What Trauma Taught Me About Resilience | Charles Hunt | TEDxCharlotte

2016 ж. 17 Қар.
915 064 Рет қаралды

That resilience is one of the most important traits to have, is critical to their happiness and success, & can be learned.
Adept at leveraging transparency to inspire and get results, this former College Recruiting, Talent Management, Diversity, and Supply Chain leader left the corporate world to fulfill his vision of building unbreakable spirits and cultivating resiliency for those who, like him, have The Audacity to Succeed. He helps students & young professionals build resilience, believe in bigger and greater for themselves, and create the educational, financial, and professional plans to get there.
As the founder of The Audacity Firm, LLC, his firm provides professional & personal development programs, coaching, and events to equip clients with financial literacy/education, workforce readiness, professional development, and career planning tips, tools, and strategies to LIVE, DO, and BE BETTER.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • Both of my parents were addicts, then I grew up in foster care from age 5 until 18. I also used to visit my mom in jail. By the time I "aged out" of foster care, both my parents were dead. I had no one. Statistically I should have ended up in jail, addicted, homeless, or dead. I am none of those things. I have a Bachelor's Degree in English & am now working on my second college degree to pursue my dream of being a Veterinary Technician. I'm married and have a beautiful home. I'm healthy and work hard every day to become the person nobody thought I'd ever be. Much love to you and all you've overcome. Resilience is definitely one of the keys. Awesome talk. ✌

    @ang_ro@ang_ro4 жыл бұрын
    • Hey Ang...thanks for watching, and inspiring me with your story. LOVE to see people overcome situations that easily could have destroyed them. Keep thriving, and continued resilience to you as you do!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • Love this 👏🏾👏🏾 more success to you 🙏🏾

      @youheard03@youheard034 жыл бұрын
    • You are a BADASS congrats on your strides and being unapologetically you

      @milliemogudala9982@milliemogudala99823 жыл бұрын
    • You are brilliant x

      @jacquelinewalmsley9010@jacquelinewalmsley90103 жыл бұрын
    • Ang Ro Actually you were not destined for the streets or the other things due to your childhood. Yes, it was rough and I feel for you, but the addiction and homelessness you speak of is the result of your brain and body reacting to hands on abuse, not because you were placed in care.

      @Steven-ze2zk@Steven-ze2zk3 жыл бұрын
  • This guy is my neighbor! He’s an amazing guy off camera too.

    @levikohler1961@levikohler19614 жыл бұрын
    • My man!! Much appreciated. (Daps)

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 hey dude!

      @kadengomez1755@kadengomez17554 жыл бұрын
    • I believe that! On and off the camera 💪

      @xw6475@xw64754 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 Your speech is amazing, I have also childhood trauma which left me broken. Finally I have gathered my strength to see a trauma therapist this week. Your story is powerful! You made me believe I can heal my childhood trauma and I can overcome this too. Thank you so much Charles!!

      @xw6475@xw64754 жыл бұрын
    • Wowie that's cool :D

      @765LT_@765LT_3 жыл бұрын
  • "Don't sacrifice your future for todays pain" - AMAZING perspective

    @christinaroseli6143@christinaroseli61432 жыл бұрын
  • “Life doesn’t adhere to any delivery windows, change comes when it comes.”

    @myachabely9965@myachabely9965 Жыл бұрын
  • God is my strength. Every traumatic thing and bad situation i have been through god has always still been there with me in the fire and darkness. I encourage everyone if you havent already try god, talk to him, let him in your life!my strength and resilience comes from GOD not leaving my side.He can do the impossible❤️

    @tolaanheart@tolaanheart8 ай бұрын
  • I am at my lowest and I came across this unexpectedly amazing talk. If you could bounce back and rise from the horrible situation you were in, I see no reason why I can't. Thank you for sharing your story, Charles, thank you...

    @ninger4199@ninger41997 жыл бұрын
    • You're very welcome...I shared mine for people just like you who are currently going through. There is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON why you can't thrive, and not just in spite of, but precisely BECAUSE of what you've experienced. Blessings and support to you as you keep pressing forward! You CAN and WILL!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Ning Er Hi. How are you doing now???

      @Chasiraw@Chasiraw6 жыл бұрын
    • Be strong coz u are 💕❤️💖

      @harenrussel@harenrussel5 жыл бұрын
    • your at your lowest ok

      @Bennybass3@Bennybass33 жыл бұрын
    • I hope you're doing well now!

      @Xavier-up6op@Xavier-up6op3 жыл бұрын
  • I’m 29. I just discovered what mental illness is last night. The connection I had to it. I went on a scizo binge that lead to homelessness about 6 months ago. Little did I know I was subconsciously chasing my own healing. I was willing to loose everything to just sit and meditate and learn to love myself. All the ways mental health is connected to abuse and know one helped me. Im shocked at the ignorance and unsupport of my family. I’ve asked for help so many times in my life and after 29 years I’m the only one helping me. I learned to love myself more than anyone. I want to live, and to love, and feel unshaken and inspire others. I’m proud of you all who are fighting this on your own. Keep doing that. Hurt people hurt people. But healed people heal people. Peace is closer than we think, we are all worthy of purpose

    @mdogg9169@mdogg91692 жыл бұрын
    • Mdogg, How are you now ? In life there are only 2 problems--mind and the body. Be careful what you feed your mind. To feel better reduce negative thoughts and overthinking. Avoid comparing with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed, avoid moving too much and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Observe your breath sensations before sleep, in college, at work, taking a walk, when reading, etc.etc. Doing public speaking courses will build your confidence. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.

      @shyaaammeneen63@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
  • They played this to us at a mental hospital, this stuck with me.

    @beanman1068@beanman10682 жыл бұрын
  • ppl say not to compare traumas & all but i hear stuff like this; they’re right we don’t have to compare traumas, but we don’t have to determine ours be the worst of them all n just completely stop from growing. love resilience, love discussing it, love hearing examples of it. we’re stronger than we give ourselves credit for.

    @uncleblaezr@uncleblaezr7 ай бұрын
  • "The worst of life couldn't take out the best of me" - you are one amazing human being, Charles Hunt!

    @HIVgirl1@HIVgirl14 жыл бұрын
    • I'm humbled...thanks a bunch!!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 "Life doesn't adhere to any delivery windows" - so true. I believe the dictionary has the wrong definition of resilience.. it talks about snapping back to where you were before. It seems that it takes you to new heights and doesn't take you back. I'm posting your talk wherever I can. thank you!

      @HIVgirl1@HIVgirl14 жыл бұрын
    • ​@@charleshunt9961 Much love to you, Sir.❤️

      @dreams-bv7tr@dreams-bv7tr2 ай бұрын
  • "... without sacrificing the future, for today's pain." Well said my friend. Well said.

    @perniciousagenda@perniciousagenda5 жыл бұрын
    • My man...big thanks (daps). 'Preciate you watching!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
    • Thats soberity in a nutshell

      @Neo-wv1om@Neo-wv1om5 жыл бұрын
    • Well said!

      @vincentm5919@vincentm59194 жыл бұрын
    • ❤️

      @Ana-rb7ws@Ana-rb7ws2 жыл бұрын
  • "Sometimes we need to tell ourselves what to think when our mind starts telling us things that we don't need to hear: that you can and will overcome and succeed, and not just in spite of, but precisely because of. That with the proper perspective and a positive attitude, we have POWER." 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    @conscious_shift@conscious_shift5 жыл бұрын
    • Thx...glad you found a nugget or two!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
    • I saw this right as he said it lol

      @annam4660@annam46603 жыл бұрын
  • Agree - resilience is essential in life. it's not what happens to us, it's how we respond.

    @emilygowor@emilygowor2 жыл бұрын
  • That guy OWNED the stage.

    @lechatnoir157@lechatnoir1577 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks a bunch...I'm humbled!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you for your inspiring talk

      @rissrose3470@rissrose34707 жыл бұрын
    • You're very welcome...thanks for watching!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • This guy owned the entire room

      @elizabethnaborslcswiadc9805@elizabethnaborslcswiadc98055 жыл бұрын
  • "when I open my eyes... the worst of life couldn't take out the best of me, cuz I'm still standing in front of you" I made some bad decisions a long time ago and will be paying for them - monetarily, physically, emotionally, etc - for a long time. When I was incarcerated I saw people at their worst and did everything I could to try to make them smile. I would sing to them, listen when they needed someone to just hear them, and offer whatever words of wisdom I could. This year I made the decision, after searching for a job for over 4 years and not being able to pass a background check, to make a change. I took a course to become a Certified Recovery Peer Advocate and am taking classes to become a Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor. Hearing your story and seeing what you had to overcome tells me that I made the right choice in this career and will keep what you said in your talk with me to teach people that they can, and will, overcome. Thank you so much!

    @beccaglyn@beccaglyn Жыл бұрын
  • i just got diagnosed with ACEs recently and scored a 10, and because of my childhood I have depression, anxiety, and PTSD. This video reminds me during my saddest depressive episodes that i’m strong AF, i’ve accomplished a lot despite what i’ve experienced in life, and to keep going cause there’s so much more of life to see. thank you❤️❤️

    @gianag8824@gianag8824 Жыл бұрын
    • I just discovered what ACE was yesterday and have a 10..

      @seanchris7509@seanchris7509 Жыл бұрын
    • Godbless you. Never forget that it takes one second to inspire many people, and you have inspired me. Keep it up and don't give up

      @holotrout@holotrout Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for sharing what occurred in your immediate family. I went through a lot of trauma thank you for helping me. God Bless you and protect you always❤

    @lizortiz9300@lizortiz930010 күн бұрын
  • “But man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated” - The Old Man and the Sea

    @jaydalenblossom@jaydalenblossom8 ай бұрын
  • Indomitable this guy, I wish I could be like him

    @erinruhl5377@erinruhl5377 Жыл бұрын
  • I was sitting here alone on the anniversary of a major trauma looking for a distraction while my children were at school and I was watching something completely different and this came up in my suggested. Thank god it did. You have a story. You have a voice. You are resilience. Congratulations. And thank you for giving back.

    @Gamecockinnc1@Gamecockinnc17 жыл бұрын
    • It's ridiculously gratifying to see God move through something I created. I'm honored that you not only watched and enjoyed it but that it came at the right time. Sending you prayers and best wishes as you recover from your trauma, and thrive BECAUSE of it! Thank you for blessing me with your comment and light.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Hope all is well, 5 years later

      @holotrout@holotrout Жыл бұрын
  • This was nothing but a college psychology assignment link that I almost thought about not watching until I decided to watch it and this is one of the best sources of motivation that I needed to receive especially currently me being 22 years old. Im not going to dive into any of my childhood trauma but the trauma is definitely there and this mans testimony has been the encouragement I needed to hopefully get through the rest of my last year in college as it has been a struggle for me mentally and emotionally. Thank you so much Mister for this video.

    @AngelDenya@AngelDenya Жыл бұрын
    • damn this vids in college assignments? I have to watch this vid for my class and I'm in grade 12.

      @skulllyy@skulllyy2 ай бұрын
  • love love this so much. so inspiring

    @Nappylelene@Nappylelene5 ай бұрын
  • Thank you for this.

    @Chanesmyname@Chanesmyname Жыл бұрын
  • People have to learn to cope with and work through very challenging life experiences. Resilience is SO important.

    @PinkYellowGreen2023@PinkYellowGreen20237 ай бұрын
  • This dude needs his book out

    @dalibofurnell@dalibofurnell Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve sent this to loved one as I’m boo boo crying god is great ❤

    @NaturallyPrettyBrownK26@NaturallyPrettyBrownK269 ай бұрын
  • WOW... I've listened to a lot of TEDx Talks, and this one is one of the most real, most valuable monologues I've heard. This man doesn't just share, he teaches. He encourages is a realistic way. He tells it like it is, and doesn't make excuses. He empowers others to learn how to overcome by sharing how he overcame, and he forewarns that it will not be easy, that it may be excrutiatingly painful, and that it is ultimately up to us to use positive self-talk even when we don't believe it ourselves. He reminds us that it is ok to reach out and ask for help. This is not the happily-ever-after that so many TEDx Talks speakers churn out. This is neither narcissistic, nor "poor me". This is not the extreme bipolar thinking that life's answers are cut and dried, black and white, good and bad. This is about the reality of the shades of gray that lie between the polar extremes. This is real. This is inspiration while remaining grounded in reality. This is encouragement while preparing people to keep in mind that it will not come easy or instantaneously or when you need it to happen. We should all be so lucky to have a friend, family member, trusted colleague, mentor or advisor who teaches what it means to be resilient, and that you have to believe regardless of how difficult that might be. This is the opposite the instant-gratification advice that so many people seem to believe and be seeking out.

    @le_th_@le_th_7 жыл бұрын
    • I'm absolutely humbled at your insightful, thoughtful, and detailed response. Thanks for filling my bucket today and reminding me that my trauma continues to have a purpose in helping others live, do, & be better! Continued blessings to you.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Awww...kind of you to respond. I'm so glad that my comments helped to fill your bucket today, as your words certainly fill mine each time I re-watch this video. Many continued blessings to you, as well~

      @le_th_@le_th_7 жыл бұрын
    • le th Definitely agree! 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

      @Scarshadow666@Scarshadow6665 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 You are a phenomenal man, take your place with Maya Angelou and walk that walk. I was so moved by your wonderful inspirational speech. Write that book please, for all of us who are out here. As a man you have so much to say to others who are still struggling to raise their heads after a day a week a life of being down and not having the strength to get up. For all those of us who work in this field this video is one to watch daily.

      @coralscrafts7258@coralscrafts72585 жыл бұрын
    • @L C Thank you for your kind words. I'm not a writer. I was very fortunate to be born with a brain that is rather intelligent, learns information easily, and can articulate thoughts and ideas fairly clearly. In addition, I was born with excellent hearing and 20/10 vision in both eyes, so it helped my brain develop better than most. I feel very fortunate in this regard.

      @le_th_@le_th_3 жыл бұрын
  • One of the best Ted talks.

    @robertsfamily7026@robertsfamily7026 Жыл бұрын
  • "The worst of life couldn't take out the best of me."

    @sunandsoul24@sunandsoul247 жыл бұрын
    • True

      @hudsonkonteh3331@hudsonkonteh33313 жыл бұрын
  • Sir, you are amazing! Thank you for healing this world.

    @MjF809@MjF8099 ай бұрын
  • Darn right. Sooo many unfavorable paths we could've taken but we pushed on despite others opinions and fears. We overcome to show others how to as well‼️🙏✨

    @unbreakable4650@unbreakable4650 Жыл бұрын
  • My Trauma has A Purpose!

    @Acornzmob@Acornzmob7 жыл бұрын
    • Appreciate the love...WxSxO!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Very powerful I must say I'm inspired! Keep it lit FAM!! #Salute

      @Acornzmob@Acornzmob7 жыл бұрын
    • Every word had me until. God was blamed. I stopped watching the talk

      @dellawarren6239@dellawarren62395 жыл бұрын
    • No, you give your trauma purpose. Trauma does not happen for a reason but we have the power to utilize that trauma to push us towards our goals. A small but crucial difference. I could have been great if not better without my trauma but given that it has happened I choose to use it as a springboard rather than a weight.

      @rosebud0391@rosebud03914 жыл бұрын
  • I let my 14 yr old son watch this and it help him alot

    @asialittleboutique8431@asialittleboutique84312 жыл бұрын
  • Was suffering physical anxiety today and this video has helped me to ease up a bit. Damn I wish I could comfort that little boy and take him away from those pains. I was lucky in that I had a ‘safe’ childhood. It’s the adulting that came to smack me in the face. I pray we all find some strength inside and some healing 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    @Hiroshouse@Hiroshouse Жыл бұрын
  • Powerful! ‘’Sometimes we need to tell ourselves what to think when our minds tell us things we don’t need to hear.’’

    @elgibson4954@elgibson49544 жыл бұрын
    • Thx a bunch...glad you enjoyed it!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • How interesting! ...just as I laid my eyes on your comment, the video was at the timeline of Charles pausing to speak this very line. I see THAT as powerful!, too. Powerful synchronicity. Happy New Year to you, El! May you enjoy a beautiful life, being very resilient during the challenging times, remembering your light and beauty and what you must tell yourself no matter the darkness you encounter on your path - be it real or imagined/feared/anticipated darkness that comes from the sometimes overwhelmed and very weary mind.

      @lemostjoyousrenegade@lemostjoyousrenegade4 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 It was excellent and very inspiring, Charles! Happy New Year and may you experience many wonderful, meaningful, soul-fulfilling blessings in Life. You have been and are such a blessing to humanity! Cheers!

      @lemostjoyousrenegade@lemostjoyousrenegade4 жыл бұрын
    • @@lemostjoyousrenegade Thank you very much! Sending you nothing but the best for this year and beyond, and the resilience to make the best out of whatever life delivers.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 thanks Charles. You're a great example for all who have faced ceaseless adversity - neglect, abuse, codependency, personal failures, disabilities in two kids, among others. I am 46 and successful but things unraveled for me over the past 5 years. Broke down mentally, lost my marriage plus all that come with that. Siblings seized opportunity to disrespect and abuse me emotionally. I look back and realize that I am stronger than I ever thought of myself. I am strong, I am brave, I am lovable and capable of loving. It may have taken over 40 years to be able to assert myself, but I now know the remainder of my journey through life would be better than my past. Your talk reaffirms this Charles, thank you.

      @talkingthoughts7595@talkingthoughts75954 жыл бұрын
  • I come from the same type of life as you. I scored a 10 on the ACES test and i work with high risk youth in a group home and i think ill show this to them tonight. Nice work brother no one knows how hard it really is to come back.

    @dawnanderson611@dawnanderson6116 жыл бұрын
    • And I thought my 7 of 10 ACE's was bad! My heart goes out to you for your experiences as a child, but it also praises you for your resilience and continued hope for a better future! I'm in awe of and happy for you, and even more impressed by your willingness to help others in group homes experiencing childhood trauma. I recognizing you giving your trauma a purpose too. Thanks for sharing my talk with them and lmk how I may be able to assist. Blessings to you!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99616 жыл бұрын
    • and i jusr got a scholarship to become a welness coach....well partial scholarship. ill beg, steal and borrow the rest!!!!

      @dawnanderson611@dawnanderson6116 жыл бұрын
  • I'm in the depths of trauma, exhausted, completely broken. I listen to this talk and I open my eyes, feel purpose and hope in my heart. Thank You

    @anitamarton6543@anitamarton65433 жыл бұрын
    • Hey Anita...you're very welcome! Your trauma has a purpose, and while hope is what keeps your eyes focused on a better future it's resilience that keeps you on the path towards it. Keep going! Sending you blessings and continued resilience on your path.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99613 жыл бұрын
  • Wow. No words. My therapist recommended this & honestly, I’m so glad she did.

    @jenniferlindsey9013@jenniferlindsey90132 жыл бұрын
  • Great talk. So many people out there with very similar stories. Screw what everyone tells you. You are greatness, it is inside each and everyone of us. Get off the path of living up to everyone else's standards. Have some compassion for yourself and know that a better today IS in your control!

    @RagingMonkee@RagingMonkee Жыл бұрын
  • RESILIENCE made me the woman I am today! unreal how far we can go!

    @sashanamaste6692@sashanamaste66924 жыл бұрын
    • Indeed! Continued success and resilience to you.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
  • Not gonna lie I'm crying my eyes out. I thank you for giving me affirmation that I can do this. That my trauma will someday help someone else's Truman. Exactly why I'm getting my degree in psychology. Thank you a million times over. Your voice told me everything my head's has been telling me.

    @larenadarrow8425@larenadarrow84252 жыл бұрын
  • How is Charles doing 7 years later? Sometimes healing is like dieting, back forward back back back forward. Resilience is key~ Thank you for sharing this is one of my more favorite trauma surviving stories!

    @FreckledAngelz@FreckledAngelz17 күн бұрын
  • Charles Hunt, As a behavior specialist, I've been studying trauma based care for a few months now, but this is the first time within the framework that someone has said use the trauma/experience as a stepping stone. One of my favorite scriptures speaks to what you shared: "For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory," II Corinthians 4:17. T Thanks for sharing this in real time and very tangible talk.

    @TrevWILL79@TrevWILL796 жыл бұрын
    • Hey Trev...You're very welcome! Hope you found it helpful and thanks for the affirmation!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99616 жыл бұрын
    • Trev WIlliams 💜love this scripture!!!!! Thank you for the reminder of His Words bc this soooooooooo applies to my present! May God continue to bless you!

      @sharlajared8936@sharlajared89365 жыл бұрын
    • Amen Trev

      @mmommo-hx4dx@mmommo-hx4dx3 жыл бұрын
  • Charles, you are a remarkable and resilient human being! You articulate the trauma that happened to you with such understanding and pain, and yet such healing. And your healing from it is a gift to us so we can learn from you. Thank you for sharing your message with all of us. You plant seeds under trees you may never sit. I hope that you will continue to speak to what protective factors in your life supported your resilience and how important they were and are in your life and in the lives of our children who face significant adversity. And I hope you continue to talk about how your protective factors help ameliorate and mitigate the risk you faced. Your are such a gift to us. Your message is one of the most important we can teach the world.

    @hollyhigginswilcher9149@hollyhigginswilcher91493 жыл бұрын
  • I really felt it

    @CherryBerryFashion@CherryBerryFashion3 жыл бұрын
  • Not in spite of, but because of. Perspective sometimes requires partnership. Sometimes all the strength you need is the strength to ask others for help. Thank you, keep standing in the light of your truth. Ashe.

    @diatonicjon@diatonicjon7 жыл бұрын
    • I'm honored that you found something of substance to take away...seriously. Thank you for giving my trauma a purpose!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
  • I like.... the from living in the projects to the.... non materialistic comparative state of traveling the world. Owning a home or having a mortgage isn't actually living Expanding your world and your experiences.....is. I really like his use of words

    @charliebaby7065@charliebaby706511 ай бұрын
  • Your testimony is uplifting and leaves no room for pity.

    @user-yx9lm7vy2g@user-yx9lm7vy2g7 ай бұрын
  • Amazing. 2 incarcerated parents and now you're on a TED stage... Thank you for living your purpose!!! 🙏💚

    @divinecommerce6760@divinecommerce67607 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you very much...life is much more about how we respond than what happens to us. I appreciate your encouragement.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
  • This hit me in such a down time in my life , see I had just lost my dads, I read some of the other comments n I just gots say you are amazing and your life material so crushing yet you persevered and I can honestly say I know the addiction and poverty all to well throughout generations of my family and this plague of “bad luck” or what I call generational curse would tap into my life so badly that I would loose my 21 yr old brother to drug addiction when I was 18, dad to alcoholism and my husband to jail and not to mention all my own problems that were an Easter basket full of a variety of all those issues, but Praise God I , too persevered and became resilient . Thank you so much for sharing & speaking to so many you are a force and helped me so much!! Thank you

    @laurenGodfearin05@laurenGodfearin05Ай бұрын
  • This needs to be taught to every college student! College is hard, but they can overcome the hardships and crush it.

    @cosmicundergrad538@cosmicundergrad5384 жыл бұрын
    • It's especially difficult for low income, first generation students but you're absolutely correct that we can overcome the challenges. Thanks a bunch for watching/sharing!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
  • Charles Hunt is brilliant 👏 eloquent 💥 and breaks down the fierce truth on change. Powerful words, sir!

    @dawndid5972@dawndid597210 ай бұрын
  • Thank you for this talk! Well done!

    @SallySmith-up3dp@SallySmith-up3dp6 ай бұрын
  • I am so grateful for Key and Peele comedy skits. I think they are life saving. They bring so much healing, laughter and joy.

    @lizcuero5781@lizcuero57812 жыл бұрын
  • You're a great example for all who have faced ceaseless adversity - neglect, abuse, codependency, personal failures, disabilities in two kids, among others. I am 46 and successful but things unraveled for me over the past 5 years. Broke down mentally, lost my marriage plus all that come with that. Siblings seized opportunity to disrespect and abuse me emotionally. I look back and realize that I am stronger than I ever thought of myself. I am strong, I am brave, I am lovable and capable of loving. It may have taken over 40 years to be able to assert myself, but I now know the remainder of my journey through life would be better than my past. Thanks Charles. Your presentation reaffirms my resolve. God bless you. Ps. I love your description of God as a comedian. 🤣🤣❤❤

    @talkingthoughts7595@talkingthoughts75954 жыл бұрын
    • I'm humbled and honored my trauma could be helpful for you in your journey. Love your self-affirmations too! Continued blessings and resilience on your path.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
  • Coming from a traumatic childhood myself and I made my own life too and I love 💕 to hear of those who persevere and find the blessings in the lessons! And it teaches you a lot about life and it can either make you or break you. The choice is always in our hands even with the cards we’ve been dealt with!! What an amazing example to the world! Blessings to him!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💜😇😇

    @leahwarrior1734@leahwarrior17343 жыл бұрын
  • You cannot truly know the human experience if you don't ever come to know its ugliness.. the sooner the better, that way you have that much more time to make it Beautiful ❤ Like this man I am fortunate.. Would not have it any other way.

    @luzaguirre2830@luzaguirre28304 жыл бұрын
  • After watching this video after a few years, on my hardest days I sometimes think about this video. Resilience is one of the key factors to life. Re-watching this made me think how much of others stories can stick to a person even after years so thank you.

    @samairagarciaa@samairagarciaa2 жыл бұрын
  • I am at a loss for words. Your ted talk has really made me think and put my own life into perspective. This last year has been the roughest I have ever had to face, however hearing your story I’m realizing each day how strong I am from being where I was, where I am in this present moment and in my future. Thank you for sharing your story and showing that not matter what obstacles or hardships you may come across you’re still standing. Truly commendable!

    @kathleenencarnacion3383@kathleenencarnacion33835 жыл бұрын
    • Hey Kat...I am honored and humbled that my path has helped you affirm your own strength! That is so dope, and truly makes me smile! Thanks for encouraging me, and I'm sending you nothing but love and courage as you continue to be stronger than what life throws at you! All the best.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • Amazing. I'm still working through my trauma but I hope I reach a level of accepting and thriving.

    @calmchaos658@calmchaos6587 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you...keep pressing forward. The faster we're able to come to terms with what has hurt us the less power we give it. It's not easy, but it's necessary. Sending you love and support as you move from surviving to thriving!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • lesismore You will...!!

      @Chasiraw@Chasiraw6 жыл бұрын
    • You will ❤️

      @Klissaura@Klissaura6 жыл бұрын
    • Klissaura Rodriguez xx x zZz

      @estelleliebe1994@estelleliebe19943 жыл бұрын
  • Hats off to you young man.Bless you and your living reality be come inspiration motivation and courageous hope to all who are enduring trauma. Bless you and all your dreams come true.

    @arlinegeorge6967@arlinegeorge69673 жыл бұрын
  • A little late but amazing talk. I’ve always been a strong believer that “everything happens for a reason” but it is extremely tough to pull yourself out of a dark place and it is only up to you to do so

    @ramzee8207@ramzee8207 Жыл бұрын
  • A lifetime of trauma + 14:21 that sparked hope in resiliency for thousands, and will continue to do so. Your words are gold. But the real gift is you. Thank you for spreading the message that our traumas don't need to hold us as victims.

    @saraschultingkranz.@saraschultingkranz. Жыл бұрын
  • Great voice & powerful message! I also suffered great loss as a teenager, losing both my parents by age 15. Yet, here I am working at a high school helping at risk youth. Once they tell me their stories and I mention how resilient their are, their whole demeanor changes. They become empowered! My faith saved me, as well as reading Wayne Dyer and others who helped me realize, that while I don't control what happens to me I do control my reactions. Our thoughts are powerful!

    @caroltouchton4924@caroltouchton49244 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks a bunch for watching, and for helping our youth tap into their resilience. Do let me know if I may be of assistance!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • Is that a book that you recommend? What’s it called?

      @yvettedean92@yvettedean923 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you Charles...I am recommending your talk to my college students.

    @nywalker1@nywalker16 жыл бұрын
    • You're very welcome! Lmk if I may be of further assistance, and thanks for the recommendation. All the best!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99616 жыл бұрын
    • I’m showing this to my students as well. I’ve watched this three times today.

      @anaiyasmommy1@anaiyasmommy13 жыл бұрын
  • just got a job after being unemployed for several months. was in one heck of a rutt what with my own truck load of trauma just crashing through my front door... wish i had seen this sooner, but im thankful i saw it now. that last line was a beautiful. to anyone who needs a pick me up, a hug, or just a "u got this", this is the video for you.

    @mybigboiphilip6997@mybigboiphilip69973 жыл бұрын
    • Big congrats on the new job, and many thanks for the affirmations! Sending you all the best and continued resilience...you've got this!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99613 жыл бұрын
  • This guys speach found a way through to me. "Tomorrow will be better, as long as it doesn't mess up your future" I always kill my pain by a messy night which blocks the struggle the next day but it messes up my future.

    @stuart1001@stuart10014 жыл бұрын
    • Sending you nothing but the best as you employ your resilience!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
  • Impressive... down to earth and real, yet classy!

    @sylvie5894@sylvie58946 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks, glad you enjoyed it!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99616 жыл бұрын
  • Kids become strong like superheroes when they face real challenges, learning how to solve problems and never give up. Each challenge is like a puzzle piece that makes them even tougher!

    @ParentingPlanet@ParentingPlanet9 ай бұрын
  • Absolutely PHENOMENAL speech. It helped me today. THANK YOU.

    @Accomandoc@Accomandoc7 ай бұрын
  • Thanks Charles, I agree with you positivity and a deeper understanding of Trauma builds you up to be a better person and in coping with life.

    @user-ee7vr9nn8f@user-ee7vr9nn8f7 ай бұрын
  • Love this perspective. Strength through adversity. Empowerment over victimization.

    @shaolinf4@shaolinf46 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks a bunch, and you're spot on!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • Just got tired. Just got weak. Yesterday. Today I refuse to be a victim. Never given the opportunity to be nourished and loved, so all I want to do is nourish and love others. Thank you for your words.

    @Oogiappa@Oogiappa5 жыл бұрын
    • LOVE your perseverance, positivity, and willingness to pour into others. Thank YOU for inspiring others and allowing my words to inspire you. All the best!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • Watched this in my cosmetology class today and I just want to say thank you. Definitely a MESSAGE.

    @iampreciousz7081@iampreciousz70813 жыл бұрын
  • Hi Charles, I have shown your amazing video to my freshman nursing students in their "Trauma Informed Care" class as part of their "Healthy Lifestyles" course over the past few years at Temple University. No matter how many times I watch this video, I am still amazed at all you have conquered in your life and I shed a tear. I hope you are doing well and know that others are appreciative of sharing your story! I am positive you have helped so many people with your struggles in this journey called "Life" . Well done!

    @barbaralittle3376@barbaralittle3376 Жыл бұрын
    • I too hope he is doing well.

      @TwilaGraceNkombo@TwilaGraceNkombo7 ай бұрын
  • Thank you Charles for sharing. I teach at a Juv. Detention Ctr. and my kids were moved and inspired my your TedxTalk. You are an inspiration and a motivator. Well done sir!

    @chuckbechard3259@chuckbechard32595 жыл бұрын
  • You are not alone. I suffer PTSD, panic disorder, and MDD from past trauma. Bless you and keep strong, we do have a purpose.

    @jigglycommi-5948@jigglycommi-59485 жыл бұрын
    • I'm very sorry to hear, but it's heartwarming to see you acknowledge your purpose! Sending you love, light, and healing on your path. Thanks for the encouragement!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • It’s so amazing how he could have such a handle on his trauma. That’s powerful and something that everyone should admire. Anything is possible.....

    @lenoraxoxo1820@lenoraxoxo18205 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks for watching and glad you enjoyed it!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • Through adversity, you rose and thank you for your lesson!

    @shannonnefra9738@shannonnefra97382 жыл бұрын
  • Its nice to see how people become stronger of things you go through and try not to see yourself as a victim. We all go through things, its good when you can share your story to help others. To all trauma victims your not alone. Keep going even when it gets tough!!!

    @shaylagoogle3097@shaylagoogle30974 жыл бұрын
    • Wise words...thanks for watching!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
    • @@charleshunt9961 Thank you, for sharing your story. We all have a story and when you get through the rough parts, it heals and makes you stronger!

      @shaylagoogle3097@shaylagoogle30974 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for giving voice to how we are resilient despite the trauma we live in and through!

    @RashonLane@RashonLane7 жыл бұрын
    • You're very welcome; thank YOU for the affirmation! All the best!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
  • Sometimes we need to tell our mind what we will do instead of listening to what our minds tells us to do. Thank you for that piece of knowledge and life lesson.

    @alexishunt4336@alexishunt43365 жыл бұрын
    • You're very welcome sista...glad you found a nugget or two. And dope last name!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • Proud to call Charles my friend!

    @bushrod99@bushrod997 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks Bruh!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
    • Charles Hunt I wish you could talk at my school. I teach kiddos who’ve been through so much trauma

      @mallorymanning834@mallorymanning8344 жыл бұрын
  • This touched me! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have encountered some traumas recently. Thank you for the reminder that I am UNBREAKABLE.

    @ncatsu95@ncatsu952 жыл бұрын
  • This talk is soo underrated as a seventeen year old who has PTSD from having a psychopath father and being an asylum seeker the only thing that helped was resilience, My heart goes out to you!

    @timmytam8286@timmytam82867 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you very much for the encouragement, and thanks for watching! Continued strength and courage to you as you thrive not just in spite of, but because of!

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
  • Charles - thank you!

    @jacquelinewhite9015@jacquelinewhite90157 ай бұрын
  • You have wonderful stage presence and strength of character. You represent hope and possibility for the foster children I care for. Thank you.

    @itubeutubealltube@itubeutubealltube7 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you very much for the affirmations and the work you do for an extremely vulnerable population! If I may be of service please don't hesitate to reach out (info@audacityfirm.com).

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
  • So much inspiring and educational story. Many thanks Charles for sharing your epical resilience that led you from trauma to triumph. God bless you..

    @alansih1@alansih12 жыл бұрын
  • I love TED talks.. have watched many.. This is the BEST one I have seen So much heart, emotion. Wisdom through stories..

    @katefoster563@katefoster5633 жыл бұрын
  • A great example of the power of positive thinking. The mind and our beliefs are powerful things. My students in juvenile hall are gonna love this dude.

    @shellieshimmel9148@shellieshimmel91484 жыл бұрын
  • Mr Charles Hunt. Thank you so much 🙏 for making this talk. I’m so humbled and inspired and heartened and connected. The trunk keeps arriving…. Yes! I see your talk is now 5 years old. A very tough 5 year period in the USA and indeed in the world with Covid and now this terrible war. Respect to all 🙏.

    @melliecrann-gaoth4789@melliecrann-gaoth47892 жыл бұрын
  • I don’t usually comment on social media but I want to acknowledge that I shared this video on my work fb with the following thoughts.... I like how Charles Hunt acknowledges the different aspects of ourselves we have from different developmental stages and traumas. For me, the word ‘victim’ never sat right with me. It can become an identity that we get stuck in, disempowers us. I like how Charles Hunt uses a past tense rather than a present tense and the significant difference that can have. I was a victim. It opens up so much possible for who we are now. All the healing as well as the potential selves we may become. I also liked his ending.... ‘thank you for giving my trauma a purpose’. The ultimate recovery, healing and empowerment, turn pain to a positive. Thank you Charles Hunt

    @maireadwhite3661@maireadwhite36614 жыл бұрын
    • Wow! I'm humbled and greatly appreciate not just you watching and sharing but taking time to give such a thoughtful endorsement/review! Continued resilience to you and yours, many thanks.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99614 жыл бұрын
  • Resilience and Transition is my life and work and Charles hits the truth of it from the heart.

    @markgreen4732@markgreen47325 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks a bunch for watching! Continued success and resiliency to you.

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99615 жыл бұрын
  • I am truly inspired. I too believe in the power of the mind.

    @zoraidagoins7803@zoraidagoins78032 жыл бұрын
  • 6 years later and I have found this as I am at a point in my life were my past traumatic experiences are crumbling everything I've tried so hard to build...

    @degenlando@degenlando7 ай бұрын
  • Mr. Hunt you just found another calling!! Becoming a Motivational Speaker!! Minority young men need to hear from someone just like you!! Amazing!! ring!ring!ring! My grandson is 10 and going through a similar situation, that you went thru...but he’s got me!! 💯Grandma!! I’ve got he’s back!! Imma pull him through!! AMEN 🌈

    @elizsantos2000@elizsantos20004 жыл бұрын
    • Elizabeth Santos thank you very much, and you’re a blessing to your grandson (as my grandmother was) for stepping in when necessary. Continued blessings and resilience to you and your family.

      @charleshunt6963@charleshunt69634 жыл бұрын
  • One TEDx speaker to another. Incredible! Your bravery and vulnerability are inspiring.

    @N2147B@N2147B4 жыл бұрын
    • Nichole Mullen many thanks, I appreciate the affirmations! Continued resilience to you.

      @charleshunt6963@charleshunt69634 жыл бұрын
  • Absolutely loved this!!!! From one person who has come through life's traumas and made it through with resilience... I have so much respect for you thank you for sharing your story 👏👏👏👏👏✨

    @chrissybyrne2930@chrissybyrne29303 жыл бұрын
  • AWESOME SPEACH!

    @byronstoddard@byronstoddard Жыл бұрын
  • That was one of, if not the best conversations I have heard on resilience!! Thanks for sharing your story and being so authentic in your delivery.

    @caitlinbaker422@caitlinbaker4227 жыл бұрын
    • Wow...very high praise and I'm humbled! Thanks a bunch for watching and I'm exceedingly appreciative of your gratitude! All the best...

      @charleshunt9961@charleshunt99617 жыл бұрын
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