Starting Over Later in Life | Growing Older & Finding Purpose after 40 50 and beyond...
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Finding purpose at any age and reinventing ourselves is scary at any age. But, starting over later in life, after 40, 50, 60, 70 and beyond is entirely possible. Living life without regret! Many of us fail to start anything new because we feel it’s too late to start over. Do we feel it’s too late to start and that we are too old now to even bother! I believe it’s never too late to create your best life and start living it. I achieved success being an artist in my 50s after starting over in my 40s. Whether it’s starting a new hobby, learning how to draw, paint, revisiting an old passion or creating material success, it’s absolutely doable. It’s also very beneficial for our health; physical, mental,spiritual and psychological. Growing older is a gift and can open up time for us to do the things we have always wanted to do, so I say, go for it! Now’s the time! I’m also sharing my own personal story in this video from being a single mum, college and art school later in life and completely restarting my life after 40. Now in my 50s I have created the life I always dreamed of living! It’s by no means perfect and still bumpy at times, but it happened only after I took some risks and took a few leaps of faith! Living life now on my own terms makes me feel truly blessed and I want to inspire and cheer you on to do the same. (Even in the smallest of ways!)
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For anyone who wants to look up Grandma Moses, her real name was Amy Mary Robertson and she began painting at 78! Much loves to you on your own journey! We totes got this! Anddd, thanks for watching my video, means the world to me! xxxx
So inspiring. Thank you, dear Wendy. ❤
I L O V E Grandma Moses. I am fascinated with her style of art and her lifestyle...even when I was a teenager.
You are a Fairy Angel!!
I really like the dress your wearing in the picture. Thanks for the message. Will that picture of the lady with the black background be for sale or note cards? It is lovely.
Yay Grandma Moses is doing the rounds since you mentioned her previously and when I learned about her. Jungle drums within your tribe 🤗
When my mum retired she surprised us all by saying she wanted to return to being an artist. She had never been an artist our whole lives and we asked her "wait, when were you an artist?" And she said, "when I was a little girl". She is now an accomplished and prolific artist and just turned 80.
That's beautiful!
I love this so muchhhh
How inspiring!!!!!
🥺🥺 I love this.
I was having a bad day. Better now😊
"The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second best time is now." A Chinese Proverb
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No time like the present “ here ❤
I have a framed quote in my living room: "It's never too late to become what you might have been." ~ George Eliot
I love quotes and that's an awesome one 😇❤️
Ah yes. Mary Evans AKA George Eliot.
One of my personal favs inspirational quotes! Some say this was actually penned by a woman however due to the time period women weren’t allowed to publish or print so she Georgia Elliot dropped the is in her name and assumed George as her first name as it was a Patriarchal society in her time… I’d like to think this story to this fabulous quote, is accurate:)
I gained my Hons Degree in Arts and Humanities when I was 73- never too late. Still learning every single day ten years later!
Amazing!❤
That is so great! Well done!❤
Jill, I am 72 and have really just began painting seriously 5 years ago! Self taught/youtube artists as well. Not making a living but certainly have sold some pieces. I still need to work a part time job to ensure I can pay my bills and rent. But I do love my retail job in a Summer destination vacation area and get to meet people and bring a bit of Light to each of them as we conversate and share life!
love this thankyou for sharing!!! xxx
So inspiring!!!
I'M NOW 80...BEEN PAINTING SIX YEARS and have gotten pretty good. has been my salvation since hubby passed six years ago. i love art!!!
thanks for sharing that dear Sue, sorry for your loss but glad to hear your salvation has been painting! xxx big loves and go girl!!! xx
Go girl I'm nearly 75 I'm on my own and art is my thing. Love it.
I realized just recently that I would rather have a guitar than a dog or cat. Surprising , but true for me. Bought a parlor sized acoustic guitar just this afternoon, and am still a bit astonished how smoothly my search went. Just thought I’d share my glee with like minded strangers on the internet. 😉
I have been studying Italian at age 52 and I think I am doing well enough. I love learning and the process and gaining wisdom. Avid reader/bookworm. Love life as it's such an adventure. Be blessed all....
I was an artist when I was a little girl ❤but as I got older it faded away then I had 3 children so no time or energy for art of any kind, but now I have time, I sew, crochet, draw/doodle and lots of other crafts I absolutely love it, it is me, I lost my brother, dog & and my my dad within a year of each other and my crafting helped me so very much, by taking me to another place and letting go for a while xxxx❤❤❤❤
Career ending injury in nursing in my 40s. Graduated from law school at 50. Never looked back from re-inventing myself.
Amazing! Where did you go for law school? I am in mid career transition, and exploring options currently
I retired last year at 63 I took up making jewelry, painting and junk journaling I’m so much happier now.
I also retired last year. 63 years old. I like my life much bitter know. But time goes to fast. I like to knit, paint and read. 😄
I'm a 20 year old music student and even I sometimes feel like I started too late. 😅 Love your channel and the wholesome comment section. 💌
Thank you for motivating me once again. My son died in late November, and I have been in a dark hole for a while. Today you spoke to me about allowing some art sunshine back in my life. Thank you.
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@@grizeldaxxx4568 Thank you so much!!🤗
@cynthiapate9138 Sending Love & Light 💛 💫 🌟 🫶
I'm so sorry for you loss. May light and love warm your heart and soul and help you find ease of heart
@@suszc Thank you so much for caring.
My grandmother went back and finished her diploma in her 60’s and marched along side my older brother when he graduated with his regular class. When asked why she actually went back and did so after all those years, she said, “Because you’re never too old to do what you want to do! Don’t you ever let anyone tell you, you can’t do something!!” It was a huge accomplishment for her and she was so proud since she had to leave school in her younger years and spent her whole life raising babies and then just trying to keep afloat since then. Something tells me it was far deeper than that that stopped her from going back until she learned to actually take her own advice and follow it. After she graduated, she got cancer spent the next few years struggling with that and then passed away. I get a lot of my creative talent streak from her and not a day has gone by that I don’t think of her since she passed nearly 15 yrs ago now, but even more so when I’m painting since she gave me so much helpful advice along the way to learn from. I hope that I can take her advice in life and just not ever wait until I’m that old to do something I love/want to do especially since watching her fight in the end taught me that you just don’t always have “some day” to do what you want to.
Bravo!
@@MissX33 good for you!! ❤️
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So very true , you just don’t know 🤷 what is around the corner so one needs to live each day as though you are on borrowed time. & do what sparks Joy & what will ultimately will bring Quality to the life you want for you & those close to you 🙂💓🙏😏 this is the life myself & my husband is thriving for Now
This brought tears to my eyes. How very true, beautiful and sad in the same time.
I went back to school later in life and became a nurse and recently overcame cancer that made me realize how important it is to follow your dreams and don’t settle for anything less than what you want. It’s never too late. ❤
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I agree with you. Trying to beat cancer myself now and a lot of other serious diseases. You get a completely different perspective on life. You realize that life can end quickly and then you want to have made the best of life and fulfilled your dreams. To the extent that I am able and able to, I have started setting aside time every day to work on my goals in order to achieve my dreams before it is too late. ❤
@@marieostberg2499 praying you beat this and get to enjoy life the way you want it. You’ve got this!! Sending strength and good vibes your way. Hang in there and fight like you’ve never fought before ❤️🌹
@@monalisa9598 Thanks. The same. That's exactly what you have to do. fight like you've never fought before.
So many people in the comment section with wonderful “starting over” stories. It’s all very inspiring. 🤗
i know, it's my favourite!!! just having coffee now reading!!! xxx big loves xx
When kids would say to me "I'm not good at it" I would say "you don't have to be good at it, just do it."
I’m 69 years young and just started dabbling in mixed media. I wondered why am I doing this now…at my age…am I to old? I love art so much I find myself moved to tears gazing at different works of art. I’ve woven baskets for years but now I’m gravitating towards doodling, collage, mixed media.
Thx ❤ I needed these words and this video ❤ From Australia 🇦🇺
this can be the richest part of your life!!! im 80...just started art 6 years ago, my passion and salvation:)
I’m 65 and started 4 years ago it’s so relaxing and sometimes frustrating (not gonna lie 😂) but so rewarding xx
I have been an artist on and off for a number of years... mostly fiber arts, but I have always wanted to draw.... so at age 67, I am watching youtube videos and starting to try it out... so far I have drawn 1 eye and a mouth!!!! 😂😂😂 But I am excited to move forward and continue with lessons!!
I became bedridden very ill for 9 years now and I became a painter (surface pattern designer) from bed and all out of physical pain. It was a talk like yours from a therapist that got me into painting and now I am happier than ever. I only wished I knew this was my calling earlier but is ok because now “I melt pain into paint 🥰”. Thank you for your Chanel and for sharing about menopause. It has helped me so so much. 💎🙏🏼
bless you indeed, what courage you have, and I'm so glad you started painting! xxx big loves x
This year I hit 40, left teaching in schools, starting an online business, back to my art, and finally back to writing. I've been late to everything in my life but I'm still alive. Thank you for your loving and encouraging message.
I started painting when I was 61. Now I am 68 and have painted over 300 paintings. I learned by watching tutorials on you tube. I get so much joy when I am painting. You are never too old. My mom was 80 when I bought her her first canvas and paint set and brushes. She is a wonderful painter
I’m 60 this year and I think hitting this age has effected me more than hitting any other age . Time does seem to be running out and all the opportunities I didn’t take up on due to fear are becoming haunting. I’m not sure where I really want to be or go in life now but I am sure fear isn’t going to rob me anymore . Thanks for the encouraging video ❤
Oh my goodness Jackie, I am also hitting 60 this year, in May and it has been hitting me harder than any other age..I am not sure why. I just keep plugging along --I wish you peace and much success in not letting the fear rob you!
@sharb7320 it's strange isn't it here's hoping we both take it in our stride , take care x
I hit 60 in February and it has affected me as well and I had to give up work at 53 due to ill health so I am surprised it did
@loramay21 it's a strange age with lots to think about I hope you are doing well
@@sharb7320i turn 61 yesterday and I remember a year ago I gelt strange yo turn 60! Today I am excited about a new job and other plans I have, but 60 is strange! Is the first year of our third act❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am 71 and painting and drawing. Never too late.
This video just came along at the the right time Iam 50 , I’ve just quit my job after burn out, it’s in the care profession I thought that was my calling but it’s ended up nearly destroying me helping people in massive need after nearly 30 years helping people with mental health problems, the dying , the elderly , people with learning disabilities and I’ve ended up ill . This type of work drains me and Iam done …..thank you Wendy what makes me alive is gardening, floristry , up cycling furniture, interior design , Iam going to go down the creative route .
I feel this.... also working in mental heath, supporting others for the past 20 years - I feel drained and have burned out previously. Like you, I want to live a creative life now for myself and maybe inspiring others. Good luck!! ❤
I’ve also just suffered burnout, nursing was also what I wanted to do as a young child but now…age 58 and having gone through cancer treatment during the pandemic I find the work totally physically and mentally exhausting. I have been attending an art class for two years one day a week which has kept me sane….i retire this year in June and am excited about the future 😊 happy retirement ladies ❤
Thank you for sharing your story ❤Wendy
Thank you all for your care giving. I am a retired nurse. I don't think we have to be just one thing for all our lives...you all did good and benefitted others and it's ok to move on to something else!
Thank you Wendy for sharing your story. I am a Mental Health and Well-Being Counsellor and have just been diagnosed with burnout. I have a passion for art and in a previous life was a qualified landscape designer. I am moved by your story and it has given me a light bulb moment. I am about to turn 60 and I really feel it is time to reinvent myself again authentically and follow my artistic instincts. All the best to you. Much love from Australia.
Grandma Moses became famous in her 80’s after never having painted before… ❤
yes she did, she started painting at 78 I believe and then gained much recognition in her 80s yes. What a story! Amy Mary Robertson was her real name.
Started weaving in my sixties. I’d always wanted to since I was ten. Zero encouragement from family so I never touched it. Saw a young girl here on YT weaving, then an older woman in England teaching how to use a rigid heddle loom. Bought a used loom on Etsy and the rest is history.
o h fabulous! xxxx
I played cello for 2 years in junior high. At 62, I rented and later purchased a cello, the first time having one to play since I was 15. Now at 66 I play in an intergenerational community orchestra and having the time of my life.
How wonderful to express yourself by playing the cello. I love cello music.
I'm 49. I learned to play drums starting at 39 (I got zero support for the desire as a girl growing up in the 80s & 90s) and went on to be in three indie rock bands, played lots of gigs, recorded albums, etc! Yes it was challenging, but also fun, life-changing, and totally worth it -- plus I always knew I could do it/would be good at it, I'd just never had the chance.
I love this. I really admire you for doing this. We all need 'The Beat'! There's a great old pop/rock song that you might know from 1974 called Na Na Na by Cozy Powell. The lyric is simple, but it's all about a young guy wanting to be the drummer "in a rock'n'roll band". I was only 11 or 12 when it was released as a single, but I LOVED dancing to it at church hall discos!
Same here, gonna be 49 next month. Best of luck, joy and blessings to you 🌟
I’ve always felt behind… I never knew what I wanted to do, except be a mum. That didn’t happen until I was 34…. I then did open university and got my degree at 43….. I’m now starting out building my art business at 50…. I feel I’ve come full circle because art was my passion as a child, I was taken over by extreme imposter syndrome and stopped arting for 30 years and now I’m back…. I can’t help but feel I wasted so much time but then I remind myself my journey bought me here.
“..but then I remind myself that my journey brought me here.” Yes, exactly! I think in a way it makes us hungrier. The imposter syndrome is still there but the thought of living with the regret of not trying is worse.
You sound very much like me - was obsessed with finding someone to have children with. I look back sadly at all my unfulfilled potential. Didn't happen until I was 35. Now I'm 54 and my children are in their late teens. I'm now working full time establishing a career for myself.
Yes I felt that too….you go girl. Rock it❤️❤️❤️🎉
Good on you for having a family though. That's a dream I couldn't realise & relate to the sense of wasting time & impostor syndrome. Now I say 'bloom where youre planted' or 'I'm getting ready to be ready'. And appreciate whatever the day brought.
I grew up in Miami, worked as an overseas and high seas operator, then for #1 radio station, moved to Boston, met my husband and raised two sons while working for corporate America, gardened for 50 years and and in my 40's turned my love of the earth into a flower, herb and floral business for 20 years. And at 60, I taught myself to paint and then taught others, have a studio even now. I'm 75 and have always followed my bliss and intuition. We are only limited by our thoughts. Whenever I set out in the direction of what I wanted, things would fall into place. Dream big and just take the first step. Love your channel, Wendy.
I'm 64 and retired. My goal isn't to make a living being an artist but I have always had that internal need to create. I am determined to work at my art every day. I have multiple art journals that I do something in every day if I can. I don't pressure myself but I do track in my planner what I do creatively. Some days its collage, some days sketching, some days just prepping pages with gesso or paint. I also enjoy fussy cutting images for my art journal collage as well as slow stitching. We each have our own art inside of us and it doesn't matter if we ever show anyone or sell anything. We are successfully getting our art out and that is what nurtures our soal. Just create❤
I am 61. I raised 5 children to adults. I love creating art in many forms. It bothers me that I have more years behind me than in front of me.
Sometimes, I feel the same way too, but then I feel grateful that God has has waken me up for another day, month and year to spend time with those I love to be around with.
@@juliairwin4481Amen!
I am 61 raised 4 kids, one has Autism and is still with me though she's 20. I Just left a very abusive husband. We left with nothing. We had to leave everything behind including our pets, and now are starting over. It's not easy.
I just retired and am now engaged in art studies through a private art school. You're never too old for something new.
I will be graduating in December, with my Masters, at 50. I also am going to be taking a van adventure across the US, for 3 months. I am selling most of what I own (Small storage of items) and moving to a new town. Less social media and even being on my phone and having a very productive season of life. Goal is to read 75 books this year, working on my drawing skills, and spending more time in nature. This is just the next year for me. LOL You all inspire me!
I am turning 65 in a matter of months. With my retirement also on the horizon in June as an RN in healthcare and revenue resolution…my focus turns to “remaking myself”. I have fantasized about being an artist. Everything from Art journaling, acrylics, pastels, pen and ink, markers; I’m just a Color Fiend! I believe our only limits to who we are or what we are capable of achieving lies within! If we think we can’t…well then, we won’t. But, if we think we can…We Will! Take a chance is my motto…I Think I Will! Your video was timely and fresh! Love all your videos and your honesty.
I just hit a milestone and signed up for Medicare this past week. Turning 65 in about 12 days, this is hitting me harder than I thought it would. I retired from nursing 2 years ago in May. My body just could not take all the abuse. it was the floor work that was too much for me. I have tons of tools for art and my own room to make a mess, but yet I procrastinate horribly. Sooooo i need a swift kick to get moving!!
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that's my mantra from now on : if you never try you'll never fly. thank you for this!
Wendy, I needed to hear your message today. I’ve always wanted to be a photographer. My difficult childhood caused me to crave stability. I was surprised to get to go to college, so I didn’t want to ‘waste’ my chance. My fear drove me. I always regretted that. Now, I want to go back to school. Pick up that camera, and make it happen. Now my fear is running out of time. Thank you for your message. And, everyone who shared their stories in the comments.
I have been wondering lately what if we didn't know what age we are? We may not put so many constraints on ourselves. I am in college at 58. I went when my children were little but my daughter had asthma and stayed sick all the time. So I quit and finished raising her. Now we are in college together. We only have today we should do what makes us happy. I have learned do today what makes you happy. You are so right we are never too old. Hope you have a wonderful day. Big hugs😊
I totally agree that it's never too late. I've recently sold my first narrowboat and have bought a larger one which needs a total refit. I've always dreamed of 'building' my own home and am in the process of doing just that. When I say what I'm doing, so many people ask me 'but who exactly is doing the work?' and are totally shocked when I say that I am 😊. I'm having a difficult time at work owing to a tryrant of a boss, but am gradually accepting that after 22 years with the same employer it is time to move on, and this can be a positive thing. I'm 46 and would rather look back and think "that didn't quite work" rather than look back and think "what if I had tried/taken that leap of faith". Blessings to you all x❤x
I became totally bedridden in 2020 when I developed severe ME/CFS. My life in the outdoors is gone, and the past four years have been so hard. Trying to find a life within the confines of my bed, trying to still be a mother, and trying to feel like a human again instead of a corpse. I've been exploring art, as it feels like it's all that's left to me. Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤
such challenges for sure I cannot truly fathom tbh, but Frida Kahlo comes to mind, she did so much from her bed... soft hugs for your journey indeed xxxxx
I just wanted to commiserate with you. I too have had ME/CFS for more years than I care to remember. Have you heard of the Mucinex Protocol. Quite a few people have had a little relief from taking Mucinex. The active ingredient in it is Guaifenisin and that seems to be what does the trick. It has helped me to get a few chores done and also with lifting the brain fog. The effects are only temporary although it is an OTC which is convenient. One other drug that has helped me is (prescription) nortriptyline. I balked at it at first due to a bad experience with anti-depressants in the past but I started on 10mg a day and have slowly gone to 20mg to reduce body pain. I don't know if these would help you but I know how ME/CFS devastates your life and even a 5-15% improvement can feel like a huge difference. Anyway, heartfelt sympathy for you and wishing you all the best🙂
I'm in my early sixties and want to make a living from making art. I don't know if this will ever be a reality but I won't give up on my dream even if I dont' make it until I am 90!!! I love your videos Wendy. You are a golden glow in my life. X
yes, never give up , never surrender! xxxxxxx
When her Face Filled out around 4 minutes, it brought tears to my eyes, it moved me. This happens when I draw someone before I paint them.....especially from memory
I’m 70 and love watercolor. I just came upon your video and I just love you. You have such a sweet spirit😊❤
Today, at age 62, I am sitting at a 4-Harness Floor Loom, struggling through the warping process and loving everything about it. I have dreamed of being a weaver since I was a young teenager. How I appreciate your encouragement and your loveliness!
Take each thread as it comes!!
Another weaver here. Isn't it lovely?
@@susanmiller8261 Hi Susan! Yay! How I love being in the company of weavers (and in awe of you!). I finished the dresser scarf and am now onto warping a set of coasters. I would love to hear what you are weaving!
I starting drawing and painting 2 years ago, at age 51. Now I'm addicted and do art daily.
oh wonderful indeed, such a gift to ourselves! xx
I’m 60 years old and so much of my life has been about, “Someday, I’m going to….” Then, one day a few weeks ago, I heard a woman on an exercise video say something to the effect of, “Today is the day you will never be this young again!” It hit me so profoundly! Every day that goes by is gone FOREVER! If you want to do something, try something, just do it, try it!! That beautiful china set that was passed down for generations just packed away in a box, or just shown in a china cabinet, is yours to use and enjoy!! What are you waiting for?? You want to pick up a paint brush and try painting, just do it! Paint carefree, like you are using chalk on the sidewalk! Without any expectations, it can be so liberating!! Enjoy life!! Today!! We don’t know what day God has designed to bring us home!
well said!
Going to be 71 in a couple of months and your video really was so encouraging and needed! Thank you Wendy.💕
I’m 52 and just started writing my first novel. I’m loving the creative process, and I’m in the right phase of my life for it now. I’d never have seen it through before now. Sometimes, serendipity plays its part, it’s never too late as long as you enjoy the journey, that’s often more important than the destination ❤
Recently, I was released from the hospital. During my stay, my vitals plummeted, and I became nonresponsive. Some call it a near-death experience, where I visited a peaceful and beautiful place. The emergency response team brought me back. For a moment, I was highly disappointed to be back. Before this incident, I had a hard time starting at 67 years old to paint again. I originally finished college with an art and creative writing degree many moons ago. Although I follow many artists on KZhead, this is the first time I have felt something on a personal level of my spirit talking to me, through you, about “beginning again” ( And begin again, I will!) Thank you for your energy, inspiration, and, most of all, for giving me hope again.💓💓💓
Didn’t pursue a BA till I was almost 40. Didn’t start / finish my Masters till I was in my mid fifties . Never too late for learning/growing. Thanks for sharing your life with us Wendy 🥰
absolutely agree! go you! xxx
@@theunexpectedgypsy now I’m in my mid 70s and retired and with health issues finding it hard to be/stay motivated. I love creating, but finding even that difficult. Your videos certainly help, always bring back a little enthusiasm and encouragement. Blessings dear Wendy!
I gave up my 25yr fulltime job at 54 to pursue my dream and passion, living on a small farm in Australia and not having a big support circle except my husband and sister, it's scary and I'm still building it up. I look everyday for your next vlog, you are so genuine and humble. You are my support in a place where friends that encourage me are scarce. Thankyou for being my anonymous friend.
❤ Thank you so much, this is just what I needed to hear at 65 🙏🏼 x
I recently moved into a camper and gave up most of my stuff. I once tried painting and didn't feel I was any good at it. Asked my mom if she kept my painting supplies. She did. ❤ Thank you for this video. You inspired me and reminded me how awesome my mom is. ❤
Your videos get my mind out of dark places. Thank you, for being you and sharing bits and pieces of your life with us. I am so grateful to have found your YT channel. 🙏🏻💗
welcome hear dear soul, soft hugs xxx
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I’m 51 and decided to get scuba certified last year. (It was my childhood dream to be a marine biologist.)Now at 51 I desire to learn about spear diving. I studied art for my BFA in my teens & 20’s and my MFA in my 40’s. Now I make art some days at night to relax and because I pivoted to a career in public health, but still carry art in my soul. I always say I’m going to retire and be an old lady who paints and scuba dives into my 80’s. But if I do it right I may not have to wait that long. I used to say It’s never too late all the time. But now that I’m 51 I’m saying it’s never too soon to start living the life you want and need to live from your very soul. Thanks for the encouragement and focus on the older ladies who know that growing never has to stop❤
"Self-care to the max" -- agreed!💖
This couldn't have been a better-timed video! 41 here and am trying to reset myself career-wise, learn new skills, take up new hobbies, enroll in several uni courses to earn new qualifications, and move to what I hope will be my dream home! Thank you for the inspiration Wendy, and you're right, it's really NEVER too late! x
Life is love seeking expression. The form it takes is immaterial, it’s what brings YOU joy. Your work is beautiful, thank you for being you.
I've always believed....IF YOU FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS ❤ THEY WILL AKWAYS TAKE YOU TO WHERE YOU NEED TO BE. ❤ BELIVE IN YOURSELF. Kind of my mantra I'm 61 soon & finally have time to.... FLY & FIND MY WINGS. FOLLOWING MY DREAMS. Thank you for sharing this insight. You are so inspiring. 💖🌟
I'm 60 years old and i began to paint with watercolor in january of this year and i'm so happy. I had already learn so much an began to follow so amazing artists on youtube or instagram ! Life is wonderfull !
Hi Wendy! Your discussionn in this video really hit home with me. I had a similar experience---married in my earlier 20s, had a child, became divorced and received no child support. Eventually made my way through college (BFA) and was hired right out of college as an illustrator and graphic designer (then art director) until the recession hit. We all lost our jobs as the company eventually closed. I had some very lean years, trying to figure out what to do next. I've been working a steady job (unrelated to art) for almost 10 years. It pays the bills, but is not in the least a creative job. I finally picked up my paints and brushes recently, but it IS a learning curve, and feel extremely frustrated sometimes (I am now mid-60s)---but I keep plugging away when I feel the urge to learn and be creative again. I do love your videos, your honesty, and your perseverence and encouragement. Thank you for giving me a push to continue on with my love of making art.
Where do I find friends like you? You are a gem! 💝
I totally agree that it is never too late to learn. At the age of 45 I studied at university part time whilst still working full time ( and family commitments) and moved into lecturing . I loved learning much more than when I was younger so was more focused on. On retiring I learnt ballet, taught myself to swim and am now selling my new hobby of felting / art at the age of 69! While you are healthy ……..and able…… just do it! I am loving having time now for me. It keeps me happy . Thanks Wendy for your wise words. So true. Xx
Thanks for the encouragement, Wendy! I'm 60 and I have put my art on hold. What am I waiting for?? My word for this year is BRAVE, so I better get started.
I echo that! Good luck ❤
Wendy what a wonderful inspiration you are. I always feel energized when I watch your videos. I’m in my 60’s retired and have picked back up on painting. It has really helped my mental health. It’s my ultimate happy place. Thank you for all your valuable advise. Hugs
I’m a quilter & at almost 75 still love it. Also still love cooking every day! It’s all my creative outlets
Sounds beautiful! You know I actually thought you wrote: I'm a quitter 😅.
Me too!
No a QUILTER!!
Wendy, I found you on KZhead when I was 72........now approaching 76! I was in need of emotional expression & you introduced me to journaling . I have never looked back. I don't want to be a commercial artist in any way, however I do want to be a 'rounded' human being. Thank you for your presence in the world brightly shining, illuminating the way. 😍
I am one of those people who just happened to click on this video today when KZhead suggested it. I so needed to hear this, at 53 I went back to work when my husband lost his job. Before that I had written a series of books (my true passion) which were successful enough to keep me going for quite a long time, but I needed something more secure when we lost my husband's income. I'm working as a legal assistant now, and finding it hard to make time for my writing anymore. Your words have inspired me to get focussed again and stop using work as an excuse to not write. I only feel half alive when I'm not writing and the feeling I get from it is more than reason enough to do it.
oh yes, this makes me happy, just a little something is enough to get started! xx
Thank you for the pep talk. I can always count on you to keep me moving towards my dream. In Peace, Sarah
The good stuff happens outside our comfort zone 💫
Great talk. I retired finally at 65 and haven't looked back and I have no one to look after, just myself. I am so thankful that I never lost my artistic ability learning and now I'm just learning like crazy and enjoying myself and staying focused on enjoying myself...not selling my heart but enjoying myself. if selling combs.. thank God, but still that's not my focus. It's enjoying the gift of art and hope it make the world a more beautiful place. I'll be 67 in June 14th yay. Never to late.❤
Your videos make me feel so good Wendy..when I’m in my studio I purposely binge on them while creating. It’s the perfect atmosphere for me to just be me and create from a more loving place instead of a judgy place, if that makes sense. I’m 64, so this was exactly the medicine I needed. Blessings to you and James and have a wonderful rest of your Sunday❤
Wonderful inspirational video Wendy.❤ I recently, at the age of 51, took up roller skating. I have not done it since I was 11 and it is scary but it is also so much fun. I wear wrist guards and pads to keep me old bones safe...😂🤣...but I feel 11 again and such a feeling of being free.....😀....I agree Wendy , you are never too old...
I follow an English artist based in New Zealand called Doreen MacNeil. She’s very successful as an artist and is in her 80’s. Inspirational!❤
Yes! I love her work!
Thanks for the uplifting message. I'm turning sixty this summer. Nice to hear I'm not going to be a potted plant:))
At near 60, I learned to play guitar, harmonica and to sing, at 62, I'm the front man of a Neil Young Tribute band. It's never, ever too late, unless we want it to be too late. In my wildest dreams, I never thought my life path would wind up as a rocker singer, guitar player..I've had a tremendous amount of support to help make it happen..
Wow, that's amazing!!
@@catsrus2890 thanx, it wasn't easy..
I love the story of your life. I am 49 and I have one more semester until I graduate with the psychology degree I have always wanted. Thank you for your needed message!
🪶🐿🦋🍀🌱🌿🫖☕🍵🥧🕯📓🖋🫂💖I am 46 and i have never felt like i could keep up with where anyone else seem to go,so i just follow my own pace even if people dont always understand my journey in life🥰😉But thats ok!!! Sending you and James the warmest of hugs
Wendy my dear, thank you for the heartfelt and oh so true video! I think there are many of us who had to set aside the dream of being an artist at least for a time. For me it was 23 years! Coming back to my art has brought me so much joy, not to say it's always easy, sometimes it's a struggle but it fills the hole in my soul. I always say being an artist is not only what we do, it's who we are. Now I truly feel like the whole me again. 🥰
I went back to school to do Visual Arts when I was sixty six and have never been sorry. I was a fantastic year, I was still working as well so it was super full on.
Thanks for the pep talk Ms.Wendy; I needed to hear this at 69....we all need to end our life story with our own fairy tale!Good luck everyone!❤
I love that. That's how I feel at 71. I want an end of life adventure. Our minds don't grow old. 😊
What a delight to find you! I "accidentally" starting learning how to draw and a bit of painting as I turned 70 yo. Now, it is part of my Meditation Drawing and their Meditations. I am grateful to know how to be a beginner, especially after teaching so many adult beginners in music.
Oh Wendy, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this today. I have always been a late starter at everything but have only fairly recently, in my 60's, taken up art as a complete beginner. And I've been having a real crisis of confidence about whether I've left it all too late! I've saved this video so I can watch it again (and again!) as there is so much in it for me. Thank you, you lovely person xx
Your messages are always so well timed, dear Wendy! You are magical and I'm proud to be part of your "tribe". ✨
You made me cry. Everything you talked about is what I am going through right now. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
soft hugs xx
Thank you for your beautiful inspiration. I needed it so much. I have just been hurt and attacked by someone I thought was a friend and here you were to tell me to stay strong and all will be well by setting such a brilliant positive example. Thank you so much. 🌸🎈
you got this!! xxx
Great video I am 67 i love Drawing i started an art journal I love it i knit make dolls and now looking at art quilting and teaching myself to crochet i love my retirement its fab long walks i live near the sea i tell older folk get out there and enjoy your days and do lovely up lifting things.
I loved this video and agree with everything you said. My 20s to 30s were spent bringing up my 6 children. At the age of 40 I'd completed a BA Hons in Literature and Art History with the Open University. I then completed a PGCE and worked in Primary teaching for 13 years. I've since retired and at the age of 61 I have written 3 novel and have a number of projects on the go. I love learning new skills--and creativity. Thank you for sharing.
you look fantastic for your age, thank you for your videos
I'm almost 55!! I totally adore your videos and this one has really helped me so much! Love and light to you!
Thank you so much for this Wendy. I’m 74 and started painting at the beginning of the pandemic. I started painting with acrylics on rocks first and after a hundred or more rocks decided to try on canvas. I have mentioned before that I am a musician, singer, songwriter having started playing in my teens and writing in my 20’s. I still do music but have found so much peace in painting. I have learned so much in these 4 years and have so much more to learn. I may never sell my work, but that’s ok. You are such an inspiration and a wonderful teacher. Blessings and much love to you and James and again thank you for posting such wonderful videos.
beautiful story thanks so much for sharing xxx you also are an inspiration, keep shining out there xxxxxxxx
I’ve just handed my notice in after teaching primary school children for over 25 years. I did this to free my soul… I’ve got an art degree too… I’d love a job where my creativity runs free ❤️
The ladies in your paintings exude such soulfulness. I am so in awe of your creativity Wendy
I am 'only' 40 years old, but can relate. I was too frozen to ever act on my desire to be more creative. But about two years ago I sporadiccally started to play a little. And sometimes something beautiful comes out of that. It's of the best feelings I've experienced.. thank you for your video ❤
lovely to see you so creative again ☺you always bring inspiration and authenticity from an open heart thank you x
Well im a “retired” priest and have returned to my painting im 78! - i love painting and find doing landscapes and wildflowers and my work js now professional grade And want to sell more via social media. I only paint what I really love- its all a joy break!
Just turned 44yo & starting over with a 5yo. With building startups and homeschooling so we can spon be worldschooling.....Lovely to see your video. THANK YOU ❤
Thank you for this video. I am a 35 years old part time Artist and I already feel like I am way behind in life and will not be able to accomplish my dream of being a full time artist. Seeing your video and the comments from everyone motivated me to continue producing more artworks. Thank you again!😊
Perhaps think of "hobbies" as side quests. That's what I do now.
I’m a young 71, and recently started making art again, deciding to give myself over to it. I’m struggling with finding my rhythm for production, having raised a family. Home and dogs will need adjusting, but I’m digging in. Thanks for the lift! I really enjoy your videos and your perspectives. 🌹