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“I forgot you even existed” that is like a stab in the heart to Michelle. Aliyah definitely doesn’t understand how her words can hurt someone, let alone her SISTER.
Fr 😭❤
Aaliyah is very rude the only thing in her brain hate
Aliyah was totally out of line with her attitude towards Michelle. Michelle raised a valid point during therapy. Aliyah wasn't receptive at all. She was condescending and rude
Mom and dad politely try to talk to Aliyah ..her attitude towards Mitch is actually concerning at this point..it’s so bad ..
It’s having a negative effect on Michelle allowing her not to open up as much because in her mind she’s thinking she’s always going to have negative responses
@@honeybee9106YESSSS THISS
U're very right, Michelle's confidence is going to significantly drop if this carries on... so rude plus this accent thing naahhh, please mum and dad do something about it ir atleast address it goshhh. I love my Stephanie alot
@@honeybee9106yesss that’s why sometimes she’s quiet
Stephanie is in a league of her own. A literal Queen.
Super calm
She is. She is of sound mind. Her reasoning capacity is excellent and mature. We love to see it
Frrr. She is wise
I love her so much 😊
I love listening to Stephanie
Aaliyah, you need to step down off your high horses. You are rude, wanna be controlling and petty. Michelle, you are loved.
Right, and I like her accent and all but she is too prideful about it, TBH as a person living in the U.S. I see white girls( no offense) who literally acts like that, CONTROLLOING, PETTY, and RUDE, whenever am in class full those types of girls and were having a discussion, i dont like expressing my thoughts because they always think they are all that.
OMG I AGREE WITH THIS SO MUCH, she annoys me a lot
Aaliyah’s ego is too big. And her parents need to stop letting her get away with her mean comments.
Very true
Facts she needs to be brought down a notch
Five minutes in the video and Aaliyah has turned me off with her attitude. Rude, so disrespectful. Yet she was the one to tell Michelle that the door was opened to leave if she didn’t agree. Well I think that she should take a trip through that door.
😂😂
thankyouuu. Like what is her deal. Michelle was trying to raise a valuable point.
Yeahhh from i started watching, she brought a bad vibe
exactly she should have a trip through that door period
Michelle is right. When you share your feelings nobody should say if they are happy or sad about it. Aaliyah is trying to hold a safe place while making it uncomfortable to feel safe.
Mitchell is gifted and I feel like amongst her sisters, its Vanessa that genuinely loves her. Aaliyah is mean and mostly bitter towards Mitchell. The parents should look out and talk to them to love and support each other
I thought comments were exaggerating, but when Aaliyah said “I forgot you even existed” to Michelle I opened my mouth 😮
Open your mouth well oo
Ik
She's so mean. Why would she say such a thing to michelle? Michelle looked hurt with the way Aaliyah was treating her. She deserves better. Aaliyah thinks the world revolves around her, that's why she's so bossy. Please, you need to calm down. I dislike your attitude. What sort of rude mean girl is this?
Nah that’s just how they talk to eachother sometimes. They do exaggerate sometimes if you have been watching them for a long time this is just something’s they say it’s never that deep.
@@chelseaa092you really think what she said is not that deep, for Mitchell to even react like that it is that deep.
I think the parents need to sit down and talk to Aaliyah about her attitude and the disrespect she has towards everyone
especially how aaliyah treats michelle
YES..I’m actually getting to the point where I’m avoiding watching them just because of the way she be treating Mitch and the rest 🤦♀️
@@cynthiaambondo55same here, I could barely finish a video
Shes boring i avoid her videos or skip her parts
always trying to stand out she talk too much
Stefany is right about the housewife stuff! 🤷🏾♀️ fight me, housewives don’t necessarily work outside of home. being a working wife/mother is different from being a housewife.
I agree. I don't think Vanessa understood Stefany at all. As you can see, Vanessa clearly tried to deflect what she said by saying housewives have businesses. But initially her exact words were, she was going to be a housewife and will be less busy. Nonetheless, they all have their own personalities and will naturally disagree.
It’s so funny how Aaliyah was saying to Michell “oh the truth hurts,if you feel some way the door is there cause we are going to give our opinions” yet when everyone was pointing out stuff about her (cleaning etc) she was so defensive and argumentative GURLLLL 🥴🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣
she thinks she's all that
Ikr like girl stick to doing your chores
@@ObvyBellafr
Michelle are you ok love? 🥺
Aliyah is always rude to her parents and siblings, she doesn’t like correction but is the first to jump and bully people. It’s very annoying
She thinks she is smart
Stephanie is always humble and so good at listening
Aaliyah was rude to Michelle honestly , I understand sisters fight or Argue, but That was rude
Fr she was too out of line
So sad honestly, can't believe mum and dad watched Michelle walk out of the room and nothing was done about it... no way..
Aliyah u are so proud , rude and arrogant ,pls be very careful the way u treat people okay 💕💕💕💕💕
Yea Aaliyah, that was mean and extremely rude. Do you not like Michelle? This is really sad what you did. Im so disappointed Aaliyah. Thank you others for standing up for Michelle. Aaliyah, I always watched you. And wanted to not think what I was thinking. But , since we’re being HONEST and transparent like you want. Your very mean. Might want to work on that attitude sis. Know that Michelle will NEVER forget this. What you have done is put a wedge between you two. You may have gave her an rebellious attitude if not careful. A man can enter her life and bully her because she’ll think she’s not loved. How I know this. BECAUSE IT HAPPENED TO ME! Just please watch how you treat her and probably others
Facts
Exactly? I was carefully watching Michelle’s facial expressions she was so hurt man but she decided to keep it inside because she felt like her voice would not be heard if she spoke, not fair man. Aaliyah what you did was absolutely wrong and spiteful you need to apologise to your little sister because that was just unfair and cruel. I love your family but when it comes to injustice I don’t believe in that at all ! just because Michelle is younger than you does not mean her voice should not be heard or you should disrespect her. Do better man.
Everyone is saying the truth and i hope u read the comments oh the truths hurts right aww😭😢 imagine a big gurl like u nonsense
@@danielleantwi1408tbh I don’t really agree because Michelle isn’t always a loud person. Sure when she pranks she is very loud and active but if you watch the other videos when she isn’t the one pranking she is a quiet and chill person she’s j laid back and listens. If you don’t believe you could watch the older vids of when someone else pranks the whole family. But Aaliyah was doing the most I must say she can be mean
@@chelseaa092 Yh that’s what I mean 🤣 we’re on the same side girly xx
You guys need to respect your big sister Stephanie! It’s not because she doesn’t do all the chores like you guys that she’s not contributing! Respect your elders first and foremost! They were put on earth before you for a reason!!
Aaliyah cooking and cleaning is completely normal. You wash up and clean up as you go along. Unless you desire to put everything in the dishwasher. After eating, only what you eat from you should have to wash up (plates, cutleries and utensils etc). It makes cooking easier and less stressful. You maintain a clean Kitchen.
Silvia is starting to act different (rude) and it not cool as for Aliyah she needs to be mindful of how her words can hurt someone else for a long period of time and i also think that everyone is not letting one another voice their opinions and also not letting the younger ones speak cause its supposed to be a session where everyone gets a chance to offload other than that stay blessed and we love you😘
Please turn to Jesus and repent if you haven't. Jesus's love is like no other and he will transform your life. God bless you ✨️✝️✨️
Amen❤
Sylvia also has an attitude towards Michelle she’s starting to act like Vanessa and aliyah.. idk if she’s seeking for their validation or if it’s because Michelle and Stephanie are the “favourites “ but they need to drop this attitude.. it’s not cute.
Ik RIGHT, I peeped that too, and also when vanessa and aliyah were going for stefany about the cleaning thing, sylvia joined them too. It was CLEARLY seen that vanessa switched Stefanys words, because thats not what she meant.
@@theyenvynoela1938 yes!!!
Aarliya is the first one needing counseling or therapy. She is bossy; a sign of low self esteem. Her personality is 😊😊😊😊. Irritating. Possibly jealous of Mitchelle. Always on her. Aarliya is a Blacksheep. I am happy mom intervenes but dad gets quiet. I have always said; Mitchelle needs attention. Bullied a lot. Yet she is youngest of the top 5. Very gifted too..Dad always treating the youngest like a pet; ignoring the older of the youngest. ❤❤❤😂.
Absolutely Facts
I agree with what you said about Aaliyah needing more counseling or therapy, But I disagreed with you when you said dad gives more attention to the youngest which is Shasha And Asha yes he does but that is because these two are the babies of the house. I mean you don't expect dad to give the older ones the same attention he gives the young ones because I feel like the older ones will be embarrassed about it and be like "Dad we are not kids", like I don't know if you understand what am trying to say but yea. Also when you said dad ignores the older of the youngest which is Michelle that's not true if you have been watching almost all their videos you will notice that dad and Michelle have a special bond, it's giving that kind of Mother and Son vibe as if maybe he named Michelle after his Mom that's the kind of bond they have and am not saying he named Michelle after his mom because they never said that in any of their videos so I don't know all am saying is he doesn't ignore Michelle is just that as a father he didn't wanna get involved because he knows it's a sibling thing so yea sorry for the long paragraph lol. ❤❤❤❤
Stephanie is an angel. Everyone compliments her kindness and gentleness. Vanessa is a sweetheart.
Aaliyah you do not listen to others and when you do, it’s to respond. The way you attack everyone is very bad. Be mindful of how you treat your family members. You’re right, the truth hurts but being rude, mean and disrespectful to them causes more harm than you can imagine. You do not know what seed you are planting in their minds and hearts by doing that. Respect your elders and protect and care for your little ones. You want them to listen to you and accept your remarks about them while you’re not ready to do the same The world can’t revolve around you, lil sis Come down from your little universe mama
I totally understand and agree! The fact that Michelle literally said “you might hurt my feelings” and Aaliyah didn’t care for it is crazy!! She tries to be right ALL the time but she be wrong! And then Michelle is younger too! It’s just sad… I don’t even treat my siblings like that! YES WE FIGHT! But if I ever hurt there feelings and make them cry I do let them know I’m sorry! I never want my siblings to cry and feel bad because of WHAT I DID! I love them too much 💖 Just care a little more Aaliyah! And try to actually understand……
The Bible doesn’t say piercing and makeup is sin. God gave jewelry but they took what God gave to make idols of it. God is against idolizing jewelry not jewelry itself. Leviticus 19:28 (Amplified) which says, “Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print or tattoo any marks upon you: I am the Lord.” - just wanted to put this verse there.
Says adorn not like the heathen
Aaliyah I know you love your little sister Michelle; however you shut her down as soon as she started to voice her opinion. You shouldn’t dictate how she should feel. Also in my opinion therapy should be private.
Michelle & Stefany are so humble but yet Michelle also has Vanessa’s personality !!
Aaliyah is always against Michelle, always ganging up on her
YESSSSSS!!!! it makes me sooo upset for her
Frr I felt so bad for herr
I’ve noticed that too 🥹 it’s typical of siblings.. I’ve noticed Vanessa and Aaliyah are besties..
Exactly!!! I thought it was only me that noticed 😭
She is mean I don't like her
Guys i felt like Michelle had so much to say but she became intimidated coz of what happened from the start of the conversation Miss Aaliyah u can do better jist knw that i luv u so much❤
Exactly, like I felt so bad for her.
Aaliyah really needs to make a video and apologize to Michelle cuz I'm not even Accepting the fact she didn't let Michelle speak she just lowered Michells self esteem at the very start of the video
I agree with you. Michelle doesn't deserve that. She did nothing wrong too, she was just voicing out her thoughts and I see nothing wrong in that. I just dislike Aaliyah's attitude. She needs to calm down.
@@RubyKnight-hp2js ikr
This is actually very serious
@@NicewallpaperI thought it wasn’t until I watched the beginning around 3:00 😭
12:12
Parents in this family need to take charge of these kids, otherwise things can go awry quickly. Doing chores is a part of life, whether they are busy or not. Mom, why are you still cooking when you have older kids? The older kids should not overpower the younger kids, and their opinions also matter.
Aaliyah needs to be put in her place that smart aleck and fake act won’t get her anywhere especially when your rude to your own blood.
This is pretty strong feedback from your audience . I’ve also noticed brattiness and mean girl attitudes. I didn’t finish watching because of the of Michelle was shut down almost immediately and also, I don’t like seeing the rudeness. Sylvia has picked up a lot of your( Aaliyah and Vanessa’s behaviors ), it’s a shame because the stairs she sometimes gives Michelle is unnecessary. We loooove watching you all , everyone has their own beautiful personality so it doesn’t make sense to me why you have to consistently criticize the younger one (Michelle). Stephanie well done on being graceful and assertive when needed . Vanessa is kind to Michelle especially when they doing pranks together . If they’re not doing a prank it’s “are you okay!?!” “You’re weird” . You guys are influencing your younger siblings , be careful.
Queens family kindly salvage this situation before it gets out of hand and fàns decide to unsubscribe or not watch your videos,you should have a sit down with Aaliya,she is super super rude and so proud, attacking everyone and at the same time defending every wrong she does,she is all over the video does not give opportunity to others to express themselves
Pray Aliyah get understanding of God’s word please put her in a Bible study that’s taught by a Holy Spirit led Believer.
Honestly
Michelle gets more beautiful as she gets older.
Aaliyah is the only one who need therapy
I agree
Lol😂
Honestly
Aliyah when you cook.... You clean that is how it is ❤❤❤ that is how it is. If you can't clean then don't cook❤❤❤❤
Nobody addressed how rude they are to Stephanie in most of their videos especially vanessa.
Those two make Stephanie look so cold and irrelevant😢😢
stephanie is also rude
what aboyt michelle they are soo mean to her and dont let her voice her opinion
@@adoreyyhow is she rude?
@@iyanuoluwaakinfala4928 she can sometimes be controlling and she also is rude to michelle
Aaliyah is so unessasarily rude to Michelle. Someone in the family needs to call he out more. But I do like how Stefany was saying that Aaliyah was rude. We love you Michelle!
God Hates Pride and Aaliyah is a very proud person. She claims to know that she reads the Bible, she should know what the Bible says about proud people. Proverbs 8:13 “To fear the LORD is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behaviour and perverse speech.” Proverbs 11:2 “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” Proverbs 16:5 “The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished.”
Please listen and pay attention respectfully to the opinions of the middle children, especially Michelle. Their inputs can also be beneficial.
Exaclty I relate to mitchell, Am in a family of 10 and My thoughts are never heard, they always gang up on me when i say something/ even a joke, they take soo deeply
Just a reminder when God made us he did not make any mistakes. Our body is the temple of God(We belong to him)If he wanted to add tattoos on us he would of TRUST ME but he didn’t. Thats why sometimes it’s better to be safe than sorry and not do it(because you aren’t sure if it’s a sin or not ) Don’t have the mentality of “oh but its my body” GODS the creator therefore he made it therefore it’s really his, and you belong to him. Don’t make him humble you just saying💗💗🤷🏾♀️
Sylvia lowkey getting disrespectful
She’s always looking over to Aaliyah and Vanessa, it seems she is seeking their validation. She needs to drop it and be herself. I used to think she was a proper sweetheart.
IKR like be urself, why u looking at what vanessa and aaliyah think? she knows that if she goes after aaliyah or vanessa's idea, then she will be ganged up on.
Dad treating the youngest like a doll. Common with old parents with kids as young as Sasha and Asha. ❤❤. Very complex.
I rlly understand how michelle feels nobody gets her
I get her if i were her bestfriend i will make her feel better luv from germany berlin spandau❤❤
Another thing I've seen in this conversation.. Anytime the Dad wants to say something or add into the convo the girls vanessa and aaliyah will shut him down. Thats not supposed to happen at all. Dad should receive his respect. He is the Man of the house. He has authority to speak whenever. He shouldn't be shut down like the way you shut down your siblings. Just another caution I have .
You are so right
Vanessa also saying after doing it you can ask for forgiveness is very wrong because when you know what you’re doing is a sin and you do it and you go ask for forgiveness it’s not heard by God cos already our righteousness is like a filthy rug before God
I love watching your videos and this is actually my first time commenting... I think Stephany's as first born is not respected enough, she grows and turn to be busy as time goes and that shld be sthg that all have to understand. She can't always be spoken to with less respect n disregard. If she is being reproached by her siblings, it shld be in a respectful n polite way... aside that, I love you guys❤. Aaliya please work on your manner of communication toward your siblings especially towards Michelle.
Sylvia has started displaying some unnecessary rudeness recently, it’s quite cringe and sad to see. I hope it’s just a phase she’s going through. As for Aaliyah, she’s just flat out disrespectful. Mum and dad, please address this with her.
Yeah
Exactly silvia is low key rude too especially to Stephanie
@@clarabella1334very very true... How can she be comparing contributions in the house with Stephanie,her BIG sister... Eiiii
I absolutely agree
@@stephanyanning1170 just because Stephanie’s is older doesn’t mean what silvia is saying is wrong
Aliyah should be punished. Michelle was right. Aliyah is always rude to Michelle. Aliyah should leave instead 😢❤
Michael i are loved dont mind Aaliyah if i find u anywhere i would like to spend the day with u❤❤❤ Aaliyah change!! change!! CHANGE! Are u doing buga or what control ur mouth and then her parents will let it slide , embarassing herself on a content Big KAREN on another level
@@GoodnessOgbuanu yass.
@@Joan-cathy... pov: she doesn't acctually read the bible🤣🤣
The truth does hurt but u have to be able to take the truth when it comes to u this is a very good video of my favorite ❤️ family on KZhead because of their honesty and spirituality love ❤️ ya’ll but God loves u more to God be the glory ❤
I love how they was comfortable to come on here and share this important moment with us. Now this is what KZhead should really be about family goals blessings 🎉❤❤❤❤ great video
Daddy and mummy pls focus on Aliyah, she seems like she’s easily influenced which is normal for her age. And children listen to your parents, they know better, when you are older you will appreciate them. I love this family, may God help you ❤
How old is she coz I feel like we have same behavior
I swear when did Silvia have mouth to be talking this one wey Dey always silent like snail
I swear that one too is talking now useless human being dey talk 😅😅😅
@@GraceyGracey-rr2fcfrr
@@GraceyGracey-rr2fcthat’s rude to say
@@GraceyGracey-rr2fc Helppp😭
In my opinion, I think you guys might need therapy, there clearly is some pent-up built-in resentment amongst some of you guys especially regarding the issue of chores. It's common sense for anyone who lives in a house to tidy up their space no matter how busy they claim to be except of course, you are a filthy person. Doing chores should naturally be part of your routine, it is part of life, you must make time for it, it must be prioritised. It's as important as anything or goal one sets their heart to achieve. Another thing is, when you do chores or make any form of contribution in the home, you are not "HELPING" your parents, you are just being a responsible person who values and cherishes their home. It is a part of family values that should be passed on to future generations. If there's someone or persons who are lacking in this area, it should be communicated in the best possible manner. Silvia, I bet there are some things you don't do at all, same with Michelle, Ehrune, Stephanie Vanessa and Aaliyah. Attacking each other in your most natural form "the way you did in this video" could possibly lead to more resentment, hate, disrespect and rudeness. I sense there's been a some sort of resentment from Silvia and Michelle, it showed in the way you spoke to your elder sister, I'm guessing that's why she's being disrespected or disregarded in other videos. It's also important that you guys learn to communicate properly. Emphasize speaking to each other with respect, try not to spew words or communicate in a way that clearly hurts the other person, you'll regret it later (if you have a conscience though). One thing I've observed since watching your videos is that you guys cherish the idea of having a close-knit family so much but you don't put in so much work, it will fall apart if not properly groomed. Stop being resentful towards each other and keep away from harbouring grudges (Vanessa, I heard you say to Stephanie, "I don't want to mention the bad things you do). Aaliyah, your dad is right, since your beliefs are different from his, it's only wise to wait till you leave his house, then you can do what you want. He is the head of his home. You'd have to respect that. Also try to be slow to speak and be quick to listen and understand. Your parents might not have genuine reasons as to why they treat the older ones differently from the younger ones, but I hope they think it through and make the necessary adjustments needed. It's also possible that they could just have realised over the years that some of the things they did to you guys (the older ones) wasn't necessary. They are parents who are flawed because they are human, not angels I applaud the effort of you guys on reading the Bible, but also remember being the doer of the Word is much more crucial than being a hearer only. It is well with you guys.
This was well written and said
Excellent 👌🏽 wow❤
Well written ❤, you have said it all.
Queens family you’re really good together,round table familiale is always necessary to get closer to each other 👏👏👏 But this is for Alliyah as childrend of God my dear l would like to leave with that verse Leviticus 19:27-28 Love you guys ❤
Stephanie is so humble and calme and I don’t like the way Silvia was talking to her. Michelle was respectful that’s her older sister but Silvia needs to chill it’s not that deep. Love your Family
Its Aaliyah U mixed up the people...
@@dancingqueenisthebest4911 both actually but nvm
@@dancingqueenisthebest4911 Its both, Idk if sylvia is trying to get validation from the vanessa and Aaliyah duo thing or something, because when aaliyah was going for michelle, silvia defended aaliyah, and when vanessa and aaliyah were going after stephany bout the housewife thing, sylvia became rude towards stephany.
@@theyenvynoela1938 true
There’s a lot to unravel in this video. I want to say firstly this reminds me of me and my family before we all got married. My dad used to sit us down to do Bible studies and we would discuss certain matters. Which I think is beautiful, thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment with us. I think if you all are having these conversations, it should be done in the intent to get solutions. Therefore, allowing each other to speak. Validate each others feelings and thoughts. Everyone was speaking on top of each other. Even your parents couldn’t speak without being interrupted, which I think is very disrespectful. secondly, reading the Bible is beautiful but we also have to be doers of the word. Your actions, the way you treat one another should demonstrate the Holy Spirit living inside of you. Love is kind, not rude! 1 Corinthians 13 Third, if your parents doesn’t want you to do something he obedient. If you disobey, you are dishonoring God. The Bible gave a command to honor your parents and your days will be long. Aliyah, when you get married you could change your rules. But when you are under your parents roof, you should be obedient even if you disagree. 4) I noticed no one seems to respect Stephanie. She’s the eldest, there should be some respect. Dispute how you feel, you should respect your elders. 5) lastly, family is everything. Love each other deeply, not just in words but in action. Be kind, serve one another, have the heart of Jesus.
Let me first say, I come from a large family of 10 as well. Each child will experience the same parents differently. Your parents grow up, too, so, their parenting changes a bit over time. The older kids from a large family will experience different parenting style, yet, they still love you. Also, some kids are more servers than others, so they will cook and clean differently in the kitchen. So, a cooking and cleaning schedule is a good suggestion. ALSO, a cook should never have to clean the kitchen with a large family like yours. It will bless the cook and those that were served shows appreciation. That’s my unsolicited advice. I love you guys!❤️
Also, still try to clean as you cook.. so if you used a bowl & no longer need it...then wash, dry & put it away....(just a suggestion)..
@@latoniasmith5599 I can tell you from experience, that is a lot of work for one person cooking for a family of 10.
i feel like michelle is always targeted by aaliyah and sometimes everyone.
Exactly especially the pranks even when she dont barely do anything they come for her
@@dancingqueenisthebest4911so true!
THANK YOU
She hasn't prank someone for so long like why AALIYAH
It's true💔💔 thought l was the only one who saw that
Stefanie is the most humble ones
Dad is right, spiritual thinking. Knowledge and understanding not only knowledge
Thank you guys for this concept it’s not easy for all families to sit and have open dialogue without clashing, we’re all learning from your authenticity🙏🏾. You are all very intelligent and wise, if you invite the Holy spirit in, God’s wisdom will guide you in your next sessions give you healing and an unbreakable bond, Bible says in Matthew 18:20. "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, I am there among them"
I love when family sit tog6 share ideas so you can no ever one better I am small family 6 and 3 grandchildren and some time the problem is so big so mom is write about what she say love what you guy is doing Christian read bible and pray is so important you tell do thing alway have something to say God bless you and family ❤❤❤🙏🙏🇯🇲🇯🇲
Ok, I was able to finish the video. Therapy is always a good idea. You actually open up more because you will not be judged. On the other hand, I’ve been watching y’all years. It seems that no one respects the other’s opinions or feelings. Always interrupting, never listening. The saying goes “ you’re listening to respond, not to understand”. If you guys take the time to listen completely without interrupting, you might get a better understanding of what the other person is saying. It’s like if, Stephany says that she feels someone is mean to her. Instead of understanding where that comes from or why she feels that way. The other person will say “ no you’re mean “ or that’s not true, you aren’t perfect “ that’s not solving anything. Until you all learn to respect each opinion. Nothing with change . Also…a sin is a sin period. No, justifying why one is different. Anyhoo, I love this family ❤
Silvia on the other hand agreeing with Aaliyah with how she spoke to😢 Mitchel is not right (weirdos those two S& A)
IKR
Guys take it easy! These are just young beautiful girl and boy navigating through life in a large family. I don't think there's anything wrong here. They could all speak nicer to each other and the eldest sister but let be real most of us sound worse than this in an argument! Cut them some slack. ❤❤❤
Hi queens family my name is cheryl g and I love watching your family I was watching your family therapy today and it kinda made me sad to see you all act like that God blessed you all with a beautiful home and with a family of ten the house should be clean by everyone you shouldn't have to be asked if you see someone's cooking help clean the kitchen think about the homeless people in the world they wish they had a. Home I'm just saying when you count your blessing look around at your family of ten that ten people to love help and heal each other so dont complain about small stuff and keep some thing just for your family because love never fails in jesus name God is love remember that ❤❤❤❤ you all have a blessed day in jesus name plus you have a mom and dad that loves you kids help them out
Aaliayah please be abit nice to Mitchell u hurt her feelings alot I do see
for a moment I thought u were aeron
Look at the profile picture ayo
@@ObvyBella really
I've never commented before but one must understand that as Christians, the greatest in the kingdom is a servant and also I'll suggest both parent do a whole year devotion on the fruit if the spirit. The word says whoever tries to save their life will loose it but whoever loose their life will gain it in christ. Modeling christ comes with walking with the spirit. All I see is everyone trying to save themselves. Nobody is willing to die for their siblings. What happened to the scripture that says love covers multitude of sins. Love each other ooo because you will regret not serving your parent and siblings the christ way of you grow and separate probably after marriage. The way you treat your siblings will even show how you will treat your spouse. Lay down your lives and wash each others feet. Shalom! And mom and dad, God is wisdom, ask him for wisdom to lead even in this season.
Any family has issues. None is perfect. Let us not fool ourselves. Let us be real; including the Queens family. Otherwise some members will suffer in silence in the name of " preserving" peace. The trap is to want to impressing the public; pretend all is well. This family has very strong characters; the top 4; Aarliya; Stephanie , Vanessa and Stlvia. The younger one's like Mitchelle and the only gentleman and younger; if not careful will be trempled in the name of " protection". More so with a large family with grown up kids. At somepoint Mitchelle wisely raised a hand to speak, but no one saw it. Elder sisters were jumping in. The survival of the fitest. Urhune never said a word. Seeking counseling is not a bad idea. The sooner the better.❤😂❤❤😂. Those who are strong charactered may not see the need. ❤❤😂❤❤. Love thus family. Wishing the family well.😢😢😢
Aliyah if you don’t change now life won’t be easy for you and stop being super proud of yourself is not a good thing on you and the way you treat you sister like that she will always find it hard to communicate with u is time for u to change 😢
Aaliyah Vanessa and the forth should at least show Stephanie some elderly respect. To them her opinion doesn’t matter. And dad and mom is right, the last four, from Michelle down, are mature and respectful, keeping calm, allowing their elderly ones, talk when necessary. This therapy session or I don’t know, is just arguments. I thought it was supposed to be for change. By the way, I love you guys videos❤️❤️
Aliyah always meannnnn actually in all videos I have noticed she has to be mean to someone. What's wrong with her??? They need to talk to her to stop. She's toooo much
I dont know how they stand Aaliyah I think Aaliyah should be the one leaving
I think when y’all have these discussions yall should have an object to hold when it’s your turn to talk, if your not holding it then don’t speak, that will control the over talking each other
when alliyah attacked micheal she just kept quiet till the end
Im praying you all keep working together as a strong team (family)🙏🏿💯
Aaliyah is a very proud person, she thinks that she knows everything and until she can become more humble, nothing you guys say to her, will many any sense. Your opinions are never valid to her. People like her only learn from their own mistakes. .
They learn the hard way. Imagine arrogance blended with sheer ignorance
@@Mine_First1 so true
The parents has to be more strict
Thanks to dad Things of the spirit need spiritual understanding and revelation it's not only about context and knowing English, Aliyah you should listen to your parents it'll help you a lot , and also pray for spiritual understanding
I love yall and I want the best for you all. A house wife stay home and take care of the house, cooking,, cleaning, washing close with the help of her children unless mom wants to do it all. Well you have to train up your kids so when they grow up and get their own family they will do the same.
I feel like aliyah is such a mean girl alongside Silvia. Idk y they treat Michelle the way they do. She tries to express her self and they laugh in her face. If they don’t agree w what she was saying they could’ve been respectful abt the way they went around it and more mature like Vanessa and Stephanie. I just feel like as the older sisters they should set an example n nt only in this video. I would be lying if I said I didn’t think they had smthing against her bcuz this were certainly nt the first time.
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She thinks she is perfect she is WRONG SHE SHOULD LEAVE! IF SHE LEAVES I WON'T MISS HER BEING FR
Yooh Aliyah is becoming something else....totally out of line....
At first when I started watching them, I didnt mind and i was actually liking her attitude and everything because it was funny, but then when the video when michelle wore aaliyahs shirt and water dropped onnit, then aailyah made it such a bigdeal and vanessa joined in and started ganging up on michelle til she cried, I felt michelle there and then thats when i really started seeing aaliyah's true traits.
I feel Aaliyah should be open to corrections, she’s very open about how she feels and I love that but she’s not open to corrections even down to the way she corrects others. Ehrune wasn’t given a chance to speak at all which wasn’t nice at all, Just like word the tone and expression you use in conversing with people matters. Christianity is a relationship with God, if you decided to stick with him and follow him you you learn to stand by his word which is the Bible. Again bible verses have deeper meanings to them that’s why you need to ask the Holy Spirit to teach you as you read. If the Bible says tattoo is a sin and instructs we don’t do then as Christians we follow. Remember you body is the temple of the holyspirit and we must treat it as holy down to the acts we do. It doesn’t matter if it’s okay by the world.
These children are so sheltered ,they do not know the value of what their parents are offering... Wait till they start getting married and moving out,and boom! They will realize...I hope the real world does not scare them...May God bless them all.
stefany personality💯
❤❤❤❤ Stephanie,michael,asher,sascha,ehrune . But vanessa ,aaliyah and silvia are just bossy and against michael! Pls michael defend urself!
Vanessa did not even understand what she was saying! Listen to your big sister ! Stephanie is right!!
Hey everyone! I have a suggestion that might make our lives a little easier. How about we get a whiteboard? It could be a great way for us to stay organized and keep track of our plans. Each one of you can take turns going up to the board and writing down what you have planned for the day. For example, I'm Elizabeth, and today I'll be focusing on my homework, running some errands, taking care of the kids, and then I'll have some free time. Mom, you can take a look at the schedule on the board to see who's free and ask for help if needed. It would also be awesome if Mom and Dad could write down a weekly schedule for the whole family. Having everything written on the board would really help us stay on track and keep our family running smoothly. What do you guys think? for everyone doing the tasks, rather they can help mom or not. Each one of you guys should go on the board and write what you have planned. Write: Im Elizabeth will be doing my homework, going to stores, looking after kids, then im free then Mom can look at the schedule see who is free and can ask for help.
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This should definitely be a series!
With viewing this session in my view I don’t really think this was a therapy session but just a platform named “therapy” just to take out opinions and not it really being constructive. But maybe it’s because it’s a first one and as long as everyone loves one another I believe some day a solution will be found. Also having an exterior input can help on how to go about having a family therapy session. All the best💖
These are acctually not hate comments we care for you and your siblings that why we're subscribed but seeing u treat them like that is painful to watch Ive never felt like slapping someone so bad Aaliyah or whatever u need to change before it's too late abeg
I feel y'all dont appreciate your mother , i wish i had a mother like her
i noticed from the video that Aaliyah is very rude, proud, and tries to bring down mitchelle. i really dont understand what it is but sylvia seems to be trying to be among or be rude also like her and for others, some people's voices were barely heard in the video. also, it is very normal to cook and clean. have a blessed day
This kids speaks British English and I’m just noticed it. It’s beautiful, especially silver
A housewife does not get paid ohh. These people don't know what they say😂😂😂😂
Exactly 🤭🤭 I’ve never heard of a housewife that gets paid for taking care of her own household 😂😂Stop it Vanessa!😂😂
@@prettypeyalimon6097 Imagine😢😭😭😭
Love her Sylvia stood up for herself at the end on opinions😂
Just because someone does a sin doesn’t make it right for you to also sin. Stephanie is right just because she has multiple earrings doesn’t make it right for Aaliyah to go and get a tattoo. Stephanie can take her earrings out but you can’t remove a tattoo. When people commit sins this does not give us permission to commit sins we need to realise that if others do wrong doesn’t not mean we have to follow in their wrongdoings. Also if you get a tattoo when you are an unbeliever and then come to Christ your sin is forgiven and if you get a tattoo as a believer knowing that it is wrong your sin is also forgiven but it makes it wrong because you got that tattoo fully knowing that it was wrong.
I agree with Stephanie too, Aaliyah seems lost 😢
@@jocelynVlogs7 likeeee!!!
Tattoo can be removed
@@daisyochieng9627 still a sin