрын
    • @My Thought's Yes they are

      @MsBadBody@MsBadBody4 жыл бұрын
  • man I felt that hurt when that shady talk show showed her that clip of KCi denying their relationship.

    @MissJaynet@MissJaynet4 жыл бұрын
    • Never even seen that before like damn kc was crazy

      @NorthPhilly-zr7xc@NorthPhilly-zr7xc4 жыл бұрын
    • That white woman hosting the show was being evil, such a nasty, horrible bitch. This was in 1995 when Mary and Jodeci both toured the UK. She planned to humiliate Mary on live TV, you could see it broke Mary's heart. I love me some Jodeci but K-ci was such an ignorant dimwitted munt, a pathetic excuse for a black man. smfh!!

      @Boomslang1@Boomslang14 жыл бұрын
    • @@Boomslang1 God is merciful though because he sucked all of KC's vocal chords from him 😂

      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect4 жыл бұрын
    • Ms. Perfectly Imperfect Baby, I hollered!!! 😂😂😂

      @alexandriagilliard8060@alexandriagilliard80604 жыл бұрын
    • @@Boomslang1 I agree. I felt that, too.

      @lawdhammercy4448@lawdhammercy44483 жыл бұрын
  • She is a strong powerful black woman. That didn't let her abuse destroy her. She stayed 💪.

    @carolynbell157@carolynbell1574 жыл бұрын
  • The amount of sexual assaults on young children is horrifying. I just finished watching Queen Latifah's video...same story.

    @MPPG663@MPPG6633 жыл бұрын
    • Is it sad I just assumed every little girl has this story because it happened to me and I kept meeting girls with some version of the same story. Almost always someone the family trusted was the r*pist. I remember meeting a young woman in college who hadn't been sexually molested before the age of 18 and being so happy she existed.

      @TheDawnofVanlife@TheDawnofVanlife Жыл бұрын
    • People are fkn sick and they’re trying to normalize it and I’m not going for it

      @bubblesactivated@bubblesactivated Жыл бұрын
  • A man with nothing going for himself and lives off of women is not a man at all he's basically a kid

    @deasiawilliams2621@deasiawilliams26214 жыл бұрын
    • Deasia Williams exactly

      @aminah761@aminah7614 жыл бұрын
    • Same applies with women.

      @GR8119@GR81194 жыл бұрын
    • True, but God made men the head of the household. He cannot be the leader of he isn't pulling his weight. Thankfully some women are able to support their families.

      @Lioness_Es@Lioness_Es4 жыл бұрын
    • @@iyshamelton9464 :-(

      @cece3547@cece35474 жыл бұрын
    • He was her Manager Dumb ass! That was his lively Hood. Not defending kendu. But Mary's career started to really thrive when she married him. She went on to record her biggest selling album the breakthrough which was written with him in mind. Won multiple Grammys it was him who Got her many of those Paying Gigs as her manager. So when she fired him he had to Get that money back and he did. LOVE Mary but i think she suffers from mental illness as well. She's not perfect, she even dated married men before Kendu like Singer case. She knew he was married when they were together and still tried to be with him KARMA IS A BITCH!!!

      @kennyishere4568@kennyishere45684 жыл бұрын
  • Like how come hardly no one talks about how literally gorgeous Mary really is 😍😍😍💜💜💜💜

    @jerronjackson1782@jerronjackson17824 жыл бұрын
    • Jerron Jackson I know!! I was shook about how beautiful she is! That buttery brown skin, that smile and her impeccable style!

      @lakacialloyd9027@lakacialloyd90274 жыл бұрын
    • Yaaaaaas Lakacia Lloyd!!💜💜💜

      @jerronjackson1782@jerronjackson17824 жыл бұрын
    • Jerron Jackson yes

      @bornwithclass2365@bornwithclass23654 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly

      @lawdhammercy4448@lawdhammercy44483 жыл бұрын
    • Absolutely stunning.

      @ehiggins360@ehiggins3603 жыл бұрын
  • I teared up at the end. I love how you depicted her story.

    @rashaetate310@rashaetate3104 жыл бұрын
    • Aww thanks so much for watching 💕

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
  • A man shouldn’t make a woman love him when knowing fully well he is going to leave her someday...

    @blackism4everokpeyen871@blackism4everokpeyen8714 жыл бұрын
    • Man that's all I wanted to say

      @bigmiim8584@bigmiim85843 жыл бұрын
    • Nah ppl gotta learn how to control their emotions...Mary ain't no saint now.

      @Mone333Williams@Mone333Williams9 ай бұрын
    • Nothing last forever. Feelings change.

      @urtheboss1@urtheboss18 күн бұрын
  • Her story taught me that self love is the best thing you can do for yourself. Thanks Mary

    @amadeon827@amadeon8274 жыл бұрын
    • ‘Real Love’

      @marrrweee@marrrweee4 ай бұрын
  • You will NEVER find MJB looking ratchet. Always looking classy. Never showed off her body. MJB been through alot

    @chiara_knows_better1971@chiara_knows_better19714 жыл бұрын
    • U must not no old Mary j blige when she was on drugs

      @DemiKaylahWilson@DemiKaylahWilson4 жыл бұрын
    • She’s the bomb!

      @leoleolady9680@leoleolady96803 жыл бұрын
    • @@DemiKaylahWilson Ok and?. She's human, Human beings make mistakes. She's not on drugs anymore, she always is and Always will be Classy.

      @hazybliss4069@hazybliss40693 жыл бұрын
    • She always showed her body off... Where have you been?

      @miaporche2256@miaporche22563 жыл бұрын
    • @@trawlins396 Same thing....

      @miaporche2256@miaporche22563 жыл бұрын
  • Nobody wants to be strong all the time though. Love and light to Mary I wish her all the love she deserves ❤️

    @tamaramoton9406@tamaramoton94062 жыл бұрын
  • The fact that Kacey can literally say him and Mary were never that serious but in the same breath say he gave her a ring (in which he never planned on marrying her as if she’s supposed to know that) , and spent 12 years together. These men were evil.

    @nadob2d481@nadob2d4813 жыл бұрын
  • Mary is such a strong woman. She’s been through a lot and come a long way....

    @TrishDaniell@TrishDaniell4 жыл бұрын
  • Mary has sung the song of so many womens lives over the years! She is a true icon!⚘

    @blacqueen8743@blacqueen87434 жыл бұрын
  • Her music help me get through some heavy things when I was in my early 20s,I just turned 35 yesterday.so glad she good now like I'm good now

    @NerdSplash5555@NerdSplash55554 жыл бұрын
  • I have ALWAYS and WILL ALWAYS love my sister, Mary! She is truly a woman of strength! 🌹💞🦋

    @ma_n8tive413@ma_n8tive4134 жыл бұрын
  • He wanted 130k a month? And he doesn’t have a job. Wow the nerve of this man.

    @doreensika837@doreensika8374 жыл бұрын
    • The nerve of that ninja

      @CiaobellaAmour@CiaobellaAmour4 жыл бұрын
    • She paying him 30 thousand to the unuptial spousal

      @lovehope3778@lovehope37784 жыл бұрын
    • He took Whendy advice, ask high lol

      @kenny808kine8@kenny808kine84 жыл бұрын
    • He ain't no man.... ain't got no job.. get a job you useless worthless POS!!!! Expecting a woman to take care of yo' no account/ no integrity ass!!!

      @oceanbreeze6589@oceanbreeze65894 жыл бұрын
    • love hope that is still a lot of money. I read up why he wanted 130k, he wanted her to pay for child support for another woman’s child and pay for his parents luxury nursing home, plus some for 1000 for shoes every month. It is absolutely ridiculous. This guy is psycho.

      @doreensika837@doreensika8374 жыл бұрын
  • To bad her suspicions of Kendu ( being too good to be true ) were right all along ..

    @shunniepoo3110@shunniepoo31104 жыл бұрын
    • shunniepoo and he wasn’t good at all

      @isidoraveronica@isidoraveronica4 жыл бұрын
    • @@isidoraveronica ....and he was never cute!

      @ginacleveland7995@ginacleveland79954 жыл бұрын
    • We have intuition for a reason...have to get still and listen.

      @SensuousO@SensuousO4 жыл бұрын
    • Gina Cleveland lol right. He only had cute eyes.

      @isidoraveronica@isidoraveronica4 жыл бұрын
    • shunniepoo And he is a Leo man they have many bad characteristics..

      @pinapardoki9708@pinapardoki97084 жыл бұрын
  • Mary is my Capricorn sista. We have been through some of the same heartbreaks, betrayal, and violations. I am proud to see this Queen come out on top despite all the triumphs. She has continued to rise to the top effortlessly. 👸🏾🙏🏽

    @theteresa2776@theteresa27762 жыл бұрын
    • Yass 🎉

      @prettyxxgirlsxxtrap@prettyxxgirlsxxtrapАй бұрын
  • I always knew she was a strong and remarkable woman. Now, I have a deeper appreciation and understanding of who Mary Jane Blige truly is. I love Mary and her music even more. 👑❤️ Thank you so much for sharing her incredible story.

    @rwhite2841@rwhite2841 Жыл бұрын
  • I absolutely love MJB, from a child, I thought I was her in high school, Momma allowed me to dye my hair blonde, I dressed like her everything, she was my teenage relationship coach, her music was a healer, Beautiful woman inside and out

    @yes_i_am_ms.jackson6144@yes_i_am_ms.jackson61444 жыл бұрын
    • Every song is me I'm her slot of women are but she has become one of if not the best singer ever so I believe she has overcome all that love you Mary

      @mildredjones1907@mildredjones19073 жыл бұрын
  • Kendu was chasing her money not her 😠😠

    @sinsearjones6081@sinsearjones60814 жыл бұрын
    • Sounds like it...

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • Sinsear Jones fact

      @soundsrelaxing888@soundsrelaxing8884 жыл бұрын
    • The devil comes in many forms.We definitely have to be very cautious in this f......up world .god blessed his real children.YAH .

      @tanyasmith1616@tanyasmith16164 жыл бұрын
    • ....and he was never cute!😡

      @ginacleveland7995@ginacleveland79954 жыл бұрын
    • @Sinsear Jones Women do the same from time.... 🤐

      @afms-jo2de@afms-jo2de4 жыл бұрын
  • I love Mary J Blige i can relate to her music.

    @queenpoetrymona3203@queenpoetrymona32034 жыл бұрын
  • At the end of all that... Mary is doing fine, fine, fine 😊

    @SouthSideLadyWright@SouthSideLadyWright4 жыл бұрын
  • My girl shrugged that disrespect off like a boss.. “ we not getting married now” 4:14

    @Wutstheteatoday@Wutstheteatoday4 жыл бұрын
    • Bbooooooommmmm! Its funny how we speak things into existence.

      @kenny808kine8@kenny808kine84 жыл бұрын
    • Lifestyle of Jenna and Andrew sure did.😆✌🏾💪🏾

      @LocdandLovelyT@LocdandLovelyT4 жыл бұрын
    • No. She was visibly hurt and shaken. She did her best attempt at shrugging it off.

      @lawdhammercy4448@lawdhammercy44483 жыл бұрын
    • Actually, she was hurt and shook

      @Brook-ct3kk@Brook-ct3kk3 жыл бұрын
    • @@lawdhammercy4448 Yes she was and after that public embarrassment she should've walked away from KC for good.

      @salenasheppherd7551@salenasheppherd75513 жыл бұрын
  • Mary should have listened to her first mind when Kendu was chasing her. Her intuition was trying to tell her. She needed to be in rehab and therapy and not a relationship. He took advantage of her vulnerable state...he controlled and manipulated her all those years. Glad she got out and living her best life...love yourself and God all you really need .

    @SensuousO@SensuousO4 жыл бұрын
    • As women we always have that 6ths sense and we ignore it. Trust your gut

      @lezel4swarts@lezel4swarts4 жыл бұрын
    • If he was putting her down, the words are Not "he is being disrespectful," that is abuseful.

      @marylsanz@marylsanz3 жыл бұрын
    • if you gonna be a nun yeah, seems about right.

      @magaan4717@magaan47173 жыл бұрын
  • Kendu never wanted her he simply used a different route to gain her trust and went for the bag in which he succeeded smh

    @24pekanpie@24pekanpie4 жыл бұрын
  • I will always have respect for MJB her album My Life helped me get through a deep depression and I was only a teenager🥲 I play that album to this day when I am down. ❤

    @Mzunderstood319@Mzunderstood319 Жыл бұрын
  • That Viola Davis meme was hilarious!!! Now you KNOW Kendu was NOT seeing Queen Latifah. RRG, y'all shady lmaoo.

    @MsDivaJonelle@MsDivaJonelle4 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • GIRL, yes!! 😹😹😹😹😹😹

      @locafly@locafly3 жыл бұрын
    • Right!!!!!😁

      @carmensandiego223@carmensandiego2233 жыл бұрын
    • I had to pause the video because I came looking for this comment(or another one like it). Baby when I tell you I had to cover my mouth so I wouldn't holler at work. I'm done...

      @summerraine3934@summerraine39342 жыл бұрын
  • MJB is a shero to me. I’m sorry she married a loser of a man that’s looking for a handout.

    @lionelluva@lionelluva4 жыл бұрын
    • Ikr SMDH is this how men are these days?????? If so l don't want one I do bad all by myself IJS 🤔

      @cleftheart1969@cleftheart19694 жыл бұрын
    • Rocket Groot Don’t say that honey. I’ve said that before and my heart got bitter. Now, I pray and let God bring the right man to me.

      @lionelluva@lionelluva4 жыл бұрын
    • @@lionelluva thanks l can honestly sayI'm not bitter. I never been in love and I'm ok with it. Not ONE decent dude has ever hit on me. And if no one decent is meant for me than I'm ok being alone. All my life I have had self esteem issues.... and for once in my lifetime l have come around to learn l deserve better. It's not the end of the world for not having "man"...

      @cleftheart1969@cleftheart19694 жыл бұрын
    • Rocket Groot I was saying my heart got bitter. I’ve never been in love either but I’ve been in strong like plenty of times. Have faith that true love will find you in its time.

      @lionelluva@lionelluva4 жыл бұрын
    • Like sooooo many blk men.:-(

      @Chitownhomestead@Chitownhomestead4 жыл бұрын
  • "How can I love somebody else, when I can't love myself enough to know, when it's time, time to let go"

    @keekeebrown1723@keekeebrown17233 жыл бұрын
  • Mary J....you pulled me thru some dark times, when I was ready to end living. Your music was healing. Thank you Mary J ❤

    @jayhill1400@jayhill14004 жыл бұрын
  • Some ppl aren't lucky with love but she should never give up on ❤love

    @stephaniewhite2662@stephaniewhite26624 жыл бұрын
    • Stephanie White I feel that

      @samanthagoodridge302@samanthagoodridge3024 жыл бұрын
    • People are fools for love and love only cares for love . Corona and love let's never meet 🤒😷

      @lewa9718@lewa97184 жыл бұрын
    • I agree..

      @delanoferrer3181@delanoferrer31813 жыл бұрын
    • I so agree. Some people really struggle to find something real...sometimes most of their life.

      @TheNewgreatlife@TheNewgreatlife2 жыл бұрын
    • I know I sure haven't been!!!

      @reachinnirvana9076@reachinnirvana90762 жыл бұрын
  • Love Mary J and always rooting for her to find real unconditional love. True R&B soul legend 🙌💯😎👍

    @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL@ThanhMaiOFFICIAL4 жыл бұрын
    • Thanh Mai Yessssssss!!

      @Lglover001@Lglover0014 жыл бұрын
  • If KC wasn't so "in love" with Mary, why did he stalk her throughout her entire marriage to Kendu... Why did he make a video with a woman with blonde hair, dressed like Mary with the song entitled "I'm sorry" why did he talk about Mary's husband on stage at every concert saying that Kendu don't love her the way he does... Ha men are jokes

    @chingching3529@chingching35293 жыл бұрын
    • KC is a man who stopped growing at 15. Emotional toddler.

      @ehiggins360@ehiggins3603 жыл бұрын
    • Dam sounds like he missed her, and he treated her like crap just to keep his bad boy image, but I bet she surprised him by who she decided to be in her circumstance.

      @marylsanz@marylsanz3 жыл бұрын
    • Unbelievable SMH

      @adriennerobinson1180@adriennerobinson11803 жыл бұрын
    • I didnt know he did that...

      @deonnadyson@deonnadyson3 жыл бұрын
    • That doesn’t mean he’s in love with her. He did all that to regain access and control over her

      @msmoon1504@msmoon1504 Жыл бұрын
  • I love the gift that she shared with the world...her precious voice. May God bless you MJB. I hope all of the bad wounds from life will be healed by God.

    @trienasee2136@trienasee21363 жыл бұрын
  • OMG!!! I love this women!!! she sing the songs that every female goes through because she went through them. You can here it from the heart and soul. One bad black woman.

    @valerieirvin4330@valerieirvin43304 жыл бұрын
    • 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
  • She is definitely the Queen of Pain

    @ShesGottaFastCar@ShesGottaFastCar4 жыл бұрын
    • I don’t like this. 😔

      @AkaMagenta@AkaMagenta3 жыл бұрын
    • What a terrible "compliment"

      @elainadevora1506@elainadevora15062 жыл бұрын
  • I'm rooting for you Mary. Love heals all wounds. You are amazing.

    @Gemininmyblood@Gemininmyblood3 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @everettwilson1416@everettwilson14162 жыл бұрын
  • Such a sad life...she is such a pretty and talented lady. Too often woman don't realize their God-given gifts. I wish her a peaceful, blessed life.

    @sandraatkins2539@sandraatkins25393 жыл бұрын
  • My reaction was the exact same when the part “ She thought him and Queen Latifah was a couple” 😒😂

    @keemylashay5199@keemylashay51994 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • Viola and that dang purse!!! 🤣🤣🤣

      @msjreneful@msjreneful4 жыл бұрын
    • I was like....shade from heaven.....lawd.....

      @kenny808kine8@kenny808kine84 жыл бұрын
    • Keemy Lashay i know, really girl!

      @trafficjam.@trafficjam.4 жыл бұрын
    • She must didn't know 😂😂

      @joshuamcdowell5782@joshuamcdowell57824 жыл бұрын
  • Mary deserved better.

    @jannahmac5371@jannahmac53714 жыл бұрын
  • K-C was dating Mary for 12 years and stated he had no intention of marrying her. ☹️

    @cecily387@cecily387 Жыл бұрын
    • Sound like a typical black man.

      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302@thetruesoulofanaquarius930210 ай бұрын
  • That's my girl.I don't care what nobody says ,about her ,she has been my strength through her music.❤❤❤❤❤👸👸👸👸👸👸

    @cynthiabrown882@cynthiabrown8824 жыл бұрын
  • MJB had it rough ,what doesn't kill you makes you Stronger,❤Mary ......

    @curtistinemiller4646@curtistinemiller46464 жыл бұрын
  • Dating for 12 years and the relationship wasn’t serious?! Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    @TroubleWorld@TroubleWorld4 жыл бұрын
    • To me it sounds like Mary likes to drag out dead relationships. There definitely are illusions surrounding her relationships. Some people with narcissistic traits love to play the victim. She has money, she could have went to therapy and worked on self love and self healing. We all have to learn our way some how. But damn this has been the story of her whole life, abusive, toxic relationships.

      @elnoor3392@elnoor33924 жыл бұрын
    • @@elnoor3392 desperate women love staying with toxic men

      @millymilly8264@millymilly82644 жыл бұрын
    • She should have been left

      @collectivecreators6312@collectivecreators63123 жыл бұрын
    • @@millymilly8264 Mary wasn't desperate she just thought they both were in love.

      @hazybliss4069@hazybliss40693 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly tf outta here Kci

      @MichelleLuvn25@MichelleLuvn253 жыл бұрын
  • Kendu & his daughter Briana on growing up hip hop have some serious issues! How did Mary deal with that girl, Bri is insane.

    @rondas7772@rondas77724 жыл бұрын
  • That viola Davis meme regarding queen Latifah being with a man killed me. I had to pause and comment! Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

    @khatimmclean852@khatimmclean8523 жыл бұрын
    • 🤣🤣

      @rrg@rrg3 жыл бұрын
  • In the words of Biggie, "[she] turned all of that negative into a positive." MJB is a success and remains at the top of her game. Boom. Sometimes relationships don't work out. Life goes on.

    @zheahra@zheahra4 жыл бұрын
    • 50 something years old looking a glowy 25

      @Dablkwid0w2008@Dablkwid0w20082 жыл бұрын
  • “””12””” YEARS WITH THE SAME MAN AND NO DISCUSSION OF MARRIAGE OR FUTURE TOGETHER 🤦🏽‍♀️ #marymarymary

    @starrwilliams0127@starrwilliams01274 жыл бұрын
    • Starr Williams crazy

      @aminah761@aminah7614 жыл бұрын
    • Starr Williams right. I’m trying to get the timeline straight. 1991 until when? I just knew that her 1999 album duet with him which was recorded separately was confirmation that she’d been over Kci.

      @astrogliding@astrogliding4 жыл бұрын
    • THE POP CORN WILL NOT LAST TILL THE END OF THE MOVIE..

      @wisecub182@wisecub1824 жыл бұрын
    • They weren't together that long they broke up in '97 during the "Share My World" era... And he said that there was no talks of marriage which was a lie when clearly he gave her a ring

      @dynastywhite4024@dynastywhite40244 жыл бұрын
    • Do you know how many women do this??? Tons and they ain't even the girlfriend, they just interviewing to be the girlfriend still 🙄

      @rondas7772@rondas77724 жыл бұрын
  • I love you Mary J your strength, what they meant for bad, God meant for good, praise God

    @gloriaockletree3041@gloriaockletree30413 жыл бұрын
  • MARY J DESERVES A REAL MAN THAT WILL TREAT HER LIKE THE QUEEN SHE IS

    @bigtcastro104@bigtcastro1044 жыл бұрын
    • To bad there aren't many good black men most of us are forced to date outside our race for me its a hard pass unfortunately all I want is a strong honest stand black man 😢

      @reachinnirvana9076@reachinnirvana90762 жыл бұрын
  • AS I PSYCHOLOGIST I SEE A BROKEN WOMAN WHO HAS NOT FULLY HEALED FROM PAST TRAUMA..... UNTIL SHE DOES SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TRULY LOVE AND ACCEPT HERSELF.... ONCE THIS HAS TRANSPIRED THAN SHE WILL ATTRACT A GOOD MAN..... 👍🏽🙏🏽 #prayingforher

    @starrwilliams0127@starrwilliams01274 жыл бұрын
    • True

      @Kabeyavictoria@Kabeyavictoria4 жыл бұрын
    • Or woman..... So quickly people jump to bash men and dont even acknowledge toxic gay relationships between women. 😒

      @GR8119@GR81194 жыл бұрын
    • Starr Williams Psychologists do not give unsolicited advice and/or this type of response publicly. We go through the proper assessments in order to draw conclusions about “our” patients. That would be the ethical course of action.

      @drlisa3@drlisa34 жыл бұрын
    • 💯💯💯

      @msmbjohnson@msmbjohnson3 жыл бұрын
  • Mary J is like any other woman who has struggled in her love life. The only difference is she makes amazing music when she goes through heartbreak that touches us and helps us through our bad breakups. My wish for her is that she has learned to love herself. As Whitney Houston said “Learning to love yourself it is the greatest love of all”. I don’t believe in looking for a man or prince to suddenly bring love into my life. Women have to learn to do that for themselves. We need to be happy being single and ask God for the gift of discernment so when a man tries to enter our lives, we can make a wise decision as to whether he is worthy or not. Love Mary J 💜

    @ladytea697@ladytea6974 жыл бұрын
    • @LadyTea I don't comment but YES and AMEN!

      @reginagrundy1576@reginagrundy15764 жыл бұрын
    • You are so right! I wish her the best!

      @terridavis-cole7178@terridavis-cole71782 жыл бұрын
  • I just want to hug her help her heal and thank her for being strong and a good role model for women out there❤️🥰

    @carriemtsh9648@carriemtsh96483 жыл бұрын
  • I would never marry a poor man, if I was rich.

    @MoDavI-sl7iy@MoDavI-sl7iy3 жыл бұрын
  • She got treated badly by black men all of her life.

    @shenyaeturner842@shenyaeturner8424 жыл бұрын
    • Not just her.. many many blk women...

      @Chitownhomestead@Chitownhomestead4 жыл бұрын
    • Shay A Amen

      @shenyaeturner842@shenyaeturner8424 жыл бұрын
    • Me 2 but the lessons we learned is priceless.

      @lovehope3778@lovehope37784 жыл бұрын
    • @@Chitownhomestead We're speaking of Mary J. at this moment

      @wselenag45@wselenag454 жыл бұрын
    • As a black.man sista this shit hurts me Iove my sistas

      @NorthPhilly-zr7xc@NorthPhilly-zr7xc4 жыл бұрын
  • Then she married that snake...Mary needs let go of anything inside her and learn to love herself...

    @jkwhite2164@jkwhite21644 жыл бұрын
    • she definitely did

      @kaiyathompson3009@kaiyathompson30093 жыл бұрын
  • I watched Mary J. Blige's "My Life" documentary which inspired me to want to buy her music. So far, I bought three, which included My Life because of the people in the documentary who talked about how she saved their life. It's so sad that someone that through all the rough edges, she seems truly down to earth. I have become intrigued by her life and struggles and hope that she finds someone who will love her for her and through the layers, she's built to protect herself. I'm rooting for you, Mary.

    @donnam.5578@donnam.55782 жыл бұрын
    • @Markus Mcneil can you elaborate?

      @donnam.5578@donnam.55782 жыл бұрын
    • @Markus Mcneil I get the impression that you may be confused as to what I'm saying. As women, we go through heartbreaks, I just recently experienced one, and for me, as a woman, I want to hear about another woman's pain that I can relate to. When I listen to other women artists, such as Mary, it's because for the most part it may be something that they sing about that I can relate to.

      @donnam.5578@donnam.55782 жыл бұрын
  • "No amount of 💰💵 can buy peace or happiness". Everything our r & b 👑 MJB endured proves this. It saddens me that she's been taken advantage of her entire life. I wholeheartedly pray that Mary J finally realizes her worth. She's beautiful, talented, stronger than she gives herself credit for, smart & simply awesome! We love you Queen!!💙💎🎤🎶

    @mom2bbygkaterad379@mom2bbygkaterad3793 жыл бұрын
  • This woman is amazing phenomenal a true queen 👸🏽

    @garimosa86@garimosa864 жыл бұрын
  • That pretty much summed it up. I'm glad she is healed, happy, and moved forward. ☺️💯❤️

    @MaryD79@MaryD794 жыл бұрын
  • I absolutely love the strength that the 1 & only Queen of Hip Hop MJB has. Mary is simply amazing, it takes courage to pick yourself up when you fall down in front of others. Far to often insecure, jealous, envious hatters are will go above and beyond trying to hurt others. Thankfully over the years I’ve been able to enjoy listening to all of MJB’s music over and over again . MJB’s music has been more than a shoulder for me to lean on.

    @peacefulqueen2977@peacefulqueen29772 жыл бұрын
  • RIP to the amazing Andre Harrell

    @hakunamatara@hakunamatara4 жыл бұрын
  • Her music speaks volumes.... her songs are universal ❤️❤️❤️. I wish she would do a biopic movie of her life and write it herself. Her story needs to be told on the big screen!

    @kiwihotable@kiwihotable4 жыл бұрын
  • It's crazy how now you can see the drug abuse going on. Back then they hid it so well. Things were nothing like it is now where you find out rumors and things so easily. She would wear sunglasses and hats , back then we thought it was so cool. Well I did. I was a big fan of Mary's. I bought all her albums up until she got with Kendu. The music just wasn't that good after him imo. But I wore the hats, sunglasses, just like her thinking it was cool. Only to find out a few years later it was to hide her substance and alcohol abuse.

    4 жыл бұрын
    • Autumn Sunsets it was actually quite apparent that they were on drugs. From their behavior down to the sunglasses.

      @Lauren_Fields@Lauren_Fields4 жыл бұрын
    • Plus back in those days we weren't so exposed to them as in terms of social media. Back then we would only see them in concerts, tv interviews, music videos or magazines so it was not easy to see their drug use.

      @ebonystone8890@ebonystone88904 жыл бұрын
  • Her music was the anthem of my high school days ❤❤ I hope someday someone comes along & loves her the way she deserves. No fairytales, just love she can rely on.

    @justpeachy4851@justpeachy48513 жыл бұрын
  • Why? Why? Why??? She is one of my favorite artists. I so want her to find that unconditional love, and to really learn to love herself unconditionally. Too many of us can relate.

    @globalmatters4272@globalmatters42723 жыл бұрын
  • I love her!!! Women go thru sooooo much & always feels alone

    @ashantitraylor7240@ashantitraylor72404 жыл бұрын
    • Tell me about it...

      @Chitownhomestead@Chitownhomestead4 жыл бұрын
    • Truth

      @leoleolady9680@leoleolady96803 жыл бұрын
    • Frfr

      @Sassy233@Sassy2333 жыл бұрын
    • ughhhh yes

      @oddgoddess5576@oddgoddess55762 жыл бұрын
  • Too bad social media wasn't out @ 4:19 she would've found out beforehand and saw the clip of K-Ci and prevented that humiliation.

    @TF-gf3fs@TF-gf3fs4 жыл бұрын
    • Yes you’re right, and the talk show was so foul for putting her on the spot like that. You could really see how hurt she was.

      @rrg@rrg4 жыл бұрын
    • @@rrg ...yeah, they were! She should've walked out!

      @ginacleveland7995@ginacleveland79954 жыл бұрын
  • Wow what a story! She is a strong woman and a survivor. I love her and her music. She is beautiful on the inside and out. Proud of you. Hold onto to your testimony.

    @sharonlittle3523@sharonlittle35233 жыл бұрын
    • Tinaverret internet Facebook Savannah Christian radio go ahead tell you put your police report on me Urban forget what you mean did she went to somebody my MetroCard nobody want to make sure her car that was chewing toll I watch old man spell Maggi Cube and watch your man but not your fault but I tell you one day he will go back to him with your man. Baby albino trust really don't tell your vision is you're getting the Facebook and she said y'all call her don't don't rush over your man don't tell your bigger too hot if you actually told Joe all kind of love. You mean find Joe Biden house but don't tell your brother to her nothing don't tell me nothing don't need to contact with her on the Facebook nothing but Dream Hotel Yorba everybody. Everybody people don't touch don't touch don't touch nothing don't need to contact with her login to Facebook with her don't you can't have nothing but you say tomato alive kabali homemade chili don't contact with her tomato plants before me or no and don't try her Lego man I don't care you're bigger to her and

      @tinaverret3355@tinaverret33553 жыл бұрын
  • That's my girl. I wish I could meet her in person.

    @penniehartsfield5979@penniehartsfield59794 жыл бұрын
    • Yessss i Love Mary

      @peanutgreen6212@peanutgreen62124 жыл бұрын
    • me too I love Mary

      @diamndz1021@diamndz10213 жыл бұрын
  • Your content, is by far one of my favorite things to watch on KZhead. Three years old and it still hits. Thank you.

    @pdubb7743@pdubb77439 ай бұрын
    • Wow, thanks!

      @rrg@rrg9 ай бұрын
  • LOVE YOU MARY !! Thank you for your humble and candid stories of where you've been and what's happening now for you. Keep making those albums so we can support you!! We love your beautiful music!!

    @juzeefruit9281@juzeefruit92812 жыл бұрын
  • Lol she thought queen Latifah was in a relationship with a man

    @hisroyalhighness8566@hisroyalhighness85664 жыл бұрын
    • Louis Payan no she’s a lesbian

      @shinyabelle6700@shinyabelle67004 жыл бұрын
    • Back then, no one really knew the truth. Ijs.

      @mikeredd2126@mikeredd21263 жыл бұрын
  • apparently mary & kci had argued before their performance of “i don’t wanna do anything else” and that’s why they were looking at each other oddly during at certain moments.

    @jaydecidal@jaydecidal4 жыл бұрын
    • Makes sense

      @millymilly8264@millymilly82643 жыл бұрын
  • Music was probably her escape, what a lovely, beautiful woman. I love her music and she’s so talented and went through so much yet got out on the other side better, best of luck Mary! ❤️

    @wowso4@wowso43 жыл бұрын
  • MARY J is the QUEEN OF MUSIC period!!

    @sharonfarmer7751@sharonfarmer77513 жыл бұрын
  • I truly hope she learns to love herself cause know one can love you more than yourself,if a man see your vulnerable he’s gonna take advantage.never buy them they will hang around til you broke then they will go to the next vulnerable ones of women do men the same way but you have to be smart enough not to let it happen to you,if your always giving and the partners not get out before your broke.

    @jacquelineperry2168@jacquelineperry21684 жыл бұрын
    • She does. She even forgave her family and KC who sung to her mom last year for her birthday.

      @-trinityheart-9691@-trinityheart-96914 жыл бұрын
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