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This guy gets it. If you have ever been in a serious relationship with a covert narcissist… you know he gets it.
100% , brother/sister. He described the experience perfectly.
They must smear you
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He gets it to the core, there is a possibility that we can hurt narcissist in their world
They smear so that no one will contact you to find out who that person REALLY is IS!
I’ve been through the “discard” phase. Very dark and purely evil. It guts you like a fish and leaves you dead for the vultures to pick your flesh.
I have not been thru the discard phase. It sounds horrific to the soul. I left BEFORE being discarded by him. So glad I walked away. My gosh....
This is exactly how i feel. Its a wonder im still alive.
@@gandawesley5870 It's a horrible experience, and what's worse is the fact that they know they're hurting you and they thoroughly enjoy it
I turned to Jesus. So happy. He's in a cult...and does not believe it. So sad. Another religion...
It’s so crazy true !! I swear, this is exactly what they do and how you are left feeling . Complete abuse !!
💯 they only frame you as ‘good’ again when they need something from you. Otherwise they paint you as the worst person ever and themselves as an altruistic person who was wronged. Aka professional victims.
You are describing “splitting”
Ah! Professional victim! Couldn't be more appropriate! ❤
I was hoovered for one night
To the point 100%. They cheer you on when they need your help, when they feel any less than great, you are wortless to them. It is this extreme imbalance in the personality.
It's a very dangerous relationship and if the narcissist does a good job on you, you'll never be the same again.
Yes if they break your spirit then it's almost impossible to ever be who you once were.
This! I think my spirit is close to broken and I don't think I will ever trust another human again 😔
Or, if you learn and grow from it, you can be better and stronger and wiser than you ever were before. The process was painful and devastating, but I did come out stronger.
They can push you to suicide
Jeez, I’m toast then. It was only a six month relationship, I just can’t believe how it has changed me wtf
Narcissists are demons, only a demon would be that evil.😱
They are demons. The indigenous people call them skinwalkers. Some can become portals for others. They are what controls this world, or more accurately, matrix. Call in your archangels to surround them with Light. Visualization is very powerful. Jesus said, "Be it according to your belief." It is God's Light that neutralize their evil❤
YES, THEY ARE! IT'S NOT NORMAL. JESUS SAYS THAT IN THE END TIME THE DAYS WILL BE VERY EVIL. IT'S A LITERAL ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE! BUT I'M ALWAYS GOOD BECAUSE I ACTUALLY HAVE THE LORD ON MY SIDE. HOWEVER, I FEEL TERRIBLE FOR ALL OF THE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DON'T HAVE GOD AS THEIR DEFENSE AND PEOTECTOR AGAINST THIS INCREDIBLE EVIL! I PRAY THAT THE LORD WILL REPAY EVERY NARCISST BACK ACCORDING TO THEIR WICKED DEEDS.
Narcissism doesn't mean evil, but pop psychology has convinced everyone it is. I just want to point out that this kind of thing is magical thinking and isn't that very narcissistic.
Apage Satanas 😂
It’s a deeply-seated trauma response, done by adult humans. I would advise against vilifying other people, it makes it easier to de-humanize them.
I left my ex. Escaped actually. I just let him vilify and degrade me and didn't bother arguing. He can say whatever lies hes wants i just want him to go away. He can have his false narrative i can have my life.
Good thinking, well done getting your life back!
Wise and prudent choice, you know better, God knows and may bless you!!! 🙏🙏🙏
@@user-us3st8qu2h it took 15 years to get there and a lot of trauma. Unfortunately. But I'm grateful I'm out as much as I can be.
'He can have his false narrative and I can have my life ' That right there is a profound statement 👏
Finally, left him too. I have my power back.
OMG, that sounds like a horror movie. Oh wait.... I was in it.
So weird. I would watch that on TV and find it ridiculous and slightly unbelievable till it happened to me. I could not believe it. Sending all strength and good wishes to you. So sorry you also had this experience
@@kathleendubois7128 thank you, that is very kind of you. It was a good horror movie though 😅😂 And sorry to hear that you experienced the same torture. Unlike the theatre, this is the real thing. What hurts me most probably is the loss of time. When you grow older you lose possibilities and strength, etc. Okay, let's see if we can turn this scary movie into a more fun one, hihi.
@chocolatecookie8571 absolutely! Time to rewrite the script!
Me TOO!!!
@@janetkendle2073 commiserations to you, hope the days start getting better as you put this behind you
So true! I took him into my heart, home and life. Helped him to get back on his feet physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially and I am certain he is telling his next victim that I was awful and did horrible things. He is a very sick man and I’m so happy to be away from him finally. I will never allow another man in who needs so much help ever again.
They always have a sad story.
Same...
@@floravalle1625 I didn’t know that. Truly I thought that someone with NPD would be bragging… I learned the hard way. Sounds like you did too
@@Gabby0770 sorry you went through that
Same
It's beyond repulsive , I'd never believe it if I hadn't experienced it, rejecting my ex narcs hoover was the best revenge lol her outrage was surreal
Can I ask you in what way you rejected it? I guess I will have to face that sooner or later and I want it to be as effective as possible.
YES, YES, YES! This is the BEST explanation of the relationship and discard that I've heard. He tried SO HARD to make me trash... accusing me of things that he KNEW I'd never done, but it made him feel better, although he KNEW it wasn't true. So, as he was raging about his narcissistic mother, I finally asked, "So, what have I done to you?" And all he could say was, "Nothing... I'm just sick of you!" He just couldn't stand my goodness... it infuriated him! What a demon!
Why do they hang around then?
It's so true, they have nothing but contempt for our goodness.
@@rubydeep1191because there's something that they need from you.
Because your still a source of 'supply'. They put you on a pedestal for as and when required. Plus they can't be on their own. Its a complete mess.
@@not2longnow why cant they be on their own?
I walked away and blocked him when he wasn’t expecting it. I really enjoyed that
They want to make you trash and then they are frustrated you are not allowing yourself to become trash, and by doing that they end up being trash
YEP!!
Wow 🤯
A user by any other name is still a user.
They make you their receptacle if you let them, empty their garbage into you, then when you're used up, push you away & call you "trash". Thanks Mr. Grannon.
Ok wait. I feel like I married a cover narcissist, who i fell for from the first conversation. We dated for only 3 months and he broke with me...6 years of hellish pull and push we got married...14 years of devaluing, de moralizing, criticism and abuse FROM HIM. In the end I had to detach and I realized I cared for him and would honor my vows but Ino longer loved him. I knew eventually Iwouldhave to walk away, I reasoned it would be when our children were older and I had my own career. Nope, he was talking to other women behind my back, lying about me, private things about our sex life. I had no friends and barely reconnecting with my family, despite my internal struggles I thought we were communicating ok. Buthe was off betraying meand lying about me to other women. I had in fact detached and was done with him though....he hurt me too much..i dunno..ifeel like I absorbed all his pain for 20 years. These relationship are so weird that its like they become you and you become them. He is blaming me for "abandoning him" and went back to an identity that was never him. That was me!! He kept my identity when I left... If I hadn't lived it, I wouldn't believe it
Woah ..did we date , marry the same guy?? They're all the same evil horrible sorry excuses for a human being. Sorry u went thru it, happy you're out .! ❤
OMG SO sorry you went thru that. Terrible
Very common. We are commodities. Talking 🦜 parrot. They sound genuine but it is all an act. Lot of manipulation. Their main focus is themselves. Don't miss him. I have my life back. I took what was mine. Me:)
So true about them keeping our identity. Freaking weirdos
They’re projecting themselves, they’re are legit demons walking amongst us, they don’t have the privilege to the called human, they’re walking evil entities with only chaos on their mind
I left HIM, that shattered this bastard.
Congrats! I did too. The optimal narc injury! 😂 He asked me if I was lesbian, as if THAT was the only explanation why I would leave him. Pitiful sod!
@@resolutebelle8761 Well done! Mine went to a psychiatric hospital, narcissist breakdown. Well, the devil always burns himself on Gods light!
@@utebretthauer4264 🙌🏻 Shine sweet freedom!
@@resolutebelle8761 Sweet as honey, thank you, you too! All the best to you!
Especially if you CONFRONT THEIR LIES, ABUSE, BULLYING, INVALIDATION, INSULTS, ETC.
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Sometimes it can be essential to them, to maintain their idealized victim status while to pushing you away, they can be experts at contorting reality and making it seem to others as if you had pushed them away. It can get pretty messy, but one has to disregard the opinions of friends and family who can't see through the deception and demonize the rejected "play toy", moving on to new ones. The hardest part for me was fear for whoever would be next. No use agonizing, I decided, my own recovery was paramount. Love your content!
This has recently happened to me. The need for revenge is so strong it’s hard to deal with. I was completely and utterly betrayed.Dont know how to deal with it.
Same I feel you... I am not the same
Turn to God completely, pray every day for him to help you, he will answer
Same here. You have to educate yourself and not waste your energy. You now need to self love, self care and self healing. They will forever be miserable. You need to get on with your own path and be happy, as hard as it might be.
Revenge won't help you. It will also continue to feed him, as he can see that he still has power over you and how you feel. The very best way to handle it is to rise above it, let him see that you are NOT bothered. Repair yourself and give thanks that you survived and it is over. Now that will REALLY annoy him x.
@@magpie1492 so they say, but after the betrayal I have nothing to loose. Once it was done THEN I could move on. Believe me, he deserves it.
True. And it is so hard to be involved with such a person. My mother did this to me in many ways. It hurts. It really hurts. Thank you for your videos.
It causes a "mother" wound 😢 but you must be so strong to have made it this far 💪
That hurt. That's exactly what my ex husband did. I was nothing but trash in the end, and I took myself out. Ouch ouch ouch. Thanks, Richard.
Experienced this. Bizarre and horrible- I was a great wife (ie functional appliance) to him for nearly 3 decades. It would’ve been ok to be treated like trash, but he treated me like a bug to be destroyed. Evil is what they are.
Yes. Yes. Yes. Truth, indeed. Unfortunately, as a victim you don't realize that you're the victim until they start the process of evisceration you while leading other to belive that they are the victim.
That is why you have to go complete NO CONTACT
Definitely, don't give them an inch because they will find a way of hurting you again.
My ex started saying things like "you hate old people" "i need someone who earns more" "you are arrogant and think you know everything" "i know smart people you are not one of them"... came after her last narcissistic rage. Still not sure how i triggered it but it lasted two weeks where she left this reality and built a new one.
They are lunatics. Period.
similar n now i question my every thought n if im really cruel n arrogant.
They said these things to me too! When I got a higher paying job, they were furious, and said " I had changed!"
@@hashh2019 i thought long about it and then i understood. At first she said all the opposite things "you are so smart" "i can learn so much from you" she also knew i cared for my old neighbour. Later she said things like "i feel dumb when you talk haha". So she felt inferior. And that is the underlying oroblem with their narcissistic rage right ? They twist everything in such a way their fake persona is kept alive. I also asked friends about it and family members. How they think about me. But yeah in my heart i knew none of it was true and she just devalued me so she felt better. Will be the same for you. Self awareness is good tho. But I think you also know.
@@user-wp8rh6lx5h yeah because they felt inferior and had to keep their grandiose fale self intact. In reality they change not their partners. They are being eaten up by their insecurities and then the fake self kicks in.
If I haven't experienced it myself, steo after step, I would not think situations like that happen between people.
Same
I felt this with every fibre of my being. Thank you. It was painful to hear your words, delivered with stark truth telling. That only made the real message completely soak in.
When we were still dating he looked deep into my eyes one day and said something that at the time i took to be a sort of nerdy Star Trek but even kinda sexy thing.. he told me “You Will be assimilated” Smh It makes my blood run cold to think about it now He discarded me just after our 24th anniversary
Hugs ❤
Something similar happened to me. My Nex of 23 years told me once he felt like I was inside of him. What? I asked him to explain and he wouldn't. I think he saw the shock on my face.
Wow ! I barely survived 3 years. He discarded me when I started resisting. He literally said to me, "you won't let me tame you!" Wtf
IT HAPPENED TO ME. I worked for a friend for a year and he did exactly that with me. I think the "matrix simulation space" is a good description for where the narcissistic person agrees to see you.... it also tells that he's detached from whatever can be meaningful for something exterior to his scenario. He wants you to be in demise so that it doesn't fit with his vision, he is also unable to make the detachment in a coherent way so he provoques it in a way that won't disturb his world, he will justify it by making the other unworthy of being around. I'm just trying to complete the idea with my understanding, I'm not the expert. Your explaination helps me to say what I say.
Do what they say when they say it. No questions asked. If they want to sleep w someone else. Say ok no problem and if they infect you, it's also your fault. Ur just a doormat to them. 🙄🔥 Get some dignity and self worth people geez 😬🔥
Yep. All to true and chaos and mayhem if one tries to prove it.
Hold on to yourself, the knowledge of who you are - and what they are - and go no contact as much as possible. That’s the only way! No matter what they do, you know who you are and you’re just not engaging with them anymore bc you deserve better:)
He nailed it in one of his videos where he said one of the reasons it is so hard to get over the hurt is called "bewilderment". It's hard to believe that someone you loved (and thought they loved you) could hurt you so much. This was eye opening to me! However, once you see their mask slip, the relationship is over. It will never be the same again. LEAVE!!!
This is such a relief because it dead on answers all the questions I never go to ask the narcissist.
When you see em coming treat em accordingly 😊 run 🏃🏾♂️
Its been nine years in May since I cut them all off - and I am just now feeling genuinely free - really free - I allowed myself to feel the lose, the disappointment, the reality that they are sick and were never there for me ever. It's true they needed for me to be trash and when that hit me - I cut it off for good and I cannot say it was ot very difficilt but nine years later I am free - I can now enjoy my life fully. Amen.
So important to stay high value, hold onto that self worth, run the second you have an opportunity, go no contact. Contact is their oxygen.
Brilliantly defined!! 👍
I am attempting to detach now, before he knows I have. Took 40 years to start. Prayers up please and ty
Oof. Spot on.
So crazy, wow! I had no idea prior to this past relationship. I’ve been doing OK the past few weeks because it’s only been about five weeks, but today is my day off from work and for whatever reason I am really going through it, this rumination, and feeling sorry for myself nonsense has to stop immediately. I have not contacted her other than the first 24 hours post discard, as I was completely confused. The past five weeks I haven’t contacted her. That’s my pride saying no matter how bad I want to, “I can’t do it” I thought I was getting over it and today’s just a bad day. Thanks for listening
Takes about 3-4 months to start feeling better.
Finally a 100% description of my very experience with the Narcissist I wasted 12 years with.
100% true.. Divorcing one and he is holding it up by extremely low balling me. Like he wants the rest of my life to be in poverty after I gave up everything to have a family
Lord..help me get away from people like that...i want the best for everyone 🙏 Amen.
Your videos ate so helpful, even after I've broken up and moved in, I still need to remember it's wasn't ever what I believed
This makes so much sense 😢....
How can these people be so evil?
Been devalued ...won't happen again as I can't unsee it now and power is knowledge😮
Thank you Richard. I am involved with a covert narcissist. Now I understand why my FB pics are no longer liked, and why I am always given an excuse from them not to attend activities that are important to me. My conclusion was that I'm being groomed to leave and move on. Now I understand. I am in the process of being discarded of. Eye-opening!
Yes, please do. This happened to me as well. No more Fb messages. Cancelling on me the day of going to an event because they ate too much popcorn (which they knew caused them an upset stomach) & not bothering to tell me until I was dressed and ready for him to pick me up. I called, "hey are you almost here"? I'm in a loving relationship now and can't really think back on this one too much or I'll spiral.
@@user-wp8rh6lx5h A big hug from me!
I'm so glad I heard this.
Nobody explains it better than Richard. Straight up nails all the key points! 💯
This is so 🎯💯👌 Just went through this. I was idealised until I expressed having needs that weren't being met.
My nervous system and body are not the same after only 2 months. Do not underestimate them please. I am grieving my old self heavily
Right there without you. Who I was before this past winter is a completely different person.
@@shr1mppoboi950 how can we heal this?
@vanessak7069 very deep introspection, acceptance for what happened, and self forgiveness for any shame, guilt, or violation you feel about the situation and the repercussions. Understand that abusers like these have many layers of their reality that they must heal before comprehending why they treat others badly. Recognize that they are suffering too but have the compassion to walk away so you can live a better life without their unhealed negative energy.
The narcissist told me within the first few days of talking that he wished he could put me in his pocket and have me there always,..he actually did..and I suffered for 20 years.
They are so needy. They can't be without.
They need people to validate them or they will die
Hey I got some things I would like to ask you about the narcissist behaviour, I’ve just experienced it too, recovering, but can i private DM you about it ?
I remember when I was being intimate with my ex one night back when we were together. she was leaving love bites on my neck and I didn't think too much of it at the time, "im a vampire" she said with a smile... what followed in those two months after was the most unimaginable emotional/mental anguish of my life. Confusion, desperation for the truth, betrayal and feeling like a dog left on the street. Let us never forget what these people do to us...
Crazy that our love is their kryptonite
Spot on .... i was there... many years of suffering afterwards, never really came back to selfworth anymore.. 😢
Don't give up. You can get there. You are worthy and of value. They know it too, that's why they tried to break you, but you're still standing. Keep fighting for you! Peace & Blessings to you.
Ur the best Richard! Sad bcoz the light inside us irritates their demons.
💯 Experienced this twice in life it’s not worth the heartache
Yes true after 20 years of marriage he trashed me and the kids. I looked after him like no other. I did everything in the home. Then he ran away another supply.
This man has helped me for years and another testimony to the value of you tube. So much easier to listen to after having put the narcissists in my life in their place and them I dumped them. Mom kids friends,. Zero tolerance for narcissic any abuse. Anger has gone away unless I reflect or watch bad behavior on youtube which I realized just this morning. All positive videos now, not bad behavior. My mood improved immediately.
This is happening now ...big time !! He needs to destroy my character and any memory of me needs to be twisted into a bad representation of the truth .... it's despicable
Whatever you do, don't waste your energy in trying to defend yourself. Let those who choose to side with him do just that. Continue being you and move on. It's not easy, but it can be done. I've been divorced from mine for almost 4 years. He's still running a smear campaign. I'm finally at the point in my healing where I laugh at it and keep moving forward.
Yes, they are horrible 😢
He states truth absolutely. "Unless you are offering complete blind submission" like in the begining, happy, wanting to love and be loved into a train wrecking mess completely defeated. They never wanted to "love and be loved" only someone to "use up" devalue and control, they wanted combat, I was only his opponent. No you cant love them enough, you can never be enough for them at anytime. Run save yourselves! Learn from people like this beautiful soul who already was crucified for us, it doesn't need to be painful but, they'll make it beyond agonizing. I'm spent from it and wouldn't dream of going into another relationship. I may be alone and lonely but, not being abused emotionally, verbally, nor threatened and stabbed yet again in the back. I found I don't hate myself. Tx for these gems, you're a jewel thx for your help.
I remember asking him, "why do you treat me like I'm your enemy?"
Yes - they steal aspects of you and absord those aspects while acting as if you never had them while leaving behind their horrible aspects in you - they evidence this by treating you as if you had the very aspects they formerly had - they are trading their aspects for those taken from you - trading places with you.
They are quite literally vampires
100% true and if I didn’t go thru this for myself I would never believe that someone can do this to another. It can literally make a sane person insane. N the fact that you can’t even ever get closure from these people is hurtful also. The only thing you can do is just walk away from them….
I dreamt of him for two years. In each dream, it was some scenario or other where he was humiliating me again. I thought I'd never get peace and one day he just vanished.
When emotional codependents start acting like narcissists because of paranoia LMAOOOO
Soo frikgn true..they need to feel true love
then when you move on to a new life with new hobbies they're in the bushes
They aren't fully human. So hard to fully accept
He pushed me away, trashed me, smeared me, the whole thing, then BEGGED me to come back. I was too submissive before we escaped but i was scared. I think he just wanted me back to hurt me.
That's the part i will never understand why try to hurt me when I wanted to love him😟
He did. I fell for it! Even as I was sitting on that table hearing him tell me how about a conversation he had with my cousin's husband.....where he was smearing me! When he discarded me and my fudged up self decided to meet up, he told me he had spoken to everyone, his mom, friends and they'd all asked him WHY he was with such a HORRIBLE person as me that didn't treat him well. Ha! He smeared me until the very end! I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Insane.
Narcissists are a black aura. I felt the devaluation stage from a N former office manager and N older sister. You know it when you are going through it. They don't care what they say to you.
This is exactly what my “overprotective” mom did to me. I was shocked at how little she really cared about my safety and well-being in the end. I only stayed “co-dependent” on her as long as I did, because I honestly thought that if anything bad happened to me, that she would care about me. In the end, she wants me dead. I’m so devastated that I can’t get out of the hole she left me in.
Place strong boundaries and find the freedom of autonomy. 🥰
Story of my life women using till a better option comes along then they jump ship.. It's sad. Because they end up contacting me like a year later like I'll just be like oh hey thanks for coming back
It’s cruel and evil. I’ve been extremely used up and am very trapped in my situation. I have severe chronic illness and a high special needs young son and can’t look after him on my own. its excruciatingly hard and I’m a huge empath loving and caring person. Unimaginable pain 💔😭
Did anyone else experience this? It seems like my covert narc sister sort of absorbed my positive qualities (sense of humour, strength, etc) and instilled her negative qualities into me (extreme anxiety, low self-esteem, co-dependence, lack of common sense). Like, it’s just bizarre to me how we’ve switched places. I’m now weak and she’s strong, but the difference is that when I was strong I supported her but now that I’m weak she’s discarded me. How do they do it? I can’t be the only one. Also, she basically copied the way I dress, do my hair, and all my hobbies.
I could never submit internally, so he trashed me to the point of making it obvious: “shut up, that is your opinion, and your opinion means f_ck-all’ Now I am trying to divorce him after 20 years of marriage. He progressed to a new level of deceit and nastiness. Pray for me please.
I had to watch this video a few times to let it sink in that, "They want to make [me] trash."
Submission/control that's their ideal relationship.
Narcs are INSANE./ P.s.When KARMA hits - it hits HARD
Hope so. Thanks for sharing. 😊🙏🪷
They want complete, blind submission, and that still won't stop them from devaluing you. What they want from you becomes another reason for them to abuse you. This happens slowly over time, and if you're accustomed to this due to past trauma, it can be difficult to notice until the fight or flight kicks in over a final straw.
I have been married to a narcissist for 20 years and trying to extract myself. He is doing everything he can to make me look and feel like I am helpless, stupid, and useless the money I have so I don’t leave. I’m terrified of what will happen when I finally file for divorce!
It's all about feeling powerful and superior. Everything else is just a means to that end.
I got love-bombed and pushed away. 9 months later, the narcissist attempted to reattach me. And again a few years later. I was lucky with the timings. Because in the gap there I had become susceptible. But I wasn't when the chips were down. Great timing it turns out.
I’ve detached from these narcissistic people and I’m in a very good mood good place and I’m very grateful for everything GOD does for me. Change your life around and you could be happy and blessed just like me ✨✨✨🙏🏼💜✝️✨✨✨🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙋🏻♀️👑💫 Thank You Lord For your Protection and Your Unconditional Love and Your Strength Lord Amen ✨🙏🏼✝️💜✨🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙋🏻♀️👑💫
Ohhhh shit you just helped me realize something. It was the word “idealization” THANK YOU.
this is good to hear.. I’m almost through the divorce process and she’s switched up tactics knowing that she can’t seduce me. I was beginning to believe that I am trash but that’s totally her projections. She’s manipulating my little daughter against me for the first time so she’s got me off stable ground mentally
It’s exactly what I am having now
Brilliant description. Short, to the point, and pretty much covers devaluation. When you realize this healing gets easier.
“Absorb me” 😳 Gross 🤢…but yup….thats EXACTLY what it felt like. They were trying to make me “disappear” on paper and I was slowly becoming more and more isolated and removed from not only society but from my own life even, and was being excluded from more and more of it the longer I stayed…was so bizarre and confusing why he was acting one way, but then bowing so much smoke up my ass at the same time about it all….my lawyer is STILL trying to uncover the truth about what he was ACTUALLY doing with the money and mortgages 🤯🤷🏻♀️🤯🤯🤯🤯 it’s beyond unbelievable and I can’t even wrap my brain around his fraud at this point…the more I learn the more unbelievable it is. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤯💆🏻♀️💆🏻♀️ I rub my temples to try to keep my brain from just imploding at this point…how BEYOND TWISTED THOSE HUMANS ARE 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤯🤯
Absolutely true.
Now the funny magic trick is that if you dont react as they want you to, if you ghost and ignore... you will watch them grow anxious and come chasing you like crazy, im dead serious and its happening as we speak lool
This is so true when my sons father left me he had been cheating for a couple of months and left me for another woman and he still blamed me for stuff so not even to this day have I gotten a sorry or he letting me be sad or angry at him- so instead I pushed all that aside and became a problem solver for my son and stuff… I continued for a decade to let that man control me due to me being the mother of our son. But he always made sure I knew I was a bad mother and a faulikure no matter what I did
My former boyfriend/ Narcissist is ( in his fantasy world) no longer a promiscuous person, he's taking the moral high ground. I'm no longer the " good girl" That's fine with me. I was never good enough so I'm done trying to be. He can keep the moral high ground. It's all his🙂
Good thing I noticed the narcissistic patterns, you know how I was with one for 20yrs so the last time I'm feeling so unbothered 😅, can't break me😅
That's one of the most logical things I heard about narcs in a while
100% correct scenario
They want to have the experience of PUSHING YOU AWAY wow powerful.
Yes, that's my sister!