Obese girl's mom and brother call her a pig (shock therapy?). [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.25]
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Hello Counselor EP.401
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*"But him getting poor grades is even worse."*
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LMAOOOO I CANT STOP LAUGHING AT THIS PART
@@elanamahira2944 LITERALLY SAME IM CRYING
can relate and maybe for most asians lmao
How is that he can’t die grin that
I think the daughter and the dad are emotional eaters that means that when they are upset and stressed out they will tend to eat more then usual(binge out*) hence why they gain weight...
i know it happens with me too....stess eating
Some Depression effects are either causing no eating or binge eating
@@hobicheekz7645 they prob have ED, means tht eating disorder
@@ronweasleyisme it's called binge eating disorder.
@@raynatumbeva780 yup it's the same
"i know me being fat is a problem but him getting a poor grades is even worse " What a worddd
Not everyone needs to get good grades also
David Antunes well they do because you need a good job to live happily and comfortably
@@rosealbanai7964 there are many ways to be successful in this life, what's really important is to respect each other
Well she isn't right. He will have opportunities to fix the grades that he will need. But her weight might affect her health to a point where she can't study effectively or even worse. That's why elders in my country say - health is the biggest treasure.
Low-key mood tho🤠
this is just cruel. she’s a child, she shouldn’t be basing her whole life around her weight it can cause low self esteem and eating disorders. they should support her to lose weight slowly instead of teasing her and making her take pills.
She might already have an ED. Ever heard of Binge eating disorder?
Rayna Tumbeva yes, i’ve struggled with both binge eating and restrictive eating disorders but the point here is that shaming a child and forcing her to lose weight in an unhealthy manner can cause an immense amount of issues for her, on top of that it’s just cruel.
@@edamame22 my point was that I don't like the way you used 'can cause eating disorder'. As I said, she might already have one and such comments encourage people to continue thinking that EDs are always related to restricting yourself and low weight. This will only fuel the ignorance of BED and the worsening problem with obesity. Their way of doing it isn't right, but that's not what my criticism is aimed at.
Rayna Tumbeva okay, i see where you’re coming from. i didn’t mean for the comment to give off that impression :)
I think with addiction, passive modes of action does nothing. Shes still at annage where she can develop healthy eating habits before she has to deal with the mental and physical issues associated with obesity cause I can assure you she won't have a high self esteem with a food addiction either. I give her parents props for doing their best. They love her very much and they're just trying their best atm.
“i’m afraid her classmates might tease her” “i could help her if i hurt her feelings” can you believe that these two quotes are said by the same person??
He's not wrong. Different people need different types of reinforcement to push them to do things. His logic was if he bullies her instead of the actual bullies at school, it would be out of love, because he loves his sister and doesn't want her to face bullies because in korea there's no doubt her classmates wouldn't make fun of her, and that's why her brother is trying to get her to lose weight.
Yep, my mom used to Tell me a Lot of mean things because I was overweight since kid, " no one Will Love tou because you are fat, you Will never get a boyfriend, why cant you be pretty and skinny like all your friends?". Of course, I aways had super low self-steem and for a long time I tried a Lot of diets, the only time everyone gave me real compliments were when I was 1,57 m and 45kg, " wow How skinny you are, this is the right weight for you, you can never ler this Go over". Well I had a limit, and suffer with depression, I couldnt be so skinny for too long, she tought insulting me was the Key to encourage, but for me It was humiliating. The funny thing is, NO ONE NEVER called me fat, or make Fun of my weight, ONLY MY MOTHER AND FAMILY.
@@cokano I'm sorry you went through this. Please just have fun and stay healthy
Ara Isabella To be honest when my family humiliated me like that, it encouraged me. Although tough love isn’t for everyone it is for some. This family just doesn’t realize tough love doesn’t work for everyone.
To avoid that she gets bullied maybe as a first step dont go infront of national TV with this
*"I want her to know how good it feels to lose weight"* *"it also feels good being smart"*
Ikr, maybe if he wasn't so focused on other people's business, maybe he'll have more time to learn and study ... just saying
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april00026000 but it’s not just anybody it’s his sister. One persons business is the family’s business. What if she’s bullied? The major reason why the teen suicide rate is high is because families don’t make it their business to know what’s going on in each other’s lives. Studying isn’t easy either. I’m not saying he’s better for not studying but he’s worried about his sister and that is an awesome thing.
@@SaraH-jn5db that's understandable but if your way of showing support to someone is by putting them down then you're not doing anything . Trust me , I did that too and I ended up hurting close people.
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“NO ONE EATS AFTER 8PM IN THIS HOUSE” *me staying up all night eating:* 🤫
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Me too broooooo me tooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂 late night snack is the best..
Same everyone gonna judge me while we’re awake must as well have a while calling it a mIdNiGhT sNacK
My family dinner between 10pm -11pm 👁👄👁
My Family eats dinner at 9 pm😅
He's the kind of dad every girl longs to have.....
and some do have:)
I have a good dad. But he never shows his loving side, and I get it he has a really hard time showing his emotions/feelings but sometimes it hurts :(
I have that dad unfortunately, he got cut off as soon as I became an adult.
my family called me 'pig' my whole life....It didn't affect me then but when i went to high school my self esteem tanked...these things have lasting effect people
i feel you so much.
My mom has been doing it sense it sense I was very young. It has affected me a lot. I'm about to go to high school and I hope things don't get worse.
I feel you. When I started 4th grade, my family calls me "ugly pig". It lowered my self-esteem, to the point that whenever I walk outside and talking with people, my head is always lowered. I am scared whenever I'm in a crowd. I can't speak in front of class. It's really hard when you grow up experiencing that, especially when it all began in your family.
Same.. Even on the comment section people are talking crap and body shaming its gross..
@@yssayodico9837 I feel you. I went through the same thing. Though I'm an adult now, their words still echoes through my mind. Sometimes it's your family who pushes you into depression and then calls you weird for not socialising with people or not dating and not being normal.
They actually brought a professional for once?? Wow
It's a shame he gives bad advice based on fitness myths...
@@jamnana2235 wdym?
pedwantagon • 90 years ago . The misconception that heavy weights will make you “fat”. Over-eating makes you fat and/or bigger. Weight training merely helps keep your fat percentage low.
@@jamnana2235 overeating does make you fat and gain weight
@@jamnana2235 if you are weightlifting while not in calorie deficit, you will be bigger though... Because you are building muscle while keeping the fat So it's like, you have muscle, but it's also covered in fat
this family seems like a recipe for an eating disorder, i feel so sorry for the daughter. she’s so so cute she doesn’t deserve to be put down like that :(
Exactly, what kind of mother encourages a daughter to take diet pills? I'm assuming they're either diet repressers or laxatives. Either way, neither are a healthy way to lose weight.
Rebecca Tang frl and they said pills for ADULTS
Being obese is a huge problem, it literally kills. Diet and working out is more than needed for her, the only problem is the way the mother talks to her, she's not helping with being rude to her own daughter. sorry for my English
@@rebeccatang9383 laxavatives isn't bad for people that can't poop like me..but diets pills are..
She already has an eating disorder..... she binges. Her family is masking the issue, she needs a therapist to help process her emotions.
I'm glad they finally invited someone who actually knows about the subject to help the girl
unfortunately, some things he said were not true. but I don't really speak korean and rely on subtitles, so...
I hate that as soon as the camera showed the mom, the crowd and host were like "wow! So pretty! The daughter must be so jealous!". The daughter is a child, it should not be about beauty, but health
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Honestly 150 lbs is not even that much of a big deal, like imagine how this poor girls mental health is... Her family doesn’t even protect her from society, and that’s so sad.
She's only 13, so yeah, 150lbs is a lot. But I agree, the problem is her health, not her looks
@@MandySuju age is not the matter of weight. Its purely height. There r girls in my grade that are 5'9 but the average weight for a 13 year old is 125-136 but if they weighed that much it would be scarily effective to their health. They should weigh around 150-160. Or a girl that's 4'8 should be like 70-80. Its not at all about age. But height.
Taehyuns Streamer Tears not necessarily, it depends on the body you have
This made me so uncomfortable holY crap I can’t imagine how the girl feels- Having your self esteem attacked at such a young age is HELLA damaging any sane parent should know that
if you know South Korean society, you lo know how cruel they are to chubby people, especially girls, this is insane. Everyone could say it to yr face that you gained a lot weight recently and making fun of your body and figure and no one would ever feel this is not right. It is so depressed to live in that ambient.
Yeah , but Koreans are obsessed with thin girls !!!
I am 13 and I am self -conscious a lot and people don't help me ..gain my self confidence back I am 45kg at age 13 ....I feel like I am fat
BTS My Euphoria your skinny af im 68kg and 12
Hemalatha P sometimes girls take it too far and up being skin and bones
Is there a reason you love her so much?” Dude, what the hell? Because she’s his daughter! That alone is enough to love your child.
she's still growing, she'll reach a day where she suddenly wants to lose weight, they shouldn't push her THAT much, encourage her a bit but don't be so harsh on her, she's still growing
But it’ll just get harder if she gains more weight
I understand, but honestly it will just get harder like her brother said she is weak willed, iam too i always say i will workout this and that,have been doing it from last year but i can never and i just keep gaining weight, iam actually glad that her family helps her to lose weight but i dont like how her mother is giving her diet pills.
That’s not true I was just like her but one day I just decided to lose weight and I did since then I’ve been eating healthier so I don’t think calling her aweak willed is quite right
Her dad was so genuinely kind and sweet, god my heart hurts.
her dad was so caring, it made me so happy
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Instead of helping her let's embarrass the living life out if her.
I'm pretty sure they've helped, but to no use
@@annieevie9607 We say it around my house a lot. Does it bother you?
@@annieevie9607 oh yeah haha! I think I just got that from my mom lol.
She didn't seem really embarrassed though so I think it was fine.
@@poodie6648 you are an elementary school student and you get shamed by an audience for your weight on national TV... yeah, seems fine
I’m so glad boss yang was here. This is what happens when they have an expert on this show. They really should start inviting psychologists, counsellors, fitness trainers and medical experts on this show if they really want to help people. Inviting idols and celebrities isn’t going to do much in my opinion.
“I thought I could help her by saying these things” Dude she might go through a eating disorder because of the brother and the mom, And eating disorder is not a joke.
oh, let’s just insult my sister to depression so that she will lose weight
김지은 my parents do that to me and tbh that really hurts 😔
BLACKPINK IN YOUR AREA!!! Macias aww it’ll get better i promise ur parents are just really bad at showing how they care about you and probably just want to help you if they get worse just reply back and i’ll talk with you ❤️ i hope ur living a healthy life
김지은 I hope so ❤️ and hope your having a wonderful day 😊
@@brendamacias5823 Dont let that get to you! My parents are like that too. I am a little overweight and recently gained a few pounds because "christmas" and all. It hurts to hear that stuff from your parents but they only want the best from you. For me it is hard to loose weight because of stress and depression, but I really wanna try in the new year to at least loose a few pounds. I dont know how your situation is, but if you want to loose weight, do it because you want it and not because someone tells you to do it. Do it because you want to be healthy. I hope you have a wonderful day/evening and wish you all the best!
shyress I’ll be here cheering you on and if you need someone to talk to I’m here ❤️ and thanks for the Advice
her dad is so sweet awe
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Right? he's such a loving father to his daughter. that should never be taken for granted because though love should be unconditional between parent and child. That is not always the case
"i'm scared kids at school will tease her" so you decide to humiliate your younger sister on national television?
"But him getting poor grades is even worse." Y'all we found yoongi's long lost sister..
Anyone who's good at roasting isn't "yoOngis lOng losT siBlinG"
@@pretty_rythm just a joke chill :/
@@pretty_rythm ruined the joke🙄
@@pretty_rythm Chill,Bruh..It's A Joke..
@@pretty_rythm well said
I hope they actually keep a professional as a host because too many serious concerns are being sent and not being handled properly
He's a trainer though. He's no expert on many of the other topics they talk about on this show. They need a psychologist, if anything.
reyanime no I meant in general, not referring to him.
yeah same also i feel like the hosts think of it just as another reality show for fun and some things they say are clearly embarrassing the poor girl who really doesnt deserve all this critism shes only young still and everyone tying to make her a perfect figure
They can't really do that because of doctor patient confidentiality
Ji-hyun doctor patient confidentiality doesn’t apply in a situation like this... it would be fine to bring in a psychologist because the issues are already being presented publicly and there is no obligation for the info to stay private so long as the “patient” is willing to share on TV.
The father is so precious, as someone who has never had a father figure in my life it really made me emotional how much the father loves his daughter. And the daughter is so cute, I think if the whole family tries to eat healthy all together and motivate her by complimenting and not by insulting her (lookin at her brother right now) she’ll be able to lose weight healthily.
The brother wasn't trying to insult her tho. He thought if he hurt her feelings she would start exercising . He was trying to help her, but it wasn't a good way.
i wish i had a father like her my parents divorsed when i was 2 years old after that i only saw him only twice after a year then he stopped contacting me after so many years (when i was at 5th grade) my fathers family called to tell me that he died a week ago i dont remember his face even if i want too i cant remember a single feature of his face and i can tell you that i hate him even now and when his family contacted me i blocked them . i just want to know if they didnt want us in first place why they had us so she should be gratfull for what her family are doing for her
hammami emna You’re very brave to tell your story! Stay strong
But why does she have to do it.. Just because og this Damm society she lives in .. Would be forever angry with my Patents if they would force me on this show.. There is always a story behind
@@Sonnenanbeterin1991 she loves to eat .eating is GOOD but eating too much is a problem .obesity with time will affect her daily activities it would cause probles toher joints heart problem and maybe psychological problem knowing the silly beauty standarts in korea . i wish xhe would live healthly oily food and sugar can do anyone any good .and they seriously should consult a speciaslist a nutritionist can very much help not her mother shoving everything she bought in her daughter mouth
There is nothing wrong with being fat unless it is affecting your health but it's the same with being skinny. I think Korea needs to learn how to accept all body types.
It affects her health, its not healthy to be overweight
Being skinny and being fat affects your health both, just eat healthier and it won’t matter how you look
@@amira9661 nah every country has its different standards of what is healthy. Nothing is universal. To them she is categorised as morbidly obese. But shes a very active girl going through puberty. She seems healthy. You can be fat and healthy just like you can be fat and unhealthy.
@@totally_a_spy Koreans have diabetes-prone genes, so it's dangerous even if they're a little obese. And in human history, we've always starved. In other words, being skinny is adapted to the body, but never experienced obesity. In other words, obesity is much more dangerous than being skinny. This child is growing up, so he is okay, but after is not
Science says there is EVERYTHING WRONG WITH BEING FAT. Stop lying to protect feelings
I want to hug that kid , she must have gone through lots , if people taught to love themselves no one would have to go through these
I can relate tbh. And her dad is so damn sweet it warms my heart.
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Love that the trainer gave a fun way to exercise for her! When it comes to kids, it is important to make excising fun and stimulating, making a game out of it is excellent. Her family thought forcing her to diet, swallow pills, exercise and insult her would be effective, geesh i wonder why that didn't work?
True, That is how they should help her instead giving her adult weigh loss routines.(they said it earlier) Plus her mother shouldn't give her diet pills at a young age.
RememberRox I lost weight by joining swimming classes! They were extreme but i always stayed behind and continued exercises because I enjoyed it
Coach Yang has always been an intense but a fun coach in all the series or shows I've seen him featured on. So it's no surprise he was really helpful and stern towards her family!
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I don’t like the fact how they have a child (everyone is a child at heart okay ) to have her stand in front of all these adults criticizing her body and how she is eating when most of these people are total strangers and just making faces at her by her looks and beauty it is truly sad how our world is today and how we need to meet to “high beauty standard” especially in other foreign countries. Everyone is beautiful in there own special way, and if we don’t love our selfs or don’t like what we see in the mirror we can change it, And some people (NOT SAYING NAMES) but some people in general ask why is my son or daughter depressed, self conscious, over weight, as a parent it’s not the child’s fault they are like that, it’s there mental health that needs more attention, nor is it the parents fault either, yeah they are responsible for what they put into there child’s body, but for them to yell at the children making the, feel bad about themselves is a whole other thing
I totally agree with you, she seemed really uncomfortable and upset with the audience laughing at her and with the hosts making jokes. They should have respected her more
Im agree with you shes only a kid and it must be the fault of her parents but she must lose weight slowly because being obese is a maladie like being anorexic but the contrary and you can have diabetes high colesterol and shugar etc... so they must help her but not like that in a healthy way not buying diet products
I agree with this statement. That’s it no words I wholeheartedly stand by this
the dad is making me cry, he’s so sweet :(
At last they have someone who has the professional point of view! That's a relief!
this is a rare occasion holy shit i was shook
They almost always have professional advice, it's just because they don't bring them out. When you've watched the program for long enough you can tell.
(^Yeah) If you've been with the show for while, you'd know that they usually bring in or send the person to the doctor/dietitian (with a case such as this). It's surprising that they brought in a professional celebrity trainer but, not too surprising to see them bring in someone with further knowledge on the situation. Especially if the counselors do not have enough knowledge prior to this meet. 😞
But they were squatting the wrong way and he didn’t say anything
@@emiladan2151 they have always had professional help behind the scenes they just can't air those meetings
'im afraid her classmates will tease her'' and yet he calls her pig and makes her cry in her room, such a nice brother he is!
Yes!! He is a nice brother (being really sarcastic with you, just following)
He's just like my older brother
My sister constantly insulted me, but if someone else did that, she beat them.
@@Sabrina-vc9yt im the same way with my brother, no one gets to be mean to him only me
Usually, when an older family member yells at you or insults you, it's because they understand that the world is really judgemental. If a family member insults you, you'll feel sad but you'll eventually move on because you have an unconditional loving bond with them and you know that being mean is not their only intention. If you get coddled your entire life and hear those insults in the real world whilst totally unprepared, you're actually going to be very devastated. If there was absolutely no societal negativity for fat women, then obviously the brother wouldn't call her a pig.
i, an underwight malnourished girl, felt uncomfortable watching this. how would that girl feel?
Yeah but isnt it embarrasing going there and the thing can solve at home
15:10 : " Is there a reason why you love her so much ? " *SHE IS HIS F*CKING DAUGHTER*
The translation is wrong. He’s asking...is there a reason why you sympathize with your daughter... not why he loves her.
@@tjk2382 oh thanks a lot! i really liked him except for that comment!
Can you fucking chill? Translation is not always correct
i guess i'm not my father's daughter then
when the brother gave her the sign like "ssshhhh...dont tell them anything..." 8:09 BUT she just kept on going xD
Kikifeisty I just noticed that 😂😂
She was like I’m bringing you down with me
This girl is nuts
@@limousinecar230 why? Because she tried her best to put up with public harrassment/humiliation and gave her brother a taste of his own medicine?
I hate when people say "if you lose a little weight, you'll be prettier". It's so shallow and really a horrible thing to say. It should be out of concern for health and NEVER beauty.
From my personal experience, it felt more like something meant to encourage me. When people around me told me that if I lose weight I'd be prettier, it wasn't insulting. I knew they cared about my health and when I lost the weight, they told me that I had worked really hard and that it payed off because I looked better. Of course there are people who use it as a backhanded compliment, so perhaps it depends on context.
@LifeMusic not true maybe she would feel confident enough in her own body if people didn't say bad stuff to her all the time. When a person is confident in their own body they're the prettiest.
true, but you have to find a way to motivate someone to lose weight. in this case she's only a kid and she probably doesn't care or understand what being unhealthy means. however it's very easy to understand what beauty is
@@kc-un7by I agree. Children, and people in general in my opinion, should be more focused on health. Being called a pig will hurt someone's view of themselves and to grow up with such a negative notion of yourself is painful. I don't think the way her family treats her is right at all, but I think I can kind of understand why they act that way as I come from an Asian family as well. They want what's best for you, but might be really harsh in their words. I haven't finished watching this, so I may say something they already have, but I feel it would be better for her to lose weight if her family encouraged healthy habits. From the beginning, it seemed they were calling her names and her mother was buying diet pills. Sure, some people use it as motivation to lose weight, but for others, it"s much more damaging. It's also frustrating if you try to lose weight but fail every time. It makes you think, "maybe I'll never be able to lose weight and I should stop losing weight." I think the family should've been much more encouraging and kind. Losing weight is something you do for yourself first. Doing it for others makes it painful and less fun than it could be.
I completely agree
The dad and the daughter’s relationship is so precious🥺
Are u serious she's 13 does her family even know how this could affect her self esteem? and calling her names isn't gonna make it any better. Wow ppl are really disgusting
The father is so nice and cute, I am glad she has a least a « good » support like him.
But he is giving her more food than her metabolism can work with
youngjae lol
@@lunesface5123 That is true but you can't encourage someone to lose weight with the attitudes of the mom and brother either. That can cause depression especially at a young age like hers.
@@riverofphoenix exactly, both extremes are bad.
@@lunesface5123 yeah I felt like this poor girl had no chance with her family doing such dumb things in polar opposite ways, shaming her every time she ate then buying her a dozen pastries at once. I'm glad they went on the show, I hope they realize that they need to be better to her.
The way this girl is with her dad was also me and my dad. He cherished me too. He wanted me to lose weight but he also wanted to please me and make me happy so he was just like her dad. Makes me miss my dad even more.
Suave Sweet my dad is the same and he is very sick and probably will pass away sooner than expected. I was tearing up reading this cause i wonder if i will be like that too. Im very sorry for you. I hope you do ok
Elia Bano i’m so sorry, i’ll pray for both of your dads.
rheaa yaa thats very nice . Thank you🙏🏻
Same. My dad just passed away 3 months ago and I miss him so much :'(
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ive been called fat for almost my whole childhood but i never gave a damn about those insults cause i love me for who i am and if she wants to lose weight, she should do it for herself and not for others :/
I remember that my cousin always said that im fat when i was little which was not even true & i think thats where my insecurities started forming
You give your parents hard time for spending money on foods
@@limousinecar230 Bruh
@@watermelonsugahigh6527 just kidding, it's ok to spend parent's money on foods
Unless they're poor
shes perfect just the way she is..... this is emotional abuse. bullying your child for the way she looks.
She is not perfect, she is overweight, which is unhealthy. But shaming and bullying her is even worse, of course.
@@Gaius__ she’s perfect, period.
@@nyx9967 encouraging people to be unhealthy doesn't make you a good person East Asian have a DNA that doesn't allow for a good storage of fat, it helps not gaining weight easily (yeah that's why most of them stay slim while eating like 2) but if they put up weight (not talking about just being a bit chubby but like that kid obese) they are way more prone to complications like cancer or diabetes The way they encourage her to lose weight isn't right but she has to lose weight I used to be a fat kid (pretty much like her, perhaps a bit less) and most people were like you, "there's no problem with that, you're perfect the way you are" and I got diabetes before age 30 because of that I'll never thank the people that thought my self esteem at that time was more important than my life confort for the 50 years to be...
@@nyx9967 do you even watch the show ??
“We were poor back then, and we couldnt eat what we wanted so thats why i want to buy everything my kids want” My heart😭😭😭💔
I literally started crying🥺
My mom says that too
Amesa Molotii stop I’m going to start crying for the second time!!😭❤️
Yeah parents told me that too but they said don’t eat to much
my dad is the same as him :) he loves to spoil me because he never had that when he was a kid. I love him so much.
Sometimes I don’t understand these korean shows and I AM KOREAN like SHE IS JUST A KID
Yeah same but I'm not Korean.
Korean society is being so cruel to chubby people, which made me feel sad sometimes
@@baganzabaganza2826 ikr! She ain't even obese just thick!
I think it’s good for the kid. If she gets too obese it’s too hard to go back. It’s better to start earlier in life than waiting until she’s way too obese. And she’s not “Thick” she’s fat. It’s the truth don’t sugarcoat things. Ok bye just a lil opinion
@@sweetpotato9825 "Fat" "Thick" are all just titles. Everyone has fat, some have more than others. I didn't sugarcoat anything. She is thick, (which means a heavy mass). And that's that. (Just my opinion.)
Her father is sooo precious. Such a sweetheart
Her dad is too precious! You can tell he loves her so much and isn't too concerned with her appearance, he just wants her to be happy and enjoy her food since he couldn't as a child!
When I was fat my neighbors and relatives used to say. Me your fat eat less how will Yu get married?? I was about 68 kg before... Now I'm 54kg and now my neighbors and relatives say I looked nice only when I was chubby and I don't look good now... Seriously how can people body shame others so easily without knowing it will hurt them or not
My self esteem went downhill when I was fat. Oh my goddd! It was soooo hard to be comfortable with people! People staring, the teasing, it's just sooooo embarrassing. I'm happy that you don't have to go through that anymore
@@wheresdarice3988 yes I can totally understand you... people won't care about how we feel they just say it Infront of everyone and make our insecurities rise up....don't worry we can always overcome everything with self love and hardwork and I hope you will overcome it too 🤗💜
When i was 10, i was fat shamed by my own aunt. Okay, i agree i was chubby but i was not that overweight. I used to weigh around 57kg. Then i was so angry at myself that i decided to lose weight. I exercised and danced alot. Now im 49kg and im 13yrs. But then i realised that i was trying to change myself just for others. Now i live by this motto "you can't please everyone so at least olease yourself"
Agal Kook me being 88kg: :)
neighbours are there only for insulting us ! i can understand how you have ! when i was 16 y/o i have teen acne , which my neighbours used to say words like "When will your acne be gone?" , "oh god look at your face its all damaged " , "you would look beautiful if you dont have acne but now your face isnt good" ... PEOPLE ALWAYS JUDGE ABOUT OUR LOOKS , DONT THEY HAVE ANY WORK? ! now i am 23 years old and still my neighbours are curious and they say "We thought your face would never clear but now its cleared what have you done to your face?" I CANT SAY WHETHER THEY ARE CURIOUS OR INSULTING ME LIKE WTF?
Rowoon's reaction to the girl being cute is honestly my reaction to himmmmm
ameera .m iKONIC fam 😂😂
same 💕🌸
I love how she just made a come back to his brother by saying "me being fat might be a problem, but him getting low grades is worse" sis just spilled tea
Sis had no chill. She was like try to throw me under a bus I will throw you under a train
Calling your child a pig, is giving them an eating disorder. If you want your child to lose weight change their diet, because you're the one buying the food.
The rock paper scissors idea was brilliant for real tho
They're such a lovely family. I root for the daughter to lose weight healthyly :)
ntzkyh 95 - 2 are you kidding me ? Her mother and her brother are so mean with her
@@Sofia-cj9ss they all wanted the best for her, just their ways were wrong
Oh yeah, how "lovely" of her mum to put her on diet pills and tell her she is heavily obese when she clearly isn't, it's just a bit of chubbiness. Horrible!
@@ninninin656 Koreans look at weight differently than other countries! You may come out of America being a small but then in Korea you could be a large! They treat weight differently. To them and to me being that weight just in the 6th grade is not healthy. Although their methods might be wrong buying diet pills shouldnt be taken as rude in anyway. Telling her she is obese is medical. You dont want the doctor to tell her that either? If she kept it up she would have SO many health problems. Thats all.
This section is filled with toxic people! Smh 🙄
Welcome to Korea
I find her to be so cute!
I love dads who love their daughters sooo much in healthy way like this father.
Hahaha the dad is so cute crying over losing her precious child my dad says he'll be happy if I get married 😂 I hope she can lose weight In a healthy way cheer up girl 😁😁
Brother is like idol
I miss hello counselor🙂🙂💔💔💔💔
I wonder if the professional is there to stay?
He seems cool but not all the concerns are the same so maybe he won't stay
@@orangetornado5937 yeah I wrote that before watching and thought he was a mental health professional not a trainer
Let's hope he does stay. I think after receiving alot of hate for one of their episodes, they've brought a professional.
@@oliverxhmll he's a personal gym trainer for actor sung hoon
hufntez gyuhgtf which episode did they receive hate?
is it just me or is this the most bearable episode they ever had
I agree, the fact that they had an actual professional trainer present, and the fact that she's obviously loved by her family (lol especially by her dad) makes this a pretty wholesome episode
Ikr I love this episodes
Korea is advanced in technology but is so out of touch with the rest of the world when it comes to body shaming
Poor girl, her brother is a real jerk
Maybe I’m just weak but i would feel so betrayed and embarrassed about people, strangers, even her family (brother!) talking about her weight. Some People don’t know the struggle it is to face being heavy. If he continues she could get depression and anxiety from all this damn stress. She needs proper watch on what she is eating. She is just a kid for fcks sake.
Remember that is how Asian countries are. They care a lot about appearance. The people will be blunt and say "you are fat" or "you need to lose weight" without giving it a second thought
I'm an Asian and I agree
It’s true that it has to be handled a specific way so that she isn’t putting her mental health at risk. Korean culture is like my Indian culture where if they feel like u are overweight they will outright tell u, obviously for people outside ur close family it’s very rude, but I think it’s necessary that close family shouldn’t feel that they can’t say anything just bc her feeling could get hurt, her health is more important(although it needs to be handled properly).
@@prisharai7225 you're right I'm Indian too but there's a way of saying everything. Even it's her family it's going to effect even more. She should be dealt with positively and not be treated like she's a burden. I speak from experience.
At least she’s not ugly. Way harder to deal with. Weight is within your control at the end of the day, even if it’s hard.
hi as someone who has been bullied and teased for my weight since i was seven by family, classmates, and adults, being called a pig is really hurtful and genuinely only makes a person feel really sucky about themselves, but will not make them want to lose weight necessarily. i spent so much time in my younger years crying myself to sleep, and she probably has too. there are nicer ways to tell someone you're worried rather than calling them a pig or telling them to stop eating. i genuinely cried watching this because i can relate to her so much and i hope that her home life becomes a healthier environment for her.
There are definitely nicer ways of going about it.. people need to understand that what they say to young people has the ability to ruin their self-confidence
Kind off topic but the moment boss yang Cam I KNEW he came just to advertise 😂
Haruuu
Imagine them coming back when the girl is prolly 30 or 35 years old and complaining about her father not letting her to get married lmao
Your commemt is very underrated😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣gawd
Bahahahaha 😂
I am 31 and not married
It could be a hormonal problem, she is about to hit puberty. Finally they got someone with a little bit of knowledge, though I wish they would've also called a nutritionist that could give healthy diet tips that are actually doable for her!
Yeah I was going to say that. Also they are finding out so much about obesity these days that's not necessarily JUST calories in/calories out, even if that is part of it. All the hormones and chemicals are interacting... Stress and cortisol, lack of sleep increasing blood sugar and the hunger hormone ghrelin, genetics, gut microbiome. Obesity brings additional negative health consequences to unhealthy, but unhealthy eating is bad period - even for skinny people.
@@wolee03 yup, for sure. I would be more concerned about her health than her figure, was I her mother. Though I get that social pressure could also be pretty damaging to her psyche, especially during formative years and kids can be so mean. I hope she can find a healthy lifestyle that best suits her
You also need to address the behavioral aspect. Yes lots of people love eating, obese people included, but typically there's a lot to consider emotionally there. The dad came out and said why he likes to buy his kids food. It's obviously not to harm them or make their lives tough. He has an emotional memory tied to being able to do that for his kids that is driving his behavior. So, I think that piece is just as important as learning about nutrition. Most fat people know the most 😊, but getting at the root of why it's difficult to make changes is key. God bless her and good luck.
Duda Campos i was thinking the same thing. Obviously it’s something that should still be of a concern and should be looked into so that she can grow up to live a healthy life. But weight is sometimes associated with hormonal problems like pcos. And that requieres medication and more specific solutions to losing weight
Duda Campos Exactly! I used to have an overweight classmate who looked just like her. She hit puberty and now she is thiner than me
Her dad is so sweet. My dad was like this. He always bought snacks n never wanted us to feel hungry and always prepared meals for us specially during my exams. South Asian dads aren’t that communicative but my dad always tried to blend with us n followed all trends just to talk with us n hangout with us.
boi strangers may not but your family’s negative remarks will hurt you the most
I starved for 4 weeks because of my family and students always putting me down i feel her pain
Kuini Uimaitua Hope you’re doing better now
Yeah I hope you are doing well now too.
i developed anorexia and an eating disorder because of that
The Mom and Dad are like my parents😂😂 Mom-->"Do this do that bla bla" Dad-->"Go get whatever you want, just don't tell your Mom"
SweetSugar HoneyCandy literally , my mom doesn’t like when we go to Walmart and buy something . She always like “you are just wasting your money on useless things.” My dad is like “go get what you want and hide it from your mom.”
For me it’s the opposite :/
Lol when we went to staples I wanted to buy smth and my mom was like “nope, no way.” Then I told my dad and he was like “go get it. I’ll pay. Just don’t tell her.” I WAS LAUGHING
OMG LITERALLY THO
I swear that's every mom and dad cuz my parents are like that too loll
Just because someone is unhealthy does not mean that you people can disrespect her. Having self-love even when she is plus-size does not mean that she is promoting obesity and unhealthy habits, she is simply happy even though she does not fit in the current society's beauty standards. A beautiful face may not have a good heart, but a good heart will always have a beautiful face.
It's one thing to be concerned, but it's another thing to be a bully.
i was called pig too by my mom after gaining 13 lbs, i was 97 lbs. i am now 110 lbs. and im 5”0.63. WELCOME TO ASIA.
sakdljad That's so wild I'm 5'1" (154cm) and I weigh 125lbs (56kg) and you can see my skeleton I can't believe that if I went to Asia they'd think I'm fat.
I'm 156 and my weight is 43. MY DAD AND HER FAMILY CALLS ME OBESE. Welcome to asia guys!
I m 5'3'' and weight 56kg but my mom is worried that I am loosing weight and going skinny...This is also ASIA. Its just how people see it.
@@MIKA55219 no matter how thin you are you still fat Welcome to asia
Wait , what about me , I'm 171 cm and 69 kg , i think that I'll be extremely obese in Asia 👁👄👁
It's so sad that so many people are obsessed with loosing weight and judge people by their looks in Korea..
Honestly it's an actual health issue especially with her age. Yes koreans are judgmental but it is really unhealthy for her to be overweight so young. If it doesnt change now she will likely be overweight her whole life
Sara Grace But calling her names and not actually helping her is more dangerous than that. It could make her fall into a type of depression, and possibly lead to suicide
Sara Grace I agree with you. I also just think the parents and people around her need to work better and actually HELP her and not just call her names
hm, that's not really the case here. obesity is a growing issue, its a disease that can and kills everyday. She needs help to change habits and develop a healthier relationship with food, and her family is clearly very worried around her future and her well-being, they are just transmitting it the wrong way, with can make everything worse.
The people around her should work better and stop being so mean, but she is obese and that's bad for her health not just now but if she doesn't lose weight then is also bad for her future. It is not just about her looks
Ok but the girl is so cute and beautiful
This is wrong just because a person doesn't look slim or is overweight does mean you get the right to tease or make fun of her Making fun doesn't help a person to cut down or loose weight
Finally Kbs gets some professionals to give an expert opinion this is all we wanted it helps bring awareness of real problems.
(Army )btw love ur profile pic
i still think hello counselor is rather problematic at times and they need to handle certain situations better, but the introduction of a special guest/trainer who knows a lot more on the subject is definitely a better way of conducting the show.
I agree I especially hate when that creepy father admitted doing inappropriate things with his son like they were just laughing and thinking that it was normal and cute
One korean once said in the comments that they have psychologist in the show, who talk with the guests once the show is over. But I'm not sure if this is true.
Yup this is one of their better episodes.
The father warms my heart. So lovely.
I was so far but I start dancing n now IAM fit and a dancergirl start dancing it works
“I can relate... I only weighed over 110 lbs” hold up lemme just convert my obese country standards to Korean standards for a quick second bc I’m tired of being flabbergasted at their “onlys”
ikr! like, if you r like 5'5 and suppose to be around 120 lbs, in Korea, u would have to be like 105 or something. If they saw me, they would think I'm a giant
That dad is like one of those dads in anime lmao
Out of topic but the brother is so cuteee
She is not fate she is so pretty
She’s pretty but she is fat. Fat isn’t something ugly.
Honestly, the relation her & her brother is so natural and normal that its SO relatable when they're teasing or exposing each other.
i think one of the factor for her not losing weight is bc she's not doing this for herself but for her mother and brother so hypothetically, if she were to lose some weight later, chances are that she'll gain it back again (by binge eating later from the losing weight pressure) because it's not for HER who's dedicated to change but for someone else like i said before. Instead of forcing the poor girl to eat less and do excessive exercise while getting annoyed that she will be hungrier later bc obv she will, swimming takes up a lot of energy, they should instead encourage her and tell her the risk of obesity and definitely not nag and bully her like the mother and brother.
wtf this is so disturbing. they're telling a literal child that she needs to lose weight in order to become prettier and that mindset is so unhealthy especially to push on at such a young age. let her live her life damn
8:00 who else could hear "fire"
Yeah
Me
I cried because her father is so nice and sweet 😢😢😢
Yes, bullying someone into oblivion really works and leads that person to a healthy lifestyle.....
Utter rubbish
The healthy rubbish people spitting from ages😂
I prefer stop giving foods instead, that's good for saving money
@@limousinecar230 she is a child is the parents fault they control the money they should buy healthy foods only at home
@@sanciepw3406 then the parents should let the kid is doing the job for money, they cant keep children forever
“If I kiss him and ask for something he does it for me.” Why is that me with my dad
Ok but the dad is so sweet and emotional She's probably not as depressed because of such a loving dad
I cried this is so cute. When she did the trampoline I said “awww” about 10 times
I think this is their best episode..
THE DAD IS SO PRECIOUS 😭💖
I love this episode, they’re so supportive of her and suggesting fun ways to work out. The family is so cute as well