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Worst feeling : being in a group of friends, but you’re not really IN that group of friends
not all like me in that group and i know they’re stuck w/ me
This hit different
yea, i just moved to a new school and i made friends but i’m not really part of the group. it hurts.
@@starlydw I feel your pain. it feels so uncomfortable and awkward and depressing
@@seulxejn1851 same 😶
When i realise i am no one's priority i am just one of their options
That's deep. It can be both a blessing and a curse. The biggest thing i think, is you should talk it out with them. I know this is a difficult thing to ask ( could hardly do it) but communication helps a lot. Even if it is scary. And maybe, you are someone's priority and you just dont know it. Maybe it's in a distant way. If it turns out that no one makes you their priority, you just havent found the right people. They're out there, somewhere, in some way shape or form. It took me 3 years to discover this person and it was in someone I didnt even consider it could be. THere is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise. You just have to keep chasing after it.
also have a nice day :)
Stay strong!
Damn
WOW this is absolutely my life.. like you’re never choice 1
4:21 Grandpa: “I don’t remember the loneliest I’ve ever felt” GrandSon: “You can just say it”. Grandpa: “Getting divorced. Grandson: “Yes!” Grandpa:“That’s the loneliest I’ve ever felt.” Grandpa: “That’s is true.” Kids pay attentions, they observe us. He knew how his Grandpa felt all these years. That’s so pure.
Yes, so amazing. That kid KNEW. You could hear it in his responses to the questions themselves.
Kids are smart. Sometimes adults forget that children understand more than we think
Idk, I thought it was a bit sad too that he knew so much. That kid was really young. Breaks my heart for them both.
The sweet grandson struck me as an old soul who was there specifically to connect with this man.
Kids are really intuitive and observate a lot peoples behaviour, they are extremely good at detecting feelings and toughts. They also copy adults so they tend to lose that ability with the time :/
The girl who’s ex killed himself after they broke up, I feel so bad for her. I hope she doesn’t carry guilt.
Isn't it crazy how these are all random people? It goes to show how much baggage everyone walks around with and nobody knows. Always be kind. You never know what someone's holding in their heart.
sonder- The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own
♥️✨😞🥺
Yup...
❤
I knoww! This is why we shouldn't judge people for how they are or seemed to be, it could be because of what they're going through!
I like being alone but I don't like feeling lonely.
Same here.
Same
You are lucky dear
Sameeeee
Same
Not me, laying in bed at midnight and crying because I can feel every one of these people.
u okay? how are u doing now
SAME I'm hugging my seal aswell 😭😭
Relatable
Same 1.43 AM
@@teres1263 1:39 AM.. 😞
Nobody asked me but the loneliest I've ever felt is when my best friend and ex boyfriend left me when I went into psychiatric hospital because I had a mental breakdown. The pain was real. I adopted a puppy after the incident wich is one of my best desicions.PS:this is my dog in the profile picture.
💖
Give him a treat for me, hope you're doing well
Hope you are doing good
Your dog is so cute. Can you hug him for me? 😊 (seriously 😅) And you are so strong, dont be sad or feel lonely. İf they left you while you were having bad times, this is their fault. You are so strong and pls stay like that ❣️ I love you 💙
@@Aaleynaa34 Thank you ❤️
“When I see people connecting on a deep level”.... same friend, same. *HUG*
Same ❤️
same
Same here, the fact that there’s nobody I can talk to when I’m feeling sad or something hurts
Same
Same
The grandkid was so honest in the back, lowkey wonder if you could interview children to ask about what their hopes are. The childlike wonder is what I miss...
I hope this goes through...would be very refreshing and probably emotional too
i would love to watch that
@soap duckling sure! Every idea comes from somewhere
Yesss! Great suggestion.
As adults we tend to overlook how much children notice, see and absorb. I love how bold and honest children are and this is a great idea.
I felt the girl who talked about not being able to connect with people on a deeper more personal level. I feel like I've lived my entire life like that, and it just feels so fucking lonely. My heart goes out to that girl, that deeper type of connection is something I yearn for. It sucks when you feel like you never have a shoulder to cry on, someone to turn to, or someone to share small moments with.
Hi Grim. I feel you. I'm the same. It does feel incredibly lonely. Then there are the 'I wish...'
Relateee
@@roxana4218 My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find a cure for the loneliness and lack of connection one day. It's a rough place to be and I believe everyone deserves that deeper connection in life.
@@Gloroxsocks It's a mood foreal lol. Much love to you, hope you find it one day.
I honestly feel the same. To have so many people you talk to but have no one that you can connect on a deeper level... its so fucking lonely. and a lot of it I think is that im also afraid to lean on someone sometimes to have that deeper connection but over use it so much that i end up loosing them... I dont know
That man's grandson was the best accountability coach I have ever seen. He makes you own your stuff and doesn't let you delude yourself. He was awesome and absolutely adorable. Well done young man!
A bright spark
Loved him ^^ he must be so fun talking to😂
Next maybe you should do “who impacted your life the most”
Or, “why’d I unprivate my videos”
Agreed. Good && Bad tho...👍👎
YESSSS
or what impacted it the most
Yesss
"You can say it" "Getting divorced." "YES."
Like that dude too)
There's something amazing about that little dude, he's brilliant
Yes yes yes!!! I love the honesty in children! (Most of the time lol)
Yeah, that kid was SO cool. And most likely hit the nail on the head too! That grandfather looked about my age and I have no kids.......... and the realization that life has officially passed me by, kinda stings a bit. :-(
In the Boomer years divorce was just no big deal, even passe'. It was the worst, most destructive, shameful thing I've ever done. Divorce is like a Category 4 tornado, wreaking a wide, even unknown path of destruction across persons' lives, and the world.
The night I left my ex-husband for abusing me after 14 years of marriage. I was lying in bed in a woman's shelter and I was so alone but I was free!
❤️
You seem to be very happy now and that gives me peace. I hope you'll always continue to be strong, you went through a lot ❤️
I can definitely relate. I left after 10 years, and I remember crying myself to sleep for so many nights in the shelter.
🧡
So glad you saw ur worth. You are strong and beautiful. See life now in a different light
Worst feeling: Sitting alone in your flat knowing that you have no-one.
I hope you find someone...
Well, look there is someone just like u miles away
Have you ever lied? Stolen? Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d') Dishonored your mother or father? If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth. (By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!) But! There's good news! In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now. We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross! John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'" Jesus Christ is who he says he is. He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath. Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God. Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone. If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell. Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.
Stay strong
You DO have someone..
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." - R. Williams
True
omg...so true!
Damn.
So very true
True
The scene with the grandson knowing exactly when the loneliest time of his grandpa was, and being able to name it specifically shows me how much they already understand even if we might think otherwise
That part. Their bond is beautiful
@Barbara Van der Westhuizen I promise If I ever have children and grandchildren I´ll give them all care and love as they deserve to
Oh yes, i was really surprised too
Right? Fascinating.
That’s cute
The loneliest moment I've ever felt when I really wanted someone to hold me when I was struggling with myself but no one was there. It's a feeling like you have been hiding in a dark corner and nobody even notices that you aren't there with them anymore. Now, when people try to come to reach out to me, I push them away because now I can't even believe that I deserve that kind of affection and attention.
I'm so sorry you feel this way...
You see, this video itself has so many random people with broken stories. And u have one too. Don't abandon affection and love. Give yourself a chance. Don't be so hard on yourself. Broken crayons still color. God loves you❤️
I can relate i guesss...but i hope i didn't make anyone feel that wayy....im really scared of making someone feel that wayyy
Have you ever lied? Stolen? Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d') Dishonored your mother or father? If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth. (By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!) But! There's good news! In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now. We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross! John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'" Jesus Christ is who he says he is. He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath. Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God. Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone. If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell. Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.
Same
“Loneliness...loving somebody and not having them there.” it hit me so hard
Me too , I miss my father.
The loneliest feeling is being with a group of friends and being ignored
That’s Being around not real friends
that's hurt!!
Same here,
I felt this so hard
I feel that. And applaude me for leaving them. ✌️
Every person has their own story. Be kind. Always.
❤
💗
💛
True ❤️
That is exactly what I tell myself every morning..
The most loneliest feel is when i see others have basic conversation with their parents.
I have felt lonely my whole life, and still do. Even with so many people around me. Even with people that say they “care “ about me. Actions speak louder than words.
I feel that, I'm sorry
@@sandrakagwiria2231 I literally feel like giving up at any second.
@@Prankles369 yet you're still here. We're both in the same boat. Remember that when things get tough it's almost never for no reason. A lot of times you need to get over obstacles in order to reach something bigger and no fulfilling. You can be near the peak of the mountain and not even know it.
@@Prankles369 and just to be clear, I may say it mostly out of blind faith, but I don't believe in a defeatist mentality. Hold on to what keeps you going. You can't have good things in life if you don't live in the first place, and even if it does seem meaningless (which it might be) it just means you live in a sandbox game. Create your own meaning. Do what makes you truly happy because life is too short to have regrets.
“Actions speak louder than words “❤️❤️
There's 7 billion of us and then we still have lonely people.
Almost 8 billion now
single since 3 years
@@giulietta-1555 lonely isn't only about dating. it's about when you feel like you got no one to talk to, no friends, no family, no one who understand you. etc
Unrelated but hey you're Namibian
@@laviniashiponeni1 I'm from Uganda.
it breaks my heart that there are so many lonely people in the world. 7 billion lonely souls just looking for a connection.
Hi can we share whatsapp number for chat wit
Liv, do you smoke marijuana? Do you know something about marijuana? I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. What to do?
And wonder why is so hard to connect when so many people want to connect? Idk I mostly find people that feel like me ok internet but not so much in real life. Maybe people in real life don’t express their need for connection enough?
@@veterpierinna I think you're right. I rarely talk about my need for connection in person. It's like we're all scared of other people thinking we're lonely
"Loneliness comes from love. Loving somebody and not having them there."
Can we just appreciate the kiddo for recognizing someone else’s feelings. The kid almost said it for him!! Kids are SO important!!!! 💜
"I'm pretty much lonely everyday... like there's people but I just can't connect to them..."
CONNECT WITH YOURSELF FIRST AND KNOW WHO YOU ARE Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.
Hi can we share whatsapp number for
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Felt🥺
I felt that
The little boy helping his Grandad lol.
Grandad: uh... Grandkid: tell her how lonely you were when you got divorced!! Yeah!!!
How wonderful grandpa has such a great relationship with his grandson.
I bet he was that kid he told all his business to because he couldn’t talk. Now look at him telling all his business lol
I remember in year 4 or 5 I lost all my friends and on this one day I was sitting on the play ground watching the other people, and I was crying, my teacher came up to me and asked if I was okay. I asked to call my mum and she said okay I called my mum and she said "what's wrong now?" And I told her that I was sad and I didn't really have any friends, she just said "stop being a baby and get back to doing ur school work" and it hurt alot because my mum was the person I would go to when I was sad or if I needed someone. 4 years later, i still remember it and I've never asked my mum to comfort me or anything if I was sad. 😪
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's so sad that your mum couldn't show any empathy in that situation. I feel you and I wish you lots of people in your life who actually listen and connect to you.
For the last 4 years I have Isolated myself. There was not a single person that I felt connected with so I cut up my ties to everyone (except my father and sister because I couldn't even if I wanted to). It was probably a mistake because I had such immensely negative thoughts that I just couldn't bare myself anymore. But when corona hit and quarantine happened I was forced to live with my father who made me feel more and more lonely each day. So I just gave up on humans pretty much and shut myself in my room, completely detached from the world (I don't even talk to father) and devoted myself to creativity, philosophy and books, hoping one day my dreams will come true and I will meet people I connect with. in this world. Until then my creativity and books will be my only friend and lover.
You could also do "what do you need to hear from another person right now?"
i love u . thats what i needa hear🧚
Omg....yes!
Everything is going to be fine-that’s what I need to hear rn 🙁
Yessssss! This would be a really good one!
@@scarlethmejia4615 honey, I promise you, everything will be fine. Whatever is going on will get better and you will be okay.
The loneliest i ever felt was now. I have no friends
Same girl
this is a bit late but I want to be your friend!!!
Hey are you okay? I can be your friend
I feel this way x
Me too. And when i say no friends i mean it. I only talk to my parents and text one of my old friends which happens rarely
I just want to hug everyone 😔❤️
The girl who said it’s just how things work out being alone all the time. I feel that. I didn’t choose this life it chose me but I make the best of it.
When I was sexually assaulted and beaten up by a stranger who broke into my parents home. Loneliest feeling ever knowing no one you knew understood.
I’m so sorry 💚 I hope you’ve healed sending you love
I'm so sorry you went through this
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I have no words except to say I'm sending you all my love and support so stay strong 💕💖💝🌹🌺💚💞❤
Am really sorry u had to go thru that..u are very strong and plz stay strong things will get better
@@imaway4266 wtf is wrong with you? Were u there? How do u know? 🤨🤨
It’s crazy how many people are hurting nowadays. 🥺 If you’re reading this ... it’ll get better. You’ll be happy again. ❤️
This is so nice to read. I am feeling lonely almost every day because my boyfriend is mentally abusing me, he never hit me but he swears every time that he will do it. I just don't know how to accept that the person he is now is never going to be the man I fell in love it. It destroys me, I just want to know what being happy feels like. I want for everyone to be happy, and to be aware how valuable they are. I don't know anyone here but I am sending love ❤
I am so sorry you're going through this right now. May I ask why you are still with him?
You too🙏🏾
thanks for your message, I really needed that. wish you the best!
@@Idomanaio I really don't know, I lost myself to the point where I started believing that he is right when he says that I don't deserve better or that I can't find better. I know that I can but I am just so tired of trying to be brave enough to walk away because I always fail he always makes me feel sorry for him in stead of being sorry for myself. I grew up thinking that l'll fall in love with someone and be happy and that if I do good it will also be returned but no. Life isn't like that. You won't get always what you deserve. And you won't find someone easily who would be ready to live his life till the end with you. So here I am praying that one day I'll love myself and that I'll be smilling with someone who truly loves me. Everything I wish for myself I wish for all of you beautiful souls ❣
OMG you have no idea how powerful this video is.... There's not an english word to describe how good this channel is... Why can't she win an OSCAR for spreading healing in a pain ravaged world? She deserves it tbh...
This year after my break up, I’ve been feeling really lonely and spend a lot weeks by myself. I live in a different state from my family so I always feel bad about expressing my sadness to them. I feel like a burden so I tried talking with my roommates (who were friends before we moved in), and I shared how numb i felt, sadness, and about a friend who got in a car accident. After I stopped talking, It was dead silent for a long time. Then they just moved on from the conversation like I never said a word. That was extremely isolating and the moment I realized they weren’t my friends anymore.
Nowadays every single friend like this.
Felt like this a few days ago.. it hurts...like oxygen stopped passing through my heart.
Im sorry for this 😞
That one kid saying 'You can just say it' about the divorce is so pure... He knows what was going on and don't want his dad to lie just bc he is so young... my heart melted and ached at the same time
Happened to me. And the family acted like we didnt know what was going on. Lol stupid adults.
Its his grandad. Very compationate kid.
"Loneliness is the absence of the other. Aloneness is the presence of oneself." -Osho The Discipline of Transcendence
Preach 🙏🏽💯
True
I can say without of doubt that I feel the same as many people in this video do. Loneliness can be from just not having friends, or family. It can be from having both and not having anyone understand you. There are simply instances in our lives where we simply feel alone. There is also many of us, including myself, that cannot make friends easily due to being introverted or having bad anxiety. We all have different experiences, and this video shows all these different people's experiences. I can say that the loneliest I have felt is every day when I wake up to when I go to bed. I wake up thinking what is the point, I do the same thing every day, I eat the same things every day and every day I am alone. I do not have friends, I have family, but I cannot visit them all the time. Some people find it that loneliness stems from not having a partner, but I feel it is not having friends by your side or at least someone other than family that care for you. I know I should not be expressing my feelings and thoughts for people to see on the internet because who cares about me, a nobody that simply feels alone and has felt alone for years now. I’ll delete this later but for the time I put this out I hope someone knows that they aren’t alone in the way they feel.
As an adult, I never feel lonely. I love being alone. But it doesn't come from a good place. I felt extremely lonely as a child when my mother constantly screamed at me and others, curse me out, call me names. The relatives and my dad just watched and let her rage. There's always a sense of humiliation when you're being abused, so I just filled up with shame, I was so afraid of someone of my friends finding out about how my mother 8s and how she treated me... So I hid my pain. That was lonely. That ked to disliking people and relating people with hurt and pain. So I love being alone. I love animals. I'm not fond of people.
Am I the only one who feel lonely even though i have a complete family, friends, you know? Unreal but true
It happens.. i feel the same
That was totally me before I reached out to my now bestie- I had admired her courage and participation in class, and it turns out she thought the same about me. Just remember that you're not alone in your suffering, and I'm sending virtual hugs your way!
Same🙃
I feel the same everyday
NO YOUR NOT, THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING LONELY AND BEING ALONE. BEING ALONE IS FINE, BUT SOMETIMES WE CAN FEEL THE LONLIEST IN A ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE.
“No matter who you try to explain something to, that nobody will understand what you’re saying” felt that.
Because of the mask?
me too tbh
The loneliest I’ve felt is when my boyfriend broke up with me. During that time, my family didn’t even hug me or anything. They were complaining that I was blowing up his phone too much because I jus wanted attention but he didn’t love me tho. That was the most loneliness and darkest day of my life.
Being alone in a emergency room being told you just lost your baby. That's a feeling of loneliness that will haunt you for the rest of your life.
I'm sorry you have to go through this stay strong love we all are here for you....wish you all the peace of mind and infinity love and support
I am sorry for you, sending you hugs ❤️ I hope and wish you are feeling better
Being given a cancer diagnosed on your own, knowing you will go through surgery, radiation etc. on your own.. still I came out other side
To the first girl, who says she feels lonely when no one understands her that deeply, I understand you. To love someone and not have them there, like you said, is very lonely. I know how you feel
@@jayms06 me too, bro
@@jayms06 aww I’m sorry *hug* what happened?
@@jayms06 I bet you she does care. If you were close before, then some part of her still cares. Maybe she’s going through a lot right now, and doesn’t know how to talk about it. Over the years, I’ve had friends come and go. When someone was a very good friend, and I got back into contact with them, years after we drifted apart, our friendship lives again. I don’t know what happened with your friend, but I bet you will hear from her one day
@@jayms06 💜 you matter
@@jayms06 it really sucks though, and I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m sorry you’re lonely. It isn’t right that she’s ignoring you
the girl whose ex-boyfriend committed suicide, my heart really goes out to her. the fact that not one single friend put their pride aside to be there for her seems painful. I can't imagine. that's a lot of loss for one person to handle.
My thoughts exactly.
I'm lonely almost everyday.... Coping with my depression and anxiety alone it's scary..... And I'm socially awkward person so ya I'm invisible too.
Most peeps too busy with their own lives to acknowledge others
When your childhood bestfriend starts ignoring you without giving any explanation n have choosen bf over your friendship :-I
this might sound selfish but I feel the most lonely when I’m surrounded by people, but they’re not who I want to be surrounded by, does that make sense? Sometimes I just crave the presence of a certain someone but I don’t have them around or with me.
I get that. I’d love to have a close group of friends but I don’t, and makes me so sad to see people talking and chatting and getting along when I’m just sat there just hoping to be included in the conversation
Yeah because you don’t connect with the people you are surrounded. Makes total sense. I feel good with people that I connect with. But when I’m surrounded by other people i prefer to be alone and feel alone with them.
I can relate, it's rlly sucks.
Yeah, that's me.
I moved from Brazil to the US when I was in middle school and left all my friends behind. I also disconnected a little bit with my mom, who moved with me, for some reason. So I lived with my mom and my stepfather and saw people at school, but they weren't who I wanted to be with. I wanted to be with my friends and with the rest of my family in Brazil. That was the most lonely I have ever felt.
I think I'm at my loneliness right now, I don't have someone to just laugh with right now
I am with you dear
;_; Do you have any pets or maybe you go out into city and tell somebody and ask if they wanna spent good time with you. I spend lots of time with "strangers." Strangers are friends you do not know already. :-)
do you have any hobbies?
How are you feeling now? I hope you feel better, I wish I could help you
@@reijanecosta4551 I think I've been feeling better since I commented, I think quarintine is making lots of people feel alone so there's not much people can do :(
0:19 spot on. Whenever loneliness is described as not having people around I never relate because I only feel lonely when I'm around people but it feels like I'm not being seen for who I am. They are talking AT a projection of who they think I am and not making space to listen.
Its just soooo heartbreaking seeing people with so much love in their heart to give but not having anyone to give that to or anyone to reciprocate that feeling
It’s hard when you feel alone while being in a whole bunch of people. You have conversations, but they are blank and hollow...you act as though you have the best companions ever, but you never find the connection you seek. Your words go unheard, sometimes insulted...you approach people unaware of their inner constitution but ultimately never find what you seek, inspite of maybe the seemingly strong connection you thought you were forming. It feels as though you’re...you’re just not good enough...you’re a failure...feel like you don’t deserve the world, or it’s love. Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile and get through it. And, when you look around, there’s no one you can talk about it to. It hurts. Edit: Listen y’all, I am not editing to thank for those likes. I am thanking you for sharing your own little bits under this comment. Believe me, it did make me feel I amn’t gonna fight alone. We are together in this. Sometimes you relate with strangers more that you’d ever do with friends. And, from the bottom of my heart, I am sending all my love to each of you. We deserve to live and be ourselves, don’t we? We too have stories that need to be heard, don’t we? Let’s just live...
YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.
"Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile" "when you look around, there's no one you can talk about it to" I Fucking felt that🙃
Almost cried, sounds to much like my family!😢
@@lyrica1149 Thanks for those kind words. But I really do feel I am disappointing and betraying and letting down everyone, including myself. Take care🤍
@Sofi_Playz Take care, mate🤍
Modern Loneliness by Lauv: we’re never alone but always depressed. Seems to sum up a lot of loneliness we feel.
I fu**ing love that song.
@@mulaudzikhuliso4128 Same! His music is so good.
never lonely but alone? me - socially anxious INTJ *tsk*
Such a beautiful somg
"maybe I'm just used to it" - when they close their eyes, it's the moment after when you know what you said isn't okay, but you still don't know how to change that, so you just ignore it also.
When we feel lonely it's helpful to know there are millions of people feeling exactly the same way...and, in that sense, we are not alone at all.
Loneliness is like depression. Its scary when youre sitting there by yourself....thinking to yourself....i lead myself to craziness. Anyone else relate ?
i think i have both 😁 how are you today ??
@@Techie1224 mmmm honestly dunno how to answer that question. Thanks for asking tho. How are you ??
@@lovergirl1669 neutral not bad nor good 😊 thanks for the answering
@@Techie1224 nws. U from usa ?
@@lovergirl1669 no, middle east :D
I felt the most lonely when I realized at the hospital that after I tried to kill myself, I was unconscious for 12 hours and I woke up and call 911 myself.
I am so proud of you💗 You made it through an extremely rough patch and you’re here today. It’s definitely not easy but you’re doing well, the fact that you’re here today shows how strong you are even if u dont feel like it. You’ll be in a better place thriving one day just trust the journey.
Thank you, that’s really sweet of you ❤️
@@RitualCat you’re most welcome
That is heartbreaking. I am happy that you are still here. It shows unbelievable strength that you called the hospital yourself. I hope you are doing well
Heyy im beyond gladd to know your still alive and kicking. Lovelots from Philippines❣ oh and keep kicking and punching through lifeee
Notice how the people who went through the most are the ones trying so hard to keep smiling
u c...an old man remember hes pain from hes childhood when he was 8. so,please treat your kids nice & kind,give them love.dont hurt them.think twice.they remember 🙏🏻
even body changes emotion but memories experience never forgets
im 22 and never been in a relationship, been with anyone at all in any way (romantically, sexually), etc. I'm living in a house where no one talks at all. my friends in my town have left me. i feel broken, alien. this is the loneliest I've ever felt in my entire life. i think I'm going to die alone. thank you for this video. it gave me some hope. edit: these comments give me so much hope. thank you
of course not darling, reach out to the people you'd like to meet, it's all gonna be well I know what it is but keep loving yourself and showing to the world and you'll eventually meet awesome people that cheer you up and make you wanna leave :-* love on you
If you need a friend, i m here
If you like need someone to cheer you up i have a idea for you😊dogs yeah buy a dog or a pet that you like yeah💕
I'm 21 and I've never been in a relationship as well so ur not alone it really affects my mental health when I see people in Social Media my age getting married, engaged or smthn
You kinda described my life.. And I'm 22 too
Its funny how were all surrounded with people but we still feel lonely. Youre just there, alone and not connecting to anyone
Especially when all of your friends have that connection except you
Agree
But this shows us even in loneliness we e are connected.
Loneliest I ever felt was not being connect to your parents and having no friends. It just feel like ur all alone and have to figure out life by yourself somehow..
I think we are all sad inside, people always cry with this type of questions
aw the mama talking about her depression during her pregnancy broke my heart. Sweet angel, I hope she is doing ok
That little boy telling that man he can say it... Broke my heart
As someone who does feel like people don't understand my feelings The fact that the kid understood the grandfathers feelings just warmed my heart so much. The grandfather know that he is surrounded by people that understand and love him and it's beautiful
Social media is the reason why most of us are Lonely nowadays
The best part about this, is we get to see that we arent the only ones who feels lonely to and are facing our darkest moments..🙂
Battling cancer as a teenager. Not being able to talk to the your friend and family about how you feel because they’re so sad, they didn’t understand .. I felt so lonely for 7 yrs bottling my feelings😣🙏🏽😭 my scars are a constant reminder
You are an inspiration to all of us... if one person who stands by and with us through everything is us... God bless you!
I understand what you mean. Im battling cancer right now and it feels like youre an another world. And when you come back to your life you realise youre still lonely because your loved ones continued their lives without you.
I am so sorry that you felt this way for such a long time. My sincere wish is that you are able to forgive people and that God gives you the strength to heal those scars and continue enjoying your life.
God bless you!!
Can u get your instagram !!Your a fighter
I feel lonely when I remember that everyone say to me that " you understand me " and like " I can be myself around you " because I don't have that person I'm just that person to everyone :(
Let's be friends ☺️? I'm understanding and willing to be your friend
Damn that so relatable and deep
I've never related to anyone more :)
oh god this is me fr
I feel the same, let’s be friends. Do you want to?
I am constantly surrounded by people but I always feel lonely, it’s such a heart wrenching feeling.
This episode really hit me since I know so many people but yet feel so alone all the time. Guess I'm just lacking a true friend, all I have are acquaintances. 🥺
😂 aww the little boy with his grand dad: "you can just say it..."😂 That is the BEST advice on how we should communicate more...coming from a child! Adults make speaking their truth so over complicated. Just say it😄 (even if it is only to yourself, admitting the truth to yourself is the first step)
Yea, but if you have no words for your feelings? All I can do sometimes is smiling or crying or things like that...
@@SeelenTaucher true, but maybe start journaling until you can gain the words to say it out loud to people? Paper doesn't judge...unlike people🤷♂️ I sometimes get the free newspapers or magazines at my local train station and just cut out any words that relate to whatever am feeling or thinking at the time. Or find an activity that helps you get your feelings out, e.g i started a blog www.justpauseonline.com
@@juliem1674 woahh very good advice 😳
Julie Macharia. Yeah, I was going to mention that young boy but you beat me to it ! What an intelligent young lad.
Exactly!
The day my husband died was my most lonely day ever, had never been alone for 62 years.
You're strong! Hang in there sweetheart ❤️
@@Sana-nv3tj thank you
Sending all my love 💖
So sorry to hear that:(
@@temimathews606 thank you
The loneliest I've ever felt was when I was in varsity. After high school, I thought it'd be really easy to make friends but it was very hard. Everybody had their own group of friends and I just found it hard to fit in. My varsity experience was horrible just because of that. Now I'm a graduate living at home and still friendless 😔.
Hi. Where do you live?
Spending Xmas alone. And everyone is celebrating. But having you over doesn't cross their minds. And they've known you for YEARS.
When your kids grow up and you realize that you have nobody to talk to anymore. It hurts when you try to get them to spend time with you but they’re too busy for you. That’s lonely
I never too busy for my parents.Anyways sending hugs and love. If you need to speak to someone let me.know😊
I am the busy daughter. I try to make some time for my parents because I don't want to regret not being with them more and, also, I miss them. It's a real internal conflict because I need to do things in order to be independent and reach my dreams, but I wish me, my mom, and my dad could all be together. But I am going to college in Japan, my mom is going to stay in the US, and my dad has and always will live in Brazil. I hope I can see them during college breaks and that I can have a job that gives a good amount of vacation time, so that I can visit them, in the future. I guess I am just saying I am worried about feeling lonely, but from the reversed perspective of being a daughter instead of a mom.
I understand completely.
@@Jordan_Dossou so sorry about that... some people just dont have a good way with words or a good behavior that makes them act out, i surely hope she can contact you for emergencies but for things like that, i would tell her not to call and chat about anything. tell her you're cutting ties and hanging up, and everytime she calls, ask if its an emergency, if its not, then hang up .. LOL she will have to learn & adapt to that, maybe she will calm down later like my italian in-laws lol.
This is the loneliest for a parent ... they need us.
The loneliest for me is now.... Striving to make ur parents happy and it’s still not enough and secretly suffering mentally and emotionally inside but can’t talk to anyone about it because they won’t get it .....
Hi 👋😏 I'd get it..... I've been dealing with severe depression for a few years now actually. I'm here if you need me ? ❤💋
I feel the same. I want to scream sometimes, but I can't, because I don't want anyone to hear me. I'm always striving to be strong and prudent, but when I'm alone in my room, I just cry. I'm okay most days, but there are others when I feel like I'm suffocating. I feel like it's wrong to feel this way, and I don't really want to send you this message, because I should be telling you that everything will get better. The thing is...I do believe that. I know things will get better, because I have faith. I trust that God will make everything right. I don't know your feelings about Him. You may not care, but I'm tired of overthinking things so much. What is right? What is wrong? All I know is that we can't give up. We have to persevere. I'm going to keep holding onto God, because He does listen to our cries and He does understand. He loves us even when we can't find it in us to love ourselves. I've honestly stopped trusting in people. All they manage to do is break other people's hearts. We're in a storm, and it may not get better right away. I don't know when it will get better, but that's not the point. One day we're going to look back on today and remember all that we did to keep pushing forward. We might feel lonely, but the reality is that we're never alone. If this video has taught me anything is that I'm not the only one who feels this way. Everyone experiences it, and it's ultimately our choice to do something about it. I for one am done wallowing in my self-pity. At the end of the day, if people don't understand you, then either make them understand you or move on from them. I don't know you, but I know that whoever you are, there's no one else like you in the world. Let that sink in. Recognize how important and valuable you are. Maybe you don't see it today or tomorrow, in a year or two, maybe it takes longer than you originally thought, but one day you'll see that your life and experiences made a difference. In fact, you helped me. Thank you.
@@gijane0014 I love you ❤️!!! Thank you for ur kind words and yess I definitely seek refuge in God all the time. There’s many times when we keep stuff inside until there’s no more room left to hide them , then it leads to a spiral of emotions. I thank u for confiding in me. We’re never alone if we have God. ❤️❤️
@@321MjC thank you!! It just seems like all these emotions get bottled up inside And there’s only a matter of time before they exit out either by tears or anguish. I’m happy I’m not the only that feels that way🙂
Me too..
I've always felt lonely. I never really had any friends. I had people I hung up with, but I never had any close friends that I felt I could trust with my life, or share my soul with. I ended up distancing myself from people because I felt that if no one wanted to be near me, what's even the point in trying. The loneliest time in my life was 2-3 years ago, from 10th to 12th grade. The stress in my life, both academically and socially, was so bad I detached myself from everyone. For a long period of time I stopped going outside. I shut myself in my room, occasionally going out to the balcony to breath but nothing more than that. Not seeing anyone but my family for 2 years gave me an overwhelming sense of loneliness that I think very little people would understand.
It started in 10th grade and in a way, that loneliness has never gone, I'm 25 now. I've accepted that it's a part of life. My friend whose indifferent behaviour used to hurt me so much at a point, I can go without talking to her for years now. I've grown out of those things, I don't have any emotional attachment to any of my friends now, basically, I've learned to make myself like this. People drop you when you need them the most, I talk to them, try to be good but, I try to not emotionally overinvest. It hurts!
I was homeless for a few months when I was 18. Everything he said was beyond true. 💔 you feel almost like an animal.
you never realize how lonely you are until it's the end of the day and you got a bunch of things to talk about and no one to talk to💔
THIS.
When you actually make someone your priority and be there for them always but they see you just as an option...This feeling hurts like hell.
@@revimack3764 Yeah I've been through that... It takes time to heal. Dont rush the process, trust the process.
That first girl has good things in store for her. The bells were a message!!!
It's weird how we always pass by people in public, and we'd probably connect with them or share something in common with them, like loneliness, but we'd never know. Because we feel like it's awkward to strike up a conversation with a stranger, or we consider it to be rude and inappropriate. And probably that's one of the main reasons we feel lonely. We're surrounded by people yet we've been conditioned to feel uneasy to just reach out and talk to one of our fellow human beings. It's so sad to know how many friendships and relationships that could have been, are lost forever.
That kid at 4:15 is AWESOME. How emotionally aware
This video made me feel less lonely.. I recently found out i was pregnant.. and had to sadly get a abortion due to a situation I was in. I got treated like crap the times i was pregnant, Id hear my parents and my sister talking behind my back as if i wasn't there. (its always been like that) I had nobody to really talk to after I had the abortion. Nobody really cared how I felt. I cried my self to sleep till this day. After I lost my child, I felt like I lost myself in the process. When I sit in my room and talk to god, I feel like he is the only one who could understand me, or listen to me. So everyday I feel lonely.
Im so sorry you had to go through that. As another believer I pray that God instills you with his love, compassion, and mercy. May you feel his presence when you feel like no one else wants to be around you. May he provide you with the people that you deserve and that also love and understand you. You are a daughter of a king and he will not abandon or forsake you💛.
Big Hug to u KiKi....ure strong Woman
@@heydellyy2346 Thankyou so much, needed that!
@@evtaoktaviani2513 Hugs to you too. Thankyou.
Out of everyone’s stories I’m hearing and reading about, yours made me cry. God is truly the only one I can talk to and he will understand. I’m sorry for loss of your baby and the loss of yourself. I hope everyday you feel better and that you find that one person who can listen rather that be a coworker or a friend.
I really felt this. Being the 4th oldest in a family with 14 children, we started a family business which me and my dad operate but last year our mother ran out on the family after 26 years of marriage. Everyone turned to me for emotional support because I've always been the one they know will listen to their problems My siblings, dad and even my best friend who has problems in her own life. I was really close with my mom but because everyone is turning to me for strength it feels like I have nobody to turn to for support because I have to be strong for them. I get up every morning at 4am and cry by myself before the others get up, then I put a smile on my face and act like I'm fine, they all think I'm taking it better then anyone else when in reality I just know how to hide it. I never realized how alone you can feel even when surrounded by people..
💜 I really feel this woman talking about antenatal depression 💜In regards to your childhood trauma, I hope you can get some therapy because you seem like a gem and I can see there's gold in you. Love from Madrid.
): I wanna be friends with all of these people.
I want to be friends with you.
I wanna be friends with you
But only online :D
Me too.
the loneliest i’ve ever been was in room full of people i’m supposed to know.
Me too! Especially my family.
Whoever reading this, I really hope in god’s name that the pain you felt today will be your strength for tomorrow. You dont need anyone to complete you because you are already complete. Yes you are maybe beaten up and lonely for now but God wont let you there for long. In every pain, there’s a hope. The fact that your fighting makes you stronger than you think you are. Keep fighting the start is always the hardest. 💕😊
Quit bringing God into everything Religion cost causes most of the pain in this world
@@lisabass7584 I hope you healed from everything that hurt you 😊
@@lisabass7584 The part that you don't understand is that God (Jesus)... is the ANSWER to our loneliness, our depression, our pain, our guilt, our self hatred, our bitterness, our anger, our anxieties. I'm sure you won't agree because you haven't experienced it but TRUST me. God FREED me from all of it and I have a peace/love/joy that surpasses ALL understanding. I pray you will one day experience it as well.
I love your videos Thoraya...they are so healing.
Me, I feel lonely every single day
Yep me too
You're never alone your beautiful
@@keiron.4612 aww..thank you for that😊
@@izzylay1132 im wid ya- 😊 we'll be fine
@@aasthamishra7778 you're welcome and I know it feels to be lonely I was adopted so I've been lonely many nights but I have a lovely family now🙂
Laying in hospital with a nasogastric tube inserted down my nose, into my throat, draining the contents of my stomach while strong painkillers make my body numb and take away most of the pain from the abdominal cramping and bloating. Just laying there day after day with no visitors, watching other patients have family and friends come visit them every day. Happens a few times a year. I hate it for the actual pain and the discomfort, but mostly because it's the only time I see how empty my life is compared to normal people. Being on my own is easy. Being alone around others is torture.
Stay strong hang in there. Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Stay Strong
Have you thought about maybe choosing a different path and trying to cultivate deeper relationships?
You'll be ok...one day at a time
Best wishes and I know you'll find the people who need you in their life someday.
This was beautiful. Had me in tears. ♥️
This is deep and great on a connecting level.. it's great to talk about these things! Awesome work