SEVEN MIND GAMES PLAYED BY THE NARCISSIST
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How often have you felt manipulated by a narcissist? It has probably happened more times than you'd like to admit since manipulation is what they do. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter describes 7 mind games commonly played by a narcissist, and outlines ways to stay clear of them.
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It’s so weird when you expose a narcissist, it’s like realising someone you thought was very confident and powerful becomes an insecure child
“That didn’t happen.
They hardly ever like your music, movies, restaurants, friends, but get their feelings hurt if you ever dont like their preferences.
sending all my love to anyone whos endured narcissistic abuse ❤
THEY start shit and say nothing, then turn it on you like it's your fault.
Being around it is like being arrested. Anything you do and say can and will be used against you. 😢
They truly hate you when you don’t play their games
Once you know their game is impossible to have a relationship. It’s abuse . The only answer is not contact. It’s hell living with a narcissist.
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the narcissist isn't confident, they're grandiose. Inside they are wretchedly insecure
I’ve met a lot of narc men with one thing in common: mommy issues. But sometimes daddy issues. It all starts at home.
Walking away is the only solution to get rid of from the Narcissist.
They also seem to forget what happened and what they said the day before.... really strange. They carry on like it never happened and that you are crazy.
Never tell them your secrets or insecurities.
Married to one for 10 years. I had no idea until a couple years ago this was a form of abuse. He even took me to a therapist for antidepressants because I was reacting to the abuse. Wow. Recovering every day. 5 years since separated
When the devil can't reach you, he sends a Narcissist. I just flushed one after 2 years of up and down behavior. She had no friends. She was never wrong. She never owned her erratic behavior. You couldn't confront her in any way...she just projects or avoids responding. Everything was about what she wants.... everything was about her....never us. She was constantly worried about what everyone thinks of her. She was also on my back about how I dressed....how I looked. I came to find out that it was not caring about me but her being embarrassed by my attire....my appearance. No....go practice your wicked game on someone else, lady. Glad to put her in my rearview. Live and learn.
Wish they taught this in high school.
some people are born without arms and legs.Narcissist's are born without empathy and compassion
I was raised by a narcissist mother. She destroyed my relationship with my brother, because we were close. Always tells me I can trust her which I never will again. It took many years to break away. It is sad for me as I have no idea what it is like to have a mother that actually cares about you.
It’s scary the sheer volume of ‘narcissists’ within our society these days. I’m sure I can’t be the only one who sees it as demonic..the good news is you’ll be so much wiser after tangling with one, and stronger if you choose to learn and be insightful about yourself