What to do when he doesn’t want you anymore…

2024 ж. 13 Сәу.
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  • If he doesn’t want you anymore, you walk away, no drama, silently. And work on yourself and move on. 🙂 this was my lesson.

    @jimpalmer204@jimpalmer204Ай бұрын
    • Yessss!! 💯

      @urScorpioLady@urScorpioLadyАй бұрын
    • 100%. I’ve learned this the hard way many times. Men don’t understand words, they understand silence.

      @Sharon-jg9ls@Sharon-jg9ls8 күн бұрын
    • @@Sharon-jg9ls this is profound right here! 💯 agreed.

      @jimpalmer204@jimpalmer2048 күн бұрын
  • “You can not live with other people controlling how you feel” I needed to hear that 💛

    @crystalox392@crystalox392Ай бұрын
  • I literally feel like it's someone else's loss if they don't want me now. Friends, men , jobs. I know that I have a stellar character & that its going to be impossible to easily find someone with my heart. Literally feel sorry for them

    @catcat9582@catcat9582Ай бұрын
    • You literally changed my perspective with this.Thank you so much.I’m glad you wrote this❤

      @obengjemima6477@obengjemima6477Ай бұрын
    • wallah my sister, sorry for their loss.🤍

      @g.s.632@g.s.632Ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much for this❤❤

      @user-jz6mu@user-jz6muАй бұрын
    • Yesssss go girl 💪💪💪

      @downtown_kt@downtown_kt9 күн бұрын
  • What worked for me in the past is improving yourself and your life so you become a woman that is out of his league.

    @judytamoongoddess@judytamoongoddessАй бұрын
  • There are no benefits in friends with benefits. It often gets messy, one person gets attached

    @designshop7264@designshop7264Ай бұрын
    • If it’s exes then you are both screwed. It can be beneficial but the communication needs to be extraordinary

      @Sarah-kv3qs@Sarah-kv3qsАй бұрын
    • We don't do FWB & situationships at Camp Jesus.

      @danilaroche1156@danilaroche11564 күн бұрын
  • OMG listen up story time: I was married to a guy who actively chose other things over me and it felt like he didn't want me anymore repeatedly. We got divorced and years later same thing! "Let's get back together and I will pay more attention to you." We did and he again started acting like he doesn't want me anymore. Later I realized why ! Some men are with women for reasons other than love, sex. It could be simple because he doesn't want to be single. If you feel he doesn't want you anymore, this is the perfect opportunity for you to run off. Because he may keep sucking you back into a relationship where you feel unwanted repeatedly because he is with you for reasons other than love.

    @Lemthepoetofficial@LemthepoetofficialАй бұрын
    • So true 😢 and we need to accept this, it is what it is.

      @keylo2473@keylo2473Ай бұрын
    • Thank you for sharing this, darling

      @srishtishetty8578@srishtishetty8578Ай бұрын
    • Yes I totally agree.. my husband started to get distant and was saying things like he married too young and very questionable stuff. But having sex with me. So i decided to separate and divorce. Life is too short. Why being married to someone who doesn’t even love you?

      @busrakilic9075@busrakilic907522 күн бұрын
    • @@busrakilic9075 Cok uzuldum cidden aynisi ben yasiyorum. Amerikali Turk fark etmiyor sevgi yoksa sevgi yok. Ondan sonra tanistigim adam da tam tersi cok seviyordu beni sex cok iyidi ama kotu aliskanliklari vardi. Beni de alistirmaya calisiyordu. O da saglikli degil :/

      @Lemthepoetofficial@Lemthepoetofficial22 күн бұрын
  • Enjoy your freedom & know that everything isn't mutual. Never allow anyone to waste your time nor simply choose you. You deserve to love and be love in a healthy relationship not something one sided. Congratulate him on his revelation and support his departure by protecting your peace. All is and will be well for all.

    @takinajowens101@takinajowens10116 күн бұрын
  • If he doesn’t want you anymore, you stalk him like crazy, “casually” show up wherever he is, fake a nervous breakdown and go to the hospital until he finally decides he doesn’t want to live with the guilt of making you suffer and you manipulate him into being with you unwillingly. Seriously though, I have seen women do this before and it worked. Crazy right? Desperation is insane. If he doesn’t want you, you graciously walk away and live your life. Move on and forget about him. Keep your dignity, no matter what.

    @snowwpea@snowwpea25 күн бұрын
    • Applying in both side when a woman shows any resistance walk away and never take her back same to women

      @JaneKelly-nd8bk@JaneKelly-nd8bk15 күн бұрын
  • "Don't hate the player, change the game" (by: Wenzes, YT).

    @bumblebee_mrs@bumblebee_mrsАй бұрын
  • "What's the benefit? His pee pee?"💀💀💀😂

    @Miss_hells_bells@Miss_hells_bellsАй бұрын
    • 😅😂😂😂 valen verga

      @dragonflymagictarot1180@dragonflymagictarot11809 күн бұрын
  • I spent two months not walking away and it hurt. I was still attached and he wasn't. Lesson learned the hard way.

    @H01143@H0114318 күн бұрын
    • Same here. It was a serious relationship & I thought we'd marry. I fought to get him back but the reality was he suffered severe anxiety & OCD. Eventually I learned not to take it personally. He's a great guy struggling with mental illness (demons).

      @danilaroche1156@danilaroche11564 күн бұрын
  • “What in the chupacabra is this!?” 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    @LosAngelesLaura@LosAngelesLauraАй бұрын
    • Shhh….maybe she recognizes the fact that ………🐣

      @izabelazielak8963@izabelazielak8963Ай бұрын
    • She’s adorable. She comes up with a coolest little sayings

      @malindateal14@malindateal14Ай бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @LalaKruger79@LalaKruger7910 күн бұрын
  • I had extremely anxious attachment... Then he avoided me so long that I turned into a b*tch😅😅😅... Now I'm playing his games and he's obsessed with me...and most importantly..I'm calm❤but i learned that healing one own self is the only secret of Lasting relationships...

    @couldbehafsa@couldbehafsaАй бұрын
    • Can u maybe mention how u behave now?

      @paulinawalpen2570@paulinawalpen2570Ай бұрын
    • I’m curious!

      @andreavic@andreavicАй бұрын
    • Oh how I wish to be you 😩❤ Love this for you girly!

      @blancarodriguez1340@blancarodriguez1340Ай бұрын
    • @@paulinawalpen2570not her but: know all that pain and anger u felt when he pulled away? Know where it belongs? With him. Tell him, let it all out on him, be snarky, be angry, cry/ rage (u know what I mean be less Ariana Grande and more Olivia Rodrigo w him). Just kick him verbally in a non-abusive way. Examples: „I missed u“ „uh huh. Why’d you leave?“ „I’m sorry I said x“ „why’d u say it then?“ „Reason x is why I left“ „I’m only 50% of this relationship I am not working on it alone“ etc etc. Treat him like a dog in training, but angry. Let it all go.

      @Seraphina93@Seraphina9327 күн бұрын
    • @@paulinawalpen2570if you really want to play someone,be indifferent towards them(don’t be rude).That’s half of the game.Be always ready to walk away if something bothers you.No emotional attachment(that’s possible only if you are circular dating).Focus on your life and goals. Be selfish as hell. Men love selfish women. I know it’s toxic but it’s better to accept that we live in toxic era

      @monakool1708@monakool170819 күн бұрын
  • Timing is everythinggggg

    @user-kl8cm8nt8x@user-kl8cm8nt8xАй бұрын
  • 5 hours ago wow! This channel is free therapy for me.

    @happy2bhere706@happy2bhere706Ай бұрын
  • When I saw your thumbnail I thought, "Now that's a woman there! Attractive, genuine, smart!" I'm just teasing with you though... Keep doing what you're doing! The youth need your wise teachings!

    @jerrodbulgin2261@jerrodbulgin2261Ай бұрын
  • You look like scarlett johansson ❤😊

    @aestheticedits7109@aestheticedits7109Ай бұрын
    • Yeah, she does.

      @LaNoire27@LaNoire27Ай бұрын
    • Yes! Celeb twin

      @sara.e.1111@sara.e.111123 күн бұрын
    • Definitely! Yes, she does 👌

      @sukyp1950@sukyp195013 күн бұрын
  • I can't believe I'm here this early. Divine timing is everything. God bless you and your family. 💜💜💜

    @TechSav18@TechSav18Ай бұрын
  • ugh, the timing is impeccable

    @KristelScorpio@KristelScorpioАй бұрын
  • Thank you - I needed to hear this

    @SheSoForeign@SheSoForeignАй бұрын
  • Thank you for this profound healing

    @Illuminatelove36@Illuminatelove36Ай бұрын
  • The timing wow 🥹🥹🥹

    @nickiefellow4787@nickiefellow4787Ай бұрын
  • you and your advice are GOLDEN! thank you:)

    @palosantoxxi@palosantoxxiАй бұрын
  • I am so excited for you and your dreams coming true!!

    @kaylareeder4449@kaylareeder44492 күн бұрын
  • I'm so proud of you, I remember when you made videos with your mom, who i love!

    @susanfletcher258@susanfletcher258Ай бұрын
  • Every video you make helps me so much!!!! thank you Margarita! i love how you talk and all the value you give in every video.

    @velicah9848@velicah9848Ай бұрын
  • 30s video suggestion. Would love to hear your advice on how to prepare for your 30s

    @ACMkirby@ACMkirbyАй бұрын
    • watch sex and the city

      @olumcul4970@olumcul4970Ай бұрын
    • @@olumcul4970worst thing she could do. I used to watch when I was 20, rewatched a few weeks ago as a 30 year old and realized these women were full of red flags and I didn’t even notice when I was 20. Made me cringe!

      @noanoa8991@noanoa8991Ай бұрын
    • Second this! 30+ here... single and dreaming about a relationship. Feeling so stressed and behind, dating apps are horrendous. Any advice is so appreciated needed 🤍

      @j_constance@j_constanceАй бұрын
    • @@j_constance I believe it's best to meet people offline. I know women older than you who met their partners simply by putting themselves out there, meaning living their best life and doing all the things they love doing. You're most magnetic when you're happy.

      @meetandinspire@meetandinspireАй бұрын
  • thanks for reminding me again as always ❤

    @libramacky9335@libramacky9335Ай бұрын
  • Can’t wait for your book Margarita, you’ve helped my journey so much with becoming less anxiously attached 💕💕

    @ttejegi@ttejegiАй бұрын
  • Love your energy and personality, margarita. Thanks to youtube algorithm that brought me here🤎

    @Xaali95@Xaali95Ай бұрын
  • im so proud of you ❤

    @NawrasMatee7@NawrasMatee7Ай бұрын
  • I’m not an auditory learner so I preordered your book on Kindle instead of audible. Can’t wait to read it

    @socol76@socol7625 күн бұрын
  • SHES ON FIRE!! 🔥🔥

    @kelly.nicole@kelly.nicoleАй бұрын
  • Mama marggg thank you so much I love watching your videos your voice is so calming

    @Meburns311@Meburns311Ай бұрын
  • Amazing video as always! The ferrari metaphor was life changing for me and completely changed my vision and mindset about my current situation! Thank you🥰

    @Julie-eq8zu@Julie-eq8zuАй бұрын
  • Thank you for the digestible facts of attachment ✨I wish you were my family member I just love your advice and energy 🤍

    @BritneyMontes17@BritneyMontes17Ай бұрын
  • Hello Margarita! Could you please do a videos with advices for women in their early 30s specifically? (Relationships, self-care, anti-aging, reaching goals...) Thank you!

    @MM-kq9ip@MM-kq9ipАй бұрын
  • The first 6 minutes are absolute gold, thanks for sharing. I definitely externalise, I guess all anxiously attached people do.

    @kerrymillar1267@kerrymillar1267Ай бұрын
  • Healing my attachment style and my cptsd ...thank you

    @starlightskiestarot@starlightskiestarotАй бұрын
  • You are gorgeous . I always enjoy your videos

    @dani5639@dani5639Ай бұрын
  • mother has spoken ❤

    @gablillyjay@gablillyjayАй бұрын
  • "Life is essentially a game, and if you don't want to play games, how can you win at life?"

    @meetandinspire@meetandinspireАй бұрын
    • Jesus saves. To the devil..life is a game but to Jesus life holds great significance & purpose. Know that.

      @danilaroche1156@danilaroche11564 күн бұрын
  • thank ya, big sis

    @anamaria-db7pq@anamaria-db7pqАй бұрын
  • Lmao. What’s the benefit!? Yup What’s a benefit his pee pee. No thanks

    @monikaleszko5343@monikaleszko5343Ай бұрын
  • I have get your book. Real talk

    @monicalewis-schmidt8821@monicalewis-schmidt8821Ай бұрын
  • Haha, love your view on the friends with benefits thing 😂

    @MilenaStojilkovic@MilenaStojilkovicАй бұрын
  • Hi Margarita, Will your new book be available on Audible? ❤

    @lollya5692@lollya5692Ай бұрын
  • I remembered being an anxious to my boyfriend. The controlling is very exhausting. Then I switched it up..I become distant and focus on myself again. Then he do the initiating and the work again.

    @misslucky93@misslucky9323 күн бұрын
  • Porn is infidelity. Treatment as such.

    @chilloften@chilloftenАй бұрын
    • No it's not

      @YanaWanderlust.@YanaWanderlust.Ай бұрын
    • @@YanaWanderlust. it is betrayal. An addiction. Intimacy disorder. If her partner is watching daily I would suggest Kristen Snowden here on KZhead to her to get an understanding.

      @chilloften@chilloftenАй бұрын
    • @@YanaWanderlust.how not

      @somintsothresh919@somintsothresh919Ай бұрын
  • as a virgo mercury grade is woooooping my a**

    @gablillyjay@gablillyjayАй бұрын
  • You manifested too hard and it broke the shower screen 😂🎉❤

    @grahamlangley4856@grahamlangley4856Ай бұрын
    • !!!

      @herserenehighnessm@herserenehighnessmАй бұрын
  • Can we order your book to the US? I didn’t see that option. :(

    @pamyang11@pamyang11Ай бұрын
  • Margarita… the man I was casually seeing for three months and hasn’t replied to my text in over 48 hours. My secure attachment style is super repelled from this and I think the old anxious me would have reached out to him but I don’t believe that doing so is what I want to do because it feels like I’m chasing and he’s running, can I get your thoughts? 🙏

    @monikaleszko5343@monikaleszko5343Ай бұрын
    • I think he’s avoidant or Just non commital and I think texting him is desperate energy lol

      @monikaleszko5343@monikaleszko5343Ай бұрын
    • Wow impressed you haven't reached out. Or reacted in your anxious attachment. I would try to self sooth and then see your options and how you would feel after acting on them whether it's not doing anything or reaching out.

      @Jessievera@JessieveraАй бұрын
    • Hey it could be that he just forgot to answer. But i would Not Text him. Simple reason: if he likes you, then he will text you After some time on it self. And if dont, you can See that he is Not that interested in you. So you dont Need him. There Are better for you!!❤️and live your life!! Dont Wait on him

      @user-qg4he8mj1r@user-qg4he8mj1rАй бұрын
    • I say if it bothers you and seems to be part of a pattern, point it out at your next opportunity. But first ask if something happened/somethings going on that didn't allow him to respond. Bc if you ignore it, and you're not okay with his behavior, you may give him the wrong impression. He might convince himself you're OK with it. And then your own resentment could build up...

      @AutismTheaterProject@AutismTheaterProjectАй бұрын
    • You may send him just ONE casual text message like "Hi, did not hear from you for the last 4-5 days. Hope you are fine". And just leave it there. See what he will reply. If nothing...well it's the answer. If he goes back with some rubbish like "I am fine tnx" - well it's also the answer. So just move one.

      @YanaWanderlust.@YanaWanderlust.Ай бұрын
  • Adore your videos! Thank you! I feel so lost

    @sashay404@sashay404Ай бұрын
    • I did too but I don’t anymore listening to her she’s amazing.

      @kelly.nicole@kelly.nicoleАй бұрын
    • @@kelly.nicole Am I just self sabotaging? He's not even someone I would want to recommend to a friend. I'm an independent woman but find myself helping him and it's not a two way street.

      @sashay404@sashay404Ай бұрын
  • Pulling solvation from mystery might be key to ego Mystery requires privacy

    @royronson8872@royronson8872Ай бұрын
  • Darling your content has a lot of values and lots of Wisdom, pls don’t use Better Help as an sponsor … that’s a shady company and not a good company for therapy , thank you

    @oceanahealer@oceanahealerАй бұрын
  • Accept it and move on?

    @wggio@wggioАй бұрын
  • Awe baby. Well pray for your protection and your angel baby always healing and love. They tumble a lot at his age. Take him to chiro after those falls to get him adjusted. Rescue remedy under his little feet. Breastfeeding will chill you both out if you’re still doing that. Nutritious food angel. Blessings and hugs mama. Always prayers. Ooahh

    @andreatorluemke4982@andreatorluemke4982Ай бұрын
  • How do you have such perfect skin ? Is it filter !

    @leeche87@leeche87Ай бұрын
    • A genetic filter 😂

      @Itsamantha111@Itsamantha11115 күн бұрын
  • Love that baby table behind you OMG! Haha❤

    @andreatorluemke4982@andreatorluemke4982Ай бұрын
  • Better Help are garbage.

    @svlagonda7417@svlagonda7417Ай бұрын
  • Is there pre-order for the audiobopk on audible? ❤

    @annette5455@annette5455Ай бұрын
    • Yeah, there is. The New Rules

      @Ms21stCentury@Ms21stCenturyАй бұрын
    • @@Ms21stCentury is there a link to it? In her description box I only see her Amazon hardcopy book preorder 😓

      @annette5455@annette5455Ай бұрын
  • “What in the chupacabra is this?”😂

    @user-xz6yf8ki8l@user-xz6yf8ki8lАй бұрын
  • What does the title have to do with the video?

    @OGgiirl@OGgiirlАй бұрын
  • What if he doesn't offer relationships after 3 months of dating? We didn't hug, didn't kiss as I don't accept it within realationships status and while he is still on the dating app.Should I initiate a conversation or what should be my further actions?

    @alinas6192@alinas6192Ай бұрын
    • wait. you're dating and he's still using dating apps? something doesn't add up. but if that's the case or not, either way you're not his first choice/ his dream girl and you're just there as a filler while he waits for the woman he really wants

      @av3ngers17@av3ngers17Ай бұрын
    • Don’t waste your time! Do what you enjoy and be too busy to notice what he is doing.

      @Itsamantha111@Itsamantha11115 күн бұрын
  • I want to be you !

    @amandasplit@amandasplit25 күн бұрын
  • The pee pee😂

    @RubyWahid@RubyWahidАй бұрын
  • The plastics in our food and water is affecting hormone levels causing a lot of issues for young men

    @girlymel2323@girlymel2323Ай бұрын
  • ❤❤❤

    @CF.@CF.Ай бұрын
  • I wanna know what to do when he wants you back and you don’t feel anything for him anymore 😂

    @shaniamistry@shaniamistryАй бұрын
    • Move on, did you?.

      @AlbertNewton-bf6cr@AlbertNewton-bf6crАй бұрын
  • ❤❤❤❤❤

    @nataliaprodan9335@nataliaprodan9335Ай бұрын
  • 😍😍😍

    @mareyana1111@mareyana1111Ай бұрын
  • ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    @mezzymoon3343@mezzymoon3343Күн бұрын
  • He took money,closed the account and I have been in er sick

    @user-ds8fq8cp2f@user-ds8fq8cp2fАй бұрын
  • 💚💚💚💚💚

    @alaskayoung584@alaskayoung584Ай бұрын
  • We love You,Pocahontas 🐣💭🦈

    @izabelazielak8963@izabelazielak8963Ай бұрын
  • If a guy is into porn, though, it's only going to get worse. Don't walk, run.

    @milarepa1234567@milarepa12345675 күн бұрын
  • omg get to the point like

    @michellescherer7858@michellescherer7858Ай бұрын
  • Watching porn and porn addiction are 2 different things

    @YanaWanderlust.@YanaWanderlust.Ай бұрын
  • I wish you wouldn't talk about your problems as it gives negative energy

    @safiahere3386@safiahere338623 күн бұрын
  • I wish you didn’t bring up new age ideology into this, like energies etc

    @reacting_to_stuff_@reacting_to_stuff_Ай бұрын
    • Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It's real. It's everything. Literally.

      @jessgirr1728@jessgirr1728Ай бұрын
  • what’s your audio book about?

    @taraleightaracumming6726@taraleightaracumming6726Ай бұрын
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