Masturbation is the New Meditation | Keeley Olivia | TEDxLeamingtonSpa
Keeley Olivia is a Female Sexuality Expert on a mission to revamp the sexual experiences of women and couples the world over.
In this talk she shares her own story of discovering orgasm, explains why she wrote a masturbation memoir and announces the arrival of the second wave sexual revolution - one that will close the gender orgasm gap and place the pursuit of female orgasm and deep sexual connection as a powerful portal for personal and relationship transformation and empowerment.
Keeley is the founder of Self Pleasure School which gives women a foundation in self and body love that allows them to enjoy a thriving sexuality throughout their lives regardless of their relationship status.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
The process of discovering self is more important in this day and age. The self discovery has broken many taboos. Hats off to her for sharing it in an articulate manner
Bold, outspoken lady. Nothing wrong about this. With self-pleasure, no one is hurt.
The number of men screaming and cheering at the beginning 😂😂😂😂
Imoh Bare I thought was kinda sweet though XD
Haha hah😝😝
Lmfaooooo
Wow. I was shocked to hear her voice, it's so poetic and beautiful.
Can u help me with findings???
Some other fantasy went through my head halfway into it.
peotic?
"my body was capable of magic", that's exactly it.
YES!!! Who didn’t feel that way after the the very FIRST time they “meditated”?? ❤️👍
I have listened to hundreds of TED talks. I have probably enjoyed this one the most. Thank you Keeley.
Probably because you were watching bad ones
When you're about to start Nofap journey and youtube suggests you this video !
Every person needs to know when this is really for them, or if they need to run away. ‘Know thyself’
Watch that sandeep maheshwari 's
Venkatesh M 😂😂😂😂
The struggle is real!
Venkatesh M lmao
Thank you for your generosity in sharing so boldly and honestly. You set an example that is worth following.
Honestly, this was comforting, she's intelligent, clearly is confident af, and well spoken, this has to strike a cord in some women in a positive way.
so therefore masturbation is a meditation?
@@tristramgarbellotto3402 she used spiritual. What u do while masturbation. U feel. That's a kind of meditation. Yes she is absolutely right. She is saying that feeling should be spiritual. Is she right. Do you agree?
@@tristramgarbellotto3402 great question
@@sriramkudarla75 That's joke man!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@tristramgarbellotto3402 Not at all! Masterbation is wasting of time and energy! What is real guided meditation you can search in KZhead!
I like the boldness she shows to express herself openly. That courage of confidence is very attractive to me. Bravo! my lady
It's not about you.
such an intelligent and brave and confident woman she is!! I am shook... this was beyond beautiful
Right
It's a one of the most beautiful thing one experiences while doing. Each and every part of the body responds equally.
I bet 80% of the women there couldn't wait to get home and "meditate"..
And there a lot!
😂😂😂
I bet you ain’t lying either
Lol
Only 80???
I have experienced the same. A release and communion with oneness. Opened my soul and healed me in way's I want to scream from the mountain tops. All women should have this experience. Freedom from the constraints of the chains we have bound ourselves with.
How was it ??
discover the divinity within ,this lady is proud to openly express
You mean I've been meditating 3 times a day?
Legend says that holy men in ancient times used to meditate straight for months... that's a lot of stamina if you ask me..
i 4
@@joni-nv3el comrade.
They have nothing in common whatsoever she's insulting meditation and all those who professionally specialize in it by even comparing the two.
@@Network-jw1jd I totally agree with you.This video should be removed for blasphemy.
loved your boldness and courage of sharing your profound experience with all of us. LOVE LOVE
A great talk and great comments too! I can't add much except to say how well she expresses herself. Her words are poetic.
Such a Beautiful talk. My immense respect to Ms. Keeley for being such an important voice to educate woman about their own lovely bodies and souls. And to educate us men to realize how much we can learn from our lovely female partner and be excited to yet learn perpetually more about the sharing of Love with her.
And sharing her with others
@@kbanghart she never talked about that.. She used toys. Lol
@@sriramkudarla75 aww bummer
@@kbanghart hahaha 😂
Thank you, @Keeley Olivia, for your candour, your sense of fun and your bravery in challenging the inequitable status-quo and the veil of silence surrounding it.
@Peter Riches, Absolutely Right🎯 You have put it in a very sensible manner👍
I say GOOD FOR YOU KEELY! And hopefully, good for a lot of us. Women and men as well. The world has changed so much from the one I grew up in. And a lot of it not for the better. In the age of sterile, distant, electronic communication. We are becoming so dangerously disconnected. Mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I can’t imagine the BALLS it took to walk out, in front of that crowd and give the talk I just saw her give. Reconnection to all we have lost, has to start somewhere. For those on the planet that are not as “enlightened “ as others, this may bring them to knowing who they are, and being able to love who they are, which in turn may enable them to love others..... Maybe even, some of you.... peace
Very well said! 👍
@@ShaquilleBarron Dude it’s because the capital letter is at the start of a sentence 💀💀
💪✊I admire her courage to talk to not only a large audience but have it recorded and published on KZhead, believe me talking to 200 people of personal life experiences some of which you're not proud of takes conviction and, for me, god given courage, but to know that everything you say is recorded and freely accessible to everyone for as long as the internet exists, and still talk openly, takes the courage of a warrior. *Bravo !*
For some people being shameless doesn´t take any courage.
thank you Keeley that was the most inspiring talk you are a true gift to humanity keep on trucking sister your joy is contagious love light and laughter /Kunga Dorja
she looks like she is reading poetry. full of wisdom
Sometimes I meditate in the shower, or when nobody is home or right before I fall asleep
That's incredible. Thanks for letting us know. 👏
@@cresun 😂 underrated.
That was super hilarious 😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣😐
who felt like she was reciting poem!
Very Poetic! Lyrical! Musical! Rhythmic! Educative! English is sweet!!
That's because she had wrote her speech prior to her talk. She had rehearsed the whole thing. Yet she chose her words wisely and spoke from the heart. The way she had conected it spiritually was awesome! Also she knew when to pause and for how long at the right times which makes her a good Orator. That being said I thought it was just as artfully flavorful as a poem!
Outstanding speaker! Her cadence was lyrical and mesmerizing. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
🤣🤣🤣
@@humphreyokello9655 262uuuuuuu
I can tell you one thing about this speech I had goosebumps all over my body!! We need to hear it even if it is difficult to learn self love and be free. Amazing topic. Powerful and highly needed talk.
Dagmara Szymańska same here
How free are you?
Truely
Would you like for me to meditate you?
TRUTH
Brilliant. Utterly utterly brilliant. Well said Keeley and well done and Thank You.
Great speech! Great message!
I get it. Great job, not new to my mind but reassurance that others feel this way as well.
Wow Keeley what a tremendous confident presentation, especially the intense studying for over an hour each day 5 days a week!! and a scientist to boot. It not only helps women understand their inner treasures it helps men discover more things about women also.
I will recommend this Ted x talk to one of my bestest female friend which would really help her
Very well narrated. The subject was very bold and very well handled. Excellent. 👌👌👏👍👍
Meditation really improves sleep quality, before falling asleep is really the best time.
@LITTLE BOOTS really helps with menstrual pain and headaches too! 👌🏻
99% time. I do meditation before sleep
@@ashotofmercury When the pain feels like torture, it is really the only thing that can relieve the pain and it really works
She is a wonderful woman with so much of very great value to contribute and assist in the transforming of our world.
Can’t help but think of the line from WHEN HARRY MET SALLY ...”I’ll have what she’s having”
social anxiety, killing motivation and a screwed dopamine cycle is the new pill of meditation!!
hassan alhamdany o
Maybe for you, while it depends on mood but lately listening is the best suited for meditation or silence for that matter!
sad to see how many people don´t understand the message behind her talk.. our bodies are (also) a portal to divinity.. I wish for you you can discover that. Every cell is vibrating with bliss. If you can tune into that, you will discover the truth in it. Its exactly the same as what Jesus and other spiritual masters talk about. They just use other words and analogies. If you want to learn more about it, start exploring tantra.
There are some videos that makes you joyous to the core. She did it. Energy permeates when she talks.
Most definitely! Had me in tears
It’s amazing how many comments made in ignorance and self righteous indignation. This was a poetic story of a woman’s self discovery about societal shame placed on women and embracing her own right and desire for personal pleasure and fulfillment. It’s amazing this story still needs being told today but is made obvious that it is by the comments it’s generated.
Yup i agree with u pal but like u it's a bit confusing that we still need to talk about these subjects in 2022 . Maybe way back in 60's it might have been termed revolutionary.
Great... Continue your good work for the humanity...
Very excellent and informative presentation. Keeley's dress is lovely and gives her a sense of presence and a woman who knows what suits her.
One of the best talks ever!! So enlightening.
Agreed.
She found it and put it into words. Well done! 9:01 This is what YOU are after 11:21 An experience so life-changing that it shows you: "this how I want to live the rest of my life." 12:26 If you are a conscious being... then this idea is for you
Beautifully presented, recited, and explained.
Yes of course 👍
EVERY DAY; MAKE ME PROUD! you are amazing Keeley O!
Excellent Speech Loved it
Sharing like this is righteous!!
That is what Satan wishers to you.
Remember not to meditate too long and too hard, you don't want to chafe anything.
Admirable ! And so eloquently said !!!
I close my eyes and meditate at work, on public transport and also libraries.
within your pants
Glad she spoke clearly and unashamed!
If you focus on anything in a curious seeking way everyday for an hour you will get astounding results that we would consider Meta.
Geoffrey G that’s a really good idea thank you :) I’m doing that :)
True
What do you mean
@@Jsinka48, what I mean is that meditation is You focusing your mind. If you only focus on one thing long enough then you will experience some interesting things.
@@geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 Oh OK i will try that
What a talk!!! I so wish I’d watched this when I was 16! This so needs to be watched by women everywhere. Amazing!
Don't show your (old) bobs and vegan
I agree!
Lovely. And, since you are now on the journey, check out the KZhead video "Cliteracy" and share it with your sisters. Also share it with young men; they oughta know.
Ridicolous
@Nagy Hajnalka Éva ayyy
she's sooo poetic....
Wow, thank you for your courage. Bravo
Wow! It means I meditate 5 times in a day. I am the great meditator in the world.
Same 😆😆
Amazing work Keeley.. love this
I know her story because I’ve lived it. Truly we are blessed!!❤️
Great presentation.
Poetically enlightening.
Courageous woman , giving so much for the well-being of women. And she smiles and laughs with a kind of joy.
Well said Sir, I agree with you.
Somebody's getting off to the lady! Meditation time? xD
Put it back in your pants
This brought me to tears
COMMENTS ARE DISABLED FOR THIS VIDEO. 😳 😵. You go girl ! ♥.
Keeley has been missing from social media since December of 2021. Previously highly engaged for many years. She is so passionate about her message I am worried something has happened to her.
Can you please touch more base on this? How do you know this? This is now concerning me. How can we contact her? Or find out anything of her? Thanks for letting us know. She is such a great inspirational and important woman, we need her. She is needed!
@@titaa56 She contacted me. I think she has just dropped out of social media for a while.
@@shyralee oh thank you so much for letting me know. I do hope it really is her and not someone pretending to be her. Maybe I watch too much movies. How were you able to connect with her? Thank you
Thank you so much, Keeley. You're so intelligent and brave. I'm, inspired, moved and enchanted.
This is a brilliant TED talk.
Simply Amazing, who's aware of the travesty committed against the feminine gender are standing up & revealing the age old battle they've been engaged in for millenniums. And yes we of the male variety should applaud, appreciate & support the struggle bc it's our's as well.
Thank you! ❤️
👏👏👏
this is the exact new generation and her daughter generation will talk about more deeper on this subject and audiences will respond with more claps
Awesome presentation👏👏👏
Well done 😊✌✌
Your thoughts determine your frequency, and your feelings tell you immediately what frequency you are on.
Powerful
I can't speak for other women but hormones aren't just determine by my thoughts.... Just saying...
Yes, this is what real women emancipation is all about 👌 More power ⚡to Keeley Olivia & her ilk🌸🌿🌸
Great talk! What courage this lady has!
Courage????....for what????....😂
@@beatewagner7.2934 Would you dare to talk so openly about pleasuring yourself?
Excellent talk! The only (minor) quibble is with the translation of "pudendum/pudenda" (singular/plural), which I think is the gerund case, like "demonstrandum", "addendum" etc - "to be demonstrated", "to be added". In this case "to be ashamed of". Not that that affects what Keeley is talking about ;-)
Started with something frivolous... Ended with something profound... :)
This is an amazing awareness. Thank you MS. Keeley
Very pleasant, very insightful, very informative and very inspiring. Thanks very much. Ash Varma M.D. San Francisco, California
..bh
This was fantastic.. so inspiring
Her talk is so soothing somehow. I like British English accent.
45 times a day - except Monday mornings for 3 hours
My heart is breaking. I had a hysterectomy which also resulted in the removal of my cervix. Orgasms haven’t been as intense since the uterus removal, which makes sense because it’s just a huge muscle that contracts along with the entire pelvic floor during orgasm, I’ve heard this from other women as well. But now, I learn what I’m missing by not having a cervix. I wish we could stop being mutilated...even for seemingly good reasons. 😔
Wow, that's rough. I didn't know they remove women's cervix during hysterectomy- and I totally agree that des need to stop mutilating people, in various ways. Maybe u could stimulate the pelvic floor from another entrance 🤔 Just throwing that out there
And the doctor considered giving me one, 33 no kids. I'm not ready, there is another way. Waiting on God's miracle
What a beautiful narrative of what a woman is.
Great info - Thanks
Brilliant! Women should never be ashamed of themselves. The world doesn't have power over you unless you give the world that power. Enjoy yourselves,
Yes. I need quite place to do it and let me feel my body un affected by outside forces or negatives.
What a wonderful lady. Great talk.
What an amazing Gift! Thank you Keeley
Excellent point about girls, when awakening to their sexualities, being cut off (by our prudishness) from safe tools to explore and get to know this new and important part of their psyches. I wonder how many injuries there are from inserting unsafe objects!
I am doing meditation last ten years
I understand what she's saying. I see stars n explore new realms of the galaxy. Beautiful
Such a wise and poetic speech... ❣️🤩
It would be nice to see more support from men. A cost-free activity improves the wellbeing of half of humanity and we all benefit from that, so I, in the other half, rejoice!
...I'll have what she's having.
Fantastic. Thanks a lot!!
very very good message.👍
We are running behind masturbations because we only had glimpses of profound pleasure beneath the halos of masturbation. Once it was done rightly and with conviction, you will not need it regularly. . . . . . . . . After that profound experience of masturbation you can truly ask yourself, "who am I?" " If not this body who am I?" That's how, masturbation become meditation!!
This makes some sense 👏
Thanks for talking publicly about your research and experience. I've experienced cosmic orgasm, which is what she is describing, and it is indeed liberating and Self-Loving. We, as women, need to continue to assert our right to express and BE All Of Ourselves.
Masturbation and feminity meets poetry and rap. Utterly beautiful!