15 Stoic Principles to MASTER THE ART OF NOT CARING
MASTER THE ART OF NOT CARING
In today's video we delve into 15 lessons that master ones ability of not caring. The ability of not caring is pivotal to living a stoic life and is recommend by many if not all stoic philosophers.
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📌Timestamps
00:00 - Stoic Intro
00:33 - 1. Focus on what you can control
01:58 - 2. Accept that life is imperfect
03:45 - 3. Practice mindfulness
05:15 - 4. Perspective is everything
06:46 - 5. Let go of entitlement
08:07 - 6. Accept change
09:41 - 7. Judge judiciously
11:11 - 8. Forgive others
12:37 - 9. Laugh often
13:56 - 10. Focus inward
15:14 - 11. Live simply
16:31 - 12. Be humble
17:46 - 13. Silence is golden
19:02 - 14. Amor fati
20:25 - 15. Memento mori
21:56 - Stoic Reflection
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All topics apply to me. I learn with all your videos. I hear you daily. Please, do continue your teachings. Thank you
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truly..much of stoic content, though Hellenistic in stance ,corresponds with holy scrolls and written scriptures,,,...excellent listening...thank you...praise Yahuah
Live long enough. It gets really easy.
Right !
ESPECIALLY after the age of 25. I'm 26 and am finally coming to a point of letting go of a whole lot, finally finding that peace within myself and nurturing it fully.
Simply put.
Yeah,we get older and lonelier. I used to think it was sad but now I think avoiding people is a win.
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I am finally starting to find peace with stoicism. I was so tired of being high strung and mad constantly. It was going to literally kill me from the stress. Now life is so much more meaningful, manageable and less meticulous. Seneca, Marcus araleus, Epictetus These Ancient men showed us the way so long ago.
That's wonderful to hear! Keep embracing their teachings! 🙏
@@TIMETESTEDADVICE thank you Yes they figured life out so long ago and it still stands today!
I agree!
Im 35 and I still think human connection is necessary, I just don't know how much. I still avoid most people,because I know most people are garbage
@@ShinkuGoukilet go of the judgement of other people, you might find one person who is worth all the previous bad experiences you've had
"Choose not to be harmed-and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed-and you haven’t been." - Marcus Aurelius
One of my favorites!! Thank you!
That’s fine for little things. But I wouldn’t step in-between a gang fight under this philosophy.
Stoicism mostly focuses on the spirit and the mind rather than the body. Of course, these ancient stoics agree with what what you said and know about it if they were still alive today.@@TeutonicTribe
1. Stay calm in tough times. 2. Focus on what you can change. 3. Be kind and fair. 4. Stay cool; don’t let emotions take over. 5. Remember that things change. 6. Learn to say no when needed. 7. Reflect on your actions. 8. Help others when you can. 9. Enjoy simple joys. 10. Make each day count.
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😥thank you❤️
I"ve stop caring about liars, manipulate people, they no longer hold my heart anymore, gave them to God.
If I had known the philosophical doctrine of Stoicism before, I would have avoided many moments of great pain throughout my life. Thanks for making it accessible on KZhead.
So true
This is the most encouraging and enlightening information I've heard in a long time. I wish somebody would have recommended this to me during hard times of my life. This short little video contains more wisdom than any sermon or lecture that I've heard from anyone. Every counselor, teacher, psychologist, marriage counselor, ect should pass this information to their clients.
Glad it was helpful! Thank you for watching!
Here is a quote from the late Joseph Campbell that is food for thought and reminds us all that the bumps in the road shouldn't rule our lives. Furthermore, we have not even to risk the adventure alone; for the heroes of all time have gone before us; the labyrinth is thoroughly known; we have only to follow the thread of the hero-path. And where we had thought to find an abomination, we shall find a god; where we had thought to slay another, we shall slay ourselves; where we had thought to travel outward, we shall come to the center of our own existence; where we had thought to be alone, we shall be with all the world. -- Joseph Campbell Hero with a Thousand Faces
“Follow your BLISS & don’t be afraid and doors will open where you never knew they existed.” - Joseph Campbell from “The Power of Myth”
I ask myself “ What would Mr. Spock do?” Remain unemotional, evaluate the situation and decide rationally what can be done to improve the outcome.
Sometimes it is important to care. Be careful about not caring…be selective
Yes very true ❤️
Just thinking the same thing! Especially regarding family in my case. I was never able to help my daughters addiction and ultimately watch my beautiful grandchildren suffer as they still do in so many ways! It is important to care, but as you stated- BE SELECTIVE! I tried for years now to help, but it was killing me. I have now , for my own mental/physical health, walk away. I'm on my way to healing, I think, but how to forget your own GC, knowing what I heard, witnessed, dont think I will EVER forget! I try to remain hopeful and pray!
I really related to this position of stoicism. In fact, stoicism is the key to my inner tranquility and happiness. I’ve got a lot to think about and work on. Thank you.
Your welcome! Thank you so much for watching!
I have gotten more inspiration from these videos than the years of therapy and psych visits. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you❤
This video was in my recommended and came right on time.Forever grateful to be given wisdom and enough wit to comprehend,Thankyou lord god Yahweh✝️
You are so welcome! I'm glad it was helpful!
"Western" Stoicism and "Eastern" Taoism have much in common, especially "Be here now" and "Work with nature and natural forces, not against them, and not just to your own advantage." There is no singular advantage to be had in life, only to appreciate and exercise while we live our natural gifts of balance, clarity, commitment, compassion, and contentment.
No. 8 Forgive others: There’s a fine line between seeking justice and desiring vengeance. Almost like the hero and the vigilante concept.
thank you for this , I have been to hell and back almost lost everything as lost myself and pointed the finger to the world , always thought I was the odd one out but listening to many Stoic videos last few months is bringing me back to me
I can relate x
These read as pure, simple imperatives that should guide our lives but make no mistake about it, they are tough. They are tough to read, tough to analyze, and especially tough to follow. I have been studying stoicism (purely amateur) for about two years now and am only now beginning to rein in my reactionary emotions, and I have a long, long, way to go. I do like to quote or paraphrase Dr. Phil though. I like his "Don't worry about what other people think of you because mostly, they don't. And, of the ones who do think about you, they don't do it very often."
Listened to this at least 20 times already. Thank you
Thank you so much for watching❤️
Wow this is very uplifing..and came at the appropriate time. All praises to Yahweh our Father and his son Jesus Christ always there when we are in need. Amen to that 💪🏾🔥❤️ Dear friend thank you so much for this wonderful video. HallaluYah indeed.🙏🏾🙋🏽♀️❤️
I've seen many inspirational videos that haven't clicked with me well. But this video, this one in particular speaks to me in a constructively genuine way that has a serious bearing on reality. Everything you said about this video is so correct and its helping me reflect on the mistakes I've made. I've lived a very angry life full of resentment for the world. Thankfully im only 27 and can change things today. You helped me gain a new perspective on life without feeling angry and resentful. My life has been hell for the past year since my friends disowned me when i stood up for myself. But have no pity, as i believe this is destiny now. I needed this video. I'll repetitively play this video in my headphones if i have to. "Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men." - John F Kennedy.
Stoicism solves what so many things can’t it’s impressive
"It's not because things are difficult that we dare not venture. It's because we dare not venture that they are difficult." - Seneca
This is amazing stuff. This is literally taking control of your own universe if you view things from this perspective. Thank You!
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this is the universe perspective....Amen
in other words, "DGAF as a super power".
Cleaning grease off of machinery as i listen. Very resonating, very humbling, I'm at peace
Man and woman should take care of each other, equally! That way there'll be no biting of eachother because no one took care of the other more than the other!
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Yes, definitely agree on that. 👍🏾
"Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is won by disregarding things that lie beyond our control." - Epictetus
If everyone in the world had the “I don’t give a damn” attitude just think what a “wonerful world” it woud be!! -Sam Cooke
I like this content. I worked as a critical care nurse and honed my skills at anticipating bad things that could happen, and how to deal with them. I'm 75 and can appreciate stoicism.
I am a screw up junkie. Resentment is a killer in my case. I can't care what people think of me.
I am a screw up junkie. Resentment is a killer in my case. I can't care what people think of me.
I am a screw up junkie. Resentment is a killer in my case. I can't care what people think of me.
This is like my Therapy session😮, i wont miss these Videos again
Brilliant, articulate and about as practical as you will find in all the modern self help books put together
If you have intelligence, you cannot stop caring.
I got an email from my boss that caused me some aggravation. However, i took a few hours,and carefully figured out the proper way to respond, and it was very good
Yes liked very much & needed to hear this.
These are very powerful !! I can literally see my perspective about things , people shifting , anxieties dissolving wow 👌👌🙌🏾
Thank God for this message and the messenger.
Thank you 🙏🏻
I've been wanting to read Meditation and this has been a great way to get the quick notes while reading through the dense text. Plus you provide great examples to use it our our modern day to day lives, so thank you so much for these. Keep them coming, they're great!
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Thank you so much for all the time you put in & sharing these valuable teachings with us. Your videos are all inspirational . They are universal laws that everyone can learn, apply to their lives , share and make the world a better place . 🙏🙏🙏❤️
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On repeat 💯 Thank you for posting 🙏🏾
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powerful words thank you for sharing
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Great message and this is my confirmation. 🙏🏼✨️🕊❤❤❤❤
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Great Class! Great. Presentation! !🎈
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❤ I am amazed how my Buddhist philosophy and stoicism are so complementary to each other. I love your teachings and your wisdom. At this point, I call myself a stoic Buddhist.
Thank you. Im glad you have found inspiration form this!
And the truth shall set up free... This video is full of truths. If you haven't fully watched it, you should. If you have fully watched it, you should watch it again. Then bookmark it so you can watch it yet again, and again. Lather,, rinse, and repeat until you can stand calm, tall, and firm no matter what calamity surrounds you...
Thank you man, you man my day.
Every one of them resonates with me. Amor fati is much easier to wrap your mind around, I'm sure, if you never had to wipe your mother's behind, or forcibly remove her clothing to bathe her. Working on mental peace. This helps. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing these
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I feel so good listening to the stoicism rules of life. Thank you
Excellent advice
Thank you❤️
Pure wisdom, thank you. I should listen daily.
Thanks for listening! I’m glad you enjoyed ❤️
Thank you for this content
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THANKYOU FOR THIS VID, BEAUTIFUL CONTENT
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Thank you so much.
I enjoy the thoughts of stoicism. Plain yet profound.
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"Stop caring" is another instrument of Fleubrun to turn black women into her kind. Happy Birthday to my Sweet Sister. You are free! ❤❤❤❤
Excellent presentation with helpful tips on living life where we meet it. Changes of attitude is great to know. 😮
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I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck
Thank you, I’ve subbed and appreciate your work.
I really needed this ! thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Now this was deep. deserved a follow
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@@Stoic_Lifestyle name of the background music?
@@karabotsatsi9533 its a classical composition named gnossienne no 1
GOD BLESS YOU THANKS FOR ALL THESE VIDIEOS. OUR MINDS CAUSE US ALL THESE MISERYS.
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Outstanding!!
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It all make sense to me the Stoic rules it speaks to me. Thank you.
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Extremely grateful for this
Great video. I appreciated all of the points. I believe the one that really hit home with me was mindfulness. Struggling to stay in the presence can challenge everyone, but mastering that I would say leads to success.
This is SO true
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Thank you, Very good inspirational video for me
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Thank you I needed this Stoic message. I listened twice
Thank you!
I'm very grateful 🙏 for watching this video. I am now practicing the wisdom I have been taught.
Wise words. Very much along the lines of what Michael Singer teaches in his book "The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself".
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Very helpful . Thank you for passing on this wisdom of the ancients. Seems that people were actually much wiser in those times
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Sometimes life has to beat you to your knees before you discover this. But all worth it in the end. Short term pain for long term gain. Stay strong kings!
Very true! Thank you for watching!
Excellent presentation on the realness of life😮
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Overall, I feel deeper and more enlightened after watching your video. thank you so much!
Thank you sir
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This video has changed my life. I have changed my thinking and watch this 3 times a week. I can't thank you enough.. Thank. you so much...
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Thank you. Respect!
Thank you too!
Wow thanks a lot
Most welcome 😊
Great nuggets 🎉
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Love videos like this
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I enjoy thanks ❤❤❤❤
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Absolutely!
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Very interesting ! Thank u for sharing... memento mori... everything is impermanent❤
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching!
Love it, focus on what you can control, change perspective attitude and pause
Very true!
Number 7 and number 8 really resonated with me. I'm really enjoying all these vides❤
Glad you like them!
This is good stuff!
Yes, inevitably, "Cell Angus arise" and we need to respond "Artful eye" to imperfections. Yes it would be nice if someone was doing some proofreading so he wouldn't have all of these mistakes but like it says, we must respond "Artful eye".....
Thank you so much
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In Stoicism, virtue isn't just a choice; it's the ultimate destination. Aligning our actions with virtue guides us toward a life of purpose and fulfillment.
All sound great but by the time I master all of this I’ll be dead 😂
You can still try!
😆. Probably me too!
this video is very helpful.
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it!
I liked the background track. What is it called?
The artist name is Romi Kopelman
@@Stoic_Lifestyle thanlk you very much. . Loved your video. The song is "Erik Satie - Gnossienne No.1"
Wonderful video and beautiful music in the background.
I'm glad you like it!
Outstanding
Thank you!
Nice downtempo interpretation of Gnossiennes No. 1 accompanying the narrative.
Yes, the Christians took most of their philosophy from the stoics.
Thanks! I was looking in the comments hoping someone mentioned the song 😋
Wonderful points. 🙌🏽
Glad you think so! Thank you for watching!