Rosemary Kennedy - Lobotomised for Being Different | Documentary
This video is one of the saddest stories of the 20th Century.
Rosemary Kennedy, the younger sister of John F Kennedy was born with a mild intellectual disability in 1918.
Although she was happy, personable and vivacious, she could not keep up with her eight high achieving siblings. She was sent to a dozen different schools and traipsed around every doctor and psychologist in New England in the hope of a cure.
She had a brief period of happiness at a Montessori school in London, while her father was Ambassador to the UK, but the war cut this short. When she returned home she went into a decline and her father had her lobotomised at the age of 23, and she had no contact with her family for the next 20 years.
This video explores the shocking views about intellectual disability held by many societies in the 1930s and 40s and the limited treatments available for mental disorders at that time. The details of her lobotomy are presented with a new analysis of some of her behaviour by a neuropsychiatrist with experience of complex mental disorders.
I will also explain why Dr Walter Freeman, who was involved in Rosemary’s lobotomy and who went on to perform 4000 other surgeries, has been described as the most scorned doctor besides Nazi doctor Josef Mengele.
Discovering more for yourself
Kate Clifford Larson’s biography of Rosemary is detailed and authoritative, but more than that, it captures the tragedy of Rosemary’s life, the daughter who just wanted to please her impossible father. Jack El-Hai’s account of Walter Freeman, the Lobotomist, is a fascinating read as well for anyone wanting to know more about one of the darkest chapters in medical history. These and others are available through my Amazon Store. www.amazon.com/shop/professor...
Academic References:
Barr, M. W., & Whitney, E. A. (1930). Preventive Medicine and Mental Deficiency. New England Journal of Medicine, 203(18), 872-876.
Brown, F. W. (1930). Eugenic Sterilization in the United States Its Present Status. The Annals of the American Academy of Political and Social Science, 149(3), 22-35.
Caruso, J. P., & Sheehan, J. P. (2017). Psychosurgery, ethics, and media: a history of Walter Freeman and the lobotomy. Neurosurgical focus, 43(3), E6.
Editorial (1941) Frontal Lobotomy. Journal of American Medical Association, 117(7), 534-5.
El-Hai, J. (2005). The lobotomist: a maverick medical genius and his tragic quest to rid the world of mental illness. Hoboken, NJ: J. Wiley.
Freeman, W. (1941). Neurosurgical Treatment of Certain Abnormal Mental States: Panel Discussion at Cleveland Session. Journal of American Medical Association, 117(7), 517-527.
Freeman, W., & Watts, J. W. (1942). Prefrontal lobotomy: the surgical relief of mental pain. Bulletin of the New York Academy of Medicine, 18(12), 794.
Kessler, R. (1996). The sins of the father: Joseph P. Kennedy and the dynasty he founded. St. Martin's Press.
Mainieri, G., Loddo, G., & Provini, F. (2021). Disorders of arousal: A chronobiological perspective. Clocks & Sleep, 3(1), 53-65.
Nevsimalova, S., Prihodova, I., Kemlink, D., & Skibova, J. (2013). Childhood parasomnia-a disorder of sleep maturation? European Journal of Paediatric Neurology, 17(6), 615-619.
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As someone who had helped care for her before her death, she was ridiculously sweet and was probably bipolar if not autistic. Her father's decision to have her lobotomized was disgusting, and the fact he also forced the family to stay away from her is disgraceful. Joe was an absolute monster.
Thank you for sharing that.
Agreed. I am just learning about the Kennedy family. I had always been taught that they were the good guys. I'm rather disgusted to find out what the patriarch was actually like. A friggin Nazi basically.
The description of her has me in tears. My son's diagnoses are dyspraxia, adhd and autism. I'd bet money on jer having all three (her handwriting is common in dyspraxics, and autistics have a tendency to certain other diagnoses, too.) The only thing that would have kept my son from a lobotomy back then would have been his very high intelligence (and his parents, of course). Joe's monsterous ways are legendary.
i have a feeling that she had autism and probably some learning disabilities. having such a competitive family probably led her to develop an anxiety disorder and depression. it’s sad that her own brother called disabled people an abomination, and her dad seeing her as making her family look bad.
@@TargetedIndividuallivesmatter this is why you cannot just trust what was taught to you in public school. the rich and powerful dictate which parts of history are recorded and which parts are left out. you have to do your own research and question what was taught to you and why.
Her parents were ashamed of her because of a condition she could not help. She was a beautiful young woman. What her father did to her was nothing short of child abuse.
Maybe, just maybe, he was genuinely trying to help - but given his reputation generally it seems unlikely.
@@professorgraemeyorston I believe he had good intentions, but still you don’t do that.
@@Koopalingfan good intentions. He intended to get rid of herr. He was warned of severely bad outcomes.!! She wasn't even severely handicapped!!!!!
I think as a mother I agree with the speaker. Once baby starts to come you can't hardly stop it.
@@patchr5491 that’s Right you could only do that if your a Cat 🐈⬛
For her to suffer from lack of oxygen at birth and to be treated in such a manner is absolutely heartbreaking.
It's such a sad story.
I'm in agreement with the narrator being skeptical of this narrative. Granted, medical professionals did a lot of stupid and terrible things then as they do now, but having a mother close her legs and stuffing the baby back in doesn't work like that. Once that delivery begins, it IS going to happen, and no woman would physically be able to just hold it in like having to go to the bathroom. I have a close friend of mine who's son has permanent brain damage from oxygen deprivation from a botched delivery by Air Force medical staff. His wife was eclamptic, and the doctor refused to induce, and their son suffered for it. He far surpassed their predicted life expectancy and is still with us today, but he is in a wheelchair, has no speech, and is severely physically and mentally disabled and requires 24/7 care and monitoring. That was obviously not the case with rosemary. I think she was just born with mental deficiencies, and just like the narrator suspects; they conjured that story to escape embarrassment of not having perfect genes. People often don't even know that in America in the early 20th century the medical community was highly into eugenics theories and attempts to breed "perfect people" to the point of aborting potential deficient babies and running genetics testing to suggest compatible parents in couples. Those who should and should not breed, etc.
@@BarnDoor-won5ve I did not read the author as "the narrative was wrong",but rather as "it is unbelievable any medical professional would have done anything like that."
The nuns at the Catholic hospital my mother was born at tried to hold my grandmother’s legs together when she was giving birth during a snow storm. The doctor wasn’t present yet. I believe some of this type of activity is true for Rosemarys birth. That said, my grandmother went wild, kicked the nuns away (they were laying on her legs) and delivered her baby on her own. Maybe Mrs Kennedy was less inclined to make a fuss. Any way you look at it, these stories are horrifying.
I believe this happened to my mother in the mid-40's (tho I don't think she ever knew it as she was given "twilight sleep" for the birth of all her children). Her 3rd baby was born outwardly beautiful and perfect but by age 4 mos. was dx'd as "floppy", was blind and deaf. Mom was advised to put her in a home (she had 2 other young children) and the baby died at 18 mos., unable to do more than take a bottle and lie in her crib. It haunted my mom all her life.
The entire story is heartbreaking, she deserved so much better. Joe Jr’s comment about Hitler’s sterilization being “a great thing” especially shook me. Absolutely horrible.
He's just a typical Democrat Marxist.
👍🏻 you’re correct
Correct, on both counts.
We can see why RFK Jr. Is such a mess
Yes I agree with you .
A nurse tried to do that to my grandmother (9 children) while in labor. She kicked her off, became hostile, and delivered her own baby. Do not underestimate how poorly women in labor are treated. Obgyn care is and always has been unfeeling and barbaric.
Here we have it. There ARE mad people in every profession, always have been.
My mother had a d&c without anything for pain. I couldn't barely handle a small biopsy with pain meds.
Wrong
Smells like granny told you a whopper. It’s impossible to hold a baby inside a uterus. If you ever had a baby you would know that. Your granny was telling tall tales. 🙄
@@seeglinesI can absolutely see a woman at that time doing the bidding of a walk-on-water doctor.
It was bad enough they destroyed her with the lobotomy...but to hide her away from siblings and never even visit her again, is despicable. Joe K was a monster.
he was a monster in many ways
So they made her a vegetable. living, breathing but not able function or control body functions and not able to think or talk. They castrated her brain.
While I don't condone it, it was common place in those days. I know from first hand experience with multiple people (who were not wealthy).
my step father worked at the kennedy compound frequently doing oddball maintenance and construction. he told me the entire family was a bunch of asshats except rose the mother.
Sick people
Her story is such a heartbreaking example of how society is disabling. She had multiple periods of her life where she thrived and was able to contribute to society in an environment that supported her and focused on her strengths, but the progress was lost when she was moved away.
It is such a sad story, if only she had been left to build her confidence in the Montessori school.
Look at Helen Keller. She thrived because she had so much support. Of course she worked hard herself.
As someone with autism, a lot of her “outbursts” (meltdowns) after England may have been from realizing how much better she could’ve and should’ve been treated, as she was allowed to go at her own pace. i don’t know anything about her, just that i have had similar experiences, and i would also be incredibly bitter and depressed if i was ripped from a better life where i was understood and loved for who i was.
I was not expecting to see you here. And I agree.
It is possible, but struggling with change also occurs in mild learning disability.
when you have a social climbing family like the Kennedy's there are certain behaviors that are required and others that are ostracizing. Society was honestly so barbaric and ignorant of things..
They could have been a symptom of emotional dysregulation from brain damage caused by seizures, too
Yeah, I can't imagine what that must have been like for her!
Honestly, I believe the story about Rosemary's birth absolutely could be true. My second son is 36 years old, and I had my babies very quickly. When I got to the hospital, he was already in the birth canal and his head could be seen, yet the nurses absolutely refused to let me push and I was told it was because the doctor wasn't there yet. It was a horrific experience, very painful for me and worrisome for my baby. Thankfully my son only had some minor learning disabilities, graduated from high school and is a wonderful man, husband and father. But because of my experience I can tell you that at one time nurses were told to not allow the baby to come until the doctor was there. Absolutely ridiculous, but yes true.
Thanks Dawn, I've heard similar stories from several people now in the US, so yes, sadly it may well have been true!
That’s very nice about your son. It’s is shame what happened to Rosemary.
My mother was a Obi nurse that worked at night and she delivered plenty of babies waiting for doctors to arrive so it's pretty horrific having somebody cross their legs or push the baby back in
@@21550spurs Must be. Did you see it?
My children were born in and around 2010 and I have friends who are still saying they experienced less drastic versions of this.
She was the prettiest of all the sisters. Her life was runed by her ruthless father. He's the one that should have had the Lobotomy.
I hope ,the M F suffered in his last moments of a stroke. Just deserts…
It was the nurse who forced Rose to hold Rose Mary in the birth canal. Total ROACH.
@@user-zy3zd3sx2d Yes. At the root of this tragedy is an incompetent or fearful nurse who clearly did not understand the mechanics of labor and birth, and the vulnerability of the child in those moments.
Definately a evil man. Then we wonder how the world became so hostile. I think we started all fu*ked up
@@TREVASLARK That poor girl didn't stand a chance at life from her beginning or throughout life. The incompetent nurse and arrogance did this.
I worked with an older nurse in a small town. She told me that was customary to hold the baby in the birth canal, until the doctor arrived. That was at the order of the doctors. What a tragic story.
It seems this was a common practice - terrible!
@@professorgraemeyorston It's believable that this practice took place. We have to remember the time-frame surrounding her birth. Not everyone back then would have been versed in the impacts of every procedure. Even in the mid-70s, when I was born prematurely, I was just stuck in a plastic box with two large holes in it (no gloves attached to them and no ventilation or other tubing/wiring, no fluorescent anything) and my parents were told to start planning my funeral. Why? We were in a small hospital out in the middle of nowhere. Here in the United States, not all hospitals are equal, and not all hospital staff are equal to their counterparts in other hospitals. That's just as true now as it had to have been back in the early 1900s.
@@professorgraemeyorston I never heard of it, nothing short of criminal. Why midwife are for then?
Me and my brother were born at home with a midwife. My brother needed pushing from people on top of my mom belly, and I came out in a hurry, I've been told.
That's one reason l dislike doctors!!
Two of my Irish great aunts, who were nurses, worked for the Kennedy’s, looking after Rosemary. They used to get her to do simple embroidery - my mother has a two pieces of cross stitching that Rosemary sewed.
What a lovely memento.
That's amazing
Her whole story is tragic, but it's even more sad knowing that her own parents kept it a secret where she was for 20 years from even her own siblings who loved her and wanted to visit her.
It's hard to understand why they did that.
kennedys are evil@@professorgraemeyorston
Cause they were absolutely dreadful and evil people. @@professorgraemeyorston
A woman getting abused, probably tortured and then killed is/was a secret? Just thinking and act like that?
Probably because they didn't want their other children to know how they allowed Rosemary to be butchered for the sake of the parent's egos.
My brother was born in 1958. The nurses treated my mother's delivery the same as Rose Kennedy's delivery of Rosemary because my mother's OBGYN was not available at the time. My mother was told to cross her legs and the nurses tried to prevent the birth taking place before the doctor arrived. My brother was born with brain damage from having his head beat against the birth canal for hours. He died 3 days later. So, yes, it most likely is true about Rose Kennedy's delivery because it was still being done 40 years later. The doctor was God and the nurses would be fired. No one sued the doctor back then.
Sadd
that is absolutely vile - how awful I am so sorry to hear this yes you are right about Dr's thinking they were God.
I’m so sorry for you and your family, I hope your mom recovered from that and didn’t blame herself
I guess knowing myself the way I do I'd have told them where to go and went ahead with giving birth. My Great Grandmother had a drunken Dr. Show up to her house to help with the birth and used forceps crushing the baby's skull.😢😢😢
Doctors still don't have a goddamn clue what they're doing to this day.
Thank you for focusing on her dignity. This was a real person. Few actions are more cruel than those which strip a person of that dignity.
The mother telling the public that she focused all her care on rosemary but kept her a secret and never wrote about her in her letters is so messed up… her family didn’t give a damn about her :(
That's how it seems.
She had many symptoms of being autistic. Delayed development, social struggles, meltdowns, pacing. What a heartbreaking story.
Tragic.
I kept thinking, it sounds like she is autistic. This story is so heartbreaking.
I was thinking that too autism, maybe epilepsy and learning disability
I was thinking the same thing and some children with autism also have seizures. I was just reading about that today. My daughter and granddaughter are autistic.
Exactly my thought. How sad. I wouldn’t dream of letting a dr shove knives into my child’s head.
I’ve always found this one of the most appalling examples of abandonment, barbarism and narcissism of the 20th Century. RIP Rosemary 😭💕
I agree.
Perfect summary.
You think the result is what the family wished ? They wanted her to be healthy and happy. Medical knowledge was not close to what it is now..
@@rudymontana4515 I think "dear daddy" ie. Joe senior got exactly what he wanted - her out of his way and out of the public eye. Her siblings didn't even know where she was. "They wanted her to be healthy and happy." He wanted her to be "normal" which was unobtainable due to her birth circumstances. I agree medical knowledge was not close to what it is now, and we still muck things up when it comes to mental health.
It's horrific, Caroline. It made me feel physically ill
As the mother of two high-functioning autistic children, one who has severely dyslexia, adhd, and outbursts, this is most likely what she had. My son is smart, so intelligent, and well-spoken and kind. He will advance with no problem but much support. My daughter has already graduated college. Rosemary was most likely the same as my son and those were her diagnoses. What made it ten TIMES worse was her family’s expectation of her, their non-acceptance of who she was as a human, and the willingness to write her off. Most importantly though, they CONSTANTLY moved her! You cannot give children, especially THESE children a lack of stability. It is terrible for them and makes such a bad situation worse. I realize she was a horrible product of her time, but worse, she was a product of her family. I will say as a mention. She was stunningly, absolutely stunningly beautiful. The other Kennedy girls literally had NOTHING on her.
Very true.
I'm autistic and this story makes me so angry and sad, joe was a evil father. I thank god there are parents like you that actually love their kids unconditionally much respect
I enjoyed this revealing documentary almost as much as I did your comments on such a misunderstood condition. The human brain. I do believe she was so robbed of her beauty. The only Kennedy in my opinion, who was truly honest. I have learned so much. Thank you.
Agreed. Thank you ❤
Listening to your program, and when you got to the Birth of Rosemary, it hit a nerve, because when I was trying to be born the Dr. was at another hospital doing a birth, so the nurse pushed my head back in and crossed my mothers leg and wrapped her in a blanket. When the Dr. came in the room, asked who did this and fired her on the spot. I was lucky that no brain injury happened, I just had a ridge across my eyes which went away after a couple of days, and left me with a dip in the middle of my skull. Until I saw this video I never knew just how lucky I was. Keep up the good work.
Thank you, it's good to hear that some people recognise safe practice.
Unbelievable how cruel they were to Rosemary, not just with the lobotomy, taking her out of the one place she was happy and kept moving around. She was emotionally abused.
Well, the NAZIS were marching in!
For all we know physically too! ❤
I’m thinking molestation by that uncle who she kicked and showed anger towards.
@@epoulos108 hard to tell. It's very possible that she was molested by her uncle. Still, the way she was treated by her family is horrible.
Joe Kennedy, sr. was an evil, ruthless sob .... I would proffer to you that he was a full blown psychopath ....
Lobotomy is a death sentence. How dare anyone do this to any living being ABSOLUTELY HEARTBREAKING
Interesting that professor didn’t mention that lobotomies were backed by the American medical association at the time.
Idk about death sentence. She died in 2005
if what she had after the "operation" u call it a life then, yeah, lobotomy is not a death sentence @@kadenkohl782
@@kadenkohl782she may not have died in the typical sense, but she lost who she was completely. Kind of the same thing.
Doctors kill and cripple thousands of people every day😢 cry about it
This happened to my mother in 1947. She went into labor in a Catholic hospital. The doctor was golfing and the hospital policy was to tie the legs of the mother together until the doctor could be brought back to the hospital. When he got to the hospital my sister was born and lived 7 minutes after the birth. The hospital said she died of officiation because her ambilical cord wrapped around her neck.
Truly shocking!
As recently as 1995 they told me to hold my daughter in because my EX husband ran out to get dinner and he wasn’t responding to paging announcements. He was eating pizza and thought he could cram it down and then come back. I knew that caused cerebral palsy so no way I listened. Thank Goodness. She’s fine now and is 28 years old.
My great grandma was giving birth to her first child, a baby girl. The doctor wasn’t there yet and the nurse held her legs together so the baby couldn’t come. The doctor showed up an hour later hungover. The baby ended up passing away before she was even born. That would’ve been a lawsuit today.
She would have been safer giving birth completely alone in that case.
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I find the presenter's opinion on this not being likely to be very off putting. You're trying to explain history but won't do the simple research it takes to know this was common practice.
Poor dear baby and mum 😢 .. when a Dr wasn't needed and it was all about the dollar.. the nurse should feel great shame too. Killing the precious baby. So sorry for your Grandma how heart breaking.❤😢
@@davidcoley8500*offputting, one word
YES!!!!!! It happened to me. My OBGYN couldn't get to me on time either. The nurse told me to cross my legs and not to push. 3 times, my daughter's head was pushed back. Eventually my fiancé went to grab a doctor scrubbing up. My daughter was delivered and was in distressed. She was put on oxygen and her tummey was pumped because she swallowed merconium. So yesssss, it does happen and yesssss my daughter was diagnosed with ADHD and borderline remedial. So this is not a lie.😡
I stand corrected - still shocked that it was carried out though.
Incredible. Please tell me this wasn’t in the last 30 years.
Don’t be shocked, sir.. this is the US medical system. The patient comes last, especially women and especially women having babies. It’s such shit
Sad!😢😮
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This happened to my husband's great aunt, Ruth. No one knew about Ruth until she passed away. Then the family was told. Too late for anyone to know her. Ruth was never visited by her family that knew where she was. The rest of the family never knew or was given the chance to know her. It was said to my husband that Ruth lost the ability to speak or to communicate in any way. Basically, she was in a vegetative state. 😢😪😢
Thank for sharing such a terrible story.
I will never forgive the poor standard of care I was given at Adelaide Childrens Hospital in Rose Park, in May, 1974. Nearly 50 yrs later, I still am deeply affected and was a trauma I will take to my grave.
I have a friend who had the nurses hold her legs closed until the doctor got there resulting in serious brain damage to her son. That was in the late 70's. It happened to women more then you could possibly imagine due to the monstrous egos of some OB's.
Thats dreadful
@@Tawadeb It is indeed dreadful but it is in fact true.
I would imagine this was seriously painful. Couldnt it kill you?
Yes, I agree. While the narrator doesn't feel a nurse would do this, I think she would, especially if the doctor insisted (as they often do) that HE be there for the delivery. Doctors can have very big egos, and nurses may be intimidated by them.
My sister in approx '77 in Iowa the babies died.
Poor Rosemary. 😔 I have similar symptoms. I have mental and neurological illness, and autism. Rosemary didn't choose to be sick, she just was. The way she was treated was disgusting.
I agree.
I have autism and my school was in an old sanatorium with an isolation chamber, schokroom and jars fulled with human brains.
@@Waxcoat What? What time frame are you talking of?
@Waxcoat , you are not funny. How immature of you. Grow up and quit acting macho. 😒 You are a bully. Mental and neurological illnesses are nothing to make fun of. And I refuse to respond to any more of your crap. I don't fight online. I will pray for you.
@@professorgraemeyorston , it was senseless. Poor Rosemary 😔
My husband's grandmother had not one, but two separate lobotomies in 1942. My mother-in-law said that her mother had the procedures at the urging of her sister who thought she had a bad temper (even though my mother-in-law never remembered her having a temper). After the lobotomies my husband's grandmother was institutionalized for the rest of her life. My mother-in-law never had her mother near her from the age of ten. What a tragedy! Disgraceful what doctors did to their patients in the name of medical progress.
Still happening
What they’re still doing today
This broke my heart. There are still people out there with beautiful souls that are being ostracized by society just by not being understood. All I can do is ask myself how to change the way things are.. nobody deserves to suffer in any way Rosemary suffered.
I agree, which is why I am trying to do something to challenge preconceptions through my channel.
I met Rose at St Coletta's during the late 1980s when I volunteered as a guide for a blind man in Special Olympics swimming events. St. Coletta's had an olympic size pool and hosted the local Special Olympics swimming events. Had you only seen the pre-lobotomy photos of her, you'd never have recognized her. She wasn't very conversational with me, seemed a kind person. The worst part of the Rosemary's story is that while the Kennedy family did do a lot with Special Olympics, they viewed the very people taking care of her as second class citizens. Her father took a beautiful young woman and ruined her entire life and the saddest part of her story . . . the part that can still evoke tears from me . . . is that she was treated more like a peer ans loved in that institution than by her own damned family (I met a number of them during a couple fundraisers.) Shame on that clan!
Hypocrisy - of the Kennedys - treating caretakers like second class citizens but making a show of charitable events.
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When I was 9 months pregnant, I joked around with my OBGYN. I was getting a routine exam and said that I just wanted to have my daughter already because I was tired of being pregnant. She got some kind of hook and broke my water, gave me something called Pitocin(?) to induce labor and said "Today would be perfect because my shift just started". This actually happened to me only 19 years ago. I'll never forget after that the doctor and the nurses stuck me on a bed flat on my back and I couldn't breathe because I needed to be elevated a little. I kept trying to sit up so I could be on an incline and two nurses sat on me and held me down flat on my back the whole time I was pushing. It felt like I was being suffocated and I was panicking. It frightens me to know how many doctors do things like this just because it is more convenient for them. She induced my labor just because it was a good day for her schedule. I really believe after hearing this that the nurse did stick Rosemary's head back in the birth canal.
Were you alone during this?
My mother was induced with my youngest brother in 1981 so the nurses and doctors could watch Charles and Diana’s wedding 🤦🏻♀️
@@Peoplepease Hopefully you're never in a horrible situation and the people around you decide to blaim you.
Yes they Induced the pregnant women (in Queensland Punlic hospitals) and broke the uterus membrane with an instrument, administered pethidine etc. Nursing staff obeyed the head nurse/matron, none asked for your permission. Zero consent form 40 plus years ago. Things changed a lot from the early 1990s. The expectant mother was no longer treated like a piece of meat. My third child born in 1991, excellent conduct by midwives. Polite and patient, not pushy or too authoritative. In 1991 I thought there was still a chance for the world. Shame about the way things are going now.
No I don't believe ant nurse would be that stupid as to demand for woman to keep her legs together or begin to push the baby back into the womb. Total insanity. Kennedys looked for a simple explanation to shift the blame on someone other than themselves, to stop any insinuation or speculation about a hereditary condition.
As a neurodivergent woman, many of these traits sound like they could align with autism and that makes me terribly sad. “Daydreaming” could also possibly have been a result of inattentive ADHD. We know now that ASD & ADHD do often co-occur. Even today, there is still little awareness about how both disorders present in women & AFAB individuals. She and so many others deserved so much better. Thank you for highlighting her story.
She did indeed.
Almost sounds like maladaptive daydreaming
Sadly, my friend’s mother was told to cross her legs when the doctor could not attend her when she was in labor. He ended up with some physical problems. It doesn’t sound possible, but even in the 50’s some health care providers treated women basically like livestock.
Apparently it’s still happening today because people are sharing their recent stories. How awful. Women and infants have to get treated like living souls or else this will only continue and more people will be born with potentially severe disabilities. Wow.
You were surprised a nurse would do this. Yet many years later - 1943 - a nurse in a hospital in NJ, USA tried to hold me in by pushing on my head because the doctor thought he had time to go eat his lunch. Fortunately for me, she was unsuccessful and was forced to deliver me. Thankfully no harm was done to me. But my mom was certainly not happy. Having had 3 of my own I cannot imagine having someone try to stop a delivery at that stage.
Similar to the delivery of my daughter in 1987. The doctor refused to allow her to be born in the labour room even though her head was crowning. No they had to force my legs together and me into a wheelchair and wheel me to a delivery room quite a ways down the hall. I remember when the head was crowning and my husband ran out into the hallway to find someone. Felt so alone and vulnerable. It is not like you can just get up and walk out! So much amnionic fluid leaking - they had to follow with a mop and bucket. This was after several hours of being on a drip to cause the contractions due to it being a breech birth (and baby had been turned inside my uterus under ultrasound). It felt like a battering ram. Ridiculous. Lost a lot of blood. Glad there are birthing rooms now where you can stay from labour to delivery. My baby seemed to be okay and is considered gifted learner. But the trauma caused post partum depression in me and it was several years before I had the courage to give birth again. After that I gave birth at home with a midwife. I wonder how much post partum depression is actually PTSD?
@sandycampbell1866 I'm so sorry you went through that. PTSD makes sense after traumatic birthing. Sending you big hugs!!!
wow this is unbelievable (even back then). thank you for sharing. Peace
That nurse is more evil than the character "Nurse Ratchet" from One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest.
My third delivery was traumatic. Had to have an emergency hysterectomy and coded three times on the table. I haven't been the same since. I believe that I absolutely do have PTSD.
This was the saddest story I’ve heard in a long time. The doctor was a monster and should have gone to prison. Her parents failed her miserably. So busy trying to put on a fake front they sacrificed their own daughter for sake of appearance. Poor Rose.
And the family is very similar until this day😢
The father was a monster also.
Seems they cursed their own family line.
I totally agree with you.
Maybe, it came down to "expectations." Just listening to this story, I kept thinking it was possible the parents expected her to be high functioning but her progress appeared slow. If she wasn't born to a family which fashioned their lives similar to royalty, her chances of her being accepted regardless of differences not understood, she would have eventually reached her full potential without rejection. The problem with high expectations is once the child is deemed a "failure" for not living up to the perception of the expectations, failure will become the new expectation -- a label one cannot escape -- it'll follow the child for life, as it did for Rosemary. When the commentator revealed she actually had the capacity to understand complex math, explains more than any other theory. She may have never been slow, just extremely intelligent taking time to absorb more information than anyone could perceive.
People that have traumatic brain injuries have a lot of rage and can get really infuriated extremely easily. No wonder she was full of anger, they messed with her brain 🤦🏼♀️
This story tears my heart to pieces. I have a niece whose story this could have been, except for the lobotomy. Thank God for the progression of science, as medications have come so far, but are still not perfect. I have cried for Miss Kennedy's plight, and I will never forget her. Rest in peace, beautiful Rosemary, portrait of innocence. This world was not good enough for you.
I’ve read the biography he cited early in the video. What he utterly fails to mention is that: 1) Laboring women were absolutely told not to push, because the doctor didn’t get his fee if the baby was born before the doctor arrived. 2) Rosemary was a young woman, with all that entails. Her parents were potentially embarrassed because she wasn’t a “nice,” modest girl, but acted on her impulsive attraction to young men. Joe Jr’s friends likely found her “nice” because she was attractive and probably a bit more forward than her peers. Being strict Catholics, the idea of her getting “in trouble,” or even the whisper of her behaving improperly, would have been mortifying to her parents. Doubly so given Joe Sr’s political ambitions for Joe Jr, which were then transferred to JFK when Joe Jr was killed in combat in WWII. If you have any further doubts, think again about the lengths JFK went to, to keep his own chronic illness hidden. Any sign of weakness, illness, or moral failure was locked up or hidden away, until long after Joe Sr’s death.
Your comments are spot on.
You cannot wilfully push a baby out nor can you hold it in. It comes out due to the fetal ejection reflex which is absolutely involuntary. The uterus not the kind of muscle you can control.
@@ritz6982 Of course you can push, have you ever given birth? You just do it with your abdominal muscles, not uterus itself.
@@ritz6982you’re a man, aren’t you?
@@ritz6982the uterus isn’t, but the birth canal is quite literally a muscle
11:07 That's depressing. She found a role that she liked, was capable of performing, and gave her a sense of purpose. She would've also been "out of sight", since her parents were that bothered by her mere existence. But no, her dad just had to drag her back, then destroy what little sense of self and happiness she had left.
Seems they were more concerned in case anyone might notice something was different about Rosemary; thus, instead of allowing her to blossom in society, & the family trying their best to simply work around that, they instead made Rosemary try to "fit in" with the family's hectic, competitive lifestyle-- & to try & keep up as best she could. Even when it was clearly asking too much of her.
it’s really heartbreaking
I've often wondered whether Rosemary was molested as a youngster. I don't really expect anyone to say they knew that Joe Snr might be in a position to shed some light on that. Most fathers would encourage the mother/rest of the family to visit their less fortunate sibling. The fact that Joe Snr wanted to completely sever all communications does cast a lot of doubt on him regarding his own involvement and interactions with this daughter, who might publicly accuse him of something that he would rather she wouldn't be able to remember. Monster Joe Snr.
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I’ve heard that holding a baby back until the doctor arrives happened more than you know. Just 18 years ago when I was with my daughter when she was in labor, they were trying to make her hold off until the doctor arrived & I told them it was time & she couldn’t. A midwife delivered her baby instead of the doctor where I watched her pull in the cord afterwards. I told her to wait until my daughter had a contraction to push. A week later my daughter hemorrhaged & when I asked the doctor if it was caused by her pulling on the cord, he said yes. A lot can happen & if there is no one to stop things from happening, then you are at their mercy.
Learning about the abuse that she suffered at the hands of her parents is sickening. In addition, others probably knew what was taking place and kept quiet. It’s disgusting and despicable. Lost family honor for sure.
Rosemary was the prettiest sister! She had a beautiful smile and looked so full of life. She was probably so frustrated because of how she was treated.😢
Beauty is a radiance that originates from within and comes from inner security and strong character. I think she had a beautiful spirit as well despite not being "normal" like those around her wanted her to be.
@@user56gghtfyeah
Yeah
Agree 100%
Right?! I’d act the same way if I was treated how she was. 😢
I think one of her over sexualized family members was trying to and did silence her. This is horrific. They erased her brain. Evil evil evil. She lived the longest in that condition too
I grew up next to the town where she spent the rest of her life in Wisconsin. If anyone mentioned a “secret Kennedy sister” at St. Colletta’s it was treated as an urban legend because it seemed so implausible and disheartening for school-aged children.
Interesting. The whole story is hard to believe.
They made my mom wait for my brother to be born (she was only 16). It’s crazy they do that to anyone, even a teenage girl. Luckily my brother is 100% okay.
As a psychologist and behavior analyst, I feel that the disintegration of her behavior and emotional functioning over time was largely due to the constant changes in her placement over her lifetime as well as poor medical management. She needed good medical care due to seizures, the consistency of her educational and therapeutic environment, as well as a purpose-filled life, since she was relatively high functioning. Since she lacked these, her condition deteriorated and then she got the blame. The result was her parent’s decision to get her a lobotomy to solve the problems they created. So sad.
I agree.
Some in the death camp system marketed as management? Poor management?
Yours is the best comment here. Ditto from retired special education teacher. Alberta, Canada
Awful , how horrible and very sad.
The truly sad part is that we are now surrounded by 'parents' like this, they are the norm. They routinely excuse their own behaviors, alleviate all guilt and shame, and take no responsibility for the outcome of their children.
In the 50’s my aunt lost a baby during a birth story identical to Rosemary’s birth. She never fully got over it, actually. She said that, right after losing the baby, she felt an incredible urge to steal other women’s babies. Surely a form of postpartum depression or something. She went on to have 3 healthy babies after, thankfully.
This is so tragic. It was terribly sad to hear she wanted so very much to have her father’s approval.😢
Thank you for sharing this story with us. I think we all know (from other accounts of the Kennedy family history) that father, Joe Kennedy, was an egotistical, greedy and a generally evil person. But what he had done to his own daughter, was truly despicable!
He doesn't have the largest fan club!
It is true that the nurses were instructed to hold the baby back by any means until the doctor would arrive. It happened to me, but I was already warned by the county nurse whom I worked for that this was the reason why there were so many mentally challenged children in our county. I believed her
So many people have said the same thing, it doesn't say much for medical ethics.
I suspect this kind of thing has happened to me, more than once. Most recently my urethra was blocked and no-one tried to catheterize me for 11 hours, while they waited for the urologist to show up. First time may have been when I was born. My mother only said that her labor took a long time and pushing me out had become a traumatic experience, helped along by morphine or demerol (which may only slow things down). I was born during a blizzard in NYC, when physicians would have had a hard time getting to the hospital where I was born. My mother showed up at the hospital on the afternoon or evening of 1948 Dec 31 when labor started, but I was not born until 11:00 am on Jan 01. I have some mild neurological abnormalities including severe headaches and atypical facial pain that I remember having as early as age 8 and persisting until now.
It is very true - it happened to my cousin in the seventies. The nurse forced my aunt to delay the birth for 10 minutes and my cousin was born with crossed eyes and has an IQ under 80 😢
@@OhK746 _How_ did the nurse force your aunt to delay giving birth for 10 minutes? I'm not asking because I don't believe you. I'm asking because if I know how the nurse did that, I would have a better chance of fighting back should a health care worker want to force me to do something that I don't want to do, not to mention force one of my grandchildren to delay giving birth. I feel so fortunate that my wife gave birth to my son at home, with a nurse-midwife, and with me, and not with an MD.
Sorry for your suffering. I believe your story. My mother worked for a doctor in the late 1940s. She said, whenever the doctor entered a room, the women working there were required to stand up to display respect for his superior status.
It's so pathetic that her parents did not accept her as she is, which to me, is the only things she longed for throughout her miserable life, RIP
It is pathetic how judgmental people are when you are not like them. Very scary and cruel!
@@janinegrey6937 so reminds me of Diana's death/murder as well in the UK
if rich people do that - heaven help people without money.
It was a different time. One did not speak of such things.:( Then again, there is the case of the daughter of Dale Evans and Roy Rogers. The daughter had Downs Syndrome; Dale wrote a book about her daughter. The legacy of Dale and Roy -- the one for children who are otherly abled -- still lives on. Still based in Apple Valley, California, where Dale and Roy lived.
My labor and delivery nurse did that to me when the Dr on call was running late in 2019, and my child had to be revived, it took them a long time, he was totally gray, now I know that she had compressed the umbilical cord in such a way that oxygenated blood could flow away from him but not get back to him. I am considering legal things…but it is just so hard to deal with in my mind. They said my child might have difficulties later on, it could not be known at the time, and it has turned out that he does. Idk why anyone would do that. ETA I’m not lamenting his difficulties, he’s perfect the way he is and I am so so so lucky to be his mom, it’s just the almost losing him part that I can’t get over.
I found it hard to believe in 1918, to do anything similar in 2019 would be indefensible.
@@professorgraemeyorston I can’t either! I was in a hospital. A “safe”place. People give birth in cars or accidentally at home without a Dr present all the time, nobody ever makes an attempt to keep the baby inside then, so why at a hospital.
@@itchysheets1222 You’re absolutely right! & you have critical thinking when you ask yourself why at the hospital but not anywhere else? America has the highest infant mortality rate in the world. It’s because of those d@mn hospitals interfering & unnecessary intervention. If a mom can deliver a baby in the passenger seat or on the sidewalk, then why can’t a mom push one out on a bed? A doctor doesn’t HAVE to be present for a baby to be born. Babies are born everyday with out them but it’s the money they want & to be in control of every labor that enters their doors. It’s sick. Watch the documentary “the business of being born” No one should be told to hold their crowning baby inside! Our bodies are designed to birth babies so why can’t nurses of all people understand that? Someone needs their licensed removed & never work in health care again. Too bad they aren’t held accountable for the damage they caused to healthy children. No one should suffer at the hands of “professionals” but you’re better off staying away from the very business that profits from sick, injured & disabled people.
@@angeliquemarie6265 I have seen it and it’s excellent, you’ve inspired me to watch it again. I may just hold them accountable, one way or another. The doctor came in literally running in fancy evening attire and seemed drunk, took her forever to get there when she was on call, one doctor on call for a whole women’s hospital full of women, and you have one Labor and Delivery doctor…on call not even on site. Unreal when I think about it. She probably drove drunk to get there smh
I BELIEVE SHE WAS MEDICALLY HARMED TO KEEP QUIET.....SHE KNEW WHAT THE FAMILY WAS DOING 😡😡🤬
My son was born in 1975. Nurses told me (don't push, Doctor isn't here yet). I continued to push. They administered somthing that knocked me out. My son was healthy. We went home together on the 3rd day. He is smart, funny, and the joy and pride of my life. I have always resented and regretted not being conscious during his birth.
I have certainly learned something about US obstetric practice from all the similar comments. Thank you.
It's all about making it easy for the professionals, even the fact that a woman has to lay down prostated on her back, for the doctor's ease and convenience. 😡
Those Dr’s snd every one of them that practiced evil practices is why more and more people are turning against Dr’s. They aren’t to be trusted with our lives. I can’t imagine the nightmare so many women and lots of people for different reasons went through. It’s terribly didturbing.
This is heartbreaking, I can’t imagine a labotomy with just a local anaesthetic. It’s torture ❤
The brain has no sensory nerve endings, but the bone at the top of the eye certainly does!
I can’t see ANY reason for a lobotomy EVER how sick!!
@professorgraemeyorston you know, my neuro surgeon told me that before my first brain surgery and told me there wouldn't be a lot of pain involved. I'm going in for my 3rd brain surgery on the 7th and I don't know who TF tells doctors that, but they need to quit. I gave birth to my 5 children completely unmedicated and natural. I don't shy away from pain. In fact, I kinda like it 😅 and childbirth is NOTHING compared to the pain involved with it.
@@proudmilitarybrat8984 You should maybe speak up about this to the docs. There are sedation methods that can be turned up or down, so they could wake you once they are inside the brain. That's the part that doesn't hurt (or shouldn't; ymmv I suppose). They need you awake so they can make sure they aren't cutting into something important. Your case is not something you should have to suffer through. We have very good pain control drugs these days.
@@incognitotorpedo42 yep. We have very good pain medication these days and we're in the middle of a drug epidemic. Although I have never had a drug addiction problem, been treated for an addiction of any sort, or tested positive for anything illegal, after my last surgery in 2019 I was sent home after 72 hours without pain medication because "brain surgery doesn't hurt". I smoke weed now. 😅
That kind of happened to my aunt when her first child was born, Charles was born finally and the nurse dropped him on the floor. He was physically disabled! He was my favorite cousin. He passed away at age 18, I miss him greatly!
What a tragedy.
A college friend volunteered at Ste. Colletta's in the early 1970's. Her interactions with this unfortunate woman were limited, but she said that Rosemary loved banging on the piano for long periods and that, other than gently trying to distract her, the staff let her do whatever she wanted.
My paternal uncle Barry was born with Down’s Syndrome around 1949. Seemingly exactly like Joe Kennedy, my grandfather was ashamed of him and made my grandmother put him out of sight in his crib whenever company arrived. Soon after, my dad who was a few years older than Barry, remembers that they all got in the family car one day and drove Barry to an institution. And my dad never saw his baby brother again. Dad lived in fear of “doing something wrong like Barry obviously had” and finding himself dropped off at an institution, too. Decades later he tried to track down any record of Barry and found nothing. There was one single picture of the two brothers together, my Dad a smiling big brother holding young toddler Barry on his lap, Barry very clearly having the Down’s syndrome facial features, and staring at his own hands. It’s so unbelievably sad. As a mother now I can’t help wondering why my grandmother put up with it, why she submitted to that nonsense. She was an incredibly loving woman who doted on my dad til her dying day, and she should have had six kids. My grandfather refused to try for more after his poor son, Barry, was born. Those were times when any birth defect was considered tragic. And later, thalidomide babies were sometimes not even being shown to their mothers and just “taken away”. Hopefully all these medical people who played God had to face God in time and account for their evils.
God isnt real, and if he is, he willingly created the evil monsters we speak of. So, in my logical mind, god is either to blame, or not real. Worshippong such an entity is a sign of weakness..."i will submit as long as I am spared". If i were to meet god at the gates of heaven. Id tell him to choke and die and that i woild rather spend eternity in hell than praise such a narcissistic being.
@@AaronHenduIn your darkest moments you turn to him, don’t you. He’s with you, always, loving you at a level you cannot even comprehend.
Praise be to Satan
Women then didn't have the same options that we do now. Love to you and your family.
You've never read the Bible in the beginning. Genesis will tell you that man himself, Adam and Eve didn't obey God. He told them what would happen if they partook of the sin. He gave them a freewill to choose which way they would go. Eve listened to the devil and then Adam and that's why there are monsters in the world of human beings. God gave them a life free of these things. They chose to listen to the devil. Don't listen to the devil. He's the one you can blame for this. Just read it and read it until you can believe what really happened. Jesus gave his life for you. You see, he was the second Adam that people can be born again through the Spirit. Adam's flesh took him over. Jesus had to come to this earth to be born and feel the things we feel and die so any person who will accept him will be born again through the Spirit. Your Spirit can be reborn. Then read Matthew, Mark, Luke and john and learn this. You don't want to go to hell!!! You don't know all about this, but you can learn if you will search it and seek the face of God. I promise you there is life in Jesus, and he made us to overcome the obstacles in life as he overcame them. Sin came in through one time of disobeying God, but they had been warned not to partake of sin. The flesh of old man Adam is enmity to the new man Jesus. There's a never-ending war between them because the Spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. If you will try to learn this and accept Jesus into your heart, your Spirit, you will never be the same because Jesus is life and life everlasting!! He will give you that life!!
This horror of a birth story sounds exactly like my sister in laws mother. When her mom was delivering the baby, the nurse literally held her legs together for over an hour waiting for the doctor to get there. The baby was born with mental and physical disabilites which are consistent with oxygen deprivation. She couldnt walk but for a couple of steps so she is in a wheelchair. Her speech is slow, she has tantrums and cant dress or care for herself. She has lived a long life and is deeply loved. She is in her 70's now and back then, nurses indeed did hold back the births until the doctor arrived, clearly not all of them but it did happen.
Oh my God, what shit is this?
How 😢😢😢. Nowadays the babies coming whether the doctor is there or not. Nurses take care of everything!
I think the narrator is naive if he believes this doesn’t happen. My mother, a nurse, reported a doctor for doing the same thing. The doctor had promised the patient an epidural, but by the time he reached the hospital the baby was ready to be born. Instead of delivering the baby he gave the woman a saddle block and held the baby until it took affect. The baby died. The Doctor was drunk. These disgusting things do indeed happen.
How could her mother and father allow that to happen to their Beautiful daughter. Shame on them..😢
@@sheonaphee91 they saw her as an embarrassment rather than a beautiful girl they brought into this world. I can't understand how any parent could view their child as an embarrassment
Such a sad story! This shows the ignorance and prejudice of mentally handicapped people during that time period!!! That she spent most of her life in an institution, isolated from family is so heartbreaking!! Thank you for posting this!!! Emily from Missouri US
Thanks Emily.
I cannot fathom the cruelty that was perpetrated on Rose & so many others back then AND how it was allowed to go on for so long. From studies on this subject, I recognize many of her symptoms are can be attributed to childhood sexual abuse trauma. I am highly suspicious of her fathers behaviour in keeping her away from the rest of the family, maybe he was the one hiding a secret. Thank you for the revealing the sad story of Rosemary Kennedy whom I pray rests easy with the angels!
Many people have speculated about whether she might have been abused, but there are no specific behavioural or psychological symptoms of this and her behaviour might have been related to many different issues.
I cant imagine the pain Rosemary went through. Her family shuffling her around from place to place. Mental health was very inhumane and cruel.
It was indeed.
It is still inhumane and cruel.
It's not much better today. Nowadays they just pump people full of drugs that knock them out and leave them zombiefied - stupid, unable to think or do the simplest things. Chemical lobotomies really! And I've heard so many stories of people in mental facilities getting abused. Not that this is surprising - who would believe them???
All that money, but shamefully inhumane treatment rather than love and support.
WAS? It still is.
The storytelling here drove home a painful point. While Rosemary may have struggled in many ways, the one thing she had in her early life was that she was a vibrant, communicative and expressive young woman, whose ability to communicate all of that was literally severed by a callous cut of a knife, from which she would never recover and for the rest of her life be largely trapped inside her own mind and body, and then shut away for many years. I can't imagine how much happier she became once she was reunited with her family.
Was wondering if that so called "doctor" who- performed- the -- who criminally assaulted Rosemary -- was ever made to pay for those crimes. But i guess we already can pretty much surmise the answer to that.
I also do believe the horrible and horrifying story of the nurse forcing Mrs Kennedy to keep her legs tightly closed until the doctor arrived. My mother-in-law was acted upon in exactly the same way when delivering her first of five children in a Boston hospital some 75+ years ago. Consequences followed. I cannot speak to the pushing of the baby back up the birth canal, but it seems as if it would not be beyond the realm of possibility.
Kennedy Sr was too busy with his many mistresses to actually care about one daughter. In his eyes, the lobotomy may have been a success since Rosemary no longer lashed out or caused further embarrassment to the family. He wanted her docile and under control. He got that and some. By placing her in an institution, she was exactly where he wanted her - locked up and out of the way. This man had no scruples or morals. His poor wife didn’t even know until after it had been done. That alone shows how much he cared or wanted her input. Everything was about appearances.
That's my sense of him too, there really is very little out there that paints him in even a remotely positive light.
That old man is in his eternity now. Wonder where That is!!
They sound like a narcissistic family.
@@blossom1643 in one of innumerable Kennedy family biographies I've read, the author wrote of the old man's being driven crazy by the frequently eerie sounds made by the Cape Cod winds which frequently battered the house.
A parent can abuse the child so badly emotionally in the formative years that a child can actually become mute. People should really read up about how narcissistic abuse can absolutely destroy a child and that’s what I think happened in this case.
I'm a 58 year old man and your presentation brought me to tears with an emotion I don't know what to do with other than lose myself in painting with my watercolors for awhile.
❤❤
Perhaps you will create a masterpiece in watercolors while you find yourself sympathizing with the torture Rosemary must have endured.
Did you also paint when Trump won in 2016?
I pray and give it to God…but also love watercolors too. God bless.
This is what happens to a world without Christianity.
This happened to my grandmother. My aunt was born and had cerebral palsy. Sadly got sick in the 40’s and passed away at a very young age
I’m no religious person, but as an Autistic woman, I would say if there’s anyone deserving of becoming a Saint, it would be Rosemary Kennedy. Patron Saint of victims of medical and psychiatric abuse, the disabled, and neurodivergent. I feel a connection to her, as a survivor of psychiatric abuse/malpractice, and I can’t imagine I’m alone in that.
Good suggestion.
Nope...not alone
As someone who absolutely would have been lobotomized in the early/mid 20th century, Rosemary’s story has always intrigued, horrified, and saddened me.
I literally think how grateful I am all the time bc I absolutely would have been lobotomized if I were alive back then :P it’s so messed up
They didn't say that in this video, but actually the lobotomies sometimes DID work, and cause improvements. They almost would have had too in order for them to go on as many years, and for them to do as many as they did. I believe it is still done, though much rarer now. It sounds like its kind of like vaccines. If your one of the few who gets a terrible life changing reaction to a vaccine, or know of someone personally who has, you naturally are against vaccines! But they seem to do good for the majority.
Poor Rosemary, she went through so much torture and anguish, rest in peace sweet lady 🙏❤️
As a young kid, I often accompanied my mother to Napa State Hospital (Imola) where she was a psychiatric nurse. At that time, her assignment was caring for lobotomized people who were living in one of the doctor's mansions, which had been turned into a ward. I remember getting ice cream and other small items they could ask for. Most were very sweet, but overall, they were the walking dead. No emotion, no joy or unhappiness, just existence. This was about sixty years ago. Many of these folks had been lobotomized during a time when psychotropic drugs such as thorazine and other anti-psychotic drugs were not yet available, and shock treatment had already been tried. This is not to say that all of these patients had suffered from schizophrenia. Some had been chronically anxious or depressed, perhaps violent with behavioral seizures. There was no way to know who or what these people had been at one time. It was a very melancholy and sad place. I've never forgotten these tragic individuals.
I have seen a few people who were lobotomised but mercifully few.
Rosemary was taken by her father UKNOWN TO ROSE out of state for a lobotomy. His reasoning was that he believed Rosemary would harm others in the family. As she had aged, Rosemary saw that she was different. She saw her siblings having lives she couldn't. Rose Kennedy was livid and heartbroken. Now there is the truth. Lady from Massachusetts.
I was born in 1968 and a nurse at the hospital in Pennsylvania where i was born tried to but her hand on my head to try to wait for the doctor who hadn't made it into the ER yet. Luckily my mother knew this was a bad idea and "kicked her out of the way". And I've heard similar accounts of this happening with inexperienced nurses. But regardless of what condition she had a lobotomy is horrible and should never happen.
Well done to your mother!
I had to wait 30 minutes for the doctor to arrive after I told the nurse that I was crowning. The nurses had been ignoring me throughout my labor because there were so many women delivering that day. When my doctor finally arrived, I was allowed to push. My baby was wisked to the NICU because she wasn't breathing. So, you better believe this happens. This was 22 years ago.
That happened to me in 1985 and lost twins. My knees were forcefully held together.
How did anyone think this is ok?
@@sharondowns3606this sucks twins are cool. Doctos still doing horrible stuff probably better to give birth at home.without them
Well done. Rosemary’s story needs to be told. I think RFK Jr. would want her story to be told to. He has been a voice for the voiceless.
My aunt who was a nurse in the 40's and 50's told me about how the doctors would require the nurses to hold the baby from birth until they got there so the doctor could get credit.
Shocking!
This is such a sad story - Rosemary seemed like a lovely person. You told this story in a very heart-felt, compelling manner.
Thank you Thomas, in all that I've read about her she comes across as a delightful young woman who just wanted to make her parents proud of her.
Got to say, that was a very well put together documentary, provoking a lot of deep thinking and thoughtful consideration in your empathetic viewers, as is evident through the comment section here. Liked and subbed.
My grandmother was a nurse at St. Coletta and Alverno dormitories in the late 60's early 70's. She had helped with Rosemary's healthcare needs on several occasions. She claimed to have had interactions with Rose Kennedy and said that Rosemary's lobotomy and subsequent "disappearance" was Joe's way of making sure that she couldn't bring embarrassment or shame to the family. Joe was a real piece of work with a one track mind and ruled the family with an iron fist. My grandmother said that Rose would visit Rosemary fairly often, albeit out of the public eye. I don't know how much my grandmother really knew or interacted, but based on some of the things she had said, I find it hard for her to have made them up. Especially, that there have been several things that have come to light in the last 30 years that would not have been known by anyone except those who had firsthand knowledge.
Thank you, I hope Rose did visit her daughter, that would have been something.
I DO think so, and her brothers loved her in spite of all this.
Many people thought that lobotomy was the answer, when it first came out as a treatment for mental illness. Much like Prozac, when it first came out. Parents were told by doctors that this was the right thing to do for their children, and they believed it. And the surgery, did, in fact, help many people. But it did not work for some, like Rosemary Kennedy. I'm sure that her parents thought that they were doing the right thing for her.
A nurse tried that with my daughter in 1992. She was at shift change thank God the other nurse came in and the Dr was called and came and delivered baby. Thank God he did not suffer any damage.
How horribly sad. Both of her parents were hard hearted, due to their pride. I knew she had been lobotomized, but I had no idea what had been done to her before that. As an RN who takes care of people with developmental disabilities and related conditions for 25 years, this brought tears to my eyes. Thank God JFK sought to improve conditions for people with IDD.
Thank God indeed!
Rose Kennedy was not hard hearted, but just incredibly stupid! And, Joe Kennedy had Rosemary lobotomized before telling her mother about it.
We are far from helping or medical treating our disabled, mentally ill. We should be ashamed that in the USA this is how our most vulnerable population is regarded. You really don't understand until you go through mental illness or cognitive disability in your own family, with someone you love. It's a true horror show. Stop sending pallets of money to other countries to hurt and kill others. We need to take care of our most vulnerable here and home and then help the world 🙏
@@sgriff3774 Its much the same here in the U.K. Susan. If a country or humanity is judged by how we care for the weakest amongst us. We have few reasons to be satisfied with ourselves.
I think the family was ashamed because it was the norm to institutionalize the children who have special needs.
I can believe that the nurses delayed her deliver. I was born in 1959 and the nurses crossed my mother’s legs to delay my delivery. They did this because the doctor was attending a New Year’s party and they were trying to give him time to get there for the delivery. Luckily it didn’t seem to cause me any harm.
You were fortunate.
The Drs would get mad if they missed the delivery as their pay could be withheld.
Must have been an angel at your mom's side!
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Thank you, Professor Yorston, for your informative videos. Yes, it's a heartbreakingly sad case. I knew of Rosemary Kennedy but her story was always shrouded in mystery. I am grateful for your sharing this and other videos that shed light on what has been willfully hidden away. Joseph Kennedy was a monster for sure. It's good that truth finally outs.
My grandmother legs were tired together during labor because the doctor wasn't there yet. That's just the beginning. After the DR got there, after delivering my uncle, he was dropped on the floor by a nurse.
Appalling!
My father built her a home in Maitland, FL in the early 1980 with early disability features like ramps, accessible kitchen and bathrooms. This was way ahead of it time for residential construction. I worked for my dad in high school mostly cleaning up after the subcontractors. No one knew who the property was for, except my family. This was to protect her from a prying press that was always willing to expose her and her family.
I have a 22 year old sibling that had birth circumstances like this. Mom was told not to push and the nurse tried to shove him back in. He is disabled and had epileptic seizures when he was younger, which often rolled back any developmental progress he was making at the time. Our case seems to be more recent than the ones I'm seeing in the comments which leads me to believe this is likely still happening. Nurses need to be specifically trained not to do this type of shit. It needs to be impressed upon them how damaging this is. I don't think it's safe for us to assume this has changed / improved on its own, at least not enough to prevent it happening again.
Thankfully nurses are coming into a time where they are regarded as skilled clinicians in their own right, not just the person who carries out the doctor's orders. As for OB/GYNs, the ob I used to work for paid over 100k in malpractice insurance (that was HIS part) yearly. If these stories are true- they should have made them pay more than that...
Why do that?
sounds like it was grade ii dystocia (a stuck shoulder on the way out) The Hibbard technique involves pushing the baby back in, then fundal pressure is applied to rotate the babys shoulder to dislodge it
I didn’t know this, bless her soul. They should have left her in England
@@blueshibaicomon now doctors do trans operation on kids dont take medics serious they r clowns
I feel so sad knowing that Rosemary Kennedy experienced shame because of her intellectual disability. Also, having Rosemary move so often to different environments must have been hard for her to develop stability and routine. It's terrible that Rosemary's father agreed for his own daughter to undergo a lobotomy that left her depleted of life making her disability worse that she could not walk or talk properly. I don't understand why a lobotomy was done if there were such bad risks.
Because the world was desperate to find a "cure" for the growing numbers of people in mental hospitals.
Excellent content, please do more. One small critique, try to match the volume of your commentary to the volume of your music inserts. The music nearly blew my ears out when I had the volume turned up to hear your soft spoken dialogue.
There are over 100 videos on the channel - and we've got a lot better with the sound with the more recent ones.
I knew a friend in 1966 that something similar happened! It was a nurse who made her “keep her legs tightly closed” when it was inconvenient without the doctor’s presence! No untoward effects happened but this was unconscionable!! I was a labor and delivery nurse 20 years later and delivered 3 babies myself when the doctor couldn’t get there in time! This story is so very sad!!
Celebrate!! You are a heroine!
Thank you for doing what you knew to be right for both the baby and mother. You were a blessing to mothers and babies. Thank you!🥰
Wow this is so shocking my sister was delivered by the nurses and the sister at our hospital in 1965 because the doctor had gone to a meeting or home for lunch and there was no stopping the delivery because he wasn't there
@@tinawestergaard2130 Thank God for the nurses and the sister!
What a heartbreaking story. I wish she could have stayed at the Montessori school.😢
I think she would have had a long and happy life is she had.
Not hard to believe when you've had that happen to yourself. My nurse came in when my second baby was in the birth canal and my ob was at another hospital doing her rounds. Her eyes got big and she put my numb legs down so he wouldn't proceed further. He waited there a good 20min waiting for my OB to arrive. It really disgusts me and I've had pelvic floor problems ever since. Ladies, if your baby wants out, LET IT OUT! Don't let some nurse boss you around
It seems it was not uncommon.
I just found this channel. You’ve got a new subscriber. You are exposing a very important history here. It needs to be known. We still have a LONG way to go when it comes to mental health. I get disgusted and upset by attitudes and treatment of individuals with disabilities in this day and age-but learning about history like this reminds me we’ve come a long way… and gives me hope that we can continue to progress as a society. Videos like these (and education in general about where we’ve come from) help.
Bless her poor soul. The treatment for mental illness and learning disability has a shocking history and we should not forget people like Rosemary who suffered in this way.
May they be forgiven for all they were told to do as nurses by some Doctors amen
I’m an RN, and I know this is horrific and hard to believe in this day and age. However, they did things differently back in the not so distant past. I worked with a woman who had a disabled son, who died young. She told me that when she was in labor, the doctor was late, and the nurses held her legs together. She said she could feel her baby’s head banging against her pelvis. They didn’t have fetal monitors or routinely do ultrasounds then like they do now either. A lot of babies strangled on their umbilical cord as it was around the neck and got tighter with each contraction. So glad I practiced nursing in a much more enlightened time.
Today’s medical practice is still archaic and a top leading cause of death. Yet every era, the ‘science’ is decided to be settled. Yet people are insane enough to push for ‘mandatory ‘ practices.
How horrific!!
Reading these replies, I can see now that I was lucky to have practiced with more knowledgeable and caring individuals. In a hospital that kept up with the times. I’m so sorry for anyone who suffered the fools who committed these uncaring, selfish acts.
It is also important to question practices today that might not be good for patients.
So horrific! I'm beyond thankful for modern healthcare. My water broke 3 weeks early and during active labor, I noticed the nurse and my partner were nervous. They put an oxygen mask on me and didn't tell me till later what was going on because they wanted to keep me calm. When my son crowned, the Dr told me what was going on and asked permission to use forceps. The umbilical cord was wrapped around my son's neck 3 times! His heartbeat was dropping on each contraction. The Dr said it does happen, but 2 times around is rarer, and 3 times very rare! Thank God, my son was born perfectly healthy. Without modern medical monitoring and knowledge, I'm not sure it would've gone so well.
Wow. Absolutely tragic. Thank you sharing her story. This presentation was very well put together and informative. Thank you!!
Glad you enjoyed it.
Nothing I've learned about Joe leaves me liking or trusting him. Whether it was about image or the need to help his daughter I agree "it was probably a liitle bit of both." I do wonder if the siblings were carrying generational guilt their parents didn't seem to show. Rosemary was forgotten, cut out of the family portrait. Turning guilt into usefulness for others seems a legitimate and healthy way to deal with it, especially if the guilt wasn't yours in the first place. Well, Professor Yourston, thank you for another well informed concise video. You certainly have a gift for teaching and sharing your knowledge! It's so slippery to try to judge the past within the context of its own time, but you do it very well.
Thank you, I try not to judge but to present the possibilities to allow everyone to decide for themselves, but going by the other comments, there aren't many in the Joe Snr fan club!
Holding legs shut was a procedure that was practiced when the doctor was not available. I know this because this is what was done at my birth. My mother's quick response was to kick the nurse away and out I came straight away. I was born blue, not breathing and unresponsive. I was taken away from my mother and brought back 3 hours later. I was breathing correctly at this point. I suppose I was put in an incubator but I'm not sure. So I believe it's mostly true for Rosemary to have lost oxygen, especially if she was held back for two hours.
If you had been put in an incubator in the 1940s you would probably be blind. They put pure oxygen in those back in those days, which destroyed babies eyes.