How Introverted Guys Can Build Connection & Chemistry With Women
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As an introvert, the biggest obstacle I have in communication is thinking of something better to say later. In the moment, I can be at a loss for the right words. This especially comes up at times when I should be confrontational or assertive. Greatest example is when and how I could ask for a date. This is a big struggle for me.
Omg I have this exact same problem I have all these conversations in my head before hand and then when it comes to the real thing I’m completely stumped
Biggest obstacle I have is that being analytical (and having a degree in maths) is the feeling of almost disgust I have internally when people say that you have to ‘get her to FEEL emotions’. I feel like vomitting because it’s too much hard work for me. Talking to women is both mentally and physically exhausting.
i used to worry about this myself. just remember the partner you’re out with more then likely is worried about the same things just go with the flow and enjoy it. have magnet a few questions to ask when things slow down and that’s all you need really
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Your words and answers will come with more experience, so just keep at it. You should take the opportunity to become a better listener and listen for keywords and answers you like to respond better in future situations.
Introvert woman here 🙋🏼♀️ married to an introvert man😀 Having the most amazing marriage/relationship. I have always been attracted to introverted calm guys. I learned a long time ago that introverted man posses a special kind of super power which really came across as a genuine good listener. Also, introverted men in my opinion are usually far more confident as they don’t feel like they have anything to prove to anyone. I hope that makes sense but what I mean is that introverted men are not insecure or awkward they are simply interested in meaningful conversations, in things that matter in the long run etc. So many women love and appreciate introverted men, don’t be discouraged guys, stay true to yourself, there is a saying in my native country that says “there is a lid for every pot” 😊
And just what country are you from beautiful? Cause I need to go there and search for a wife asap lmao.
So off topic is there play on with your name or it really is just jasmina 🤔 never heard of it before and it sounds lovely by the way 🥰 love the meaning too!
❤ like you
It is interesting how introversion in women is often attractive, but in men, it's seen as weakness.
thats why male introverts are utterly fucked up in this shallow dead age unless they are good looking or rich... while female introverts have no problem be found by someone. I often saw female introvert didnt have friends but she did have BF. I've never seen it the other way around though...
Being an introvert as a man should be labeled as a handicapped as a single man looking for women. Women have no sympathy for it. They just want the most confident out-going guy.
I'm really glad you mentioned intentionality. As a S-Tier introvert, I used to hate going to "hangouts" and stuff. One of my people smart friends figured out really quick that if they wanted me to show up somewhere I needed a task or goal. "Hey come over on Saturday to beat all these guys at MarioKart... they need to be brought down a peg." 😂
Bowser for life
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@@catboy03Dry Bones all day
Bro you had a friend? and he's people smart? I don't even have a friend.
Birdo 🎀
As an introverted man, my biggest hurdle is "getting out there" and meeting single women that I would consider asking out. I'm happy and content at home when not working or out exercising so there aren't many non-creepy opportunities to meet people. Plus I'm disgusted with the toxicity of social media so I'm not on any social platform.
Travel towards places that are catered to your interests. The bar/nightclub is the worst place to find a mate, well, unless she's not a Karen which is hard to find in today's world
This is me !!!
1:00 Great Conversations 2:53 The Power of Intention 4:25 Leaving Room for Mystery 6:00 Remembering Small Details 7:07 Closing Thoughts Thanks Courtney! Have a good day everyone!
Introvert F here and have been married to an introvert M for almost 7 years. We live a happy, quiet and calm life. We don’t party and most of Friday nights we stay in either doing something together or separately if someone needs “me” time. Some people seem to think that if you are married you should do everything together. It’s so far from the truth. I think for introverts it’s really important to establish 'me' time that both partners respect. And if either of us needs additional time, then we communicate that need.
This is more like a PSA for women than anything 😂 As a introverted who is outdoorsy. I see this as an absolute win. I recently started seeing someone and for our 1st date we had sushi, she told her favorite candy/guilty pleasure was oreos and her favorite color was pink. So for Valentine's I'm getting her pink flowers, chocolate covered oreos and a squeaky toy for her dog that looks like a sushi roll to tie everything in. We ARE listening and calculating lol.
Still seeing her?
Yeah introverts do approach conversations with intentions, as we want to ask something meaningful. This kind of is a drawback in the corporate world especially during conference room meetings. The extroverts just seem to ask questions just to appear they are engaged in the subject even if on a superficial manner.
🎯 At a sales conference right now and couldn't have explained that better!
thanks for saying that social anxiety and shyness are not related to introversion. those things get conflated all the time, and the clarity is so valuable.
My boyfriend of a year is an introvert and he’s just wonderful. Once you get past the shyness they make the most loving and wonderful partners ☺️
Oversharing is actually a very real threat when your life generally lacks people to share much or anything with. Imagine having no one to talk to, and the moment you finally have someone, you think all that pent-up energy finally has a place to go to, and boom, that's when you're oversharing and scaring them away. And then you're alone again and the cycle repeats. Another thing is, I've been called a stalker for remembering small details before. I feel like it is always a matter of "are you attractive or are you 'creepy', where that perception can of course change at any given moment"...
I relate to this one. I only have one friend I try to keep in touch with regularly, but he lives 125 miles from me, so we don't see each other that often. So most of my day is spent talking to none but my boss, and the weekends is usually just me and my friend on Discord when I got time to sit down and play some games. The desire to overshare is a real struggle, because I've noticed it has made some acquaintances drift away, though that may not be the only reason but it's likely to be one of them. And now I find myself oversharing something again. You didn't ask me any of this, haha. I'm just lonely and spend the majority of my working days listening to other people having conversations about subjects I'm interested in because I have none to talk and share my passions with on a daily basis. About remembering small details. I could name a lot of people from elementary up to middle school (almost 20 years ago), and I don't even know them personally and they sure as hell don't remember me, but names are just something that sticks with me.
As an introverted man appreciate you for making this video. I’m perfect just the way I am. i’m going to start dating again soon so this is a great reminder of just how awesome I am.
Honestly, I wanna say thank you. I really needed this video. I was feeling that being an introvert was a bad thing. I felt that being an introvert automatically made me shy and socially awkward. Your videos help me understand myself better. Keep being you and ignore the haters
The good thing about being an introvert, it keeps you from getting entangled with the modern woman.
Being introverted never was a bad thing, literally half of the human population is introverted. Extroverts are just too loud and too quick to pathologize what's different.
The conversationalist hits a LOT because I love listening to people and enjoy always being introverted; it just happens that I tend to be a bit shyer AND socially anxious in big groups at times.
I think this video helps me a lot being an introvert person myself. It’s very challenging to for me to start a conversation.
Dating as an introvert is pretty hard. At first they like that you’re kinda quiet but after time they are surprised at how quiet you are. It’s easy to make conversation at first but when you’re not used to it there is a lot of silence. My advice is to work on your social skills. I know we’re taught to be love for who we are but it’s asking a lot expecting someone to be with you with you hardly saying anything. You made the choice to put yourself out there and make conversation to get the date but it doesn’t end there.
You're right, just being yourself often just isn't enough if you're genuinely a quiet person
Being quiet is more a function of shyness than a function of introversion. You can be an introvert without being shy.
It only works one on one. It’s very hard to nigh impossible in a group situation
It’s mentally draining
This is EXACTLY true. I am a quiet thinker and ok meeting/talking with people in small groups. In big groups I am lost under all the extroverts that steal the show and that everyone loves
@@jzeff6250 yes and how can you convince someone to hang out with you one on one when you seem like the bottom dog in the group situation
As an introvert it's hard to meet other introverts because we like to stay home.
As an introvert, I find it hard to meet people since I don't have any desire to talk to someone I have nothing to say to.
Cortney, you are definitely the one I trust and respect in all these types of help videos.
hate when people automatically assume you're shy bc you're introverted
I didn’t know I needed this video so much… sadly I have been trying to be somebody that I’m not, and have been getting into situations, that makes me feel worst, than anything else. Really powerful thing! Thanks!
Brilliant video, as an introvert this video really spoke to me and describes me 100%. The challenge is its difficult as an introvert to make a connection in a society which seems to value instant gratification. Its also tough to say things in the moment, I often curse myself for not saying something I should have.
thanks for this video Courtney. Going to have to put this in "My Favorites" collection and rewatch from time to time. I'm introverted, shy as well. I could definitely learn more from videos that discuss introverts and dating.
As an introvert ( I also have crazy high social anxiety) but if I’m somewhere surrounded by things that I find interesting and that I have knowledge about ( then I can talk to anyone about the said thing )
Best video explaining the difference between social anxiety and introverted. (Being introverted sometimes misleading, I chose to speak anyone I see.)
As an experiment I once put "morally bankrupt sex addict" on my tinder profile I got way more responses than when I was truthful about my considerate and introverted interests.
But was it the responses you wanted? And what happened when the mask fell off?
Hello Courtney, great video been watching your content for the last three years now and it has really helped me grow better, I feel like years passing by I changed a lot being an introvert I could never go up and talk to any girl because I lacked confidence but I have seen years passing by I have developed confidence not that I have interest in getting into a relationship now but my lack of confidence always held me back.
Courtney gives me hope for being the way I am. I think being an introvert with all its accompanying qualities is underrated but valued by the right people!
I,m looking forward to the spring fashion video , I'll hold off on buying new aftershave for the time being, I cleared out the wardrobe, roll on the summer
Biggest hurdle I've encountered as an introvert is we tend to be very "boring" and very much into routine. This is often an up-front turn off because any prospective partner knows there will be limited to no 'excitement' in that relationship. But it will be very stable relationship. That's not usually desired, especially at the beginning. As such most of the time introverts never keep the person's attention long enough to actually deepen any relationship. This is also why most couples involving an introvert, that I've seen, met in an environment where they were around each other for a prolonged period of time. It wasn't a 'chance meeting' that fluttered by. As stated in the video, the introvert needs time to actually observe the person before deciding anything else. Those types of environments are rare these days or downright hostile toward any romantic engagements (work as an example).
You are speaking facts. In the beginning, things need to be lighthearted fun. Not go in deep conversation off the bat. It's a combination of it being a fun conversation with some deep conversation.
I sure as hell felt the limited beliefs. Great job with this video!
Thank you for doing a video on introverts. I do believe we are amongst the most misunderstood people in the world. We know we are not perfect, yet we take good care of ourselves and our partners.
I'm an introvert but also taken a 16-personality test of which I am an INJF-T. I am good a listener, observant, some say I'm shy (not really but just quiet) but I can have a conversation if the topics / interest have in common, attention to detail / analytical but I can be complementing whether if its right or wrong at times. Stressor with work but when things don't go to plan. All the women I spoken to so far whether they are WL or even colleagues / friends all say the same thing about me as well as being coming off as friendly, manners and a gentlemen with the vibe that I present, I always smile or have a happy mood regardless. My experience was not dating but plan on dating soon and in my early 30s atm, the women spoken also gave me an idea of what type of person I am and alot of the characteristics are correct even from the test. Will always be truthful whether its work related with a customer or family, friends etc..
Thank you Courtney for this insightful video. I think most introverts are abundantly misjudged due to what may come off as awkward behavior. Only because we tend to internalize and reserve our thoughts and emotions. Although a natural introvert, I have found that integrating a ambivert style of behavior has helped me tremendously in social or public environments and with practice it becomes more and more part of your everyday personality utilizing and and balancing both types to your advantage. I would encourage anyone who struggles with anxiety and emotional regulation to give more thought and practice into this. And please more videos on communication would be most helpful.
I'm an introvert. Super inexperienced with dating and don't go out much in general, so I feel like I'm at a huge disadvantage. I also struggle more with 1 on 1 conversations as opposed to groups. I usually can have conversations just fine, but longer one on one i usually run out of stuff to talk about.
I agree 100% with what you say. Having been an introvert my entire life, I have to say that trait always ended up working in my favor when it came to dating. My partners were always extroverted and somehow my introversion was a kind of perfect complement for them, and vice versa. Same case with my current partner.
Happy Sunday, Courtney! ❤
HEYY Courtney first let me start by saying. Thank you for existing and making these videos you are a literal bright light for many guys and gals who struggle with dating due to various reasons. I am introverted but not by choice in a way...My disability has kind of forced me into that role. This video relates to me in a way despite me not being an actual introvert. I would love if you did a similar video but about dating as a disabled man (you can even do in general for men and women) The below is specific to my life if any commenters want to offer advice i welcome it: I have a crippling disability that makes me wheelchair bound and i have never went out of my way to find love and romance. This resulted in me being locked into the male world. (video games ttrpgs and such) I simply can't do sports or hike or go to the gym... I have few female friends but my hobbies and the things i do day to day are male centered. So i never get to actually meet women long enough to attract anybody through my personality. What are your tips for dating when physical attraction is NOT an option. This is not a self esteem issue... I have something called arthrogryposis. I legit offer nothing physically, aside from maybe a handsome face and a working penis. Also professionally i would say i am doing quite well. (Phd in computer science) So how do you even find dates or make the first move when you are in that situation... How do you meet women as an introverted disabled guy in a newish country? (Moved up to Europe from the third world to be more successful and have more value as a man) I have never tried online dating. The feedback i get from other men... Yeh no... I am 130 cm tall deformed guy i dont think anyone is swiping right on tinder or anything of that. I just want to know what my options are.
If possible, can you make a video on relationships themselves? The day-to-day things, and how time passes. Expectations Routines etc
The words “awkward” and “clumsy”, are setting off bells in my head. I often say more that I should, more than is good for me. Makes me wonder just where I said that, though I’m pretty sure that I did. Yes, you do look like a woman who “takes care of herself” and therefor, always looks “ready”, “prepared to meet people”. If I may toot my own horn for a moment, and I’m not talking about bed as the objective, but I try not to just throw my hat into the ring and hope for the best. When I play, I expect to win. It’s already done. I don’t see why I shouldn’t. It’s a whole different mindset I think feels attractive. To those who have seen it before.
Thank you! Great video
I am an introvert, but haven't dated.
My father is a little introverted but my mother is extremely extroverted. Their relationship works because they both accept the other for who they are. This means my mother does not expect my father to become more extroverted and vice versa. A lot of extroverted women only consider a man who is an extrovert like they are.
you should totally make a video on improving confidence, i'd love to hear it, and im sure most here would
7:38 Courtney is right. Being an introvert is much easier if you are a woman.
It's just as hard trust me even looking at a guy can be hard
@@kaylametcalf932 Imagine you were not only expected to look at a guy, but then also expected to approach him and make the first move too if you wanted to date.
It's also easier if you're a kitten
what has helped me personally is by being their friend first like at the work place or school. This allows you to become more comfortable with them for when you get the courage to ask them out. although it is different when the main intention is to go up to a stranger and ask them out.
I've always been introverted and reclusive. No Serial Killer.
This video will help me a lot
Master social loner here. My emotional availability pilot light got turned off and capped off years ago. I don't need a part time/full time job with no pay, providing emotional adult baby sitting.
When I'm going to a place with a lot of people and especially when I do not know many of them I'm always a bit nervous and hope that someone will start a conversation with me because usually then I can open up more easily and also start talking with other people which might also be happy to be able to join a discussion. Still there is one "opener" I never get (does not matter if it is a male/female using it) and its the "Hey didn't I see you at that party/restaurant/whatever a while ago..." I then try hard to remember where this could have been while the other person just wanted to have a convo starter and I feel so bad the next day when I realize it xD.
Communication is always my strongest indicator in my relationships. Whether it is with men or women, business or personal. Trying to read signals verbal (or non- verbal) can be very difficult .
It has been my personal experience as well as observation that introvert boys get along very much well with extrovert girls and vice versa .... I'm myself an introvert and I have experienced the pain of keeping my emotions all bottled up during my dating period due to the fear that I might be judged / made fun of / rejected .... However, I must say one thing over here Courtney Ryan that introvert boys as well as girls also have an extremely caring and a generous nature once they start opening up and trusting the opposite person ... 😊😊😊. Anyways nice, informative video, Courtney Ryan ... 👍👍👍.
Charisma on Command has some phenomenal stuff on developing chemistry
Courtney, you're the big sister I could never have because I'm older than you! I think this category of dating advice could be its own channel.
*for introverts...
7:58 Indeed, introverts are generally good partners for all types of relationships. The problem is that they are not good salespeople, which means it is a lot harder for them to get a chance to prove themselves in the first place. I’m glad though, that you pointed out that it is a lot easier for introverted women. Men have it particularly rough
My recent ex-GF broke things off since I am a bit too introverted for her. She's admittedly an introvert herself and that never bothered me (and I'm sure it doesn't bother most men as long as a woman takes care of herself physically), but my introversion was a dealbreaker. I think a lot of women expect men to constantly entertain them, they don't care if you are a genuine person that treats them well. I really think there is no place for introverted/quiet men in the dating scene today.
I think you need to find someone who isn’t obsessed with being entertained, and can deal with a little “boring”. For example was she obsessed with going out on weekends? Addicted to social media?
Happy Sunday Courtney! You’re part of my Sunday workout routine now lol. In my home gym as I listen.
Hi I hope you have a good day and god bless you and everyone who reads this comment 😊🙏🏻
For me personally, i avoid talking to people until i am sure of the kind of person they are through vibes and energy and am also comfortable with what i feel from them. I would suggest to find what draws you to reveal yourself to a woman and use that as motivation to talk to one you deeply like. For me personally its sweetness. Im a such a sucker for a woman with a genuinely sweet personality. Not many have that today. Inner suffering or even outer troubles can also draw me to them. I would caution anyone against forcing yourself to talk to one just because you like how she looks ...
Discernment is one of our biggest advantages. Our observation saves us from dealing with the wrong woman😅
@@ChickenNuggets-xl3gi Oh yeah. I could probably date lots more than I ever take the time to talk to for one reason or another provided my heart was in it. But the fact is, I don't want garbage people in my life as well as preferring only one woman at a time. The trick is to embrace who you naturally are and then mold your choices after that. It won't steer anyone wrong. But they have to find themselves before any of that can happen and that takes introspection and or experience. And like you said, quietly sit back and observe. Also take ones time if you want quality people...
As an introvert I appreciate this 💯
Thanks For This Vid Courtney
Thanks for this.
I'm probably overly pessimistic from being in my 30's and never getting a handle on relationships. But this entire list is more about generating comfort than attraction. Potentially positives in a relationship, but arguably not that important in dating. When you are introverted especially as a man, people project onto you that you are shy/weak/weird/pretentious, a whole host of negative traits, whether or not it's true. That is if they even acknowledge you exist. People aren't malicious, they are busy. But that means they wont invest the time or energy to discover any of those positive traits. In a world built around 2 second judgement calls on a dating app, or 20 second impressions at a bar, where you're in a city with 2 million other people and will never run into the same person twice, where your neighbors don't even know what you look like, no one ever talks long enough to learn of an upside to introversion. Being introverted is a curse.
Stunned how good I as an introvert was nailed in this description.
❤❤ the world needs poets just as much as cheerleaders...
Introverts can be an attractive Superman, but they need to be Clark Kent as well.
Pretty much
I'm not sure I understand what you mean although I would like to
@@BenBenBenBenBenBenBenBenBenB3n You know Clark Kent really IS Superman in a "normal guy" disguise, right?
That’s a good way of putting it. It’s like the Clark Kent version with Dean Cain. (That comes to mind).
@@JoeJ-8282 Of course, but I don't understand how it relates to introversion, so I'm just asking, what does it mean o be a superman, what does it mean to be a Clark Kent, like, do we need to be more secretive ?
Great video!!
I'm an introvert myself, and I'm with you on being comfortable enough to say that there are misconceptions. Lots of them. I've even been told that I'm easy, as well, as fun to talk to. By women at that.
I LEARN BOTH; HOW TO BE BETTER WITH WOMEN AND PRACTICE MY ENGLISH SKILLS....SORRY FOR MY MISTAKES.... BUT THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
You hit the nail on the head with introverts being attentive to small details. It is basically a superpower. All my female friends damn near break their necks sideways in curiosity when I notice a small detail and comment on it. They usually have the biggest smile on their faces. I will say this is something that you may not just learn overnight. I grew up doing this, and I think to Courtney's point is to use that "superpower" and vocalize it. I'm extremely observative, curious, and introspective. I mean, I'm currently in graduate school for social science XD
Thanks Courtney.
Courtney your vidoes are fantabulous❤
Good advice.
There's a big difference of being an introvert and being socially awkward. I don't believe they are any negative qualities of belng an introvert. It just means that you are comfortable being by yourself and dont need to be around people 24/7. Also a lot of women love introverts. Extroverts can be draining to be with at times. Introverts are more calm and collected and they are far better listeners in my opinion. The big problem is social anxiety. It makes things very difficult. Nowadays, dating has shifted online. Dating apps are skyrocketing..So that's why there's been a decrease of men approaching women. Also men dont want to be labeled anything that will tarnish them as a person If youre shy with social anxiety it's going to be difficult but there are ways to overcome It just takes a lot of time.
I'm an introvert 32 yr old male. Never dated but I've had so many opportunities to do so. I've been pushing myself out of my comfort zone lately and have started striking up conversations with the cute girls at my gym. Has worked perfectly so far, the only problem I face is continuing the conversation. I find myself not knowing what to ask or say the next time I see them.
The best definition of introvert extrovert difference I found is: Extroverts are more likely to pick up on many things but don’t go deep in to a topic/task whatever, while introverts naturally go deep in but with mostly just a few topics with the same person. Based on that definition it still makes sense that introverts don’t like crowded places cause there are so many people while u put all those misunderstandings of shyness out of the definition. So according to my comment here u can be sure I am an introvert since I thought about that topic deeply.
This channel deserves an Oscar.
Getting deeper than common chit chat is one of purposes of dating, so if you're beginning with substance you're already off to a good start.
100% intervert here. Getting divorced after 20+ years. Ive been terrified of dating again. Until recently. I made my mind up. Screw it i have nothing else to loss. I now will go up to any woman that im attracted to and talk.
I normally do not talk a lot. I rather listen and only come into a conversation when asked questions, like tell me more about yourself. So making the first move for me as an introvert is difficult.
@@Te-le-Grem_CourtneyRyan1. Thanks Courtney for your message. So when would you like to talk to me? (Time and date) On which media platform would you like to talk (whats app, e-mail, KZhead, or Facebook Messenger) Thanks and have a great day. Johannes
I'm a proud introvert.
I'd love for you to do a video on improving conversation skills
I struggle with figuring out what to talk about but It always seems that the women I end up talking to NEVER ask me anything or start a conversation. It's exhausting and I just end up not talking to them anymore. I also draw blanks on what to say in the moment and only think of something later when the opportunity is long gone.
I'm fairly introverted IRL and over the years that may or may not have led to me being "invisible" and honestly I'm all for it. It can be hilarious
Hey Courtney. I got my tongue scraper a week ago. We're not inseparable yet but I have integrated it into my daily routine. My mouth feels very clean. Btw, are you aware of the ad that is using your likeness?
Courtney, I waited for video on Friday. I guess you didn't post one because of your trip to Japan. BTW, how was it or maybe still there? I'm jealous.
Japan is a great country.
What if she got locked up for making a prank video 😂
Ladies, if you date an introvert, remember to not take offense when we don't want to spend every second with you. First, we recharge by chilling out, not by going out. We need our space. We also prefer quality time over quantity time. I dated a girl that would call me 10 times a day with nothing to say. As an extrovert she'd call me while shopping because she needed someone to talk to at all times, but it was so boring listening to her talk about items on the shelf or conversing with the cashier. Then she'd hang up to drive home, put her groceries away and call me again. Once I started sighing when I saw her name pop up on my phone I knew it was over.
I'm very much an introvert. When I'm getting to know a lady, though, I'm can talk on many subjects. I'm an avid reader, and I have a wide variety of interests.
My ex-girlfriend was very introverted who "couldn't support the conversation." When she had told me this, I was very surprised because for me at that time it was like "I can't speak!". Only years after we split up I understood that she was a good listener that able to open herself to me step by step...
I'm an introvert & borderline autistic. While I've gotten a lot better at conversation, I don't have the type of charm most women are looking for. My charm is more thru humor & intellect, but women seem to want to feel an immediate physical/sexual/romantic connection. I'm just not confident enough to lead with that sort of charisma, nor is it my personal style.
Completely relate to that comment in every way.
Don’t worry about that my friend those women who want immediate connection are usually after one thing and they clearly don’t appreciate you for who you are, and if you come across a girl like this she’s not worth your time. Remember just because you feel your somewhat different doesn’t mean your below anyone else
Bruh, same.
@@Generalkenobi325 Really appreciate those words, General Kenobi!
@@frozunyogert6159 may the force be with you 🙏
Thanks I'm not a b.s artest..I'm kind and I respect woman
I believe based on your video that I am an introvert. But my biggest problem is initiating aka I am shy. In my carrier I was always in front of people. Giving presentations and generally everything involved with very outgoing people. My problem is I can't initiate in my private life. I tell my friends, wave a $100 bill in my face and go ask someone to dance or buy them a drink. Their going to go home with their $100 bill........"and that's why I am single" as the saying goes (yes I've been married....more than once..).
straight facts
Speaking from being an Introvert: Delevoping/practicing sense of humor can really help ice breaking (no need to be stand up comedian) Be direct in communication (eliminate “I guess, maybe…etc) be decisive (even if fail you learn and improve) Do NOT feel or give into pressure to explain yourself all the time…Courtney is spot on when there needs to be a Mystery factor *there are no guarantees with all this but will help overall
Thanks you my dear friend
I am an introvert but I think part of it might be due to my anxiety that I have. So I do not like to be around a lot of people. I never dated anyone. I just kept to myself. But I would like to change this, so I could eventually meet the right woman.
Just be yourself, but be prepared for failure. You'll do fine.
I can’t lie…. Everything she mentioned in the video, I already know and can do well. The tough part is actually finding someone to connect with in the first place.
Sorry maybe I've missed a video somewhere but can someone tell me where the one is that shows me where to find a single woman? Can't build connections and chemistry with them if you can't find one. Online dating doesn't work, the general consensus seems to be to not approach them ever in case they report you to the police and all the ones I can talk to either through work or through friends are already in relationships. Do they wear badges to indicate which ones are single and safe to approach or something? All the videos I ever see seem to miss this bit out??